Transcript
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Foreign. What is going on, true crime fans? I'm your host, Heath.
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And I'm your host, Daphne.
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And you're listening to Going West.
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Hello, everybody. Hope you're doing well today. Big shout out and thank you to Danielle, Becky, Megan, and Caitlyn, who all recommended this case for very good reason.
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Yeah, this is one of those cases that is going to piss every single one of you guys off. It is a ton of corruption, a ton of scandal, and it spans for years. I mean, it is truly heartbreaking and severely angering.
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Very well said. So true. So without further ado, let's just dive right into this one because we have so much to get into. And like you just said, Heath, it is infuriating.
A (0:58)
All right, guys, this is episode 474 of Going West. So let's get into it.
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Sandra Birchmore's death happened three years ago.
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Again, it was ruled a suicide at the time. Now, a former police officer arrested disturbing allegations against him.
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How'd we get here?
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Her own family, they took it upon themselves to hire a private pathologist who took another look at her death and.
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Decided that no, there were signs that.
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This was homicide and not a suicide as it was originally ruled. We know that there was an investigation to sexual misconduct, that they had believed that this officer plus some other officers in that same Stoughton police department had been involved sexually with this young woman. And during the time that she was a minor.
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In February of 2021, a 23 year old aspiring police officer in Massachusetts was found dead in her apartment under suspicious circumstances. After police investigated the scene, they concluded that she had taken her own life. But as police and her family pushed for answers, they uncovered a shocking case of assault and abuse of power by multiple men she knew and trusted. This is the story of Sandra Birchmore. Sandra Birchmore was born on May 13, 1997, to her mom, Denise Burchmore, in Stoughton, Massachusetts, a peaceful suburb just 20 miles or 32 kilometers south of bustling Boston. In and there, Sandra was raised by her single mother alone, as her father was never in the picture. And actually her surname was that of Denise's beloved late husband who died years before Sandra was born, which was one of many hardships her mother had to deal with, along with the fact that Denise was battling chronic illness. So they frequently had trouble making ends meet as Denise dealt with her health issues while also trying to be a supportive mom. But because of this, they moved around quite often, regularly doing stints at the house of Denise's aunt and uncle, Claire and Gerald Gaudette. And thankfully in them, Sandra found the stability she needed. And they were a very positive influence in her young life, actually, so much so that as a child, Sandra regarded them as her grandma and grandpa instead of her great uncle and great aunt. Like they were just very, very close. But in particular, Sandra really looked up to Gerald as an army veteran, and he really helped create this love of authority in her from a young age. So because of his influence, she became determined to become a police officer one day. Naturally, Sandra was devastated when Gerald passed away in 2012 at the age of 88, just one day after Sandra's 15th birthday. Despite the best efforts of her extended family showing her love and support, things were really tough outside of home for Sandra because sadly at school she was bullied and reportedly had difficulty making friends. A former elementary school teacher of hers later explained, quote, she wasn't a bad kid, just a kid starved for attention, acting out to be noticed. The signs of neglect were unmistakable. Now, her mother, Denise, continued to, you know, make attempts to kind of get them back on track. She even enrolled them in a 14 week state sponsored program to help foster healthy boundaries and coping mechanisms between parents and their young children. But this unfortunately did little to help Sandra's confidence as a seventh grader. Another teacher of hers recalled her attempts to garner attention from her fellow students, including inventing different stories. And her teacher described her as, quote, socially dysfunctional and said that she actually got along better with adults than her peers. It's always so hard to, to talk about this kind of thing and read about it because so many kids struggle to feel like they fit in. And I feel like so rarely Heath and I have talked about this before. You know, do adults around them tell kids that being popular or well known shouldn't be the goal and that just finding people that get you or who are nice is really all that matters and just being a nice person, not doing things because it's cool or because you think it's what you should be doing.
