Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 75: "One Beer Left" ft. KevOnStage
Release Date: July 15, 2025
Host: Deante’ Kyle
Guest: KevOnStage

Introduction to Guests and Main Themes

In Episode 75 of the Grits and Eggs Podcast, host Deante’ Kyle engages in a deep and unfiltered conversation with comedian and content creator KevOnStage. Together, they navigate a myriad of topics ranging from the artistry inherent in rap music to personal struggles with incarceration, the intricacies of digital content creation, and the pervasive influence of nepotism in the entertainment industry.

The Artistry of Rap and Poetry

The episode kicks off with a passionate discussion about the poetic nature of rap music. Deante’ Kyle emphasizes the lyrical depth and creativity of rappers, asserting that they are "in the same lineage as Shakespeare" ([01:47]). KevOnStage concurs, highlighting Kanye West's admiration for poets and the sensitivity required in songwriting.

KevOnStage (01:52): "Kanye said, like, if we was poets, I'd be the best poet. Like, whatever it was, that was the top art form. That's what I would do."

This conversation underscores the recognition of rap as a legitimate and sophisticated art form, deserving of the same respect as traditional poetry and literature.

The Evolution of Music Consumption

Deante and Kev delve into the nostalgia of physical music media, lamenting the absence of CD booklets that once provided track lists, liner notes, and additional insights into artists' visions.

Deante’ Kyle (03:25): "We don't have that no more, bro."

They reminisce about the days when fans could engage more deeply with music through detailed album art and notes, contrasting it with today's digital streaming platforms that often lack such depth.

Experiences with Incarceration and Personal Transformation

A significant portion of the conversation touches on KevOnStage’s past experiences with incarceration. He candidly shares his journey, recounting how repeated incarcerations influenced his approach to fatherhood and deterred him from a life of crime.

KevOnStage (07:06): "Yeah. I got a lot of mug shots. I actually used it as a point of reference now with my son. Like, you wanna be this? See, that's all you wanna be this."

This segment highlights the transformative power of personal responsibility and the desire to break cycles of crime for the sake of future generations.

Balancing Career and Personal Life

The duo discusses the challenges of balancing demanding jobs with personal aspirations. KevOnStage shares anecdotes from his time working at Boeing, illustrating the mundanity and inefficiency he faced despite the company's renowned operational prowess.

KevOnStage (13:03): "That's crazy."

Deante contrasts this with his own experiences juggling multiple part-time jobs while striving to support his family and pursue creative endeavors.

Comedy as an Outlet and Creative Expression

Comedy emerges as a critical theme, with both hosts exploring its role as a coping mechanism and a means of creative expression. KevOnStage elaborates on his journey in stand-up comedy, detailing how his early routines often drew from his church experiences and personal hardships.

KevOnStage (32:31): "The thing is about it that's so interesting. You don't know what's normal or abnormal if it is everything around you."

They discuss the evolution of comedic content, with KevOnStage reflecting on his time with shows like "Roast Me" and "Great Taste," emphasizing the uniqueness and cultural significance of these platforms.

Digital Content Creation and Influence

The conversation shifts to the volatile nature of digital content creation. Both Deante and KevOnStage share their experiences with platforms like TikTok, YouTube, and Vine, underscoring the unpredictability of online fame and the importance of diversifying income streams.

Deante’ Kyle (70:48): "I have multiple streams of income. That's why on tour I got the podcast, I got the book, I got Spectrum."

They caution against relying solely on digital platforms, advocating for financial prudence and the establishment of stable, long-term income sources.

The Role of Networking and Nepotism in Success

Addressing systemic issues in the entertainment industry, Deante and KevOnStage critique the prevalence of nepotism and the barriers it creates for aspiring black creatives. They discuss how personal connections often outweigh talent and hard work, highlighting the challenges faced by those without established networks.

KevOnStage (101:12): "Racism is a big problem in Hollywood. But the more dangerous problem is nepotism."

This segment calls attention to the need for equitable opportunities and the dismantling of preferential systems that hinder diversity and meritocracy.

Crime, Poverty, and Social Programs

The hosts delve into the correlation between poverty and crime, discussing how lack of access to resources and opportunities often leads individuals to illegal activities as a means of survival.

KevOnStage (90:27): "Crime is a byproduct of poverty. It's not an innate thing. It's a lack of access."

They advocate for robust social programs and community initiatives as solutions to reduce crime rates and provide alternatives for those in impoverished conditions.

Parenting and Legacy

A heartfelt discussion ensues about the impact of one's actions on their children. Both Deante and KevOnStage emphasize the importance of serving as positive role models, illustrating how their professional journeys influence their sons' aspirations and behaviors.

KevOnStage (94:02): "My sons. My son just started his own YouTube channel. This nigga is me all over again, right?"

This conversation highlights the intergenerational impact of career choices and the responsibility parents bear in shaping their children's futures.

Closing Remarks and Future Plans

As the episode winds down, Deante and KevOnStage reflect on their personal growth and the lessons learned from past experiences. KevOnStage mentions his upcoming book, "Successful Failure," aiming for the New York Times bestseller list, and discusses future collaborations, including a possible cameo in KevOnStage's project, "Churchy."

KevOnStage (105:51): "Successful failure. The book, if you had a good time. My life story is in that book. September 23rd. Pre order it now."

They conclude with mutual support and plans to promote each other's projects, reinforcing the importance of community and collaboration in overcoming industry challenges.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Deante’ Kyle (01:22): "Kanye didn't know his father. He met his father. No ID."

• KevOnStage (07:20): "I've been there, youngster."

• KevOnStage (20:23): "Call you an Uber. Call you an Uber."

• Deante’ Kyle (35:18): "You trying me. Y' all trying to make funny for real, right?"

• KevOnStage (93:28): "They letting it go and felt good about it."

• Deante’ Kyle (105:21): "I'm on the spot. Hey, this is where the deals get made, baby."

Conclusion

Episode 75 of Grits and Eggs Podcast offers an unflinching exploration of personal and systemic challenges within the realms of entertainment, creativity, and personal growth. Through candid dialogues and poignant anecdotes, Deante’ Kyle and KevOnStage provide listeners with both relatable humor and sobering insights, painting a comprehensive picture of the complexities faced by black creatives in navigating their careers and personal lives.

Whether grappling with the pitfalls of digital fame, the remnants of past incarcerations, or the intricate dance of networking and nepotism, the episode serves as a testament to resilience and the unyielding pursuit of authenticity in the face of adversity.