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saving tips I wish I'd Learned sooner.
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Welcome to the Frugal Friends podcast where you'll learn to save money, embrace simplicity and live a richer life. Are your hosts Jen and Jill.
Jen
Welcome, Frugal Friends. I'm Jen.
Jill
I'm Jill.
Jen
And we haven't always been money saving experts. We've always been more on the frugal side. I mean, we've been doing this for eight years now, but we haven't and still don't always feel like we're experts because we're always learning. So we wanted to do an episode today. Maybe you're young, maybe just new to frugality, but some money saving tips that we wish we'd learned sooner or at least knew and wish we had valued sooner.
Jill
Yeah, these are the tips that maybe we misinterpreted or looked down upon or maybe just didn't know. And so we want to share them with you to pick what works. Again, we're not saying you've got to do all of these, but maybe it sparks an interest in. Oh, I've never tried that one before. Let me see if it works.
Jen
Yeah, but first, my birthday is coming up and I would like you to get me something for my birthday. And it's a subscription to our YouTube channel. Yep, that's it. That's all. And I want us to get to 10,000 subscribers by my birthday on May 9th. And I won't know if we're there because we record these so far in advance. So I'm hoping that we're close, but I would really love 10,000 subscribers. So if you're already subscribed to the channel, thank you. Grab somebody you love's phone and subscribe from there because, you know, they need to hear this. It's just like a little subtle, like, here you go, here you go, girl. And if you're not subscribed, what are you waiting for? Come. Come to the club. Come to the frugal side.
Jill
And if for some reason we've blown up by then and we have far surpassed 10,000 subscribers, so subscribe. Show the love. Because, you know, my birthday is going to happen in August and I'm going to have a goal.
Jen
Yeah, or you're going to be able to get that for her for her birthday. Yeah, exactly. But my birthday's first. I am.
Jill
You are older.
Jen
I am three and a half months older.
Jill
Older and wiser. All right, here we go. Fifteen things.
Jen
All right. So the first is something that hit me very, very hard, very personally, and I think that you might be able to rel you listening to this? Buy quality things you use every day. So there has been this struggle for me. Like, when I was young, I would buy the cheapest thing because I had no money. Right. So I had to buy the cheapest thing. And that went with me even when I did get some more money. And that helped us invest faster and more, and that was great. There are definitely some things that I wish I had chosen quality over quantity for. So then I had this swing in the other direction where it's like, okay, I'm just going to get quality everything. I'm not buying a lot. I already have the number of purchases under control, so I'm just going to buy quality. And then I was really disappointed how the quote unquote quality just did not seem worth it. And we did an episode on this, like, why everything sucks now. I was an inspiration for a whole episode. Right.
Jill
Episode.
Jen
So. So I have found this pendulum shift in the radical middle of buying quality things that you're going to in the categories you use every day. So the things that I wish I'd bought in quality when I was younger are these things I'm using every day. So, like, one of them I lucked out on was our. Our house, our first home. We had a budget, and it was really low and ended up exceeding it by about $30,000, which was still reasonable. And I'm super glad that we did that. That's something like we do, you know, are living in every day. That is not permission for you to go out and buy a big home that you can't afford because you're trying to keep up with the Joneses. Okay, that's not what I'm talking about here. But I think I would have been really miserable in the type of home because we wanted a very small two one, you know, needed to renovate all of that, but instead we were able to get a 3:2 that was fully renovated, and that was really great. I'm glad that. That we did that. And the things that I regret getting quality are things that I don't really use every day. They're things that I like, don't. I can use like a shirt. I. Old Navy shirts are really fine for me. I buy them thrifted, and they last a long time for me because I'm not buying a lot of these shirts. I'm not wearing them every single day. These tank tops are from Quince I wear every single day. I want them to be quality. So I. Does that make sense?
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Jill
I think it's a big mindset shift for a lot of us. There might be certain tools or maybe jewelry, watches, these things that we think that's what I need to spend a lot of money on. I remember for us in particular, we wanted to get a pressure washer when we had our house. And I think we spent a decent amount on the pressure washer. And now looking back, I'm like, we used it maybe five times total in the five years that we lived there. We probably didn't have to spend as much on that, but really where we should be spending the money on. And thankfully we did on a good blender that I do use every single day, a good knife set. I use it every single day. That's one of the things that's going to keep us cooking in the kitchen. So rather than spending on the things that seem like, okay, I am only going to buy this one time, but I'm not going to use it all the time. Shift that over to let me actually spend some money here, make sure it's quality, too. Because expensive doesn't always mean quality.
Jen
Right?
Jill
Do your research.
Jen
Tools and pressure washer. That's a great example, because there are some people who use their tools a lot, and tools are something you do want to be good quality. If you're Using them frequently. But if you're not using tools frequently, if you're so like, everybody needs like maybe a good power drill. Right. Because that you do use pretty frequently. But like all the other tools, borrow them.
Jill
The camping gear, I feel like camping gear would be a big one. People think I needed to be so good. How many times you go on camping? Are you going camping every day?
Jen
Yeah.
Jill
Spend that money on the things you're going to use every single day. But that doesn't mean that we still have to spend a ton of money because used still exist.
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Jill
So, yeah, shoes, good quality shoes.
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Jill
Go to a local running store, support local, or check out relay Goods. It's possible that somebody else bought a pair of shoes and they wore them once, but they are really good quality and they're just, they don't work for them. And so now they've got them on Relay Goods. Mattresses. This is a big one. Test mattresses can be resold. It's actually one of our affiliates.
Jen
Yeah.
Jill
One of our affiliates is Sharetown. If you, if you're looking for a side hustle, a lot of these mattress delivery companies will allow you to return them.
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Jill
Free 90 day returns. Well, what actually happens to them is somebody like a representative from Sharetown comes and picks up the mattress and then they themselves resell it on Facebook Marketplace or any other, you know, used marketplace, and they've never been used. When you're scrolling Facebook Marketplace and you see these mattresses and you're like, I don't know if I trust it. If they're from somebody who picked them up from a. Somebody just tested it out for a week and didn't like it, I'm not as concerned about that. I will totally buy that mattress. So consider that if there's a brand that you're looking at, but it's so expensive, chances are there's a representative from a place like Share Count. And if that's a side hustle you're interested in, we'll put the link in in the show notes. But things like that consider secondhand. All right, number two, learn to cook five to 10 really easy. Go to meals. We're not saying you need to learn how to become a chef. Just figure out what you like to eat, what you know how to cook, what uses minimal ingredients and takes minimal time. Guaranteed you can find five to ten of those recipes. I just made dinner last night. A Korean beef, beef and rice bowl. You've heard me talk about this once on my regular rotation. It all took me 15 minutes, minutes. 10 minutes for the rice, 12 minutes for the meat. Obviously I'm doing that simultaneously. 15 minutes total. That if I had done takeout, it wouldn't have been. It wouldn't have been to me for 30 minutes. Like it was faster than takeout. It was easy. Find those meals for you. That's gonna save you a ton of money. And the decision fatigue of what are we eating? It's on rotation, baby.
Jen
Yeah. I really thought that I had to be like the homemaker. And I think with the rise of trad wife content, it's gotten more stressful to cook because every dish you see on social media is beautiful. And I think getting out of the mindset of like, okay, everything's got to be picture perfect, it's got to be Instagramable. And being like maybe one per week, one every other week can be this like really beautiful and like life giving feast.
Jill
Yeah.
Jen
But most of them are just like the go to meals.
Jill
Yeah.
Jen
Like I think that is the mindset. Like I had to get into next shop your house first and other houses. So this kind of ties back to number one. Just because we're not buying good quality on everything. Like, if it's a tool, I still want to use good quality. But if I'm not going to use a lot, doesn't need to be. Doesn't that doesn't translate to, then I will buy a cheap one. No, it translates to, how can I get this for free? Can I borrow it from a tool library? Can I borrow it from a friend's house? And then also like, is the problem really something that needs to be solved by spending money at all? I waste a lot of money because I would buy the solution to my problems without actually asking myself, is it a problem? So first ask, is this, is this truly a problem? An occasional inconvenience is not a problem. You may just need to occasionally be inconvenienced. So I bought red curry paste for the first time. And it's because I cook Thai food, like occasionally. But I never bought the curry paste because I always had curry powder. And it came to a point where I was like, you know what, I cook this enough to where it does like warrant me getting like the special extra fancy thing. And so I finally like, invest in it. But I was like, if this is going to be an occasional inconvenience where I have to do a substitute, I'm going to be occasionally inconvenienced. And once it became something in my regular rotation, then I invested in the ingredients. So allowing These occasional inconveniences to like sit in your life allows us to get creative with new uses for items you already have or can cause you to ask a friend if you can borrow something of theirs that you need. So there's just like a lot of different solutions. You can also like in the getting creative sphere, you can like just shop your home for things. So garage, pantry, storage bins, search your city library of things, buy nothing groups. So there's a lot of options before you just buy something.
Jill
That should not be our first go to.
Jen
No.
Jill
Number four is to stop paying for convenience. Just because we can doesn't mean that we should. And convenience fees are everywhere. It's one of the ways that businesses profit the most is by simply sneaking in all of these additional fees, but also by having us pay for things that are just going to make our lives feel easier. That can include delivery apps. So the I need this thing to come straight to my door rather than me going out and purchasing it. I get it. Sometimes there are occasional times you're super sick, you just had a baby. Those are the two times that you can.
Jen
I also think traveling. I've said traveling. Like if you're in a hotel, you don't have a car.
Jill
Right.
Jen
That could also be because it can be the same or sometimes cheaper than buying food or things at the hotel.
Jill
Okay. Those are the three times that we can get things delivered to us rather than going and getting them grocery delivery. We can do a grocery pickup. We can have someone else shop for us and we pick it up, but we don't have to pay that fee of them bringing it to our door. Again, unless you're traveling, you just had a baby, or you're the most sick you've ever been in your whole life.
Jen
Oh, because it's not just the delivery fee. You also have to tip on top of it. So it's. It's extra.
Jill
Yeah. Also, and this is a big one, Amazon paying to have Amazon prime just to get that free shipping. It's not free shipping. You're paying $140 a year.
Jen
Why are you paying $140 for free shipping? Why. Why are you paying Jeff Bezos to make it easier for you to impulse shop?
Jill
And here's the thing, it's not even two day delivery anymore. That used to be what Amazon stood upon, but now it's oh, sorry, this got delayed. It'll arrive when it arrives and there's no make good for that. So you're just, you're just paying to have the subscription. Who knows what it means?
Jen
I want to call you out by name. Susan. I don't know if it's a Susan. I just. That's the first name that comes to my mind. Yeah. Susan. Stop paying $140 for free shipping. You know, you get it if you just let your cart build up to where it gets free shipping. You know, you don't. You don't need all the other things Amazon prime offers. It's just like they're just throwing that stuff in there. It's meaningless. They are laughing at us. Stop it. And if your name is actually Susan and you felt slightly offended, I'm so sorry.
Jill
Tell her in the comments, subscribe and then tell her in the comment that you felt offended. Susan, I don't.
Jen
I don't have Amazon Prime. You're so rude.
Jill
Don't lump me in with all the other Susan. Isn't that your mother in law's? Name? Is her full name Susan?
Jen
Oh, my gosh, yes. My mother. I don't think she has Amazon Prime. I'm gonna be honest. I don't see Sue.
Jill
Right? Not all Susans have Amazon prime and
Jen
we know that she's a Sue. Okay? So I'm not talking to sue out there. If you're a Sue, I'm not talking to you. I'm talking to you, Susan. Moving on. So sorry. Okay. Plan ahead instead of the convenience fees. Yes. Okay. Number five. You don't have to know everything. This is shocking, but companies profit from our desire to know more about ourselves. And the global wearable technology market is expected to exceed $150 billion by 2028. And so these are our rings. Genetic testing, sleep trackers, biometric gadgets, all the stuff so that we can know every little thing about ourselves. And like, I got. I have an Apple watch and I track my steps, but I don't need to know anything beyond that. I actually get mad at it when it tells me things that I don't want to know. Like this one doesn't tell me it's too loud, but Travis's Apple Watch does. And I'm like, get. Get out of here. You don't know me. You don't know my life. You don't know how loud it is for me. You don't know me.
Jill
There is a measurable level of frequency.
Jen
It doesn't know me. Okay, okay.
Jill
Right.
Jen
So there are just some things you don't need to know. You don't need to know everything about yourself. You don't need to make it more complicated. Honestly. Movement Sleep and de stressing like making your life less stressful or doing things that alleviate stress. It's gonna be okay to live in ignorant bliss if you're doing like the 80% right, the 20%, which it, which these things track does not matter.
Jill
Oh, this one was a good one for me to hear because it's one of those biases when you see everybody out there having this thing particular the aura rings and you start to think, is that something I need too and to realize but what difference is it actually going to make in my behavior? Or is it just telling me a bunch of information that isn't going to move the needle any which way? That doesn't. You can make that decision if you want to make it. If you've got reasonings for it's fine. But also realize there might just be a bandwagon effect happening here of do you really need to know it? Is it really going to improve your life that much? I mean, I'm even thinking with security cameras, just our level of needing to know, needing to have a pulse on and how much does that then relate to increased levels of anxiety? Yes.
Jen
When we just right there.
Jill
No, so much more. We have access to so much more. We have reason to be concerned about so much more. Is it really helping us to sleep if we're just so anxious about what our ring is going to tell us the next morning and what was our temperature and yes, everything is wrong with me and it just is like we might know too much for our own good.
Jen
A hundred percent do agree.
Jill
Okay, wow, here we go. Number six. Here we go. You might not have expected to catch us saying this insurance is worth the cost. So this is one of those wish I had known sooner kind of a thing. That catastrophe really can ruin everything that we've worked for. So health insurance, renters and homeowners insurance, disability insurance, life insurance, full coverage, auto insurance. And for my Floridians, this is especially important. We need that collision because there are also so many uninsured motorists. And if you get into the worst possible situation situation and you're not covered for collision, that can be financially ruining. Also, disability is something that so many of us could potentially face. One in four workers will experience a disability before retirement, according to the Social Security Administration. And so not that, you know, we want to be always fearful of the worst possible thing, but to have some peace of mind to know that we, we would be covered in the event that we are out of work for six to 12 months, maybe longer. I think something like the Average disability is like 13 to 14 months long. And so that's a very. That is not how long most of us have an emergency fund for. Right. We always say three to six months. So that's not covering you for a disability. And that insurance doesn't have to be a lot of money. I also know people who rent and if you're not in a big complex and you don't, they don't require you to have renters insurance, thinking that the homeowner's insurance will cover them. So I actually knew somebody, I counseled somebody who had a fire in their building and they did not have renters insurance. And so they were not covered on anything that they lost. And it happened like, and sometimes you can't control that if you're sharing a space with other people, you just don't know what's going to happen. It could have cost them $200 a year and instead they're out thousands of dollars and now needing to replace everything that they had owned.
Jen
Yeah, you don't need every single insurance, but the ones that you do need are worth every penny. Seven is to avoid monthly payments whenever possible. You know, we just did an episode on the subscription crisis. It is, is truly a crisis how everything has gone from ownership, which was the foundation of the American dream. I want to remind everyone to now everything is rented. It's all subscription. If you stop paying a subscription, you lose access to things. And so streaming services, apps, car loans, payment plans, software. Not every subscription is bad. But the way that we are just like taking this lying down is insane. And it will only get worse. And companies will only be more and more frustrated by us not wanting them to take their money. Like actually putting up barriers between us and them. They just want to make it as easy as possible for them to take our money and we have to stop letting them just take it every single month. So using things like the library, doing just anything that you can to, to borrow or to share or so something like maybe it is a subscription that you do like paying. So like for me, I like to go to a gym and work out. I tried a couple months of working out at home and it just did not work for me. I, I realized I needed a gym membership, but I realized I don't use the tanning booth or the water massager or do any of the classes. So I don't need the highest tier or even the mid tier. I can do the $10 a month tier. And so yes, I had to pay an enrollment fee where all the other Ones were, you know, for no enrollment fee. But overall I'm paying less. If I look at the total cost, I am paying less doing the $10 a month one. And so that's what I switched to because I just don't want to take for granted like how easy these companies are, just like grabbing our money without us realizing.
Jill
Yeah, of course look at the total cost and your total usage. We don't want to be paying for an annual plan if we're not going to end up actually using it for the full year. So test the model. It could be better to just pay monthly and then cancel rather than have paid for a full year and not use it for more than half the year. So also consider that spring always makes
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Jill
Number eight is to track your big expenses, not necessarily every latte or coffee that you're getting. We love to talk about the big three expenses of housing, transportation, food. Although there's there is a fourth in there of insurance medical costs.
Jen
We've had to add a fourth in the recent past.
Jill
If you read our book, we talk about the big three. Now we're starting to talk about the big fourth. These are the areas that we spend the most money on every single month. And yet we often are nickel and diming ourselves and feeling so guilty for these three to eight dollars purchases every month. And not not to say that we shouldn't look at those, but we shouldn't start there. We need to be looking at what's taking the most of our monthly spending. It's probably these. For are there adjustments that we can be making to these? Of course it's going to be a lot of effort to make a housing adjustment, but maybe that's necessary. It's not going to be as common for us to make a transportation adjustment, but we are making those decisions every three to seven years and food decisions we are making every single day. So that's definitely a big one. Insurance costs. So look at these first, see if there's tweaks that can be made and then be concerned about your three to $10 purchases.
Jen
Yeah, for us a fifth category would be childcare and so something that we had to do was we potty trained Atlas like as early as possible so that we could get him into a VPK3 program so that we're saving $100 a week on childcare costs. So that's something that we had to be very cognizant of to save money in that situation. Nine is take care of things that you own. I don't know where we got we're in this throwaway culture obviously and the reason we got there is through marketing and normalization of throwing away things by comp like marketing from companies. I know how we got here, but that caused me to not be really good at taking care of my things because I didn't value them because I knew I could easily just throw them away and have immediate access to something new. And shiny and arguably, you know, maybe better quality. But we gotta stop doing that. We gotta. We gotta get out of the throwaway culture. We need to start taking care of our cars, our clothes, our appliances. I wanted to ignore the problem and just replace because it was easier. And like, I'm just a girl. But we have to. We. We can't. Whether you're a renter, a homeowner, or anything, we gotta take care of things not just for ourselves, but for the environment.
Jill
I think there's this kind of insidious thing that we assume that people don't have to maintain their stuff in order for them to always be working. And it's just not true. Those of us without housemaids, we do have to do the things. Like the Nespresso doesn't just continue to work for years and years. You've got to clean it out. You've got to descale it. You've got to look up the manual, watch YouTube videos to keep it working. You've got to do the resets on the phone and the computer. You've got to update things. You got to delete stuff. There is a maintenance required for these things that if we want them to last us a long time, this is what we need to do. Okay. Number 10 thrift stores are not the only place to buy used. You don't actually have to go in person to a thrift store and leave with an allergy attack. You can. It's kind of fun.
Jen
Oh, that's so real. So I have to take a Claritin 30 minutes before I walk into a thrift store, or it's game over.
Jill
I always have tissues on deck. But worth it. Here's other places you can go. Pawn shops. That's where this one got this pawn shop. This computer or your last computer?
Jen
My last computer. And it was not bad luck because we've been married 10 years. So take that.
Jill
Pawn shop, consignment stores. Oh, I'm not wearing it. That's where my ring is from. Just kidding. It's not there, but it.
Jen
It is.
Jill
I didn't lose it. I was like, cooking raw chicken. And anyhow, it's my life. Consignment stores is a great place to find clothing, jewelry, tech. There's all sorts of things that somebody might put at a consignment store. And usually it's going to be pretty good quality because the seller themselves is also still looking for a kickback.
Jen
The consignment stuff is so nice. Yeah, yeah.
Jill
Estate sales. Ooh, my friend, there are so many sites for finding estate sales. They are better than garage sales and yard sales still like them. But estate sales means we're selling the whole kit and caboodle. You get to walk through the house. That's also fun.
Jen
And.
Jill
And furniture and all of the different kitchen appliances and decor and rugs. I have found clothing. Yeah. Towels, not china, but nicer plates and dishes and cookware. It's amazing. And that one actually can double as a little bit of a fun Saturday activity. Auctions exist. So whether you do go live in person or there are online auctions actually Whatnot who we've talked about. Now they are a place to be able to buy used and they essentially do these live auctions on name brand things. So that's a cool way to be able to participate in an auction, but just from the comfort of your own home.
Jen
Don't get worked up in like the, you know, dopamine of it. But you can get better deals on whatnot than Poshmark if you're patient and you're not like impulse buying you.
Jill
I would recommend knowing what you're going to get.
Jen
Yes.
Jill
So, like I am going to go to Whatnot this week to look for an exercise set. Yeah, I am.
Jen
And I'm not sold on the brand. But you know, I know my sizes. I know like this person is only doing exercise stuff. And so I'm going to watch their auction show and. And the people on there like very nice sellers. They're just like sometimes I just like to watch them and just have them with me. Is that weird? Maybe.
Jill
But I got it. Ebay still exists. That's another online auction. Not live, but you can bid on things or just buy them outright and online. Special specialty stores like we already mentioned, relay goods for. For running equipment back market. You can just google the thing you're looking for and secondhand and it will pop up with all the different sites where you could find that thing. So don't just assume because it's not clothing you can't find it used. You probably can.
Jen
Okay, we got to speed this up. All right. 11. Almost anything can be repaired. I used to be this is in the same vein as maintenance, but I used to be afraid to repair broken things or buying used things that were broken. And now thank you to Travis. I mean, it's no problem. We'll buy it, we'll get the deal and then he'll just fix it. And you have to be sparing on this though, because you have to actually fix it.
Jill
Yeah, this could be a slippery Slope into hoarding. So don't just get it because it could be worth something if it got
Jen
it because you need it.
Jill
Yeah. Okay. Number 12. Avoid upgrades that don't significantly improve your life. So we are talking the phone upgrade, the vehicle upgrade, a bigger house than what you actually need. Just because you're due for an upgrade or just because the thing just got paid off does not mean it's time to replace the thing. Keep it. See how long it can last. Maintain it, repair it, Drive that thing into the ground and save that money.
Jen
Into the ground with yourself at the end of your life, you and your car buried together in the ground. I try to think back of my. To my childhood and be like, how content I was as a child. Like, I didn't know that I needed to spend money or upgrade. I was just, like, content as a child.
Jill
And so I talked for the commercials telling you all the things that you didn't know were out there to have.
Jen
Yeah, but that was toys, like, and now I'm an adult and I wasn't looking at houses. And so, like, try and think about that. Is like, you were content before you knew there was all this opportunity to buy stuff. 12 or sorry, 13. Shopping is not an activity. We write about this in our book, buy what you love without going broke. But there. I mean, there's very many. There's many reasons why shopping is positioned as an activity. And it started back in the 1920s and 30s where women had social groups and malls were like, actually, we want women to come shopping, so we will position the mall as the social group. And so then social, like, women's clubs and stuff deteriorated as women started being social at the mall and buying stuff to be social. That was intentionally engineered and we need to get away from it. Shopping is not an activity. It's not a, like, fun thing that we just do when we're bored. It's what we do when we need something.
Jill
Even though I did kind of call estate sales a fun activity, that's just because you get to walk through a house, only go to them if there's something specific that you are looking for. You can replace it with hobbies, things that you already own. You don't need to buy more things,
Jen
Do a hobby, hobby grade, go on
Jill
walks, Just do fun things with friends that are free in your area. Number 14. You don't have to pay off all your debt, but you probably should.
Jen
Okay. Thank you for giving that caveat. We were about to get obliterated, I think. I think for the.
Jill
We're about to get buried with our car.
Jen
Yeah. For the past couple episodes we've like made kind of references to like, you don't actually have to pay off all your debt. In our budget makeover, we were like, you can't afford to pay off your debt right now. Something needs to change. But like, ultimately we do think you probably should.
Jill
Yeah, Exactly. Jen had $78,000 of student loans that you did pay off in two years. But you did sacrifice a lot to
Jen
be able to do that. A lot of debt payoff, PTSD afterwards.
Jill
But it's important to look at the percentage or the percentage of interest that you have on these different loans because there, there's a difference between what the math says and maybe what your em and peace of mind might say. So if you've got loans that are 3 to 5% interest, it might be okay to just keep chipping away at it and using any extra money to be able to invest. Because starting early to invest for retirement is the best we can possibly do for ourselves. If we, if we're not high income earners, that's how we're going to grow enough to be able to retire. That doesn't take away from the weight and the stress of that debt. And so there could be an opportunity to choose. You know what though? I do just want it gone. And if I do it fast, then that'll allow me to have that out of the way and then I'll kick it into high gear for investing for retirement. As long as you have a plan and you know the decision that you're making and why you're making it, but also recognize that if you look at the math, what the math will say if the market on average is going to return you 7% and loan interest rates are only 3%, mathematically you don't, you don't have to go super hard at paying off the debt, but you can, it's not a bad decision.
Jen
And last set priorities and live by them. So when my priorities when I was younger were other people, I spent money to impress other people. I wouldn't have said that I was spending money to impress other people, but if you looked at the root at why I was spending, it was to impress. When my priority became myself and my family, I stopped spending that way. And so you need to stop caring what people think. And you need to start caring about what you think more. Not what people on social media are telling you to think, not what people around you are caring about, but you really need. You are your own worst critic too. So you need to stop listening to the negative voices in your head as well and start trying to think of what do I truly value, what are my priorities and how can I get closer to those?
Jill
Do you know what my priority is? And I get close to it in every single episode.
Jen
I have lived near it for the past eight years and it is freeing.
Jill
The bill of the Week.
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Meg (Listener Caller)
Good morning, Jen and Jill. Meg from Charlotte, North Carolina here. I don't imagine you'll be playing this until early spring, but for me it's December 10th. We have had H vac issues the entire time we've lived in our house about four years or almost four years. And we finally got someone out this winter because we were rigging up our oven as high as it can go with a fan to strategically blow into the house. We had a single space heater. It was a mess. We knew it was probably going to be expensive. We just kept putting off having someone come out to check it out. And finally with the cold weather fully in spring for about two months now where we got tired of the oven situation. So we got someone out here told us we could replace the entire system or we can replace the part for $900. My blue collar amazing husband that he is, was able to find the part that we needed for $117 and replace it himself. So I almost $800 in savings for a little grit and a little know how and a lot of YouTube. Thanks for all that you do and for anyone that doesn't watch on YouTube, go watch on YouTube. You're really missing out with the bill of the week. Thanks guys.
Jen
Meg, you appreciate my intro video and I appreciate you. There is a video now that can accompany the song. The song has a music video and it is peak creativity. Like I could be a graphic designer.
Jill
You're an animator. I think I put it on your resume that you do high end professional animation.
Jen
If I didn't love this podcast so much, I would just leave and go do that full time.
Jill
Right? Right.
Jen
Truly some a gift to the world that needs to be seen.
Jill
I love Meg's shout out. And you know what if you go, if you find yourself over on YouTube because of Meg, please subscribe and let
Jen
us know in the comments and Just say than Meg. Yeah.
Jill
Thank you.
Jen
Thank you, Meg.
Jill
And also, Meg, this is amazing. I love a good we just did it ourselves moment. There is no better way to just stick it to the man of over consumption and save ourselves some money than to say, could. Could I do that? Let me see. Yep, sure can. Here's the other thing I find appalling and laughable. And I've heard this multiple times from people who own homes when they have technicians come out and offering to just replace the part that's broken or replace the entire system. That's insane. No, if we just need to fix one aspect of it, we don't need to replace the whole thing. What level of throwaway culture have we gotten ourselves to that there might be a person who says, you know what? Yeah, scrap the entire H Vac system because of a hundred and seventeen dollars part. We just refuse. Yeah, that's insan. So glad that you did not buy into that level of insanity.
Jen
And it made me think of what we always say. Marry rich or marry capable.
Jill
Yes. Good job, Meg. I think you married the better version of the two options.
Jen
If we're being biased because you know which way we did it
Jill
and what we do is best. Meg, you're amongst friends. Thanks for sharing. If you're listening and you have a bill that you want to share, if it has to do with marrying incapable, if it has to do with not scrapping an entire system in your home and instead finding the inexpensive part, or your name is Bill, whether you're rich or capable, we'll hear from you. Frugalfriendspodcast.com Bill. Can't wait for it.
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Jill
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Jill
And now it's time for the Life in Wreck.
Jen
I want to caveat and say that I'm sure some women are out there thinking like. Like I'll just be capable. Yeah. And I'm like, you could do that, but then you should marry rich. Because you don't. Yes. You don't need to be all capable. You gotta have some money too. And it doesn't need to fall all on you. You don't need to be rich and capable. That's exhausting.
Jill
But you can be anyone to do it. Like, I only give a binary for the men, right? They're either rich or they're capable. There's a binary for women though. We can be both, we can be neither, we could be either. Or just find yourself on the spectrum. But if anyone can be both, it's. It's the women.
Jen
Yeah, for sure. And. But don't be tired.
Jill
Totally. You can be tired, don't be hungry.
Jen
You can do it all, but it doesn't mean you should, baby girl. Susan. All right.
Jill
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Jen
Okay. Most recent money saving tip. You learned or practiced?
Jill
Go for it.
Jen
Oh, okay, so deal. Deals are marketing. Point blank. I will die on that hill. Deals are marketing. You know, you've known this for a long time, though. But. So here it is. I got Peacock for a month because I love the Olympics and that's the only thing I watch on Peacock. So I got it for a month, and then at the end, I was canceling it before my month was up. And they were like, girl, I know we were going to charge you, like, 150 bucks for, like, a full year, but just for you, we're gonna charge you $40 for a whole year. And I was like, well, that is tempting. And I was like, no, no Olympics. Bye. Bye. So I saved $40 by not signing up for an annual Peacock plan.
Jill
It would have been so easy. It would have been so expensive. It was a deal. But you.
Jen
Oh, it was such a big deal. It was like 150 versus 40. Huge deal. And I was like, oh, that's a great deal. Yeah, but that's $40 I didn't plan to spend, and I don't need to spend.
Jill
You know, a phrase in the clinical therapeutic world is that we train people how to treat us. And this works for businesses and companies, too. We are training them how to treat us. I don't want it. We're done.
Jen
Yeah, that's.
Jill
That's well done. You trained them.
Jen
Thank you.
Jill
I don't know if it's gonna go that far, but I like to think it's had a big impact.
Jen
I'll see you in, like, a year and a half or two years, whenever the Summer Olympics are.
Jill
Yeah, okay. For me, it's that fun doesn't have to be expensive. And I have known this one for a long time, too. But I just looked back at the things that I've done just in the last week that were free or no or low cost. I volunteered. I did a volunteer beach cleanup. That was so fun. By the way, picking up trash feels like it's around Easter time right now. So it. It felt like my own version of an egg hunt. And I love the little grabbers. Okay, I digress. That was very fun. Met people. I hosted friends at my place for dinner. Just made a little bit extra food. I attended a potluck. I went on a walk with a friend. We went to a new park that I had not explored before. I went to a trivia night. We ended up winning first place. We won first place.
Jen
This Jill does so many things.
Jill
This is just in the last week.
Jen
This is in the last week. None of this has done more in the last week than I have done this year.
Jill
I also did a little hobby, a cute hobby night with a friend after her kids were in bed. She already had all these like paints and watercolor things. I just went over and we did watercolor and listened to music once her kids were asleep.
Jen
See, when my kids go to bed, I am dead and I am asleep. Me and my car are in the dirt.
Jill
We put the lights down low, we played instrumental music and we did painting. It wasn't great for the painting to not be able to see, but it was the most relaxing. Like you could do that. Tired? No, no, no.
Jen
I would fall asleep. No, I can't. That sounds like the worst thing for me to do. Tired because I would be like there would just be a long streak across
Jill
do you go to bed at 8:00'? Clock? Well, your kids don't go to bed till later.
Jen
My kids go to bed at 9 and then by like 9:30. Yes, I am in bed. Yeah.
Jill
Yeah. Okay, that makes sense. Just put your kids to bed sooner.
Jen
This is something we have thought about. So I don't know. Maybe. Yeah, we'll see. Anyways, thank you so much for listening. We would love to hear money saving tips you wish you had learned sooner in the comments of this video on YouTube. If you're listening on audio, no need to change your lifestyle. We love for you to stay on Spotify or Apple. But just come over here and just, you know, give us a little subscribe. You know if you are one of our listeners who has read our book, Buy what yout Love Without Going broke. Thank you for your kind reviews. Like this one from Trevor happens to be five stars. It says Genuine book with genuine advice. I loved this book. I got to know the authors through listening to their podcasts. This book is a great compacted version of some of their best tips and more. It has been a great vibe and shares stories of the authors and fellow readers which makes me feel like I'm not alone in my money struggles. I also feel like the advice advice here is both practical and achievable. And the best part? If you don't like the options given, there's other advice available within the book. They provide so many unique perspectives and show how it actually works.
Jill
Oh this is.
Jen
Thank you Trev.
Jill
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Jen
If you want to defend Susan, please feel free to do that as well. Find Susan in the comments and just like defend her. She's going to be here. I know she is. Frugal Friends is produced by Eric Seri Fanny. Okay, Jill, I would like to let loose something I've held my tongue on for 30 minutes.
Jill
Oh, no.
Jen
You refer to it as running equipment, which I'm sure people do. So I'm sure there is running equipment. But like, I'm thinking in my head, what is equipment? Like, what equipment do I run with? Shoes. And that's it.
Jill
It feels to me, though, from the outside that runners have more than shoes.
Jen
Okay, yes.
Jill
It's the electrolytes. It's the watch. It's keep filling in the blanks for me because there's equipment.
Jen
Okay. You, the. I think the person that you're taking this from, she runs marathons.
Jill
Like, yeah, yeah.
Jen
That's all she does. So you only need that stuff if you're doing like six plus miles. If you're somebody who is, they're running six or fewer miles. You don't need anything except good shoes. Like, that's it. And once you get past that, then yes, you need fuel. I didn't get a water vest. Like a vest that has like a thing.
Jill
Oh my gosh, look at you proving
Jen
my point right now. Until I was doing 10 miles regularly.
Jill
Water vest. Try and convince me that's not equipment.
Jen
That's not. It's a vest. It's clothing.
Jill
If anything, with special purposes.
Jen
I didn't get that until I was running 10 plus miles regularly. Huh.
Jill
So headbands, clothing, towels, socks, shoes.
Jen
Those are things you should have.
Jill
Garmin. Everything. You just. The running app, Strava. What is it?
Jen
Strava.
Jill
Electrolytes. Water bottle. There's equipment, girl. Toenail clippers.
Jen
Oh, these diapers. These are normal life things.
Jill
Diapers are the inevitable. I peed my.
Jen
It worries me that you're like, listing out like, towels and water, but not all these things that you should have as a normal human being as like,
Jill
because they're gonna be special versions of it. Like, the towel is probably gonna have, like, some sort of thing sewn into it that you could put ice cubes in, and it, like, wraps around your neck and maybe then it has a snap on it. Like, because it's not just gonna be a regular towel you find in your house. It's, like, specific for people with Strava.
Jen
You can only get it through Strava.
Jill
I have observed you all like an anthropologist, and these are. These are my findings.
Jen
And I just think you're the example that you're taking. Most of your information from is unreliable because she's on the extreme and most of us do not subscribe to that.
Jill
Have you or have you not wished you had a diaper at some point in your career?
Jen
Negative, False. Never. How uncomfortable would that be to run in?
Jill
Okay, well, I change nothing.
Jen
Okay.
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Podcast: Frugal Friends
Hosts: Jen Smith & Jill Sirianni
Episode: 15 Save Money Tips I Wish I Learned Sooner
Date: April 21, 2026
This episode is centered on the 15 most impactful money-saving strategies Jen and Jill wish they’d adopted earlier in their lives. It is a mix of genuine frugal wisdom, hard-won lessons, and signature humor, aiming to empower listeners—whether new to financial independence or longtime savers—to rethink spending habits, avoid common pitfalls, and live a richer, more intentional life.
(41:02)
Meg from Charlotte shares a victory: after being quoted $900 to fix her HVAC, her husband sourced the part for $117 and fixed it himself, saving nearly $800 thanks to “a little grit, a little know-how, and a lot of YouTube.”
Bonus: The Hosts’ Latest Money-saving Lessons —
Listener challenge:
Share your favorite money tip you wish you’d learned sooner on the episode’s YouTube comments—bonus points if you “thank Meg” or defend the Susans out there.
For everyone wanting a deep-dive on practical, real-world frugality—this episode is a treasure trove of advice, clever quips, and community spirit.