Deontay Kyle (37:06)
We back. We back, guys. So I wanted to talk about some things because I've seen some comments regarding some of the posts that we've made, and I think that, you know, there'll be things of like, oh, deontay speaks the truth. And then you get niggas saying, oh, he only. Y'all only like him because he pandered the women. And then women will say, shit, he actually be giving it straight up to the men a lot. Like, you know what I'm saying? He show women love. But whatever. But I think that this I've been trying to figure out, like, what is it? What's the issue, like, that we have with one another between, like, gender and it's just proximity. We are in a war of proximity. And when you are in too close proximity to the effects, then it blinds you from the causes. So we blame each other and not the system. So you got to understand that things are greater than your circumstances or the bubble that you live in, right? So you may have been hurt or harmed by another black person, but that's all due to proximity. The root causes of these things are a lot bigger than just your neighborhood, right? But the effects are active in your neighborhood. The effects on the mind, the effects on your behavior, the effects on your attitude towards one another are all proximity based, Just like crime is proximity based, but poverty is a precursor to crime. A lot of y'all wouldn't be criminals or have engaged in criminal activity if you grew up with a more. In a more financially stable environment. So then that brings me to this idea of, like, well, why do we get suburban kids that grow up in, like, cul de sacs and nice homes, and they want to engage in criminal activity? Again, it's proximity. You in proximity to the culture, and the culture is an effect of big corporation. Like, the reason why rappers would rap about a Birkin bag is because they didn't know nothing about no fucking Birkin bag when they lived in the hood, right? But they get around. And like Damon Wayne saying on this Club Shakespeare interview, the higher you go up, the less black people you see. And so you in these spaces, and honestly, you stick out like a sore thumb because you know, this isn't the proximity you used to be in. You're not used to being in proximity with money. You're not used to being in proximity with white people or just wealthy people in general. And it doesn't really change your taste. It changes the way that you approach people that still are where you're from. And we have this. This peacock and shit where we want to flex on each other and go big. So it's like, oh, I'm gonna show them. I'm take this to the hood. They ain't never seen this. This is the idea where say, oh, I'm. I'm pulling up in the hood in a Lambo to motivate them. No, you pulling up in the hood in the Lambo to on niggas. Because what kind of motivation is that when you. You got a $250,000 car and a can't even fathom having that much money, let alone something that costs that materially. You buying bitches $30,000 birkin bags and can't fathom having $30,000 to just throw away like that. You understand what I'm saying? So that's not the. That's not motivation. And you shouldn't do motivation through humiliation. You shouldn't want to humiliate or embarrass or have in a space where they're questioning their financial security or their makeup as a man based on what you're flexing materially. So it's a proximity thing. Like, all the men that you've ever dated have been black men because you only have lived around black men. So now black men are the problem because that's all you know, is other black men. And if we don't dig into the reasons why these black men may be showing up this way or these black women may be showing up this way, then we're going to continue in a cycle of Blaming each other, right? And we get. This is why I'm going to continue to reiterate this, this last 40 year talk. And I'm going to reiterate something else that I brought up. The way that these three letter organizations work, what their recruitment process is. These three letter organizations, FBI, CIA, all these branches of government that put together plans and ways to constantly disenfranchised black community recruit the same way other three letter organizations recruit. NBA, mlb, NFL. They're going, they're spending their money to get the best people. Now they're not getting athletes. If the, if the, if the plan is to affect the minds, the bodies and the behaviors of black people to be more favorable, to make them, to make us subservient to their society, they're going to get psychologists, anthropologists, sociologists, people that understand the brain, people that understand human behavior and how, and how humans interact in large groups. So their recruitment process is based on what's going to affect your mind, what's going to affect your body and what's going to affect your behavior. And how does this behavior in turn affect you in large groups. And we're in proximity to the effects, so we don't see the causes nor think about the causes. And it's hard to think about the causes, right? If you grow up in a household with an abusive dad and shit like that, and he's a drunk, you don't ever get to the point where you saying, well why is he a drunk? Not why you too close, so close to the abuse. And if you, and if you have other people who are going through these similar situations, well, that has to be a symptom of something. Everybody, black ass daddy can't just be a drunk, irate nigga. There has to be a bigger cause than that. And nine times out of ten is the pressures of society the way that he's undermining employment. Sometimes niggas come back from the war and they revoke their GI Bill or they don't get the benefits that they were promised that they would get. And black men have went to war and come back and been extremely undermining and still subject to racism when they go out and serve the country. But then they have mental health issues and not access to health care. There's a lot of things that go into this thing, right? There's a lot of things that go into the effects. And if we can get, if we can start researching the causes, right? You have to understand like equal and opposite reaction. This is a, this is a law of nature. We're existing in the effects of something, right? And this is why the last 40 years is so important to me and the war on drugs is so important to me. Because we need to be researching what the causes were. If we can all sit here and say, yeah, my uncle was a certified electrician, like he was getting money until he got on that dope. My dad was a carpenter, my dad was a welder. My dad did all these great things. He was a genius really, until he got on that dope. Then why, why are we not like looking at where the dope came from and why again these people are running experiments on these things. That's the whole idea of they clown. Tyrone. I think we should pay way more attention to that movie. Because what they talking about is the hypnosis through food and music. It informs the behaviors, the behavior stay the same. So if they're running these tests, they understand, okay, if I give them this, this is how they react. If I give them that, that's how they react. If you hear this, this is how your mind reacts to it on this frequency. They're running test. This is an experiment. It's called a project for a reason. It's all experimentation. And they've been constantly subjecting us to their experiments. And it's, it's work is, it's, it's a crime against humanity, to be quite honest. But we don't want to look at like that because there's another thing about the proximity. When you, when you in the, when you're in a community like that and it's some dog eat dog that you got villains and you got victors, I mean, you got villains and you got victims and nobody want to be a victim. So we stigmatize what it means to actually be a victim. Whether you like it or not, black people were victims of chattel slavery, right? We're victims of that abuse. We're victims of that 100% capitalist profit system, that sadistic ass system. We were victims of that were victims of the war on drug. That was chemical warfare and we were the victims of that. And you don't like the way that that makes you feel because it makes you feel weak even to say the word victim. But you won't release yourself. You're not going to release yourself from that bind that you have on trying to undo things yourself that you didn't do in the first place. That's a bind. And they love nothing more than for you to point the finger at each other. We're pointing the finger at each other for Situations that we didn't create or cause. Situations we wouldn't have thought up of in the first place. But no nigga sitting around. How can I get the whole neighborhood hooked so I can get rich? Nobody was thinking that drugs was drugs. People had reactions to drugs. People got addicted to drugs. But I mean, let's talk about even the unfair sentencing practices of cocaine versus crack. It's all. It was all intentional. This is why. This is why I say what I say. Like you could say, nigga, stop saying Y N. Cause we've been saying young nigga for the longest. Young just always been a thing. Hang on, young man. What's up? Them young, bro, let's go show some love. Them young. We ain't saying Y N. That's a way for you to abbreviate the word so you can say without saying it. But what was the first? What was the original Y N? Super predator. This is the thing. Like, you have to be mindful of these things. This is why history is important. This is why the history of media is important. Because you have to understand how the media has always propagated false and harmful narratives about black people. I'm pretty sure. I mean, there. We don't know the stats on how many people die a day, but niggas ain't just dying in Atlanta. But if you live, you live in Macon. You live. You could live anywhere. What they gonna show you? Hey, these. These is. This is the Black on Black crime hour. It's 7pm this is all the black on black crime that's happened in Georgia today. And it propagates a narrative about us being villainous, about us being murderous. And then you look at. Go look at the real numbers. We're looking at probably less than 5% of people that behave this way. This is very isolated situation. And the reason why it happens so much and so often in these areas is due to poverty. When you subjected to poverty, you got to find a way out. Go look up what the string theory is. That's our homework for this week. Last week. Well, okay, so I said banal platitudes. They said it was banal platitudes. Banal platitudes. That was the homework last week. Okay, this week. Go look up the string theory. I think we should keep doing. We should get niggas homework. Nah, you're gonna do the knowledge. Do it for real. Yeah, Go look up the string theory and how your circumstances affect your mind. Like a man that would never take anything from anybody but wants to provide for his family. Is in a desperate. You in a desperate state. Desperate times call for desperate measures. That's another banal platitude. But it holds true because niggas get desperate. I'm gonna go snatch that lady purse. I'm gonna go in the liquor store and rob the liquor store. Woo do woo woo. Because my baby ain't eating and I can't get a call back to save my life. And nine out of 10, he's not getting a call back. Cause they see his name. You know, all of these things are effects. Like we don't go into, we don't talk enough about the nuanced things that happen to us. Our hair, our names. These things that are true identifiers of who, who we are keep us out of rooms due to racism. And we're so close to the. We're so close to the effects. Of course you don't think black man. When your daddy was an abuser or a drug dealer went to prison, your uncle hood on drugs or a drunk abuser or, or just can't, can't seem to hold down a job. You only know one good black man and he don't live nowhere real around here. He done, he didn't got up, he done got him some money and got the on. Like these women get to the point where they, they selling to feed they habit or they hooking on, hooting on drugs. And ain't nothing worse than a deadbeat mom. Or she left out here to do everything on her own. And she really a good woman, but she is extremely stressed out and taking out all her stresses on the kids. Because the thing is, is like the people you love get the least. We go out in the world and put on a show all day. I can't, I can't put. I gotta turn the show off when I get home. And the reality is I'm stressed the out. I don't know what I'm gonna do. I don't never have enough money and the bills don't fucking stop. And if you grew up with your mama bitching at you like that all the time, you gonna think black women are bitches. You go and you go turn on the TV and all you see is black women with a fucking ass turned to the camera. Every chance they can get, they somewhere bent the fuck over. You gonna think all black women hoes. But whose idea was it to put black women in that position on camera? Whose idea was it for the video vixen? Yes, sex sells, but why is it that our women are always selling sex this is, this is, this is an experiment. This is propaganda. Like so when you see little girls doing things like that that you would make, make, that would make you call them fast. But they're repeating behaviors that they're seeing in media over and over and over again. And our access to controls over media is getting less and less by the day because it's ways around all type of whatever parental controls you got, it's ways around all that shit. And the kids get old enough they find their ways around. Just like we found our ways around the parental controls when we was in school on the computers, we found ways around that shit. So the thing is, this is a proximity war for us. It's not a gender war, it's a proximity war. We are so close to the effects, we don't have time, make time or think about the causes. We don't think about why people act the way they do. We don't think about why people think the way they do. We don't think about why we behave the way we behave in large groups. And we only think about those things when it's negative. Because when we together at trail rides and shit like that, having fun, we don't question that behavior because that seems extremely natural. When, when we see each other on the street and it's love and we compliment each other when we do that. I'm, I'm trying to get like you shit. We don't question that behavior. The only behavior that we have that always gets called into question is our negative behavior and the behavior that reinforces harmful stereotypes about us because it doesn't feel natural. And we have to remember that we are being represented in our community by a small percentage of people. Most black people, you know, aren't fucking criminals. Most black people, you know, are working class people. And the black people that you know that are criminals are what? Also poor and extremely poor and come from extremely impoverished circumstances. If you grow up in a two bedroom house with, with, with six siblings, I think that you're gonna want to try to find a fucking way out of there. And if you go outside and the people who seem to got it figured out engaged in criminal activity, well, what does that lead you to believe? Maybe I need to engage in some of this criminal activity or dedicate my life to athletics. So it's a proximity, but also that desperation shrinks your worldview. You can only think about, I mean you, are you in survival mode all the time. Your nervous system ain't the same. Like your shit ain't the same as everybody Else's, you're not operating in the same frequency as everybody else. You in survival mode. You, you a prey. You, you, you, you, you always on the lookout for a fucking predator. Keep your, keep your cortisol levels high. You're not experiencing a whole bunch of endorphins. You always on edge. That's why you snapping all the fucking time. The food ain't helping. The food ain't no better. We are eating food that's gonna funnel us right into the, the healthcare system, right into big pharma, keep us on drugs. This thing is deep, y'all, I swear. When say it ain't deep, that's cause they ain't digging. If a tell you it ain't that deep, that's cause he ain't digging. This is deep, man, because all roads lead back to their systems. All roads lead back to where it's one of two places. Big pharma or the big prison industry. Prison industrial complex. All roads lead back to the prison industrial complex or big pharma, all of them. And the way that they recruit, they know if I got the best. You, you, you. You a doctor of psychology, right? And you wrote books and all this hey, man, shit, bro, come over here. You ain't know you. You may be touching 150, $200,000 a year. How does 2.5 million sound? And, and you want a hush hush deal too. You want that money that changed the trajectory of your life. Money talk like a motherfucker. True niggas got to stop taking acting like money don't talk. And the thing is, this is a nice button up guy that you would never. This is a very unassuming man running these experience experiments. Very unassuming woman running these experiments. You walk by him in public, he, he nice slacks, collared shirt, glasses, produce section, checking out produce. You don't know from nine to five, this nigga is running experience on how to get you fucked up, how to fuck your mind up. This is war tactics. Oftentimes the people we don't consider as a part of war are the sociologists. The people we don't consider as a part of war are the anthropologists, the psychologists, the psychiatrist. But this is, this has everything to do with your mind and your behavior. Of course. That's a big part of world. How is this gonna affect the mind? How is this gonna affect the bodies? How is this gonna affect their relationships with each other? Because at the end of the day, it's divide and rule. If I can keep you divided. If I can keep you and women blaming each other, instead of blaming the reason why y'all hate each other in the first place. Instead of getting back to the root causes of things, y'all arguing over the effects. Hey, I'm winning because I'm in the back, in the shadows. Ain't nobody even looking at me. Nigga ain't even thought about me. And we gotta get to a place where we was like, okay, collectively, this is unproductive, right? Collectively, it's just unproductive. What have we gained from these things? Yeah, we've gotten a lot of frustration off, but what have we gained besides more division? Do you know how divided we are? That if I say I love black women, I'm pandering? But if I got up here and spoke highly of white women, y'all wouldn't even that word, wouldn't even leave your fucking mouth. It's never pandering when it comes to white women. But what's more pandering, what's more pandering than that? Trying to get the approval of bitches that don't want you. They see you as less than them unless you luck the fuck up and get some money and they can benefit from you. And you gonna have a whole bunch of little Pat Mahomes running around. And, and, and by the time he have kids, them goddamn kids ain't gonna look like you. You ain't even gonna be able to identify them children. Arguing about the effects, it's not been productive at all. And we gotta get on our black American team. Like I love all my cousins throughout the diaspora, but I ain't gonna lie, man, on Twitter, y'all be on some bullshit, bro. Why y'all are. Niggas is calling us cotton pickers and all type of shit over a goddamn Zulu parade that they had in New Orleans that they have every year. But just now y'all found out about it. Now y'all coming out saying the worst shit in the world. Niggas is out here talking about, yeah, we glad that y'all good on the West Africans for selling y'all into slavery. It was probably bad ones. Probably needed to get rid of them all this type of sucker ass, white supremacists, klansman ass talk. Now a part of me think that's one of them three letter organizations, because why do niggas get to talking like that? And why do it only come, come, come directed at us? But I'm not, I'm not gonna get into dire rewards. Because the thing is, which I don't realize, you, you can come look at us and how we behave. Go look and dig into your history. Same play was put down on you. Same play put down in South Africa. Not all across the fucking board. All across the goddamn board. And it's because we black Americans have much more of a global presence than I would say, other black nations. Right? You know what I'm saying? The black American has an extreme, extremely global presence through our export of entertainment and athletics. Right? So it's a lot of. It's a lot of hate that get directed at us. And I don't think that that shit kind of serves as a distraction too, because it's not. We can get in a name calling contest with niggas. We can roast all day. It's not beneficial, it's not progressive. Only thing it does is divide further. We ain't brought up colonizers once. We talking about the effects again. Proximity war. You comfortable dishing out that type of hate to somebody that looked like you. Whether you want to admit they look like you or not, whether we got totems or whatever customs or cultural traditions that y'all try to put up to say we don't have a culture. But yet niggas is everywhere in the world, dressing like us, talking like us, mimicking our music. Why is niggas in Japan making drill music? You understand what I'm saying? We had Italian drill. We had every goddamn drill. Drill went global. So I think that this is all a proximity war, bro. It's a proximity war. And you too close to it to ever like you. You. You gotta. Sometimes you gotta put down a micro. Put down a microscope and pick up the telescope because we. We too close to it. You on a microscope. You had a microscopic level with other black people where only thing you see is the bad behaviors. And then when niggas do good and niggas speak progress, you extremely pessimistic about it. Because you've been so locked in on the negative behaviors because of how they affect you. The negative behaviors have affected you in a way. Your parents had an extreme impact on you. Your uncles, your cousins, the people you grew up with and went to school with. All of your negativity has derived from these circumstances and these people that you have been in close proximity to. But there's a reason why they act like that. There's a reason why she treated you like that. There's a reason why he treated you like that. There's a reason why you treated them like that. Because I'm tired of the stories about, like. I understand bullying is a Real thing. Stop acting like you ain't never did shit to nobody, bro. It's the reason why you act like that. So if you in close proximity and that bullying had an effect on your mind and on your outlook on black people, then zoom the fuck out. If, yo, if your biggest issue and beef with black people as a black person is the bullying that you endured from black people, zoom the fuck out and look at the bullying that black people have endured by the hands of colonizers for the last 400 years. And you don't think that's going to have an effect. It's about changing your perspective on things. This is not just not to undermine you and undermine your feelings. Your feelings are valid. The things you went through are very real. But the only way for you to get over those feelings and to implore empathy. And the empathy has to come from understanding that these people are living in effects. And the things that affected you are cause of another effect that affected them. And you got to zoom the fuck out. You got to zoom out. Look at the history. Why would you ever give my fucking grace for what they've done to you? You won't give a nigga grace for what? For what they've done to you in the. In the 25 years that you've been alive is unforgivable. But treat your whole community like that. And much worse. And much worse for 400 years. Hey, they not bad. They not all bad, huh? White girls, they just look better be for real, dog. Proximity, proximity. Proximity. Proximity. Proximity to business practices, right? What are the successful business practices that we've seen in the last 40 years? Drug dealing. So when we open up our businesses, we operate them shits like drug dealers. And, and, and, and, and oftentimes we operate in business out of like a dream. What is this dream that niggas have? I understand niggas want to rest, but what is the dream? The dream can't be to do nothing. You're never going to work your way up into a position to do nothing. The work never stops when you arrive, there's more work to be done. Nature doesn't rest. It resets. So reflect on nature and not society. It goes through a reset. We know that the bloom is coming back. We know it's coming back, but we know it got to go through a shedding process. Them trees gonna go through a shedding process. But first of all, they had to grow to be a tree anyway. You got to understand that. You want to you. If you operating as a business, right, let's Just say you went to school. You went to law school. You wanted to become a lawyer, right? Boom, you became a lawyer. You passed the bar. Exciting. But now the work began. Now you have to be a lawyer and you get put onto a great firm. And you killing it, like this is your life dream. You became partner. Oh, shit. You think when you become partner, you're gonna get to stop? No, there's more responsibility. You've arrived now. You arrived. You tell everybody, like, fuck, not only am I a lawyer, I'm partner. My name on the building. Oh, you can't stop now. Now it's more work to be done now. Your responsibilities are larger, but you're capable. You partner for 10, 15 years, you decide, hey, I want to start my own firm. I think I got the hang of this. You think you're going to open up that law firm and it's going to be time to rest. This is where the real work begins. Every time you arrive, the real work starts. It gotta become automated, right? I know for a fact that when I leave the crib, Kyron is gonna follow the rules whether I'm around or not. When we talking about Cohen, she can get a little shaky. So if you. If you walk away from a situation, if you walk away from your work and things go to shit, you got more work to do. Train up that subordinate. You don't want to train them up because you don't want them to take their position. It's your name on the building. How they gonna take. They can't. They. It's not a hostile takeover. They're not gonna take your business. But don't you want it to be able to be well run when you're not around? You gotta train somebody up to know how to do the things you do. So that those times when you do wanna take a rest, you can actually rest. And you can be rest assured that your shit is in good hands. And yeah, you got to pay them a little more. But is it worth your rest? Don't you want to rest? Because the work ain't done? If you ask yourself, if you're sitting there, anywhere you are in America right now, even if you ain't in America, we know we got folks in London, we know we got folks in West Africa, we know we got Australian fans, all that, wherever you at. Understand? The work never stops. It never stops. Labor is love like the body loves labor. The body like the push and the pull. Nine times out of 10, when you overwhelmed with all of these negative thoughts, you ain't pushed or pulled Nothing in a while you ain't got active. That body need to move. The brain needs problems to solve. The brain loves labor. It wants to break things down and pick them apart and analyze it and find a solution to whatever problem it may be faced with. The heart, it loves labor. It loves the love. It loves to feel actively. You always feeling stuff. You always going through a spectrum of emotions. If you got it in your mind that you're going to work your way to a position where you don't have to work, well, what you're talking about is retirement. And what happens to the old folks when they retire?
