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Yeah Woke up in the morning and to God be the glory Thankful for another day to tell my story Put my opinions in the universe and let them orbit I'm from the dirty soul with a dirty mouth my knee orbit miss things things on me like a norbit had to refuse them cause my no rest fusion she gorgeous as I doubt my sons up and kiss my daughter forehead tell them we gonna get this money to my pocket bit remember living in apartments now we playing mortgage you ain't got to like a regardless baby I'm blessed and I keep that blick with me we like grits and eggs as you sip your coffee flick your cigarette and let a vent yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We back oh, we back Grits and eggs podcast episode 112.
Deontay Kyle
I'm your host, Deontay Kyle.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But who's behind the camera?
Big Cat
We go take a right on jabroni.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Drive, check into the smackdown hotel and whoop. Ice candy ass Big ice cup cat. Yeah, we whooping Ice candy ass. Yeah, man, man, bro, we are back, man.
Deontay Kyle
Hold on.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Where we at with it, big cat? We back, we back, we back. 2026 big ice cup man. It's 2026, bro.
Deontay Kyle
Y.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Hiatus.
Big Cat
Hey, nice hiatus hibernation.
Big Ice Cube Cat
If I've been doing anything, I've been getting good sleep, sleep. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, it's been good, man. We are back, baby. How you feeling?
Big Cat
I feel Good, man. It's 2026. We back.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Cat
Hide the man. People are waiting.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's time. Deontayeontecow.com for all booking and inquiries.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Adviceyontaykyle.com for all your advice segments.
Deontay Kyle
We got a couple of advice segments.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Today and for a new music Monday which will be relaunching next week.
Deontay Kyle
NMM@DeontayKyle.com that's N M M. Deontay Kyle.com.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Deontay Kyle.com has gone through a much needed facelift. We are still working on creating that.
Deontay Kyle
As a landing page for literally everything because we do got a show in Minneapolis.
Big Cat
Hey.
Big Ice Cube Cat
February 28th at the Cabins we have the cabiz. And in the March, we're gonna announce that tour. We're gonna be announcing that tour very soon.
Deontay Kyle
It'll be starting at the end of march. We'll be coming to a couple of.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Southeastern cities on the chitlin circuit.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I mean, we're gonna do it right?
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You know what I'm saying? We're gonna come to a couple of places, man. We're gonna go to surrounding Areas. But once we get that fully locked in, we'll be announcing 657234, eggs at.
Deontay Kyle
657-234-3447 for all your callings. Got a couple call ins today as well, man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Great, great. 2025 for sure. I mean, an amazing 2025.
Big Cat
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
In 2025 with Ali Sadiq. Hey. Amazing, beautiful, beautiful episode.
Big Cat
Amazing.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Y' all wasn't too happy about how it started, but the. The context was missing because we was talking before that. But this is something he was working.
Deontay Kyle
On with a bit.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So whatever it is what it is, it's 2026, you know what I'm saying? We doing it bigger, we doing it better. You see. You see it. You see your C, you see the new camera quality? You see the continuity? God damn. Obviously, you come from A to B, Chris. From B to A, Chris. A to B and then B. And it's crispy. It's so crispy. Oh, shout out to Kia Shine. Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
All right.
Big Cat
I want to spit the Kia shot.
Big Ice Cube Cat
All right. I like it, though, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying? That's millennial bag.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, yeah. So crispy.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So crispy.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Big cat, man, we. We got a lot of things going on this year.
Big Cat
We do.
Deontay Kyle
And I'm ready for all of them.
Big Cat
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But first of all, how y' all doing? How was y' all 2025? How is 2026 treating you so far? I say politically, we're. Politically, we're in the shitter, you know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying?
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
The state of America. Why won't we come up?
Big Cat
This shit just. It was prophesied.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Why would I come up in life? Why would I finally break out the Matrix? Y' all want to end the world, you know what I'm saying? Want to go to World War iii?
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah. You know what I'm saying?
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
In Venezuela. You know what I'm saying? Trying to get that crude.
Big Cat
Get it all.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Trying to get that. Got to get that all, baby.
Big Cat
But they said the big oil companies.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Are not going for it, though.
Deontay Kyle
Look, man, our president is a clown, okay?
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, for sure. He do clown ting. But I don't really have much to say when it comes to that.
Deontay Kyle
I think everybody is always.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Quick to pass judgment, quick to give their political takes on. On things that happen, that happen as they unfold. I'm. I'm a little bit more slow and reserved.
Deontay Kyle
I like to let things come out. I like to let things play out.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Because I don't want to speak out.
Deontay Kyle
Of turn, like, especially from a space.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Where I don't know what's really going on. You know what I mean? We don't trust the news, but we'll trust the headlines.
Deontay Kyle
So I, I'm not. I don't subscribe to that. You know, a lot of people have recanted their state stances because the people of Venezuela seem to be happy having their leader removed. So people like, okay, you cool with it?
Big Ice Cube Cat
And whatever. And then people are like, oh, yeah, but, like, y' all are happy to have your leader removed, but he's gonna. But Trump is gonna put. Well, the US Government will put somebody.
Deontay Kyle
In place that's gonna basically sell off all your resources and bankrupt your economy. I don't know how the people in Venezuela are living.
Big Cat
I don't either.
Deontay Kyle
America gonna tell you, everybody living in squalor.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You know what I'm saying?
Deontay Kyle
But go to Forsyth street, downtown Atlanta, right now. Go to Auburn Avenue.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Go to Edgewood. People living in squalor over there, too. You know what I'm saying? People is lying in the streets. So I don't. I don't really know. You know, they would have us to think that Africa was just destitute as.
Deontay Kyle
Hell and everybody was looking at, like.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Them Arms of the Angels commercials. They think, you know, and we got to find out.
Deontay Kyle
People have, are very wealthy over there.
Big Ice Cube Cat
People are living great lives over there. I can't trust the government.
Deontay Kyle
I can't trust the media in America to tell me the truth about anything.
Big Ice Cube Cat
What I will say is that we.
Deontay Kyle
Have to get off the, of idealizing what America is.
Big Ice Cube Cat
America is not a democracy.
Deontay Kyle
America is not a meritocracy.
Big Ice Cube Cat
They got rid of the meritocracy when they rolled back. Di Di is an attempt at meritocracy, an attempt at having the best people and, and the best positions for the best outcome for everybody. We don't live in that. We live in a fascist oligarchy. Okay? That's something that you need to accept. Not. America is not the greatest country on the, on earth. America is, like, people like to say.
Deontay Kyle
It'S a third world country with a Gucci belt. That's a, That's a great analogy.
Big Ice Cube Cat
That's a good one.
Deontay Kyle
But this is a fascist oligarchy, right? This thing is, is run by a.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Very small number of people. This is always, always in support of corporate interest. It's not true democracy. When lobbying can happen, when corporate money can make decisions in law. We, we need to get off this Idea that we live in a democracy, okay, I think that that's something that.
Deontay Kyle
Is going to help you sleep at night.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But that is not the reality. Okay? We show up, we fame democracy, we show up to vote. But ultimately if it's not in the best interest of the big mega million mega billion dollar corporations, it's not going.
Deontay Kyle
To be in the interest of America.
Big Ice Cube Cat
This America has never been about what's in the best interest for the people. It's always been about what's in the.
Deontay Kyle
Best interest for the rich.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And choosing certain groups to massage, choosing certain groups to pamper with the idea of inclusion, this idea that they're included. That's what whiteness is. This idea that you're sharing in the wealth where we're seeing that is not.
Deontay Kyle
What'S going on at all.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I'm broke, bitch. We, we see it. You know what I'm saying? People are seeing it, people are feeling it. White people have been on quite a tear lately.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, Black people as always laughing a.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Kiki and we're having a good time. I know that people said that they're opting out and I think the thing is that a lot of people are offended at the notion that black people.
Deontay Kyle
Are letting other people fight their own fight because black people are used to.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Being used for labor.
Deontay Kyle
Black people are normally used to start.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Things so that somebody else can come.
Deontay Kyle
In and take the credit as they finish them. Black people are seen as can fodder for the resistance.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But black people, when black people start minding their business, when black people say.
Deontay Kyle
That'S not my fight, a lot of.
Big Ice Cube Cat
People get offended by that.
Deontay Kyle
Where on the flip side of that.
Big Ice Cube Cat
When it's black people's fight, nobody else.
Deontay Kyle
Wants to get involved.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Now I won't be ignorant to the fact that when George Floyd happened, the world protested. But it did take for a man to get his neck kneeled on for nine minutes publicly for people to give a fuck when these things. When that is America, that is American policing as it pertains to black people. Since there has been American police, American police system, that is slave catcher, since there has been chattel slavery.
Deontay Kyle
So.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Aaron Good gets murdered by ice shot point blank in the face. This is a tragedy. This is also something that is justifiably something to be angry about, but it's also a consequence of, of inaction by white people when state violence doesn't affect them. Because this is in this era, Trayvon Martin in this era, Mike Brown in this era, Sandra Bland in this era, Eric Gardner in this era, Philandro Castile. In this era, countless, countless, countless black women, black men, black children. Tamir Rice, black children. The young autistic boy out there in.
Deontay Kyle
Denver, Colorado, time and time again, Ahmaud Arbery.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Time and time again, this is the reality of black people in America. When we are subject to state violence and met with silence from every other.
Deontay Kyle
Group.
Big Ice Cube Cat
It almost has to be the most atrocious, audacious act committed against us. And it has to get captured on.
Deontay Kyle
Film for somebody to give a fuck.
Big Ice Cube Cat
ICE murdered Keith Porter on New Year's Day.
Deontay Kyle
It was silence. I just found out about this.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You understand what I'm saying? It doesn't make headlines if it's not recorded. It doesn't make headlines. You know, you can't deny the Aaron Good situation. And again, it's a tragedy. Again, it shouldn't have happened. Again, ICE should be dismantled and the agent who fired the shot at point blank range to this lady's face should be charged with murder because that was a murdering. That. That was a murder. That wasn't a. His life wasn't in danger. We've seen several different camel angles of this. And then, as angry as black people have been, there's also this idea.
Deontay Kyle
That.
Big Ice Cube Cat
This situation supersedes everything else before. Hey, I know that. I know that we didn't give a fuck when it happened to y', all, but hey, guys, this is egregious, right? This white woman just got killed by the police or by federal agents because they're not law enforcement. Everybody should be equally as angry. How can you not understand black people not being as angry when we watch this happen to us time and time again? And I met with silence. You opt out of the protest if the movement is black, but then you saying say her name, a slogan coined when y'.
Deontay Kyle
All.
Big Ice Cube Cat
When. When y' all wouldn't say these black women's names. Black women who were murdered by the state. Breonna Taylor. Say her name. Sandra Bland. Say her name. Sonia Massey. Say her name. This is the. This is the protest from black people that know that nobody else cares when it happens to us, because they keep you comfortable. So there's a lot of speculation when it happens to us about what we were doing, whether we were innocent or not. There's a lot of seeking justification when the victim is black. Even if it is done point blank range, even if it is captured on camera, they still trying to say George.
Deontay Kyle
Floyd was on fentanyl.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And you watched it happen. So there has to be some understanding of the apprehension that black people have when we told you this was how it happens. When you ignore a tragedy because the victim doesn't look like you, you're compliant to state viol. If it's okay when it happens to others, then your silence is compliance because you never thought it would happen to you. Guess what? America has showed you it doesn't care about white women either. And getting shot in the face is not the common practice by law enforcement, even for black people. Black people are usually shot in the back, running away, or strangled as a show of dominance, force and humiliation, as a show of helplessness. They want you to beg for your life. They shot this lady in the face like they didn't give a fuck about her. They didn't give a fuck about her. But ICE is emboldened when the response.
Deontay Kyle
Are.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Name calling and throwing snowballs. If I can shoot you in the face and the worst that happens to me is I get called some names and you throw some snowballs, no real violence. Well, I just got away with shot shooting you in the face. White lives matter doesn't exist. Where's the white lives matter? Where's the white lives matter crowd? When it was black lives matter, it was white lives matter. It was all lives matter. Where are the all lives matter people? Where's the outrage? The only outrage I'm seeing is from white leftist women online. White leftist people in general. And then that outrage turns to finger pointing that black people aren't being loud enough. I seen a tweet. Okay, black people, you've proved your point. Now can you come help out? That's not any way to start a conversation.
Big Cat
You think darkness is your ally?
Big Ice Cube Cat
I was born in it, molded by it. Black people, you've made your point. What are you talking about? How about an apology? Do y' all ever think to do that? No. Because white people don't know how to apologize. Because they don't see anything that they've done as wrong. If this is the crossroads, we come to the point now you're going to make it seem like it's us causing and creating division while you stood by and watch us get murdered from 2014 to 2020. Jesus. Jesus. You couldn't go a week without seeing one of us get killed on tv. And we had to internalize that pain. How many times did the Rodney King play take play over and over in the 90s? Propaganda is a real thing. They play cops non stop during the 90s and it make every black person look like a criminal. So when we tell you that black people are coming in our neighborhoods and Killing us, You must deserve it. Well, you know, black people are criminals, right?
Deontay Kyle
So.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Because you trust your media, because the media always has your best interest, because painting white people in a benevolent light is good for the power structure, because it makes you look at criminals as somebody who has to wear a ski mask and not a white man in a suit, when the biggest criminal that ever walked America way back then and still now is a white man in a motherfucking suit. Gun nuts, right? Second Amendment gun nuts says it's my right to have a firearm just in case the government gets tyrannical. Well, guess what, nigga? It's getting very tyrannical. It's been very tyrannical. You don't think that black people experience tyranny in this country? What the fuck do you think Jim Crow was? Is it not tyrannical to enact the chemical warfare on one race and subset of people and completely destroy the infrastructure of all their neighborhoods, the business practices of all their neighbors? No, it's not tyrannical because it doesn't affect me. The NRA loves to poke their head out when we start talking about gun reform because children are constantly being murdered in schools. But a cop can shoot you point blank range in the face as an act of tyranny. And the NRA is silent. I'm just saying, maybe black people aren't so crazy. Maybe black people are tired of fighting everybody's fight and our fight alone. Starting movements just so you can co op them. And then the movement dies. The left is okay with violence so long as the victim isn't white. And now that the victim is white, you realize, oh, they're coming for everybody. So to start as, they're eating the dogs, they're eating the cats. We talking about the Haitians. That's how it starts. It starts as. It starts as, or it reads as Somali care. Adoption fraud. The ringleader's a white woman. The star says they're taking our jobs. None of you niggas want to work on a farm. You don't want to harvest crops. You don't want to clean toilets. You don't want to work in a hotel. You don't want to drive in this gig economy. You don't want to be an Uber Eats driver. You don't want the jobs that migrants have. But that's how it starts. And it ends with a white woman getting shot in the face by a federal agent who doesn't have the authority to enforce the law. It's literally in his name that this is about immigration. What did that white woman have to do with immigration? It starts when, when. When an off duty federal agent murders Keith Porter and it's not his job to enforce the law. It stops and then it starts and it starts all over again. It starts and it stops and it starts all over again. You just think it's getting started because it's you. It's been going. So now they get rid of all the migrant workers. Now your farm is belly up. You belly up at the farm and becomes a federal farm. The most dangerous person that has ever walked these United States of America, the most violent, the most oppressive, the most sinister, insidious people that have ever walked this earth and especially here in these Americas, these United States of America have been Caucasian men that simultaneously convince you it's everybody else. When they come for women's reproductive rights. Well, they go ahead and tell you they don't give a fuck about women, they don't give a fuck about you. But you never thought it would end in that type of violence. You always thought you was exempt from it. Nobody is exempt from fascism. They just start where it's socially acceptable. Violence against black bodies have always been socially acceptable. The other thing that is a byproduct of chattel slavery and Jim Crow is this idea that I'm not supposed to be involved in labor. That's why you don't want to go out and start a movement. That's why your movements don't move. That's why the no kings protest looks like a parade. Because those things require labor. Labor movements require labor. And white people have been told and shown that you're a lower class. You're subservient if you involve yourself in labor. That's why they walk around the fucking country thinking they everybody got damn supervisor. That's why the American dream for most of them is middle management because it's very low class to be involved in labor. Those jobs are for black people and Mexicans. Those jobs are for immigrants. Movements require labor. So you want black people to get the movement started so you can co opt it. Because this to you is a tragedy. Aaron Good is a tragedy. Keith Porter is a Tuesday. That's a. This is the constant for black people in America. The tragedy for you is Tuesday for us. And I don't want to be on the I told you so podcast, but we have been telling you Elon Musk says 100 to to this tweet. Let's just read the tweet. If white men become a minority, we will be slaughtered. Remember, if non whites openly Hate white men while white men hold a collective majority then they will be 1000 times more hostile and cruel when they are a min when majority over whites. White solidarity is the only way to survive. Elon retweets 100 Elon Musk white men in the fear of retaliation. Non white people openly detesting white people and white men specifically is hostile in the minds of these men. White men openly kill everybody. It's your actions that make you feel retaliation. A white male dominated society in fear of meritocracy. This is why we roll back on women's reproduction rights for one. Everything stops when a woman gets pregnant. Everything for her has to stop.
Deontay Kyle
The career has to stop.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Her as a being has to stop. And now life becomes more about nurturing this other human that she's going to.
Deontay Kyle
Usher into the earth.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And while it is a beautiful thing, you've commodified reproduction. So a woman taking birth control so that she can continue to pursue her career twofold. White people are dying more than they're being born. The second fold is women are more career oriented than family oriented. Women are going to school and getting education and they're scaling the corporate ladder and they have a tenacity about them that men in most cases won't have because they don't come from backgrounds of oppression. They've never had to overcome this. And I'm speaking about white men specifically. Black people go to school and they get their education and they scale the corporate ladder and they start to have upward mobility financially in this country. Scares mediocre white people, white men specifically, because they fear meritocracy. Because oftentimes they are not the most qualified for the job. They're just next in line and that system works for them. You don't have to be great at your job and you still make more than 99% of the country. As far as income. You still have more income than them. You get handed a job that you don't qualify for. We see that now in the presidency. We see that now in government period. Over 95% of all CEOs in America, probably members of Congress, all but one president, have been white men. And you fear becoming a minority. You've been the majority of this country. Since the inception of this country. And the only time you were outnumbered were when you were enslaving people. You may be outnumbered on your plantation, but you also are controlling people through violence and psychological warfare. There'll be a thousand times worse than us. Are minorities treated bad in this country or something? No, this is the, this is the, this is the issue with white people in America. And this is the issue with this system that's been set up in general is that it's out of balance with nature. And they, and they don't fear nature and they don't fear consequences. And karma is not a real thing to them. But the idea of karma creates a deep seated fear in them. They don't want to compete with anybody. They want to appoint their people. So this is why I go back to at the top of the show, stop calling this a democracy. All of this shit is fabrication and justification for them to continue on in a system of white supremacy. When the fuck has there not been white solidarity in this country. Jim Crow is the, the that is peak white solidarity. Space is for white people only. And then y' all remixing and y' all find ways to hide it in other ways. Y' all find ways, the red line. Y' all find ways loopholes in school systems so that minority, majority, minority communities get underfunded in education. You don't like education because people go to college, they get educated and they become less racist and they undo their misogyny and they have a little bit more freedom of expression. And you call it propaganda when it's literally education. It's just reading books, Studying, being studious, researching, seeing the world for what it actually is and not for what y' all would tell us it is on the news and that ushers in an era of anti intellectual. And then you try to declassify jobs based on the degrees, try to make them less professional. When more people of color are employed there now is not as important. Grasping at straws, man. It's the chickens coming home to roost. This shit is over, bro. You understand like y' all understand that this is over, this idea of America as a whole, it's over. I, I wrote some notes down. I wrote some notes because this can't, this can't persist. The lack of advancement in America is due to racism. Racism is a mental health issue that keeps white people in a perpetual childhood. They don't want to share their toys. They don't want to play with anybody who doesn't look like them. White men are the biggest threat to white people in regards to rape, pedophilia, family violence and family annihilation. They're equally, they're equally the most dangerous to the public at large with mass shootings, white terrorist organizations, and attempts to push us further into a fascist Christian nationalist, terroristic government that takes away the rights of most men. All the rights from women leave the future for our children looking bleak. White men get money and they want to make sure that it's damn near impossible for anyone else to get money. And that is what increases the wealth gap in America. White men get technology, steal your data, poison your air, completely survey your land. And yeah, let's make the robots racist too. But also it's the blacks and minorities.
Deontay Kyle
You should be worried about.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Black people are not your super. Black people are not your superheroes. You can't call the cops when you feel like we don't belong in your neighborhood, don't belong in a certain car, don't belong in a certain building, and then turn around and tell your kids to seek refuse with us when they get lost. If you get lost, go find a big black man, go find a black woman when your children lost or scared, you want to tell them to come seek us out. We're not your magical Negroes that are benevolent when you're in need and simultaneously malevolent when you have no use for us. Lack of advancement in America is due to racism. It's the fear of meritocracy and it's the falsehood that we live in a democracy when the reality is we live in a fascist oligarchy. And it's getting heavier on the fascism every day. When you look how ice.
Deontay Kyle
Is running.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Around in these streets. Ice as it stands today are modern day Nazis. And then you got niggas like JD Vance saying they gonna go door to door, That's just Nazi. For a while. They're gonna start chipping y' all ass. He's gonna get. This practice and these practices. And the way that America operates is nothing new to black people and other people of color. But black people specifically, because by and large, black people have never wanted to assimilate into whiteness. And we have a name for those of us that do. Everybody that considers themselves a person of.
Deontay Kyle
Color.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Has a slur for black people and have a deeply embedded anti blackness that they practice and they know is practiced in their communities. What black people have in our community is a slur for niggas in our community that want to be like white.
Deontay Kyle
People.
Big Ice Cube Cat
All while y' all assimilate to these things, assimilate to the American dream that you gotta be sleep to achieve. And the practice of whiteness is parasitic. You go to somebody like Aiden Ross, a parasite. Vlad TV a parasite. Adam 22, a parasite, a parasite that doesn't like the idea of a black woman working hard for what she's got, being talented as she is can rap her fucking ass off with the best of them. But it's also getting a lot of commercial success. Headlining tours, selling out shows, co signed by the greatest rapper alive in modern day in a Kendrick Lamar. And for whatever reason, this cracker has a beef with her. And I'm gonna tell you this, A white person cannot invalidate or validate anything in our spaces. So let's start there. Who gives a fuck what Aiden Ross thinks? Let's start there. I'mma start at the point point A a cracker can't invalidate or validate anything in our space. So who's to blame? And I would blame anyone within the culture who gave him validations with their presence on his show, on his stream. But also don't check his behavior. Because often you niggas get caught up in this capitalism game. Often you niggas get caught up in these industry games where it's only good for you to go where the eyes are. So you go where the eyes are as a form of self promotion, but not as self preservation. Because you go to places that seek to destroy and degrade the culture that changed your life. And you sit by silently. He has no smoke with Playboi Cardi who went on his show 10 minutes, ran off with the bread and he cowered and pussied the fuck up. But that's also an arm of the patriarchal system where everybody is okay when it's a woman. Because if he was to talk about Lil Durk like this, I can think of five rappers right now who'd be ready to jump down his motherfucking throat. But because this is a black woman, and because this black woman is affiliated with a group that don't seem like y' all like too much, don't seem like y' all all are big fans of Top Dog, Top Dog Entertainment. Don't seem like y' all too big of fans of that group and how they operate because they take care of their investments, they take care of their artists. And all of their artists have seen success in one form or another without being over in a deal. Sza, one of the biggest R B artists, Big Schoolboy Q, carved out his own lane. Very successful. Gonna sell out shows but keep it low key. J Rock, multiple hits. Absol a pillar of underground hip hop at this point, Isaiah Rashad, who doesn't love them. And now the newest act, Dochi trailblazing dark skinned woman in hip hop game at the forefront. Dark skinned woman getting all the campaigns in fashion. Dark skinned woman doing arena tours. Dark Skinned woman just existing. See, it's bad enough when they hate the woman, but you got nerve to be dark skinned too. Who this bitch think she is? And then y' all let this cracker call her out her name. And I ain't nothing like the rest of you niggas. I'm more like a Glasses Malone. I slapped the shit out that cracker on stream. But I also know that because his behavior has gone unchecked, he goes from feeling like a guest and an outsider and just being giddy and happy when a rapper shows up, to now feeling like he's an authority. And that's the ego of white men. To now act as an authority in a space that you don't create or contribute to at all, but then make threats towards black men with the police. Which is why I'll never be within arm's reach of this nigga. This is the thing we hated about six, nine, four security guards around you all the time. Four security guards around you all the time, always surrounded by the motherfucking police. Knowing how niggas don't play police games and knowing our history with the police in this country, knowing how you know how that situation get. But that's the boldness that comes with unchecked behavior. Anybody who ever sat next to this invalidated him. You are to blame for one, making him feel welcome in these spaces. If it was a come up, you should have treated him the way Playboy Cardi treated him, as a fucking jug. That's what we used to do in the street. We used to do that in the street, bruh. White people get taxed in the street. You might get your shit took in the street. So what give a fuck about you coming over here for no fucking drugs, Nigga, let me get that money. You get the fuck on unless you spend it big, then you just the best customer. And even at that, at the point of you being a good customer, you still getting text. This our shit. You coming in our neighborhood trying to get your motherfucking fixed. You finna get text. These niggas coming, our culture looking for they motherfucking fix and they don't get text. And it's the black faces that's around you that make you feel validated. And it's also the black faces around you unchecking that behavior that validates the opinion in the first place. But how do you deal with parasites?
Deontay Kyle
You're gonna starve them.
Big Ice Cube Cat
That mean making him uncomfortable in public and blocking any rap pages that are not run by black people, but promote content that Degrades our culture. I shouldn't know about this. This nigga, I don't follow this nigga. But y' all promote it because it's good for clicks and views. And if you call yourself a rap page and a fan of hip hop, you should never degrade the culture. You should never promote a fucking streamer that is being overtly disrespectful to one of the biggest artists in hip hop as it currently stands. That shouldn't even be something you promote. That degrades our culture. And then it creates a gotcha moment for the rest of people in hip hop. Like a Glasses Malone that actually cares about this shit and is ready to check the shit, but know that he's going to suffer the ultimate consequence of going to jail and being clowned online for going to jail, for putting his hands on this fucking nobody that got so much to say and has attached himself to our shit because he's a fucking parasite that nobody will give a fuck about otherwise. I blame all you niggas that go on these streams that have said openly racist things about black people. Niggas like Neon, that other streamer nigga, and y' all go hanging and yuck it up with this nigga. You niggas have no backbone. You don't stand for. And as long as the nigga is kissing your ass, you cool. But this, your hood. This thing that you pay for, this thing that pays you, that you sacrifice so many hours and so much time away from your family, away from your kids, away from everything in pursuit of a dream. This thing that people paved the road for before you, to even give you an opportunity to change your life. Once it changes your life, you don't treat it like it's sacred. Anybody who gets disrespected in hip hop is hip hop's business. And if you profit off hip hop, it's your business. And if you don't make it your business, then that's why ain't no that's why. That's how you kill hip hop. Cause you don't make it your business. And the further they degrade your culture, the less significant and valuable it is. And if you take your name off of it, they talking about you, too. If he would talk about do you like that? If he would talk about Meg like that. And he won't mention Meg no more because the lawsuit. But if he would talk about them the way that he talks about them, he'll talk about your mama the same way he'll talk about your sister, the same way. But as long as it's not personalized, you fuck niggas don't take it personal, but it's hip hop, nigga. You supposed to defend the thing that feeds you, but as long as they don't put your name in it, it ain't none of your business. If it has to do with the business of hip hop, it's your business if you get paid off. Hip hop, nigga. That's how you preserve culture. I could blame the whiteness. Second, I'll blame the niggas who let him in first, because he should have never had a opinion in our. I ain't tripping on them being white. That's what white people do. I already know that's how he gonna act. That's what white people do. Then I did it time and time again. Mark Wahlberg had a hip hop song. This was one of those violent racist from. Didn't he put a Vietnamese boy eye out or some shit like that. Constantly notably sad slurs towards black people. But this was what the good vibration. This was an underwear model. All type of. I don't care nothing about this. I don't. I. I expect white people to be white. Violent, disrespectful, entitled. That's white folk. That's what they do. They're desperate to be in our spaces, and we get them too much grace, and then they start to proceed as an authority when the reality is you shouldn't be giving that outside of your culture no grace. You don't get no grace around here, nigga. None. This our shit. I don't go in nobody house and walk straight to their refrigerator, nigga. And I ain't never been there. I'm walking nobody house they ain't never been to before and see people in the house and don't speak to them. They do that all the time. It's second nature to them because in order to build anything substantial, it requires labor. They don't want to build anything substantial. They want to latch on to the thing that we built and then proceed in it as disrespectful, derogatory, and as an authority. And you niggas don't see a problem with that because it's not a dress to you, because the only thing you care about is money. But at this pace, you let these niggas like this continue on, in five years, there won't be no money to be made in this, nor will it be relevant. Black people created every genre of music in this country, and once y' all co opted it Outcasted us and used corporate money to funnel in your own talent that look like you black people said, all right, fuck it, and moved on and created something new. So while I can resonate with some of the songs that come out of rock and roll, I don't speak as an authority because I don't listen to all that shit. Some of them shit is just good.
Deontay Kyle
Vibes.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But that's not my shit. I'm not a metalhead. So I'm not going to start a stream up and start speaking on metal music as if I'm a fucking authority. I got my own shit over here. But they don't never go and discuss their own shit because it takes us to make some shit popping. Whatever we decide cool is the cool. So they latch onto the shit that we decide is cool. The shit that we start that make these corporations billions of fucking dollars and makes a very few of us millionaires has made one or two of us billionaires and the rest of us struggle to achieve that success. And a cracker can sit on the sidelines from the comfort of his own home and start up a stream with us always being at the forefront of discussion. And y' all don't check this. He making money off of you, off the shit you built a parasite. If y' all don't starve this or make him uncomfortable, he'll continue to do it. And because he feeling the heat now he want to mention the police, which is another threat towards you. You got your coon ass. Yes, man, next to you. What'd he say? Oh, y' all could check them. Y' all could do whatever y' all want to them. Just don't touch me. If I was around him, I mean, man, I be. Don't jump that fuck nigga. But a cracker cannot invalidate or validate anything in this culture. Not to me, at least. I don't know how y' all give it up over there with what y'.
Deontay Kyle
All got going on.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But as far as me in my house, cracker can't validate or invalidate anything for me. So not only do I not give a fuck what he said about Dochi, it don't hold no motherfucking weight. Cause I know he wouldn't say it to her face. I know he wouldn't say it around now. One of them tde.
Deontay Kyle
We'll be right back.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We back. I wanted to discuss this one last thing as we discuss America.
Deontay Kyle
As we.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Discuss the business of America, is some.
Deontay Kyle
Of these tweets that came out or I think it was a Reddit post by engineer at Doordash who said these things while drunk and operating under a massive NDA about some of the business practices of doordash and. Probably parallels some of the business practices of other multi billion dollar corporations alike. The first thing is DoorDash referring to.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Their drivers as human assets, nigga.
Deontay Kyle
To dehumanize people that way.
Big Ice Cube Cat
The basis of doordash is that all of the labor is done by these human assets. And without these human assets there is no doordash. So this is the goes to the point that I say about this. The way that this, this system will devalue the work that you're doing while.
Deontay Kyle
You'Re making them billions of dollars.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Human asset is dehumanizing. But without the labor of the human asset, there is no business. Without people driving for DoorDash, there is no business. And this promise of you making your own schedule, you becoming your own boss is just corporate bullshit. That's bullshit because they're gonna eventually fix it where you damn near working minimum wage. So that brings me to the desperation score. So the desperation score is the person who starts off their day taking as many trips as they possibly can. Even if it isn't that cost beneficial. They take a lot of low, low end trips. Four or five dollars, they can make four or five dollars off this trip.
Deontay Kyle
Woo.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Do either way. Point being, that creates a desperation score where they won't offer you things out of that 4, 5, $, 6 range because you're desperate for the money. So your actions show desperation and they go out of their way to keep you desperate. Whereas people who just do it passively and will wait for a play that'll make them 10, 15, $20, they continue to give those people those type of plays. So almost as if, if you don't need it, it's more beneficial to you. But if you need it as a means of income, they're going to keep you on a fucking hamster wheel. Such as America. Buying priority. Charging you more for a priority delivery only slows down standard deliveries. It doesn't actually bump you up, it just slows everything else down. Which is why sometimes when you order off the delivery app, it'll say it'll be there in like 20 minutes or something like that. And then you look back and it's like 40 minutes. Like what the fuck, it was just 20. But you don't give a fuck because you ain't gotta leave your house. That's why I tell you niggas about using these apps that are all about.
Deontay Kyle
Convenience.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I've never ordered anything on doordash that was just like woof.
Deontay Kyle
God damn that was amazing.
Big Ice Cube Cat
It's always mid cause nothing gon bust like the shit that's hot out the oven. I need my shit on a plate. And fast food shit, it's fast food. None of that shit good. It used to be chick fil a was top tier fast food that shit so ass now. And also why do you need 35 ingredients to make a chicken sandwich? At minimum is two ingredients. Bread, chicken, Flour, a lot of flour. You know what I'm saying?
Deontay Kyle
A lot of flour, a lot of chicken.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, what a do where the other 33 ingredients come from. But the, the thing that got me caught up is not even the, the inhumane practices of, you know.
Deontay Kyle
Desperation scores.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Is something that I know from driving trucks. These trucking companies, these, these brokers will purposely throw out these extremely low ball little to no profit ass loads. Basically the only thing you paying for is your gas. But people will take them.
Deontay Kyle
So they continue to offer them.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And that is a practice that Americans need to get away from, is just taking whatever they give you. When you in business for yourself, they encourage you to negotiate. But when you work for them, you gotta take what they'll give you. And this is why the driver service fee doesn't go to the driver. It goes to the company to lobby against unions. Because unions are there to protect and negotiate on behalf of the worker. The last thing is the tipping culture where the driver doesn't receive all of the tip that you give them through the app. The company still takes a percentage or will adjust the rate or adjust the cost so that they can get some. So if something was $35, right, and you tip 10, they'll take the cost down to $32 and pocket three. And when you can just adjust things on a scale like that, then are you doing real business and should it cost as much? 2026 needs to be the year that we do away with using the apps for convenience. I understand if you are without car, I understand if you have a disability, but if you have a car and you're able bodied, get your ass up and go to the fucking store. Because not only is somebody on the other side of that phone putting in labor with little to no return, but you're also funding billionaire corporations that don't have the interests of their workers or their customers in mind. Only thing they're interested in is your money. Everywhere you turn in this fucking country, people are asking for your attention and your goddamn money. And sometimes in order to get those people from getting your attention, you got to pay more money. That is YouTube Premium. You don't want to get pitched at all day. You won't be sold to all day. Just throw US$20 a month. We got you. I did the premium free for 30 days. Changed my fucking life, man. Damn bro, they got me. Cause now when you go back and you looking like God damn. It was this many fucking ads. It's worse than television. And here's the other thing too. Independent creators, it's like, okay, cool bro, I'm glad you getting your money, but.
Deontay Kyle
God damn.
Big Ice Cube Cat
This two hour video every.
Deontay Kyle
Ten minutes you got a fucking ad.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I can't even. I like a stream of thought. I can't even get into your stream of thought. Every time you got down, really finna make a point, they break that bitch up with an ad. This is the practice of these corporations. They are anti human and pro profit, but they need the humans to profit from it. It's almost like they hate the fact they gotta go through us to get our fucking money. 2026, there needs to be more collective practicing about what we give our money and our attention to and what we digest online. Starve the parasites if you love this culture and somebody disrespect the culture block if the page promotes that degradation block. Stop engaging in rage bait online. 2026, we did it all last year. Fuck it. Don't gotta be a new you, just a new practice. You don't have to subject yourself to this shit. But it's going to require a little action on your part for you not to be subjected to it. Your algorithm is comprised of two things. The things you like and the things you refuse to dislike. Something come across your tl, you don't give a fuck about it or it triggers you in some type of way. But you don't block it, you don't hide it, you don't mute it. Then you gonna see more of it because it's inaction on your part. Get active if you gonna be on the bitch all day. Be active about it. Be proactive about it.
Deontay Kyle
Be intentional about it.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You understand me? Be intentional. Do away with any app of convenience unless you're absolutely dependent on it. I'm not talking about disabled people here. I'm not talking about people who don't have a car or a situation happened where you gotta feed your kids but you're not at home. There are some situations where it is absolutely a lifesaver to have doordash. In most situations you are Just being lazy.
Deontay Kyle
Word is bond.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And remember this, A white person cannot validate nor invalidate anything in our culture.
Deontay Kyle
We'll be right back after these commercial breaks.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We back Big Cat. Yo, yo.
Deontay Kyle
Okay, okay. Got a couple voicemails.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Ow.
Deontay Kyle
Let's see. See, let's see.
Shango Supreme (Caller)
Yo, what's up? I'm Yemi. I'm a rapper. And while I'm on stage, I go by Shango Supreme. I'm on my way to work right now, but I want to tell you about a show slash community event that I'm throwing January 17th here in Baltimore, Maryland. So it's a revolutionary themed birthday party and birthday show. On top of that, I'll have organizations from the community in Baltimore coming to talk about what they do in the community. So like I got like the Enoch Pratt Library pulling up. They provide people with, you know, library services, like free grocery stores. I got Black run Org, all black run clubs in Baltimore. I got B Social Society coming. This is like a social club in Baltimore. I got the Tendea family come in. So they're like a community or organization that like serves, literally serves the community. Like they patrol the neighborhoods and stuff like that. Might have some other people coming, but I can't remember right now. But yeah, look through my social media. Shangle Supreme. S H a N D O S U P R E M e on Instagram and then like, in terms of like dsps, I'm everywhere. Shango Supreme. But this is our supreme peace. Thank y' all for doing everything that y' all doing. And like, y' all were a really big part of inspiring this movie. Thank you.
Deontay Kyle
I appreciate you, brother. Glad we can inspire. You know, if you live in the Baltimore area, definitely tap in. If you listening to this right now, brother, make sure you plug all your in the comments. Let's see, let's see.
Shango Supreme (Caller)
Good morning, deontay cow. Good morning.
Caller
Big bucket hat, big ice cook cat.
Shango Supreme (Caller)
Hey, man, I just wanna no one.
Caller
Take too much time.
Shango Supreme (Caller)
In 2026. Could at least put this on the list. Arguing and going back and forth on social media with racist and giving them views and likes and monetizing them. We gonna start calling that coon, baby. We don't gave all the knowledge. We don't told them what they want. They gripped them and they still keep falling for the rage day at this point. Hey, they funding them coon patrol on that though. Y' all have a good day, man. Keep doing what y' all do. We always love y'.
Caller
All.
Shango Supreme (Caller)
Hey, that's how I feel about it.
Deontay Kyle
That's how I feel about it, too.
Big Cat
Yeah, man.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You know, we done did this shit long enough, bro.
Deontay Kyle
It's time to just. You gotta disengage with this shit, especially online.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, Being active in person, standing on your square in person, that's a very important thing. Going back and forth with a racist.
Deontay Kyle
Online is crazy work.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And you're gonna make it to a.
Deontay Kyle
Point where you're dependent on racist to create content. And at that point, are you any better than them? All right, we're gonna take one more.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Email.
Deontay Kyle
I mean, voicemail.
Big Cat
Yeah, yeah, voicemail.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, we're gonna take one more. Let's see. Let's see.
Caller
Yeah, man, what up, Deontay? And big ice Cub cat, like, y' all made me up my blunt so I could find this number, man. But, yeah, my name's Trey and I'm from Chicago. But y' all be doing y' all thing. I just wanted to call in and let y' all know that y' all doing y' all thing. I can't wait till y' all come to Chicago so I can see y' all in person. Cause y' all be out here speaking to the youth, man. And I'll be trying to put my folks on, man. I sent y' all episode with Alisa Deep to my homies folk, and my homie tried to tell me, like, he wasn't rocking with that. I had to break it down to him, like, you out here wild. And he tried to talk about the time Ali was like, with Buddy in the office. They had called him a snitch, and he ain't put hands on. Talking about either you gonna put hands.
Shango Supreme (Caller)
On them or you just gonna go back your day.
Caller
I'm like, man, Joe, how you gonna say that when you did the same thing? We worked the job, and a dude was up in there talking smack about him, folks, and right. He ain't even put his hands on no. He like. He's like, man, you lucky I'm trying to work this job. I ain't gonna put my hands on you. But he gonna try to call Ali a sucker for not doing the same thing that he did. I had to call Buddy out. I'm like, for your ass tweaking, dog. But, yeah, y' all doing y' all thing out here in these streets, man. Keep it up, G. Appreciate it, my man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Shout out to my.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, yeah.
Big Cat
Finish that blunt first. When you called off, get that blunt.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Right before you call in, baby. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Next time, man. I ain't gonna hold you, though. Man, self preservation is the first rule of nature facts.
Deontay Kyle
You gotta take care of yourself, bro. You can't let people trick you out your spot. And that's what Ali was saying in that segment is like he could have easily been tricked out of spot because that was the fault, the lead up question. That was the question that enacted that conversation.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So, you know, I think that it's.
Deontay Kyle
Very easy to let words trick you out your spot. But the same way he was trying to preserve that job, he was trying to preserve his freedom. And that nigga never gonna be a sucker for that.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Right? Okay, we got a couple emails, we got three. And then we're gonna get up out of here.
Deontay Kyle
We're gonna get about y' all here.
Big Cat
Are they messy?
Deontay Kyle
I don't.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I. You know, what's the subject line?
Deontay Kyle
Subject line.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Strong legs, weak boundaries. Okay. My type of girl.
Big Cat
Ah, I'm sorry, sir.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Big ice cup. If you got strong legs right now, but you need a little work on your boundaries, call 657234, eggs and ask for big ice cupcat. Hey, yo.
Deontay Kyle
All right, let's get into it, man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Hey, Deontay.
Deontay Kyle
Big ice cup cat. Not to be dramatic, but y' all are the absolute best thing that's happened to me. Y' all were my number one on YouTube rep. Truly love and appreciate Yalls, work with the community. It's admirable and I love you guys. Now to the mess that is my love life. Okay, that's what we here for, baby. You know what we came for. But thank you. Freshly 25 year old woman working at a law firm. Planning to go into law. Living on my own in the gym. Consistently trying to get my life together in all the ways that matter. On paper, I'm doing fine. In reality, my love life is in shambles. I was in a long relationship from 17 to 21. Only two years were spent being his girlfriend, by the way. That ended badly. And ever since then it's just been a cycle of situationships. The worst one was last year. A nine month situation with a man who had no car, no stability. No stability and plenty audacity. I was horny, lonely and way too kind. I caught feelings. He benefited. When I finally walked away. He insulted me. A situation really messed me up.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Fast forward.
Deontay Kyle
Ever got every guy sense. Either plays nice at first and keeps things strictly sexual.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Oh, ever.
Deontay Kyle
Every guy since then either plays nice at first or keeps things strictly sexual. Even now I'm kind of talking to someone out of state. Mostly sexual. And I caught myself getting anxious over response times and immediately had to shut it down. That scared me. Here's the thing. I'm very lustful. Hmm. We can tell.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We appreciate the honesty, but we figured that out. We gathered it. You know what I mean?
Deontay Kyle
I'm very lustful, but I'm also very loving. I want real connection. I want someone who cares about the small stuff, my favorite songs, movies, who I am as a person. Instead, I keep ending up desired but not chosen. And I know part of this is my boundaries, but damn, it still hurts. I'm in therapy, I'm in the gym. I'm trying to grow, but I'm tired of feeling like I'm too old for these situations and somehow I'm always in them. My question is, how do you break the cycle of situationships when you genuinely want love without shutting your heart down or becoming bitter love, y', all, you have to stop leading with your sexual desire. Yeah.
Big Cat
Discipline.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
I think that everybody wants to be.
Big Ice Cube Cat
With somebody they wanna fuck.
Big Cat
Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
So of course a physical attraction is necessary. Some sort of sexual chemistry is necessary. But are you getting to know anything about them before you giving them the cat?
Big Ice Cube Cat
Because the thing is, is like if you don't know my middle name, you don't know my mama name.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah. You don't know like who I am.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Where I'm from, nothing.
Deontay Kyle
It's just been like a lot of surface level sweet talks that end up with us having sex. Then I mean, why would I, I'm.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Not gonna say why would I invest more?
Deontay Kyle
But for a 25 year old, a young man.
Big Cat
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
If their, if their intention is purely sexual, once they get the sex, that's, that's, that's it. That's it, you know what I mean? They out. So it's also a thing about, you know, the boundary.
Deontay Kyle
The big, the bigger boundary is are.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You willing to wait?
Deontay Kyle
You know what I mean? If you're not willing to wait and.
Big Ice Cube Cat
For them to put forth effort, if, if I don't have to put forth.
Deontay Kyle
Any effort to get what I want, then what's the point of putting forth the effort? And then also too, you could be.
Big Ice Cube Cat
A very studious and you should be.
Deontay Kyle
Learning from these past situationships about how men interact with you when they only want to fuck you.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Because then moving forward you'll know like if you ain't on that sexual timing.
Deontay Kyle
With them and they completely fall back or they only hit you up every now and then, then you know that that's their intention and you also know that that's not what you want.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So if you know that that's not.
Deontay Kyle
What you want, then you have to stop justifying it and going for it. Like you can't keep just like, oh, I'm horny, so I'm a fuck this dude. But then I'm also kind of want him to want me for more than that. Well, you kind of don't want them for more than that, you know. So I think the thing is, is.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Like maybe we take a few months.
Deontay Kyle
Maybe it's okay to, you know, it sound like you've been constantly from one dude to the next since 17, or at least since you broke up with this.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But even the dude you was dealing.
Deontay Kyle
With for five years, you was only his girlfriend for two years.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So you've just grown accustomed to situationships. So how about you take six minutes.
Deontay Kyle
Away from situation and relationships in general and just focus solely on self and focus on creating boundaries in small areas of your life. Like, you know, diet and exercise are great things. It takes discipline to do those things. You don't have an issue with that discipline. How do you roll that discipline over into your, to the, to your sex life or your love life?
Big Ice Cube Cat
And are you exercising these same boundaries.
Deontay Kyle
With friends, with family?
Big Ice Cube Cat
Are you letting everybody in your life.
Deontay Kyle
Just kind of treat you any type of way without any pushback or standard set by you?
Big Ice Cube Cat
So if you don't set those standards.
Deontay Kyle
In your, you know, friendships, if you don't set those standards and dynamics with your family, then you're not going to set those standards in your love life. And you need to investigate that part. You need to investigate where the lack of boundaries started when it comes to being in relationship with people. And I think that's going to require some falling back from you.
Big Ice Cube Cat
What you got big cat?
Big Cat
Six doesn't equate love, you know what I mean? So I think you think having sex with a man is going to keep him and that's not the case. You know, once you give a man some cat a couple times, especially at 25. I know at 25, shit, I was out. I said I got what I wanted at 25. I'm just being honest. That's just a brutally honest truth at 25. Yeah. So I think, you know, make them earn it, make them wait a little bit, you know, why must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog in me.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Well, also too, it's like you're giving.
Deontay Kyle
Them more time to be interested in other things. Yeah, for sure. The first attraction is always physical. I don't know anything else. If I'm not required to know anything else, then, hey, shit, I'm good with what I got, you know what I'm saying? So I think that, you know, you need to taper some of your own fucking horniness. You got. Damn.
Big Cat
You know what I'm saying?
Deontay Kyle
Cause you very horny ass individual, you.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Know what I'm saying?
Big Cat
A man in a role with being sick. I mean, you got a high sex drive.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that. But also.
Big Cat
You guys learn how to discipline it now. You guys learn how to win the dish it out, you know what I'm saying?
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, I mean, find you like, find you somebody that you only deal with.
Deontay Kyle
For sex, you know what I mean? If that's the case, Just so you can scratch that itch, I suppose.
Big Cat
She's a lover girl. Yeah, she wants to cuddle and she wants all the extras that come with it. Dates and all that.
Deontay Kyle
Well, that come with a different subset.
Big Cat
That's what I'm saying.
Big Ice Cube Cat
That's what I'm saying.
Deontay Kyle
That come with a different subset.
Big Cat
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Deontay Kyle
Like maybe they can take me on a date, you know what I'm saying? Like all these things, you know, A.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Few dates, a few days, you know what I'm saying? Nothing wrong with a little two, three, date before you get the cake.
Big Cat
Yeah, sit on that. Sit on it first.
Deontay Kyle
Not literally.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Not literally.
Big Cat
No, not literally.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Not literally. Just hold off for a minute.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, hold out.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Hold out.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, there you go.
Big Cat
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I was trying to say? Hold out for a minute, you know what I'm saying?
Big Ice Cube Cat
And then when the time is right, do your thing. Shit.
Deontay Kyle
All right.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I'm fighting for my life. Goddamn.
Deontay Kyle
No, seriously.
Big Ice Cube Cat
What's up, big Cat?
Deontay Kyle
What's up, Deontay? I hope you both are doing well. I'll try to keep this concise. I'm 23. I'm currently living at home with my parents. At 18, I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease that led to end stage kidney failure. Currently on dialysis and awaiting a kidney transplant. A few months ago, I found out that my father has been cheating on my mother, which has strained our relationship. More recently, I learned that he may be trying to exploit my illness by receiving caregiver checks for services he doesn't actually provide, while also exaggerating how sick I am. Damn.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Damn.
Big Cat
Damn, Pops.
Deontay Kyle
It's always a dad, ain't it?
Big Ice Cube Cat
Foul niggas, huh?
Deontay Kyle
Foul ass niggas. Son, I mentioned the cheating situation because this isn't the first time in the past when it Happened. He moved our family to a new place while continuing to see other women. At the time, I believe he provided housing because I was a child. Now, as an adult, I'm worried about how he might react if I confront him, especially given his struggles with mental health. Over the past few months, I've been relying on my disability benefits and an emergency fund while taking time off to work to learn how to manage my dialysis treatments at home. Here are the main challenges I'm facing and where I could really use guidance. Housing. If I confront him, it could affect not only me, but also my mother and another family member who currently lives with us. Financial stability. I have a small emergency fund, but it won't last long. If things go left, I'd have very little financial security. I do qualify for low cost or free education benefits through him, so I've been considering waiting it out, looking into a skilled trade or remote work, something flexible enough to do while managing my dialysis. My mother. My mother helps with transportation since I don't have my driver's license yet. She works per diem, which allows her to support me. She also has free education benefits through him that she is using to get higher pay. I appreciate you both taking time to read. Read this. Any perspective or advice would mean a lot. So I'm assuming the father is in the military and that's how they getting these benefits. I'm. We're working, babe.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Can I charge?
Deontay Kyle
That's tough, you know? Yeah, that's. That's tough.
Big Cat
We don't want him to lose housing.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, you can't lose housing because your pop. Your pop's gonna be who he is.
Big Cat
Regardless, no matter what you say.
Deontay Kyle
So here's the thing.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I think. You love your mother. Mm.
Big Cat
You love your father.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You love your dad. But if the cheating is not an.
Deontay Kyle
Issue for your mother, I wouldn't make it an issue for yourself.
Big Cat
I was gonna say the same thing. She probably already know.
Deontay Kyle
She already know.
Big Cat
Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
I would say, like, I mean, damn, bruh. You know what I'm saying?
Big Cat
That's a tough situation, bro. Wait till you get that kidney.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, because at the. At the. You don't want to put yourself in.
Deontay Kyle
A situation where you. Now, you need housing and you still gotta manage his dialysis. The pros don't outweigh the cons for confronting him, right?
Big Cat
Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
Because confront him, not confront him. Your dad gonna be your dad. He gonna operate this way. You gonna have to get in a space where you are able to take care of yourself, which can be very difficult given Your situation with your health. So.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I would say not.
Deontay Kyle
I wouldn't confront this nigga in this situation because he obviously likes to hold power over people too.
Big Cat
I would say talk to your mom about it. Ask her. Do she know?
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, but if you rock the boat.
Big Cat
Like that, I mean, but she probably already knows though.
Big Ice Cube Cat
That's another thing too.
Big Cat
But I think she already know.
Big Ice Cube Cat
She obviously already knows.
Big Cat
She already know.
Big Ice Cube Cat
I mean, I'm pretty sure that. Yeah, I'm pretty sure if you know.
Big Cat
Yeah, she, your mom knows.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah.
Big Cat
If you figured it out.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Exactly.
Big Cat
She's figured it out.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And you ain't tell us the details.
Deontay Kyle
Into how you figured this shit out.
Big Cat
Yeah.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But this obviously is something your pops be doing.
Deontay Kyle
Like this is how your dad give it up.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So here's the thing. Even though that, that affects you on an emotional level, all of these things.
Deontay Kyle
Are affecting you in different ways.
Big Ice Cube Cat
But the pros and the cons don't.
Deontay Kyle
Weigh out like the cons here are way higher than the pros because losing housing, giving your situation, that's not an option. So I would say here's the thing.
Big Ice Cube Cat
These, this is one of those things that it feels like you just gonna have to eat that. Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
So you can preserve your living situation. And it's because you not as able bodied as everybody else.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Had you not had to. If you didn't have to manage dialysis.
Deontay Kyle
I would tell you to goddamn confront it.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Because you have that factored in.
Deontay Kyle
You need to kind of also lower the stress levels on yourself too. You can't get involved in this because the thing is, is that it is touch and go, very life or death situation for you. So you can't operate in this way as if it's not. You have to kind of.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You're going to have to be a.
Deontay Kyle
Little bit more mindful of like how you give it up. I would say for me, the smart play is to just kind of focus on the parts that you can control, which is your living situation, not your living situation, but your work situation.
Big Ice Cube Cat
And you have to be patient when.
Deontay Kyle
It comes to the transplant. So I'm saying maybe a good move would be a work from home situation if it's possible. Because even in the trades, trades aren't that flexible. They require long hours. And I would be ignorant to say that I knew the ins and outs of the dialysis process. I don't know that. So, yeah, this is, this is quite the conundrum, you know, it's quite the situation. I honestly don't want to guide you in the wrong way because I really don't know what to tell you but I will say that like you should not risk having shelter given the situation. And I think the other situation is like finding something that's flexible for you given your medical situation. Probably the best thing is gonna be a work from home type vibe and your health and your life comes first. So even if it's not necessarily what.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You wanna do, it's kinda what you.
Deontay Kyle
Need to do while you await a transplant and you know we wish you all the best. This is a very tough situation. I think your mom probably like you said mom probably know what's going on. So you know I would say do, do the best you can to make sure that you're safe and you're protected and let your parents business be they business. The thing with your dad exploiting like he is gonna do that, you know what I mean?
Big Ice Cube Cat
Even if you was to move out.
Deontay Kyle
He would still probably do that. So I think that you're gonna cause more stress on yourself and risk more trying to change him or confront him about his actions. It's gonna do more harm than good and I don't want to see you in a harmful space. Yeah, I wish you all the best though.
Big Ice Cube Cat
A Gen Z with a problem.
Deontay Kyle
Oh, all right.
Big Cat
What kind of problem could a Gen Z have?
Deontay Kyle
A lot of problems.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yo Deontay big cat.
Deontay Kyle
I'm 25 year old truck driver. I need some advice and help to an extent. I live in south Alabama to be exact. I feel like I'm made for something bigger. Like I said, I'm a truck driver for a large corporation and they're terrible. Even though it's good bread, they try to control your life. Because of my age I can go on forever about them. But that's not the point of this email. I don't want to do this trucking shit forever. Okay, we're going to pause there.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So however long you've been there you.
Deontay Kyle
Need to utilize the truck driving. They're always hiring so you can definitely find a better company than the one that you work for. Truck driving companies are always hiring to some extent. It is going to take up the bulk of your life. You can't really do anything about that. Especially with these companies that want to have you like back out after your 36 hours.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So you know that's just, that's just.
Deontay Kyle
Life in the trade, you know, that's, that's, that's what the trade is in, in the trade of truck driving the truck is gonna get way more your time than anything. Else and you need to be intentional about taking time off if you do decide to go somewhere else. But I would say if you got a sure thing, you got insurance and you can kind of pretty much estimate your money, just go do your job and work on your plan B. So we'll go on to the next step. I could go on forever about them, but that's not the point of this email. I don't want to do this trucking shit forever. I want to be able to help us black people in and around the area and surrounding states have safe places spaces to promote on larger scales to help create changes and change the narrative around us. As a whole tall task. We could be financially independent if we use the same dollars and time we put into corporations and whitewashed businesses into us. I want to help change that by starting with smaller cities and branching out. But I honestly don't know where or how to start. I don't care about the bread coming or coming up. Trying to make this a get rich quick. I wish us as far as black people to not have to go through so many hurdles. The main goal is not to copy the white's way of climbing the ladder, but as a unit. Each person we bring up could master and teach. The next or younger is coming up. I could go on forever, but I do have ideas. I just don't want this to be too long. If you read this to help in any way, I would be very appreciative. Please and thank you. I hope this makes sense. PS Fuck with y'. All Heavy Big Ice Cup Cat and Deontay. Y' all need to do a V Jitsu class for the Patreon or the pod. The goal is to have networks and businesses how Indians and Orientals have when they come to the US to live. All right, Orientals is crazy.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Well, first of all.
Deontay Kyle
Most of those migrants get loans to start up their businesses, grants even at no cost. So let's not try to do things the way that anybody else does it. I would think that first of all there's, you know, wanting to help black people and help the black generation as a whole is a. That's a wide brush that you're going to be painting with. I think that you need to figure out what's a small actionable step that you can do where you live. Whether that be volunteering your time, volunteering your skills or going to more, you know, or figuring out if there are grassroots organizations near you that are organizing around efforts to do the same thing. I would get involved with the organization so you can learn a little bit more about organizing. So you can learn a little bit more about what you're trying to do from people who are actively trying to do it. I can guarantee you not the only person with this aspiration. But there's a lot of ideas and then there's execution and then there's the details of these things. So, you know, You know, changing the.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Narrative starts with changing you.
Deontay Kyle
Changing the narrative also starts with.
Big Ice Cube Cat
The.
Deontay Kyle
Type of language that you tolerate around you. You know what I'm saying? There's a lot of control that we have to do in ourselves and in the spaces that we already occupy. And then there's doing it at a large scale. So I'm not really sure, you know, what the politics of South Alabama are. I'm not really sure what's active down there, but I would look into like seeing where you could volunteer your time and look to see what organizations already exist that you can get involved in. And then I would say like the biggest way to help your community is to first help yourself. So create some stability in your life and understand that like the work is never going to be done, right? So even if you're not truck driving, you're going to be doing some form of work or labor for the duration of the time that you hear until you retire. And even when you people retire, they still need to stay active because a sedentary lifestyle will kill you. So you young, you 25, and you very like passionate about the community. But if there's no clear direction on what you want to do and how you want to do, because you're saying a lot of things, but it's like, that's very, it's very general. So it's like you need to figure out a plan and some specifics around that plan before you enact any change. You know what I mean? And also, you know, a lot, a.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Lot of grammar errors, a lot of run on sentences, you know, saying in this email.
Deontay Kyle
So if you are going to be doing things professionally as far as like.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You know, making proposals to people or.
Deontay Kyle
Pitching ideas to people, people are going to pay attention to that. It don't mean so much to me because I understand, you know, your heart and your passion. But, you know, a lot of punctuation errors, a lot of run on sentences, a lot of woody woo woops. I think that people judge off of these things. I won't, I just notice them. But moving forward, you know, if you make a proposal to me and it reads the way this email reads, I wouldn't take it seriously. I'm just being honest. So, you know, let's get studious. Let's get back to the basis of like grammar, reading, writing, these things like that so that when it comes time, it comes across as professional, it comes across as somebody is detail oriented and it comes across as somebody I should take seriously. Those are small little things that you could do right now that can help you in the future. As far as everything else, I would say control the things that you can control now and be open minded and studious about finding out who around you, what organizations around you or near you are already doing this work and see how you can volunteer your time and learn from the people who are actively doing it. Big Head, you got anything?
Big Cat
You said everything needed to be said, brother.
Deontay Kyle
Everything that needed to be said. You said it, man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
So this was episode 112.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, yeah, man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You know, we back. We are back.
Deontay Kyle
We got a lot of guests coming up, man. A lot of, A lot of great guests.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Make sure that I know y' all want to do knowledge, but tap into.
Deontay Kyle
Those guest episodes because.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah, I'm not, I'm not the typical.
Deontay Kyle
Interviewer, you know, I'm not.
Big Ice Cube Cat
It's not all about just asking and.
Deontay Kyle
Pitching questions to the interviewee. A lot of times we just having a great conversation. There's a lot of gems being dropped. It's a lot of knowledge that could be done in those guest episodes.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We didn't say this at the beginning of the show. I knew we was missing something. What happened? Because if you've been on the YouTube, you have seen us very scarcely throughout the month.
Deontay Kyle
But if you've been on that Patreon. Hey, and guess What? That Patreon $8 ain't nothing but $8.
Big Ice Cube Cat
If you go tap into the Patreon.
Deontay Kyle
You would have gotten a stream two episodes. Yeah, the wrap up episode with an additional hour on it. Yes.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You get a lot of content over there. Why you was while you was waiting. So sorry for the wait.
Deontay Kyle
But we back now.
Big Ice Cube Cat
You know what I'm saying? We back.
Deontay Kyle
We are back now.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We are looking to forward to a even better 2026. Reaching more people, expanding the audience, but.
Deontay Kyle
Always staying true to the core of what this is. And that's to do the knowledge. You know, we doing the knowledge. We offering a commentary that the others may be scared to do. We're doing it all independent. It's just me and Big Cat.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
But this year we want to get more into collaborative efforts when it comes to some of our apparel. More collaborative efforts. When it comes to having great guests on and, you know, extending the music show, you know, you might catch us on stream, you know what I'm saying? We might go dip our toe in.
Big Ice Cube Cat
That streaming world, that twitch world.
Deontay Kyle
Yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying?
Big Cat
Little music for you.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Little music over there.
Deontay Kyle
An extension of new music Monday, where we'll be listening and rating music on stream, live on stream. So.
Big Ice Cube Cat
2026, big year, bigger year, you know what I'm saying? 2025. Best year of my life.
Big Cat
Yeah, man, 2026.
Big Ice Cube Cat
We trying to keep that momentum going. We're glad to be back.
Deontay Kyle
We're happy to be back.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Glad you back.
Deontay Kyle
And until next time, take care of yourselves. Take care of each other, you know what I'm saying? It's just hip hop. It's just, you know what I'm saying? It's just my.
Big Ice Cube Cat
It's just rats, man. Turn me up, man. It's just rap.
Deontay Kyle
I just want to rap, you know? I just want to rap, man. I just want to rap.
Caller
Yeah.
Deontay Kyle
Hey, man.
Big Ice Cube Cat
Yeah.
Unknown Speaker
They say without the proper labor, faith don't stand a chance. I put my faith in faith and stand on fertile land. I planted seeds that'll indeed turn into trees before rest in peace teas get printed to me unless impeded. Matter of fact, that got me thinking back when Mr. Love was tending to his garden, schooling me to annuity before he grabbed his clubs to go golfing. And it's no coincidence that doe still had the caddy back when woods were still the best. Don't let me roll off course here, Georgie. Pops was dropping jams while I was.
Host: Deante’ Kyle
Guests/Co-hosts: Big Ice Cube Cat, Big Cat
Date: January 13, 2026
In this raw and unfiltered episode, Deante’ Kyle and his co-hosts return from hiatus for a fiery 2026 kickoff. They weave deep commentary on American politics, race, and pop culture with biting humor and personal wisdom. The hosts deconstruct issues ranging from media manipulation, the myth of meritocracy, and state violence against Black people, to the parasitic influence of culture vultures and the exploitation of labor by corporate giants. The guiding message—starve the parasites—serves both as a call for cultural self-preservation and a rejection of giving attention or resources to those who exploit Black culture or labor. Listener questions on relationships, family drama, and community organizing bring the conversation back to real-life struggles and actionable advice.
"America is not a democracy. America is not a meritocracy."
— Deante’ Kyle [07:30]
“It's a third world country with a Gucci belt.”
— Deante’ Kyle [08:09]
“When black people start minding their business, when black people say ‘that’s not my fight,’ a lot of people get offended by that… but when it’s black people's fight, nobody else wants to get involved.”
— Deante’ Kyle [10:30]
“They play cops non stop during the 90s and it makes every black person look like a criminal.”
— Big Ice Cube Cat [19:08]
“The practice of whiteness is parasitic.”
— Deante’ Kyle [40:37]
“A white person cannot invalidate or validate anything in our spaces…Who gives a fuck what Aiden Ross thinks?”
— Deante’ Kyle [40:37]
“The way this system will devalue the work that you’re doing while you’re making them billions.”
— Deante’ Kyle [59:52]
“You have to stop leading with your sexual desire.”
— Deante’ Kyle [80:52]
“Six doesn’t equate love, you know what I mean? So I think you think having sex with a man is going to keep him and that’s not the case.”
— Big Cat [84:18]
“The pros don’t outweigh the cons for confronting him, right?”
— Deante’ Kyle [89:53]
“Changing the narrative starts with changing you.”
— Big Ice Cube Cat [99:19]
On American Myths:
“America is like… a third world country with a Gucci belt.”
— Deante’ Kyle [08:09]
On State Violence:
“When you ignore a tragedy because the victim doesn’t look like you, you’re compliant to state violence.”
— Deante’ Kyle [15:44]
On Labor and Gig Work:
“Human asset is dehumanizing. But without the labor of the human asset, there is no business.”
— Big Ice Cube Cat [59:55]
On Cultural Gatekeeping:
“You can’t call the cops when you feel like we don’t belong… and then tell your kids to seek refuge with us when they get lost.”
— Big Ice Cube Cat [37:27]
Deante’ Kyle and crew call for intentionality—in protest, consumption, digital engagement, and community effort.
Their message: Starve the parasites. That means refusing to feed systems (and people) that exploit Black pain, creativity, or labor, and refusing to let rage or convenience dictate where your energy and dollars go.
With unapologetic clarity, they ask listeners to be proactive, mindful, and fiercely protective of culture, community, and self.
For full episode engagement, visit DeanteKyle.com or join their Patreon for exclusive content and upcoming tour dates.