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Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast
Hosted by Steve Horsmon & Dan Dore · EN
The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.
We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.
Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.
You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.
If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.
You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.
This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.
The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.
You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.
This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.
There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.
You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.
You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.
And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.
This is not a “stretch goal” for you.
This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.
And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.
Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.
You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.
If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.
You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.
This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.
The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.
You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.
This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.
There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.
You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.
You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.
And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.
This is not a “stretch goal” for you.
This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.
And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
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Is Anxiety Ruining Your Marriage?
5d ago00:04:08Tap to summarizeAre you worried that your anxiety is ruining your marriage? Does just being around your wife make your heart beat faster and your palms sweat? What about when you want to initiate some kind of conversation or intimacy? In this episode I talk about why we get anxious around her, what causes it, why it's happening now and what to think and do differently to move past this unsettling time.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Feeling Lost And Confused In Your Relationship?
1w ago00:04:50Tap to summarizeAre you feeling lost and confused in your relationship? Are you overwhelmed with people telling you what to do, what not to do, why you're wrong or why you're right to be upset...? In this episode I discuss what causes us to lose direction, confidence and the ability to feel like we have agency and a creative approach to changing our current reality into the reality we really want.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Do You Know How To Create Connection?
2w ago00:04:07Tap to summarizeIs your life lacking connection, fun & passion? Do you know how to create connection with other people - I mean real connection where they actually care about you and want to spend time with you and know how you're really doing...?In this episode I talk about some ways people have created connection with me recently, how good it made me feel to know I was important to those people and how to have more of it in YOUR life too.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →A More Sexual Marriage Requires More Emotional Connection First
3w ago00:06:58Tap to summarizeWant a more sexual marriage? It will require that you learn how to create more emotional connection first and also how you sabotage the emotional connection so you can stop doing that too.In this episode I talk about a really common factor that breaks the intimate emotional connection that women need to feel safe and attracted to us men before they can be sexually intimate with us again.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →How To Bring Fun And Laughter Back Into Your Marriage
4w ago00:04:25Tap to summarizeWould you like more fun and laughter in your marriage again? Are you dealing with arguments, coldness, judgement and criticism? Does it feel like you try to make her happy but she only sees negatives all the time? In this episode I discuss a key component of being able to create more of the moments you enjoy with your wife and less of the disconnection that's been happening lately.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Get The Affection Back In Your Marriage
4w ago00:05:26Tap to summarizeDo you want to know how to get the affection back in your marriage? Do you feel unfulfilled and unloved and like you're living with a roommate? In this episode I give you a challenge that if you use it correctly will completely change the quality of the connection, intimacy and passion in your relationship.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →How To Be Calm When Your Relationship Is Falling Apart
May 2400:33:23Tap to summarizeYour relationship is falling apart and it feels like the bottom is dropping out of your whole world, how can you recenter and find your calm, masculine confidence and clarity again? In this episode from one of our men's group coaching calls around relationships, we discuss what's happening and why it feels to hard to deal with, as well as some stories, hints and tips to help you get clear, calm and re-find your own sense of direction, confidence and self worth.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →What If You Already Have Exactly What You Need?
May 2100:04:52Tap to summarizeThis question "what if you already have exactly what you need?" is a classic coaching question because it makes you think a little deeper about the perspective that you are choosing to adopt about your current circumstances. You always have a choice about how you want to proceed with the situation you find yourself facing and coaching helps you to get clear about what that response will be. In this episode I talk about this question in more detail and how we men can lose the belief that we can change our circumstances - hint: it's fear and a lack of self worth. But we do have a tried and tested process that we take you through to refind that manly mojo and clarity about what you will and won't put up with and how to create what you really want.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →What It Means to Be a Grown Ass Man
May 1800:08:10Tap to summarizeWhat does that even mean "Be a grown ass man?" And why would you want to be that? What benefits are there to becoming a mature, confident, secure man? And how does it help with whatever struggles you are facing right now in your life? In this episode I talk about why men are often criticized for not "making women happy", how the focus should be on taking care of your own emotional well-being first, how it's ridiculous to think you can have a happy, affectionate, sexual, connected marriage if you yourself are not a happy, sexual, connected man.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →What Causes A Wife To Lose Interest In Sex With You?
May 1500:03:07Tap to summarizeIf you're frustrated by your low sex or sexless marriage you may wonder what causes a wife to lose interest in sex with you? In this episode I explain how this happens to a large percentage of men, as well as a lack of sex happening at certain times in all relationships. I also explain how to think about this and what to do to change it.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
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