Grits and Eggs Podcast: Episode 78 - "Impact vs Influence"

Host: Deante’ Kyle
Co-Host: Big Ice Cup Cat
Release Date: July 29, 2025

Introduction

In Episode 78 of the Grits and Eggs Podcast, host Deante’ Kyle and co-host Big Ice Cup Cat engage in a candid and unfiltered discussion exploring the themes of impact versus influence within the Black community and broader pop culture. The episode delves into topics ranging from personal experiences in the entertainment industry to societal issues affecting Black wealth and community dynamics.

Behind the Scenes: Hollywood Hustles

[01:00] Deante’ Kyle opens the episode by reminiscing about a recent trip back to Georgia from California. He shares experiences from their time spent at a studio in Burbank, emphasizing the intense work involved in creating content under tight deadlines.

Deante’ Kyle (01:28): "We spent the whole weekend trying to get stuff done, working sun up to sundown at the studio. It was a real Hollywood experience."

The hosts discuss the possibility of producing a pilot for their show, contemplating whether to film in Atlanta or Los Angeles. They express a desire to maintain authenticity by staying true to their roots in Georgia.

Technical Challenges and Community Engagement

[04:20] Deante’ Kyle addresses recent technical issues with the podcast's production, including a corrupted file from the last recording. He reassures listeners about upcoming live sessions on Patreon, where they plan to engage directly with their audience through call-ins and discussions.

Deante’ Kyle (04:22): "We're rolling out the Les Music Club, so we need to stay on top of that."

The conversation shifts to merchandise and promotions, highlighting new items available on their website and upcoming events like the Atlanta Comic Con.

The Divide Within the Black Community

[18:55] A significant portion of the episode focuses on the internal divisions within the Black community, particularly between those with historical wealth and networking advantages and those who have risen from poverty. Deante’ Kyle critiques the elitism of established Black families and organizations, advocating for unity and mutual support.

Deante’ Kyle (19:12): "We can't keep having this conversation about, 'Oh, I didn’t grow up in the hood,' so it’s 'White enough' if I articulate my words properly."

He emphasizes the importance of recognizing diverse experiences within Blackness and the need to move beyond a monolithic view of the community.

Impact vs Influence in Pop Culture

[20:05] The hosts transition to discussing impact versus influence, using examples from the music industry. They highlight how certain figures have had lasting impacts that transcend their immediate influence, shaping cultural narratives and community perceptions.

Deante’ Kyle (21:01): "Ralph Lauren has always had these collaborations and very tasteful guy as far as we can see. But they didn't need the hood to get popping."

They differentiate between mere influence, often tied to consumerism and capitalistic agendas, and genuine impact that fosters meaningful change and cultural shifts.

Critique of Modern Influencers and Media

[33:12] Deante’ Kyle critiques modern influencers, particularly focusing on their reliance on digital personas and the disparity between their online image and real-life interactions. He draws parallels with the MTV Cribs era, questioning the authenticity of showcasing wealth without substantive impact.

Deante’ Kyle (35:04): "The impact that niggas have with real money is like poisoning your water supply."

He underscores the difference between influencers who merely promote consumerism and those who leave a tangible impact on society.

Voicemails and Community Feedback

The episode features several voicemails from listeners, including heartfelt messages and personal dilemmas. Notably, a listener named Tyler shares his experiences balancing personal relationships and financial struggles, seeking advice on maintaining friendships while pursuing individual goals.

Tyler (56:28): "I'm proud of Y’all, man, especially you. Deontay, like, bro, like, from going from watching you in the truck to seeing you leading mind changes in the community."

Deante’ Kyle and Big Ice Cup Cat respond empathetically, offering guidance on honesty and integrity in personal relationships.

Addressing Controversial Figures

[78:04] The hosts discuss controversial personalities like Dr. Umar, expressing skepticism about his legitimacy and fundraising methods. They caution listeners about individuals who may exploit spirituality and community trust for personal gain.

Deante’ Kyle (80:10): "It's like he begging for money... this is why people don’t like, when people say, like, grand rising and K."

They advocate for vigilance and critical thinking when engaging with public figures advocating for community support.

Conclusion

[84:33] As the episode wraps up, Deante’ Kyle reaffirms the podcast's commitment to fostering meaningful discussions that prioritize impact over mere influence. The hosts encourage listeners to stay engaged through their Patreon and social media platforms, emphasizing the importance of community and authentic dialogue.

Deante’ Kyle (84:43): "Episode 78. We'll see how next week, man."

Notable Quotes

• Deante’ Kyle (01:28): "We spent the whole weekend trying to get stuff done, working sun up to sundown at the studio. It was a real Hollywood experience."

• Deante’ Kyle (19:12): "We can't keep having this conversation about, 'Oh, I didn’t grow up in the hood,' so it’s 'White enough' if I articulate my words properly."

• Tyler (56:28): "I'm proud of Y’all, man, especially you. Deontay, like, bro, like, from going from watching you in the truck to seeing you leading mind changes in the community."

Final Thoughts

Grits and Eggs Podcast Episode 78 offers a deep dive into the complexities of impact versus influence, especially within the Black community. Through personal anecdotes, critical analysis of pop culture, and interactive listener segments, Deante’ Kyle and Big Ice Cup Cat provide listeners with thought-provoking insights aimed at fostering unity and meaningful change.

Connect with Grits and Eggs Podcast:

• Website: deontaykyle.com
• Instagram: @gritsandeggspodcast
• Patreon: gritsandeggspodcast.patreon.com

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