← Habits of A Goddess
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Podcast Host
When I started Habits of a Goddess, I thought I was just starting a podcast, but suddenly I was a brand designer, content strategist, scheduler, editor, everything all at once. And honestly I wish I had a built in business partner from day one for millions of businesses. That partner is Shopify. Shopify is the commerce platform behind millions of brands around the world, powering everything from iconic household names to women just beginning their goddess era. With hundreds of beautiful templates. Shopify helps you design a store that feels aligned, elevated and completely you and their AI tools. They help you write product descriptions, page headlines, even enhance your product photos so you can stay in your creative feminine flow. You can send emails, create social campaigns and reach your audience like you have a full marketing team behind you. No overwhelm, just clarity and ease. So if you're building your empire, you don't have to do it alone. Start your business today with the industry best business partner Shopify and start hearing Sign up for your $1 month per trial period today at shopify.com habitsofagoddess go to shopify.com habitsofagooddess that's shopify.com habitsofagaoddess.
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Podcast Host
Creating a life that is worth living means you are being intentional with your thoughts. You're being intentional with how you navigate this world. Swirl when you are creating a life that's worth living to you Goddess. Guess what this requires? This requires you to stop caring about the opinions of others. Lately I have been reading the Mel Robinson book the Let Them Theory. This book has been a staple and my rotation of books to read for my personal growth and I highly recommend this because she has so many life lessons that I can so relate to. And I know you can relate to as well because collectively I just feel like her teachings, her messages aligns with Habits of a Goddess aligns with me and I have to share this particular chapter. This page that I have been reading. You have zero control over someone else's opinion of you. You. The fact is it is impossible to control someone else's thoughts. Therefore, fearing what other people think or trying to control their thoughts is a Complete waste of your time. You will never feel in control of your life, your feelings, your thoughts or actions until you stop consume, until you stop being consumed with, with or trying to control what other people think of you. I will say it again. Adults will have negative opinions about you no matter what you do. Why? Because adults are allowed to think whatever they want. It is physically and neurologically impossible for you to control what someone else's thinks. The average human being has about 70 thoughts per day. And that is a fact. I cannot control the opinions of others. But you know what opinion I can control? My opinion, my point of view of me. And that's the power that I have. And that's the power that you have, Goddess. So as you are creating the life that you desire, you have to give up the fact that other people are going to have opinions on who you choose your partner, what career you choose for yourself, what home you choose to purchase, what vehicle you're driving, what clothes you're wearing, how you do your makeup, how you do your hair, how you show up for yourself, how you parent. Other people are going to have opinions. But do not let other people's opinions control you. Because as a goddess, we are creating our own version of what we see fit for our life. And you should only care about what you think of yourself. Because you, you are the creator of your own reality. As I have been creating this amazing community here on Habits of a Goddess, I made a promise to myself from day one that I would not care about the opinions of others. I am considerate to whenever I'm creating content and I ask you guys, oh, what episodes would you like me to talk about? Topics would you like me to talk about in the future? I do consider that. But I'm also in full power and control of how I want to create. And that should not stop you from creating whatever it is in your business, in your personal life.
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This year I'm resetting my home with intention. This year my home supports the woman I'm becoming. Order in my home creates clarity in my life. And lately I've been romanticizing my home again. I. I found the most beautiful marble table on Wayfair that I use just for floor arranging. It's become a little ritual for me. I also picked out a new dining table that makes everyday meals feel intentional. And I refresh my guests bed with pillows and cozy throws that make people feel instantly welcome. What I love about Wayfair is that everything I need, my style, my budget, my vision is all in one place. It makes creating a Home that feels warm, elevated and lived in. So effortless. Get organized, refresh and back on track this new year. For way less, head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. That's W a Y F A I R.com Wayfair Every style, every home.
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In your love life and your career, you are the creator. And when you are thinking about other people, instead of you thinking about what you want out of life, it limits your creativity. It actually keeps you from showing up in your fullness. And as a goddess, you're constantly getting these thoughts and downloads over 70,000 thoughts per day. You want to make sure the thoughts that you're having, the thoughts that you are replaying over and over your head, are thoughts that are going to support you in the moment. That's why I created Habits of God's podcast. Affirmations that you can play and listen to. Affirmations that you can repeat back to yourself when you are getting ready for the day, while you're working out, while you're driving in the car. Because I do know neuroscience. The thoughts that you have, the images that you are watching, the news, the tv, social media, what you are consuming, what you are programming in your mind, it is so important. So as a goddess, you are creating a life. Make sure you're creating a life that is intentional. Make sure you're creating a life that supports where you want to be at in your life. And stop caring about other people's opinions. Okay? Stop caring about what your mother in law may be thinking of you, what your father in law may be thinking of you, what your sister in law or brother in law like. Stop caring about other people's opinion. Or that old classmate or that old co worker or that current co worker. Like, stop caring about other people's opinions. Opinion. No one has autonomy over you. No one has power over you. You have power through the words that you speak every single day. You have power with the thoughts that you are thinking every single day. So recharge your mindset and speak with confidence. If you ever feel like you're lacking confidence in this season, go back and check out the podcast or find things that just helps you create and build up your confidence. For me, doing something over repetitively, it helps build up my confidence. Public speaking is something, right? When I first took a public speaking class, I was not as confident speaking in front of a classroom. I was shy because I'm like, okay, all eyes are on me and you know, I'm thinking about, okay, my words, how I'm gonna Say it. Did I pronounce the word correct? And sometimes, you know, it gets a little intimidating when everyone is staring at you, waiting to hear what you have to say. But that takes time. You have to work on that. If you want to be a public speaker, you have to work on how you're speaking, work on engaging eye contact, taking times and taking the proper time to say and communicate whatever it is that you are speaking on and making sure that you are knowledgeable on the subject that you are speaking on. So public speaking, right, is something that at a point in my life, I wasn't as confident, but I learned to work on that by showing up and speaking more in public, whether it's through this podcast, in person interaction, or going to events where I'm being paid to speak. Like, I realized that is something that I can work on and I can build up confidence in that area of my life. The confidence to get on social media and show up and create these beautiful episodes. Habits of a Goddess Podcast. That takes confidence. That takes confidence to build a community online. I've been doing this for almost six, six years. May will be six years. That takes confidence. It takes a sense of clarity too, of knowing like what it is it that you want to communicate to the world. So I share this with you because you may look at someone today and think, wow, that person is so confident. They know what they're doing. Like, I wish I had that level of confidence. I guarantee you there was a point point in their life, maybe they didn't feel as confident, but they work to where they're at today and they stop caring what other people thought about them. So you, you have the power to create a life that you love through by being intentional. Intentional with your words, intentional with your positioning in life. Like, position yourself to win, position yourself to have more fun in your life, more joy in your life, more abundance in your life, more love, more clarity, more peace. Position yourself in a space where everything that you desire, you attract because you stop caring about what other people think. Post. If you want to be an influencer, start posting. If you want to attract an amazing, generous provider this year, start putting yourself out there. Get dressed up and go outside. If you're online dating, okay, that's fine too. But start showcasing like, okay, I want this for myself. And then start showing up as you deserve it. If you desire to make more money, you know what to do. Think about some ideas, creativities, how you can attract more money into your life. If you want to start a business, like all of this Takes a level of just knowing what you want in life so you can stop caring what other people have to say. Because once you make a decision and have clear purpose what you want out of life, it doesn't matter what other people think. It doesn't matter if people think you're worthy or deserving of it. If you think you're worthy, if you think you're deserving, guess what? The universe responds to you. The universe responds to your level of confidence, your level of sureness, your level of receiving, receiving the abundance that you desire. Goddess. So, so, Goddess, this year, 2026, create a life that you love by being intentional, intentional with your thoughts, intentional with your words, speaking life into yourself every single day. It matters. The affirmations that I create, create on Happiness of a God's Podcast. I use these affirmations on a daily basis. It's like having that personal dialogue and you're being your personal cheerleader, like that matters. So speak with conviction, speak with clarity, speak with purpose. Speak what you desire for yourself in 2026 and show up in that energy of I get to have everything I desire, desire this year. You know why? Because you embody that. And you're not caring about what other people think. You're not caring about the opinions of other people. The decisions that you're making for yourself, it should benefit you first. The decisions that you're making for yourself, it should benefit you first, Goddess. Because when you pour into yourself and your cup is overflowing, flowing, that's when you can give from a place of an abundance. You never want to pour from a cup that is half full or empty. You want to take care of you first. And how you do that is you're. You're going to create a life that you are satisfied, you're content, you're happy with. And it doesn't matter what other people think or may say, because you are living this life. You are living the life that you desire. As long as you care about other people's opinion, what they may say or think about you, you're creating unnecessary stress in your life and that does not serve you, Goddess. So let go of the opinions of other people because it doesn't serve you where you're going in 2026. It doesn't serve you, it doesn't benefit you unless it benefits you. Then do care. But. But for me, I know I am only caring about the opinion of myself, like what I think of me. And I like to do, like an assessment. I like to look in the mirror and I like to be real with myself. Like, okay, am I happy where I'm at in life? And I'm happy on how I created what I have for myself. Am I happy with my physique, with where I'm at on my spiritual journey, physical health? Like, am I happy in these areas of my life? I take the time to check myself and be like, okay, am I happy where I'm at in my life? I do that first because I don't want anyone else telling me what I should be happy about, what I shouldn't be happy about, what I should be doing, what I shouldn't be doing. What matters most is me. Like, if I'm happy and if I have clarity on the steps in life, where I'm going. And if you ever feel like you don't have that power, just know you do. It's within. It's in your inner goddess. Okay? It's that energy that we all have as a goddess. You create that energy first, early in the morning. Soften your mind, soften your heart, soften the life that you desire for yourself, Goddess through the power of affirmations. So check out the podcast Habits of a goddess. There's over 400 episodes goes. I'm really excited. I'm looking forward to connecting with you more online through the videos and the comments and even in person. Don't forget we have our first event for 2026 happening February 7th in Palm Beach, Florida, the Goddess Sere Vision Board Workshop. I look forward to connecting with you goddesses. It's all about creating a life, being intentional and I am being intentional by creating and a in person event to connect with you in person. So I look forward to meeting some of you lovely goddesses. It's going to be intimate and sacred and first come, first serve tickets. The tickets are going to be linked in the show notes description. Also on the Habits of a Goddess website, the new website that I refresh through Shopify. So check that out and if you have any questions, do not feel, you know, feel free to reach out through social media on TikTok or either on Instagram @habitsofagoddess. Until next time, Goddess, I will see you in the next video. Don't forget, create a life that you love by being intentional. Bye goddesses.