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When I was a little girl one time after we went to Walmart, my dad sat down with me at the KFC that was right across the parking lot. And as we were eating, he explained to me that while he wasn't racist, he didn't think that races should marry each other because it was too hard on the kids. The kids wouldn't be able to adapt, and they'd be bullied because they wouldn't fit in with either group. When I got a little bit older, he would say phrases like cotton picker, and I didn't really register what it was he was talking about. He repeatedly claimed that the Civil War was about states rights. And when I asked him the right to do what, he got pretty upset. And I carried these ideas into my late teens and my early 20s. And I would have never said, I'm not racist. I love everyone. I even used the horrible, condescending phrase, I'm colorblind, which is insane. And as I started to realize that what I had been told was a lie, and I found out about things like the Tulsa massacre, and I realized just how much of my history that I'd been taught as a kid had been whitewashed and how much had been missed. My family never taught me about the civil rights movement. My dad demonized Martin Luther King Jr. I started to realize I'm missing something. And I started to realize that attitudes I had towards people I had never met were wrong. They were not just wrong, morally, they were incorrect. And I started to do a lot of searching online to answer questions. Everything from what happened in the civil rights movement? What did Dr. Martin Luther King really say? What does racism really look like in America? And one of the first videos I stumbled upon was an interview with Jane Elliott as she explained her brown and blue eye exercise. And I started to cry because she explained it in a way that made me understand what prejudice looks like and that we don't have to live that way, and that prejudice based on skin color is just as insane and irrational as prejudice based on eye color. This is maybe the interview I've been the most excited for ever in my life. I'm so excited to have this conversation with Jane Elliott and with you. Thank you for dropping by to join me on flipping table. Hello and welcome back. I am so excited. When I got ready for this interview, I was freaking out. Like, what do you wear to talk to Jane Elliott? I reached out to her from her website. I had no idea she would reach out again to me. She reached out the same day and we spoke about what my mission is, what I'm talking about. And I brought her on, and we both love the paranormal, and it was such an enriching conversation. I am just so excited. Before I jump into that, I wanna make some announcements again. Please sign up for the Patreon account. This is how I am switching my career focus to this work to be able to do it full time. You get bonus content, bonus episodes, you get to vote on episodes, and you get early releases. And thank you again so much to the recent ratings and reviews. It helps me so much to promote this podcast because word of mouth is by far the best asset you could ever, ever give me. And I've been getting so many encouraging messages from all of you. So buckle up, get a drink, get ready to laugh, maybe cry a little bit, get a notebook, because she's gonna give you some book recommendations. This is my conversation with Ms. Jan. All right, Mrs. Elliot, we're alive. We're live. We're live. Welcome to the show. I am very excited to talk to you. Everyone who knows me has known that I've been raving about this since you answered my email. And especially as someone who. I was raised very far alt right, Christian nationalist, fundamentalist, Republican family members. My dad was a Republican state senator. My uncle was a Republican representative. I'm sorry, switch that. My dad was the representative, my uncle was the senator. And I grew up about as far right as you can get and started deconstruction after college. And it's been a long journey for me. And when I realized how racist my ideologies were, even though my family never claimed to be racist or they would never drop slurs, they were very, very racist. Still are. And you were a big part in helping me deconstruct those ideologies. And it was really impactful for me. It took me about a decade to rewire most of that learning. I grew up with family members who we stockpiled arms against the government in case they came to attack us and opposed women's bodily autonomy, opposed everything you stood for. My dad has, or my dad used to demonize Martin Luther King Jr. I mean, it was just. This is the language I grew up with. So when I realized after moving to New York, I went to Liberty University. So after college, I moved to New York. Oh, I know, I know. There's so much here. She's like, oh, my God.
