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Jim Daly
Jasmine knows the devastation of loss all too well. Her premature son died after four months in the hospital, and then she experienced a miscarriage.
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Kathy Lipp
It was hard to worship. It was hard to pray. But by listening to this podcast, focus on your Family, it helped me think.
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Sherry Gregory
That I am not the only one.
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Kathy Lipp
Who'S going through this.
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Jim Daly
Jasmine says we were a voice of calm and truth in her chaos. Today, she wants to equip others hurting families before it's too late.
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Kathy Lipp
By listening to this podcast or Focus on Family, it will help you tremendously with your faith and how to grow and move forward.
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Jim Daly
I'm Jim Daly. We need your help to deliver hope and joy to more families like Jasmine. But time is running out to see your gift doubled through our matching opportunity. Give generously today@focusonthefamily.com family or call 800 the letter A and the word family.
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Kathy Lipp
As November and December land on me, I realize, you know, my family, we have these points that are stressful. And then I'm not as good as I think I am when it comes to all the cooking and all that kind of stuff. And why isn't anybody helping me, even though I didn't ask anybody to help me? And it. The overwhelm can get to every area, and you feel like not only am I failing, but I'm in this boat alone.
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John Fuller
Well, you can hear the desperation in Kathy Lipp's voice as she shares that perspective. And she's with us today, along with Sherry Gregory, to help you deal with stress this holiday season. Your host is Focus president and author Jim Daly, and I'm John Fuller.
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Kathy Lipp
Hey, John.
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Jim Daly
This can be one of the most joyful times of the year, but it can also be one of the most stressful. Many listening. You have wonderful relationships with your family. Maybe some of the extended family, not so much, but for others, this is a time of year that brings a lot of anxiety as you're spending more and more time with Thanksgiving and Christmas and New Year's. And we want to help you navigate that in a better way, hopefully in a more Christlike way. That's the goal. You know, we're here at Focus on the Family standing with you. We want to put resources into your hands, even to the point of providing some counseling if you need that. And it's okay. Don't be embarrassed. Call us if you need help because this is a real stressful time of year.
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John Fuller
Yeah. And our guests are going to help us navigate that. As you said, Jim, they are Kathy Lipp and Sherry Gregory. They have together written A great book called how to quiet the chaos and restore your sanity. And this is a good time of year to do that, to just do a check to make sure you're strong going into the holidays.
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Jim Daly
Ladies, welcome back to Focus on the Family.
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Kathy Lipp
Thanks so much for having us again.
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Sherry Gregory
It's great to be here.
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Jim Daly
Okay, now you have this book titled Overwhelmed. How many people, particularly women, think, oh, a book is overwhelming to me.
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John Fuller
Hadn't thought about it.
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Jim Daly
Yeah, you're gonna make me read about how to not be overwhelmed. So the busy person, how do they digest this?
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Kathy Lipp
Well, I think there's a couple of different ways. I think that you could just go to the chapter that applies to you.
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Jim Daly
Oh, that's good.
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Kathy Lipp
Yeah. So if you're saying, I'm not overwhelmed by this, but this is killing me, then go to that chapter. And then I think broadcasts like this are exactly where you start to get into the conversation. And then the book just gives you the tools and techniques to really live it out.
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Jim Daly
Yeah. And that's that'. Now, Sheri, do you think with the holidays, Christmas, Thanksgiving, all of it right here, can you actually not feel overwhelmed?
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Sherry Gregory
I think it's absolutely possible. And Kathy knows that I'm the scrooge. Of the two of us, I tend to be a little more higher anxiety. I'm more easily overwhelmed. But I think when you have a strategy, when you have a plan, and when you can be at least somewhat flexible with your expectations, I think a lot of our overwhelm comes from having really high expectations. And then there's reality.
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Kathy Lipp
Well, you too.
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Jim Daly
And what's so fun is watching you as friends because you've been here together before. And even off mic, it's just fun to hear the way you both process life. And for the person that may not feel overwhelmed, I don't feel like I get that overwhelmed. But I may be. Thank you. No, I might be deceiving myself. I'm not giving myself a trouble. You know, sometimes you live in self deception.
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Kathy Lipp
We just need to get Gene in here to see what's really going on.
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Jim Daly
There's gotta be one person that lives in an overwhelmed state. But what does that feel? That's what I'm driving at. For that woman that's feeling stressed out with the holidays upon her and all the expectations, like you mentioned, Sherry, that, you know, I gotta cook perfectly, I gotta prepare perfectly, I've gotta host perfectly. I'm already feeling people going, no, stop talking about it.
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Sherry Gregory
I think especially for the holidays, what overwhelms me the most is this Sense that I've gotta keep everybody happy and that it's all up to me for everybody to have the perfect Thanksgiving or Christmas or what, you know, whatever the holiday is. And so two things happen. First of all, there's more people because we tend to gather together. So I have more people to keep happy.
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Jim Daly
So if this is your normal operation, you can do it one on one, maybe two on one. But when you have 15, it becomes overwhelming.
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Sherry Gregory
I keep a small handful of people pretty happy. I shouldn't be trying, but I often can do that.
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Jim Daly
It's okay. It's how God wired it.
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Sherry Gregory
Multiply it. You multiply that out by more people and suddenly I'm spread too thin. But the other thing that happens during the holidays is I forget self care. And so I'm staying up too late and I'm not drinking enough water, I'm not watching nutrition, I'm not exercising, I'm not getting my rest. And all of that starts compounding. I'm keeping everybod, but I'm not taking good care of myself.
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Jim Daly
Okay, Sherry, I need to ask you this though. In this moment of stress, have you ever snapped at your husband?
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Sherry Gregory
Have I ever not snapped at somebody?
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Jim Daly
I'm just wondering. I'm just curious.
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Sherry Gregory
Yeah. But then the problem, of course, is that the solution that my husband has is, well, then just don't do all this stuff. And then comes the, well, you just don't understand.
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Jim Daly
I think I'm feeling like that's a good idea.
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Kathy Lipp
Well, and you were talking about self care. I would say the other thing that happens in the holidays is our normal routines get so interrupted. So, like when Sherry and I might normally be checking in with our friendships during the holidays, it's harder to do that because we're so concentrated on our family and the people that we're expected to take care of. So we can't talk down the crazy for each other. And I think when it comes to the holidays, to say, okay, we've got this crazy relative coming, or this situation is always going to blow up to be able to say to a friend, hey, would you pray for me? Hey, I know you have this situation with your blank in law too. Give me some tools to deal with it.
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Jim Daly
There has to be somebody, though, that doesn't even have that friend. So how do you go about developing, you know, some friends that you can actually be honest with? And really the benefit of it is that many people are experiencing the same kind of stress.
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Kathy Lipp
Absolutely.
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Jim Daly
We just don't, you know, we don't put it on our social media page.
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Kathy Lipp
Right. So I think instead of finding the friends friend, the key is to be the friend.
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Jim Daly
Ha, that's good.
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Kathy Lipp
And to be the safe person that you can say I'm having this bad circumstance, you know, and hearing what they have to say and just say if you don't have any answers, it's okay not to have answers. It's oh, but to say, I will pray for you. Let me know when your mother in law, brother in law, whoever is causing you the crazy is coming into town. And I will be praying that entire hour and to be that friend for somebody. And that's how you can connect with people, to be able to share some of your own angst as well.
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Jim Daly
Now you have created a quiz that can help women to identify if they're the overwhelmed person. I think it's probably self evident. But does a person really not know they're overwhelmed?
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Sherry Gregory
I think there's different kinds of overwhelm. But the thing that we find with the women who've read overwhelmed is so many of them think that the problem is them, like there's something wrong with them or if they're overwhelmed, if they're overwhelmed or that they're. It's just me, I'm just stupid. Everybody else can handle everything. Everybody else got the manual for life and I did. But what we found in doing the research for overwhelmed is it's not that we're overwhelmed because we're stupid, we're feeling stupid because we're overwhelmed. And so to find something like that out, like it's not my fault, there's something I can do about it. And following some strategies to lessen the overwhelm, we actually can get back to a place of normal.
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Jim Daly
You know, it's interesting, we can often mention Martha and Mary in a very cutting way. I mean, I think I've done it if I think about it. You know, if someone in my family is working hard and you know, kind of grumbling about it, I say, hey, why are you acting like Martha?
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Kathy Lipp
Yeah.
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Jim Daly
It's not a compliment.
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Kathy Lipp
No, no. In fact, you know, you look at Mary, why did Mary get to sit at the feet of Jesus? Because somebody else was taking care of business.
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Jim Daly
Somebody was cooking.
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Kathy Lipp
Absolutely. And we think about it this way as well. You know, when we think about the overwhelm during the holidays, I think what we think is I should be that Mary who's able to sit at the feet every. What we think is this should be easier. We think it's easy for everybody else. This should be Easier. I love my family. You know, we have a couple of problem people. Maybe I'm the problem person sometimes, but this should be easier. And what we need to do is normalize that. These holiday gatherings, getting together with the people we love, always bring some additional stress and to plan for that and say it's okay, but to know we're not crazy for feeling stressed out.
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Jim Daly
Okay, so I hear what you're saying. Terms of identify triggers, right?
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Kathy Lipp
Basically, absolutely.
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Jim Daly
For the holidays, you do tend to get everybody co. Mingling people that within the family, extended family, that you might not say, hey, let's spend time together for whatever reason. So in some ways, it's a great spiritual exercise. I'm sure the Lord is pleased when he orchestrates ways to put you with people who irritate you. Why? So you can grow, right?
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Kathy Lipp
Absolutely.
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Jim Daly
That's part of it.
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Kathy Lipp
I think also, though, to go in with some ground rules.
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Jim Daly
How does that work?
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Kathy Lipp
Okay, so my family, we've got extended family with, let's just say, a varied assortment of political, spiritual, sociological beliefs. And so there are certain topics that if we bring up, if somebody brings up, it is not going to be good for our relationship. I have to realize nobody's gonna help me change my mind, and I'm not gonna help change anybody else's mind over the turkey dinner. That's just not the place for it. This needs to be a place where we connect as a family, not try to convert the people who are sitting around us.
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Jim Daly
Now, it doesn't irritate you that you're the only one that understands this?
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Kathy Lipp
Well, this is why the ground rules. This is why it's important to talk about it before the events happen. So Roger and I have an agreement that if that happens, we shut it down. And we have said at family gatherings, we do not speak of this at this table. If you want to set up another time to have a conversation, we would love to engage you.
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Jim Daly
That's good. You just say it.
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Kathy Lipp
We just say it. We have an agreement. My husband loves peace. And I also want to love the people around my table more. And they make it very hard sometimes. And so to be able to say, hey, we just don't talk about that at this holiday gathering. But there are other times I would love to sit down with you and have coffee and discuss it.
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Jim Daly
Now, this sounds very good, hypothetically, but I need a real life experience.
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Kathy Lipp
Oh, yeah. Okay. So I will tell you. Recently, we were visiting my husband's family, and we have very different political views. And we've said it before, hey, we are not going to discuss X, Y and Z at the table. Well, regardless, somebody always, you know, there's that person that's the instigator. And as soon as that happened, I said I thought we had had agreement that we weren't going to talk about that. So I'm going to excuse myself because I can't be here for this conversation. And I up in the middle of the restaurant and I excused myself because here's the end thing I want to get to. I want to still be able to sit across from you and love you. And when you are constantly poking and prodding and trying to get a reaction out of me, I get to choose whether I engage or not. You don't get to control that for me. And the best way for me to do that is say, hey, I thought we had an agreement. It's not working out how we said it was going to. I need to excuse myself.
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Jim Daly
Well, let's put a hypothetical out there and you guys can respond to it. But let's say woman's listening and she struggles with their in laws because of that difference of worldview or whatever it might be. But her husband thinks they're great. This is so much fun to have the family over. We love spending time together and we laugh well together. Let's expand the tips a little beyond the ground rule of not talking about that issue. Maybe it's politics. You know, they always say politics and religion. But what would be some of the other ground rules?
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Kathy Lipp
Well, I'll give one right off is to schedule time just for your husband to be with his family. Seriously, I like that.
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Jim Daly
Go miniature golfing.
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Kathy Lipp
Yeah, do something to say, you know, when I am in that situation, I will say, you know what, I'm gonna go spend four hours and I'm going to go write or read something or I'm just gonna go take a walk. Because here's the thing, my husband has the relationship with his family and there he's used to, you know, their family systems and all of that. And my ultimate goal always is to love them better. That's my goal. And sometimes loving them better is saying, you know what, I'm gonna take some time just for myself and to schedule in that self care helps so much in a tough situation. I also have made the ground rule of we stay in a hotel. We just stay in a hotel because I just need a break. And so to do this, my goal again is to love them better. So how do I do that? And if I'm just sitting there biting my fingers so that I don't say anything to offend anybody. I understand I'm a better person to participate when I've had adequate sleep, when I've had adequate time to myself. All of those good things.
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Jim Daly
Now, that's good. But some people might not be able to afford a hotel. But you're saying bring your camping gear.
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Kathy Lipp
Yeah.
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Jim Daly
Do what you need to do.
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Kathy Lipp
And to say, hey, if we're gonna go visit our family, we're gonna budget for this. Or you stay with the family member that you can get along with best.
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Jim Daly
You know, there's a couple of lessons in what you're saying. And Sherry, I'd love to hear your in law experiences. You're not going to hear any of ours. John and I aren't going there. But you're saying, work on yourself. You're a person you can control. Right. You can't change other people's perspectives and all that. And that's a good thing. That's really a Christian truth. Following Christ is all about looking at your own log in your eye before you take the speck out of your brother's eye.
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Sherry Gregory
Well, what I see being so important here is the level of intentionality. And these decisions aren't being made the day before Thanksgiving. These decisions are being made a month or two or three in advance so that there's time to execute.
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Jim Daly
Elaborate on the decision making. What does that look like? Like you and your husband are saying what?
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Sherry Gregory
Okay, well, in my case, I was referring to Kathy's decisions. All that's happening.
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Jim Daly
Let's talk about Kathy's decision.
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Kathy Lipp
Absolutely.
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Jim Daly
Everybody else tell me to be quiet. Roger's conversation, for me, it ends up.
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Sherry Gregory
Being a little more internal because my overwhelm tends to be okay this year. He better not say the kind of thing he normally says. And so I try to, like, mentally control other people or steer the conversation so the conversation doesn't go someplace that ends up being hurtful to me. And what I finally had to realize is I cannot control other people. I know, I know. Crazy as it sounds, I've tried every way there is. And so what I've learned, for example, I have a habit of reaching out to other people by being transparent and vulnerable. So I'll share a weakness, I'll share something that I failed at. And I expect that they're going to return that. That's how we're going to bond together. But there are certain family members I've discovered, they take advantage of that. And so then they'll turn the conversation. And I feel Bashed on.
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Jim Daly
Right.
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Sherry Gregory
And so then I'm like, well, I chose the wrong one. Let me choose another weakness. Let me be vulnerable in a different way. I just need to choose the right one. And I finally realized, no, I need to quit choosing vulnerable things and I need to start talking about the weather. I need to have a list ahead of time of very safe topics. And then I just need to listen and ask questions and listen and not be as self revealing because for me that's what was always very overwhelming.
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Jim Daly
And I'm sure for you that feels shallow then.
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Sherry Gregory
It does.
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Jim Daly
I can hear Jean and I having that discussion too. That, okay, now it doesn't feel like we're connecting and that's a disappointment.
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Sherry Gregory
It is. But it's also an opportunity to listen and learn and not insist on doing things my way.
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John Fuller
Now I want to go back to something you said, Kathy, and both of you probably have some insights on this for the woman who's saying, well, I like the idea of loving my family better. Whether it's my biological family or my birth family or my in laws, I want to love them better. But getting away or staying in a hotel, that's going to bring shame and judgment on me because I'm not part of the game. I'm not part of the party. What's her issue? How do you get over that?
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Kathy Lipp
So what I've had to do is say, you know, every family comes up with their own set of rules and I get to participate in making the rules for our family. These are not things that are handed down to me. I'm a grown woman and I get to participate in what's going to be best, not just for me, but for my husband and for my kids as well. And sometimes, you know, we hate to say it, but sometimes our kids need to be protected from other people in the family from unkind words, from judgments from, why doesn't he go out and play with the other kids? Why is he always reading a book? Those kind of things. We have to be the mama bear and say, you know what, we love you, we want to have a relationship with you. You don't get to comment on my child. That's just not one of the things that you get to do. And so this is all, I know it sounds very self protecting, but here's the thing, it's allowed me to have the relationships that I can. And you know, biblically, it, what we need to do is we need to love as far we are able, as far as we are able to do it. I need to sacrifice, I need to love. But like Sheri said, I don't have control over the other people. As far as it is up to me. I need to be at peace with everybody. And I have discovered the best way to be at peace is not to be selfish. When I'm with people, I am with them. I don't have my phone out. I'm looking them in the eye. I'm saying, tell me about this activity you're doing. I want to hear about the Bible study you're at. I want to fully engage, but I also know my own limits. And so I want to make sure that my family is well protected, taken care of, and I want to miss my relatives so I can see them again.
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Jim Daly
It's true there are people who confrontation does not come easily. Probably more than half of the population fit into that category. Christian, non Christian. So how do you get up the energy, Sherry? You may fit that, I don't know. But how do you get up the ability, the will, the courage to say, okay, we're gonna set boundaries? Cause it's hard for some people, especially within the family.
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Sherry Gregory
Yeah, it's also really difficult when you've done it one way for a long time and you recognize it's not working. One of the things I recognize is I had a belief that since I'd always done it a certain way, we just had to keep doing it that way, like we couldn't change. And so deciding to say, you know, we used to do this, but we've decided to do it this way now, or we tried this, it's not working. And so we're gonna make this decision now. But I think it all comes back to every family expects different things. Like when my husband came to our family for the first time, there was no stuffing because I'm part Middle Eastern. And so our Thanksgiving is all Middle Eastern food. There's no stuffing or mashed potatoes with gravy. And, you know, for him to be.
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Jim Daly
Fair, words right there, he thought that was terrible.
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Sherry Gregory
And so if we can see all of this, as much of this as a matter of preference, whether you stay in the family home or you stay in a hotel, I don't believe that's biblical. You know, that's something we get to choose and to say, you know, we've stayed with you in the past. This year we're staying in a hotel, there doesn't need to be a discussion after that.
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Jim Daly
Unless you.
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Kathy Lipp
Yeah, and I think it's expectations and time when you're telling mother in law the night before we're staying in a hotel, that's wrong, because I feel like that's disrespectful to her expectations. But when we say, you know, this Thanksgiving, hey, next Thanksgiving, we're gonna need to do things a little differently, whatever that gives people time to adjust, to wrap their brains around it and be respectful of the family that they are a part of.
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Jim Daly
Right? So given Thanksgiving's just around the corner, maybe this year, suck it up.
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Kathy Lipp
Right? This year is triage, but for Christmas, we can come up with contingency plans. And so the first conversation is, if you're married, the first conversation is to have with your spouse. And so to be in agreement there and to say what is best for us as a family and for a family as a whole. Because really what you're trying to do is you're trying to honor everybody the.
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John Fuller
Best you can, and you got to position that properly as a unified front. It's not going to be. The husband says, well, Jane didn't want to stay with you, so we got a hotel.
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Kathy Lipp
Oh, yes, hear it loud.
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Jim Daly
Now, I think people are leaning in and listening to this because we're talking real life situations here. And we can all pinterest our faith and say everything's fine, but for the most part, there are the uncles, the aunts, the in laws, et cetera. Where's God in all this, though? I really want to hear a clear kind of message, message that this is what God wants from you.
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Kathy Lipp
Well, I really do believe that our chief concern is to be at peace with everybody as far as we are able to make that happen. And so it's not about fighting for our rights necessarily. When we're in a family, we have to lay down some of those rights. It's saying, how do I honor everybody and how do I show my love for God has transformed me and I'm able to love well. And so I come from a family where not everybody is a Christian and where for some of them, Christianity is hard to see because they feel that they've been mistreated by Christ or people they love have been mistreated by Christians before. You know, that's their perception. I don't know whether it's reality or truth, but I need to be the person that says, for me, Christianity is about God's love. And it doesn't stop just with other Christians. It is God's love transforming the world. So I lay down my rights in many ways. I only pick them up for the things that I think are important and that will move the Family forward.
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Jim Daly
Kathy, I'm aware of your history, family history with Roger. You're a blended family. Probably 30, 40% of the Christian community would identify with that as well. And I want to be mindful there's lots of reasons that happen. So let's not go to the judgment thing, everybody. But in that context, what can you do to see that, understand the complexity of it.
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Kathy Lipp
So my husband is an engineer, and one of the things that he was told early on is that when you're developing something as an engineer, you can have it better, cheaper, faster. Pick two out of three. You're never going to have a product that is better, cheaper and faster. When it comes to blended families. And let's also talk about in laws and things like that, I feel like you have there are three things you can celebrate on the day. You can have everybody there. You can be have people be happy about it. Pick two out of three.
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Jim Daly
Okay, that's good.
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Kathy Lipp
So what we've chosen for the most part is we do not celebrate on Christmas. We do not necessarily celebrate on Thanksgiving. Every once in a while it kind of works out that. But we have a child who's married and has her in laws. We have, you know, other original biological parents. They're celebrating. And so we want to be the home that it's easy to land in, that it's comfortable. We're not saying, well, it's not Christmas because It's not the 25th. You've broken our hearts because you're not here on the day. We want to be the place where they come. They get filled out up. They know that love lives at our house and we're going to laugh and we're going to eat great food, but it doesn't happen have to happen on the day. And also if somebody's not able to make it, we say, you know what, we're so sad because we are going to miss you, but we understand your life is bigger than just our family. Let's pick another time and let's do dinner together.
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Jim Daly
No, that's all good. We often call on the day. We'll call our siblings if they aren't able to make it. So that's a lot of fun. Hey, Kathy and Sherry, this is great. More questions around the corner, though. I want to stick with it and come back tomorrow and pick the conversation up and talk about a bit more of the complications that we face here at Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's and these holiday periods. Can we do it, please?
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John Fuller
What a great conversation with Kathy Lipp and Sherry Gregory today on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly. And we trust that their insights have encouraged you as you're preparing to interact with family members on a variety of occasions this coming season.
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Jim Daly
Yeah. Preparing for that. Hey, you know what? It is such a wonderful time of year, but those family gatherings can bring stress and strife. The good news is they don't have. And I love the ideas Kathy and Sherry gave us to step back, take a breath and reset some of those scenarios.
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John Fuller
Yeah. And we want to come alongside you with practical tools and encouragement so you can build a stronger, healthier relationship with all those in your family, especially during this holiday season. And you're going to find Focus on the Family has lots of helpful resources waiting for you.
- [26:11]
Jim Daly
Yeah. A good place to start is by scheduling a free consultation with one of our caring Christian counselors. You can do that. They'll listen to you, pray with you, and give you some guidance on your path toward healing. We also have Kathy and Sherry's great book, how to Quiet the Chaos and Restore youe Sanity. Who doesn't want that book? Which you can get directly from Focus on the Family. It's full of relatable stories and practical ways you can navigate those more stressful moments. And when you give a gift of any amount to Focus on the Family today, we'll send you a copy as our way of saying thank you for being part of the ministry this Christmas season. You have a wonderful opportunity to deliver hope and joy to families in crisis through your support of Focus on the Family. Your gift can bring real hope to couples on the brink of divorce, parents who feel overwhelmed or maybe they're in a crisis, and others who need encouragement right now. So please give today.
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John Fuller
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Jim Daly
God is at work and he's calling his people to rise in truth. Truth Rising is a powerful new documentary from Focus on the Family and the Colson Center. See how ordinary Christians choose courage in a culture that needs truth. Watch Truth Rising today and find out how you can become an agent of restoration and hope. Visit truthrising.com today. That's truthrising.com.