Grits and Eggs Podcast Episode 72 - "WE BACK!!!!"
Release Date: July 1, 2025
Host: Deante’ Kyle
Co-Host: Big Ice Cup Cat
1. Reintroduction and Return from Hiatus
After a significant break, Deante’ Kyle and Big Ice Cup Cat enthusiastically announce their return to the "Grits and Eggs Podcast."
- Deante’ Kyle [00:51]: "And I keep that blick with me."
- Big Ice Cup Cat [00:41]: "We like grits and eggs as you sip your coffee Flick your cigarette and let a vent yeah, we back."
The hosts express excitement about resuming the podcast, addressing technical issues with the microphone, and reaffirming their commitment to their listeners.
- Deante’ Kyle [02:00]: "Just know we can hear you. It's all right."
2. Patreon and Community Support
Deante’ Kyle emphasizes the importance of community support through Patreon, highlighting the benefits for subscribers.
- Deante’ Kyle [02:41]: "Patreon. Nothing but $8. $8 Grits and Eggs podcast on Patreon. It's $8."
They acknowledge the support during their hiatus and encourage listeners to contribute to sustain the podcast.
- Big Ice Cup Cat [03:04]: "$8."
The Patreon includes exclusive content, merchandise, and access to live events, fostering a closer connection with the audience.
3. New Orleans Trip and Film Festival
The duo shares their experiences attending the United Wehl Film Festival in New Orleans, collaborating on the film "These Walls Wear Thin."
- Deante’ Kyle [08:41]: "We got to do media for a film called 'These Walls Wear Thin' that would be shot in Louisiana."
They discuss the film's synopsis, the talented individuals involved, and the cultural significance of incorporating Louisiana's sounds into the soundtrack.
- Deante’ Kyle [10:33]: "The writer of episode seven, season one of Fallout... he got some good chops. Emmy."
4. Personal Reflections and Community Issues
Deante’ Kyle delves into deeper societal issues, reflecting on individualism versus community within the Black community.
- Deante’ Kyle [08:15]: "My cousin Sierra Javon Hosey. Rest in peace, baby."
He discusses the shift towards individualism, the impact of social media on real community bonds, and the need for a balanced approach to activism and coalition-building.
- Deante’ Kyle [27:18]: "Now, one thing that was said quite a few times in my auntie funeral yesterday was this thing about life be lifein'..."
The conversation touches upon historical oppression, favoritism in coalition-building, and the complexities of forming unified movements against systemic issues.
5. Parenting and Men's Mental Health
A substantial portion of the episode focuses on parenting strategies and addressing men's mental health challenges.
- Deante’ Kyle [57:02]: "How do we return to a place of communion and family reunion outside of the funeral?"
He critiques "gentle parenting" gone awry, advocating for a balanced approach that includes discipline without being overly restrictive.
- Deante’ Kyle [66:50]: "How are we overcorrecting as parents? A lot of our overcorrection in parenting has become supervision over parenting."
The hosts share personal anecdotes about dealing with their children's behavior, emphasizing proactive communication and setting boundaries.
6. Listener Call-ins and Community Support
Towards the end of the episode, listeners call in seeking advice and support, reflecting the podcast's community-driven ethos.
- Listener A [97:32]: "But I live in Florida... I have to go back and listen to old episodes..."
Deante’ Kyle and Big Ice Cup Cat respond with encouragement, offering practical advice and promoting community solidarity.
- Deante’ Kyle [98:30]: "Start where you started. Don't recreate the wheel."
7. Community Initiatives and Fundraising
The hosts announce upcoming community events and fundraising efforts aimed at supporting Black youth in Inglewood.
- Deante’ Kyle [45:27]: "Black to School Inglewood Resource and Black Black Youth for the Road Ahead..."
They call for donations, emphasizing the "Power of a Dollar" initiative to foster meaningful support for educational and wellness programs.
- Deante’ Kyle [48:30]: "Just one dollar. If 10,000 people can give one dollar, that's all."
8. Concluding Remarks and Future Plans
Wrapping up, Deante’ Kyle and Big Ice Cup Cat reiterate their commitment to the community, promote their merchandise, and encourage ongoing support through various platforms.
- Deante’ Kyle [124:00]: "We back. This is episode 72. We back."
They highlight the importance of unity, respect, and proactive community engagement as they look forward to future episodes and initiatives.
Notable Quotes:
- Deante’ Kyle [04:20]: "Ain't done this in a while. Feel good to be back in this seat."
- Deante’ Kyle [09:00]: "I had some contractual obligations."
- Deante’ Kyle [27:18]: "Man, what a recap. Man, what a fucking. It was. It was a long three weeks, but we are back."
- Deante’ Kyle [66:35]: "And I encourage all black people. If you are encountered with somebody who wants to call you a nigga and they not a nigga, call them whatever they slur is."
- Deante’ Kyle [107:19]: "You have an opportunity to do it."
Conclusion
Episode 72 of the "Grits and Eggs Podcast" marks a triumphant return for Deante’ Kyle and Big Ice Cup Cat, blending personal narratives with broader societal commentary. The episode underscores the importance of community support, balanced parenting, and proactive engagement in addressing systemic issues. Through heartfelt discussions and listener interactions, the hosts reinforce their commitment to fostering a resilient and united Black community.
Connect with the Hosts:
- Deante’ Kyle: deantayeontecowell.com
- Big Ice Cup Cat: Instagram - @BigIceCupCat89, TikTok - @BigIceCupCat
Support the Podcast:
- Patreon: $8 subscription for exclusive content and merchandise.
Upcoming Events:
- Black to School Inglewood Resource and Black Youth for the Road Ahead: August 9, 2025, Inglewood, California.
Contact:
- Email Submissions: deontaykyle@grittykyle.com
- Voicemails: 657-234-XXXX
Stay tuned for more insightful discussions and community-driven content on the next episodes of the Grits and Eggs Podcast.