B (45:59)
Yeah. And I, I think that's a really good, good point for us to discuss is, I mean even at my like, you know, I, I would say least happy point, I would still say overall I was very happy and just constantly realizing like how blessed we are to be in this industry. And when I think about how I got into it, like it was just, you know, like I graduated college, I didn't really, really know what I wanted to do and I started interviewing for jobs and this financial advisor thing sounded pretty cool, you know. And then it got to a point where I'm like, hey, this is all I've ever done. Like I'm not even qualified to do anything else. You know, I can't build Anything or make anything. So I got to stick with it. And I just love what we do. So I will say, like, for me, when I get to the peak unhappiness component, I was still overall feeling, like, very happy with a great team that we work with here. I mean, and I love our clients and I love what we do. So, I mean, I just. I'll just put that out there. And so for me, it allowed me to, you know, as I alluded to earlier, to say, okay, I realized that the idea of me doing everything did need to change. So me trying to run the firm, be the CEO, do the payroll, do the website, do the social media, meet with all the clients, that just wasn't working. And so, and I will say, like, this is still a. Still in process. So this is what we're working on now. But we hired a consultant, so started working with the Efficient Advisor. I know you've had Libby on your podcast, a really great program, so that the timing of that was. Was great because we had started that, and it just really allowed me to kind of see how I was going to make this happen, you know, so to actually have a roadmap of. Because I really did identify that one of our, I think, biggest issues was the fact that myself and Linda Carroll is her name. She's my business partner. She's part owner of our firm as well. Like, and then we have a longtime staff member, Mara. Like, you know, we were thinking back to, like, when we. When the three of us effectively started the firm, we just knew how to do everything, and everything lived in our head. And so we kind of started this process of, like, we have to really. We're all roughly the same age, and we really need to start to build things in a way that the next generation can take over. And so what started off as, like, I think a process that seemed pretty overwhelming actually became pretty exciting and gave me a lot of energy. And so, like, when I think about what we've been working on and what my goals are moving forward, it's like, for the first time in a long time, I feel like I just, like, I know what I'm doing and I know what we're working towards, you know, And I think that also has allowed me to just be kind of re. Energized in. In this whole thing because, like, all of us get, you know, I think the type of people that are in this business. I think we all love working with clients, and we get a ton of energy from working with clients, and it's great. But I'VE also now gotten just a lot more excited about mentoring and kind of teaching the next generation. So we have six advisors at our firm now, and three of them are younger. And it's just so fun to kind of, like, I guess, show up every day and realize, like, hey, my goal is to teach them how to do all this stuff so that, you know, eventually when I'm just too old to do it, like, they'll know what to do. And I also. So one of the things I do outside of the office is I coach a high school baseball team. And I almost had this thought of, like, it's kind of like going from that player role to coach role. Like, if you're someone that grew up in sports and you were a player all those years, I mean, you know, like, you know, how many times do you watch, whatever, football, baseball, whatever, and see that a lot of these coaches are former players, you know, and they went from being energized by making the great play to, like, now they're energized by teaching and coaching and mentoring the next. You know, so that has helped me because I. I just. It's almost like I've kind of started over, you know, and I just have this new excitement every day. Obviously, one of those young advisors being my son is amazing. He just started in May, so he hasn't been here too long. But just to show up every day and be able to work with him is amazing. We have a great young staff here. That's just. Again, it's just different because I really look at my role differently, and I actually think having that direction is what has made it fun again and helped us get through the unhappiness. For me, I would say that it wasn't a number thing. It wasn't like, hey, we were at 200 and whatever, millions. But, oh, once we hit 400 million, everything just got better because we were at 400 million. Like, it really had nothing to do with the numbers, because we work. We do this with clients all the time, right? I mean, you do retirement planning for clients, and how many times do you meet with clients and you're showing them the numbers and you're like, it makes no sense to you why they're still working? Because you're like, you could retire, you know, I mean, yeah, you don't need to work. But they keep working because they just. There's no direction. It's like, well, yeah, I don't know what I will do in my next phase of life, right? So they just keep working because it's like, I like it, it's fine, I don't mind it. But as soon as they find that next thing they're passionate about, that's when they really enjoy their retirement. Right? And so I think for me it wasn't retirement, but just like officially saying, hey, my role now here is different. Like, my role is now to coach the next generation. Because our long term goal is to build this firm that's going to be around. So, you know, looking at the numbers and you know, again, we're all numbers people. So you look at these numbers and you're like, you wouldn't tell somebody, hey, you, if you can find that next thing that you're fulfilled by, you should retire just because you're fulfilled. Like the numbers have to back it up too. It's like, well, you also have to be able to afford it. And that's kind of the process I went through is in looking at the numbers in the spreadsheet we just went over, it's like, well, hey, the numbers are there. So that's like the whole, you can afford to keep this thing and keep growing it and doing what you're doing. So the numbers back it up and then you put that on top of. Oh, and also I have now found my passion and what I really want to do in this next phase. So those two things together I think are what really gave me the energy to just be really excited about the next however long.