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Kyle MacLachlan
It's morning in new york. Hey everybody, I'm Andy Patinkin.
David Duchovny
And I'm Kathryn Grody. And we have a new podcast.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's called don't listen to us. Many of you have asked for our advice. Tell me what is wrong with you people.
David Duchovny
Don't listen to us.
Kyle MacLachlan
Our take it or leave it advice show is out every Wednesday, premiering October 15th. A Lemonada Media original foreign.
David Duchovny
Hey, just a quick message before we get started. You can now listen to every episode of Fail Better ad free with Lemonada Premium on Apple Podcasts. You'll also get ad free access to and exclusive bonus content from shows like Wiser Than Me with Julia Louis Dreyfus, the Sarah Silverman podcast and so many more. It's just $5.99 a month and a great way to support the work we do. Go ad free and get bonus content when you hit subscribe on this show in Apple Podcasts. Make life suck less with fewer ads with Lemonada Premium. I'm David Duchovny and this is Fail Better, a show where failure, not success, shapes who we are. Kyle MacLachlan is an actor I first connected with on the set of Twin Peaks Lo many years ago he was the star and he's continued to prove he's a star with all the diverse successful work he's done in his career. Think Desperate Housewives and the Pixar movie Inside Out. Kyle is a really standup guy. One I remember being super kind to a new actor like me on set and I get a chance to tell him that today to thank him along with a bunch of other things that we get to. Here's that conversation. We were talking about schools for our kids. And what you said that was interesting to me is that your son actually motivated the move from. From New York to L. A Which is. Which is really cool when you think about it. When a kid like takes control like that and wants. And. And then of course you said it was because he had fond memories of not having to go to school in la. But. But I read some about your Europe brain. Can you imagine your parents listening to you in that?
Kyle MacLachlan
I mean, no, honestly. But then I wasn't a really smart kid. I was like, they were probably right not to listen to us because we had such wacky, crazy ideas. There was no, you know, there was just a. Our trajectory, a small town, eastern Washington.
David Duchovny
Well, also, you probably didn't have a sense that there was another way to go about doing it. You didn't have the sense of, oh, I Guess I could probably ask my parents if I could move to Los Angeles or Chicago or New York.
Kyle MacLachlan
I didn't know what an LA was. I was like, Seattle to us was the big city from where I'm from. So when it came time for me to go to college at the University of Washington, and that was also just following a trajectory, both my parents had gone there. They were both from small towns in Washington.
David Duchovny
Your dad, what was his work?
Kyle MacLachlan
He was at school. He was actually. He studied to be a lawyer. Practiced law in Yakima for a couple years. Hated it. He's in the prosecutor's office. And then he followed his passion, which was business, and he became a broker and money manager and. Yeah, and his father was very. Was not happy with him. You know, there was a, you know, a couple years there where things were pretty tense.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
But ultimately my dad had success, which I think at the end of the day, can bring parents around. That certainly happened with me in acting, the success. And when I say success, I mean, I wasn't asking him for money.
David Duchovny
No, I understand. But, but, but that is. That is one of the. The kind of parameters that we talk about on the podcast here is because my sense is that, you know, when we. When we're children, that's when the bars are set. You know, what is a successful life? What is an unsuccessful life? What is success and what is failure?
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
In many ways, our parents give us the game in that way. It's like you go, you know, go through school and do this. And I was just wondering, you know, at some point, you know, I read your beautiful article about David, you know.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Which is really. Yeah, Yeah. I love one of those.
Kyle MacLachlan
In honor of our.
David Duchovny
Where'd you get that?
Kyle MacLachlan
It was a gift. Yeah, actually. Yeah.
David Duchovny
From David.
Kyle MacLachlan
Not from David.
David Duchovny
Perfect.
Kyle MacLachlan
He had a bunch of them. No, no, it was something. And I thought I would. I had it and I said, oh, yeah, probably never gonna. You know, where. We're not gonna wear this.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
I said, well, this is the perfect opportunity.
David Duchovny
Yeah. I don't go around wearing the flying saucer shirt. You know, it's not like that. So. But was there. What. What was the kind of the bars set for you as a child that your initial sense of, oh, this is the game I'm going to go play, and this is the parameters of success and failure. And were you terrified to be a failure in your father's eyes? Were you?
Kyle MacLachlan
Not really. I think him having that experience, which I mentioned earlier, about, you know, having to go to school under pressure from his father to be a lawyer. That expectation. My dad was not a great student, but he passed the bar. And then practicing and realizing it, this really was not what he wanted to do. He took. He learned that lesson and said, you know, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna force my kids to do something that they're not passionate about. He may. He tried to get me a little bit into the business world. You know, I took an econ course, which was a disaster for me, too. Couldn't make sense of it. Numbers, the concepts and numbers. I was just like, it's just not micro or macro. Macro. I don't even know the difference.
David Duchovny
Yeah, I don't either.
Kyle MacLachlan
It was a 1 0. It was a introductory class.
David Duchovny
Yes. Econ 100, 101. Yeah. The big.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Texas.
Kyle MacLachlan
There was a Psych 101, Econ 101. I did. I did History 101. Ancient history, which also wasn't helpful, but it was an interesting class. But he. He really. He kind of let us drive the ship.
David Duchovny
So. So when did. When did you start to think. When it. When did the idea of being an actor come across your radar? At what age?
Kyle MacLachlan
My mom forced me. My mom, my. She's been gone since 86. And I. I. I wish. I wish I'd been a little more savvy and been able to talk to her, because she was always the one kind of nudging me towards, you know, why don't you take some voice classes?
David Duchovny
Really?
Kyle MacLachlan
Lessons? Yeah.
David Duchovny
Where did that come from? And her think it.
Kyle MacLachlan
Because she really enjoyed it. She liked to be on stage.
David Duchovny
She had done, like, local.
Kyle MacLachlan
She had done, like, local theater in Seattle.
David Duchovny
Seattle.
Kyle MacLachlan
In. Well, no, actually in Yakima. So really local. Like, when I say community theater, I mean, like, small. Community. Yeah, small community theater. So she was the influence, and I think partly because I think she. She loved it, but I think she could tell something about me was sort of going that direction. I like to think now I've, you know, only come to this realization in the past couple years. My dad was like, you know, whatever you want to do. He was a jock in. In college. And so she was the one who really said or started to nudge me through this. And she got involved in some of the. The teen programs, the teenage theater programs. And she would have me come down, and I was like, oh, God, didn't want it. Didn't want to do it. I got there, I was like, wow, there's a lot of kids my age, like, lot of girls from other schools that were There, hanging out for a couple of hours.
David Duchovny
That old story.
Kyle MacLachlan
That old story.
David Duchovny
It's pretty.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, it's. I'm a statistic, what can I say? And, and that sort of led to an interest and, and I also recognize in high school maybe you had the same experiences. Like, you know, I'm not bad at this. I'm actually better at this than I think anything else.
David Duchovny
I didn't start until I was about 25 or 26, so I didn't have that.
Kyle MacLachlan
There's an old timer then.
David Duchovny
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm just, I'm just understanding it.
Kyle MacLachlan
You're just start.
David Duchovny
Just. I'm just coming out of my rookie season. For me it was a rediscovery of sports, actually. It was rediscovery of that collaboration, that kind of team effort that I'd really missed. For me it was just this connection to other people rather than. At that point I was a graduate student in English literature. I was just sitting on my ass all day reading. Alone, alone, alone, Alone.
Kyle MacLachlan
No fun.
David Duchovny
And so. No. No fun. You know, and, and, and fun is undervalued, I think.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
The way I was raised was, you know, everything was kind of utilitarian. Like, what's the use of this thing? Is this going to help you? I don't. Because my parents were both slightly artists in a way, but I mean that just in the sense of. There was a fear of, you know, you could slip through the cracks here. You could have no vocation, you could have no job. You've got to make some money.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
So it was.
Kyle MacLachlan
You felt that pressure or that.
David Duchovny
Oh, yeah, expectation. Maybe you did as well. Like, where am I going to fit in? You know, like, who are my people?
Kyle MacLachlan
Think about that. I was just. I know I followed it to college. I just happened to go to the University of Washington, which had at that time a really good training program, three year repertory training program for actors. And I literally. I was there kind of. Yeah. Not knowing what I was going to do. Dropped out of school actually for a quarter because I just didn't know I failed.
David Duchovny
Did you have a sense that this was a possibility to have a life as a working.
Kyle MacLachlan
I knew that I liked it. And I did a summer stock experience when I was a kid that had Equity actors. It was on the west, on east coast.
David Duchovny
Sorry.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I said, oh, there's actors here, they come from New York, they're getting paid. This is what they do. But I don't even think I thought it through that much. It was just like, I love this. So I just said, I want to do this. And I got accepted into that program. Which then puts you on a track, pretty much. And the whole idea was, you know, you're going to work repertory theater, you're gonna live in New York, you're gonna audition, you're gonna work at so Houston. Yeah, yeah. That was going to be it.
David Duchovny
You leave school or you finish school, or you.
Kyle MacLachlan
I was going in the training program, and I left a little early to go work at the Shakespeare Festival in Ashland. That was my first paying gig. Made $550 a month.
David Duchovny
Stop bragging.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I saved money.
David Duchovny
I still have that same 550 I still have.
Kyle MacLachlan
I still have the pace list somewhere. Because I'm a pack rat, right?
David Duchovny
So that.
Kyle MacLachlan
And that was. That was the start of it. And then Dune happened eight months after I was out of college.
David Duchovny
That's amazing.
Kyle MacLachlan
Oh, it's. It's ridiculous.
David Duchovny
It is ridiculous because it doesn't happen.
Kyle MacLachlan
It doesn't happen. At the time, I was like, oh, yeah. So I do this. And then I was in Seattle, I got a call, I said, I'm going to go audition. And I auditioned. You know, I had this mindset, probably because I was fresh from school. You audition, you work hard, the next step is. But it was all about the process and nothing about, what does this mean? What could this mean? Ultimately, when did.
David Duchovny
When did you make a shift in your head from being a stage actor to auditioning for Dune and thinking, I'm gonna be a movie actor.
Kyle MacLachlan
It was all new because we had no camera.
David Duchovny
You had no idea there was a difference?
Kyle MacLachlan
No. And I had never been in front of a camera.
David Duchovny
Never.
Kyle MacLachlan
And we didn't have training for camera back in. So it was 70, 80 to 82, and I graduated in 82. So I just treated it like, you know, I'm working on a script. And this is what you do when you stand on stage in the dark, Someone's way out there listening to you audition, and you have no idea whether they like you or they don't.
David Duchovny
So did you audition live for David, or was it all done on tape?
Kyle MacLachlan
Done on tape. The casting agent, he hired you off a tape?
David Duchovny
He.
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, he brought me down. They brought me. They flew me to la, which was another new, new experience.
David Duchovny
How did you feel?
Kyle MacLachlan
I didn't know what. I was just like, this is crazy. Yeah. But, okay. I had a kind of a weird. Like, just a drive forward. It wasn't. I wasn't kind of taking everything in. I was just like, okay, I'm gonna go down and do this. I stayed at the Beverly Garland Holiday Inn. I've been back since.
David Duchovny
Yeah, you have the stub.
Kyle MacLachlan
I have the stub there for as well.
David Duchovny
You're 22 at this point, right?
Kyle MacLachlan
22. 20. 22. Turning. Yeah. Turn 23 when I'm working and I just go. And I meet David. And of course, you know David, what a wonderful man. He was so approachable and easygoing.
David Duchovny
How was that? Can you remember that first meeting? And did you have a sense that you guys had forged some kind of connection?
Kyle MacLachlan
I did, and I didn't. I was so. Again, just kind of focused and intent. I couldn't really relax into the meeting, but he was relaxed. And we talked about the. He grew up. You know, he was born in Missoula. He grew up in the Northwest. We talked about all the things that we shared because the whole Northwest is similar, particularly on the east side of the. Of the Cascades. And we talked about that. We talked about red wine, a little bit story. Oh, yeah. We already just kind of just cover in territory, you know, and then. And he said, great. And that's what he said. Come back in five or six days and we'll screen test. And then. Then I. Then it got serious. But then again, the same thing as the script.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
I mean, granted, he was a.
David Duchovny
Was he in the screenplay? Was he in the room for that?
Kyle MacLachlan
When I did. When I screen tested, yeah. Oh, yeah. They did a whole. It was a big thing at Dykstra's old studio, Apogee. John Dykstra. And so we did it there. And I actually did it. Just did a keynote in my hometown. And I included that moment because I was in. On the. Doing the screen test, and I was looking right into the lens of the camera, which, you know, we never do. And I froze. And I thought I just completely screwed up this audition.
David Duchovny
And I went up.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, yeah. I didn't. And it was not a very difficult passage, but I just lost everything. And David came over to me and just sort of talked me down and then said, no worries, bud. You know? Yeah, let's just film. We'll go again. And I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, okay.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I kind of gathered my wits and went forward and worked out, got the job.
David Duchovny
Was that when. When he talked to you, Is that the kind of direction that. That. That he would give you? Was it more. As you. As you got more into a working relationship? Is it usually obtuse like that? You know, not kind of directed right at the material, but, like the relaxation or the taking Your mind off of something and.
Kyle MacLachlan
No, no, it was more. More mythic, kind of. He would direct with qualities or images. Elvis was a direction. More Elvis. Yeah.
David Duchovny
I've got to try that.
Kyle MacLachlan
You got to try that. And I would. And so I was like, I. I didn't ask him or I'd say. You mean there's no. There's no parsing it. Don't. Because the minute you talk about it now, you're starting to take away the magic. Yeah, yeah. And that was. I learned that with working with David.
David Duchovny
Well, it's a short circuit of your logical mind. In a way.
Kyle MacLachlan
It is.
David Duchovny
It's like it's trying to speak to some side of your brain that's not. Not the one that's going to dial it incorrectly, but the one that's.
Kyle MacLachlan
You mean, like, to be, like, evil?
David Duchovny
No. Yes.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's a vibe, you know, so I picked up on that pretty quickly. And then he liked that. And he said, more. Sometimes more wind. He would say, this is a mysterious kind of component. And, you know, and I. And you see in his films, wind coming up, moving stoplights around trees and things. Exactly. As a. You know, moves you in a certain way, makes you feel a certain thing.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
And this is the way he would describe to me the energy in the scene or the vibe of the scene.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
So I would just take that in. He.
David Duchovny
He.
Kyle MacLachlan
I'm trying to remember, when you came on.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
Twin Peaks, was he directing the episodes that you were.
David Duchovny
No, no. But he did direct in the reboot. In fact, I did a scene with him. Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes. That he directed as Gordon Cole.
David Duchovny
Yeah. So I was. That was. It was always one of my regrets that I didn't get to work with him.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
In fact, I went to the wrap party for you guys, and he said, oh, I'm happy I didn't get. I didn't have to work with you. You were your scene stealer. He said that I was like, no, no, no. I'm a team player.
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, I think you are. You are. Do this. I mean, I feel like you as an actor, you're. You have a. A real sense of mystery. So you are very compelling. So you do the. Do less. In the old phrase, less is more. You are definitely.
David Duchovny
I'm a less Elvis.
Kyle MacLachlan
Less Elvis, but as. Equally as engaging and as compelling, and people want to watch you.
David Duchovny
Well, thank you. When I went back to do the reboot, you know, my. My. My opinion of David, I think, is very similar to yours, which is. He's sui generis, is the Latin phrase. He's of himself completely. I can't tell his influences. I can't imagine anybody being influenced by him. You either take him whole or you don't. You can't chew him up. He's just so.
Kyle MacLachlan
I agree with you.
David Duchovny
I recognize that early on, I think when I saw his work, and I wanted very badly for him, you know, to like me. When I came back, you know, 2015.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. You know, and already been 10 years.
David Duchovny
Yeah. And.
Kyle MacLachlan
Okay.
David Duchovny
I remember I was doing the makeup and the hair for Denise, and I wasn't pleased with the way I had aged. You know, it had been. How many.
Kyle MacLachlan
I'm right there with you.
David Duchovny
How many years was it? So this is from 88. Was it 88,990?
Kyle MacLachlan
89. 90 was the air date.
David Duchovny
It was 25 years.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. Yeah.
David Duchovny
So I was looking at myself in the mirror, and I was like, you know what? I. I gotta find another way in.
Kyle MacLachlan
Because this ain't working.
David Duchovny
Yeah, it wasn't working for me. And so I said to David when I got out on set and I was shooting this other show called Aquarius, so we were like, I. Shooting, like a Saturday night, like, downtown. Just Saturday night.
Kyle MacLachlan
Okay.
David Duchovny
And I said, david, can I. Do you mind if I. If I. If I perch on the front of the desk and we have the scene like that? Because my legs were still good and I wanted to use my legs.
Kyle MacLachlan
You do have great legs.
David Duchovny
And David said that would make me very uncomfortable. And I was like, oh, he doesn't like me.
Kyle MacLachlan
Interesting. No, no, no, no.
David Duchovny
I know, but I love his sort.
Kyle MacLachlan
Of, like, his response was.
David Duchovny
Or they'll make his character very uncomfor. Uncomfortable.
Kyle MacLachlan
Comfortable. Yeah, Gordon.
David Duchovny
Yeah, Gordon.
Kyle MacLachlan
Which could be a great thing.
David Duchovny
Yeah. Well, so we didn't do it that way, But. But that's my. So. And also, I want to say, while we're on the subject, because I did. I did want to talk about Twin Peaks a little.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
I got the part and I showed up on set. And you personally were so kind. And this is something that I took, you know, later into my career when. When, you know, it's your set, like, you're the. You're the lead guy. You set the tone. And you were so kind and supportive and welcoming, and, you know, it was really a. A prime example of how to be that guy on set.
Kyle MacLachlan
Oh, thank you.
David Duchovny
And it doesn't. It's not a given. I mean, you've been on other sets where it's not a given at all.
Kyle MacLachlan
Agree.
David Duchovny
And it's It's a shitty feeling when you're on that other kind of set.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
And for me, as like a 27, 28 year old guy just starting to work, also doing a part that's a little out there, you know, and it was bold.
Kyle MacLachlan
You were bold to take it at that time.
David Duchovny
Well, bold. I needed a pot to piss in.
Kyle MacLachlan
You know, it's like, you know, that's, that's the part that they don't.
David Duchovny
There was no boldness.
Kyle MacLachlan
You take what's there. The best thing that you can. The most interesting thing.
David Duchovny
What's the part?
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes, yes, there is a lot. Oh, my God. I've been down that road too. I know exactly what you mean.
David Duchovny
Yeah. So you and, and your brother, I mean, I, I felt very lucky to be there and I always wanted to. I'm happy that I got to say that to you today because I've always wanted to. Joan Cusack was another person who was. I was an extra on a Mike Nichols movie on that one with Alec Baldwin and Melanie Griffiths. Working girl.
Kyle MacLachlan
Working Girl. Thank you.
David Duchovny
Oh, and John Cusack was lovely to me. And you just remember, you remember the pros.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. So, yeah, it's. And I. And I've had, as you described, both the same experiences and when, when someone goes out of their way just to make you feel good because it's, you know, you. Part of it is just because you're a decent person. Part of it is like you want them to be comfortable so they can do their best work.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
So that the piece is going to be solid, you know, but.
David Duchovny
And you said to me, I wish you could be in every episode. You said that to me. I was like, I want to be in every episode.
Kyle MacLachlan
Great actor.
David Duchovny
But it also is the second year and I got to say there was a diff. There was a different feeling on the set. Well, not that I could compare it to the first year, but people don't remember or people can remember or should remember that that show was a meteor. That show, it was like, you know, you talk about like subsequent ones recently. Game of Thrones, Last of Us, whatever, but it, this was on a network.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Which is crazy.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Because it's still too wild for even streamers. I don't think it gets made today.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, without question.
David Duchovny
So the, the cultural imprint of that show was so big and, and so immediate.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. Yeah.
David Duchovny
And I wonder. Well, I mean, I, I was just relating it to the second year, which was a different, definitely a different feel on that set.
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, the vibe of the. Remember the first year we, we filmed everything before it ever went to air. So it was a pilot and then the episodes that they purchased, I never remember seven or eight, I don't know this thing. But all of those were filmed before anything had been. Before we really in today's night dropped anything. Right. Maybe she hadn't dropped it. So we were mid season replacement.
David Duchovny
Oh really? So it goes on Saturday night.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Right. Nobody watches TV on Saturday night. And then they dumped you.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, yeah. And the expectation, well, the expectation after the pilot was we're not going to do. No one's going to buy this as a series. ABC is not going to pick this up. Come on.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
You know, it's just, it's David lynch on television. We're all happy because we were anarchists.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
They let the inmates take over the asylum for a short period of time, but then they were going to, you know, shut us down. But they did. And then they went forward with the next one and you know, that's when it kind of went kind of wobbled and, you know, lost.
David Duchovny
It's the specialness, the second, the second.
Kyle MacLachlan
Season, last half of the second season.
David Duchovny
Yeah, right.
Kyle MacLachlan
With moments of brilliance.
David Duchovny
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Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
To Dune. Right. So, like, I don't really agree with other people's conceptions of failure and success. I have my own. But let's say, well, you come. How many. How many months you've been auditioning is one of the first things you've auditioned for. Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's the first film.
David Duchovny
First.
Kyle MacLachlan
The first screenplay I ever read.
David Duchovny
That is ridiculous.
Kyle MacLachlan
Dune was the first screenplay and Blue Velvet was the second screenplay I ever read.
David Duchovny
That is. That is not.
Kyle MacLachlan
Our engineer is waiting.
David Duchovny
Yay.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. Yeah.
David Duchovny
Fuck you. So lightning strikes, you win the lotto. You. Your first God damn it. Movie audition. You get this big movie, even though David lynch is not yet. David Lynch.
Kyle MacLachlan
No. Elephant man. You know, he'd had Beautiful, beautiful film. Extraordinary. Yeah, yeah.
David Duchovny
And then are you sitting there thinking, oh, my God, I'm on my way, or what? What are you thinking at that point?
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, it's. It's a mixed bag because people were telling me, this is going to change your life forever, you know, And I'm like, I have no concept of what that is. Yeah. In my head, I'm an actor. This is a part. I'm doing this thing. I don't know what that means. And then contractually, I. I was not allowed to do film or television until Dune was released. So we finished filming. I finished my bits in September. October of 83.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
Movies released in December of 84. I got nothing to do. So I go back and do a play. Oh, I'm back home up in Seattle and I do that and I kind of bop around and do some things.
David Duchovny
How was your experience actually doing the work?
Kyle MacLachlan
The thing was, I knew the character. I knew Paul so well because I'd read the book when I was 14 for the first time and must have read it a dozen times before I got the call. Really out of the blue. Yeah. It was a monumental book for me. It changed my junior high and high school years. I mean, I knew almost every page.
David Duchovny
What was it about that particular story that spoke to you?
Kyle MacLachlan
The character, for sure, being. Being a pretty shy, sort of frightened kid growing up that I sort of tried to put back by just being the funny guy. But secretly I'm, like, terrified of everything. And here was Paul, who was going through this experience and seemed to, like, really? I just. I appreciated the journey of what he was going through and how he was able to sort of fight through the fear. There's a wonderful fear is the mind killer quote that Frank Herbert wrote in the book. It's a death brings Total. Well, fear is the mind killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And where my fear has gone, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. And then you say, and where fear has gone, there will nothing will remain. There will be nothing. Only I will remain. So I'm like, okay, so you have to let this fear. So, you know, it was a teaching moment, really for me.
David Duchovny
And that should have been the quote for this podcast. So Dune comes out and it feels like a failure. Oh, no. Yes.
Kyle MacLachlan
In the business. Yeah. World. Yeah, it was. But again, it was. I was in my mind. I said, well, I've done Dune. I had to do five Dune pictures and three non Dune pictures. That was the contract I had with De Laurentiis. Jesus, they don't do that anymore. But that was it. I was coming from, I say, not relative obscurity, complete obscurity. So they had all the cards right.
David Duchovny
Well, also, you know, you're looking at that and you're going, that's eight movies.
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, yeah, exactly. There's that side of it too.
David Duchovny
I'm gonna do eight movies.
Kyle MacLachlan
I'm gainfully employed for the next, you know, 40 years.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
So. But of course, when Dune came out, they said, well, we're not gonna do any contract was. Yeah, done. So I didn't. And I didn't really grasp the. Didn't really read reviews. I didn't really get the fact that there was a. The money part of this was a huge problem because they'd spent the X of number of dollars on. It wasn't recouping just the language of the business that I. I don't know. And I didn't really make it my business to sort of learn about it, which was dumb. But that's not dumb.
David Duchovny
I think that's healthy, what it was.
Kyle MacLachlan
So I. So I drove to LA and got a place and. And I had a man, I had an agent, and I had a manager. Someone was helping me. And so I said, oh, I got that. You know, that was good, right? So let's see what happens. And I started auditioning and I was awful, really awful. Every audition, no addition was ever. Like, meeting Dave David wasn't even an audition. It was a. It was a meeting first. And then you did. Then you learned the dialogue and then you did the scenes. Yeah, that made sense to me. But this other stuff, I was like, I don't know what I'm doing. I'm standing here with the page. I don't know if your audition experiences. It's awful.
David Duchovny
Well, yeah, I. I didn't get a lot of parts. I mean, probably more than 100 auditions that I didn't get.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
And I'm right there with you.
Kyle MacLachlan
But I understand completely.
David Duchovny
But. But coming from, you know, that initial hit that you had, you know, to get. To get that, it must have been confusing in some way.
Kyle MacLachlan
No, without question. Because you sort of feel like. And I think I carried a chip on my shoulders, like, hey, I've done this lead in this major motion picture. Okay. Didn't do well, but haven't I. Yeah. Proved something that would, you know, mean that I wouldn't necessarily have to go in for everything.
David Duchovny
Yeah, right.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. But there was no. People weren't interested. They. They. The audition was the only way.
David Duchovny
Yeah. Remember, it was like, oh, you'll go straight to producers or. No, you. You're going to go to the casting director. No, you're going to go to the casting director's associate.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes.
David Duchovny
Then you go to the casting. Then you go forward. Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
So it was all of that. So. And I responded by being kind of. I was sort of cavalier. I said, well, it. You know what I mean? I'm just gonna. I'm not even really gonna prepare. I'm just gonna go in, you know, let inspiration carry the day. They should know. They should know that I'm right, you know, and it was bad attitude and didn't really work. And then David, bless his heart, came back with Blue Velvet, which we had talked about during Dune.
David Duchovny
You had talked about it?
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. And he said, you know, he was very keen on having me as Jeffrey. And I thought the script was unbelievable. It was very like, oh, this is dange compelling. And I'm really intrigued, all of that. I wanted to understand more of that journey. And we finally went. We started filming in August, I think, of 85. So it's a couple years after eight months after the release of Dune. And. Two years. Yeah, it was two years. More than two years since I had shot Dune. Yeah.
David Duchovny
Yeah. I was like, okay, you said something really interesting in. In that article. And I would. I would send people to read that article that you wrote because it's beautifully written and it's a beautiful sentiment. You said, where do I have it? No, I didn't always understand what we were making. Sometimes I get a sense of it and then, like, on a breeze, it was gone. Other times, it seemed to exist on a plane that I wanted to reach but couldn't quite. Articulate but eventually I realized it didn't matter.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes. It took a while.
David Duchovny
Can you unpack that for me?
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, I think we understand about David. What he creates is to be experienced, not necessarily understood intellectually at some level of that. But I think the real impact is in just the journey and immersing yourself in that journey and in that world. And I learned on Dune, I was a much more, you know, like, okay, in this scene here, I'm saying this, but, you know, this is what's. You know, I had all these questions for him.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
And he was very generous for about the first six or seven minutes of the conversation. And then his eyes would glaze over and I would just go, okay. And I did the same thing with Blue Velvet. I still kind of. But I was starting to pick up on. It took me a while.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
To pick up on the fact that this really wasn't his favorite form of dialogue between us. He didn't like answering all these questions. And so then I just kind of. With Twin Peaks, backed off even further.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
And Twin Peaks was pretty. Pretty clear. Dale Cooper. And I. I. And I also modeled him a little bit on David. Yeah. Physically. And. And the way he spoke.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And gradually during the course, was David aware of that?
David Duchovny
Did he. Did he ever say.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, he may have been. He didn't really say. He never said it. He's like, you know, sometimes he's like, here, now. You know, David, I really need you. So I would steal some mannerisms from him. But I did. I slowly began to sort of. And when we did the return in 2015, I rarely did. I just kind of. Sometimes I wanted just a little. Am I on the right track here?
David Duchovny
Well, that's interesting, too, because in the Return, you were all over the place. I mean, your character was stretched in ways that you never would have thought coming out of the show.
Kyle MacLachlan
No.
David Duchovny
So if there was ever a time when you were. When you would go, yeah, what the fuck? It would be then. But. But it seems like at that point, you guys were so kind of joined in some way or were communicating in some way that you. You just got in. Your work is amazing.
Kyle MacLachlan
And thank you. I'm really proud of that.
David Duchovny
Yeah, you should be. Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
Locked in.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
The word the kids use. And I was locked in. And it was. It was an Exercising courage, really. You know, particularly the Dougie character. Well, both Dougie and the character. The Mr. C doppelganger. That was. Upon reading the first. My first reading of the. Which was 500 pages of script, I recognized pretty Quickly. What he was asking me to do. And. And I. And also that if I wasn't, you know, the scariest to walk down, then it's not going to work. You know, so I'm like, I've always wanted to play like a villain. Right. And I've always wanted to try to exercise that side of me, but I've never had a chance, and I've never. Did I really want to, or was I just saying that? You know, I was, like, talking myself into this. You should challenge yourself.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
You don't have to, but. And this was an opera. This was. He just said, no, you're. This is the opportunity. I was like, okay, well, at least I'm going in here with David, you know, and if have any chance of succeeding, it's going to be because of him. And. And it really worked. He was a character I didn't like. I mean, you had this experience where you have a character that. I didn't like getting into him every day.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
Because the humanity just dropped out. But there was a tremendous sense of power when I was in this character. And not like I walked around all day like that, but you kind of keep the burners on, right?
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And then someone that I was so happy to put up on the rack, hang up the coat hanger, and put him in the trailer at the end of the day, and I had the long drive back from set, usually, to just, you know, let that go.
David Duchovny
So you wouldn't bring him home?
Kyle MacLachlan
Wouldn't bring him. Did you ever have a character that sort of.
David Duchovny
That you felt, I guess, in Californication? I mean, I kind of. The. The sense of empowerment that I got from. From that show was this was a guy who had no filter, you know, and I have. I have a filter, you know, so. Yeah, but I don't want to. None of us really want to.
Kyle MacLachlan
Right.
David Duchovny
And so I would go to work and say, you know, and just, like, it was free. Felt it. Very freeing, felt it, felt fun.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. You know, because it's like, it's not me.
David Duchovny
But then I. It would be a mistake to bring that home. Yes, But. But when you were. When you were stretching in those aspects of the character or different characters, I'm not even sure, you know, what they were.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, I know. I.
David Duchovny
Who knows? Aspects of the psyche, maybe.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
You weren't having those discussions with David. You were just kind of intuitively going off each other at that point.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. Yeah. For the doppelganger Mr. C character, we created him kind of from the outside in More Elvis.
David Duchovny
More Elvis. More Elvis.
Kyle MacLachlan
Not too much Elvis. But it was the look, everything that went into making that visual of him. And to the point where I would look at myself in the mirror, particularly because we chose to do a kind of a opaque lens, which I went to David with, and I wasn't sure. I said. But he saw it. He said, no, this is right for this character.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
Because there's a deadness there. There's a shark eyes, you know, and. And that really, really helped. But we. We. And even to the. The last touch was the makeup on the face, the darkening of the skin, the dirtying of that skin.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I saw that, and I was.
David Duchovny
Just like, oh, yeah. It can be helpful to work outside in sometimes.
Kyle MacLachlan
I've got no problem either way, because wherever you're going, you're ultimately going in.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's just how you get there.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
There's a lot of truck, there's a lot of roads. And Dougie was just courage, because I had to believe that nothing was everything. I'm doing nothing. I mean, I'm literally doing nothing. How long can you do nothing? You know?
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I would just stand there, and David would just get. Yep. Keep. Keep going. Hold that look, you know, in that voice of his, you know, from behind the camera. Oh, Kale. You know, he'd say, just, you know, and then it's a. Then it's like not holding. He's just trying not to laugh because we do that, too, where we try to make each other laugh.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's just part of the joy working with him. So special. So special.
David Duchovny
Before moving on to more recent stuff.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
I don't really know how to phrase this question, but you say in. In that article that I've referenced, that he. That David, you know, created you in some ways.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. Yeah.
David Duchovny
What is. What does that feel like, to have that kind of simpatico with a fellow creator? And what does it feel like to lose that person? You know, like what. What has been. And, you know, these feel like failures sometimes when we lose people, even though we know it's death and we know it happens, but there's a loss. There's a sense of diminishment.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. And I'm wondering, the loss I felt for him was. I mean, everybody's experience is going to be different. There's the immediate depending on how close you were. And we were close. We didn't talk every day. But for me, I always. David, for me, was always in his home not far from where I live, actually working like he was in his wood shop. He was painting up in the crow's nest. He was editing in the studio, making music. He was making coffees in the little kitchen. He was always doing, always working. So it's kind of strange.
David Duchovny
He.
Kyle MacLachlan
You know, I go there. There's a memorial service. I know he's gone, but I'm like, I'm not. I'm not. Is he gone? You know, in my. I'm like, yeah. And I'm like. I'm sort of sad, but I'm like. And then I saw the advertisement saying that his house was for sale, the compound for sale, and pictures, images of the interior, and it really hit me, and I was like, fuck, he's not there where I know him to be. And I just thought it was. You register. It's like, that's an odd place for it to manifest, but that's how it. That's how it came to me. And in terms of creating, I mean, yes, I think there's. There's a lot of truth to that. Dune and Blue Velvet were my first two films, and you couldn't find two. Two more completely different films, styles, you know, texture, characters than those two. And the movies or television shows that. That cast me after that, there was always an influence of that, including Twin Peaks, Mark Cherry, Desperate Housewives. Love Twin Peaks, you know, and it was like. And I think there was. I think there was a certain kind of a luster that I. Because of my work with David, that I just. That got passed on to me, justifiably or not. It was just because of my proximity with him and because we had done amazing work together. And I love the man so dearly, but when I was younger in this, it was. It felt to me like this is somewhat of a. Not a straitjacket, but with some kind of enclosing me in this. I mean, I. But I'll tell you what, there was. As I got older and we came back particularly for the return, I grew up. You know, there's a maturity that settles in. There's an understanding, and there's an appreciation and a gratitude that comes in and kind of smacks you in the face and said, listen, you are one of the luckiest here. And when we went to go back again and I knew I had a chance to work with my dear friend and this creative genius, I was like. I cherished every day, I can tell you. I got up every morning, I was.
David Duchovny
Like, I'm so happy to go to work.
Kyle MacLachlan
I'd make my coffee in my kitchen. I get to work with David today, I am so happy. And that doesn't happen in every film, as you know, but for this, it was there. That was where I, I had the understanding of just how lucky I was to have worked with him.
David Duchovny
And on the converse of that though, have you ever given yourself the space to say David was lucky to find me?
Kyle MacLachlan
No, never. No, I don't even think like that.
David Duchovny
I bet he would say that though.
Kyle MacLachlan
He, we had a connection there, as he has a connection with Laura Dern, as he has a connection with other people that he's worked with, artists that he's worked with.
David Duchovny
But I'm saying the work would not have been exactly what it is had it not been for you as well. You know that.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
If you can give yourself that kind of a.
Kyle MacLachlan
You're right, you're right. Yeah. I think I certainly, you know, in some ways I feel like I was a really good clay to work. You know, David got to kind of needed an interpreter and that's what it was. And I've come to understand that, that I'm, that I'm. I'm the person carrying an audience into a world that is unusual and scary and maybe slightly off kilter. And I think, and I used to say that. And then I said, you know, there's something else. I said, there's a stability. I think to me, you know, everything is kind of measured in level that I think was important as people went through this. And I said, I think that's also part of. Because I thought, you know, what, what.
David Duchovny
Was it that he saw in you?
Kyle MacLachlan
Saw in me. And I'm thinking, I'm thinking, yeah, those things. But, but kind of a down to earth regular person, stable. You believe in him? Certainly with Dale Cooper.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
Which is why when we lose him at the end of that second season of the first go around. Yeah, it was such a. I was so excited about the idea of playing this and then ABC canceled us. But I was like, oh, I get to take that idea of Cooper and turn it on its head. You know, what's that gonna be like?
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I wanted to, to talk a little bit about the, the podcast because that's, that's coming, that's starting. You've started doing it.
Kyle MacLachlan
I dropped a few. Yeah.
David Duchovny
And you know, it's so hard to come up with a good podcast idea because it's like everybody has had a podcast at this point. Yeah, it's like Warhol's things. Like in the future everybody will have had a podcast. But your idea is good. You know, it's, it's a hooky idea.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's a hooky idea. It wasn't. It wasn't.
David Duchovny
Explain it.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, well, it's really just. So the podcast is called what are we even doing? And you can say that. What are we even doing? What are we even doing? And I sit down with Gen Z young millennials and we have a conversation like we're having here just about their creative process. So I'm curious as to how they get into a character or what were the moments when they knew this is what I wanted to do. A lot of what we've talked about as well. And how do they use social to amplify their platform, their message, what are their ultimate goals? And I speak to, I've spoken to, I guess, Kaia Gerber, she's a model, actress, comedians, Dylan o', Brien, wonderful young actor as well. And, and Willa Bennett has been, I have her coming up actually in the, in the queue. Editor in chief of Cosmo. So just really kind of approaching it as There's a generation, a couple generations that are new creators. So what's important to them? And we literally just sit and have a conversation. I have a few questions, but I, I end up, as we're doing, we kind of go off on tangents and come back to a few things that I want to ask about them. And I've really, I've had a great time. I, I didn't know what to expect. I don't know if you had that experience when you started. You're like, well, try this.
David Duchovny
But, yeah, I mean, I, I, I thought it would be easier than it was at first anyway. And I thought, yeah, I don't, I don't know what I thought. But what I, what I admire about what you're doing is because I, I'm, I'm coming from a, you know, I need, I need a little bit of you because I'm like, you and your social media. You and all that.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes, I understood.
David Duchovny
And I'm all. That's When I, when I, when I read about that and when I listened to one, I was like, fuck, yeah. You know, like, that's a good attitude to have because you don't want to be the older guy who's saying, my day.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah. And I feel like, you know, we're probably similar there. There are, we have our mentors and our inspirations. Right. I mean, you think of Marlon Brando, Right. Or you think of James Dean, or you go on and on the list of actors, you know, Paul Newman, etc. I don't know. I never, I don't look, haven't been looking back, I realized, and saying, well, who, who inspires me that's younger than me, you know, and there's plenty. But I said, what's happening there?
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I may be part of it. Motivated by my son, who's 17, and he's, you know, he has his people he follows and he, that he. And I'm like, well, what's, what does that look like? You know, certainly his music, and I like his musical tastes. I'm like, My parents were like, like, turn off that noise. Yeah. That generation. But I'm like, no, this is interesting. I like this. The language is a little intense. But I said, I get it. Okay. So it's been a. More curiosity about what's, you know, what's coming.
David Duchovny
Yeah, No, I, I admire that because I'm, you know, as I said, my impulse is to, like, I'm going to teach you something.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, kid.
David Duchovny
And when you turn it like that, it seems like an easy Turn. But it's not. And I don't see anybody else doing that. And I think actually it can be kind of profound. Just the fact that you're doing it is profound. And I think that, you know, it's. It's a really interesting idea.
Kyle MacLachlan
Why not? And I. I agree. And as we've gotten into it, I've only done 10, and we've. And we've dropped.
David Duchovny
That's a lot, though.
Kyle MacLachlan
But it's a good chunk. Yeah. Because it's like this. You sit down. There's a lot of preparation. You have your preparation here. And this is all.
David Duchovny
This is all gibberish.
Kyle MacLachlan
That doesn't even pertain to me. Wait a minute. That's your shopping list. What am I thinking? Groceries for the day.
David Duchovny
Yes.
Kyle MacLachlan
Okay.
David Duchovny
2% milk. How do you feel about 2% milk?
Kyle MacLachlan
I'm a big believer in 2% milk. Although for. If I'm gonna go into. And I'm. I drink black.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
If I'm gonna go dairy, I'll do a whole milk. I'm showing. Go all in, you know.
David Duchovny
Okay.
Kyle MacLachlan
You only live once. But.
David Duchovny
And if you've done 10. Did you. I. I do recall I was doing my first one with. My first. First podcast with Ben Stiller, and I was thinking, oh, this is going to be easy, because I know Ben, we're friends, and, you know, it's a great idea. I thought I got it. And it was. You know, I think it's. I think it was good, but I didn't feel comfortable, you know, And I'm just wondering if. If you have. And part of this was I thought I. I thought I wanted to get somewhere.
Kyle MacLachlan
Oh.
David Duchovny
And.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, I don't. Yeah, I. I don't.
David Duchovny
That's. That's the key.
Kyle MacLachlan
Because I don't think I'm capable. I know I'm not capable actually, of structure.
David Duchovny
But. But, I mean, the way you work with David was intuitive. You know, that there wasn't like an end result. Trying to.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Trying to come out. And that's.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Conversationally. I think you get to these places that are more interesting if you just don't try to control the rains.
Kyle MacLachlan
Let them run. Yeah.
David Duchovny
Do you want to. Do you want to tell me a little about your wine? I'm a little unhappy that you didn't bring me.
Kyle MacLachlan
I can't believe I forgot to bring. I've drunk on my wine, actually. That's the problem. I will get wine to you.
David Duchovny
Sure.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
But I like the fact that it's. It's connected to your childhood. It's connected to that part of the world that you're still. And I worked in Vancouver for five years, and I. I share.
Kyle MacLachlan
Okay.
David Duchovny
The love and the. The yearning, actually, to. To be back there always, you know, once you've spent time in the Pacific Northwest, it's one of the most beautiful places in the world. I've been all around the world, and it's still.
Kyle MacLachlan
I agree.
David Duchovny
Verdant. Green.
Kyle MacLachlan
Verdant. See, that's the English major right there. Verdant. Who uses verdant in a city?
David Duchovny
Try to use verdant.
Kyle MacLachlan
Verdant. And you have a yellow line around it. That's very good. No, he doesn't. Completely agree. Love Vancouver as a city. One of my favorite cities. Stanley park up there is just. Come on. When I could run, that was my break on my run.
David Duchovny
You can bike?
Kyle MacLachlan
You can bike? Yeah, I can bike. I'll pay the price after my knees. Well, swimming is really the. The thing. Well, I don't like to swim.
David Duchovny
You don't like to swim? Did you.
Kyle MacLachlan
You love. Yeah.
David Duchovny
Did you ever.
Kyle MacLachlan
Well, you have the red.
David Duchovny
You don't like the red, but you didn't. You didn't ever, because you don't like to swim. But they've got this amazing pool in Vancouver. I don't know if you know the one.
Kyle MacLachlan
I don't know. No.
David Duchovny
It's the largest pool in North America.
Kyle MacLachlan
Holy smokes. So you got to be in the lane for a long time, and you're just.
David Duchovny
There's no. There's no buoy. So everybody.
Kyle MacLachlan
Everybody's.
David Duchovny
It's Canadian, so everybody's very polite about.
Kyle MacLachlan
Sorry, excuse me. Pardon me. Pardon me.
David Duchovny
You know, we make fun of Canadians for that, but God love them. Oh, God love them, absolutely. For being.
Kyle MacLachlan
Being humane.
David Duchovny
Yes. So anyway, connection to the soil.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes, yes. Growing up in Yakima. Now, Washington is actually two states. Of course, it's got the green side, which is west of the Cascades, and then the dry, low desert side, which is on the east side. Where I'm from. Agricultural. I mean, it's the fruit basket of the nation, as they say. Everyone takes credit for that, but I think it really is. Everything grows there. And I grew up working in the garden, mowing the lawn with my brothers, having lawn jobs, picking fruit during the fall season when fruit was ripe. And so I was like, you know, you tuned into this kind of world and then went off to seek my fortune and. But I came back primarily because my dad was ailing a little, in bad health, and I hadn't you know, I'd go home like Christmas, maybe sometime in the summer, twice a year. And I said, this is not enough. And I've all at this concurrently. I was thinking, you know what I like? The wine world was starting to take root.
David Duchovny
I think you're saying concurrently. I was thinking, I like wine.
Kyle MacLachlan
I like wine. I've always liked wine. In fact, I know high school, I liked wine. I was one of the. Again, that strange, nerdy kid.
David Duchovny
Yeah.
Kyle MacLachlan
And I said, maybe this is. I'd like to explore that a little bit. And it seems to be sort of happening in Washington state. And then I said, it gives me a chance to see my dad. We can do something together. I don't know if with parents, my dad and I, we were to do something together was always. We were facing forward. And so activities like walking, if we're playing golf, you know, you're walking forward and you're talking, you know, side to side. Driving in a car, you're talking side to side. And I said, it's not. Not. Sit down with a coffee and look at each other and go, okay, how are you feeling? It's like that at all.
David Duchovny
That's hard.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's hard. Or in the garden, you know, he'd be doing something. I'd be here helping out. Anyway, the wine business seemed like the right thing. So I had made the acquaintance of a. Of a winemaker in Walla Walla, Eric Dunham. And. And he agreed to partner with me. And so 2005, I'd had my first vintage. We did 300 cases of a blend called Pursued by Bear. English major. You know that reference?
David Duchovny
I knew it.
Kyle MacLachlan
Exunt, Exeunt. Pursued by a Bear.
David Duchovny
Yeah. Which was special effects back then.
Kyle MacLachlan
I think so too.
David Duchovny
People forget about. I just read this book called Will in the World. Have you read it?
Kyle MacLachlan
No. Should I? Is it good?
David Duchovny
All right.
Kyle MacLachlan
Good stuff.
David Duchovny
I mean, it's a little disappointing because you realize Shakespeare was, you know, they say, I think it was Baudelaire said, you know, to be great in art, you must be bourgeois in your habits, you know? And so you. Okay. And you realize, oh, Shakespeare is just a bourgeois guy. You know, he liked to make his money and, you know, he wanted a coat of arms really badly.
Kyle MacLachlan
And, you know, come on, who doesn't want a coat of arms at the.
David Duchovny
End of the day?
Kyle MacLachlan
Right. I totally get it.
David Duchovny
I would. I. I would have thought he was this rebel that didn't give a fuck about any of that. And I'm fine with him, you know?
Kyle MacLachlan
Right.
David Duchovny
He was a He was a working actor and a working writer.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
And so if you have Exit, pursued by a bear, you realize he's. He's playing to the cheap seats.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah.
David Duchovny
Which is great. Yeah, I love that, because I think we put Shakespeare on this pedestal as this. This one off. Genius is impossible to understand when in fact he. He was working in the equivalent of television.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes.
David Duchovny
Like, he was trying.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, yeah. Like we think of some of the plays, for goodness sakes, let's just chop a bunch of people up on stage.
David Duchovny
But also the jokes.
Kyle MacLachlan
And the jokes from the very body.
David Duchovny
Yeah, very body.
Kyle MacLachlan
I love it.
David Duchovny
Anyway, so go ahead. So it's exactly pursuit.
Kyle MacLachlan
That was the same stage direction. Act three, scene three, the Winter's Tale. So I just took Pursued by Bear, Nothing else. Honestly, nothing else was working. Everything else that I'd tried was trademarked. And I wanted something that was sort of, you know, a nod to my theater roots. I love Shakespeare. I said, let's try that. And it cleared. So we were there. We were pursued by bear. We had 300 case production. And I would bring my dad down as we would go through the process. Was telling a story recently about out we went. We'd been visiting the Dunham family. We went down and they said, hey, do you want to come down, do some barrel tasting? And I said, that sounds great. I've never done that. Let's try that.
David Duchovny
I've never tasted a barrel.
Kyle MacLachlan
Right. I mean, what do you do? Just lick it? You just lick the side of it. Barrel tastings. You go in. Yes, you go in.
David Duchovny
And I just saw it. I saw.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, you go in and you extract. Oh, yeah, yeah.
David Duchovny
So somebody put that little gizmo.
Kyle MacLachlan
It's like a long kind of a glass tube. You go in, you grab, you siphon it out, and you put it in the glass and you. You swirl around, you sniff it, you taste it. And I think the wine had been in the barrel for four or five months, so really young. And so I tasted it, and I was like, oh, Jesus, this is not good. And. But I put it on a good face. My dad was standing next to me, and I said, what did you. What do you think? And he said, oh, this tastes awful. I was like, thanks for the vote of encouragement. And then he went on to say, are you sure you're working with the right people? Eric is standing right there. And I'm like, dad, dad, dad, you've been doing this for 10 years. And Eric said, no, no, no. This is exactly where it should be at this particular point. So Anyway, just a little sidebar. You know, my dad was. He could be the. He's your biggest fan and you can be your toughest critic. Yeah, that was him.
David Duchovny
So. And where it's been a satisfying journey with. With the wine. You're still.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yeah, yeah, I get to go home. We talked about that. And Eastern Washington is similar between Yakima and Walla Walla. It's like I said, egg centric. Walla Walla is a little more wheat farming than up where I'm from, but very similar and just something completely different, you know, with a whole other culture.
David Duchovny
Right.
Kyle MacLachlan
And people that I absolutely adore and love and work with. And it's a struggle. I do something on the wine every day. I'm either on my computer. I was just talking to my distribution manager this morning before I came, and we're figuring out something for Vegas and. And I just love it. I really did.
David Duchovny
I was trying to come up with a really clever kind of ending to our. Our talk because I. I knew I. I figured we'd probably talk about wine last. And I. And I wanted to try and couch the idea of wine as failure in action because it's like it's. It's rotten. It's. It's fruit that's gone fermented.
Kyle MacLachlan
Exactly.
David Duchovny
So maybe. Maybe that's the lesson for us all here is, you know, that we can only hope that our rotten fruit.
Kyle MacLachlan
Yes. Is a pleasure. It's enjoyable.
David Duchovny
Something we savor and can get other people high.
Kyle MacLachlan
That's exactly right.
David Duchovny
Some thoughts about getting to catch up with Kyle McLaughlin. I said this before when I was talking to Rob Lowe and I said how important it was for me when I was starting out that I ran into, you know, him being number one or two or whatever on the set, treating me like I mattered. I had, like one line. Club goer number three was my name of my character. And similar, I got a chance to say thank you to Kyle because he also was a generous number one on the set when I did Twin Peaks. This characteristic, this ability that some people have not to close up shop against the intruder or the new person, not to circle the wagons, but to embrace them. This is something that Kyle gave to me so, so long ago. And hopefully I. I gave it back, paid it forward myself when I had the chance to be in that position on. Thanks so Much for listening to Fail Better. If you haven't subscribed to Lemonada Premium yet, now's the perfect time because guess what? You can listen completely ad free. Plus you'll unlock exclusive bonus content like the full version of my post interview thoughts that you won't hear anywhere else. That's more of my recaps of interviews with guests like Charlie Sheen, Gene Simmons and Judd Apatow. Just tap that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts or head to lemonade premium.com to subscribe on any other app. That's lemonadepremium.com don't miss out. Fail Better is production of Lemonada Media in coordination with King Baby. It is produced by Keegan Zema, Aria Brachi and Donnie Matias. Our engineer is Brian Castillo. Our SVG VP of Weekly is Steve Nelson. Special thanks to Carl Ackerman, Tom Krupinski and Brad Davidson. The show is executive produced by Stephanie Whittles, Wax, Jessica Cordova Kramer and me, David Duchovny. The music is also by me and my band, the lovely Colin Lee, Pat McCusker, Mitch Stewart, Davis Rowan and Sebastian Modak. You can find us online at Lemonada Media and you can find me at David Duchovny. Followers Fail Better wherever you get your podcasts or listen ad free on Amazon Music with your prime membership. You know when you're just going about your busy day and a voice asks you something like why do people have crushes?
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Podcast: Fail Better with David Duchovny
Guest: Kyle MacLachlan (Actor, longtime collaborator with David Lynch)
Release Date: November 18, 2025
Main Theme:
David Duchovny invites Kyle MacLachlan to discuss their experiences with artistic risk, failure, and the creative partnership with director David Lynch—especially through "Dune," "Blue Velvet," and "Twin Peaks." The conversation weaves through childhood influences, navigating success and failure in Hollywood, the impact of Lynch's mentorship, reflecting on creative loss, and Kyle's ventures beyond acting.
Family Influence:
“I didn't know what an L.A. was. Seattle to us was the big city.” – MacLachlan [02:59]
“She got involved in some teenage theater programs. She would have me come down... at first I didn't want to do it, but then I realized, there are a lot of kids my age, a lot of girls...” – MacLachlan [07:09]
On Success and Parental Expectations:
Kyle reflects that his personal sense of success was inherited less as a mandate and more as a permission to follow one’s passion, learning from his father’s rebellion.
Finding Acting:
Serendipity of Early Success:
“Dune was the first screenplay I ever read. Blue Velvet was the second.” – MacLachlan [28:14]
On "Dune" as Both Breakthrough and Failure:
Despite the opportunity, “Dune” was considered a failure by Hollywood standards, and the aftermath was disorienting for a young actor:
“People were telling me this is going to change your life forever. …I have no concept of what that is… contractually, I wasn’t allowed to do film or television until 'Dune' was released… finished filming in ‘83, released in ‘84. I got nothing to do.” – MacLachlan [28:57]
The "Fear is the Mind Killer" Lesson:
Kyle shares how Herbert’s iconic "Dune" mantra shaped his attitude toward fear and failure:
“Fear is the mind killer... I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me… and only I will remain. It was a teaching moment for me.” – MacLachlan [30:32]
Directing Style & Influence:
Kyle illustrates Lynch’s non-literal, poetic direction and its impact:
“He would direct with qualities or images. ‘Elvis’ was a direction. ‘More Elvis.’ …There’s no parsing it. The minute you talk about it, you’re starting to take away the magic.” – MacLachlan [14:22]
Lynch’s Approach:
Duchovny remarks on Lynch’s uniqueness:
“He’s sui generis. …You either take him whole or you don’t. You can’t chew him up.” – Duchovny [16:45]
Trust and Creative Growth:
Kyle internalized Lynch’s abstract approach, moving from over-explanation to intuitive performance, especially in later "Twin Peaks":
“What he creates is to be experienced, not necessarily understood intellectually… I wanted to dissect everything at first, but I learned that wasn’t his favorite form of dialogue.” – MacLachlan [35:26]
On Twin Peaks' Phenomenon:
“That show was a meteor... it was on a network, which is crazy, because it’s still too wild for even streamers. I don’t think it gets made today.” – Duchovny [21:42]
Leadership and Kindness on Set:
Duchovny expresses gratitude for Kyle's inclusivity:
“You personally were so kind … when it's your set, you set the tone. You were so kind and supportive and welcoming. … It was a prime example of how to be that guy on set.” – Duchovny [19:06]
After Dune – Reentering the Grind:
“I started auditioning and I was awful, really awful. …Every audition, nothing was like meeting David.” – MacLachlan [32:19]
Blue Velvet and Beyond:
“David, bless his heart, came back with Blue Velvet... he was very keen on having me as Jeffrey.” – MacLachlan [34:14]
On 'The Return' and Playing Against Type:
Kyle describes the fear and satisfaction of stretching into the villainous Mr. C and the empty Dougie:
“Dougie was just courage, I had to believe that nothing was everything. I’m literally doing nothing. How long can you do nothing?” – MacLachlan [41:14]
Playing Mr. C was taxing—he didn’t like “getting into him” every day, but it was a creative necessity.
Lynch as Creator and Loss:
Duchovny asks about the feeling of losing a key collaborator:
“What does that feel like, to have that kind of simpatico with a fellow creator? And what does it feel like to lose that person?” – Duchovny [42:10]
Kyle’s response is heartfelt:
“David for me was always in his home, not far from where I live, actually working… so it’s kind of strange… I know he’s gone, but, in my mind, is he gone?... There’s an appreciation and a gratitude that comes in and kind of smacks you in the face.” – MacLachlan [43:19, 45:46]
He credits his collaboration for broadening his opportunities, and only later—after maturity—did he see it as a blessing (not a limitation) and as something to cherish.
Self-Recognition and Stability:
Duchovny pushes Kyle to see the mutuality in the collaboration:
“Have you ever given yourself the space to say David was lucky to find me?” – Duchovny [46:07]
Kyle admits it's not his nature, but recognizes in hindsight his gift for grounding Lynch’s worlds:
“I feel like I was a really good clay to work [with]… I’m the person carrying an audience into a world that is unusual and scary and maybe slightly off kilter.” – MacLachlan [46:47]
New Podcast – 'What Are We Even Doing?':
Kyle seeks to connect with Gen Z and young millennial creators, discussing process and impact:
“I sit down with Gen Z and young millennials and we have a conversation about their creative process… how they use social to amplify their platform… and what are their ultimate goals.” – MacLachlan [53:15]
He expresses openness to learning from the younger generation, partly inspired by his son:
“I never…been looking back…saying, well, who inspires me that’s younger than me? And there’s plenty.” – MacLachlan [55:53]
Podcasting Philosophies:
Both appreciate the unstructured, intuitive approach—mirroring their work with Lynch:
“Conversationally…the most interesting places are found if you just don’t try to control the reins.” – Duchovny [58:20]
Pacific Northwest Roots:
Kyle’s wine label honors his Yakima upbringing and brings him home:
“Growing up in Yakima… agricultural…it’s the fruit basket of the nation… I grew up working in the garden, mowing the lawn with my brothers, picking fruit…” – MacLachlan [60:25]
The label, Pursued by Bear, nods to Shakespeare and his theater past.
Working with Family:
“To do something together…we were facing forward. Activities like walking, playing golf, driving in a car… talking side to side…” – [61:32]
Wine as a Metaphor for Creative Risk:
“Maybe that’s the lesson… that we can only hope that our rotten fruit is a pleasure, something we savor and can get other people high.”
— Duchovny & MacLachlan [66:31–66:45]
On Fear and Failure:
“Fear is the mind killer… I will face my fear… where fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”
— Kyle MacLachlan quoting Frank Herbert [30:32]
On David Lynch’s Direction:
“Elvis was a direction. More Elvis... there’s no parsing it... you’re starting to take away the magic.” — MacLachlan [14:22]
On Set Leadership:
“You’re the lead guy, you set the tone. You were so kind and supportive and welcoming… a prime example of how to be that guy on set.” — Duchovny to MacLachlan [19:06]
On Loss and Gratitude:
“There’s an appreciation and a gratitude that comes in and kind of smacks you in the face… I cherished every day. I got up every morning, I was like, I’m so happy to go to work.” — MacLachlan on working with Lynch [45:46]
Wine as Life Lesson:
“Maybe that’s the lesson…we can only hope that our rotten fruit is a pleasure. It’s enjoyable. Something we savor and can get other people high.” — Duchovny & MacLachlan [66:38–66:45]
The conversation is nostalgic, generous, reflective, and colored with humor and warmth. Both Duchovny and MacLachlan invite vulnerability, openly sharing their missteps and lessons while always weaving back to the central idea: that what’s labeled as failure can be the start of deeper growth and creative vitality. For listeners, the rapport between old friends and creative partners makes for a candid and refreshing exploration of both the artistic process and the journey of being human.