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Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast
Hosted by Steve Horsmon & Dan Dore · EN
The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.
We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.
Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.
You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.
If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.
You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.
This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.
The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.
You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.
This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.
There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.
You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.
You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.
And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.
This is not a “stretch goal” for you.
This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.
And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.
Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.
You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.
If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.
You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.
This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.
The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.
You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.
This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.
There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.
You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.
You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.
And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.
This is not a “stretch goal” for you.
This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.
And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
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How To Handle Your Wife's Emotional Affair
Yesterday00:04:51Tap to summarizeIs your wife having an emotional affair? Or maybe she's in a physical affair? Or she could be connected to another man (or woman) emotionally and is keeping you at arms length while going out more or being on the phone with other people rather than building the relationship with you... In this episode I talk about the process that we take men through which helps them to find the confidence and strength to know exactly how they want to respond to this painful and challenging situation including stating the clear lines that you are willing to accept or that you won't accept and what will happen should someone not be willing to meet your expectations.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →I Can't Find My Happiness - Help!
4d ago00:05:45Tap to summarizeAre you struggling with anxiety. Maybe you've thought to yourself "I can't find my happiness" and you're searching the web for help that will fix this ongoing uneasy anxious and restless rollercoaster of emotions.In this episode I talk about where your happiness comes from, why we find ourselves in a constant state of unhappiness and what you need to think and do differently to be able to consistently feel happy again.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Can't Decide Whether To Stay Married Or Divorce?
5d ago00:05:05Tap to summarizeAre you confused with your relationship? Maybe you can't decide whether to stay married or divorce? Maybe you're unsure how to go about improving the connection and intimacy and affection with your wife?In this episode I talk about the core of our coaching with men around making the right choices or even knowing what the right choice is for you and your future. This changes everything. The more clear and committed you are to the future you are choosing to head towards, the more chance you have of creating that, even if it seems as though your partner isn't interested in coming with you.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →How To Stay Confident When Facing Your Wife's Negative Feedback
1w ago00:04:03Tap to summarizeDo you get easily triggered and lose your self confidence when facing your wife's negative feedback? Does her opinion of you matter so much that she can question anything you've just done, no matter how trivial, and you get defensive?In this episode I talk about why this happens and give you a new way to approach these situations so that you can stay calm, grounded and centered and know how to lead the relationship forward in a positive way.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Do You Feel Trapped In An Uninspiring Marriage?
2w ago00:04:08Tap to summarizeMediocre, that's a word us men don't like and it's how we see ourselves when we feel trapped in an uninspiring marriage, it's like we believe that this is our lot, there's nothing more available, no more passion, no more fun, no more playful flirting and sexual exploration, but I'm here to tell you that's not true.In this episode I talk about why we get to this stage in long-term relationships and marriage, what's causing it and I introduce an article I wrote detailing the traits to cultivate that will totally change you, your marriage and your agency over being able to create more of what you really want to experience.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Finding Peace When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart
2w ago00:04:24Tap to summarizeWe talk to a lot of men who are trying to find some peace because their marriage is falling apart and they are constantly anxious and overwhelmed, desperately trying to fix it so they can find some peace and happiness again.In this episode I talk about why this situation is so debilitating for so many men, how to think about it differently so that you can respond to it differently and then your emotions will find their new resting place - be warned, people may look at you as a crazy person because you're calm and happy even though your circumstances are challenging to say the least!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Are You Questioning Whether To Stay Married?
3w ago00:05:21Tap to summarizeAre you questioning whether to stay married? Do you feel unhappy, unloved, disrespected and lonely even though you're in a relationship? This is the disillusionment or power struggle stage of relationshiop that EVERYONE hits without exception.In this episode I talk about this stage of relationship, how we find ourselves here, what you may have already tried to get past it and how our advice for a man is different to most other coaches and therapists because we know that to reach the next stage requires that you become a stronger, more self assured, more confident leader of yourself so that you can then lead the relationship forward. Waiting for her to change or trying to negotiate with her will not work, you must SHOW her the way by changing first. Only then will she trust that you know where you want to go with her and what you want to create for the future of your marriage.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →Do You Want Your Wife To Want You Again?
3w ago00:04:50Tap to summarizeDo you want your wife to want you again like she used to when things were passionate and easy, when you both looked at each other with the eyes of acceptance and curiosity?In this episode I talk about the common situation many of us men find ourselves in where the spark, passion, trust and fun has disappeared from our intimate relationship and how to change that and bring back the desire that had you both unable to keep your hands off each other.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →She Needs You To Take The Initiative
3w ago00:09:07Tap to summarizeYes your wife needs you to take the initiative and define a new path forward that she can trust and choose to join you on. Yes she will test you on this new direction and so she should, if you don't have confidence and conviction, why would she take the risk? It's a very vulnerable thing to open up and come closer again especially if she's been hurt by your untrustable behaviour in the past.In this episode I talk a little about the last element from free PDF of ours called the 5 secrets of an unhappy wife - what is the 5th element? She wants you to succeed!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Transcribe →The First Step To Becoming A More Confident Man
4w ago00:10:23Tap to summarizeWant to know the first step to becoming a more confident man? Maybe you're struggling with confidence in your romantic relationship, or meeting new people, or at a job, or even starting a new career or hobby?In this episode I talk about the basis for knowing who you are and what you want - nothing you create will give you the same sense of confidence and fulfillment as when you've started with this exercise - we do it with ALL our coaching clients without fail.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
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