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Welcome back to the Habits of a Goddess Podcast. A podcast filled with self love, self care and spiritual affirmations. My mission for whoever is listening to this podcast is that you find ways to empower yourself, attract the life that you desire and feel supported. On this self love journey, I have experienced a new way of opening up to the endless possibilities of healing and growing through sharing my voice. I'm your host Jasmine Rascoe and today's episode we will be talking about how small commitments lead to bigger accomplishments. Also, if you're enjoying the podcast, don't forget to give Habits of Agada's podcast a five star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. I love reading the reviews you guys leave. It means the world to me to see how truly the podcast has made a positive impact in your life and when you leave a review apps other goddesses discover the podcast too. So story time. I had an old college girlfriend message me 10 years ago. She messaged me one day and she started asking me a lot of questions. I can tell she really wanted to catch up. But she wasn't sure if I was open to just chatting with her because it was more of, like, in the DMs. She didn't really have my personal self. We lost touch with each other. She had been following me for a few years, and I no longer lived in the same town that we met. So we haven't seen each other and really haven't chatted and talked for a very long time. So it was kind of like a cold reach when she reached out. And I remember she asking me this question. She asked me, what big change did you do? Like, what did you do? What is that one thing that you did that changed your life? Because I see a change in you, and I want that for myself. Like, I want to change, but I don't know where to start. And at the time, I never really saw myself how maybe she saw me. I was just simply living my life. I chose to, like, relocate and move and, you know, just create the life that I have now. But it took time creating that, and I had no clue how to do it. In the beginning, I didn't have a full plan. I just simply started. So she told me in confidence that she was ready for a change, and she had some rough patches, and she was really, really looking forward to just finding a different route in life. She seemed defeated, and she was wondering what she can do to start the journey of just leveling up, glowing up, and creating a better life for herself and the town that she grew up in. She didn't really have a lot of examples of someone successful. And I can see and relate to that totally, 100%. I didn't see the version of me today, like the Tundre went to college, the town that I grew up in. I didn't really see a lot of people doing what I'm doing now. And it's. Sometimes it's hard to envision it for yourself if you haven't seen it being done, but it is so possible. So she wasn't the only person that messaged me over the years like that. I would get hundreds of emails from women who were either looking to start a business or relocate or. Or wanted advice on how to buy a home or how to start their spiritual journey or how to lose weight or just how to become confident and so on. Like, these were the concerns that women would reach out to me and ask me for advice. Now, this was way before Habits of a Goddess podcast. Just to put things in perspective, I was just simply sharing my life online. I would share, like, me working out in the mornings. I would share whenever I would go to therapy because I was like, doing my own inner work. I would share, you know, my home buying process. I remember that whole situation. It was like, it was a lot I would share when I was learning how to invest money and how to save money and, you know, I would share all that stuff online. And so I had women that were following me and I didn't really know or realize that I was actually making a. A mark in their life or impact and, you know, inspiring them. But later on in life, I would get messages just like the girlfriend I had in college. And so at the time, I would give advice freely and I would even create, like, YouTube videos until one day someone asked me, did I offer life coaching sessions? And I never thought of that. I never really saw myself at that time. I'm talking years, years, years ago. I never saw myself at that time really doing that. But I knew I had a gift because people would come to me, even people who I didn't even know in person, they would come to me for advice. Even people in, you know, in real life, like, I can be out shopping and, you know, people would ask me, like, what do you think of this? Like, it could be fashion advice. So I never thought of charging, but I knew people would respect my time and they wanted to invest and they saw that as an investment. And after all, you should get paid for your time. You should get paid for your knowledge, your. Your wisdom. So I started doing just that. And I built up a small clientele just off of social media alone and word of mouth. And I started, you know, coaching women and, you know, given advice on, you know, whatever it is that they would come to me about. And so to go back to the old college classmate, when she asked me what was the one big thing I did at that time, I could not give her a solid answer because it wasn't one thing. It wasn't one big thing. And I felt like a lot of times when I would get DMs, a lot of women that were really in desperate need, like, really needed to change, like something could be maybe going on really, you know, awful in their life and they're looking for a way out, and I was not the solution. So I could not, like, lead them and say, hey, do this one thing and your life is going to be like a total 360. I had to tell them, like, hey, it's not one big thing. It's small daily habits. It's small daily habits that I do that leads up to bigger accomplishments in my life that leads up to bigger success. So if you're looking at me and you're thinking, wow, how does she do it? Like, how does she stay consistent online? Or how does she stay consistent with her podcast? Or how does she stay consistent with, you know, her health? Like just eating right and making better food choices and, you know, working out? Like, how does she stay consistent working out in the mornings? Like, these are questions and thoughts that I know. Like, I have been getting, you know, since I've been on social media. There is no one thing that is going to take you and change your life. There's not one thing. It is a combination of everything. So I remember this quote that I heard in church one day. How you do anything is how you do everything. So how you do anything is how you do everything. So when you wake up in the morning, how does your morning start? What small habits are you creating in the morning for yourself? Are you reading? Are you meditating? Are you taking your vitamins? Are you drinking your water? Are you consuming content on TikTok? Are you online scrolling? What is your morning routine look like? Like, are you getting straight out of bed and going straight to work? Or are you taking extra 10, 20 minutes of self care for yourself before you start your day? Like, what does your morning look like? What are the small habits that you're creating for yourself on a daily basis? So anytime you're looking to start your journey of change and you're like, I'm ready, I'm ready to change my job. You're like, I, I love the job but I know I'm ready for more. Or you could be like, I hate this job, I hate my boss. I'm ready for more. Okay, what small changes can you make to improve and create a open communication to the universe and say, hey, I'm ready for change. I'm ready to attract a better job or a higher paying job, or I'm ready to relocate to a whole different part of town or a new city, new state. I'm ready for that. These are changes that takes time. It doesn't happen overnight, it doesn't happen in a quick span, it doesn't happen at a snap of your finger. You have to create small habits and when you create a vision for your life, I always talk about vision boards that the other day I was cleaning up my closet and I share this on a few episodes that I was doing a huge major closet clean out. I found a old journal from like 2021 or 2020. Maybe an old journal that was given to me by one of the brands that I work with. They sent me like at the end of the year. It was like a, like a Christmas basket gift or whatever. And I kept the journal and I used it for a. I completely forgot about it. But I started reading the journal and the goals that I wrote down for 2021, because I. The journal was titled, it was the 20, the year of 2020. But like, the goals were for 2021. So this journal is almost five years old. And the goals I had set for myself. I'm laughing because at one point those goals were big for me. They were big. And looking back, that didn't happen overnight. It actually happened over a four year span. Now, this is not to scare you away from like starting the journey and you're comparing yourself to someone who has been doing this for four or five years, or 10 years, or even a year. At the end of the day, you have to start where you're at. Start where you're at and build up on it. Build the momentum towards the things that you want to change in your life. If one of your goals is to lose weight, okay, start small increments. Set a goal for yourself. Like each week. Maybe your goal is to lose five pounds each week. So a pound a day, Monday through Friday, and then on the weekends you have your cheat days. Or you can break it down within seven days. You know, set within seven days, you lose five pounds. That's just an example. Or your goal could be for the new year. I would love to save X amount of dollars each out of each paycheck. You have to start small. You have to start somewhere. So build up on it. Let the momentum bring you towards the bigger accomplishments and goals that you have for yourself.
