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It's time to date like a goddess you already know Here on Habits of a Goddess podcast, we're all about creating the life you desire and one that honors your highest self. So when it comes to dating, we're not settling. We're moving with intention. And that's why I love Bumble. Bumble is making it easier than ever to date with clarity, safety and confidence. They're now requiring phone numbers and photo verifications for new users in the US which means more real and fewer question marks. Verified profiles actually get more matches too, because authenticity is magnetic. And if you're someone who loves to express your lifestyle visually, like your go to Matcha spot, your recent travel adventures, or a glimpse of what dating you look like, Bumble now lets you pair photo prompts with your profile answers. It's such a beautiful way to show the full goddess. 5 One of my girlfriends moved to a new city and didn't know anyone, so she joined Bumble to make connections. 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My mission for whoever is listening to this podcast is that you find ways to to empower yourself, attract the life you desire and feel supported. On this self love journey, I have experienced a new way of opening up to the endless possibilities of healing and growing through sharing my voice. I'm your host Jasmine Rascoe and today's episode we'll be talking about Goddess standards, dating with power, pleasure and feminine energy. Also, if you're enjoying the podcast, don't forget to give Habits of a Goddess Podcast a five star review on Spotify or Apple Podcast. I love reading the reviews you guys leave. It means the world to me to see how truly the podcast has made a positive impact in your life and when you leave a review apps Other goddesses discover the podcast too. So a few weeks ago I made a post on Habits of a Goddess Instagram Stories. I did a Q and A poll of I would love to hear your dating experiences, if you dated online before and if you are interested in dating online. Like how do you feel about dating online? And a lot of you guys responded ensure that you had some success and some have not had success online. So it was a mixture of good and bad experiences and I feel like a lot of women that voted and share like they met their partner or how they met their partner or or how long they've been with their partner or their dating stories. A lot of women had some similarities in common of what I want to talk about today in today's episode. So when you are dating, it doesn't matter if you're dating online, if you're dating in person, if you're dating, if you're on a blind date, or if you was set up by mutual friend, it doesn't matter. Standards apply to all areas of how you are dating. Your goddess standards helps you navigate the dating space. And let's be honest, most of us weren't taught how to date and what it looks like, what to look out for. A lot of times you're learning through experiences. So in today's episode, I'm going to give you some tips to help you date like a goddess that you already are and to feel confident with when you are choosing your partner. So dating and your goddess power. Let's just start here. What does it mean to be soft when you're dating? Softness isn't about being passive or being nice, being a nice girl. It's about being open. It's about being receptive. It's about being in your goddess energy and communicating your own needs and desires without forcing it. It's the energy that says, I don't have to chase, I attract, I allow, I flow. So many of us, we were taught that if we're not doing, we're not worthy. So if we're not initiating every conversation or if we're not over communicating, if we're not planning every single day because you want it to look picture perfect or Pinterest perfect, if we're not holding the emotional space for the other person, even when we're not the ones and needing support, then that's hustle energy. It's not bad, but it's exhausting and over time it pushes away the other person. It doesn't bring them closer to you. So softness attracts why? Because it signals safety, it signals confidence, and it showcases your feminine magnetic energy. And it allows the right person to be emotionally available and it allows the right person to step up and be present in your life and hold that space for you. So now a lot of women ask me whenever I did the Q and A poll on Habits of Goddess Instagram Stories, how do I stay soft without looking like I don't care? Or how do I date without giving like desperate energy like I need to find my person? This is a great question because when I say date in your goddess power, lead with softness, lead with your feminine energy. It doesn't mean that you're being silenced. It doesn't mean that you're talking so soft that you your voice isn't being heard. As you're dating, you can express your feelings, you can speak your truth, but there's a way to communicate that there's a different energy behind the words that you are saying. So I'm going to give you a couple examples and see if it resonates with you. So, for example, this is what chasing sounds like when you are getting to know someone. When you're dating, this is what chasing sounds like. Why haven't you text me back? I need to know where this is going. If you are leading with that in the stage of getting to know someone while you're dating, you're going to repel them with your energy. You are going to repel the other person. They're not going to want to respond because it feels like you are demanding an answer from them. It feels like you're trying to control the situation. And no one likes to feel control. No one likes to be told what to do. And definitely no one likes to feel like their mother is talking to them. So this is what soft power sounds like. Okay, you're in your goddess energy. You're in your goddess power. This is how it sounds like. I value consistent communication and when I don't hear from someone, it's time to date like a goddess. You already know here on Habits of a Goddess podcast, we're all about creating the life you desire and one that honors your highest self. So when it comes to dating, we're not settling. We're moving with intention. And that's why I love Bumble. Bumble is making it easier than ever to date with clarity, safety and confidence. They're now requiring phone numbers and photo verifications for new users in the US which means more real connections and fewer question marks. Verified profiles actually get more matches too, because authenticity is magnetic. And if you're someone who loves to express your lifestyle visually, like your go to Matcha spot, your recent travel adventures or a glimpse of what dating you look like. Bumble now lets you pair photo prompts with your profile answers. It's such a beautiful way to show the full goddess vibe. One of my girlfriends moved to a new city and didn't know anyone, so she joined Bumble to make connections. She has been having the time of her life dating another girlfriend. Met her current husband on Bumble and they are celebr five years together this year. So if you're ready to romanticize your love life, to flirt with curiosity, and to protect your peace while exploring Real connection Download Bumble, verify your profile and date like the goddess you are. Now let's get back to today's episode. I naturally lose interest. You see how that sounds? It doesn't sound demanding. It doesn't sound like you're controlling the other person. You know what it sounds like? It sounds like a goddess who knows her standards. A goddess who has boundaries and a goddess who attracts. A goddess who knows her worth. A goddess who knows that if you're not communicating where this is going, if you're not communicating or planning dates, I naturally lose interest. And you should, as a goddess, you naturally should lose interest in the other person. If they aren't texting you back, if they're not updating you. Communicating, it needs to flow. It needs to be a give and take, a flow of communication. It shouldn't be one sided. So chasing versus communicating. In your goddess power, there's a big difference. One demands and one declares. Softness is about honoring your truth without fear. Because when you state, I need to know where this is going, why haven't you text me back? It sounds like you are afraid that this person has ghosted you or they're moved on and they have interest in someone else. And typically when you're dating, you should be dating other people to have some contrast, to know what you like and what you don't like. So you can state your needs clearly without trying to control how they respond. And if they disappear, that's data for you that tells you that they're not consistent, they don't value your time and they're not interested. And that's okay because a goddess doesn't cling to energy that cannot hold her. A goddess does not cling on to other people. They naturally will deselect themselves out of your life if they're not meeting your goddess standards. So let's talk about receiving. When you're in your goddess power and you're dating, let's talk about receiving. Okay. When you've been in your masculine energy all day, whether you're working, you're leading, you're doing, it can be hard to switch into that feminine receiving mode. But here's the magic. You deserve to receive without proving, earning or performing. You deserve to be adored without having to hustle for it. So whether someone's holding the door open for you, offering to pay for the date, let the gentleman pay for the date. Whoever you're going on a date with, especially if they ask you out on a date, let them pay for the date, receive it, or simply giving you a compliment. Allow it. Allow for the compliments to flow in. Simply say thank you. Instead of deflecting it or downplaying it, just simply say thank you. Receiving with grace is not entitlement, it's alignment. It's okay to receive things. It's okay to receive gifts. If you are getting gifts on your dates, it's okay to receive. You're saying I'm available for love, I'm available for kindness, I'm available for more. That's what you're communicating to the universe. I'm available and you're also communicating to that person too as well. So I'm going to share some daily practices that you can do to stay in your goddess energy while you're dating. Grounding yourself for 510 minutes. I create a beautiful date like a goddess. Affirmations that you can play over and over and over. Just ground yourself for five to 10 minutes, closing your eyes and deeply repeating affirmations that help align you as you're dating. I am magnetic. I do not chase what is a line flows to me effortlessly. So ground yourself in that energy. Because when you are dating, you are allowing things to flow to you effortlessly. You don't have to say your boundaries or your standards to the other person. Journal it. Write it down in a journal. But you can communicate by saying I value this in a person. It softens up your expectations and it softens up the communication right Pleasure Check in. These are some practices that you can do before a date or opening up your online dating app with Bumble. If you're using Bumble, ask am I'm ready to date? I'm doing this from joy or from fear. If it's from fear, pause. You're not available for anxious energy anymore. So make sure before you start dating online or before that date, before you go on that date, make sure that you're doing it from a place of joy. Make sure you're doing it from a place of pleasure. Make sure you're doing it from a place of abundance. Going on a date with an abundance mindset means if this person doesn't match your goddess energy, your goddess power, your goddess standards, your goddess boundaries, there will be somebody else. There will be somebody else stepping up available. So date from a place of abundance. Don't date from a place of scarcity or fear. Lastly, a practice is your body movement. Slow walking, slow dancing, stretching, reconnecting with your body. Connect with your body. Listen to your body because you're body gives signals. You have the feminine wisdom when you are on these dates. When you're putting yourself out there and you're communicating that you're ready for love. You're open and ready for love. It's important to be connected to your body. So when you're in the presence of another person, your body is going to tell you if it feels safe. Your body is going to communicate to you. I'm not necessarily talking about butterflies. I'm talking about that instinct feeling you get in your gut. Your body knows. So listen to your body and connect early in the morning with your body. Get in some natural, you know, nature, some sunlight. Connect. Because we want to operate from a place of abundance. We want to operate from your feminine wisdom, and we want to operate from a place of love. Loving yourself on this journey when you're dating is so important because when you have your standards for yourself, you won't accept less. You don't have to hustle for what's meant for you. You don't have to hustle for love. You don't have to shrink yourself to be love. You don't have to chase to be chosen. Hey. Let them rise to meet your softness or let them fall away. When you are dating, let them rise to the occasion. You are the goddess. The energy begins with you. The energy begins with you. Goddess. I want to share some things that you should pay attention to when you are. These are things that I paid attention to when I was putting myself out there. Dating. When you're dating, pay attention to their lifestyle. What are their daily habits? It matters when you're dating like a goddess, you absorb how they live their life, not just how they're talking. So what does this look like? Ask yourself, what does he do on a daily basis? Does he have structure, discipline or purpose? Is he committed to growth spiritually, emotionally and physically? We're not looking for a perfect human being. You're looking for if you're trying to stay on top of your routine. Whether that's workouts, skin care, sleep, or just making it through a busy day, hydration is where it all starts. The right electrolyte powder can make all the difference. And. And that's why Drip Drop has been a game changer for me. I love the watermelon flavor. I carry the Drip Drop to go packs in my Pilates bag so I can refresh after my workout. Drip Drop is proven fast hydration. You can feel the difference fast. Less fatigue, more focus. No more midday crash. Right now, Drip Drop is offering podcast listeners 20% off your first order. Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code habits that's dripdrop.com promo code habits for 20 off stock up now before the heat hits hard. Dripdrop.com and use promo code Habits now. Intention because if a man can't take care of himself, how can he take care of you? A goddess requires a provider, a protector. And that starts with a man who lives intentionally, takes pride in his habits and has a vision for his life. So pay attention to that. Take notes. When you are dating someone, you're getting to know someone. What are their lifestyle looks like? Also his financial energy. Can he provide? Is he generous? Is he rich? Is he wealthy? Let's talk about money with grace and honesty. As a goddess, you deserve to feel safe, secure and support it. Is he financially stable? Can he provide not just for himself but for a partner or for a future family? If you desire to have kids, that's important. So you want to like weed out the guys that aren't financially stable. Is his energy generous? Is he's generous with his time, his resources? You're not just dating a man, you're dating his relationship with his responsibility. A man who is aligned with your goddess energy wants to provide, wants to support and lead with purpose and not control. So financial stability reflects his emotional maturity and a generosity reflects his abundance mindset. So that's important. So pay attention to his finances. Also pay attention to his mental and emotional stability. Does he prefer peace or chaos? Does he communicate clearly and respectful? Can he handle conflict with maturity? Does he make you feel calm or anxious? This goes back to your feminine wisdom. A goddess doesn't settle for emotional turbulence. She desires and deserves emotional safety. So watch how he handles stress, setbacks and even your boundaries. If he's disrespecting your boundaries, if he's not handling stress well or setbacks, pay attention to that. The right man will protect your peace and not disturb it. Lastly, pay attention to his circle, his status. Where is he headed at in life? Pay attention to his environment. Look at his circle of friends. Are they aligned? Are they healthy or are they chaotic? His position in life. Is he growing? Is he growing in life? Is he growing in business? If he's an entrepreneur, is he growing in his company? If he works corporate, is he growing or is he stuck his direction? Does he have vision? Or if he's just floating and letting you know the world go by him, that's important. So pay attention to all of that. A man's circle says everything about his standards. His environment will eventually affect your environment. So as a goddess, you're not just dating for the moment. You're dating with a future in mind. So absorb everything. Is this a man who inspires you, elevates you and reflect the type of life that you want to build and create? Pay attention. Do you want to be a future stay at home mom or do you want to work? Do you want to have a business? All of this matters when you are dating like a goddess. So the person who you choose to be with you should have in mind where you want to go and if they can align with that, then that person may have an opportunity to date you. When did making plans get this complicated? It's time to streamline with WhatsApp, the secure messaging app that brings the whole group together. Use polls to settle dinner plans, send event invites and pin messages so no one forgets mom's 60th and never miss a meme or milestone. All protected with end to end encryption. It's time for WhatsApp message privately with everyone. Learn more@WhatsApp.com you're the goddess. You get to pick. You're in power. You have a decision to date like a goddess. And that means you don't just date with your heart. You date with your intuition and your standards. You are not desperate for love. You're discerning. You're not waiting to be chosen. You are doing the choosing and your energy, your time and your presence are sacred. Remember Goddess, your energy is sacred. So remember to be kind and gentle with yourself. I want to leave you with an affirmation that you can repeat throughout the day. Place your hand of your heart and take a deep breath and breathe and repeat this affirmation after me. I date like a goddess who is secure and confident. I date like a goddess who is secure and confident. I date like a goddess who is secure and confident. Goddess, we are dating with secure and confidence. Okay. Being secure and being confident while you're dating helps you pick. It helps you pick better. Because you're not dating from a place of desperate. You're not dating from a place of scarcity. You're not dating from a place of fear. You're dating from an abundance mindset. Remember. Remember Goddess, you are the one who get to pick and co create who you decide to co create with here on this earth. So keep in mind, pay attention to his daily habits, his financial energy, his lifestyle, his mindset, his circle of friends, where he's heading to in life. Pay attention to all of that and for you express your desires along the way. Express your values that matters. Your values of what you value in a person matters. Date in your goddess power. Be open, stay soft, stay beautiful, stay confident, stay in your magnetic energy because the right partner will align with that energy and provide and protect and give you the foundation that you desire. In a relationship. Everything is all about energy, so pay attention. I love you Goddess. Thank you for listening to this episode. If it resonate with you today, leave us a beautiful 5 star review on Spotify or Apple podcasts. Also, come over to our Instagram at Habits of a Goddess to connect with our community and comment under our most recent post of your thoughts of the episode. I love interacting with you goddesses and I appreciate your love and support. Don't forget to share the podcast and tag us at Habits of a Goddess. Have a beautiful day.