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grits and eggs as you sip your coffee flick your cigarette and let a vent yeah we back oh we back grits and eggs podcast this is episode seventy nine i'm your host deontay kyle but who's behind the camera the coolest co host in the world big ice cup cat the coolest shout out self made cool yeah we we we still we doing a single cam thing i went out of town you went to town and wet son what happened forgot why why niggas know me niggas know me for the podcast i ain't get the peas i ain't do nothing hey man opportunity come knocking you gotta answer hey that's right six five seven two three four eggs that's six five seven two three four three four four seven you can call in you can leave some voicemails we got some voicemails we're doing today of course of course and when we did our livestream last week we had some good call ins good call ins a lot of love in that patreon eight dollars god damn it ain't nothing but eight dollars let's do it patreon the grits and x podcast on patreon 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you a hat yeah get you some shot glasses we know you're drinking you're drinking you said you weren't drinking no more you lied you lied you out here drinking cup water oh my god yeah drinking cut water like alcoholic yeah when black people find because cut water been out for years when black people get a hold of and it's on tick tock it's just it just goes to the max yeah niggas found out about don julio started doing dances iced out don julio chain don julio tattoo in the middle of his face like black people just do everything to the max you gotta love it you gotta love it speaking of doing things to the max if you open up a beauty supply store i don't think the best case scenario is for you to throw bundles and bonnets out to the crowd and cause pandemonium grand opening grand closing for mister jonathan r yeah i mean and the store looked beautiful i seen wigs i never i didn't even know wigs came that long he had a the wig was from the flow to the ceiling bust down how much hair that's a lot of hair yeah it's a horse be talking about thirty two inches thirty two feet of hair it's a horse butt naked right now it's a lot of bald tie tie women catching backdraft right now there's a lot of cold necks in thailand right now there's a lot of cold no john of arc looking in thailand right now a lot of avatars are getting buzz cuts out there shout out to you though shout out jonathan wright for at least opening up some yeah but he's sick too he's sick just throwing bundles you're throwing bundles like you knew what was going you know black people don't know how to act yeah and then you go in the comments but y' all wasn't lined up for school supplies which is true yeah look let's have a quick discussion about this whole school supply stuff look the the the school is an extension of your home wherever your child is is an extension of your home but especially the school you can't stress to your child about education you can't stress to your child about the importance of you know staying on top of their grades and being well behaved but you won't provide the basic necessities necessary for them to have a good experience at school supplies when you at school with no school supplies that sucks it sucks yeah not having pen not having a twenty four pack of markers yeah or crayons yeah the twenty four pack of crayons man if you got twenty four pack of crayons you really feel like a boss yeah you're really a drug dealer you're the child of a drug dealer yeah on god on god you got madman out here with eight crayons yeah come on come on what he supposed to do with eight he can't do nothing with eight he go break one two yeah you feel me rip give him an assortment yeah if you rip big dog go forty eight on him all type of blues and mustards first of all forty eight the book bag is heavy that's a brick yeah that's a brick forty eight the book bag is heavy so little man off balance like a motherfucker walking through school gotta throw two of them in there counterbalance treatment like a triple beam little man balanced out yeah he good he got one of the top one at the ball he got all the girls in class it's coloring time what what bro break out the forty eight pack you bust out a forty eight pack you got shades of yellow you never seen before boy got jay z husband that's a real color son that's a real color jay z blue is not a real color that's a real color look it up as a resident new yorker always involving something new york adjacent look at look at him it always has to be come down to this all right i he but i think there there's a level of insanity and ego that goes into like i'm gonna throw bundles like to the crowd yeah and he was you get a bump i mean he hit a truck son he had to hit a truck he hit something he'll make a mean lick he hit the hit the pookie because why would you do that and then they shut the city shut his down oh the city of houston yeah they're not playing with yeah he violated the ordinance yeah of course of course you got this big ass parking lot full of people yeah and you throwing bundles out like you nicky barnes yeah he thought it was nicki boy turkeys thanksgiving bundles in the summertime what yeah right before the miami trip they need that they gotta have it they said it was out there fighting over the bottom i know they was because they gotta get they gotta get the ones that match they can't just have different bundles they gotta get the bundles throwing bonnets out too oh he's throwing bunnet too yeah a lot of things been getting thrown there's a stud at the wba games going crazy right now throwing meat on the floor just throwing it out there synthetic meat all on a pink dildo just on the bench it's been two incidences son how does it keep happening studs around the country are going crazy i ain't going to lie they f to start checking in book bags yeah yeah yeah you got no phalluses no phallus like objects listen the w there's a plethora of wnba ladies that look good that hasn't looked this good in a long time that's real yeah yeah wnba yeah used to be a little used to be a little wicked in the vba best you got was lisa leslie i ain't gonna hold you that's the best you probably got i'm just saying don staley don staley all right dust they was all right i'm just saying you had one or two wnba don iman come on yeah see what i'm saying see what i'm saying son those are some that die life said those some tough looking tough looking yo hey that said they some nappy head hoes that don i was tweaked out that was hit a line hit a line that morning i was just saying like he was he was hitting the mute yeah yeah these are some tough looking i ain't gonna lie ever since your girl maya moore has been the looks have been yeah yeah wrestling too though yeah but that that first that class in baylor that had like tia cooper they was laying they was wearing lashes and bus downs on the court yeah yeah yeah they was wearing fingernails painted ever since then they changed the game yeah and it's just been nothing but and now they trying to get that money they trying to get that bag up yeah but they look good though they do look good they be fred too bro yeah they look so good sex toys is being thrown on the floor take it just the equivalent of throwing a bra on stage at a rap yeah yeah golly there's a stud out there throwing dildos baby it's my dick this is my personal one it's my favorite one look how big it is baby ten inches it's a foot long baby twelve inches of you sick work son had to bring my camping backpack for this one put this on stilts how they get that in there though they don't check bags they probably had in their pants yeah yeah yeah dick on me put that right on her drawer yeah yeah they stick on me yeah throwing a dildo at somebody is insanity just on the court yeah the ball the ball boy was looking crazy he had to pick it up he was like oh it's like one nigga hit a hit a hat trick and hockey it's a whole bunch of dildos what if shorty what if shorty what if what if angel reese go out there hit a triple double just start throwing deals sick work son that's sick word jesus christ that's disgusting man yeah man people are crazy people are crazy so recapping my week oh tuesday monday or tuesday i get a call from my good brother chance the rapper he like man i'm having this listening it's gonna be at the planetarium in chicago can you pull up i want you there i was like boom all right let me see everything all clear fam good everybody good we gone we out of there boom bro first of all that album is gonna be in the top five album of the year conversation really for sure without a doubt not because i was there it's because i was privy to hear it that shit gonna be in that top five conversation okay he's going crazy and it's a great mixture of everything that he's always done well right so he has this the lightness to him but he also always has talked about some pretty heavy topics and subjects but this is a very like it's a black ass album okay you know i hate to compare it to acid rap acid rap is a classic album of course but i think people want him to get back to that i will tell you this is acid rap from a mature stance this is not the drugs but more of an awareness as a man as a father autos i mean he's a grown man you feel me and he hasn't dropped a project in six years this is the one i would suggest everybody to go on chancestuff dot com and pre order the album he is an independent artist he does have cd's i bought in the cd and i pre ordered the digital get you some merch support that brother because he has an amazing body of work he showed me a great time in chicago we got fucked up last night and then i had to get get on a plane at ten am what a chicago is they ready listen not only are they ready i'm ready live show house chicago i want to move to chicago you want to move to chicago yes bro what side of town summertime shy is a real thing no it's no downtown chicago is beautiful yeah chicago is a beautiful city period if we're going we're going to chicago we can move to the south side you going southside yeah all right it sixty third or sixty fourth i'm coming home again do you think about me now and then hey do you think about me now and then cause i'm coming home again no no seriousness chicago is a beautiful city it's a very clean city it's a very walkable city yeah there's an assortment of beautiful people the people there are just beautiful everybody seems fairly happy too sometimes shy you got to be happy sometimes everybody's having a good time yeah but i think that's the that's the that's the balance that's the yin yang yeah tough winners out there tough winter it's windy for real it's a tough winner because i was walking to the planetarium i had my uber because i seen lake michigan i was like oh i want to walk and look at that before i grow up so i'm gonna drop me off so i could just take in the view yeah it's a powerful body of water right there yeah the wind is hitting off that you hear me yeah hitting yeah so i'm like and it's it's like it's probably a cool ninety two ninety three degrees with the wind hitting it's probably feel like eighty eighty two right can you imagine i have i felt the wind in chicago in the winter it's crazy i'm cool on that it's crazy i'm great on that but shout out chance starline is is out august fifteenth go on chancestuff dot com right now pre order we will be doing an interview when he's in atlanta in the next few weeks right also chance whole team like his little brother you know his little brother do music and stuff okay the whole team they took care of like they show love of course that boy b wright pulled up on me b right hey one thing chicago got that atlanta don't got or maybe atlanta does have but it's not like our thing it's speakeasy you know what speakeasy is yeah so we go to this spot we went to soho the first night it wasn't really jumping like that it wasn't n night it was n night on friday night for sure yeah cause i seen isaiah i was right there isaiah rashad he right here i'm in there going crazy you know you know i love that boy yeah then he was like oh y' all don't listen to grizzly x y' all don't know who the this is everybody give it up for diana khan like what the yeah hey shout out to you run that song no i'm trying to rap i'm trying to rap with you and you know how i get when i get a little lit i start bouncing yeah everywhere i ain't standing in one spot i'm not cooling i'm moving yeah yeah yeah i'm moving i'm dancing i'm rapping it was a great time last night that was jumping they got a little spot called recess so it's like a club on one side and then it's like a lounge on the other side and there's like an upstairs joint we was in the upstairs joint little vip and it's wrapped around that hard they doing it right in chicago chicago got some spots yeah bro cargo got spots and then i was i was lit the homegirl rachel came out rachel jackson from tick tock nigga we was in that getting lit and then that funny dope that came over listen when i tell you them niggas in chicago yeah they knowing that word for word for bar in that bitch they ain't even had to play the lyrics oh they know it bro they know it i was so turned to that bitch that shit was a good time bro everybody should experience summertime shot i got to that was amazing you know me i'm hitting the weed i hung out with the young young dude joshua joseph his cruise jam yeah jam podcast little cool as a bro them little cool bro yeah they smart they bright but they but they young and they already got their mind right like them boy gonna be something we're gonna definitely do collab work with them too automatic got to but all right let's get to the thing where i finally i had to hang up my twitter jersey so people don't know this about me i am a troll i just have so much visibility that i can't be a troll no more so i said if i was shannon sharpe i go on ig live fuck a bitch today a white bitch today obviously some of the people in our circle didn't find that so amusing i mean some shit you just can't say who can't i'm gonna tell you what i would do if i was shannon show if i can't be freaky cat on ig you can't be say anything that comes to mind on twitter bro okay you can't that's fair you can't okay we hang up troll we gotta hang up troll deontay and freaky cat yeah all right that's a that's a fair that's a fair that's fair right right so i bring up shed in the sharp to say we need a snow bunny awareness program we need a snow bunny prevention program because these niggas are like transferring generational wealth over just degenerate behavior just equity that equity and degeneracy yeah i tried to tell you now skip i tried to i live in a two bedroom we had no flow sitting in the eye house now i'm all the white i can hey young hoe too man tripping you wilder man hey look i'm keeping real so we went to lala right lollapalooza because chance was performing so you know of course we go back there and kick it with him and watching perform like right there you did and so i'm looking out and i'm these are college kids right there's nothing attractive about that no at thirty five they don't they look like kids yeah they just look disgusting they're they're nineteen twenty twenty one year olds yeah and it's like you know they got their ass out everything and there's no attraction to because they look like children well they're legal adults i would still say that's a form of pedophilia it has to be like a scale there's something because you're fifty four and you want to knock off a nineteen year old twenty year old college kid okay let's just do some quick math that's crazy let's do some quick math if fifty four if you a twenty year old when you was thirty four she wasn't born no you're sick yeah you're a sick but that's seeking equity and degeneracy that comes that that is a that is a big bill yeah and it's not like he's not used to it he played an interface he's been getting millions for a long time it's not like he's not used to it's not like he hasn't had his prime niggas got like fetishes or something or like niggas got like well you know he was into the race play shit yuck i mean he's a country ass nigga so he is a country he is a country motherfucker that's a country ass nigga but the thing is is like you lose the espn job i know stephen amy smith was pissed of course i i got an idea i know how you going to make that money back the ss and ss tour shannon sharp sydney sweeney sponsored by american eagle they take take shannon to the whitest cities phoenix arizona seattle washington portland oregon yeah vancouver ann arbor michigan maine maine just maine maine yeah west virginia vermont vermont yeah new hampshire yeah yeah yeah we used to take sydney sweeney shannon sharpen worldwide nationwide tour and just put a lot of cream in the streets oh shit make that back make that fifty m back get into that race play shit yeah yeah yeah him and her get into the race play back she get the crowd warmed up with the with the tits pay to do race play with shannon sharp yeah that's two hundred and fifty dollars ticket easy you know a lot of white going to want to play out their fantasy he gonna sell out he gonna sell out sell out and that's a double entendre yeah for sure he's selling out he's selling out he gonna sell out now skip let me tell you yeah phoenix arizona some of the purest white i ever seen desert just rattlesnakes i took that little red pill and i went to work skip sponsored by brazers shannon shark come out oiled up wow he's in great shape i'm telling you he's in great shape he's in great shape he's in great shape he come out oiled up yeah with the hulk hogan theme music the old oh my god that's sick work son that's a sick nigga he might as well listen i don't care about your pr team you can't save yourself from this you can't go date a black woman cause everybody gonna say it's publicity stunt right you gotta lean in to live your truth brother because if this was a situation where we found out bro was really dl or some like that people want him to lean in just be honest about it right you've got a fetish for white and race play lean into it lean into it you and sydney sweeney y' all go out there good jeans yeah great jeans huh a cut up tank top yeah just running through a field ran bitches with dunkin' donuts just in the field in a field in the field in a barn knocking off white yeah go holl go holiday brad yeah i'm saying black yeah black oh shaded sharp them black yeah oh they stilling out yeah what sponsored by american eagle they they eating eating yeah sydney sweeney out there pouring milk on herself pour milk on shannon shark they're going to take down the rose parts with a gallon of milk he's ready somebody stop me good calcium good blood work good blood flow good calcium a gold jacket all right that's enough that's it just a suggestion dion's doing a good thing over in colorado bringing people like brittany renner in there yeah bring a some of you need to go bring a dre or michelle in there let him know the perils the woes what you getting yourself into right because there has been so many men that have lost so much doing due to degenerate behavior you dig and if if this is the thing if you just put ten years on any one of these women this isn't even an issue and then at ten and then at thirty five thirty four they know how to move they know how to maneuver and operate right you going to still pay for it for sure yeah but it ain't going to be in the millions ain't going to be ain't going to be a twenty or fifty it ain't gonna be no it damn sure ain't gonna be no goddamn espn phone call yeah be wilding man you just gotta have discipline man need discipline gotta stay say no to the snow yeah say no to the snow you said no to the diddy parties say no to the snow spe alfredo too ah quick question not gonna take up to you too much of y' all time does freddie gibbs have the best discography in hip hop because since pinata he has not dropped a bad album the only low point is freddie everything goes you only you only live once you only die twice pinata alfredo alfredo two so so separately all of this nigga's albums hit fetty with currency he threw a jab at currency hip hop it's just hip hop alfredo too is definitely in that top five album of the year conversation big cat don't even like freddie gibbs because he don't like his voice and that is a personal preference yeah i don't like larry june's voice but the album is good though the album i must have threw his voice i listened to the whole album it's a great album it's a great album it's a great album him and the clips are definitely going to be in that that that that running i mean we got a lot of year left yeah there is we got chance coming chance is definitely going to be in our top five conversation i'm telling you shit westside gun and stove guy is putting together a collab album that's just for the fans kitchen light kitchen light your spirit just leave your body when you hear that kitchen lights just start floating damn i i want to play it but yeah don't play it youtube yeah that come on kitchen lights man man that them bricks look different under them kitchen lights just immaculate drug talk man so good they're so good at it yeah golly i i i'll say this alchemist at this point longevity alone maybe could be i don't hey look you know me i would never i would never just willingly give this title to the white man yeah but this and this this is well deserved this the alchemist for almost thirty years yeah immaculate beats immaculate and and and has single handedly help him nicholas craven derringer and a couple other underground producers have helped really push forth the underground sound you know shout out to griselda rock marciano right for like kind of putting that you know drumless soul sample type to the forefront yeah and making that an un like the underground sound but the alchemist locking in with arm and hammer locking in with earl sweatshirt locking in with vince locking in two chains and larry june and his in currency covert coupe and you know all the other people that he locks in with especially when he locks in with freddie he locked in with freddie and currency locked in with freddie got a grammy nom this one another one i mean the beats and the production on this and the way that it flows it's immaculate i'm ready for the erykah badu i know that junk gonna be hard i wonder i wonder what she's doing on that joint with the acromus beat though i just wonder what the single was great i like the single yeah but i'm talking about as a body of work though yeah i think about it too but i can't wait till it drops and we just know yeah i wonder if we get a verse from jay electronica you might what if she get all her baby dads on there on one song crazy call that the love box they never the same at the erykah badu nah would you be probably not probably not light eyes staring at you oh my god yeah put yours in trance yeah yeah she's very calming energy i was a big fan of her always but when she said that academics look like jerry yeah i was like yeah she gets it yeah she knows she's really the one yeah she's the oracle gibbs gibbs definitely alfredo too and y' all stop talk that alfredo is a mixture of their names alchemist does that with people like when they find a name that can combine both names they do it and it'd be great but alfredo too with the whole japanese yakuza theme yeah so fire it's dope so fire dope i can't even tell you like there's so many songs on there that you could just run all day skinny sug trust me i know feeling nineteen ninety five damn sure know about nineteen ninety five yeah lavish habits shangry law he got so much on there hey insulata ooh that encelada go crazy sounds great that gas station suits you go crazy ain't no skips on that you go crazy you can run you can run the whole thing you can run the whole thing for sure so i i want to pose that question does freddie gibbs have the best discography in hip hop if you do not listen to freddie gibbs do not answer that's fair this is for the gibbs fans only that's fair because that's real hip hop gary indiana boy a vice lord how many vice lords left in the world is it that's funny as hell all right what else you got what we got before we get into this series conversation i think oh yeah metro booming i haven't listened it's good it sounds like old atlanta this is the time we was out when we was outside so it's a lot of kids on tick tock that don't know a lot of these artists listen when you don't know you don't talk right listen let's normalize this if you don't know what you're talking about you shut the up especially you little white kids i don't want white people's opinions on hip hop period period they just exposed fantano he used to be saying racist shit yeah i don't i no more white opinions in hip hop no more white people being the prominent voice of hip hop kai sonata is not the voice of hip hop academics is not the voice of hip hop if we if we start talking like wayne oh i would even say you know rosenberg ebro big boy sway rob markman yeah if we start talking about them guys even the dude now there's one white dude the dude from dissect because of how he he'd be breaking down the lyrics okay he'd be finding the entendres in the reference but he don't but he don't speak for hip hop he loves the lyrics so he breaks them down he dissects the lyrics that's his whole thing okay but as far as just like reporting on hip hop you know joe budden podcast is a viable source because of joe budden in my opinion but other than that man gris and eggs we got the juice we got the juice man listen to us yeah listen them fuck niggas yeah why am i listening to a white man about and like you the expert on hip hop yeah and then you call yourself the biggest music nerd but you only review hip like i know he review other but because they don't have their own hip hop got them popular though yeah he's not popular without hip hop yeah so it's like come on my tighten that up joey swole yeah colored once you ask the why don't you ask the color it's the color the color creators is crazy work he starts spazzing after everything i've done yeah the steroids got to yeah yeah steroids started yeah all you had to do was just not celebrate hulk hogan he's a racist yeah simple enough you want to go into you could have went hulkamania dolo could have you could have got that off by yourself ain't gonna lie we we big nwo fans but we also know ho hogan was a damn racist we don't with hulk hogan we don't with a book nwo is a staple in our memory we somehow nasty yeah yeah yeah yeah we some wolf pack niggas over here we don't fuck with hulk hogan yo what's up what got on the flight to chicago guess who's sitting right there in first class who big papa pump nah on my mother big papa pump scott steiner did not bother that man okay i was finna say hey yo all my freaks out there the big bad booty daddy the big bad booty daddy was in the first class first class still got the black stripe that's him that's who he is yeah and hulk hogan stole the whole flow no he did what's what's buddy name superstar billy graham i mean bar for bar the brother yeah this the whole thing yeah not only was you a racist you was a thief yeah i know he looking it up so like who are these brother yeah i think they can speak to the hostel when i've got millions of hulkamaniacs brooke huggin somewhere never mind hey listen stone cold and you like that man if stone cold don't like you yeah stone cold the rattlesnake don't like rattlesnake don't like you i ain't got no stone cold steve austin hey represent yeah i was outside with the cut water smacking to double to double cut waters to espresso martini you're gonna die oh god they drink cold water at the function last night i was like stop drinking that i'd be judging everybody that drank that what cold water yeah because it's like bro i've seen four what four locos did to people yeah but the cold water margarita is good sure sure i'm not gonna lie to you sure sure sure sure sure sure sure we're gonna change the pace ah let's run that atlantic comic con ad and we'll be right back ow we back all right i want to talk about the left i was having a conversation you know friends that are heavy into the politics heavy into the organizing space having this conversation about the right versus the left now the angle was we need to stop being so hard on people that may have progressive politics but may use some problematic language and i think the politics of the left is about perfectionism and you want to take the higher ground like this is a very this is a party of like taking the high road being the bigger person but you gotta understand that on the other side of that you could take the high road and you're dealing with people who literally blow the high road up literally they don't care about their messaging they don't care about how problematic it is they don't care about being overtly racist or fascist or you know anti intellectual they don't care about being staunch capitalists all of the everything that the left says is up against these are die hard into that don't care and have no hang ups because the only thing they care about is power money white supremacy full stop full stop and on the left is trying to take care of everybody's problems and there's how do you prioritize the problems now we've discussed this before that i feel like if you want to start from a place of progression and if you want to tackle the problems of the people in america then you have to address the original sin the sin of slavery and genocide and how this country got started and until you do right by the indigenous people of america and african americans black americans foundational black americans african descendants of slaves however you choose to identify if you don't address the original sin of slavery and the genocide of the indigenous people of this land then nobody is ever going to have their problems fixed and the issue with the left is that you niggas be on scary business if you so offended by words what are you going to do when the guns come out there's a man in cincinnati was just planning on causing a terrorist attack he wanted to kill thirty thousand black people and you be worried about language and policing language and y' all throw somebody message and the messenger away over problematic language and then the on the other side of that you dealing with people who don't give a about what they say how they say it when they say it who it offends and they put policy over everything they put their policy and their best interest over everything and y' all be police and language and not worrying about no policy y' all like all these material and symbolic victories with no actual actionable tangible changing being done at all whole time when y' all trying to correct how motherfuckers address shit first of all you in america most people don't give a fuck what come out they mouth most people don't care nothing about no language motherfuckers ain't tiptoeing around we also dealing with a decline in the literacy rate across america and you trying to police how people talk so long as a motherfucker is not saying nothing outright offensive we know the big ones n word f word and i guess r word and that's understandable but you have to give people time first of all when you introducing new topics and you want people to enact them right then and there that ain't even how nobody work the baby gotta learn how to take steps before it start walking y' all don't even let y' all motherfuckers see a motherfucker take one step and be like okay you ready to walk you ready to walk now you see a baby hold his head up okay you ready to crawl now y' all because just because you're there doesn't mean you're right just because you've marked off do you know what the left is it's like a motherfucking gang member like bacoli's like just shit like that i'm offended by anything you say that start with a c word because i'm a blood that's how y' all be acting but if a mother but if a mother has a mindset of progression a mindset to organize and progressive politics but you would rather tone police them police they language over like what the end goal is that's because y' all really ain't trying to do shit for real and you pussy and the easiest way for you to feel powerful is to flip out or to make big problems out of little bitty things and then you wonder why motherfuckers is constantly getting fed into that alt right pipeline the manosphere pipeline the red pill pipeline cause it's so easy when a motherfucker police every little thing you think and do and say for your idea of perfect politics before we enact change let's make sure everybody over here is progressive and perfect y' all don't leave no room for growth for people it's annoying it's annoying to me and nothing is ever getting done because it's like y' all waiting on somebody else to do it why you why you worried about how motherfuckers is talking flynn ain't have clean water for how long y' all talking about motherfucking y' all talking about whether somebody i get it if your pronouns is is important to you and shit like that but damn bro you talking to people that's twenty five thirty forty years old that this is a extremely new concept for them ain't nobody out here to offend you but at the same time you would rather be offended than so you could pay attention to being offended over taking offense on some of these policies that need to be changed some of the mindset and perspective shifting that needs to be done in a real way and y' all focus on these little bitty minute things that make you feel important because you not really trying to do shit for real it's all optical and it's all performance and you're just trying to get the bag from the dnc ain't nobody stupid you out here chasing a bag in politics you are chasing a bag in activism and your activism consists of tone policing and policing people language over problematic language and you policing language over policy you policing language over progression and a motherfucker that might want to be progressive don't come in with y' all got your own secret motherfucking language and if motherfucker ain't hitting the mark if he ain't taking a b out and putting a c in front of it then you telling nigga you know they not welcome and you're making people feel unwelcome and then you wonder why motherfuckers is easily led into the alt right pipeline where's the alt left pipeline what's the pipeline that have people going towards progress and the reality is real progress real liberation is going to come from rule breakers and rebels and y' all trying to beat people into obedience over your motherfucking feelings and the people that you so called up against don't give a fuck about none of that they don't give a fuck about none of that the people on the other side of that will poison your fucking water supply the people on the other side of that will will use illegal gas turbines in poor black neighborhoods and create yet another example of environmental racism and you what you what kind of language you think they was using when they did that i i ain't saying that motherfuckers all liberals or people on the left or whatever is soft i'mma say motherfuckers got real soft representation when it come around now i get it i get it but y' all don't give people y' all do not give people opportunity to do better y' all take this mob mentality of canceling and getting people up out the way instead of correcting somebody just like shorty did with me when we was going through that whole shit that first twitter shit and shorty dm'd me on some like really trying to be approachable and like correct me in silence or correct me to the side and then gonna expose the dm's block you you're a loser you're a fucking loser that's the thing though y' all like these gotcha moments because they make you feel better maybe you got bullied in school and now you using this as a proxy to get bully bully people back with your rigid ass language and your rigid ass way of thinking that ain't helping or changing shit and hasn't meanwhile these motherfuckers is destroying the country at light speed and you worry about how motherfuckers talk okay yeah we all against this we're against gentrification we're against but in the midst of being against the gentrification and trying to protest or put a halt to it you worried about how motherfuckers is talking then we get to a point where it's like well because language is violent no violence is violent and at the end of the day you want language to be the only violent thing that you encounter cause if you that fucked up about how motherfucker talk what you gonna do when the guns come out big cat you think a motherfucker who they get ruined by somebody not saying the right words in the right spaces because it's not politically correct you think a motherfucker like that when the guns come out they gonna do something they ain't gonna be nowhere around in sight now they're gonna be somewhere crafting a new word a new word for motherfuckers that's scary i'm actually not a coward i am what they like to call make up something i have gunophobia oh my god i have fear of guns yeah i know you are yeah yeah i'm gunophobic it just is it about performance because if the motherfuckers on the right it's because they be on one accord and a lot of the white liberals and the white leftists and the white whatever that are supposedly progressive you don't get nothing done because you don't want to do nothing for black people and you use the progressive mentality and the liberal mentality to cover up your fucking racism cause you'd rather it look good which is all y' all want to do is be optically progressive but you're not doing anything tangibly progressive and i understand that protests are effective but when it comes time for policy change and real organization y' all just get on some corporate bullshit it's a whole lot of lip service and ain't nothing being done cause you don't want nothing done because at the end of the day you kind of like being the powerful you like being you like that white supremacist shit just keep it real like the dude on jubilee came out and said he was a fascist now how many motherfuckers think just like him but ain't stupid enough to say it y' all don't know how to do one thing at a time y' all y' all will go from a motherfucker will spend their money every day right spend their money every day there's no there's no there's no consideration for human behavior there's no consideration for the the the perils of you know convenience that people have experienced and then one day you gonna roll out a list of these are all the places we don't shop at no more that's why the target thing was so successful because nigga motherfucker one thing one one after a month of not shopping at target it's easy not to go to starbucks because it'd be starbucks in the target and it's all under the same umbrella it's easy not to go back to mcdonald's once you understand what you're doing and what you're doing it for but you guys also understand that everybody ain't in everybody ain't in the fucking serial serial politics tiktok like niggas ain't on political talk all day you are and you don't realize you speaking in the echo chamber too so now you going up to the sparbus motherfuckers don't even know nothing about palestine or the conflict or the genocide they just this is what i do i eat starbucks and you going there yelling at a motherfucker and that ain't never shut down a fucking starbucks once target took a big hit as people collectively agree we're going to focus on this one thing for thirty days and had tremendous effects and it also take twenty one to thirty days to form a new habit so after you don't got people out of the habit of shopping there it's nothing you could do that once a month but you want motherfuckers to roll everything back all at once first of all a lot of y' all motherfuckers ain't even got no money like that and that's not even from the capitalist perspective that's from a real place a real perspective a lot of y' all ain't got no money like so it's easy for you not to shop places you limit on where you can shop anyway you twenty one and you broke but you an activist and you telling motherfuckers where and where not to shop you ain't got no money so of course it's easy for you not to shop you ain't got you ain't got you ain't got much to shop for the optics to perform to perfection the politics of perfection performative progress and we get hung up on language that's something that's so easily correctable but in order to make yourself look better to have this symbolic victory let's cancel this person because of what they said you know like we was joking about the joey swole thing it is a thing i'm not gonna align myself with racist i'm black so fuck you but i hope that you keep having an impact on positive gym culture it just ain't gonna be no niggas listening to you ain't gonna be no colored folks listening to you but maybe maybe just maybe you still can make an attempt at you know progressing you know gym culture towards being a more inclusive and egoless thing i like what joey swell was doing i thought it was great i'm never shocked that a white person is racist anthony fantano i'm surprised fucking surprise breaking news guys it rained and people got wet what the fuck y' all don't want to live in the reality of the situation you live in a you you you you live in this you live in this mental utopia of what you want the world to be and how you want people to speak so everything is safe you want to childproof your motherfucking life you you you you're making sure all the corners are covered all the cupboards are closed the kitchen's latched up childproofing your motherfucking life life is hard life is real life.
Big Ice Cup Cat
Is raw.
Deontay Kyle
You worried about motherfucking language it's like what's your girl name afeni oh i know you're talking about yeah yeah activist from dc bro she does great work if anybody has ever watched her she always be snapping at these protests but she passionate and then she just did a protest in the courthouse about a medicaid cut that's gonna literally cost people their lives you know what you fucking liberals was in the comments doing talking about how she was cursing are you dead ass yes yes yes people are gonna lose their lives you probably shouldn't curse at these people nigga fuck these people fuck em you talking about cursing you want motherfuckers to have koof and decorum in a courtroom where they talking about cutting bills that's gonna kill niggas and you talking about language y' all some pussies you don't want nothing done you want to appear to be perfect jesus was hanging out with crooks nigga jesus was outside with the real niggas you inside and your child proofed ass home with your child proofed ass mind not doing shit with this performative ass politics that you doing and you ain't progressing shit you actively standing by and giving niggas the alley oop to be regressive because you care about puss ass shit cause you're a pussy and i don't expect white folks to do shit no way i don't care how blue your hair is i don't care how many barista jobs you done had i don't care how many protests you done attended i don't expect nothing out of you it's a lot of motherfuckers in portland oregon right now with locks and namaste and they fuck with crystals and the zodiac and it's peace peace be upon you peace be upon you motherfucker be racist as motherfucker trying to create a white utopia and you trying to create a world where people don't hurt your motherfucking feelings bitch that ain't the world run tell that shit you should be cussing out the motherfucker that's gonna cause one of your neighbors to die if they lose their medicaid fool but because you a pussy you care about puss ass shit and not no real shit cause it's all a performance and an act you care more about how you perceive than actually doing anything at all you trying to check these boxes that don't fucking exist and the people you up against ain't gonna curse you out they gonna kill you and if they don't kill you their policies are gonna kill you and if they don't and if their policy don't kill you their grandchild might cause you know it only get worse over the generation and a rich dad his grandson his grandson gonna be a rich grandson without any of the effort at least a rich motherfucker that making and self made quote unquote self made they got a story they got an empathy got understanding about life and how hard it was for them to get there right even if they was white and they had they had you know the path was laid right in front of them imagine the motherfucker that wake up imagine motherfucker that stack up louis bags like we stack up walmart bags imagine it could you imagine that you know how we stuff all them walmart bags underneath the counter imagine a motherfucker going in there and his louis bag stacked up like that but that's the type of life nigga living we seen it when we was in chicago we was on michigan avenue a little four year old walking around with a louis vuitton bag saks fifth bag nothing it's nothing to them you talking about nigga like their grits keep getting richer because the the progressives are the poor getting poor it's the progressives are and you care much more about how a talk than actions than the intention than the than the progress of it all so are you really on the left or is you just a decoy for the right we'll be right back after this commercial break we back all right let's get into some of the voicemail ow.
Big Ice Cup Cat
Hey y' all it's your girl savannah from chicago i just want to say i love love love your show down i discovered your podcast on tik tok somebody was posting some cl and i just love how y' all hold men accountable have real conversations keep each other light have fun and it's still a funny podcast altogether a little tidbit of a suggestion though i need some more women on your podcast it's very hard for me to find a male all male podcast group that holds my attention like y' all and y' all hold my attention so i would love to see some more women on there showing the female aspect the feminine aspect to a few things i've seen y' all have some few a few female guests but you need some more so if y' all want to call me to be a guest on your show definitely hit my line you have the number but other than that that y' all some good women to have on the show again i love what y' all talk about keep doing what you doing i hope i get to see y' all at the comic con in atlanta and have fun be safe y' all have a great rest of y' all day thank.
Deontay Kyle
You savannah yeah real energetic yeah yeah they're bubbly personality yeah yeah we're gonna you know we got we got some stuff we working on but you know this is our show this is what we do yeah you know we have a guest we have a guest it's all got our line you know we don't go i'm gonna run out there chasing nobody so it'll happen in due time she did say something about us holding men accountable which i think we do do and we do out of love yeah we do out of love we do it to provide nuance and going back to that conversation we was having about the left we don't want to throw men away yeah you know i just want i just want my niggas to do better there is a justification for every crime you can justify any crime except a sex crime facts that's where i'm at with it there there would be no justification for rape sexual assault molestation anything that brings somebody harmless sexually i also am not a very big proponent of domestic violence i'm saying that there is no justification for sex crimes every other crime can be looked at as time and place situational context all these different things right and it's only a crime in the eyes of the law and the law only if the if the consequence for the for breaking the law is a fine then it only applies to the poor poverty is a precursor to crime imagine being in a world as opulent and as flashy as america and not having no money and make you a little cynical it'll make you a little angry sometimes it's easy to carry out violence and you throw drugs in the mix as a recipe for disaster so we're not here we we are here to hold men accountable hold our brothers accountable and plead with our brothers to do better and change your perspective on things especially your stances towards women especially your stances towards yourself and your friend group you know be available to one another but don't let no fuck shit go on in your friend group but we ain't throwing men away we actually trying to bring them in and we've been doing a great job of it so i appreciate you sister miss savannah from chi town love chicago man summertime chi.
Big Ice Cup Cat
Yo yo beyonce kyle big ice cup knock a out man what's good man first gotta say love what y' all do it's it's very refreshing to hear y' all articulate y' all thoughts and to know that it is like minded black people out there feel me y' all definitely doing god's work keep doing that please keep doing that so yeah my question is well really it's just a hypothetical a strictly hypothetical question so like i'm not sure if either one of y' all are familiar with the show the shot but basically it was a concept on there where they defunded the police and it was like niggas looking out for niggas in like i noticed it may sound unrealistic but like realistically speaking do you ever think anything like that could take place because like bro nigga just got beat up by the police like when is enough enough you feel me and like so in theory like do you believe we could actually as black people defund the police and take care of our own like that's that's my whole question in theory do you think that that's possible in any kind of way shape or form.
Deontay Kyle
I do i i think that the thing that we don't view i don't i think the thing that we often forget about is that our neighborhoods are over policed so there's just as much crime going on everywhere but when you have a major when you have an over police presence and of course more crime is going to be recorded more arrests will be made and especially when you look at situations with how corrupt and racist the police system is of course it's going to take down more black men and women than it will anybody else and any other group of people who probably commit just as much crimes we know that every nationality has their own mobs and gangs and degenerates that's a uniquely human thing that is not that's not a racial thing but like we said before poverty being a precursor to crime and if you poor and over policed yeah well it's going to make it seem like to you that your whole your whole race of people are just nothing but degenerates and criminals i think the thing is this those who are going to do crime are going to do it so it wouldn't just be about us policing ourselves it would be about putting people in and giving people opportunities in situations where crime wasn't the only option because people need resources people need third spaces people need outlets especially these children so if there ain't a ymca or a boys and girls club like we had when we grow up of course it's going to be a lot easier for you to fall into a life of crime when that's what your media is surrounded with that's what your messaging is in hip hop which is the predominant music genre especially in the black community so yeah we could easily police ourselves you know one eight hundred hebrew could be a real thing the foi would probably do a great job of policing neighborhoods there's a lot of grassroots organizations that help police their neighborhoods in chicago in detroit and i'm sure there's some here in atlanta but the over police presence would make it hard for something to do something like that but also without an opportunity for some economic advancements or some upward mobility are giving people somewhere to be besides outside and in the streets without the presence of the police might get a little chaotic if there if there's if there's not outlet provided so it's a layered topic but i i i believe completely in our ability to police and and maintain structure for ourselves so thank you for calling in what you think big cat no you hit the nail on the head bro.
Big Ice Cup Cat
Gritson a five past brethren my name's keenan i've been a fan for a while love your work i enjoy all the dialogue that y' all have been having about this absolutely perfect clips album i just i don't really have many words for it because now it's left all the words on the track is so crazy and i was reflecting on how you know jay z was sent that track and i'm kind of glad that he wasn't on it because i don't know how much more rap i'm even going to listen to if that album had him on it i mean you already got kendrick tyler and nas going absolutely insane it would be nothing left for anybody else but keep it up keep up what you've been doing there was a bar that i can't remember right now that i wanted to talk about it was to bar about.
Deontay Kyle
All right my thank you for calling in bro we're gonna get into these emails advice oh family secret oh tell it or not oh lord hello deontay and the coolest ice cup cat my name is blank and i have a family secret that my sister and i that has my sister and i in a moral dilemma i'm a thirty eight year old military black military black thirty eight year old military brat who is the oldest of three and my thirty year old younger daughter younger brother is adopted oh lord my parents refuse to tell him to be fair my brother does have a slight learning disability but nothing that would prevent him from understanding what's going on my family moved out tell tell listen i don't have to hear the rest of it i didn't i found out i was adopted the month before i turned thirty and the most liberating thing about it was i had an understanding that i was that i wasn't crazy and that i wasn't making things up in my head i had been asking my people for a long time since i was about eight years old and we're not gonna judge my people that's not why we having this conversation cause i done dealt with it and i got through it and i dealt with it with anger and i circled around empathy and grace and i don't need y' all judging my folks okay lead the judgment of my people up to me cause i judged them harshly went five years without talking to some of them so and it happened post my mother's death so i had to deal with that we not gonna judge our people but this young man deserves to know the truth about who he is and your parents dead ass wrong cause they lying and they're making his life a lie maybe he don't have a slight learning disability maybe he lacks confidence because he can see the writing on the wall and nobody's telling him the truth children aren't stupid i noticed the difference between me and my siblings and my parents when i was eight years old and i was lied to and gaslit my whole life so this young man probably going through the same and don't have no confidence in in what who he is and what he thinks and he probably because y' all have warped this nigga's reality with lies so tell them bring it to the square bring it to the square is this actually a secret agent bum yes oh lord and then you know this you know what we like baby we like that messy hey deontay third i cow and big hat ice cup gulla gullah cat sorry this probably be a little long well we're gonna get out of here how long is the email sir no it's not oh okay i'm just with you i'm a certified yapping ass all right twenty six year old woman from nc and i need your advice how to navigate this situation met my daughter's dad twenty sixteen never really gave him time of day until a couple years after that he constantly brings up the fact that i made him chase me for two years oh god oh god god when will the women learn when will the women learn all right let's see how he you over once we started with each other i feel like we got stuck and i'm starting to feel like i got tricked that he actually was doing something for himself did you get tricked though or did you already know that that's why you didn't talk to him for two years fool we've had an on and off relationship mainly because of back and forth cheating and him being a habitually incarcerated individual what are we talking about right now bro like what you knew when you sent this off when you was typing this up come on man go ahead son i'm on a new as the gavel banged so as soon as he get locked up you with a new typical north carolinian oh i know the north carolinians very well was toxic he recently got released from a three year bid and is trying to come home to me this situation is different this time around though is it is it different idiot in the three years he was gone i've grown substantially as a person started pursuing my degree again got a promotion at my job bought my first car lost some weight and have become more confident as a bad he claims he's grown also and initially i believed him but be lying how much growing can a do in a box he's muslim now oh that's what it is yeah he's saying his shalom yeah yeah yeah yeah you don't eat the swine no more yeah yeah all right let's proceed i understand his disadvantages because newly being new release and this long bit making certain things more difficult for him however i feel like he isn't going as hard as i like for him too we have a five year old now and i've been her primary provider all her life he also has another child outside of our relationship who's three wait so he got the child he got somebody pregnant before he went to jail right before he went to jail yeah that's all right he keeps getting upset when i won't feed into the delusion of him getting rich and that i'm standing on business about my boundaries around us having more kids he's been home almost four months now lives in homeless shelter with an ankle monitor has sent me a total of one hundred dollars to help with our child over those three months he's struggling to get his license reinstated having trouble finding a job that will look past his background and be within walking distance and the only reason he's not out here moving drugs is because i told him that's not the way we were going to be moving i've become very emotionally towards him lately and i'm starting to feel like he's never going to amount to shit especially when he tries to put the head of household persona like nigga you can't run shit over here when i'm carrying myself and our own child essentially alone a man who was once playing in these streets but turned the trap house into a home oh you talking about me now as a man who was once playing in these streets but turned the trap house into a home feel like you're the best person to advise me on this i want to have faith in him but a part of me is sick of believing in his potential do you feel like some niggas just can't be saved thanks for reading my long winded as dilemma and if you think i should move on for real or you got some good stepdaddy candidates still out here in nc put me on twin you know the answer leave this nigga alone man you got a hundred dollars from four months he's newly incarcerated he's always getting locked up and now he's out here telling you he's gonna be rich that's what niggas do yeah you know go get a trade go get a cdls yeah my like go get a trade they will look past your background yeah tell that to go get a trade go get your cdl just go get a cdl cdl h vac electrician plumbing you talking about he ain't gonna sell drugs because i'm telling him that's not how we moving y' all shouldn't be moving anything yeah yeah what you're gonna do is move back on his dick and end up pregnant again they didn't gotta move the weight she know what she want there's hey there's a cartoon cartoon network two dogs two stupid dogs oh ah let's get it let's hear it hold on cause she sent a picture though oh turn it turn it turn the monitor wait wait a minute why is you with jailbirds i thought she was in jail she got the greens on might be a correctional officer that's exactly what she is she's a correction officer yeah what happened all right you're a creation officer you out here fucking with inmates let me see let me see let me see i can see why i can i see why let's get into it son when in doubt big headed out thick as hell dick correct that's why over there abusing yeah yeah playing mental gymnastics trying to stay behind you yeah all right yo look girl your dumb ass know better and if you don't know better then the first word i just called you applies dumbass they're just stupid what is she talking about let me see all right all right let's go for a young uncle i need your guidance oh you're not going with the correction officer no that was it oh that was it yeah that was just the picture oh no she said you remember she said if you know any stepdaddy oh that's her yeah that was her oh man get out of here yeah yeah you think as hell but you you airheaded knock him up yeah do you think he's gonna change no no dummy it's the same game he used to get you the first time fool yeah that nigga got a bitch pregnant right before he did a bed what the fuck is wrong with you yeah change what damn is he gonna take care of his kids the nigga gave you dollar one hundred in four months he won't get a job cause he ain't got no car and he can't find no jobs within walking distance he won't get a trade the real question you need to ask yourself is how stupid do i want to be this year how dumb am i going to be this time around i've grown emotionless towards him obviously not you wouldn't have wrote us then they go over there putting incarcerated dick on her and she don't know what to do yeah no this is you know homeless be for life hey he's putting it down he's putting real just just just dick and gaslighting dick and gaslighting for freedom and shelter that boy for shelter do you think he's gonna change i don't think you're changed yeah you're not changed yeah you talking about i've grown exponentially no you haven't you're lying to yourself just like he lying to you he know he can lie to you because you like to lie to yourself hey what's going on gris and x fam i love what y' all doing on the pod blessings of y' all reaching out to you guys for advice twenty years old i'm from ohio currently in the state of moving to southfield michigan due to just needing a change of pace i work in quality inspection pay is good the work is easy but it drains my soul getting up to go to work every day working just just to survive i'm a hard worker i understand the value of hard work i make music and i understand i'm not in a position to make a living off of it but i do want to do something with using my creative mind i want to do something where i'm using my actual skills as a person i just don't know what i can do there's any type of insight site you guys can help shine on me it would be greatly appreciated i'm sorry if i'm all over the place literally typing this on my break blessings to you all love y' all hey man we love you too check this out bro you're twenty he's twenty you you talking about you know the value of hard work how how hard how hard and how long could you have been working what is he what does he do he's a quality inspection oh here's the thing utilize your utilize your creative outlet you you know if you make music or you got other creative things you have to utilize that as a hobby you have to utilize it as a hobby and as a third space for yourself you don't you know you're not too young to understand that work is going to drain your soul but like getting up and going to work today is what ninety nine of the country does so you're not special and unique in that you're twenty years old you already in a change of space you you're changing your environment which is good you working in quality inspection you need to figure out how high you can go in that and what other direction you want to go in if it's if it you know like putting placing all your bets on making music is just not a smart bet to make what you need to be doing is structuring how high you can go where you are now or is it time for you to pivot completely you know we advocate for trades the world is in need of trades and it is very hard and rewarding work and you're twenty you're not gonna have it all figured out right now and and and also you know shift your perspective if it's if it's if it's draining your soul imagine somebody had been doing it for twenty years somebody work at your company been doing it since you was born so you got to understand that this is the reality okay this is the reality you're faced with everybody would rather be doing something that they love to do to make the money and sustain and fulfill themselves most of those people probably ninety nine point nine of those people that do do the things that they do and they love are not twenty years old you a two year old adult you're not gonna have it all figured out you understand that this isn't what you want to do for the rest of your life so what you need to do is make a priority list a list of pros and cons and a list of goals that you can commit to for a year then lift your head up and you'll be twenty one and your life won't be the same anymore and life is going to change and progress for you as the years go by but you got to understand you're extremely young so you putting too much pressure on yourself to have it all figured out right now what you need to do is plan and plot what you need to do is figure out what it is really you want to do and if it is just being creative use creativity as an outlet as a hobby to build community if you make music go where people make music go where live bands play and hook up with some of the artists and join a cover band do something that gives you a third space but trying to make it as an artist is for one one of the rarest things probability wise that you're going to do and for two we don't even know if you're good or not so send us some music and we'll we'll put your shit on new music monday and we'll be the judge of that other than that enjoy your you and understand that you know everything is going to work out exactly how it should you've already made the move to make a change of pace so fully embrace that like you just moved you know what i'm saying so like you haven't even gotten acclimated to the new area you live in this is more of an internal thing that you're dealing with and you know that's just the woes of capitalism my brother that's how i go but you're gonna be all right big cat yo good up good episode good episode baby yeah yeah yeah oh six five seven two three four x six five seven two three four three four four seven the grizzly next podcast on patreon eight dollars eight dollars ain't number eight dollars come with us over there deontaycolle dot com for all your merch deontayoncecolle dot com for all your advice submissions and music submissions as of now vote for 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well man i i i am exhausted i i can see i can see in your eyes so we're gonna wrap this thing on up thank y' all change the pace have my brother take us on out let's do it you know what i'm saying it's just hip hop it's just you know what i'm saying it's just my it's just rats man turn me up man it's just rap i just want to.
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Deontay Kyle
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Podcast Summary: Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode: 79 - Politics of Perfection
Host: Deontay Kyle
Release Date: August 5, 2025
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Discussion Highlights: Deontay and co-host Big Ice Cup Cat delve into the phenomenon of excessive gestures at public events, using recent incidents as examples. They discuss the implications of such actions on public perception and community behavior.
Notable Moments:
Insights: The hosts critique the lack of decorum at events like beauty supply store openings and WNBA games where items such as bundles, bonnets, and even synthetic meat products are thrown into crowds. They argue that these actions mirror disruptive historical figures like Nicky Barnes, suggesting a cultural disconnect between meaningful gestures and performative acts.
Discussion Highlights: Deontay recounts his recent experiences in Chicago, including a performance invitation from Chance the Rapper at the planetarium. The conversation expands to cover the vibrant music scene in Chicago and the camaraderie among artists.
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Insights: The hosts express high praise for Chance the Rapper's latest album, positioning it as a mature evolution of his classic Acid Rap. They emphasize the importance of supportive music communities and highlight Chicago's dynamic nightlife and inclusive atmosphere, contrasting it with Atlanta's scene.
Discussion Highlights: A substantial portion of the episode is dedicated to analyzing various hip-hop albums and artists. The conversation touches on Freddie Gibbs' discography, The Alchemist's production prowess, and the potential of future collaborations.
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Insights: The hosts debate whether Freddie Gibbs holds the title for the best discography in hip-hop, ultimately favoring his consistent quality post-Pinata. They also highlight The Alchemist's significant contributions to hip-hop production, praising his collaborations with artists like Nas and Vince Staples. The segment underscores the importance of production quality and lyrical depth in defining a musician's legacy.
a. Savannah from Chicago: More Female Perspectives Needed
Voicemail Summary: Savannah expresses her admiration for the podcast and suggests incorporating more female voices to balance the predominantly male discussions.
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b. Family Secret of Adoption
Voicemail Summary: A caller grapples with the revelation that her younger brother is adopted. She seeks advice on handling her family's refusal to disclose this information.
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c. Relationship Troubles: North Carolina Woman
Voicemail Summary: A 26-year-old woman from North Carolina discusses her tumultuous relationship with her daughter's father, who has a history of incarceration and unreliable behavior.
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d. Career Advice: Young Man from Ohio
Voicemail Summary: A 20-year-old from Ohio seeks guidance on navigating his career while balancing a passion for music.
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Discussion Highlights: In the core segment, Deontay and Big Ice Cup Cat engage in a fervent discussion about the inherent flaws within progressive politics, particularly focusing on the left's obsession with perfectionism and tone policing. They juxtapose this with the right's disregard for messaging and policy.
Key Arguments:
Perfectionism on the Left: The hosts argue that the left's focus on idealistic language and symbolic victories detracts from tangible policy initiatives. This obsession leads to tone policing, which alienates potential allies and hinders meaningful progress.
Right's Pragmatism: Contrastingly, the right is portrayed as power-focused, prioritizing policies over language, often disregarding problematic messaging to maintain influence and control.
Systemic Issues: They emphasize the need to address foundational issues like the legacy of slavery and systemic racism to foster genuine progress, rather than getting bogged down by superficial measures.
Notable Moments:
[85:15] Deontay Kyle: "The politics of the left is about perfectionism. You're policing language over policy, making symbolic victories instead of actionable changes."
[90:07] Deontay Kyle: "Real progress is going to come from rule breakers and rebels, not from those trying to beat people into obedience over rigid language."
Insights: The hosts critique the left for creating an environment where minor linguistic missteps are magnified, leading to an exclusionary atmosphere that pushes individuals towards extremist ideologies like the alt-right. They advocate for a more pragmatic approach that prioritizes policy and community support over ideological purity. This discussion underscores a broader debate within progressive circles about balancing inclusivity with the pursuit of meaningful change.
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Excessive Gestures at Events: There's a cultural critique of performative actions that overshadow meaningful engagements within communities.
Music and Collaboration: Strong appreciation for impactful hip-hop artists like Chance the Rapper and Freddie Gibbs, highlighting the importance of quality and community in music.
Listener Engagement: Genuine interaction with listeners, providing advice on personal and familial issues, showcasing the podcast's commitment to community support.
Political Critique: A deep and passionate analysis of the shortcomings within progressive politics, advocating for a shift from symbolic victories to substantial policy changes to address systemic issues.
This episode of the Grits and Eggs Podcast offers a blend of cultural commentary, personal anecdotes, and impassioned political discourse, making it a compelling listen for those interested in raw and unfiltered discussions on current events and societal issues.