Every Outfit – Episode 254: "On Sex and the City: The Movie"

Original Release: January 2, 2026
Hosts: Chelsea Fairless & Lauren Garroni
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EPISODE OVERVIEW

Theme:
Chelsea and Lauren, the pop-culture and fashion-obsessed duo behind Every Outfit, unpack their ultra-specific, unapologetic (and hilarious) takes on the first Sex and the City movie. They cover fashion, character arcs, behind-the-scenes tea, and the movie's cultural legacy with both affection and biting critique. This spoiler-filled deep dive moves through the three acts of the film, dissecting everything from iconic costumes to odd tonal shifts, conflicting feelings, and the way And Just Like That reframes the movie today.

SECTION-BY-SECTION SUMMARY

1. Formative Experiences with 'SATC: The Movie'

(02:04–03:33)

• Both hosts recall not seeing the film together, despite being friends at the time:
  • Chelsea: Saw it opening day in Atlanta, audience was all dressed up “most flamboyant, most Carrie outfits.” (02:15)
  • Lauren: Saw it as a fashion writer in NYC, didn't notice the outfits but "no way people were not dressed up.” (02:36)
• Initial reactions:
  • Lauren: “My initial relationship with Sex and the City one is very uncomplicated. Loved it. No notes.” (02:36)
  • Chelsea: Mixed feelings, “wasn’t as coherent as the series... but I’ve seen this movie like dozens of times." (03:09)
• They clarify: If they’re harsh on it, it's because of deep familiarity, not lack of love.

2. Three-Part Structure of the Movie

(04:24–05:58)

• The movie is described as three distinct films:
  • Part 1: From intro to the wedding (50 minutes)
  • Part 2: Mexico "Mexicoma" section (wedding aftermath, Carrie's meltdown)
  • Part 3: Post-Mexico, the prolonged third act—Carrie’s depression, friend storylines, reconciliation
• The hosts joke about talking for longer than the movie’s 2.5 hour runtime.

3. How the Movie Came to Be (SATC History & Tea)

(07:05–08:07)

• Brief history:
  • The movie was initially planned right after the series, but Kim Cattrall reportedly declined, so project collapsed (07:05)
  • In 2007, Cattrall signed on after studio promised to produce her pet TV projects.
  • “She was second in the credits under Sarah Jessica Parker, which… is not an accident.” (07:50–08:01)
• The hosts see the seeds of later SATC content, especially And Just Like That, in how the original film was conceived:
  • “So much of how we ended up with And Just Like That... its roots are in this.” (08:01)

4. Opening Sequence & Fashion Commentary

(08:07–14:45)

• Fergie’s “Labels or Love” plays over the opening montage; hosts playfully admit it’s their pre-show hype music (08:22)
• The opening sequence is jam-packed with:
  • Recaps for new viewers
  • “Who is the casual viewer, other than boyfriends dragged on date night?” (08:58)
  • The “labels and love” motif:
    • Lauren: “Can you have it all? Can you have labels and love?” (09:43)
    • Chelsea: “I think Fergie’s whole thesis is that like a Louis Vuitton bag has never broken my heart.” (09:54)
  • Fashion deep dives:
    • Carrie's “insane 80s dress with a massive flower”—direct copy of a Whitney Houston-worn Eugene Alexander gown (10:04)
    • Carrie’s meme-famous Nina Ricci ostrich sweater—only in montage for four seconds (11:28)
• Hosts note show's self-reference:
  • “Carrie uses everyone’s full names in her column—confirmed!” (13:31)
• Chemistry and real character backstories
  • Samantha’s character quickly summed up by “funky tasting spunk scene.” (14:45)
• Increasingly fabulous outfits; big belts for all (“big belts were not on the show as much!” 15:50–16:01)

5. Plot & Character Analysis: Relationships and Real Estate

(15:18–18:26)

• Carrie and Big’s cohabitation: After four years, they still don’t officially live together.
• Fashion note: “Carrie in this scene ... one of the most iconic outfits ... launches the movie’s big belt obsession.” (15:39)
• Real estate scenes:
  • The soundstage apartment, Carrie’s “Barbra Streisand” humor (17:42)
  • The closet: Big says, “I can build you a better closet.”—Chelsea: “It makes me so horny if I’m being honest with myself.” (18:36–18:53)
  • “Can we afford this?” “I got it.”—Chelsea: “Incredible.” (19:04)

6. Wedding Planning & The Friend Group

(19:45–23:21)

• Miranda worries Carrie will give up her apartment:
  • “Miranda is giving her sound advice. If she’s not married, Mr. Big … she should keep her own apartment.” (19:45)
• Samantha's entrance in yellow vintage Mugler (“so Samantha”), move to Malibu, and increasingly amped-up fashion as the film escalates from TV to big screen (20:01–20:26)
• The “Blair Elkin auction” scene, based on Ellen Barkin’s real jewelry auction:
  • Hosts discuss the woman’s fate (being cast out after 10 years) as the worst case scenario for Carrie.
  • Trivia: Samantha’s bidding paddle number originally supposed to be 69, but Sotheby’s objected (22:05)
• Lauren: “Isn’t it crazy, Chelsea, that this unseen woman’s story is the worst case scenario for Carrie?" (22:40)
• Quick theater/Broadway aside: Daphne Rubin-Vega cameo.

7. Carrie Spirals After the Auction

(24:34–26:09)

• Carrie panics over having no legal claim to the apartment; Big’s solution: “Let’s just get married.”
• Legal humor: “If she was on the deed … or they created a living trust … there are other ways.” (25:12)
• Lauren: “In my version, credits just roll after this scene.” (26:04)
• The “proposal” is mutual decision, not traditional:
  • Charlotte’s iconic scream at the lunch announcement: “A scream that I echo. Miranda, I am now deaf.” (26:23–26:35)

8. Fashion & “It’s Not That Funny” – Tone Reconsidered

(29:42–33:21)

• Carrie’s “no label dress” (actually Dior). Hosts praise Patricia Field’s decision-making and subtweet their disappointment at her friends’ reactions.
• Real-world and show-world fame: is Carrie a Page Six regular? Hosts debate.
• The Vogue photo shoot with Enid (Candice Bergen!):
  • Lauren: “This is the best thing I’ve ever seen.” (30:36)
  • Chelsea: “Of all the things to cut, this is the best part.” (31:59)
  • Real cameos: Demarchelier, Andre Leon Talley, Plum Sykes, Gucci Westman, etc.

9. Wedding Gown Debate / Iconic Looks

(35:24–36:41)

• Hosts gush over the montage of wedding looks:
  • Both pick the Lacroix as their “fan cast” for Carrie’s dress.
  • Quick Vivienne Westwood product placement commentary.

10. Relationships on the Rocks: Steve & Miranda

(38:28–42:15)

• Miranda and Steve’s marital downturn is dissected:
  • The infamous “Winnie the Poohing” sex scene.
  • Lauren: “Nothing good comes of that.” (39:59)
  • Miranda’s brusque rejection of Steve: “Let’s just get it over with. Woof.” (40:00–40:07)
• Diner scene with hilarious euphemisms (“coloring” for sex), awkward dinner frequency shares:
  • “Carrie will not reveal how often her and Big have sex. But what Carrie will disclose is that when Big colors, he rarely stays within the lines.” (41:12)
• Samantha’s present from Smith Jarrett: diamond ring in a dick-shaped box.

11. The Closet Reveal & Product Placement

(42:30–44:04)

• The “Big builds Carrie a closet” scene:
  • Chelsea: “When you saw this in the theater, did people gasp at the closet reveal? Because I remember people, like, screaming.” (43:23)
  • Cynthia Nixon’s public discomfort with the scene’s glamorization of consumption is noted.
• Closet cleaning montage—mostly outfits we’ve never seen (and a discussion of director’s cut differences).

12. Marriage Meltdown: Steve Cheats, Miranda Explodes

(46:52–48:19)

• Steve tearfully confesses, Miranda moves out (cut/deleted scenes described in script).
• Chelsea: “This is the first thing for me in the movie where the behavior really deviates… Miranda’s whole thing is she’s pragmatic. … is it really worth moving out, ending your marriage…?” (47:47)

13. The Wedding Implodes

(49:00–58:07)

• Wedding expands from 75 to 200—Big’s anxiety rises; rehearsal dinner.
• Standout moment: Samantha’s toast, “Here’s to a man who finally got carried away.” (50:32)
• Miranda, devastated, tells Big, “Marriage ruins everything.”
  • Chelsea: “If your relationship is so unstable that you can’t withstand a single comment like that from Miranda, like your relationship is fucked to begin with.” (53:04)
• Wedding day chaos; Miranda’s “not fine” energy, Big’s emotional instability.
• The infamous jilting at the altar.
  • “Big leaves her at the altar. I mean, I guess not technically at the altar.” (57:01)
• Commentary on spoilers—scene was “all but confirmed” by paparazzi photos.

14. Mexicoma: Depressed Vacay and Comic Relief

(62:28–69:45)

• The “Honeymoon” becomes a girls’ trip, and Carrie is “on suicide watch under one of those, like, Hermes throw blankets.” (61:31–61:37)
• Fashion in Mexico: “They’re in the most insane outfits when they arrive at the resort… Miranda especially looks insane. She has a wicker bag shaped like a fish…” (62:39)
• Depression montage / pudding subplot (“Charlotte is only eating pudding…?” 63:45)
• Escalating humor: “Charlotte shits her pants,” finally breaking Carrie’s spell of misery:
  • “Miranda says, yes, when something is truly funny, like your friend shitting themselves.” (69:10)
• Legendary meme: haunted Carrie in the mirror.

15. Back to NY & the (Surreal?) Louise Subplot

(70:10–73:19)

• Carrie’s decision to hire “Louise from St. Louis” (Jennifer Hudson), reflections on the assistant’s “magical Negro” trope.
• Discussion on whether Louise is even real in the context of Carrie’s deteriorating mental health:
  • “Was Louise even a real character or was she just a figment of Carrie’s imagination?” (73:34)
• Bag Borrow or Steal reference—a time capsule for late-2000s luxury consumption.

16. The Endless Third Act: Friend Drama, Reconnections, Closure

(74:51–107:17, highlights summarized)

• Miranda’s new Chinatown apartment and a script-draft backstory for Magda.
• Charlotte’s pregnancy storyline ("fuck this kid" joke referencing And Just Like That’s retcon), contrasted with need to keep at least one character happy.
• Samantha’s “side quest” in Malibu—sexual frustration embodied by Dante the neighbor (“He’s fucking a different girl every night”).
• Carrie’s spiral continues: brunette phase, “emotional cutter” tendencies, seeing her “Last Single Girl” Vogue issue (less kind editor’s note).
• Valentine's Day: Carrie and Miranda’s friendship is truly tested over secrets and resentment.
  • Immediately preceding Miranda’s reunion with Steve on the Brooklyn Bridge—a highly emotional moment undercut by the show's later retcons (101:09–102:51)
  • Lauren: “You want them to get together … then it feels like a betrayal ten years later when Daddy MPK is like, well, Miranda never really loved him.” (101:49)

17. Samantha’s Breakup & Self-Love Declaration

(105:23–106:45)

• Samantha dumps Smith (who helps by arriving in a fedora):
  • “I’m gonna say the thing you’re not supposed to say. I love you, but I love me more.” (105:28)
  • Chelsea: “Yeah, no, it's great.” (105:43)

18. Climax & End: Letters, Shoes, and All That Jazz

(108:03–115:16)

• Charlotte has her baby with Big’s help (a "fun reversal" of Natasha’s hospital scene).
• Carrie discovers Big’s flood of copied love letters in her unopened emails.
• Final reconciliation: Big and Carrie reunite, get married at City Hall (“finally a rom com!”), and have a classic girl-group lunch.
• Samantha’s 50th in the Meatpacking District; cosmopolitans return:
  • “They're drinking their cosmos. They're like, ‘These are delicious. Why did we stop drinking them? Because everyone else started.’ See, that is perfect.” (114:11)
• Carrie’s final “label” message: “...dressed head to toe in love. And that's one label that never goes out of style.” (115:01)

NOTABLE QUOTES & MEMORABLE MOMENTS

• On why they're so obsessed:
  “If we are kicking the shit out of this movie in this discussion, it is only because we've seen it a million times.” (03:33, Lauren)
• On the film’s tone:
  “It is a fashion focused dramedy is how I would describe the tone of this movie.” (04:19, Lauren)
• On Big’s closet promise:
  “It makes me so horny, if I'm being honest with myself.” (18:53, Chelsea)
• On “Louise from St. Louis”:
  “Was Louise even a real character or was she just a figment of Carrie’s imagination?” (73:34, Chelsea)
• On the closet reveal:
  “When you saw this in the theater, did people gasp at the closet reveal? Because I remember people, like, screaming.” (43:23, Chelsea)
• On why Big and Carrie can’t be happy:
  “Daddy MPK does not know what to do with Big and Carrie if they are together and happy.” (59:49, Lauren)
• On Samantha’s self-love:
  “I love you, but I love me more.” (105:28, Samantha’s line quoted approvingly)
• On the movie’s ending:
  “They’re drinking their cosmos. They’re like, ‘These are delicious. Why did we stop drinking them? Because everyone else started.’ See, that is perfect. It’s the perfect little wink to the audience about how influential Sex and the City was. It’s perfect.” (114:11, Chelsea)
• Final verdict:
  “The film ends answering Daddy MPK’s philosophical question from the beginning, which is, can girls have it all? ... And surprisingly, Chelsea, do you know what the best label of all is? ... It’s love.” (115:00, Lauren)

TIMESTAMPED KEY SEGMENTS

• 02:15–03:33 – Hosts’ first, separate memories of seeing the film
• 05:22–05:58 – The “three films in one” structure
• 10:04–11:39 – Iconic opening outfits and fashion history
• 18:36–19:04 – “I can build you a better closet.” / “I got it.”
• 26:23–26:35 – Charlotte’s scream at Big and Carrie’s engagement
• 29:42–31:59 – Vogue subplot, Enid’s best lines
• 35:24–36:41 – Favorite wedding dresses debate
• 43:23 – Theater reaction to the closet reveal
• 50:32 – Samantha’s “got carried away” rehearsal toast
• 61:31–62:12 – Carrie “on suicide watch” in Mexico
• 69:10 – “When your friend shits themselves” as the crucial comedic release
• 73:34 – Is Louise real? The “imaginary friend” theory
• 105:28 – “I love you, but I love me more.”
• 114:11 – Cosmopolitans and the show’s defining influence
• 115:01 – “Dressed head to toe in love. ... One label that never goes out of style.”

FINAL REFLECTIONS

• The hosts conclude that the movie is a fascinating but flawed product of the late-2000s, with spectacular fashion, memorable one-liners, and odd, sometimes jarring emotional turns.
• They're affectionate, yet critical, particularly in the context of And Just Like That—“the dramedy vibe, with no escape in sight.” (116:26–116:32)
• The episode itself is a love letter to the ethos of Sex and the City: friendship, shopping, heartbreak, recovery, and the best label of all—love.

Recommended for:
Superfans, fashion buffs, and anyone who wants analytic, bracingly honest, and laugh-out-loud funny discussion of SATC: The Movie. The most complete and affectionate breakdown you’ll find—less “labels or love,” more “labels AND love.”