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A Special welcome to two of our locations. Our Matthews location is celebrating a 16 year anniversary today. Praise the Lord. Our uptown location is celebrating 16, 17 years of ministry today. That's amazing. That's as old as my middle son, y'. All. I look at my son Graham sometimes and say, I have campuses older than you, boy. Yeah, it's good. Remember Officer Van Allman when we used to drive around, we would do Butler High School uptown, get back over to Providence. This is early days of the church because we didn't have all of this syncing up between all the campuses and look in the camera and welcome to campuses. We didn't have all of that. So if I had to get to the campus, I had to get there when they were finishing the last song. They knew to always have a few extra songs ready. But Josh is a police officer, so he was driving like 110 miles an hour. Happy birthday to Josh Van Allman, by the way. Those are some good memories, man. Me and you and that Nissan Maxima just doing ministry at the spot feet of God. I mean, just run in there huffing and puffing like I am right now after jumping around and spinning around. By the way, if any of you want to be preachers one day, I would not advise jumping and spinning before you preach. It is very disorienting. But I just got excited about what God can do. All of a sudden I got to thinking, what if God answered a prayer that some grandmother has been praying for her granddaughter? Suddenly today. What if God gave you clarity on something you've been confused about? Suddenly today. What if you were walking out today and one of the greeters was handsome and single? Suddenly today. So I'm excited about Jesus. I want to preach about Jesus today. From Matthew 14:22 35. First Bible story I ever preached. For our last sermon in the series. That's what I thought. Tell your neighbor that's what I thought. I say this is the last one. I think it's the last one. If the Lord wants me to keep going, I will. But my plan is today to take some of the things we've been preaching about and minister them to your heart. Welcome to all of our locations. Put it in the comment on YouTube. That's what I thought. This is our final installment. Yeah, this is the first Bible story I ever preached. So I always try to preach it at least once a year just to check in and see how dumb I was the last time I preached it or what new thing God will show me. Glad you're here today. Welcome. Welcome to the presence of God. Welcome to a new beginning. Welcome to a space where grace reigns supreme and where Jesus is Lord and King. Welcome to a place where you can hear His Word. Now the Bible says a word. We were just singing about this word in verse 22, so it's appropriate. Immediately. Immediately. Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side while he dismissed the crowd. After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone with the disciples. The boat was already a considerable distance from land, buffeted by the waves because the wind was against it. Shortly before dawn, Jesus went out to them, walking on the lake. When the disciples saw him on the lake, they were terrified. It's a ghost, they said, and cried out in fear. But Jesus immediately said to them, take courage, it is I. Don't be afraid, Lord. If it's you, Peter replied, tell me to come to you on the water. Come, he said. Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, it was blowing the whole time. But when he focused on it, what was against him? When he saw the wind, he was afraid. Fear comes from focus. So does faith. Change your focus, increase your faith. That's why you feel faith when you're in here, because you are faithful, focused in here. When he focused on what was against him rather than the one who was coming toward him, named Jesus, he began to sink and cried out, lord, save me. Here it is again. Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. You of little faith, he said, what? Why did you doubt? When they climbed into the boat, the wind died down and those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, truly, this is the Son of God. Go back to that other verse real quick. In verse 30. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and beginning to sink, cried out, lord, save me. Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. I want to talk to you today from this subject because this is how some of you have been feeling. I want to talk about sinking. This is the way it feels at times in our emotions and in our lives and in our circumstances. Sinking in the storm. There is a subtitle you can give your neighbor on the way to your seat. Look at them and say, just that quick. Hit your other neighbor and say, just that quick. You may be seated. Sinking in the Storm. Please put the title in the comments. On YouTube. Let's welcome our global efam joining up with us right now. Come on, y'. All. I know you're getting seated, but let's welcome our entire church family all over the world. Let us know where you're watching from. I want to talk to you today about sinking in the storm. The feeling that you get sometimes that you're overwhelmed. The feeling you get sometimes that there's too much month and not enough money, too much need and not enough me to meet it all that spread thin feeling. That feeling you get and it doesn't always announce itself. And all of a sudden there is a storm and you find yourself sinking in the storm. Isn't it crazy how you can be singing in the church and just a few days later find yourself sinking in the storm? This place is a place God has prepared for us, to prepare us for the storms of our life. You cannot be a student of Jesus without storms as your classroom. Anything else would make you arrogant. Anything else would make you write a parenting book. And your oldest kid is three. You're three months pregnant talking about how to raise teenagers God's way. What's wrong with you? Go through a storm and then you'll have something to say. In this season of your life, God is calling you to be a student of your storm. What does this have to do with thinking? Well, it's amazing to me how quickly I can go from stepping on the water, so to speak, to sinking. I can really shift quickly from being focused on God to falling down and finding myself in emotional states that do not resemble the fruit of the spirit. Okay, just me. Look at your neighbor. Say it can happen quick. It can happen real quick. If your neighbor is looking like they don't know what I'm talking about, cut them off in traffic on the way out and see how quick they go from lifting their hands to lifting one finger. It can happen just that quick, can it? Even your phone can buzz in your pocket. It might not even be the person you don't want to hear from with the news you don't want to hear. But just the buzz itself itself can disrupt your peace, can't it? Even the buzz in your pocket, it can feel like a shock collar just reminding you that your challenges are out there in the world. Sometimes it can happen just that quick. I'm so glad Jesus is a savior because I'm a sinner, so I need one. I have sinful thoughts. All of my thoughts aren't holy thoughts, good thoughts, pure thoughts. So I need Jesus for my sinful. Thoughts which can become sinful actions which can become sinful patterns which may not send me to hell, but may make my life on earth feel like a living hell. I'm so grateful that Jesus is a Savior. I am also so thankful that he is not a surface level Savior, that He doesn't just save me from hell when I die, but he saves me from the hell in my head as he transforms my mind and brings me through life's challenges. I need salvation in my soul. That's my mind, my will, my emotions. I need Jesus to teach me how to think. In this passage we just read, there's a conversation between the student of Jesus and Jesus the Savior. Jesus is watching him sink in the storm. By the way, have you been feeling like you're sinking in a storm lately in your life? It doesn't have to even be bankruptcy. It doesn't even have to be something so catastrophic that everybody would take up money for you if they knew about it. It doesn't have to be the worst thing that ever happened in your life. I just found that a lot of times I find myself in a funk or maybe even a full blown feeling of depression in those moments when God is watching me sink into those states. I'm grateful that he does not give me surface level answers like church people do. Church people will tell you, rejoice in the Lord always. But they aren't rejoicing in the Lord. They've only been rejoicing in the Lord because they had a good week. Catch them next week and they might have a different answer. It can happen that quick. Jesus watching Peter fall in the middle of a storm that had been raging all night. Remember, he's been going through this all night and he steps out and he's walking and he's sinking and he cries out, lord, save me. I think that's such an important phrase. One great theologian who just went to be with the Lord, Dr. John MacArthur, used to say a lot of refuse Jesus as Lord, but we want to use Jesus as Savior. I think it's important that he called him Lord before he called on him to save him. I'm trying to say God wants far more for your life than to just save you from stupid stuff you do. He wants far more for your life than to just clean up the messes you make because you never spend time with him. God wants far more for your life than to have to redeem years you waste because you never get aligned with Him. So now Peter calls out, lord, save me. And the Bible says, immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. Now we focus a lot, and I really preach this a lot at age 16, how Peter had the faith to step out. When Jesus said come, somebody shout, come. That's a command. When Jesus gives a command, you can obey it with confidence. When Jesus gives a command, you don't have to start doing the math on how it's going to work out. When Jesus gives a command, he already has the details in mind for how he will meet that need before you even know about the need. So when he says, come, take a step, then we talk so much about the command that we neglect the question that I think is just as powerful as the command. He said, come, Peter is coming. He said, walk, Peter is walking. He gave the word and Peter is walking. Not on water, but on one word from Jesus. I could preach a whole message about walking on one word, just one word God gives you and you can hang on through something you never would have made it through without that word. One word from Jesus, the command to come. But then comes the question. After he caught him, he said, you of little faith. Why did you doubt? If I can get beneath the surface of why you're sinking, I can maybe stop it from happening so quickly next time. A lot of times we sink into things and we don't stop and ask why. A lot of times we get triggered by something. And after you get triggered, you get trapped. You don't even realize how you got triggered until you're already trapped. I'll break it down for you. I can see we need a little real life example right now. When Holly and I first got married, we went on a cruise. I saved up for the cruise. It was a Princess cruise, which is a little step up from some of the other cruises you can buy. I was so proud of that cruise and so broke after I paid for it. Three days on the cruise, she was very quiet. One day. When she got quiet on that cruise, it triggered something inside of me that I didn't know because I equated quiet with board. So when she got quiet, I started to get angry because she was quiet. For Holly, quiet means relaxed. Quiet means nobody telling me to do anything. I don't have to talk. I love you. We're together. This is what she was saying. Your essence alone is so captivating, we don't even need a conversation. But I interpreted her quiet as boredom. We would fight for years in our marriage. Anytime she would get quiet, I would think, you don't like it here. This isn't good enough for you. Your dad took you on better vacations. What? You don't need my vacation? No, I'm relaxed. But see, just in such a stupid illustration like that, you see how years can go on. Because I'm reading her mind with information that is not true. Data. I am triggered by something that isn't even true. But by the time I recognize what I'm triggered by, I'm already trapped in it. And now we're fighting. Now, it's not that we never get triggered in our marriage, but here's what we do. I want to teach you how to do this. We catch it quicker, touch your neighbor, say, catch it quicker. Catch it quicker. Before you blow up on them, before you go off on them, before you hit send on the text, proofread it, hire yourself as a copy editor and check that thing one more time. Do you really want to say you never. Do you really want to say you always? Do you really need six exclamation points? Is it really worth that emoji? Is that emoji worth the emotional expense of what you are going to spend the next week cleaning up? All of that could have been canceled.