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Visit pemco.com prevention this is FRESH AIR. I'm Terry Gross. One night when my guest Rich Benjamin's mother was staying over at his Brooklyn apartment, he awoke to her screaming, please don't kill me. Please don't kill me. She was having a nightmare. Here's the backstory. Her father, Rich Benjamin's grandfather, was appointed president of Haiti by a temporary government in 1957, but 19 days after taking office, he was overthrown by a military coup. Soldiers with submachine guns stormed into a cabinet meeting, took him away and gave him a letter of resignation to sign. His wife was also kidnapped by soldiers. They were both ejected and sent to the U.S. soldiers also came for the president's children, including Benjamin's mother, who was 13 at the time. The children were taken to barracks where his mother was raped. She never got over the terror of that day. Through her aunt's negotiations with the military government, she was able to get out of confinement and go to New York, where she was reunited with her parents. The family never really talked about the coup and the trauma. It wasn't until Benjamin went to Haiti to help after the 2010 earthquake that he decided to do some research to better understand his family and himself. As part of his research, he sued the US State Department to get access to classified documents which revealed the US Played a role in the coup. His new memoir is called Talk to Me Lessons from a Family Forged by History. It's also about being black, the son of immigrants and gay. He says he's enjoyed advantage and endured exclusion. Benjamin's first book, published in 2009, is called Searching for An Improbable Journey to the Heart of White America. Rich Benjamin, welcome to FRESH air. What did you learn about the Eisenhower administration's role in overthrowing your grandfather's presidency?
Rich Benjamin
Terry, first of all, it's great to be here.
Terry Gross
It's great to have you.
Rich Benjamin
Thank you. Thank you. What I learned in writing this book is that executives of American corporations, after my grandfather assumed Haiti's presidency, called the White House directly to ask them to intervene in those phone conversations. They called him a rabble rouser. They said he wasn't fit to be president. And and I think a lot of their gripe was he had been a labor leader on the ground. And also what was fascinating is looking at the national Security meeting held at 8am in the White House the day after my grandfather was inaugurated. Eisenhower was there. Dulles, the head of the CIA, was there. The other Dulles, his brother, who was Secretary of State, was there. All of the national security team was. And they discussed what to do about this predicament.
Terry Gross
So you said your grandfather was a labor leader, but he was more than just a labor leader. He was very popular, very charismatic, and was able to organize mass protests.
Rich Benjamin
He was. My grandfather became a major labor leader in 1946, and he was in charge of unions that represented factory workers, that represented the farmhands who plowed the fields, who cut the sugar cane, bus drivers and haircutters. And in many cases, Terry, he was able to garner them better wages. And he also represented laborers who worked for Standard Fruit, which was a global corporation. And they weren't too pleased with him in terms of his ability to get them better wages and better workers, working conditions. So. And he became a popular labor leader through his voice. He had this beautiful command of Creole, the native tongue, and he would give these beautiful speeches, these fiery labor speeches that really aroused people's passion, it galvanized them politically. And for that, he became known, and he kind of came under the surveillance of U.S. operatives in Port au Prince.
Terry Gross
So what role did the Eisenhower administration play in the coup?
Rich Benjamin
The role that the Eisenhower administration played was first, they were aware that the coup would happen. We know this through secret CIA cables. But also they granted this couple without the couple's request.
Terry Gross
The couple being your grandparents?
Rich Benjamin
Yes. They granted them visas to enter the United States without the couple's request. And so they knew that it was going to happen. And so that's critical in their hatching the coup. In other words, they know this man is going to be deposed. They know he's the legitimate leader of Haiti, and yet they're granting him visas to facilitate his being kidnapped and ejected.
Terry Gross
After your grandfather was overthrown by the military coup, Duvalier was elected president. And he had what some people consider as a kind of reign of terror. He became a dictator. His police really cracked down on any kind of dissent. And he was president for how many years?
Rich Benjamin
It was very swift, his dictatorship. Once he kidnapped my grandfather, it was barely two weeks before he sent the military into the city's capital, and he mowed people down through submachine guns. He killed people. So he wanted to squash the dissent by violence and by murder immediately. And subsequently, he ruled from 1957 to 1971. And that, as you point out, Terry, it was a reign of terror. He broke the press, he broke academics. He broke his opponents, and he became a dictator for life through sheer violence.
Terry Gross
Yeah. He declared himself president for life.
Rich Benjamin
He did.
Terry Gross
So let's talk about your mother a little bit. So she was kidnapped by the soldiers and taken to barracks. She was raped there. How much did she talk to you about that? That night when she woke up screaming, don't kill me. Did you already know the story, that she was raped?
Rich Benjamin
No, I did not.
Terry Gross
What did she tell you? How did you find out?
Rich Benjamin
I found out subsequently through a different visit to Brooklyn when we talked about it. But the main thrust of this story and the main discovery of this story is just growing up, I had no idea, period, about what went on in Haiti. I had no idea about this man's rule. I had no idea about what her childhood was like in Port au Prince. I had no idea what her life was like as an immigrant to New York. And technically, she's not an immigrant, by the way. She's a refugee. When you've been expelled, you're a refugee, not an immigrant. So none of this I knew growing up.
Terry Gross
So she told you eventually that when she told her father, the former president of Haiti, that she was raped by the soldiers, he didn't believe her, and that created an anger that never left her. And also, although he may have been a man of the people, he wasn't a family man, and she felt betrayed by that, too. She was asked to lead your grandfather's funeral procession in Haiti. He had moved to Haiti just months before he died. And this was what year was that?
Rich Benjamin
1986.
Terry Gross
Yeah. So she was asked to lead his funeral procession, and she had really mixed feelings about it because she was still angry with him and thinking, like, what a position to be in. Like, you're the daughter of a president who was beloved by workers who were challenging the elite, and. And he's still celebrated by people who were alive then. And you don't really want to do it, but you have to do it. Do you have any insights into how she felt when she was actually leading the funeral procession?
Rich Benjamin
The insight I do have is, as human beings, we expect our parents to protect us. And in his case, he failed miserably. He failed miserably to protect her from the emotional harm. He failed to protect her from the physical harm and the violence. And he was in a sort of denial and disbelief and anger at what had happened to her. And this was never resolved, in my opinion. And so, as you point out, once he's finally able to return to Haiti in 1986. She's put in the difficult, ironic position as his eldest daughter to lead the funeral procession for him. So we can imagine what a complicated position that is, because on the one hand, your father has died, you're attending his funeral, but on the other hand, you're asked to mourn a deadbeat who had left your mother and you for a younger woman and throughout his whole life had failed to protect her from.
Terry Gross
Violence, including his own, because he beat her.
Rich Benjamin
Including his own. And, Terry, I want to return to this other point you made of his being popular and beloved, but that's outside his house doors and less popular and cruel inside his house doors. To this day. He's still beloved. To this day. You can go to Haiti and find older Haitians who will say, I remember this man. I remember what he did for my family. And to this day, you can meet Haitians in Boston, in Washington and New York who say, this was a beloved hero who I looked up to. I was at a book signing at a New York public library. A woman came up to me, and she said, my name is Danielle. And when my mother was pregnant, she was cheering in, a vocal fan of your grandfather, Daniel Finolay. And therefore my name became Danielle. This woman is still in Brooklyn. And so he was this beloved, popular figure outside his home, but inside his home, he was a bit of a monster and a ghost.
Terry Gross
When you went to Haiti after the 2010 earthquake, you went to a high school that was named after your grandfather. And I should add here that there was a period after he was overthrown when you weren't allowed to print his name.
Rich Benjamin
Yes. Duvalier made it a crime to speak that man's name, to print his name, or to reproduce his image. And that's what happens in autocracies. They were fierce, fierce rivals. But, Terry, when I did return to Haiti in 2010 on this discovery to do this research, I had no idea that there was a high school named after my grandfather, Daniel Finolet. And what a surprise. So I couldn't help myself. I went to visit that high school and see what it was like. Sadly, that high school had suffered devastating casualties after the 2010 earthquake. So at one point, it was a very prestigious high school. It was considered one of the best public high schools in Haiti. But once the earthquake struck, you know, it was reduced to kind of rubble. And there I was, myself, to visit the high school, to visit with the students and to see what it was like, and it was devastating.
Terry Gross
Tell us what your mother taught you about education and how it should make you uncomfortable.
Rich Benjamin
My mother taught me that education is not meant to be safe. And she meant this in a double braided sense. Education is not meant to make you feel safe. And once you are educated, you are meant to make others feel unsafe. In other words, power is knowledge. And you don't just use education idly, you use education to make the world a better place. But we never believed in safe spaces. Education wasn't safe for her father, education wasn't safe for her, and education wasn't meant to be safe for me, in other words.
Terry Gross
Well, why wasn't it safe for them?
Rich Benjamin
Oh my goodness. My education was not safe for my grandfather because when he became a professor, he was a vocal critic against various regimes. And he was such a vocal critic against one of the regimes, the Lescaut regime, at the time that he was fired for his teaching. He was fired for being a pro black, pro working class professor. And so education wasn't safe for him in that sense. And education wasn't meant to be safe for me in the sense that I was always encouraged to get out of my comfort zone to learn things that might make me uncomfortable, to learn things that might make me unsafe about other ideas, about other people, about other culture. But then I wasn't just meant to, you know, make money simply off that education. I was meant to make others feel unsafe and uncomfortable with that education by being a learned citizen.
Terry Gross
What do you mean by that?
Rich Benjamin
Well, by that I mean you don't sleepwalk through the current moment, you don't sleepwalk through current affairs. You don't accept the narratives that your government is telling you about how things should be. You speak out, you teach others. That's what I mean by that. And frankly, Terry, now it's a very good lesson to have had in these days.
Terry Gross
You became an activist, you worked for the think tank TIMOS for a while. Progressive think tank.
Rich Benjamin
I did. I worked for a progressive think tank that was deeply devoted to Democracy Forum, that was deeply devoted so that more voters can vote. It was deeply devoted to improving voter access by all kinds of means. And then it was also devoted to economic opportunity. What can we do in this society so that there's not these vast disparities of wealth inequality, the minimum wage being the most obvious example. And when I speak out, Terry, another example was from 2008 to 2014, I used to be a regular commentator on Fox News on the calculation that that network had a sliver of its audience that was reasonable, fair minded and persuadable. So I would go on FOX News to talk about everything from sensible regulation on Wall street, police brutality, raising the federal minimum wage, immigrant rights, you name it. And so these are examples of using an education to be useful in the world.
Terry Gross
I'm just curious. I don't want to get too caught up in this, but did you feel like you were being effective, that you were reaching a sliver of fox's audience?
Rich Benjamin
I did. I did. And the measurement of that, Terry, was the emails I would receive sometimes, and I shouldn't even say sometimes, often I would receive emails from FOX viewers who said, hey, I hadn't thought of that. You made me think of this issue in a different way. And if I'm frank, I once got a handwritten note from a FOX News host who said, thank you for presenting the issues in a way that I respect, even if I may not always agree with you and, and that my viewers can respect. And by the way, that happened to be Neil Cavuto. So I did always try to use my voice in a productive way, and sometimes it worked, and sometimes I do better.
Terry Gross
Did you get a lot of hate mail?
Rich Benjamin
Oh, Terry, the hate mail. Where do I begin? And often, Terri, I would measure my success by the heat and the volume of the hate mail. So oftentimes, if I felt that I bested Bill O'Reilly in a debate in his prime time, my social in my inbox would blow up. And you could summarize that vitriol in a couple words. It's always like and I knew that the media appearance and my words had been successful to the extent that it got under people's skin. So the response was often vitriolic. And to me, that didn'tit didn't faze me. Oftentimes I could get such a vitriolic response and then sleep like a lamb.
Terry Gross
What did your mother, growing up in America after the age of 13, tell you about race in America and about colorism? And I ask about colorism in part because your grandfather, one of his goals was to help lead in opposition to the mulatto elite. And mulatto was the word used in Haiti. So if you had whiteness in your background, you were more likely to be in the elite. So what does she teach you about race and colorism?
Rich Benjamin
My mother taught me some very profound and useful lessons about race, and that is that I was not to be defined by my skin color and I was not to allow others to define me by my skin color. And she always had this wonderful, sometimes unspoken lesson for me is as a black person, Richard, you don't pick a fight because of your skin color, but you also don't run from one. And so race is just one aspect of who I am. So both her and her father also thought in terms of class and poverty and not just colorism. But colorism is a fascinating thing and it still exists. Haiti to some extent. And as you pointed out, Terry, it's those who look more European from the colonial descendants often had more money and financial advantage in birth. And the dark skinned masses tend to be the laborers who are working the fields, who are working the factories, who are working as domestics in people's home. And those were the brawn and substance of my grandfather's labor unions.
Terry Gross
Let's take another break here. If you're just joining us, my guest is Rich Benjamin, author of the new memoir Talk to Me. We'll be right back after a short break. I'm Terry Gross, and this is FRESH AIR.
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Your father was originally from guinea in Africa, and while you were in high school, he got a job in guinea, which he really wanted to take. He really wanted to return. And he was an economist. He took the job. Your mother went with him. And you're right, there were virtually like no schools or colleges in guinea at the time. So you and your siblings stayed behind and your grandmother moved in to take care of you and you felt pretty abandoned, similarly to how your mother felt abandoned by her father. Can you talk about that period and what it was like to know that your mother was in another country while you were still in the U.S. yes.
Rich Benjamin
So during those high school years, she was off in Africa as my father was. And Terry, you think about kind of the yearly rituals that any high school person has, the annual birthdays, the annual homecoming dances, the football games and whatnot. And so they were gone for all of that. And they were gone, albeit helping the world and helping other people's children. They had humanitarian jobs.
Terry Gross
Yeah. Your mother ran UNICEF programs in several African countries.
Rich Benjamin
She ran UNICEF programs. She ran. And it's a refrain I noticed because my grandfather said Haiti was his one greatest love. And my father said helping other people was also his greatest love. And so it's just a tension in this book about helping other children versus the ones under your roof.
Terry Gross
When you were a young man, you didn't want people to know that your mother was from Haiti. And there's a scene in your book early on where you're in a taxi with your then boyfriend and the cab driver detected a Caribbean accent and asked if you were from Haiti. And you said, no, I'm from New York. And he said, well, where are you originally from? And you said, new York. And he said, you have a Haitian accent. You have a Haitian face. But you didn't want to tell him you were Haitian. Why not?
Rich Benjamin
My whole life, Haiti has been associated with dread. You know, we remember in the 1980s, the Haitian boat people. We remember the accusations that Haitians bought AIDS to the United States.
Terry Gross
Yeah. And the boat people were people trying to escape Haiti on, like, little makeshift boats heading toward the U.S. exactly.
Rich Benjamin
Exactly. But that was a thing when I was growing up. So it was, you know, Haitians with aids, Haitian who are boat people. And the other stigma was a kind of condescending pity for Haitians, and perhaps that was the most important. And so my boyfriend in the cab at the time, he said, oh, my God, a Haitian nanny raised me. Poor, poor people. But what a resilient people. And I think that was characteristic of many people's attitude at the time is on the one hand, there's this deep antipathy and anti Haitian ness, but on the other hand, there's a kind of cloying and condescending pity for the country. And so for those reasons, I didn't care to be associated as a quote, unquote, Haitian American.
Terry Gross
When did you change your mind about that?
Rich Benjamin
Returning from Haiti in 2010, when I could actually visit the place. When I could actually understand through my research, through the CIA files, through my grandfather's life, through my mother's life. That's when I changed my mind about Haiti. I think part of the joy of this book is it's really not a trauma memoir, and I hate that word, trauma. It's really about survival. It's really about people stumbling and rising through America. And it's really the ways that my mother is such a resilient survivor. And so those two are linked in my mind, Terry, learning what resilient survivors my grandfather was and my mother was, that changed my mind about Haiti.
Terry Gross
So you went to Wesleyan University, and there you joined the fraternity Delta Kappa Epsilon, which is, I think, the same fraternity that George W. Bush had been in. Yes, indeed. And this was during a period which we're probably still in, of, like, a lot of drinking. And were you out when you were in that fraternity?
Rich Benjamin
No, I was not.
Terry Gross
Yeah, because fraternities are so much about big frat parties with lots of beer and more beer and even more beer. And it's all about, like, meeting girls and hooking up with girls. So I'm trying to figure out what that experience was like for you, being gay and being in a fraternity like that.
Rich Benjamin
It's ironic to think about in looking back, I think I pledged that fraternity for the beer and the more beer. And there were some nice guys in the fraternity, but also there was this atmosphere of secrecy and confidentiality in that fraternity in particular, but all fraternities. And that appealed to me. That appealed to me.
Terry Gross
So you were hiding being gay and maybe also hiding being Haitian American.
Rich Benjamin
Yes, but fraternities are also. You're not meant to discuss what happens inside the hollow halls of a fraternity. And so it was just another layer of confidentiality and secrets and privacy that really I liked at the time, you know, being a young man. And of course, I'm tricking my face off. Of course I'm doing keg stands. Of course we're dancing, dancing to De La Soul. But it's also that idea, an atmosphere of privacy and secrecy that I loved.
Terry Gross
Were you still having to perform, being somebody who you weren't?
Rich Benjamin
I was, yes.
Terry Gross
What was the performance like?
Rich Benjamin
Well, in fairness to the fraternity, I think looking back, a lot of people were performing. You know, you're a young guy, you're performing being a football player, you're performing, being popular for other people. I'm performing what I'm performing. And so college is just a life of a lot of performance, faking it till you make it. And many people just being different people. All that being said, college is also where I. And many people. You're most authentic because they really take the guardrails off and you let loose. You have no parental supervision. And so I formed some really close friendships in college because we're very much ourselves. We're all having our hair down, and we're living far from home among each other for the first time.
Terry Gross
And everybody's trying out new personalities, trying to figure out who they are away from their parents if they're going to out of town, college especially.
Rich Benjamin
And that's why we're there.
Terry Gross
That's right. You want them to get as far away as possible.
Rich Benjamin
Yes.
Terry Gross
Yeah. So when you started going to gay bars, it was during the AIDS epidemic, which is such a difficult time to start your sexual life. You must have been afraid of getting aids. At the same time you really wanted to have a sex life.
Rich Benjamin
Yes, for me, that was also a harrowing aspect of survival in that anytime I got a cough, anytime I got a scratchy throat, anytime I got a pimple, which I would think was a lesion, I would go into this panic, do I have hiv? And it was, yeah, it was an awful time to come to one's sexuality. And I have to keep perspective. I have to have gratitude because the generation before me, they were literally going to funerals once a week. They literally lost whole dozens of friendships to the pandemic. And that didn't happen to me. I'm HIV negative and I was able to really come into my sexuality at the end of it. And now they're drugs anyway. But still, it was not pleasant.
Terry Gross
Well, we have to take a short break here, so let me reintroduce you. If you're just joining us, my guest is Rich Benjamin. He's the author of the new book Talk to Me. We'll be right back after a short break. This is FRESH air. When you started going to gay bars, you also started using a lot of cocaine. Did you have an end of the world feeling because of the AIDS epidemic? So party now.
Rich Benjamin
Yes, indeed. You know, when I was young, there was this atmosphere of hedonism and death. There was a sense that I would not live past 40. And so I had this mentality, burn the candle hard at both ends, live fast, die young in the way you think of James Dean or Jimi Hendrix or Janis Joplin. So I went at it hard. I went at it hard. But also I was born with a blood disorder called sickle cell anemia. And when I was born, the life expectancy for children with sickle cell anemia, assuming they survived their childhood, was 40 years old. So I grew up not taking life for granted and kind of thinking I'd be dead by 41 anyway, so you might as well enjoy yourself. Right.
Terry Gross
In that period when you were a young man and going in using a lot of cocaine, you got arrested because you were very high. You saw a Mercedes and go ahead, tell the story, it was one of.
Rich Benjamin
These classic gay Manhattan nights on the town. And we'd been at a club called the Roxy that has three floors. And I was just in this kind of lucid, elusive luster, and I just saw a Mercedes that looked like a spaceship to me at that time, in my hallucinatory state. And I remember the dashboard was gleaming, and it looked pretty like a spaceship. And I tried to mount and get in the Mercedes, but its owners were feet away, to my detriment, and they yanked me out of the car and they proceeded to pound the crap out of me.
Terry Gross
Then the police came and took you to the Manhattan detention center known as the Tombs. What was the cell like?
Rich Benjamin
And I'll never forget this as long as I live. The cell was tiny, and there were four people crammed into the cell, and there was a latrine in the middle of the cell. And I'd never been to a cell like that, so it was especially more stark and jarring, and so it stank like feces. There's empty rolls of toilet paper. And there I was in the middle of the cell, and I remember there was plaster coming off the walls. It was horrible.
Terry Gross
Did that experience change your life? Like, how long were you in jail? And did that experience change you in any way?
Rich Benjamin
The funny thing is, it felt like I was in jail for three days. But when I document it, because I went back and got the police record, in fact, I was only in jail for 36 hours. So it did change my life. It changed my life. I understood leaving that jail, that my life was on the wrong trajectory. And also at that point in my life, it was just a confluence of forces that really shook me up and made me put my life back on track. And that was my twin sister gave birth to her firstborn, and my best friend gave birth to her firstborn, and I became the godfather of both children. And to me, that was a deep, profound spiritual blessing. And it told me it's one thing if I was going to ruin my own life and set that off course, but I wasn't going to do that to Godchildren. And so I got on the straight and narrow, and since then, I haven't had any trouble.
Terry Gross
If you're just joining us, my guest is Rich Benjamin. He's the author of the new book, Talk to Me. I want to ask you about an earlier book you wrote in 2009. It was called Searching for White An Improbable Journey into the Heart of White America. What did you consider Whitetopia, A white version of utopia. And what was your goal in writing the book? What did you really want to learn?
Rich Benjamin
I literally delineated the fastest growing and widest communities in this country. And once I did that, I packed my bags and embarked on a 27,000 mile journey that lasted two years to the widest, fastest growing communities in America.
Terry Gross
You were threading back and forth. If it was 27,000 miles, it was.
Rich Benjamin
It was a lot of travel. I got a lot of freaking flyer miles and I just embedded myself. It was a project of hanging out. It was a project of deep immersion. And I just wanted to learn what these communities are like, why they were growing so fast and why they were so white.
Terry Gross
Did you get any answers to those questions?
Rich Benjamin
I did.
Terry Gross
What were they?
Rich Benjamin
I learned about racial segregation that largely wasn't consciously racial. People were lured by these towns for better homes, more home for your dollar, beautiful natural resources, lakes, running trails, hospitals. And yet there was a lot of implicit bias. It was kind of White Flight 3.0. And these places are Coeur d'alene, Idaho, Forsyth County, Georgia, St. George, Utah. There are a lot of whitopias in Wisconsin and Minnesota. And so some experts call these the excerpts. But they're not just the excerpts. They're white excerpts that are getting even whiter. And the prescience of this book was to understand what a big deal immigration is to these residents, these white voters, and to learn how dissatisfied they were with the ways this country was going.
Terry Gross
Tell us more about what you found about immigration.
Rich Benjamin
Oh, my goodness. For example, when I was in St. George, Utah, I sat in on a local group called the Citizens council against illegal immigration. And every week, local people would convene to figure out how they could combat immigration. And I interviewed them, and they would say things like, the California of my youth isn't what it is now. And I'm using their words now. It's just overridden and infested by immigrants. And so they were battering down the hatches. They felt that places like California, Texas and Florida were becoming too brown and too immigrant. And so they would go to these Whitopias and they would discuss immigration.
Terry Gross
I know there were a lot of golf courses in the places that you visited, and you played golf with a whole lot of people who you interviewed. What about guns?
Rich Benjamin
There was a huge gun culture in Whitopia in Kootenai County. There were more gun dealers than gas stations when I was there. And so there's this idolatry of guns and the second amendment. And surely enough, after I'd written these books, these issues of immigration and property values and guns just blew up. And by the way, I learned a lot about people's antipathy towards the government in these communities. And so what the book does is it really is prescient in terms of the Tea Party movement that would come about, and it was prescient in terms of Trumpism.
Terry Gross
So what did you learn in terms of thoughts about diversity? Because right now there's an emphasis of cutting diversity, equity and inclusion DEI throughout the federal government.
Rich Benjamin
At the time. On my journey through Whitopia, I learned that people liked diversity only in cultural forms, in terms of what television shows they were watching, in terms of what food they could eat. But when diversity came in the form of actual human beings, that's when things got sticky. And so another thing that the book could really suss out is the antipathy towards diversity that would really flare in these communities. At the time, I remember vividly interviewing people and I would hear things like, what's the wrong with homogeneity if neighborhoods shake out like this? What's wrong with that? And they would say things like, diversity is a challenge to excellence. It's all about the content of character. So in those days, there was a refusal to think about things like implicit bias. There was a refusal to think about how communities are zoned and designed to exclude people, that is apartment owners. And so diversity was this thing that was poorly discussed, and it's not surprising that it's under attack now.
Terry Gross
So what was it like for you as a black man to be in the communities that you describe as Whitopia?
Rich Benjamin
It was very dissonant because on one level, people were kind. I did go golfing, I did go bowling. I did go fishing with a lot of these residents, and they really did open their homes to me. And it just brings up this caustic saying, one black man is a delightful dinner guest. Fifty black men is a ghetto. And so, as I said, managed forms of comfortable diversity are okay in these communities. But when you think about tipping points and diversity that they can't control, that's when it becomes scary and authoritarian.
Terry Gross
Well, we have to take a short break here, so let me reintroduce you. If you're just joining us, my guest is Rich Benjamin. He's the author of the new book Talk to Me. We'll be right back after a short break. This is FRESH air. So getting back to Haiti for a minute, after your grandfather was removed from the presidency by the military and it was a coup that the US Had a hand in the Eisenhower administration. When you look at what happened to Haiti afterward, when you look at President Duvalier, who was a brutal dictator, and when you look at, like, the chaos now with gangs having taken over the capital, Port au Prince, do you wonder what Haiti might have been like if your grandfather had remained president?
Rich Benjamin
I do. I do. Because when he was ousted in 1957, that was a tender moment in the life cycle of that country. And I think those 40 years, let's say from 1957 on, were critical. And I think if those 40 years had gone in a different direction, I believe the country would have been better off. And would he have been the best president of Haiti? I don't know. But I do know that Haiti went in that wrong dictatorial direction precisely at the wrong moment because Haiti was on an upward trajectory. It was, it was a vacation destination to rival Jamaica at the time, to rival Cuba at the time. It had glamour, people were educated, people read. It had all this foreign tourism. And so had he been president and not had the country not lost those critical 40 years, it would be way better off. And also the brain drain. So many capable Haitians were either murdered or they were just ousted from the country. And so all these countries, especially America and Canada, are benefiting from these Haitian Americans, and actual Haiti is not. And it's difficult to calculate that devastating loss of brain power, devotion and human capital that Haiti lost under the dictatorship. And in part, we're seeing the consequences of that. And it's not at all to say that they're not educated, capable, intelligent people there. Now, clearly there are, but I'm talking about volume and magnitude.
Terry Gross
Well, Rich Benjamin, it's been a pleasure to talk with you. Thank you so much.
Rich Benjamin
Thank you for having me. It's been a pleasure to talk to you.
Terry Gross
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Fresh Air Episode Summary: "A Family Forged By Haiti's Coup"
Introduction
In the February 20, 2025 episode of Fresh Air, host Terry Gross engages in a profound conversation with Rich Benjamin, the author of the memoir Talk to Me: Lessons from a Family Forged by History. Benjamin delves into his family's tumultuous history intertwined with Haiti's political landscape, his personal journey of understanding his heritage, and the broader implications of race, activism, and identity in America.
Family History and Haiti's Coup
Rich Benjamin opens up about a harrowing family legacy rooted in Haiti's political upheaval. He recounts how his grandfather was appointed president of Haiti in 1957 by a temporary government but was swiftly overthrown by a military coup just 19 days after taking office. The violent overthrow involved soldiers storming a cabinet meeting, forcibly removing his grandfather, and coercing his father to sign a resignation letter. During this chaos, Benjamin's mother, then 13 years old, was kidnapped, taken to barracks, and raped by soldiers—a trauma that profoundly affected her for the rest of her life.
Rich Benjamin (00:12): "My mother never got over the terror of that day."
Benjamin's exploration into his family's past led him to sue the U.S. State Department for access to classified documents. These documents revealed that the Eisenhower administration played a significant role in orchestrating the coup, highlighting the United States' involvement in destabilizing Haiti's legitimate government.
Rich Benjamin (05:00): "They knew this man is going to be deposed. They know he's the legitimate leader of Haiti, and yet they're granting him visas to facilitate his being kidnapped and ejected."
Impact of the Coup and Duvalier’s Dictatorship
Following the coup, François "Papa Doc" Duvalier was elected president, marking the beginning of a ruthless dictatorship that lasted until 1971. Duvalier's regime was characterized by severe oppression, suppression of dissent, and the establishment of a reign of terror.
Rich Benjamin (05:49): "He was president for how many years? It was very swift, his dictatorship... he ruled from 1957 to 1971. And that, as you point out, Terry, it was a reign of terror."
Benjamin discusses the dichotomy of his grandfather's public persona versus his private life. While his grandfather was beloved and respected as a labor leader who fought for workers' rights, he was also abusive and neglectful within his own family.
Rich Benjamin (10:03): "Including his own. And, Terry, I want to return to this other point you made of his being popular and beloved, but that's outside his house doors and less popular and cruel inside his house doors."
Personal Trauma and Family Dynamics
The episode delves into the emotional scars left by the coup and the family's subsequent silence about the trauma. Benjamin reveals that it wasn't until his visit to Haiti after the 2010 earthquake that he began to understand the depth of his family's history and its impact on his identity.
Rich Benjamin (07:00): "I found out subsequently through a different visit to Brooklyn when we talked about it. But the main thrust of this story and the main discovery of this story is just growing up, I had no idea, period, about what went on in Haiti."
Benjamin's mother eventually returned to Haiti to lead his grandfather's funeral procession in 1986, a role that placed her in a conflicted position given her unresolved anger towards her father.
Rich Benjamin (08:55): "As human beings, we expect our parents to protect us. And in his case, he failed miserably... So we can imagine what a complicated position that is..."
Educational Philosophy and Activism
Benjamin shares insights from his mother's teachings about education being a tool for empowerment rather than comfort. He emphasizes the importance of using education to challenge societal norms and advocate for change.
Rich Benjamin (12:41): "Education is not meant to be safe. And she meant this in a double braided sense. Education is not meant to make you feel safe. And once you are educated, you are meant to make others feel unsafe."
His activism is further highlighted through his work with the progressive think tank TIMOS, focusing on voter access and economic opportunities, as well as his role as a commentator on Fox News, where he engaged with diverse audiences to discuss critical issues.
Rich Benjamin (15:04): "I worked for a progressive think tank... improving voter access by all kinds of means."
Experiences with Race and Identity
Benjamin discusses the complexities of race and colorism, both in Haiti and the United States. He reflects on his mother's lessons about not being defined by skin color and the societal biases that persist.
Rich Benjamin (18:50): "My mother taught me some very profound and useful lessons about race, and that is that I was not to be defined by my skin color and I was not to allow others to define me by my skin color."
He also touches on his personal experiences with identity during his time at Wesleyan University, navigating fraternity life as a gay Haitian American amidst prevalent stereotypes and stigmas.
Rich Benjamin (23:28): "My whole life, Haiti has been associated with dread... I didn't care to be associated as a quote, unquote, Haitian American."
Reflections on Haiti’s Trajectory
Benjamin contemplates the "what if" scenario of Haiti's development had his grandfather remained in power. He believes that if Haiti had not been subjected to the dictatorship, the country might have experienced a more positive trajectory, avoiding the brain drain and political instability that followed.
Rich Benjamin (41:41): "I believe the country would have been better off. It’s difficult to calculate that devastating loss of brain power, devotion, and human capital that Haiti lost under the dictatorship."
Conclusion
Rich Benjamin's Talk to Me serves as a poignant exploration of family legacy, national identity, and the enduring effects of political turmoil. Through his personal narrative, Benjamin sheds light on the broader themes of resilience, the quest for justice, and the intricate dance between personal and political histories.
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Final Thoughts
This episode of Fresh Air offers a deep and moving account of how historical events shape personal identities and family narratives. Rich Benjamin's journey of uncovering his past not only illuminates the shadow of Haiti's political struggles but also resonates with universal themes of healing, understanding, and the power of storytelling.