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Koya Webb
Okay, let's talk girl math for a second. You bought those designer heels because they were on sale, but they're still in the box. That designer bag you no longer carry is literally money sitting in your closet. Here's the thing. Second chances are for your closet, not your ex. That's why I'm so excited. This episode of Habits of a Goddess is sponsored by the Real Real. I shop and sell at the Real Real, which is great because I can use my earnings for something special and new to me. I. I'm obsessed with brands like Manolo Blahnik, Christian Louboutin, Hermes, and so many more. The RealReal is the world's largest and most trusted resource for authenticated luxury resell with thousands of new arrivals daily. No one does resell like the real real. And this month you can get an extra $100 site credit when you sell for the first time. Go to therealreal.com habits to get your extra $100. Therealreal.com habits that's therealreal.com habits it's time to date like a goddess.
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You already know.
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Here on Habits of a Goddess podcast.
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We'Re all about creating the life you desire and one that honors your highest self.
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So when it comes to dating, we're not settling.
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We're moving with intention. And that's why I love Bumble. Bumble is making it easier than ever to date with clarity safety. They're now requiring phone numbers and photo verifications for new users in the US which means more real connections and fewer question marks. Verified profiles actually get more matches too, because authenticity is magnetic. And if you're someone who loves to express your lifestyle visually, like your go to matcha spot, your recent travel adventures, or a glimpse of what dating you look like, Bumble now lets you pair photo prompts with your profile answers. It's such a beautiful way to show the full Goddess vibe. One of my girlfriends moved to a new city and didn't know anyone, so she joined Bumble to make connections. She has been having the time of her life dating another girlfriend. Met her current husband on Bumble and they are celebrating five years together this year. So if you're ready to romanticize your love life, to flirt with curiosity, and to protect your peace while exploring real connection, download Bumble, verify your profile and date like the goddess you are. Now, let's get back to today's episode.
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Let's talk about Self Care Goddess. Not just skin care and journaling, but the kind that starts within your mind. One of my favorite self Love tools is Headspace, the app that has helped me and over 100 million people care for our mental well being with guided meditations, calming breath work, sleep support and mindfulness exercises that actually fit into real life. Whether I'm just feeling overwhelmed or just off, Headspace has helped me slow down and reconnect with myself, my breath and my peace. What I love it's not just one size fit all. Headspace meets you where you're at with science backed tools and guidance from real experienced teachers. Feel good and mean it when you say it for a limited time. Get headspace free for 60 days go to headspace.com goddess that's h e A-S-P a c e.com goddess to unlock all of headspace. Free for 60 days headspace.com goddess goddess imagine this turning your passion into profit. Whether it's handmade jewelry, digital downloads, wellness coaching or affirmations that speak life, you deserve to get paid for your magic. That's why I love Shopify, the all in one platform that empowers you to create, launch and grow your own online business. When I first started my online business in 2016, I had no clue how to create a website, capture customer emails or set up a payment system. I was clueless. Now I'm able to offer online coaching to my clients and book speaking engagements on Habits of a Goddess website. And it's so easy. All because I use Shopify. It's simple to use, fully customizable and it gives you all the tools to sell your product. 24. 7 customer support connects you with your audience and attracts the abundance you've been manifesting. And let's be real, this is more than just about money. It's about freedom, alignment, stepping into your goddess power and creating a life you love. So whether you're just getting started or scaling your business, turn those dreams into and give them the best shot at success with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial and start selling today at shopify.com sl habits of a goddess go to shopify.com habits of a goddess shopify.com habits of a Goddess.
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This is so good. Find your power and stop comparing. How you start your mornings is so important and you know when you create beauty and your day you see beauty. Something as simple as having a beautiful teacup just really radiates the beauty and my space. So let's get ready for the day. Have you ever noticed another woman who is glowing? She is in her power, she knows exactly what she wants and she has taken the proper time to self Discover what it is that she desire and wants out of life. A lot of times when we see women who are just owning their desires, who are living unapologetically and who is like speaking from their authentic voice, those women are powerful. And a lot of times those women that you're operating different than the average woman. So if you ever find yourself comparing yourself to another woman or feeling envious or jealous of another woman because she.
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Just has that, that spice has, she.
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Has that glow, she has that, that aura, her energy is very potent, her energy is contagious. And every time she walks into the room, she owns it. That woman is in her goddess power. And I'm going to teach you how you can tap into your goddess power too as well so you can.
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A lot of times when we are comparing ourselves to another woman, we haven't taken the proper time to acknowledge where we're at in life and celebrate our own accomplishments. Self celebration is so important. And a woman who is in her goddess power, she is constantly celebrating her small and big wins. So stop comparing and find your power. How do you do that? Look at what you've been doing the last few, the last year, this past year, we're almost into a new year. Look around you and see what you've manifested. There was a time you prayed for what you currently have. So there was a time that you looked up to the version that you are today. And you wanted that. You want it to be her. You wanted to fully embody the woman who you are today. And when you unlock that version of you, guess what? You get to embody it. You get to live in that power and that energy. And that is a space you want to stay in and feel grateful for. Gratitude is the key to happiness. Gratitude is also the key to your success. When we stop comparing ourselves to those around us, we're able to see the things that we have and enjoy them. So find your power and stop comparing. Find what makes you sparkle. Find what makes you glow. Find what makes you happy. Find what makes you feel bliss. Find what brings you peace. Find what makes you comfortable. Find what makes you thrive in the space that you're currently in. When you do that, you can stop comparing yourself to everyone around you and you can start winning in your own reality. Stop comparing and live in your full power Goddess. Recognize that other success, other people's win doesn't dim your own light. And also you can take note when other people are winning around you. When other people who you may look up to are winning in life, look at the Patterns that they've created in their life. Look at the habits that they have that has supported them on their journey to winning in life. A lot of times successful people leave clues. When you show up and you're consistent, you will start to win in your own strength story, in your own reality. So find your power and stop comparing. On Habits of a Goddess podcast, we are empowering our mindsets daily reporting into ourself. We're taking the proper time to nourish our mindset, our physical well being. We're pouring into our beauty. We're taking the time to acknowledge like where we're at in life and we are honoring our wins, we're honoring our greatness. We are honoring the woman that we are today. So take time to celebrate yourself. Also celebrate others too. When you are grateful for where you're at in life and you're celebrating other people too along the way, even if it's not where you're currently want to be at in life, but you, you.
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Still accomplish some things.
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When you are celebrating those who are winning, guess what, you are pouring that back into yourself. It's going to come back around to you. So celebrate others, okay? Find your power and stop comparing. A goddess that knows what she wants doesn't ask for permission. A goddess that knows what she wants doesn't ask for permission. So find your power and stop comparing. You don't need permission to shine. You don't need permission to relocate. You don't need permission to start that business. You don't need permission to start focusing on you. If you want to take the rest of the year to recalibrate and focus on you goddess, so you can step into the new year and your powerful divine feminine energy. Take that time. You don't need permission. So find your power and stop comparing. A lot of times the women that we compare ourselves to, they found their power and they're living in it. They are glowing, they are showing up and they are just living the life that they've created. This doesn't happen overnight. That woman, that version that you see of her, she spent years working on herself. She spent time working, working on herself. And that to me that's inspiring. So find your power and don't compare. For the rest of the year, I want you to focus on your personal growth. I want you to take the time to journal down. What version do you see yourself stepping into the new year. I want you to find your power. I want you to find what makes you glow, goddess. Okay, Take the rest of the year to put yourself in A state of being in a state of I am powerful. I am a goddess who leads with her feminine energy because that is what attracts your desires.
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Okay, let's talk girl math for a second. You bought those designer heels because they were on sale, but but they're still in the box. That designer bag you no longer carry is literally money sitting in your closet. Here's the thing. Second chances are for your closet, not your ex. That's why I'm so excited. This episode of Habits of a Goddess is sponsored by the RealReal. I shop and sell at the RealReal, which is great because I can use my earnings for something special and new to me. I'm obsessed with brands like Manolo Blahnik, Christian Louboutin, Hermes, and so many more. The RealReal is the world's largest and most trusted resource for authenticated luxury resell with thousands of new arrivals daily. No one does resell like the RealReal. And this month you can get an extra $100 site credit when you sell for the first time. Go to therealreal.com habits to get your extra $100. Therealreal.com habits that's therealreal.com habits it's time to date like a goddess.
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You already know Here on Habits of.
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A Goddess podcast, we're all about creating.
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The life you desire and one that honors your highest self.
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So when it comes to dating, we're not settling.
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We're moving with intention. And that's why I love Bumble. Bumble is making it easier than ever.
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To date with clarity, safety and confidence.
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They're now requiring phone numbers and photo verifications for new users in the US which means more real connections and fewer question marks. Verified profiles actually get more matches too, because authenticity is magnetic. And if you're someone who loves to express your lifestyle visually like your go to Matcha spot, your recent travel adventures, or a glimpse of what dating you look like. Bumble now lets you pair photo prompts with your profile answers. It's such a beautiful way to show the full goddess vibe. One of my girlfriends moved to a new city and didn't know anyone, so she joined Bumble to make connections. She has been having the time of her life dating another girlfriend. Met her current husband on Bumble and they are celebrating five years together this year. So if you're ready to romanticize your love life, to flirt with curiosity, and to protect your peace while exploring real connection, download Bumble, verify your profile and date like the goddess you are. Now.
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Let's get back to today's episode that's what attracts opportunities. That's what attracts the next level that you want to unlock within you Goddess. So find your power and stop comparing. Let go of expectations from others. Find your power and stop comparing. Let go of the ideal of being perfect or waiting for the perfect moment. Find your power now. Stop comparing and start activating those steps. I want you to lean into your gifts so you can find your power and stop comparing. Remember, comparison is the thief of the joy. Why take away the joy that you have in your life when you are looking over here and you're seeing this woman, glowing, radiating, living a beautiful life that she created. You can have that too and then some. But in order for you to get there, guess what? You have to focus on you. You have to center you. You have to shift the energy on you. Not over here, not over there. On you. Find your power and glow. Find your power and stop comparing. Find your power and thrive. Find your power and live the abundant life that you were already meant to have. Find your power Goddess.
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Release.
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The ideal of having to take the same path of others to win in life. Your path is unique for you and there is a reason why you are experiencing things for the first time. You're experiencing things that are just different because it's meant for you to grow and expand. It's meant for you to find your own inner goddess power. What works for me or what works for this person may not work for you, but that is okay. Because guess what? A goddess taps deep within and she finds her own power and she leads with her own power and she creates her own reality with her mindset, with her energy. Because when you find your power, you get to receive the things that you desire and you don't compare. You don't have to because you found your power. I glow because I found my power. I glow because I have standards for my higher self. I glow because I focus.
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Let's talk about self care Goddess. Not just skin care and journaling, but the kind that starts within your mind. One of my favorite self love tools is Headspace, the app that has helped me and over 100 million people care for our mental well being with guided meditations, calming breath work, sleep support and mindfulness exercises that actually fit into real life. Whether I'm just feeling overwhelmed or just off, Headspace has helped me slow down and reconnect with myself, my breath and my peace.
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What I love.
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It's not just one size fit all. Headspace meets you where you're at with science backed tools and guidance from real experienced teachers. Feel Good. And mean it when you say it for a limited time. Get headspace free for 60 days go to headspace.com goddess that's h e a d s p a c e dot com goddess to unlock all of headspace free for 60 days headspace.com goddess all.
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Of my energy on me. So today, Goddess, I encourage you to find your power and stop comparing. When a woman finds her power, she raises her own vibration, she raises her own energy, she raises her own standards for herself and she just operates differently. Okay? So find your power. Find what makes you happy. Find what makes life just feel so much lighter these days. Find your power. A lot of times our power is tied and connected back to our inner child. So think about the things that you always wanted to do when you were a child. A lot of times our power is tied back to our belief system. So think about the things that we've been believing and does it make you feel empowered or does it make you feel disempowered? So pay attention to that. Find your power and stop comparing. You are a beautiful goddess. Everything that you desire is within your. You. You have the ability to achieve your goals. And start now. Create that vision board. Start thinking about the things that you want that is going to fulfill you in life. Yes, having material things is nice, but also having the courage to do things is nice too. So maybe write that down or cut that out of a magazine, that word courage and place it on your vision board. Having the courage to speak up in your friendships and your relationships so you can find your power. And stop comparing yourself to the woman who is vocal, who is authentic, who's using her voice to empower herself and those around her. If you find that you feel disempowered.
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Koya Webb
Find anything that interests you and you just, you're in this rut and you're watching everyone live life, travel and all that. I want you to start thinking about, if money was no object, what would you be doing today? Okay. If money was no object, what would you be doing today? So find your power and stop comparing. Repeat this affirmation after me. I found my power and I no longer live in fear. I found my power and I no longer live in fear. Fear. I found my power and I no longer live in fear. Goddess, you have the power to create magic, to create joy. So once you find your power and once you start using it, I want you to start elevating yourself, okay? Elevate your circle, elevate your space. And I want you to start living for you. Not living for others, but living for you. Because when you live for you, you set the tone in your life. When you live for you, you show the world, you show the universe what you are ready for. Find your power and stop comparing. This is the finished look. What do you guys think? I found my power this morning because I took the time to to pour into myself. I also took the time to create this amazing episode for the lovely goddesses that is listening to Habits of God's podcast. So find your power today. Take the time.
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Set some time to yourself where it's.
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Just you and you're spinning moments, just radiating. You're spending moments, just allowing your emotions to flow. You're spending moments to just allow whatever is coming up in your head to just come up.
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Okay?
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Take that time because it's so important to have self awareness where you're at on your journey. Have self awareness of your thoughts that's happening. The story that we tell ourselves. So find your power so you can stop comparing to that woman over there who found her power. You don't know what people are going through in life. You don't know what people's been through in life. You took a different path in life and they found their power. And it's time for you to. To embark the journey of finding your own power. So you can stop comparing and you can start living in your goddess energy and you can start radiating that. Because when we stand up in our power, we attract more, we see more opportunities. Our perception is different in life. The reality that we create, it reflects back to our inner healing. It reflects back also to what we think is true and what we think we deserve. And I always say this. Your thoughts create your own reality. If you can visualize it, you can materialize it. So find your power and stop comparing. Learn to thrive in every moment throughout the day. Find beauty, find courage, find joy, find, you know, find fresh energy. Find fresh energy. Bring fresh energy into your space, into your home. That's important. Fresh energy helps clear out the old way that we've been doing things in life. So find your power and stop comparing. I love you, Goddess.