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When we were young, we used to dream of being anything. An astronaut, the president, a princess. But as we grow, our dreams evolve. They become more grounded, more intimate, more ours. You can dream about owning your own business, sharing your gifts, bringing your ideas to life, creating something beautiful, something meaningful, something new. And that is where today's sponsor, Shopify steps in. Shopify gives you everything you need to turn your vision into a real thriving business all in one place. A website that feels like your energy. A payment system that makes selling effortlessly, and tools that helps you reach your customers who are already looking for you. I love Shopify because it empowers women to step into their entrepreneurial era with confidence and ease. So if you're ready to build your brand, share your magic and step into your goddess power, sign up for Shopify today and your vision to life. Because every goddess deserves a place for her dreams to grow. Turn those dreams into and give them the best shot at success with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial and start selling today at shopify.com Habits of a Goddess go to shopify.com habitsofagoddess shopify.com habitsoFagoddess.
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Hello Goddesses. Let's tap into our higher self. Going into the new year, I'm starting a series called Goddess Glow Mask. It's like vlogmas, but for the goddess that's looking to glow up going into the new year. Today is December 1st and we're going to start with today's topic, which is growth mindset. Starting with a growth mindset is the absolutely best because you identify what areas of your life that you want to grow. Whether it's your family, your career, business, your health, your wellness, your spiritual side, you can identify what it is that you want to focus on today and your growth mindset. If you want to learn a new language or you want to learn a new skill, this is your sign to tap into the energy of a goddess. Growth mindset. When you focus on the areas of your life that you want to expand and elevate, it makes it so much easier for you to direct your energy and channel all of that attention on that path. So my question for you today is what area of your life that you want to focus on and grow today? Use December 1st to focus on that. Write that down in your journal or you can make a note on your phone. But take a minute to figure out what area of my life I want to grow. This is going to help you shape the mindset of a growth mindset. So let's get into it every day in December, I become more aligned with the version that I see myself. Use this affirmation to activate where you see yourself. Goddess through the month of December. I like to use December as a month to reflect back on my journey. I mean, everything that you've done this year, it really truly shapes how you are going to enter into a new year. So take a moment to sit and reflect and look at what you've accomplished this far so far this year from January all the way to December 1st. Cuz today is December 1st and if you're watching this video and December 1st has gone by, you can still apply these same principles to your journey of glowing up and tapping into your higher self. Going into 2026 goddess so what areas of your life that you realize you have grown so much and take a minute and write that down. Sometimes growth looks like you're no longer available for any gossip. I know that's a challenge for a lot of people, but sometimes those those relationships that you've had with friends, you realize at the end of the day, do they really nurture my growth mindset or do I feel stuck, stagnant and this friendship. So if you are finding yourself always gossiping or focusing on negative things in life, take a minute to look at what can you address and change and your dynamic of your friendship. Is it you? Are you enabling the conversations topics that is not really elevating the relationship that you guys have in your friendship? Or is it the other person? Do you feel yourself steering clear from conversations that don't really serve your higher self, but you hold on to this friendship because it's familiar to you? Maybe you've been friends with this person since your childhood, or maybe you've been friends with this person since you relocated to this new city. Whatever the case may be, you need to take time to assess the relationships you have in your life. Your friendship, your romantic relationship, your peers. Take the time, even family dynamics to realize like is this a growth environment? Like do I feel like I'm growing when I'm around this person? Do I feel elevated? Do the conversations feel nurturing? Or do I feel heavy when I'm around this person? If you feel heavy, then you are realizing it's time, time to grow and move on in your relationships that you have. So a growth mindset adapts. The mindset of I get to choose who I want to surround myself around and if this doesn't elevate me as a person, if I don't feel inspired, if I don't feel you know light when I'm around this person, then I want to take time to assess what do I look for in this dynamic of a friendship or a relationship. So the growth mindset is identifying where you stand in this relationship and how do you contribute to this relationship. Are you contributing in a positive way or are you contributing in a negative way? Only you know this answer. So take the time to figure out where you stand in regards to this dynamic of a friendship, your relationship, your peers, family. Because a growth mindset, it takes self awareness. You are not judging yourself, but you are understanding where you are at in this dynamic. Okay? So if you feel that you're contributing on the positive side, then it's time for you to grow. You probably have grown out of that relationship, out of that friendship, and, and it's time for you to manifest some new people into your life. Remember the saying, you are the five people who you talk to the most. Like you're a reflection of the five people that surround you. That is so true. So if you hang around five people that are negative, you're going to be the sixth one, okay? If you hang around five people that are positive, that are elevating, that is focusing on having a growth mindset, then you are going to be the sixth one that's growing, okay? So focus your energy towards things that is elevating you. But if you find that you are on the other side and you are contributing to the negative, then I want you to be honest with yourself and ask what belief system you've been, you know, thinking about in your consciousness. Like why do you feel this way? Why do you contribute in this manner? You know, a lot of times we have it change what we've been programmed to think.
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If you're around an environment that is reflecting how you feel on the inside and you don't feel the best, then how can you change your circumstances? You have to elevate your space, you have to elevate your mindset. You really have to start looking at books or watching, you know, things that is going to shape you and the best version of yourself. So adapting a growth mindset, it takes time. It doesn't happen in one day, it doesn't happen overnight. But you can have self awareness in this present moment and you can prevail forward in life when you recognize where you are at in your journey and you're honest with yourself, but have compassion too along the way. Don't feel like you're the only reason why you have have it expanded in life. A lot of times it's you know how we were raised. It's our environment. Sometimes it could be your parents, whatever the case may be. But once you realize this no longer serves where I see myself, then you can make the right choices in life to better yourself on your growth journey. Goddess.
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A lot of times when as a goddess, I'm always investing in myself. That's why I created Habits of a Goddess podcast to continue leveling up in all areas of my life. If you ever felt inspired to step deeper into your worth, your power, your presence, this is your sign. Kim Kardashian's class is an invitation to witness what it truly means to become a self made powerhouse. From creating iconic brands to reclaiming your narrative and redefining success, she takes you behind the scenes of her journey and mindset. In this class, you'll learn how to build a brand people can't stop talking about. Use your story as a strategy. Define yourself first. You'll find out how to price your worth, protect your value, and ask for what you deserve as a goddess. You don't wait for permission. You choose. You let her story ignite yours. Step into your worth. Step into your voice. Step into your empire. If you're ready to embody the next level of your goddess era, explore Kim Kardashian's class. Because powerful women don't just dream, they act. The New rules of business the 10 Kim Mandments is available exclusively on Masterclass starting on December 4th. Masterclass always has great offers during the holidays, sometimes up to as much as 50% off. Head over to masterclass.com goddess for the current offer. That's up to 50% off@masterclass.com goddess masterclass.com.
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Goddess you step into this new version of yourself. You leave your old life. You leave the people who don't support your glow up journey. And when you step into this new version of yourself, you're going to find your your support system. Okay. You're going to attract it. But until then, embrace the journey of solitude. Embrace the journey of getting to know yourself. Like spend time with you and figure out what it is that you want out of life. Figure out what it is that you want to achieve going into the new year. Goddess and this takes time. This does not happen overnight. You you truly have to be open with yourself and honest with yourself and understand that the right people that support your globe journey, they're probably going to be new people that's been on the path that you're on. Personal development, self help. Glow up versus the people who they say they Want to change but they don't align with the change. Their actions shows they haven't even done the work. And when you are doing the hard part, the part that people don't see, the part that only you know right behind closed doors, when you are being disciplined behind those doors and you are taking care of your health, your wellness. Maybe your glow up journey is to lose weight. Maybe your glow up journey is a save more money so you're probably not going out as much or you're switching careers. Maybe your globe journey is to start a business. Maybe your globe journey is to take more care of you. Like tap into that self care and prioritize your mental and well being. Like maybe that's part of your globe journey. But here's the thing, not everyone is going to be on the same path path as you at the same time. That's the part you have to let those people be where they're at. You cannot change someone else. You only, you can only change yourself. Another thing too, as you are growing up, don't announce your biggest goals that you have for yourself. Let your hard work reveal, okay? Let your determination to change habits that don't serve you and adapt new habits that do serve you. Let that do the talking for you.
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For example, if your goal is to. Lose weight, let's say you want to enter into your health and wellness era, you want to start working out, maybe you want to get a gym membership, you want a personal trainer, don't start trying to recruit people along with you. That's where a lot of people mess up. You want to change and you want everyone around you to change. You want your friends to like now be a part of this journey with you so you can have your support system. But a lot of times that's just for you. That glow up is for you because you want that for you, okay? So you have to allow other people to have their own introduction to whatever it is that they want in life and not you be the one to like usher them on to glowing up. Like lead by example but don't start telling people like how they should look like you lead by example and let people come to you and ask you what are you doing? Like what is your workout routine or what kind of foods that do you incorporate to still feel full but like you're not like over consuming. Like let people come to you and ask you for advice. Like you become the expert in the in the area of life that you want to glow up but allow people to come to you for help. Allow People to come to you for advice. You don't have to go around and like announcing to everyone, especially your closest people, people to you that you talk to, right? And say, like, hey, I'm blowing up, I'm working out, I'm losing weight. And, you know, you should do this too. Like, no, no one likes to be told what to do. For some reason, it just actually repels you. Like, so lead by example.
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If you're reading a book that's like, really, like, nurturing and just elevating your life, share it, like on your social media and let people, people start asking you, oh, is that a good book to read? Is that what you read on your journey? Trust me, this method really works. Instead of just like always sending that friend, like, oh, you should read this. You should, you should watch this. You should listen to this podcast or you should watch this YouTube video or you should read this book. A lot of times it really does put people off because they feel like hooty.
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You think you are. Like, who does she think she is? You know, and I know you probably mean well. And I've done this before. Like, once someone tells me, like, they want to, like, level up, I start sending them things that has has helped me on my journey. But then I realized something. Even though someone says they want to level up, they don't always necessarily mean they want to level up with you at the same time or they actually want to take action right, right now in their life. So give people grace. Give people time to go after the goals they want in life and to have that growth mindset too, as well. But until then, you continue your growth journey. Let me tell you, these are some signs that you know, you are growing and you are on the path of truly leveling up and your mindset has changed and your environment is changing and the circle of people around you is changing. Okay, take a minute to look at the people who you are following on social media. They should be reflecting where you see yourself going in life. And this can be people who are, you know, huge on social media, or people who are not as big on social media, but they showcase a certain characteristic that you like or a lifestyle that you like. And it is something that you are intrigued. Like you're interested in cultivating these habits for yourself. It could be someone who's really tapped into their feminine energy and you just love the way that this woman embodies and carry herself and just like, maybe that's what you want to lean more into going into the new year. Or it could be someone who always showcasing their fitness routine and that's what you see yourself becoming more and more healthier, just more like your best self and shape. Like, pay attention to the people who you're following. And if you're following accounts I.e. elevated accounts that are showcasing like how you see your higher self, then you are definitely growing. You're like on the path of just truly tapping deeper into your goddess energy, your goddess growth mindset. Also pay attention to how long you stay on the phone and have conversations that are either elevated or conversations that are not elevated. So if you're on the phone talking and having conversations with a girlfriend or a family member and you're always problem solving their lives and there's no return in the friendship, like there's no healthy balance between you being supportive and you showing up, vice versa, they being supportive and showing up or just really enjoying each other's company, take a minute to realize like that is energy that you're outputting that you can pour back into yourself. So that should be an indicator like where your relationship, like where it stands. Like, if you're always being the savior, you're always like pouring into this person, is this person, could they stand on their own? Could they support you and give you the love and support that you give to them? Could they do that for you? If not, I think it's time to redirect your energy and attention and not put too much emphasis on that friendship. Because at the end of the day, if it's more beneficial to them, then you are not elevating in that relationship, in that friendship, they are. So you want to make sure that your friendships are elevated where you can nurture each other back and forth. You can always be there for each other, back and forth. And you feel supported. This is so important. You feel supported. You feel appreciate, appreciated in the friendship, too, as well. Because a lot of times it becomes off balance when one is doing more in the friendship. And it's the same for a relationship too, as well. So make sure it's not where you're, like, checking the scoreboard and seeing, like, oh, I was this for this person on this day, this day, that day. It's no like, you're actually being mindful of the conversations you're having. You're being mindful of how you feel around this person, and you're being mindful of, like, the energy.
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That they're pouring back into you, vice versa. So make sure that you have a growth mindset and you're activated in that friendship dynamic. And no one is taking, taking, taking, or you're just pouring, pouring, pouring. And you don't feel elevated. You just feel used. You know, you feel used in a friendship. So make sure that it's a healthy, dynamic situation, balance going into the new year. And if you feel like it's not, it's okay to take a step back and just realign and focus on what you want in a friendship. Going to 2026. I'm gonna finish my makeup look with this Dior lip gloss top pop off on the lips. But Goddess, this is your day one Glow Up Glow Moss series. Come back tomorrow for day two. Because every day we're glowing up the month of December, every day. You can take this and apply it to your life any time of the year, but especially going into the new month, you want to make sure that you are truly aligning yourself with with a growth mindset. You're growing and you're expanding, and you want your environment to reflect that. You want your friendships to reflect that. You want your bank account to reflect that. That is so important. Most importantly, you want you to reflect that. So every time that you are tapping into yourself, every time that you're growing and you are focusing on your glow, up journey that should reflect in you and outside of you, external and external and internal too as well. So when you come in contact with new people or even people from your past, right, they are going to notice something is different about you. And that's because you have taken the moment now to be self aware of where you're at on your journey and taking action and tap it into the best parts of yourself. So focus on the best part parts of yourself.
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Focus your strengths on how you can activate and tap into that journey of glowing up all month long and manifesting the best case scenario in your life.
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Manifesting everything that is helping you shape you become the goddess that you already are. Goddess. So thank you for watching day one of Goddess Glow Maz series. It's a 31 day challenge. I want you to tap into that goddess energy. Check out the podcast. There's over 400 episodes that you can really listen to and activate the inner goddess within you. The power of affirmations. Bye goddesses. See you tomorrow.
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