1. They frequently direct angry outbursts at you. 2. They criticize the way you look or how you dress. 3. Your partner insults and curses at you when they're upset, then begs for your forgiveness later. 4. They text and call you constantly to check in. 5. They refuse to leave your personal space. 6. They try to control the people you spend time with. 7. They use gaslighting tactics to manipulate you into doubting your experiences. 8. They speak for, or over, you. 9. They show physical aggression, whether or not it's directed at you. 10. They pressure you into having sex with them. 11. They shut down and withhold emotional intimacy.