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TJ Raphael
In evangelical homes across the United States, sex outside marriage is a sin against God. So when Abby becomes pregnant at 16, her devout parents hide her away at the Liberty Godparent Home, a little known facility for pregnant teens on the campus of Liberty University. The home says it helps girls decide what comes next, but whether that's parenting their babies or placing them for adoption. But inside the facility, the girls hear a different message. God wants their babies to go to more deserving Christian couples. I'm your host TJ Raphael from Wondery. Liberty Lost is a startling true story of young love, coercion and defiance and the dangerous resurgence of maternity homes in post roe America. Some girls will find the strength to fight back. Others will have no choice but to give in. And some, like Abby, will turn their grief into resistance and take a stand against the system before more mothers lose their children to adoptions they never wanted. I'm about to play a clip from Liberty Lost. Follow Liberty Lost on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.
Nathan
Wondering Abby and Nathan are waiting for the signal. Any moment now, the ceremony will begin.
Abby
You feel this tension, this unknown of what ifs.
Nathan
Both of them are trembling, but they've made sure to look their best. 17 year old Abby spent the morning k carefully curling her long brown hair.
Abby
I wanted to look good and be a good old southern girl like I.
Nathan
Was raised to be a 19 year old. Nathan's in a crisp white button down.
TJ Raphael
With freshly cropped hair.
Abby's Mother
The only haircut I've ever paid for in my entire life I got before that.
Nathan
Through the door they can hear the crowd growing. Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, they're all here to see Abby and Nathan walk down the aisle. Finally it's time.
Abby
We walked out the doors and I was just like the grand reveal.
Nathan
Family and friends turn to get a better look.
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Abby and Nathan walk side by side.
Nathan
In his arms, Nathan holds their son who was born just 11 days ago.
Abby
And I'm walking down this aisle and I remember feeling like everyone in the room wants me to be excited for this.
Nathan
Abby and Nathan both come from evangelical families. Their baby was born outside of God's union. And now Abby's parents have told them it's time to come correct their mistake. At the end of the aisle, a petite blonde southern woman in her mid-30s and her dark haired husband are waiting for them. Or rather, they're waiting for Abby and Nathan's son. And that's because today's celebration is not a wedding.
Abby
I was being punished and being told I wasn't worthy of getting to be the one who had him be his mother.
Nathan
And this couple waiting for them at the end of the aisle. They've been chosen to be the baby's parents, whether Abby and Nathan like it or not.
Abby
And so I'm disgusted in my body. Every step I take forward. I'm just horrified by what's occurring.
Nathan
They reach the end of the aisle, and Nathan forces himself to gently place.
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His son in the couple's arms.
Abby's Mother
I remember being like, I want to burn this place down.
Abby
I just watched them holding him and felt empty inside.
Nathan
Everyone prays. Abby and Nathan and the couple pose for photos, the newborn baby between them. There's cake, gifts and speeches.
Abby's Mother
This is so wrong. This is, like, so dark. It's so evil. Like, this ceremony is like a fucking joke.
Nathan
This ceremony, this fucking joke. It's a celebration of something that was part of American life for decades back. In the 50s and 60s, young women who got pregnant out of wedlock were forced to leave their homes and then secretly place their babies for adoption. But the truth is, it's still happening all over America. And it's all part of a grand plan to reshape the country in God's image.
Christian Authority Figure
Because the true Christian home that produces successful children must be headed by a godly husband. One man for one woman for one lifetime. And no sex pen period outside of marriage.
Nathan
And to make sure the nation has the right kind of mothers.
Abby
They all saw how much I loved him. They didn't have to take him from me. They knew I didn't want them to.
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Release Date: June 23, 2025
Host: Chenjerai Kumanyika (Peabody Award-winning host)
In the episode titled "Liberty Lost," Chenjerai Kumanyika delves into the controversial resurgence of maternity homes in post-Roe America. This episode explores the harrowing experiences of young women like Abby and Nathan, who find themselves entangled in a system that enforces religious and societal norms regarding pregnancy outside of marriage. Kumanyika investigates the intersection of faith, coercion, and systemic control within evangelical communities, raising critical questions about the true purpose of such institutions.
The narrative centers around Abby, a 16-year-old girl from a devout evangelical home, who becomes pregnant. Her parents place her in the Liberty Godparent Home at Liberty University—a facility purportedly designed to help pregnant teens decide their next steps, whether that involves parenting or adoption.
At the heart of the episode is a deeply unsettling ceremony designed to strip Abby and Nathan of their parental rights. The ceremony is presented as a wedding but serves a sinister purpose:
During this event, Abby and Nathan are coerced into relinquishing their child to a pre-selected Christian couple, under the guise of aligning with religious values. The ceremony is laden with religious symbolism and societal pressure, masking the underlying intent of forced adoption.
Abby's internal struggle is palpable throughout the ceremony:
Her mother’s vehement opposition highlights the generational and ideological tensions at play:
These quotes underscore the emotional and psychological manipulation inflicted upon young mothers, forcing them into a narrative that dismisses their autonomy and desires.
Kumanyika provides a critical examination of how these modern-day practices echo the oppressive tactics of the 1950s and 1960s, where young women were similarly forced into secret adoptions to conform to societal norms:
The episode connects these practices to a broader agenda aimed at "reshaping the country in God's image," as articulated by authority figures within the evangelical community:
This rhetoric reinforces rigid gender roles and family structures, justifying the invasive control over young women's reproductive choices.
"Liberty Lost" not only sheds light on the systemic issues but also humanizes the impact through personal stories:
Her story highlights the emotional devastation and the fight for personal agency against institutionalized control.
Chenjerai Kumanyika closes the episode by urging listeners to recognize the disturbing persistence of these coercive practices. By exposing the hidden history and current resurgence of maternity homes like the Liberty Godparent Home, "Liberty Lost" serves as a compelling call to action to protect the rights and autonomy of young mothers.
Listeners are encouraged to delve deeper into the issue, fostering a broader conversation about the role of religion, governance, and individual freedoms in shaping contemporary societal norms.
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