Episode Summary: "Wayne Brady Asks About Using Comedy to Help"
Podcast Information:
- Title: Handsome
- Hosts: Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, Mae Martin
- Episode: Wayne Brady asks about using comedy to help
- Release Date: April 22, 2025
1. Episode Overview
In this thought-provoking episode of Handsome, renowned comedian and television host Wayne Brady poses a compelling question to the hosts: "In the day and age in which we find ourselves, with the government that we find ourselves with and the world being what it is, how do you use your art and your sense of humor to help yourself and to help others?" This inquiry serves as the catalyst for an in-depth discussion on the role of comedy and art in fostering personal well-being and societal connection amidst challenging times.
2. Wayne Brady's Question
Wayne Brady initiates the conversation at [35:05] by asking the central question:
Wayne Brady [35:05]: "In the day and age in which we find ourselves, with the government that we find ourselves with and the world being what it is, how do you use your art and your sense of humor to help yourself and to help others?"
3. Hosts Discuss Using Comedy as a Tool for Healing and Connection
Mae Martin's Insights
Mae Martin delves into the personal and communal aspects of using comedy as a refuge:
Mae Martin [36:07]: "I struggle with... we're on this podcast. I feel like we're kind of a refuge from all that, of just, like, silliness and... it is so unifying and... people feel human and, like, we have shared interests."
She shares her journey of self-expression post-top surgery, emphasizing the importance of visibility and authenticity:
Mae Martin [37:53]: "I wrote it right after that. And so I was like, fuck. In this time in the world... that felt like important to talk about that."
Mae acknowledges the stress and hostility present in current societal climates but underscores the necessity of being true to oneself:
Mae Martin [38:10]: "It felt important... visible to have someone living a happy, confident life and being themselves."
Fortune Feimster's Perspectives
Fortune Feimster emphasizes the importance of levity and selective activism:
Fortune Feimster [43:52]: "I think that do more harm than good. I would rather speak out on things that I'm qualified or at least have experience with."
She discusses the balance between using her platform responsibly and not overstepping into areas where she lacks expertise, promoting positivity without diluting her message:
Fortune Feimster [44:58]: "There's such a nuanced elements... so many different topics that it makes it really difficult."
Thomas Willette's Contribution
Thomas Willette focuses on creating positive and safe spaces through his performances:
Thomas Willette [48:33]: "When you're in those rooms, there is this feeling of just like... it was so nice to provide a space that's positive and happy."
He highlights the empowering effect of shared experiences and collective joy in his tours:
Thomas Willette [48:42]: "That brings me a lot of joy."
4. Wayne Brady's Response and Reflection
Wayne Brady offers his heartfelt response, encapsulating the essence of using humor as a beacon of hope:
Wayne Brady [57:00]: "My aim is to get on stage... bring some light, because if I can make someone else laugh, then I make myself laugh. And for that day, one day at a time, at least for that day, I've got some hope."
5. Challenges of Balancing Activism and Art
The conversation naturally transitions into the complexities of intertwining activism with artistic expression. Mae and Fortune discuss the fine line between using one's platform for advocacy and maintaining artistic integrity without overwhelming their audience:
Mae Martin [41:32]: "...it's walking that fine line of, like, not taking myself too seriously."
Fortune Feimster [43:52]: "I don't believe in speaking on things I'm ignorant about just because I have a platform."
6. Impact of Social Media on Comedy and Activism
The hosts explore the pervasive influence of social media, debating its role in amplifying voices versus fostering superficial interactions:
Mae Martin [51:00]: "People do get their information from social media sometimes."
Fortune Feimster [50:34]: "Social media isn't the only platform... charity events, all sorts of ways."
They critique the often negative and fleeting nature of social media engagements, advocating for more meaningful, real-world contributions:
Unknown [49:22]: "But it's tough, though, because you... donate your time, money, it's almost like it's fine and you're doing a great job as long as you don't have social media."
7. Closing Thoughts and Personal Experiences
As the episode nears its end, the hosts reflect on personal challenges faced while maintaining their comedic roles:
Thomas Willette [58:10]: "Having to dig myself out of this hole and go make people laugh... those have been some trying times."
Mae Martin [59:37]: "Something about being on stage that at least gets you out of... voicing your struggles."
They acknowledge the therapeutic aspect of performing, both for themselves and their audiences, reinforcing the symbiotic relationship between comedy and emotional resilience.
8. Conclusion and Promotions
The episode concludes with the hosts promoting their upcoming shows and encouraging listeners to engage with their content:
Thomas Willette [60:12]: "Check out my social media... watch Feel Good on Netflix."
Mae Martin [60:58]: "Share it with a friend and help us build the handsome community."
They also reiterate their commitment to fostering a supportive and joyful community through their art.
Notable Quotes:
- Wayne Brady [35:05]: "How do you use your art and your sense of humor to help yourself and to help others?"
- Mae Martin [36:07]: "We're kind of a refuge from all that, of just, like, silliness and... it is so unifying."
- Fortune Feimster [43:52]: "I don't believe in speaking on things I'm ignorant about just because I have a platform."
- Thomas Willette [57:37]: "I love that."
This episode of Handsome masterfully intertwines humor with heartfelt discussions on the power of comedy and art in navigating and alleviating personal and societal challenges. The hosts provide a nuanced exploration of their roles as entertainers and activists, offering listeners both laughter and profound insights.