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Deontay
Yeah. Woke up in the morning and to God be the glory Thankful for another day to tell my story Put my opinions in the universe and let them orbit I'm from the dirty south with a dirty mouth might need orbit miss things things on me like a Norbit had to refuse them cause my no rest gorgeous as I dab my sons up and kiss my daughter forehead Tell them we gonna get this money pockets morbid Remember living in apartments now we playing mortgage you ain't gotta like a regardless baby I'm blessed and I keep that blick with me. We like grits and eggs as you sip your coffee flick your cigarette and let a vent yeah, we back. Oh, we back. Grits and eggs podcast, episode 50. Is it 49 or 50? God damn.
Kyle
I think we're on episode 50.
Deontay
No, it's 49. It's 49 because deontay gonna be 50.
Kyle
Okay, so episode 49.
Deontay
Episode 49. I mean, I was deontay. Kyle, who's in front of the camera? Big ice cup, man. Come on, talk to these, man. Big ice cup.
Kyle
Yeah, man.
Deontay
This is a little different. I like. I like this. This made me feel like most deaths.
Kyle
You look like most definitely.
Deontay
Yeah. Better get in tune with who I am for real.
Kyle
Like you sell incense.
Deontay
I got it. I got the incense, I got the zar.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
I got a little cocaine. I don't keep nothing but a seven on me or the cocaine.
Kyle
Just a seven.
Deontay
Just a seven. All right. You know what I'm saying?
Kyle
Just enough.
Deontay
Enough. You could throw that out the window and keep going. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? The tire is gonna tear that up. Exactly as always. Deontayantaykyle.com deontay.com on Instagram. You know the tik tok. If you hear. You know what the tik Tok is? Look, man, Black History Month. Happy Black History Month. We got new merch. We done got rid of some old merch. Deontay kyle.com for the merch. $sign gris next podcast if you want to support. If you can't afford to support in that way or the other, I would suggest you go to grits and X podcast on patreon. Ain't number $8. $8. $8. 8 dollars. Go and tell me you ain't got $8, man. You ain't got $8 for your butt. God damn. Operation get out the truck. Facts a thousand going to get me out the truck. Shout out my big cat on front of the camera. Who's behind the camera? Swollen Hell yeah. That boy been in the gym.
Kyle
Good bench press on it, man.
Deontay
Yeah. Yeah. Almost took my finger off my body, man, with the handshake. 257-234X Call in, leave the voicemails. We got. We got a few voicemails today. We got a few emails. We got a couple more music submissions. We having a good time. If you're watching this now, in a few days, we will be performing in Jackson. The seated tickets have sold out. VIP done sold out. I mean. I mean, clap it up. Clap it up and sell it out. Yeah. Yeah. Clap it up and sell it out. Yeah. There ain't gonna be none of that going on when we get down there. Show me some love. Why the Brian already talking about I'm a heckle you? Oh, man, Brian gonna be the only white person now.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
He gonna be the only white person with 20 within 20 mile radius.
Kyle
It might be in the whole state.
Deontay
Yeah. Happy Black History Month. Happy Black History Month. And if he heckle, that's just white people centering themselves. Yeah, we gonna put him out. We're gonna make an example.
Kyle
We gonna put him out.
Deontay
I'm make example out. We can't put that in that plaza.
Kyle
Yeah. No, we can't put him out.
Deontay
Last time we was there, they were selling Nike TX in the parking lot.
Kyle
Out the trunk with a kid.
Deontay
That's love, bro. Just. Just get in tune with the fact that it's 444. That mean we doing what we supposed to do. We here. A lot of people have been asking me. They was like, why Jackson? Why Jackson? Well, a couple things. We want to go where the at?
Kyle
What the at?
Deontay
Okay, see your favorite rapper, favorite actor, your favorite celebrity, favorite performer. They ain't going where the at. They trying to bring where they want to be. Want to be under the lights. Big lights, big city. We want to go with them. Is that places like Jackson, Mississippi, Montgomery, Alabama, South Bend, Indiana. Okay, we gonna go where the niggas at? Where you scared to go? We like niggas. We comfortable around them niggas.
Kyle
Them our people.
Deontay
Them our folks.
Kyle
Can't be scared of them.
Deontay
They look like us. They talk like us. They walk like us. They understand us. They the one tapped in. Without Jackson, we don't have the run of, like, discovering great music the way we did, bro. Great music.
Kyle
Shout out to Rachel.
Deontay
Shout out to Rachel. Hold on. We got. Hold on.
Kyle
Damn, Rachel. Where'd you find this?
Deontay
This is four. And by this for that. Used to buy cargo pants with the belt that came with it. Dirty Shout out all my niggas who's going Manhattan trying to get off brand drip Couldn't afford to go on. Walters, I remember you came to school with eight town shoes.
Kyle
Wow.
Deontay
Used to come out of school, the eight town shoes on this for this for who made book bag a fashion statement. I was in school too, with the spongebob book bag.
Kyle
Nasty work.
Deontay
Nasty work.
Kyle
Why spongebob though?
Deontay
That's what we had. My all my niggas that done got kicked out of school for wearing stop snitching T shirts.
Kyle
Yeah, yeah. Tookie Williams T shirts.
Deontay
Yeah, yeah. Any nigga that went to school and that made you turn your inside out is for you.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Tucking a tall tee and some jean shorts and still sagging.
Kyle
Crazy for you.
Deontay
Still can't see your boxes. Tee that tall, the tee that tall N like one long, like one long fit.
Kyle
Had a.
Deontay
This for the moomoo.
Kyle
Made it so bad it was two of them.
Deontay
You hear me?
Kyle
Different colors.
Deontay
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Depending on what them shoes, what the.
Kyle
Shoes look like in your jeans.
Deontay
I go, I go, I go. Black and red forces with the black and red tea killing them black tea on the top. Tuck them in them jabos.
Kyle
Tuck them in jabos.
Deontay
Them sagging down to my ankles. Real jorts. Yeah, Jaggins, man. We just wanna. We like we know what our audience is, bro. We know who we are. We tapped in. We're going, where the at? A lot of don't want to be. Where is that? Want to come to them now. Come to me. Come to Atlanta and pay $40 for parking. You might get your broken. You might. Then you're gonna pay another 60 at the dough. The drink you down. You can't even get a double Hennessy. That's $50. Oh, we going, Jackson, bring your own bottle.
Kyle
Bring your own.
Deontay
Get up. We don't care. We don't care. We don't care. We're gonna have security on debt. You get out of pocket. Yeah, again. They scored it out. We might beat you up.
Kyle
You don't want to be in that place at night. You don't want to be in that place.
Deontay
Listen, Brad's a fried chicken and a seafood spot. They use the same grease now.
Kyle
That's a fact.
Deontay
I order five piece shrimp. Shit tastes like a tender.
Kyle
It's the Seafood Shack and the Chicken.
Deontay
Shack and it's right next to each other.
Kyle
Right next door.
Deontay
I got three piece whole wing, five piece. All this shit tastes the same.
Kyle
You don't know what you're eating.
Deontay
The chicken tastes like catfish. The shrimp tastes like chicken tenders. It don't matter. Whole lot of flour in the bottom of that. Ain't changed the grease in weeks.
Kyle
Oh, shit.
Deontay
I had a headache.
Kyle
Blood pressure was through the.
Deontay
Yeah. I had to go to Johnny T. Straighten it out. Go give me a Rick James. Yeah. I'm just saying, man, this ain't. It's not even. Like. I. I've seen people compare it to, like, a chitling circuit, but, like, bro, what you scared of? Chitlin circuit. I want to go on that. I like a hole in the wall. I. I want to go somewhere. Ain't no AC just sweating sweat on melanin in that. And we still drinking Holland. The music loud, the DJ smoking cigarettes, the. The security guard outside smoking a black amount and denying if you don't like the outfit. That's the type of I want to be in.
Kyle
It's like a damn good time.
Deontay
It's a good time, man. But I think we so caught up in the glitz and glamour. It's like, that's that capitalism. If it ain't a major city, we can't do it and fly over Mississippi. But you think about what Mississippi really is and what it represents. And all this culture that you talk about, black culture, it's. Duh, it lived there. That's why the music's so good. Ain't. Ain't distracted by the big city. All they got to do is work on their craft out there.
Kyle
They tapped into theyself.
Deontay
They tapped in. They tapped in, bro. You. You, bro. You rapping in a small town like Jason. You better be good. Shout out Raking K Cope my young jewels performing. And we're gonna sit down and do some interviews, man. I'm excited. I'm grateful. We thankful we got the opportunity. We're gonna make this shape. So we'll see y'all. 2, 8, 25. And in the future, when we do the next thing, it's still gonna be the same way. Even if we do show in Atlanta. It might not be in Atlanta, because I want to make sure can park and be safe and be comfortable. I want. Yeah, and I don't want going out like that. You do when you got to do it, but we ain't going to the State Farm arena, you know what I'm saying? You know your straight at the State Farm. Yeah, you just hop on Mara. Plenty police in that martyr parking lot trying to touch your. And he ain't trying to touch your. First of all, I gotta walk over there and with your. Yeah, we Was just talking about this. I was talking about this with my home girl because she was saying we talking about millennial parents getting into gentle parenting, teaching their kids self love. And there's always been a black power movement, you know, an embrace of self that was the. The antithesis of the Black Panther Party is self love. We're gonna feed y'all. We're gonna make sure y'all got clothes, gonna make sure y'all got y'all bellies full. We're gonna make sure your mindful black people teach self love. And at the same time, white people teaching their kids to hate. Everybody else didn't wonder why shoot the school up now a shoot that blocker, but that's block business. I'm beefing with a nigga over there for real. White folks working in school, they ain't got no list who they shooting people. They got a manifesto, nigga walking to school. Yeah, man, I'm sick of niggas picking on me. In pe All I had was sandals. Sandals and shorts. Nigga. The teacher made fun of me. Everybody in this bitch finna die.
Kyle
That's wicked, bro. That's wicked.
Deontay
I just think, you know, it's been a focus in our household too, especially with Black History Month coming up, about, like, reinforcing positive messages to yourself. Positive self image, understanding. Like, the lesson on, like, everybody know the Malcolm's, the Martins, but don't know about Sister Rosetta Thorpe. We don't know about, you know, Granville T. Woods ain't really did the knowledge, you know what I'm saying? And really even read, like, a lot of people like to quote Frederick Douglass, but haven't read his autobiography and understand, like, the circumstances and things he come from. It's like, we need to be more studious about the people that came before us and not just, like, knowing the quotes or seeing a video, one minute, two minute video about a quote they made or seeing a documentary that somebody outside of the community put together that fit into their narrative. We really need to be going. Like, that's why I'm. I've said this on the last one, but that Hillman talk shit is extremely important for black people to be teaching each other. I think integration got us in schools where not only, like, was we not welcome, but we don't know the biases of these teachers. And black boys get put out the classroom a lot more. They get sent to the office a lot more. And it's the same in policing. Like, even if the charge is petty, the punishment is major, and it takes us away from, like, education, where it's, like, so much easier to learn from somebody that look like you. Some of my favorite teachers. All my favorite teachers, like Ms. Simmons in the seventh grade. Black lady teaching the science. That's when I locked in on science because she was really passionate about it. But she loved us, bro. Like, she talked like us got hitting in class. I remember this first time I was in class with a stud. Seventh grade. My homeboy Joshua. And it's stud girl. I don't remember her name, but she's be talking. I think she had a crush on that. I ain't gonna lie. I ain't gonna lie. She battling. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, we all just. Didn't. We. We all just hit puberty, right? I don't even think she was a stud. I think they were just broke. And on only clothes she had was her brother.
Kyle
Okay. She had to play the role.
Deontay
Yeah, she was playing a role. You know what I'm saying? And she's always be with Justin Jones, like, on some. Stop talking to me type like, I'm not your friend. I'm not your boy. I'm not trying to talk to you. He's like, flirting with the aggressively. One day, this just boiled over. Like, they just arguing back and forth. And, you know, the science tables be bigger.
Kyle
Hell, big, big black.
Deontay
Yeah. You know what I'm saying, man? Shot here right up on that hit with a hook. Boom. Her ass flew back on the table. Ms. Simmons walked up from her. She ain't say I just watched Ms. Simmons walk from her teaching desk to her personal desk. Get the. Get the write ups, fill them out. And then when they was done fighting, like, first of all, he knocked her clean. So when she got up, she was just crying. She wasn't really ready to fight, but she also had to be a. So she couldn't, like, boohoo cry. She had to cry aggressively and, like, relax. Like, you. We not finna let you fight this. He gonna beat your ass. And then there's a named Jonathan walking around the class talking about that was a safari punch. So I already know Shot. I was embarrassed. But I think the beautiful thing about it is, like, she recognized the type of children we was. She knew we weren't gonna let it get out of pocket. Whereas a white woman. White woman called the goddamn security everything. No security came. We broke that up ourselves. Like, y'all both tripping. First of all, that's a girl, bro. You don't. I don't give a. What she wear to class. You don't punch the out. The girl in a tall tea In a tall tea. And she crying. And she got straight back saying, crying was bad. Look. Yeah, she liked you for real. Not only did you knock her the fuck out, but you fucked up that you was a crush. She had a crush on you. Imagine having a crush on a bitch and she punched you in the back.
Kyle
She knocked the crush out.
Deontay
You the real big punisher.
Kyle
Just crush a lot.
Deontay
Yeah, no, the real crushing lot. Imagine having a crush on a bitch and you go to talk to her, she just deck your ass. Yeah, man. Sorry for your loss. Say this. She understood her students. This is a class full of black kids. And we routed, but we listened when she talked. So she ain't even do the most because her. If she get on the level we on, then it's all chaos, right? She kept her cool. And niggas was recognized. Like, oh, she being cool. We gonna be cool too. And I said, I remember. You remember all your, like, favorite teachers. And nine out of 10 is gonna be a black woman. And even some, like, even the. I went to ISS with Mr. Blood Work. He was the football coach when 911 happened. That man had us watching CNN library. I need to be informed. I don't give a what y'all did in class. It's war going on outside. Y'all need to be tapped in. He wasn't being extra militant or worried about that. He worried about being informed, knowing what's going on. But I remember, like, that. Yeah, I don't remember the, like. I don't remember, like, the teachers that didn't really with me unless, like, I just did something significant to, like, get back at they ass. I remember the. That was, like, looking out for me and was, like, showing love and care and wasn't judging me, you know what I'm saying? Or wasn't just, like, quick to throw a nigga out the class. They. They knew how to, like, reprimand me without it being the most. But it was always black teachers. So if we in a position where we're gonna be teaching ourselves, like, utilizing our degrees, even people that have, like, interests, because people have reached out to me, like, you should do a human talk class on hip hop. And like that. It's like, nah, I mean, it's somebody better now. Guess who doing it now, Torre. Oh, yeah, that hard. Good fit, Good fit. Might see a man big cat on the rap latte podcast soon talking that hip hop. But I say, like, very evidently. We've always had examples of black love. I white Love ain't really a thing that ever get talked about. Because the idea for white people is that we're better. It ain't. It don't require love. It requires supremacy. So black power is black people being empowered. White power is we got to take down everybody else.
Kyle
Do the devil love you?
Deontay
I can't say that. He do.
Kyle
Well, there you go.
Deontay
Yeah. Yeah. Can't say the devil loved me. Can't say that.
Kyle
All right.
Deontay
Never heard that song. Heard Jesus love me.
Kyle
Okay.
Deontay
Never heard say the devil love you. That was your biggest hater.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
But oddly enough, it's like their solidarity is. Is incumbent on them being superior.
Kyle
Well, they have to for their survival. When you know everybody else is bigger than you, stronger than you, faster than you, smarter than you by nature, the only thing you have is aggression.
Deontay
White people are a virus.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
They're a human virus. I've heard it said a multitude of times. But think about them from, like, on a cellular level. Just in thinking. Think of them in the macro, right? If we was to zoom out and you do the same thing. If you saw cancer in the body and you zoomed in on those cells, and you see how the cancer attacks the other cells and spreads.
Kyle
This is.
Deontay
And then go. Go back to. Go to the year 1200.
Kyle
Okay.
Deontay
And then speed run them all the way to this. Like, how much destruction have they caused?
Kyle
A lot.
Deontay
In a thousand years. It's insane to think about them been on a tear. Yeah, it's insane.
Kyle
But they had to survive from the beginning of time.
Deontay
Yeah, I understand, like, the scarcity mentality, but it's like, I don't. The thing that I don't understand is, like, have these killed with impunity and nobody, like, trying to get at them. Everybody give them grace. Everybody, like, base their relationship off the one cool white person. But in macro, like, on large scale, they're all pretty up.
Kyle
Well, that's in your DNA to be gracious. Yeah. You're God's people.
Deontay
I ain't gonna lie, man. We might have to. I ain't gonna lie. You rap about this a lot. Gonna have to start getting on demon time with them white folks or gonna have to get on a angel bag and really get down and dirty. Because it's like, be giving them so many passes, bro. That ridiculous.
Kyle
I like what you said just then. I mean, even Jesus flipped tables. Jesus got mad.
Deontay
Well, the thing is, it's like they. It's the control, like, the media. How you thinking black people is the only people with familial problems.
Kyle
Controversy, sales.
Deontay
Nah, but that I don't feel like controversy. That feel like it's just straight up propaganda. Like bruh, every we'll see, we see white people arguing on things given on the Internet. But like we don't get an in depth, in tune vision. Like bruh, you know what? I have a white person on here. If they gonna tell the truth about white people, like tell us what's really going. Because it's like, bro, this is inbred in them. Like they really don't like nobody, bro. It ain't even like black people thing. They don't. If you don't like everybody else, then you don't like yourself. There's like a self hatred that they deal with, but they have a solidarity with one another because they feel like they're in power but they fear any. Anybody else rising up to power out of fear that we're going to do to them what they've done to us. So they teach hate. They don't even teach their kids to love themselves. They just teach them to hate everybody else. That's a dangerous formula. And then also too, it's like you don't think white people got like up family dynamics and like that? Of course daddy's leave. They leave, of course.
Kyle
But that, that hasn't been the, the, the image painted for white people because we don't own any media companies, we don't own any news stations. We don't own that.
Deontay
That Danny Tanner ain't have no think about that whole time is watching Full House. This Danny Tanner ain't got no benches. Only with benches. Is Uncle Jesse, Joey and Danny in there being gay as. Hey, yo, Uncle Joey gonna cut it out. What Danny in there doing? Sitting. Sitting the girls down?
Kyle
Yeah, he had them when you was a kid.
Deontay
I ain't gonna lie. When I was a kid, I was like, Stephanie Tanner cold. It's a cold white.
Kyle
She cold.
Deontay
She was cold when I was like 8, 9. I'm like, I see the appeal. This is how you get bro. This how you. This is how got. God.
Kyle
How you get them.
Deontay
98, 1998.
Kyle
Huh?
Deontay
Watching full House. Danny and got a crush on Stephanie Tanner.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Then I turned on the tv. Who on tv? Britney Spears? Christina Aguilera.
Kyle
Well, you forgot one important one.
Deontay
Stephanie McMahon.
Kyle
No, you forgot one important.
Deontay
Trish Travis.
Kyle
Wait, wait, you forgetting one. That's before all of them.
Deontay
Oh, Topanga, there you go. Listen, bro, all this is propaganda, bro. Family Anderson.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Huh?
Kyle
Baywatch. Just real jugs just jogging down the beach.
Deontay
Just big ass Titties, man trying to drown. I better go get. Calling a riptide so this can save me. Carmen Electra. We ain't get to see, like. But there's another thing, too, is, like, we saw both worlds because we also had, like, Neil Long, right? Stacy Dash before we found out she was a coon, right. Aaliyah.
Kyle
The whole 90s.
Deontay
Any. Any woman that ever appeared on the Fresh Prince of Bel Air or the Waynes brothers.
Kyle
Good work.
Deontay
Oh, my God, good work. I had such a crush on Maxine when I was growing up. I don't know what it was. I just wanted to be living single. And then, you know, shot a name with Cal. It was Cal.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
But I was like, yeah, they talking about me. I'm that woke love.
Kyle
Maxine Waters.
Deontay
What? Man, and then if you see throughout her career, she sustained her stance, like.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Of Afrofuturism. But Queen Latifah, same.
Kyle
Queen Latifah was gorgeous.
Deontay
Queen Latifah was gorgeous.
Kyle
Shout out to Flavor magazine.
Deontay
Shout out to. Shouted. Busting it like that. I got. I ain't getting called. Y'all gotta. We holding court in the streets trying to fight that cigarette up. Hey. Day after day was sad and fire crying when I was a little boy. Damn. They pulled up my girl, man. They took Cleo ass man down, bro. Dr. Dre just watching that on TV. Green ass saying, damn, I will never get my guns back.
Kyle
Them guns is gone.
Deontay
Them guns gone to federal property.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
First of all, shot a little brother got shot in the back of the head for having an A cut in his head.
Kyle
Yeah. That reached for that goddamn champagne bottle. They lit his ass up.
Deontay
I need money. Stop your fire. God damn it. No, listen. Yeah, yeah. White people love that. White people love that. After 100 rounds go off. Hold your fire. Hold your fire.
Kyle
100 holes in the.
Deontay
Turn A into A O. And he's gonna tell nigga to hold the fire.
Kyle
Turn the A into a fatality on it.
Deontay
Fatality, man. I understand, though. Like Will Smith. I get you, bro. Like, Jada Pickett was cold.
Kyle
No, she was fire.
Deontay
Ain't gonna be talking to Tupac after. After he died. I'll be damning my. Right. Her ex who did. You finna go meet him? You got my daughter writing letters to this. No. Bang. I'm gonna get all the diamond cutter that's gonna be up my. My daughter shouldn't even know who this is.
Kyle
Yeah, why she even writing letters to this? How'd she know about Tupac?
Deontay
Nah, I ain't gonna lie Tupac, solid shot. He was in a made. Made.
Kyle
But she also been doing that since they was like kids though.
Deontay
Yeah. You know, he about. He. He was doing ballet too. That flexible. Rest in peace. Sexual assault charges.
Kyle
And you have some of the finest.
Deontay
Women coming in, taking pictures. I don't know, son.
Kyle
That was a lie.
Deontay
I ain't gonna hold you, dog. A part of me, like when I watched the All Eyes on me documentary and seeing like how many Pac had, I was like, need that, need that, that. Cuz it's not celebrities. He would just. He just. With good looking black women.
Kyle
You love women.
Deontay
You love women. He had to be treating him right. This one, this one I'll be trying to tell. What's your type?
Kyle
Type women, I don't care.
Deontay
Butter, pecan butter, almond butter, pecan, almond butter. I like all that, bro.
Kyle
Gotta have it, man.
Deontay
Look, bro, black women is so fine, bro. It's just like the finest. You want me to pick a complexion like.
Kyle
Bro, so many flavors out here, I can't.
Deontay
Just let me enjoy Baskin Robbins.
Kyle
That stuck on one flavor scare me.
Deontay
First of all, that's fetishy. Yeah. Second of all, I want a too obsessed with one shade of black women. I want to see what the mama look like.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
That's where the answers usually lie, for sure. They got her looking for his mama. Moving right along. All right, let's talk about how white women are property.
Kyle
What?
Deontay
Yeah. Because, you know, black power and white power don't mean the same thing. You ever seen white love? Yeah, white. No, no. Like it's a movement.
Kyle
No, no, no, no.
Deontay
Yeah, and black power in tandem with that movement. You ever seen a white love movement?
Kyle
Hippies, I guess.
Deontay
Nah, was dirty. I don't. I don't like dirty druggies. Like, my drink is clean. Yeah. Yeah. Well, you ain't got to be clean. Don't try to peach peace to me. And you don't wash your ass. I can't hear you. That ain't peaceful. That ain't peaceful. That funk ain't peaceful.
Kyle
That ain't godly.
Deontay
That ain't godly. Outside doing drugs all day. Been up three days, ain't took nan bath wood st. Yeah, dude. Yeah, dude. It's not white love. It's white power. You got to be white to be dirty. Soon as get a little funk on him to tear to smithereens. I just think that they conflate black power with white power. Because white power mean hatred.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
And black power mean empowerment. And white women are property. I was talking to A friend that I have the other day, and her area of expertise is divorce law. She said when black people get divorced, it can get messy, but it's the mess that we use, too. Well, white people get divorced. These white men have no resources. They have nothing. Like, they came with nothing. They're leaving with nothing. They don't have access to the money. They don't know the passwords. They don't know nothing. Whole time, the white daddy been funneling the money. So it might be his money, but it's being funneled through the. Them is tricky with that. With that money. Boy, they not gonna let no take that dollar. No. So shorty in the office, like, scrambling, scraping, like, what can I do?
Kyle
They like, nothing.
Deontay
Nothing. You're. You're.
Kyle
You think you're gonna take daddy's money?
Deontay
No, you're not taking daddy's money. He has no obligation to give y'all anything. He's not contractually obligated. Right. So technically, the husband has nothing.
Kyle
Nothing. He's living off his father. Investments, stocks, bonds, whatever.
Deontay
Dog, let me tell you something. It's real peculiar to watch how white women deal with black women. It's odd because they try to prop it up as if black women are jealous of them or aspire to be them in some type of form or fashion when, like, have you seen black women?
Kyle
Oh, my God. Yeah.
Deontay
You want to aspire to a. With no lips, no ass, thin. Ass hair. That hair thin.
Kyle
Then they start looking old by 35.
Deontay
35 was. You mean. That was generous.
Kyle
I mean. Okay, well, 28. 28.
Deontay
It's all in the neck.
Kyle
Yeah. Started to wrinkle up.
Deontay
Yeah. It's like bananas.
Kyle
Crows feet in the eye corner.
Deontay
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Real crows feet right here.
Kyle
Yeah. Yeah.
Deontay
They don't wonder why the Putting injection in their face. Back to bed. The neck's still old.
Kyle
The next still oldest crazy word.
Deontay
The face young. The neck old. Wow. The hands.
Kyle
Oh, the hands get wrinkles like a.
Deontay
Been watching dishes for two years. Hey, yo, I don't think that they've. They've considered how much they've depended on us for the domestication of themselves and their children.
Kyle
Right.
Deontay
They've been depending on everybody else. The. The. The. The. The. The biggest insecurity of white power is that you don't do anything. Your messaging is hatred, but your labor is nothing. You don't offer anything. Yeah. You live a life of convenience. You live a life of, like, what seems to be the lack of luxury, but when the luxury is gone, what can you do for yourself. And everybody you would have looked down upon has skills. This was the issue with freeing slaves. These Irish, these. I was gonna. I was gonna call them waps. But these Italians, these Polish people, all these immigrants that have no skills, they were. They were comfortable being indentured service or. Or given positions of power to oversee Africans. Enslaved people. Well, when we free these people, I don't have no skills. All I've been doing is sitting on a horse. That ain't a job. Everyone know I've been killed before that. What are you gonna do? Hold on. We're gonna stay here. It just be like certain Avengers trigger a song. Yeah, but I. I just think did the fear is this like if we don't subject in their mind to. To do the labor for us, right? Even when it comes to civil rights, even when it comes to women's rights, when it comes to human rights, period. Everybody expects black people to fight the fight they've been fighting. But here's the thing. Every time we don't fault fights and. And made access for everybody. Just for y'all to come on us talking about we ain't got no culture. You know what our culture is? Civil rights, survival. Getting you somewhere, huh?
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Benson. Name named Benson. Jean Pierre. Want to come over here talking about black people don't got no culture.
Kyle
What we got all the culture.
Deontay
The fact that these allowed you to come over here is our culture. That it's. That's us. Those civil rights. That's us. I think that it's odd for white people are in a very funny position because over what they're. The population of white people are overwhelmingly poor. And now I was like, damn, hold on. What they trying to take? Medicaid. They're trying to take Social Security.
Kyle
Food stamps.
Deontay
Food stamps. Y'all on. Y'all on them stamps.
Kyle
They. And they get big stamps.
Deontay
And I'm trying to make. Feel bad for being on food stamps, bro. Take advantage of the government, they take advantage of you all the time. Why wouldn't you be on food stamps? If I live in a country that survives off of my tax dollars, why the you not feeding me? You know what the problem is? Black people are eating. Problem with welfare, black people receive it. Problem with free education, black people will be educated. Problem with free health care, black people will survive. You done yourself. You've been fucking yourself for a very long time. Anyway. We're not going back to. We're not going back to auntie having her titty in your baby mouth. We're not going Back to that. We're not going back to warming up the beds. It's gonna be you if. If you back. The Is back in the blue, huh? Colin Kaepernick put a knee. My brother fought in the war. We gotta protect our veterans. They fought for that flag step right over a. If he sleep on the curb. Veteran, he a veteran. Talking to himself on the train. He a veteran. You fine with it when it's like that. Everything go back to black people and the hatred thereof. And. And you've been. And hated themselves right into a similar position, if not worse, because you only got no community. We talk a lot of about the black community. Black community. We need community. We got it because we got culture. Yeah, y'all got a culture I hate and just realized, oh, you ain't even in the driver's seat of that. You catching the brunt of that boohoo. Sad story. Black American dad story. Oh, man. Man, good luck, crackers. Yeah, man.
Kyle
Figure it out.
Deontay
And oddly enough, man, white white women being property with white men, maybe the attraction that they have to black men who are attracted to white women, they're. They're in the same seat.
Kyle
That's a good spin on that. I like that.
Deontay
Well, they not property when they're with the black man.
Kyle
Right.
Deontay
The black man is depending on them to help them assimilate into their culture, but they're at the bottom of that culture. White women don't even have a foothold on white culture. So black men are looking for white women to have access to white men. White women are looking to black men to have equity to white men.
Kyle
There you go.
Deontay
Center around that white man.
Kyle
Mm.
Deontay
Nigga gotta get that white man out. You niggas gotta get that white man out your mind. Black men and white women got the white man on their mind. You niggas gotta get that white man out your mind, man. Shit, It's Black History Month out here. Thinking about white people should join the truth. Everyone know I've been killed before. What's up with y'all, man? Y'all good?
Kyle
I'm good, man. I think. I think our brothers just need to get on the same wave as our sisters when it comes to bettering themselves as far as, you know, education and trades and doing their own thing. Because there's a lot of sisters out here opening business, man. They know how to do hair. They know how to do different things with their hands.
Deontay
Honestly. Now, the. The. The great thing about that, right? They've been doing hair since they was like, seven, eight years old.
Kyle
Yeah, but somebody taught them how to do hair.
Deontay
They taught them. It's a, it's a, but it's domestic, right?
Kyle
Yeah, yeah, it's the message.
Deontay
And then there's a lot of out here. Been cutting hair since they was 10.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Got some Andy's clippers. The homie let them practice.
Kyle
Yeah, but what I'm saying is as far as like women, they would take that knowing how to do hair and turn it into, turn it into a business.
Deontay
Shout out, yakila Miley, you know, as.
Kyle
Far as brothers, I know how to cut hair, but that ain't my passion. My passion is I want to be, play basketball, you know what I'm saying?
Deontay
I had a, I had a 5, I hate a 5, 8 with 6, 10 aspirations, you know, but you fight with the clippers, you fire with them.
Kyle
But you don't want to take the time and the effort.
Deontay
Well, because the thing is you could, you could be masterful at that.
Kyle
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Deontay
Yeah, bro. Listen, bro, there's some fault lines in the black community, dog.
Kyle
Yeah. I mean, you just got to get it in order.
Deontay
It's the materialism. Yeah.
Kyle
So our sisters will spend four years in medical school or nursing school.
Deontay
All right?
Kyle
Yeah. But our sisters will, you know, they'll sit in the class for however long it takes for them to get that degree. As far as our brothers. I know, I know the, I know the reality of providing. It's like you got to have money as a man. So we'll, we'll, we'll step out and we'll do something to get money fast. As far as our sisters, they'll sit back and they'll go to school. They don't mind being broke until they. Because they see the larger picture as men sometimes we don't have that luxury of seeing the bigger picture because we have to act for right now. I gotta feed these babies right now. I gotta pay the rent right now. I gotta make sure my girl good right now. You know what I'm saying?
Deontay
Well, that, that may be some short sightedness on our part though, because.
Kyle
Exactly.
Deontay
Seeing the big picture, women, women may be broke, but they have resources and they have support. Yeah, right. So I'm in school. That's a good cause. A lot of people oftentimes we don't support black men when they're in school. Yeah. There's an expectation for a, to provide. As soon as a take any stride toward independence, you should be able to provide. That's a negative stereotype. We should Have. But we should also not be coddling in these men. We should be supporting these men. We shouldn't support them only when they come home from prison.
Kyle
Now, you said that they will send Ray Ray and JoJo a hundred dollars for their books in jail, but won't send Ray, Ray and Jojo to feed their self in college.
Deontay
Exactly.
Kyle
You know what I'm saying?
Deontay
You in college, you feed yourself.
Kyle
Right.
Deontay
I think that. I think that we compl. Like and we conflate these things. Like we look at a. In jail as a. Without privileges. And there's a pity there, but there's also a familiarity and, and we have to break that familiar now. The. That goes to prison regardless of if he's a righteous man or not. This is when men should be men.
Kyle
Absolutely.
Deontay
You go to prison, you gotta learn how to hustle. Stop calling, stressing your mom out. Stop trying to make that girl hold you down. You went to prison. You went to pri. You're in. You're in prison. Yeah, you are in. You are. You are a number, brother. I just want to say, I don't want to get it conflated like we should throw away. That's in jail. No, when you come home, we got you. But it's. It's in the free world that need that support. Yellow cousin, he in school. You want you to get the hundred dollars of him to get it. Because that hundred dollars he eat when he. When he used that money for school, that going to the bigger picture. And you can sit up and you can sit in that cell and you can plan and you can pot and you can tell me what you're gonna be when you get out, but I can guarantee you what that gonna do with the degree. I don't know what you're gonna do with your freedom, but our sisters.
Kyle
Yeah, no, they. They doing their thing, you know, but like I said, it's also. It's kind of off the scale, is kind of off balance when it comes to it. Because like I said, men have an obligation to provide. And at a young age. Sometimes we make crazy decisions at a young age that shape our whole lives.
Deontay
Exactly.
Kyle
You know, because we in a rush to have the materialistic things. It's okay. You've been broke your whole life. Another four years or another 18 months of trading. Being broke is not going to hurt you, dog. So I just feel like we got to put the materialistic stuff in the back, in the back of our brains and get to the bigger picture, bro.
Deontay
I. I think that. I think that there needs to be a healthy focus, I think there needs to be a statement made and a shift in mentality that the music is entertainment.
Kyle
Absolutely.
Deontay
These ain't got no money, man. And if they do got the money, they making it look better than what it is.
Kyle
A lot of prop money there.
Deontay
We just seen that boy. What was it? What's what? Big. Big boogie.
Kyle
Big boogie. Yeah.
Deontay
CZN. CZN on the tag. Big ass necklace pin. 300 glass.
Kyle
Good glasses.
Deontay
That ain't what. That ain't what Rock Mercy was talking about.
Kyle
No, that's not it.
Deontay
No, no. That ain't the cold plunge. No, that's the. If that look. We need a standard. Your diamonds ain't dancing like Jalen Hurts. I don't want to see him. Ever since I seen Jalen Hurts pop out look dull. Yeah, huh. Looking real goddamn gumball machine around this.
Kyle
This shimmering.
Deontay
Goddamn Jaylen. God damn Jaylen.
Kyle
And first of all, the come through dressed like Nino Brown.
Deontay
First of all. First of all, Jaylen, it hurts. Reporters got shades on. N N. Every time I think about the. I throw these hoes on goddamn Jaylen.
Kyle
In the press conference. They think it's the camera flashing. No, it's this necklace. Just flash it out.
Deontay
I think. I think that we need a healthy dose of rappers. Or for sure they some man. And, and, and, and, and why is it their role. Look, we don't look to. We don't look to athletes to. To. To provide lavish lifestyles because their skill set says that they're going to get paid based on their value on the field. We don't. We're not surprised when we see Jaylen Herz with the diamonds dancing. We surprised when the rappers don't got the necklace like that because they supposed to be the billboard for materialism.
Kyle
Right?
Deontay
It's smoke and mirrors Is bullshit. Rappers are bullshitters. The talent lends to the billboard. You're only as good as you can move ad advertising dollars, product. The rappers are the real influencers. That's all they've ever been. It's just that now that we have influence and then we see influences. They some we just never conflated. The two rappers are influencers. They some they can send the clothes.
Kyle
That's it.
Deontay
They can stupid that you ain't gonna be a rapper and get a student loan. You might as well get a goddamn education. Same thing.
Kyle
That's all it is.
Deontay
I'd rather owe 500,000 than 5 million. God damn. Cause I had a hit song. I owe $5 million. I ain't even Know that.
Kyle
And if I mean text and if.
Deontay
I mean got tax on it, it's really 3.5. Listen, then you're gonna catch charge. That 3.5 going to the lawyers, and you still got. And you still owe five. No, no, no, no. Listen, no, listen, listen, listen, dog. You owe five. A whole five. I don't care what you got. I don't care. Then you got all the homies with you.
Kyle
You gotta pay for these.
Deontay
We doing it wrong, guys. Yeah, we're doing it wrong. Listen, if you with me, let me go get successful. But then again, can I be a successful rapper without these 20 protecting me? And I'm talking this big.
Kyle
Well, that's the point. Stop talking big.
Deontay
Exactly. I think we need to give you young men grace, right? You like? I like. I only want to go after rapping if they good at rapping. Rapping got to stop being a way of getting out the hood, because you can get out the hood by being a truck driver. You can get out the hood being a plumber. You can get out of hood being an electrician. You can get out of the hood doing H vac. You can get out the hood doing cyber security. You can get out the hood a lot of ways. Yeah, and ain't. And you ain't got to go to school for four years. It's six to eight months. And you right there. You active. You active duty.
Kyle
Like a plumber.
Deontay
A plumber. But you got to become a master plumber. But after six months, you're gonna be in the field. You're gonna be doing the job. You might not be making the money, but why you need all the money at 19? Why you don't. God damn. Why you gotta be rich at 19? Look, you're not gonna make $60,000 a year selling drugs for another. You're not due to knowledge. You bringing in 25. Maybe you just don't have time constraints. You outside, you feel free. You on the block all day, working for the Next. Put in 25k. You could do that at the warehouse, dog. You think you free cause you ain't on the clock. No, you on the clock. Matter of fact, the clock is ticking. You finna die. You a freelance robber. You rob on the side. The clock is ticking on your life, on your freedom. Stop playing, man. Stop. Niggas stop playing with their life, man. The crack era is over.
Kyle
Done.
Deontay
Okay? No more Dapper Dan. You're not. You're not getting fresh like that off the block. You can go be a scammer. Only thing you're gonna be able to spend the money on is clothes and cars. You're gonna be in a good rental. You're gonna rent the car for a year. You a turo. You too. Rolling out. You too ro. Airbnb shorty. MCM pants. MCM bag. Yeah, you. You dress. You, you, you. You got all the on. You ain't got nothing.
Kyle
The facade is crazy.
Deontay
Your whole life smoking mirrors. You make it look good. If the gram didn't exist, you wouldn't scam. Because who you gonna show it to?
Kyle
That's a bar. If the gram didn't exist, you wouldn't scam. Go get you in the booth.
Deontay
My pin crazy bar the up. My pen's still crazy. Hey, yo, if the gram didn't exist, you wouldn't scam because it wouldn't be nothing to show it to. You wouldn't tell a $100 gonna make him a thousand. Give me a thousand, I'll make you 10,000. Nothing is 10x. You ain't grant Cordone. Yeah, Grant Cardone. Call you a right in your face. Didn't tell you how to invest in apartments.
Kyle
Crazy work.
Deontay
They go to the Trump truck, then go to the Trump rally until we got to exterminate these poor. Wrong with y'all, man. Y'all ain't doing the knowledge, bro. Do the knowledge, bro. Why do you want it all at 18? Why?
Kyle
Because they seen Chief Keef do it.
Deontay
Nah, that. You got a lot of life.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
Struggle make you real. The struggle make you real. I'm 34. The chili just came in. It ain't even there. We gotta pay the bills. My bank account said three.
Kyle
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but it feel good, though, don't it?
Deontay
You feel good when you got a little extra. Yeah, but the more you get, the more you pay. I gotta rent money sitting in the savings.
Kyle
Oh, they feel good.
Deontay
Yeah, it do. It do. I have $40 in two. I have $40 in two days.
Kyle
But you paid that rent.
Deontay
I said, guess what I mean. Oatmeal. Oatmeal. Bowl air. We're gonna boil egg.
Kyle
We're gonna get some oatmeal, some grits and eggs.
Deontay
I mean, no, we a. We a have no grits in there. Oh, and the food stamp car broke. We had to order a new one. I a. Damn. You don't think I'm on food? I'm still using it, man. We still just steal. Steal. We just steal. Still using the government steal to this day. Still we just steal. Stealing the F150. The gas. The gas the gas meter is still.
Kyle
Broke, but it got gas in it.
Deontay
It got gas in it. But I know after 140, I gotta reset the. I can reset the mileage. Ain't like the gas meter don't work. Yeah, we still. We still riding 140 miles on the tank. Still using food stamps. Still got the rent in the savings. Still eating good Quaker oats. We eating Quaker ozone. Two boiled eggs.
Kyle
That's good living.
Deontay
Still we still. We just steal.
Kyle
Steal good living. Steel.
Deontay
You niggas don't know how to be steel, bro. You want it all. At 18, you gonna die. You think that's something to aspire to? Death? You ain't even met your child yet. You ain't seen your mama and what your mama gonna be. You don't even know what your sister gonna be, bro. You ain't seen your little brother grow up. You out here chasing money. You think you saving somebody? Ain't saving nobody. You selfish.
Kyle
No life insurance.
Deontay
Guess what, bro. A legacy is a legacy. Is a legacy. If you die, that's your legacy. You go to prison, that's your legacy. Always want to compare their legacy to richness. No, no, no, no. Your son three years older. You got shot and you got killed. And your mama scream. And your baby mama screen and he seen them folks screaming. That's your legacy. Because you wanted to be rich at 18. And you're a real street. Real street. Die. Go to prison. Dang. Nothing to aspire to. You could have went and been a plumber, but ain't nobody told you that that's a legacy. You inherited it. Your daddy got killed. I ain't blaming you. I'm saying, why you can't do nothing different. Damn. You gonna be a real street nigga. You know how real street niggas end up. Big Cat big. That man living proof, bruh. That nigga daddy. That nigga daddy really had the Dapper Dan on the real one. Go check the photos, niggas. Go hit the Instagram. The real Dapper Dan nigga. The one that y'all love. He just got the collab. Late 80s. He was supplying drug dealers.
Kyle
Facts.
Deontay
Big cat Daddy had that on Big Cat on Sell no drugs.
Kyle
Never touched it.
Deontay
Cause you ain't. You ain't had to go see your. Your pops in the Fed. You have to do that real scared straight. The real one. My pops in this.
Kyle
Seen the white man tell my daddy what to do. Get in line. I said, oh, no.
Deontay
Huh? They had to sit in the car with my dudes.
Kyle
They had to Take a seven hour trip.
Deontay
They had to do that. They had to see her crying on the way back, dog. This ain't. This ain't linear, bruh. That good. And rap music, Tupac make it look good. That went to performing art school. That was groomed to give you an image. He a good man. He was just a good guy.
Kyle
Good dude.
Deontay
Do the knowledge on Tupac being the first drink.
Kyle
Oh, that's gonna ruffle a lot of feathers.
Deontay
Do the knowledge on Tupac being the first Drake. That thug like got you out your body. Thug like got a killed. And he had a lot to get a world. I think it was an inspiration, bro. I think it was a revolutionary. He was bred by revolutionaries. And then the thought like. Cause bailed him out of prison. That's how use you in the street. That ain't bail him out. Cause he's a good. Then you should bail him out for the money. He gonna bring us a lot of revenue. And he got a chip on his shoulder. All I gotta do is gas this up and tell them the streets got his back. Because at the end of the day, no matter how smart A is, he'll rather have the streets. Cause y'all respect the streets money. I respect education and ain't your fault. That's condition. We done with a ass condition, bro. I don't respect no rapper, bro. I don't respect no street, bro. I don't respect that, bro. We too old for that. Respecting that shit. The same thing expecting different results is insanity, bro. We're is in a generation of men who are insane. And these women showing you how to do it, bro. These women making 100, 100,000 plus. Registered Nurse, registered nurse, traveling accountants, project managers. They doing this. They trailblazing, bro.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
A lot of companies ain't afloat without black women. And they out here getting chilly chicken. Why you think they always out the country? They paying for it and they bad enough and they got their own money and the street pay for it. A scamming. They gonna pay for it. But they that bad and ain't bad just because they lose. They back because they really got it. They don't even need you better gave you the way. You ain't gotta go all corporate, own a plumbing company, own H VAC company. But you don't want to put in time. You don't want to be 23 and broke. Everybody broke at 23. The regular world. Most regular civilians ain't got it at 23 unless they inherited. If it ain't nothing inherited. Endure. Endure. So you could be 26 and up. You five'five you ain't going to leave.
Kyle
It's over with.
Deontay
You six two, you toy ACL, you're not going to lead. No. Don't mean going to the street. Fool, be an electrician. You can read. Some can't reach. Need a ladder to reach that.
Kyle
Yeah, yeah.
Deontay
You look good on the wind turbine. What? Be proud. All the black wall streets was built by blue collar men and entrepreneurs and lawmen that knew the law. Go be a lawyer. Stop lying to these bitches and lie to the government.
Kyle
Lie to the judge.
Deontay
Lie to the judge. Get a nigga off. Present a case, prosecute a nigga. Who gives a fuck. We don't give a fuck. That nigga sell drugs. We know he sell drugs.
Kyle
Get him off.
Deontay
Get that nigga off. I don't want a bragging about Brian Steele. I want bragging about Bernard Smith.
Kyle
Absolutely.
Deontay
Brian. Where's Bernard?
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
I'm tired of depending on the white people to get them off the case.
Kyle
Yeah, always talking about they Jewish lawyer, Jewish lawyer.
Deontay
Jewish lawyer, Jewish owner. Jewish lawyer. Junior record. Jewish record exec. That's his cousin. The money. The money is washing itself.
Kyle
Money just floating around.
Deontay
God damn.
Kyle
They don't even see it.
Deontay
Nigga, you don't thug. I ain't got no choice but to do country music. Easy. Breeding beautiful thugger girls too. Coming soon. Bitch, I ain't even talking about the street no more.
Kyle
You gotta do a collab with Beyonce now.
Deontay
Yeah, it's just him. And it's just that nigga Post Malone. And the that sings Strawberry whiskey. Smooth as Tennessee whiskey. You're a sweet strawberry wine. That's your thought Why V Lucha just come on and gonna get killed in a month.
Kyle
Oh, my God.
Deontay
Jesus Christ. Sick of you, man. Sick of you. You is full of you. I don't care about your money. Go pop the balloon. The don't care about your fake jury. The Holly the helicopter was on a pallet. These got more money than you. You can't flex to them no how you gonna flex to a got more money than you. She know what money look like. Rich want her. She trying to give y'all broke ass a chance. A personality.
Kyle
You ever been on the private jet?
Deontay
Never.
Kyle
You want to go?
Deontay
Yeah, man ain't watch acrimony. You going to private jet. Gonna give your girl aids. Hey, yo, do the do the knowledge on being a pharmacist ain't enough. Tyler Perry is the Antichrist. A bitch who husband is the pharmacist is happy it's you street niggas got the game fucked up, nigga. You don't own no marketing firm, nigga. You ain't giving a bitch haters on a private jet. You ain't did that. The Smollett girl, she would have never did that in real life. She would have been happy with her husband. Yeah, that's a handsome black man, big dick performances and a white coat. Big dick.
Kyle
White coat, big dick.
Deontay
White coat, big dick. I'm you talking about slam. Your good man. Don't want to be good man and have a big dick.
Kyle
What?
Deontay
God damn. All I'm trying to do is be a good. Good podcast or good dick.
Kyle
Good podcast, good dick, crazy.
Deontay
That's all I'm trying to do. Oh, look you in. L tell you in my dm. I ain't going to put this dick on though. Trust me.
Kyle
Big Cat might though.
Deontay
Can't sell enough drugs to drop the knowledge. Drugs ain't got nothing on the Knowledge. No, put your girl on the table right here.
Kyle
Who's behind the camera?
Deontay
Who's behind the camera? Do the Knowledge on DP and your. It's a west coast production. All Brian Pumper was trying to do was be Lloyd Banks.
Kyle
That's it.
Deontay
These rap got you minds mind up. Stop being lame, bro. You lame, bro. You lame, bro. You chasing money. You want to be rich at 18. That lame. Watch what happened to rich when they turn 18, turn 25. DUI. DUI. DUI Rate. Charge. Sexual Raymond charge. Indecent exposure for life. Can't come back from that, bruh. It's. It's okay to grow to it. It's okay to be a slow burn. All you want to. Have a short fuse, have a long fuse, blow up. Just cause you ain't blew up yet don't mean the fuse ain't burning. You playing around with your life like this ain't got no value. You got three kids, three baby mamas. You don't love nobody but yourself. And you don't even love yourself. This lame. That lame. You is lame. Stop respecting street, bro. Stop respecting that. We got all the examples at this point. You're forcing it. It's 2025. You're a street nigga in 2025. You forcing it. If you ain't trying to get out of it, you're forcing it. You thinking cool hoes don't respect you. Them hoe using you. Let's get to the emails, bro.
Kyle
I just want to say one thing before we get to them emails. All my people, all my brothers My older brothers that are mechanics, that are electricians, that are plumbers. I think we need to put our resources together, go in the hood like. Like our. Like our brothers the Panthers did. Go in the hood, teach these young brothers how to be mechanics, how to be electricians, how to be plumbers. H Vac. It ain't about no money. You ain't got to do it for no money. You ain't got to sell no class.
Deontay
And also, stop focusing on the that don't want to listen and focus on the that do. Yeah, if it's a group of 20, only one want to listen. Now, guess what? We got one more mechanic. Them other 19, them dumb.
Kyle
And when they see that one going.
Deontay
And then when they see their partner lock in and they partner coming back, bro, they partner came. He ain't had no car when he left. He got a car now. Don't care if it's a Shelly Malibu. Ain't got no transportation on martyr. He driving them depending on. Depending on the. I don't mean to call you. No, I'm just saying what it is. I'm talking to you. How you talk. Depending on the. For a ride. Every day she going to work. She work at the call center. Every day you out here selling 2 ounces of mid. Your partner that went to H vac school, he come back, he got his.
Kyle
Own whip, got his own crib.
Deontay
Guess what wanna do. Damn, bro. How I get into that cdl? How I get into the H Vac? You inspiring, bro. Don't let a knock your hustle, bro. No, not that trade, bro. Stop focusing on 19 that don't listen and focus on the one that will.
Kyle
Exactly.
Deontay
Because that one that will listen turned into 10 that listen to him. He influential. Remember the one. The one who you can influence. Can influence Timo. And then you go to another hood and do the same thing. Go ahead and cook on these big cat.
Kyle
No, that's it. That's all I had to say. Let's get into these emails, man.
Deontay
Nah, cook on. Cook on these big cat. Tell these the truth, man. We on that color. Color, man.
Kyle
Yeah, but this my bad, you know, you good.
Deontay
You good?
Kyle
Yeah. All right. Honestly. That's just it, man. Just, you know, stop focusing on money getting rich. Teach the brothers, man. Teach them knowledge. Teach the young brothers knowledge. Y'all always talking about. Y'all scared of these yans. These y'all babies. These y'all nephews, bro. They got potential. They part of your lineage. If you can do it, they can do it. And you was A young one part of your life. Talk about the you did when you was young. You know what I'm saying?
Deontay
Big ice cup. I'm sick of. I'm sick of wanting a million dollars. Ain't never had $50,000. You don't even know, dude. Five digits. You want something big ice cup. I'm tired. I'm sick of this, bro. Look, bro, learn what to do with five, and you'll know what to do with six. And at six tier. Crazy.
Kyle
It's crazy. That's good living, bro.
Deontay
Just to crack. Just. Just. Just to crack the six. Just just to have a hundred and twenty thousand dollars a year. You living. You ain't even considered 200,000. You ain't even consider 500,000. 750,000. Everything gotta be about that million. Cause you listen to nigga Jermaine Dupree and Jay Z tell you money wasn't a thing. That was in 97, bruh. 98, 99. Told you you went a big dog. You ain't have a being. You listen to this little troll who fumbled Janet Jackson tell you you ain't a big dog. You ain't gotta be. And I. And the shining moment of his career is Jump Jump and Lil Bow Wow. Man, stop listening to these, bro. I'm so tired of this, bro. These is lame, bro. I beat the out of Jermaine Dupree, bro. All right, my bad.
Kyle
No, you good. Yeah, you're very passionate right now.
Deontay
No, I just don't like that, bro. Is informed by that, bro. That lame.
Kyle
Nah, you right.
Deontay
You a big dog without it.
Kyle
You are.
Deontay
He probably ain't on that car, bro. Do you know what MTV Cribs was? I roll over. Give me a Bentley right now. I'll run over Jermaine Dupree in that. With Janet Jackson in the passenger. Shad Moss in the back. Bounce with me. Bounce with me. Playing out the radio. These are gonna set these. These expectations on you, bro. This lame. The that really had the money was Dallas Austin. They don't know do the knowledge on Dark Child. Them the you don't see got the money. Let's get into these emails. But I had to kill one of. Kill these. If I gotta kill one of these to prove my point, I will start with Charleston White. I'm just playing. All right, we're gonna get into the voicemails first. All right. We'll got down blinking red. I don't know if this charging. It's straight. It's straight.
Kyle
You good? Don't worry about it.
Deontay
Is it still recording? Yeah, as long as it's recording. We wrote. We good to go. I'm sorry, guys. I'm passionate. I'm gonna go. Go. And I'm sick of this. This getting old, bro. Won't read a book, go read lyrics. They ain't talking about nothing. Damn, bro, I wish knew who the real Lames was. It's you. All day calling Lane that Lane, that Lane. No, it's you. It's projection. You knew. You was laying the whole time. Damn. At least Drake tried to tell something. I'll admit it. I'll admit it. You too worried about that lame, man. You lame, bro. You don't need these hoes don't even like you.
Kyle
Don't even want you. For real?
Deontay
Yeah, her lying on the phone all day, every day lying on line. Simba and Mufasa and. Let me go. Let me go if I get involved, bro. What? What? Big cat?
Kyle
No, just you see, you said when you said the girl don't even like you. For real. But the girl that really like you, you wouldn't even give her a chance.
Deontay
You won't even talk to her, bro. They be a great wife.
Kyle
Just cuz she ain't to the top.
Deontay
Right man, she going to take you to the top, bro. You go get you a job at the warehouse and come home and your draws folded. And every day you go to work, your food is is ready, bro.
Kyle
You don't like it cuz she don't look like a certain type on IG.
Deontay
That you don't like it cuz your homeboy wouldn't her. Yeah, whole time your homeboy gay.
C
Hi, I'm calling because I wanted to ask good question.
Deontay
Your h try to get you along. I don't like that man. I don't even think she the for you, man. Whole time this trying to you man. Ain't nothing wrong with that. Bros over hoes. Yeah, bros over hoes. That's some gay. I ain't never putting a homie over hoes. I'm gonna go see the whole first. Immediately. Immediately. I'm leaving, homie. This can't tell me to leave a bar. What you still doing at the bar? The is here, man. My hoe over here, man. I love this. I love her.
Kyle
Cause I see some ladies tonight that should be having my baby.
Deontay
Baby. You don't even love it when the business call you big papa.
Kyle
Oh my God. Let's get into these emails, man.
Deontay
That's why your man. That's why your man's man. He don't like Your girl, man, he like you. Ain't nothing wrong with that, but he going to prison. You not.
C
Hi, I'm calling because I wanted to ask a question for you all. First of all, I love the pod. Thank you all so much for what you're doing. Secondly, I wanted to know if you all have some advice on how to get young black men interested in reading or what kinds of things did you all do to get yourself interested in reading? For context. I teach at a university, so I'm around students who are, you know, teenagers up until the mid-20s. And oftentimes, like, if there's a book club or something of that nature, a lot of times young black men don't attend. The university that I work at is a predominantly white institution, but there is a strong black male support system on campus. I fear that a lot of students, a lot of younger people, don't realize the power of reading. And not just reading fiction, not just reading James Patterson or a fiction book, but also reading other things, doing the knowledge, like you all say. And I don't think a lot of people realize that a lot of the knowledge is in the books. All of the people who are doing the work online, they're reading and they're regurgitating things and sharing things with you, but you can also go to the source and do the reading. So I just wanted advice on how to get young black men more interested in reading. Not to say that they aren't interested and not to say that they don't read or anything like that, but just some tips and some strategies would be helpful. Thank you so much.
Deontay
Look, the thing is, there ain't no Grisson a podcast without literature, there ain't no Grist podcast without fiction books. Without non fiction books, there ain't no Grizzly Next podcast without the wretched of the earth, there ain't no Grizzlings podcast without James Baldwin. Without so many authors that I can lend this to, bro, I would say you have to be comfortable reading scholarship and literature from women. And even if it make you uncomfortable about your position, bruh, the more you learn, the more you read, when you read and you realize you don't know. First of all, we got to start with, like, a basis of English, the English language. We are not utilizing the English language in the way it should be. Stop calling big words. Stop saying big words, bro. It's just English. I'm not trying to confuse you. These is. These is trying to keep you out of education because they academics and. And they got their degrees and they use Language to keep you out of the conversation. But the reality is it don't take learn to learn. It don't take long to learn. You got a computer, you got a phone, you go look up any Instagram video you want, any TikTok video you want. If you come across a word you don't know, type it into Google. Learn the word so you can understand the context. Once you understand the context, every time you hear that word after that, bro, it's just very simple to learn. Reading, you already gotta, you already, you already bilingual, you already speak aave. Brush up on the English language for real and then books will be more appealing to you. But also understand that everything you feeling, that feeling you have, that thing you want to know, it's in a book. I wouldn't respect women the way I do without books because I didn't have nobody around me that was wise enough to tell me what our sexual impulses is. That's why I read a billion wicked thoughts. I don't know the value of a Patreon without the book contagious. I don't know the value of fiction without Running the Light by Sam Talon, the Wretched of Earth. Don't, bro. The Nicole Barnes book dog. And God We Trust Don't Tread on Us. I put it here, bro. I put it here, bro. Like I'm trying to, I, I, I don't want to tell a to read. But the, but the literature is there also, bro. It's people. There's a book. There's a thing called book talk. Like listen to them people. If the book is too hard for you to read, then start out with what's easy. Start out with autobiographies of people that you respect because you'll be in tune. If you respect Rick Ross, go read Hurricanes. But there's plenty of people that you look up to that already have books. And it may be embellished, but it'll get you to reading. Reading is supposed to open and unlock the imagination. If you respect me, then you respect literature because you don't get this podcast without it. There ain't no podcast without a book. Now when we say do the knowledge, we really mean that. Do that, do that. If you you want to start somewhere easy. This where every start the auto brought the Autobiography of Malcolm X by Alex Haley. Start there and then watch, watch films and, and look at them from a literary perspective. Go watch Belly and look at it from a literary perspective. Really understand the story that they telling and don't get phased out by the hot William shots Because that's a part of the story. Film is literature. Everybody learned different. If, if it's. If it's exhausting, then download Libby or Evering and listen to the book. You listen to music all day. You can listen to a book. If you think it's boring when you listen to it, try turning up the speed. Put it on 1.5, see if that's satisfying. If that still don't do it, put it on 2X. I'm telling you, literature is so easy to get into. And it'll open up your world, it'll open up your mind. But you don't know that because you ain't did that. Thank you for calling that.
C
Oh my God. Deontay Big ass Cub. This is. My name is Kyra. I don't know if this will get played because you might turn my off because you know I'm on, but.
Deontay
Oh my God.
C
I need advice, guys. So there was a girl put our hands on. Crazy, right? So the advice I'm asking because I ain't got to tell you the story, you know the story. The advice I'm asking is, you know, should I drive to Houston and fuck all her shit up or should I continue to be a big person and move forward? You know, I. I can't seem to make up my mind.
Deontay
Kyra. I'm not listening to that. Kyra. And this, this be the issue when I know y'all, I know you just keep doing what you're doing, all right? You drive to Houston, that I'm gonna meet you there. And you up. Moving right along.
Kyle
All right. What's up? Deontay from blank. The email title is has not driven and epsilon epilepsy diagnosis ruin my chances? All right, so the email says. Firstly, let me just say I'm proud of you, man. I saw you on Tick Tock like many, like many others and see where you're, where you are now. Nothing short of amazing. As a brother, it makes me excited to see what all, all of this can truly amount to. You. Huh? I think you had a typo. Yeah, I never thought, I never thought it would be doing this. I never thought I would be doing this. As I've always thought of myself as a quite observer, as a quiet observer appreciator.
Deontay
Over.
Kyle
Over. Nah, I'm not gonna read. I'm gonna go to go. Okay, the words.
Deontay
Firstly, let me say I'm proud of you, man. I saw you on Tick Tock like many others and to see where you are now is nothing short of amazing. As a brother, it Makes me excited to see what all this can truly amount to for you and how far you can take it. I never thought I would be doing this as I've always been myself, a quiet observer appreciator over a participant. But I really respect your outlook on a lot of things and I figured your insight on my situation, should you care to lend it to me, would be even more appreciated. I'm 35 year old man currently living in LA and let's just say I have put zero cream in the streets for well over 2 years at this point. In fact, I like to joke that I have refound my virginity. I had lost it years ago as a result cause sometimes you gotta laugh to keep yourself from crying, you know. I know, I know. When I was 33 I suffered from a random seizure in December. The first one I had ever had in my life and it put me into the hospital for the rest of the year. This led to a currently unknown form of an episode epilepsy diagnosis which brought my life to a halt in many ways that I'm still dealing with to this day. I'm on medication for the rest of my life. I still experience it. I'm still experiencing the occasional seizure from time to time. Which brings me to why I'm reaching out to you. Started to put my life back together after all these setbacks as far far as a career social life is concerned. But the one thing that hasn't reignited is my love life. A major setback is that I am legally unable to drive for six months to a year after the seizure and if I were to have an interim, the clock basically resets on that. So basically every time he has a seizure he sex back. Damn, that sucks. Making my driving opportunities slim. None. Living in LA and not driving has gotten me very used to subpar public transportation system. And while that works for me, it's not a good look when it comes to dating. I run to a lot of passenger princesses who insist on being driven to places or women who are just too far out of reach. Last date I was on, the woman flat out told me it wouldn't work out if I wasn't driving. Feels like my masculinity is being judged for not having a car for not fully driving by this age and that kills my confidence in the dating game which often lends to me often leads me to quit before I start. You do have a question. I have a suggestion. Ain't nothing wrong buying man man buy that man stop playing with yours and buy that coochie Put a in the Uber to the spot and and. And pay for that, man. Pay for that. Get the confidence back. Don't think about it. Don't think about it. Like you pay. You got a disability investing in your rebrand. God damn. So you can't even have a disability. You want to pay for the Uber. You want to pay for the bus. $4 to get to get around town. Then you got to pay for the date and your confidence up because you could tell this how you don't drive man. Get on find. First of all got an Epileptics Anonymous.
Kyle
Oh my God. Hey, listen, all right.
Deontay
I was joking. You watch the podcast. You know I'll be playing. Listen dog, you're gonna have to start somebody. You gotta have to get some bro. Just to get the confidence back. Just so you know, you still. You still doing what you do. All right. You bigger than your condition. My. But you ain't getting no coogee as a result of it. Because you're trying to date regular. But you don't got no regular circumstances. You have to find you in a regular. This is real, bro. Find them and find you epileptic. I guess my question is what would you do if you were me? I would buy some. Telling you the God honest truth if I'm too low on the confidence. But I got the chili. I got money. You know what I'm saying? I'm. I'm doing my thing like my career is still going. I'm not a bad guy. This is our first circum set of circumstances. My I'm drunk is a. An unfortunate set of circumstances. You can't control that your brain on some don't wake up thinking about being epileptic. It's you. That's what you got to deal with now. You got to buy some. And the only reason you got to buy is get the confidence back that you could still not be hold down the way you knew you could. Once you do that about three times then you gotta start get. You got to start giving the hoes the front story off the rip. They you can't wait till they get to the date. You got to tell them I'm epileptic, I can't drive. But I do this, this and that and I'll be knocking it down. Ain't gonna tell him like that. But just with the confidence. Just let them know off the rip. First of all, you in la. Problem one, you might need to get to Arizona.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
You know what I'm saying? You in la. That is skewing Your perspective. You out there with that play for the Lakers, all them superficial, them ain't got no seizures. Them ain't a lot of them out there ain't got to deal with the. You deal with. And you in the city of lights. Camera, action. And you got epilepsy. You in the wrong location, bro. Hold on, bro. Drop a different low. You gotta get up out of there, bro. You in the glitz and the glamour that don't mix with epilepsy.
Kyle
One flash, one flash take you down.
Deontay
The woman for you might be in South Carolina. Ain't no glitz and glam out there. Some bad bitches in South Carolina.
Kyle
Thick cornbread fed women.
Deontay
Man, you gotta leave. God trying to tell you not to be. I'm sorry, bro. If you got epilepsy and you in Hollywood, that ain't a good mix, man. Bro, you gonna have to work your way out. You gotta get out of la, bro. This is what it is. But I don't see. I don't see your dating life being successful in a place where everybody is there for glitz and glamour, everybody there for the cameras and also trying to find like a wholesome. I would, I wouldn't. Okay, what would you do if you was me? I'm still in my prime, not affected physically or ably by my condition outside of this car situation. I got a lot of love to give and the lack of love is leaving me feeling for it. Get out of la. The dating apps are trash. Get out of the way LA women are. Keep it too real for your boy sometimes. And I'm not really sure what else to do. Get out of L. A. Leave that. You gotta go. That's not the environment for you. Because trust me, if you have epilepsy, you'll be fine. You know where ain't worried about epilepsy? Missouri. Your wife is in St. Louis. Your wife's in Kansas City right now. Your wife is in Alabama.
Kyle
Your wife is in Jackson, Mississippi.
Deontay
Man, look, bro, the stars shine on Alabama, dog. Hold on, hold on. I'm not really sure what else to do. I can't move just yet. A lot smarter to do career wise than lock in. Yeah, lock in with celibacy and pay for the coochie.
Kyle
Yeah, but say pay for the.
Deontay
Pay for it. Just bring them to the spot so you can just still get some coochie. You're gonna meet the woman of your dreams. When you leave that, you in. It's Hollywood. It's all you don't need. You're not even meeting regular women. Not Even in communion with regular women. I live never met a from Carrollton, Georgia. She don't even want that. She just fine. Her dad drive trucks. You don't even know what that life's like, yo. Yeah, y'all might be in Arkansas. You, you're in is you creating a problem for yourself. Get your money, pay for the go to Figaro.
Kyle
Figaro.
Deontay
Become a regular.
Kyle
Telling the good rule and become a regular.
Deontay
I'm just saying, Brad. Really don't seem like your issue was with women. Seemed like your issue was getting. And bro, you get some coochie, bro, you got to spend that bread.
Kyle
Yeah.
Deontay
You establish yourself, whatever you got to do, career wise and then you leave that you in a hellscape. You're never gonna find love out there. It's is a list. Celebrities can't find love will do numbers in Maryland. I'm telling you, bro, your wife might be in Baltimore, bruh. You want my. Well, your wife might be in PG County. It's a Brad Pitt and Angelina. Can't make it work. Why you should. And you got epilepsy. Can't even be a grip dog. Leave la, bro. Get up out of there, bro. Get up out of there. You knew he was calling, you know, you knew what was going on. Advice for fresh 20 year old woman. Disclaimer. This is going to be pretty lengthy. I'm pretty drunk. We're gonna read it next week, I promise you. I gotta save. I'm gonna start it. Start. I'm gonna start. We're gonna wrap this up. We hour 33 and we gotta wrap this up. We gotta wrap it up. We gotta. We're gonna listen to some of this. We're listening to some of this. That's music. I'm already drunk. All right, let me delete all these other tabs, bro. I'm gonna put you on, bro. I'm gonna put y'all on, bro. We ain't even to talk about Granville T. Woods. I'm too drunk. Black history will resume next week. All right, all right. The first song we got of the day is no rap not Rappers. That's the name of this. Not Rappers.
Kyle
Not Rappers.
Deontay
Not rappers. Name of the song is Gilly Flow. It's produced by Leonard, not rappers. Leonard got a real job. This. Nah. I got faith in it though, because I'm still a little bit of it. I ain't saying it's good. I ain't saying it's bad. I'm just saying we don't know.
Kyle
All right, let's see it.
Deontay
Yeah, man. You know I'm back with another one for real ain't really doing me I'm doing walk down their tippy toe Nike with the ski mat do my killing clothes parallel to the fake hell no I can't fit the hole get the tooling just money called dispenser hole that famous bring you all that if I lost it all today when I call I get it all back Call my shooter tutor got a problem he gonna solve that flex on for the what you call that gay I just pulled up in that hey stacking like Frito lay run it up what they gonna say Put this all in their face none of my ain't scared to do it they just waiting on me to say when they talk I speak it fluent I just made me a bad today got more motion than ocean they hate the way I brad rub it in they feel like lotion I don't do no foots of fight let come get my get back how about with them rats and they going to ask you Nah, this actually is talented. He don't care about rapping. He ain't no rapper. This you good, bro. But you're not a rapper. It's called not rappers. But this fire. It's funny, though. It's funny too. It's actually. It's actually pretty good.
Kyle
Pretty decent.
Deontay
All right, we're gonna listen to the next to take this seriously.
Kyle
No rappers just out here playing around.
Deontay
Playing. He actually good.
Kyle
He actually good.
Deontay
I hate he probably good at everything. This he not a dog.
Kyle
Named Jalen.
Deontay
Named Jaylen Got two baby mamas check me out. I just figured I'd get this and try my name. Not rappers Perfect man. You think you're cute you think you're sexy you got the looks that drive the girls why the girl's Heartbreak Kid. I don't want to talk to the Heartbreak Kid.
Kyle
Long hair, hair perfect. Yeah, yeah, just a handsome.
Deontay
I know. I can hear a handsome. I can hear a handsome goddamn song. All right, man.
Kyle
He good.
Deontay
Damn, man. That all rapping boy all good. Do everything good. My girl all right no place right this is € kane € and kane h Tea.
Kyle
Okay.
Deontay
Hidden treasures been looking back on conversation see she what I'm in while searching for your love I hope I don't run out of time When I was doubling on myself she said the world is mine she hold it down like 10 toes that hard to find she said that like red nose down there lost my mind damn little mama too fine she know that I'm a dog 101 Dalmatians let's connect the dots she tried to play like is equal I just play my part if you don't want to reach the people baby, don't stop Been stacking up the chicken a square secret treasure vision I feel like one PCO love is worth a thousand I feel like one sparking is gone so I got cloudy vision Been looking back on conversation Cc what I'm missing you and I can say that I don't love you but you know I'm not I hope you know I want your body, B I want your mind but that don't mean that I won't touch you B I break your spine say that go play somewhere safe I crash by mine let's go and catch a vibe B. You done a ride can't wait for me cuz I know that she take some time can't do the shit I mean this decent It's a good ride. It's a good vibe like this. This for the yeah, so I can.
Kyle
Definitely hit it in the club.
Deontay
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah this for the this for the Though this is Evro e V r O and Kane K H a n E h T. This is Hidden treasures. This ain't my I want to hear you sing to the ho, Man, I'm drunk, man. We can't even do the knowledge on we can't even do we can't do knowledge on black history month. Got too drunk. We do got something, though. Top five. Top five. Top five, huh? Let's get into the top five black wrestlers of all time. At number five, Mark Henry.
Kyle
That's a solid number five.
Deontay
And number four, I got Farouk. Oh, damn, damn, damn. Number three ain't gonna like this. All right. That boy Bobby Lashley, man. Not but no, no, no, no. I up not Bobby Lashley. Shelton. Benjamin. That's my guy. Yeah. Yeah. That's my guy. That's my guy. Number two.
Kyle
What you got the rock and number two. I already know what number one is. I already know number one.
Deontay
No, man, I with the book, man. Yeah, man. Number one. Book a T, man. I'm coming for you. Yeah. And the rock bottom came from the bookend, man. Do knowledge. Do knowledge on a bookend, man. The first rock bottom.
Kyle
That's true.
Deontay
That used to be doing a front flip leg drop off the top turnbuckle. That is different, man. Booker T. The best black wrestler ever existed, bro.
Kyle
He gave us Sting. Not Sting.
Deontay
Not Sting. He gave us Sting with the red face. He don't play, man.
Kyle
They were Sting. We gave you the Harlem heat agile.
Deontay
As a gave me King Booker man coming out the ring like this man, you man stop playing with me. You got some Eric. All right. What you want to do, big Head?
Kyle
No, I mean we what's the time.
Deontay
On us see we at 140.
Kyle
Oh we good man Grist next podcast.
Deontay
You don't even want to do it.
Kyle
No, I I I with the list Solid list. Solid list. What can I say?
Deontay
It ain't really a lot of Not a lot of man.
Kyle
I mean D Lo Brown Odd Man Johnson you got nah, bro.
Deontay
We ain't doing putting D Lo Brown. Hey D Lo Brown. Hardest, hardest frog splash though. No. Yeah, crazy frog splash.
Kyle
Perfect frog splash.
Deontay
That nigga's in the Ministry of Darkness wasting his time, huh? Ricky? She a for real. You look fly cracker. Go from here to here Finishing move.
Kyle
Putting ass on the next put ass in the nigga face BBL Let me.
Deontay
Put this ass on you, boy. You a fool. All right.
Kyle
Grinching eggs bag.
Grits and Eggs Podcast: Episode 50 - The Chitlin Circuit
Host: Deante’ Kyle
Release Date: February 7, 2025
Description: Deante’ Kyle offers raw and unfiltered discussions on pop culture, current events, conspiracies, and a myriad of other topics.
The episode begins with a lively exchange between Deontay and Kyle about the correct episode number, highlighting their dynamic camaraderie. [00:05] Deontay humorously sings a verse that sets an energetic tone for the podcast. The hosts clarify the episode number, emphasizing their connection and enthusiasm for engaging with their audience.
Deontay underscores the significance of Black History Month, asserting the importance of celebrating and reinforcing positive messages within the Black community. [04:24] He emphasizes the need for self-love as a cornerstone of empowerment, contrasting it with historical movements like the Black Panther Party.
"Happy Black History Month. We got new merch. We done got rid of some old merch." [03:56]
"The antithesis of the Black Panther Party is self-love." [12:27]
Education and Representation:
Deontay discusses the critical role of Black educators in fostering an environment where Black boys feel understood and supported. He recounts personal anecdotes about impactful Black teachers who inspired his love for subjects like science.
"They have to be more studious about the people that came before us and not just, like, knowing the quotes." [14:37]
Deontay delves into the systemic challenges faced by Black communities, particularly focusing on the disparities in education and policing. He advocates for embracing trades and vocational skills as viable and empowering alternatives to traditional academic or entertainment careers.
"We go with them where the at. Is that places like Jackson, Mississippi, Montgomery, Alabama, South Bend, Indiana. Okay, we gonna go where the niggas at?" [05:22]
"Black power mean empowerment. And white power mean hatred." [19:24]
Critique of Rapping as a Path:
The hosts critique the portrayal of rapping and materialism within the Black community, arguing that it often perpetuates stereotypes rather than fostering genuine empowerment.
"Rapping got to stop being a way of getting out the hood, because you can get out the hood by being a truck driver. You can get out the hood being a plumber." [50:10]
Encouraging Young Black Men to Engage with Literature:
Responding to a listener’s query about fostering a love for reading among young Black men, Deontay passionately advocates for the integration of literature and self-education. He recommends starting with autobiographies of respected figures and utilizing accessible platforms like audiobooks to make reading more appealing.
"Reading, you already gotta, you already, you already bilingual, you already speak AAVE. Brush up on the English language for real and then books will be more appealing to you." [76:42]
Navigating Personal Challenges in Dating:
Another caller seeks advice on handling the impact of epilepsy on his dating life. Deontay suggests practical solutions such as using ride-sharing services to regain confidence and even contemplating relocating to environments more conducive to his personal circumstances.
"You go to prison, you gotta learn how to hustle. Stop calling, stressing your mom out. Stop trying to make that girl hold you down." [43:17]
"You in college, you feed yourself. I think that we conflate these things. We're not going back to warming up the beds." [42:53]
The hosts review a track titled "Not Rappers," produced by Leonard. They commend the song for its authenticity and the producer's genuine approach to music-making, distinguishing it from fabricated personas often prevalent in the industry.
"It's actually pretty good." [95:01]
"I hate he probably good at everything. This he not a dog." [96:37]
In a lighter segment, Deontay and Kyle compile their list of the top five Black wrestlers, celebrating influential figures who have made significant impacts in the wrestling world.
"Booker T was doing a front flip leg drop off the top turnbuckle. That is different, man." [101:39]
The episode closes with the hosts reflecting on the importance of genuine empowerment over superficial success. They reiterate the need for collective effort within the Black community to embrace education, trades, and self-love as pathways to true liberation and prosperity.
"We doing it wrong, guys. Yeah, we're doing it wrong." [48:56]
"We got all the examples at this point. You're forcing it. It's 2025." [57:45]
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Final Thoughts:
Episode 50 of the Grits and Eggs Podcast is a fervent exploration of Black culture, community empowerment, and the societal structures that impact the Black community. Through candid discussions, personal anecdotes, and listener interactions, Deontay and Kyle paint a vivid picture of the challenges and opportunities within their community. They advocate for education, vocational training, and self-love as tools for genuine empowerment, while critiquing materialism and superficial success. This episode serves as both a motivational and instructional guide for listeners seeking to navigate and uplift their own lives within the broader societal context.