Grits and Eggs Podcast - Episode 67: Ridding of the Rebel

Release Date: May 20, 2025
Host: Deontay Kyle
Co-host: Big Ice Cub Cat
Guest Speaker: [Unnamed]

1. Introduction and Setting the Stage

[00:01 - 03:27]
The episode kicks off with Deontay Kyle introducing himself and his co-host, Big Ice Cub Cat. They briefly acknowledge their audience and tease the content to come, emphasizing that today's discussion will be substantial and bombastic. Deontay mentions various community initiatives, including upcoming events like Meet and Greet Monday on May 26th.

2. Social Media Toxins and the Responsibility of Platforms

[03:29 - 09:56]

Twitter's Toxic Environment

Deontay and Big Ice Cub Cat delve into the toxic nature of Twitter, criticizing its current state under Elon Musk's leadership. Deontay expresses exhaustion with battling racism and misogyny on the platform, stating:

"[04:05] Deontay Kyle: I can't deal with. I can't fight race every day on Twitter. That's a tough plight."

They argue that Twitter has become a hub for hate, predominantly targeting Black men and women, and lament Musk’s role in exacerbating these issues.

Elon Musk's Influence

The hosts critically analyze Elon Musk's impact, labeling him a "grifter" and questioning his intelligence and motives. They assert that Musk's stewardship has degraded Twitter's quality:

"[09:04] Deontay Kyle: Grifter."
"[09:08] Big Ice Cub Cat: He's not what he said he is."

Impact on Community Discourse

Deontay offers to sell his Twitter page, which has amassed 26K followers, for $750, highlighting the platform's decline:

"[04:30] Deontay Kyle: If you wanna buy the page... for 750... you get 26k followers."

They emphasize the need for the Black community to disengage from such toxic platforms to preserve their mental well-being.

3. The Perceived War on Black Men and Misogyny

[10:00 - 27:24]

Misogyny and Masculinity

A significant portion of the episode is devoted to discussing the "war on Black men," intertwining it with issues of misogyny within the Black community. Deontay articulates frustrations with how Black men perceive and treat Black women, asserting that internal misogyny undermines communal strength:

"[13:57] Deontay Kyle: Black men, the qualities that you have that will make you a success in the street, a success in athletics will also make you a success in education."

Streaming Culture and Relationship Dynamics

They critique the culture of online streaming, particularly how it propagates unhealthy relationship dynamics and perpetuates superficial interactions. Deontay shares his disdain for streamers who broadcast personal drama, arguing that it sets a poor example for impressionable youth.

"[10:20] Deontay Kyle: It's just broadcasted to the nation, right?"

Racial and Gender Accountability

The discussion shifts to accountability, with Deontay urging Black men to take responsibility for their actions towards women instead of deflecting blame onto external factors or other demographics.

"[15:00] Deontay Kyle: And they fired the long standing Librarian of Congress...,"
"[20:55] Deontay Kyle: And you are accountable for that as well."

Interpersonal Relationships and Respect

They explore the importance of respectful interactions with women, advocating for kindness, empathy, and personal responsibility.

"[22:09] Deontay Kyle: You wanna turn it up a notch? Get you a good woman. And you get your good black woman in your corner."

4. The Adriana Smith Case: Systemic Racism in Healthcare

[79:52 - 87:55]

Case Overview

Deontay introduces a harrowing news story about Adriana Smith, a pregnant Black woman in Georgia declared brain dead and kept alive by ventilators due to restrictive state abortion laws. He highlights the systemic racism in healthcare, pointing out that Black women are often exploited for medical research without benefiting from advancements.

"[85:31] Deontay Kyle: This is what black women talk about all the time. This is why doulas are important."

Historical Context: Henrietta Lacks

To provide historical context, Deontay references Henrietta Lacks, whose cells were used without consent to create the HeLa cell line, revolutionizing medical research while her family received no compensation.

"[86:00] Deontay Kyle: Henrietta Lacks... was the source of the HeLa cell line... neither she nor her family were compensated."

Call for Medical Autonomy

They emphasize the need for Black individuals to take control of their healthcare by supporting Black medical professionals who can provide culturally competent care.

"[89:23] Big Ice Cub Cat: Imagine the security of seeing the black doctor when you go in."

5. Navigating Personal Challenges: Caller Advice

[90:18 - 107:51]

Career Decisions

A caller seeks advice on whether to stay in his current broadband tech job, which offers a clear path for advancement and higher pay, or to switch to an HVAC certification program that would mean a pay cut initially but potential long-term gains.

"[92:00] Guest Speaker: Stay where you at."

Deontay and Big Ice Cub Cat recommend staying with the current job, highlighting the importance of stability, especially with a child on the way.

Dealing with Personal Struggles

Another caller, a single mother facing rejection in relationships due to having a child, receives counsel on maintaining personal responsibility, focusing on education, and not succumbing to toxic relationship patterns.

"[107:36] Deontay Kyle: If you don't want to marry a woman with kids then just don't fuck a woman with kids."

6. The Role of Technology: Embracing AI as a Tool

[111:06 - 98:23]

Artificial Intelligence and Education

The discussion shifts to the impact of AI, particularly ChatGPT, on education and critical thinking. A caller advocates for AI's benefits, while Deontay cautions against over-reliance, emphasizing the need to maintain foundational educational skills.

"[94:59] Deontay Kyle: It's a tool. It shouldn't replace... your own intelligence."
"[95:01] Guest Speaker: Yeah."

Balancing Pros and Cons

Deontay acknowledges AI's advantages in efficiency and problem-solving but warns of potential drawbacks, such as diminishing critical thinking and increasing dependence on technology.

"[96:20] Deontay Kyle: When you use AI to take tests for you, but you can use it to help you organize and take notes."

7. Building Community and Internal Strength

[108:41 - 89:17]

Personal Development

Deontay and Big Ice Cub Cat stress the importance of personal growth, community support, and maintaining a balanced mindset. They encourage listeners to engage in activities that foster both mental and physical strength.

"[113:11] Big Ice Cub Cat: Feel Good, son."
"[115:28] Guest Speaker: Yeah."

Educational Empowerment

They advocate for pursuing education and trades within the community to build self-sufficiency and reduce reliance on external, often exploitative systems.

"[89:00] Guest Speaker: Yeah, yeah."

8. Conclusion and Future Plans

[109:12 - End]

Upcoming Initiatives

The hosts announce plans for fundraising to establish a brick-and-mortar studio, aiming to provide resources like photography services and community events to support young Black men.

"[116:05] Big Ice Cub Cat: The coolest co host in the world. Big ice cub cat."

Final Thoughts

Deontay wraps up by reiterating the episode's key messages: personal responsibility, community strength, and the importance of education and self-improvement. They express gratitude towards their listeners and outline steps for continued growth and support.

"[113:36] Deontay Kyle: Don't never deny the results, baby. The results gonna tell you every time."

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• On Twitter's Toxicity:
  "[04:05] Deontay Kyle: I can't deal with. I can't fight race every day on Twitter. That's a tough plight."

• On Elon Musk as a Grifter:
  "[09:04] Deontay Kyle: Grifter."

• On Misogyny within the Black Community:
  "[15:00] Deontay Kyle: And they fired the long standing Librarian of Congress..."

• On Personal Responsibility in Relationships:
  "[22:09] Deontay Kyle: You wanna turn it up a notch? Get you a good woman. And you get your good black woman in your corner."

• On the Adriana Smith Case:
  "[85:31] Deontay Kyle: This is what black women talk about all the time. This is why doulas are important."

• On AI as a Tool:
  "[94:59] Deontay Kyle: It's a tool. It shouldn't replace... your own intelligence."

• On Personal Growth and Results:
  "[113:36] Deontay Kyle: Don't never deny the results, baby. The results gonna tell you every time."

Conclusion

Episode 67 of the Grits and Eggs Podcast delves deep into the systemic challenges faced by the Black community, particularly focusing on racism, misogyny, and the pitfalls of modern technology. Through candid discussions, personal anecdotes, and listener interactions, Deontay Kyle and Big Ice Cub Cat offer a raw and unfiltered perspective on navigating these complex issues. The episode underscores the importance of personal responsibility, community support, and continuous self-improvement as pillars for overcoming adversity and fostering a resilient Black community.