Podcast Summary: F.I.R.E.D UP with Krista Mashore
Episode Title: Surround Yourself With Like Minded People! (Ep. 933)
Release Date: March 17, 2025
In episode 933 of F.I.R.E.D UP with Krista Mashore, titled "Surround Yourself With Like Minded People!", host Krista Mashore delves deep into the transformative power of associating with individuals who share similar ambitions and drive. Through personal anecdotes and insightful discussions, Krista emphasizes how the right network can propel one's personal and professional growth, while negative associations can hinder progress.
1. Krista’s Personal Journey: Transitioning Careers
Krista opens the episode by sharing her pivotal career transition from a highly successful real estate professional to a coach. Despite earning a substantial income of approximately $1.8 million annually in gross commissions, she found herself unfulfilled and emotionally distant from her family.
“About six and a half years ago now, I was in a very successful career and making a lot of money and doing good, but I was, quite frankly, pretty darn miserable.” [00:00]
Her decision to pivot was met with skepticism from those close to her, including her parents and husband. Many doubted the viability of her new path in coaching, questioning her ability to attract clients and succeed outside the real estate realm.
“They were like, Krista, people that are your age, 47 years old, do not leave their successful career and... nobody is going to pay you to coach them.” [00:02]
Determined to follow her passion, Krista sought out a mastermind group, a decision that would become a turning point in her journey.
2. The Power of Mastermind Groups
Upon joining her first mastermind group, Krista felt out of place, perceiving herself as the least successful member. The initial intimidation nearly led her to quit, but perseverance paid off.
“I almost got up and walked out. And I'm so glad that I didn't...” [00:04]
Within the mastermind, Krista encountered successful entrepreneurs and coaches who were not only more accomplished but also generous with their knowledge and experiences. This environment fostered immense learning and growth.
“Being in a mastermind, seeing other people succeed... I have learned to try to train my brain... if they can do it, I can do it.” [00:10]
She highlights Napoleon Hill’s concept from Think and Grow Rich about the "mastermind"—an invisible force generated by collaborative thinking that multiplies individual efforts.
“As two minds become three, there's like an invisible force that is there... this extra person times 10.” [00:15]
3. Positive vs. Negative Associations
Krista underscores the profound impact that one's social circle has on personal habits and success. Drawing from a biblical verse mentioned by her parents, she reflects on how bad associations can sabotage useful habits.
“Bad association spoils useful habits...” [00:19]
Conversely, positive associations enhance and reinforce good habits. She parallels this with her own health journey, where altering her environment by removing unhealthy temptations proved crucial to her success.
“I had to change my environment... it's the same thing with who you are around.” [00:23]
Surrounding herself with driven entrepreneurial friends in her mastermind group provided the encouragement and accountability she needed to thrive.
“Having the support and the help and the accountability from other people that I'm surrounding myself with has absolutely 100% been one of the most impactful things in my life.” [00:33]
4. Achieving Quantum Leaps Through the Right Network
Krista introduces the concept of a "quantum leap"—a significant and rapid advancement in success—achievable through the influence of the right associations.
“When you are around the right people, the right associations, you can take quantum leaps in your success.” [00:27]
By learning from others’ successes and failures, individuals can accelerate their own growth, gaining insights and strategies that might take years to discover independently.
5. Practical Advice for Cultivating Positive Associations
Krista offers actionable steps for listeners to evaluate and enhance their social circles:
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Self-Assessment: Reflect on current associations and determine if they are encouraging and uplifting or holding you back.
“Ask yourself, like, who are you hanging out with? Are those people encouraging you?” [00:38]
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Seek Like-Minded Individuals: Actively pursue relationships with those who are on a similar path or have achieved what you aspire to.
“Surround yourself with people who are in the same path, going in the same direction, have the same goals.” [00:42]
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Avoid Negative Influences: Recognize and distance yourself from individuals who may undermine your efforts or lack ambition.
“Sometimes they don’t want you to be successful... they're keeping you comfortable and keeping you stuck.” [00:40]
Krista also references Dean Graziosi's advice, emphasizing the importance of taking counsel from those who have tangible experience in your desired endeavor.
“Never take advice from somebody who's not done the thing that you are trying to do.” [00:45]
6. Final Thoughts and Encouragement
In wrapping up, Krista reinforces the necessity of intentionality in choosing one’s associations. She shares her gratitude for the mastermind group that transformed her business and personal life, encouraging listeners to seek out similar supportive environments.
“Good association enhances useful habits and bad association spoils useful habits. Cannot say how true that is. It's been a game changer in my life.” [00:48]
Krista concludes by motivating listeners to evaluate their networks and make necessary changes to foster their growth and achieve their goals.
Conclusion
Episode 933 of F.I.R.E.D UP with Krista Mashore serves as a compelling reminder of the influence our associations have on our journey towards financial independence and early retirement. Through her personal story and practical advice, Krista advocates for the deliberate cultivation of a supportive and ambitious network. By surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals, entrepreneurs can unlock unprecedented growth, overcome challenges, and ultimately dominate their respective industries.
Key Takeaways:
- Intentional Networking: Deliberately choose to associate with individuals who inspire and challenge you.
- Mastermind Groups: Engage in collaborative environments to accelerate learning and success.
- Positive Reinforcement: Surround yourself with people who uplift you and reinforce your goals.
- Avoid Negative Influences: Distance yourself from those who undermine your progress or lack ambition.
- Take Proven Advice: Seek guidance from those who have achieved what you aspire to accomplish.
Listeners are encouraged to visit KristaMashore.com/Podcast for additional resources and to participate in Krista’s virtual events aimed at helping real estate agents dominate their markets.
