Happy Wife Happy Life - Episode 70: Are We MONSTERS? (Reading Our Hate Comments)
Release Date: June 30, 2025
Hosts: Kendahl Landreth and Jordan Myrick
Introduction: Embracing the Challenge of Hate Comments
In Episode 70 of Happy Wife Happy Life, hosts Kendahl Landreth and Jordan Myrick delve into a particularly challenging aspect of podcasting: dealing with hate comments. As self-proclaimed "deeply in love comedians," Kendahl and Jordan use humor and candid conversation to navigate the often harsh feedback they receive from listeners.
Understanding Their Approach to Hate Comments
Kendahl begins by sharing her unique resilience to negative feedback, attributing it to her background in sketch comedy. She mentions, “I do sketch comedy on the Internet, it's like, I don't really care what anyone has to say” (00:53). This detachment allows her to focus on creating content without being bogged down by criticism. Conversely, Jordan expresses a desire to shield their supportive audience from harmful comments, stating, “I don't like people feeling like they can come to my page... and say something rude about me” (02:14).
First Hate Comment: Spotify's Critique on Their Relationship Dynamics
The hosts open the floor with a comment from Spotify that questions their relationship dynamic:
Spotify Comment:
“Anyone else think their dynamic is dysfunctional and will absolutely lead to problems? Kendall needs to stop the excuses and say, I'm struggling to take this seriously and I'm not ready to work on it. Jordan needs to accept Kendall as she is or leave. If Kendall doesn't care about it, constant worrying and badgering doesn't help, ever.” (06:48)
Kendahl responds thoughtfully, acknowledging the critique while defending their approach:
Kendahl: “I think she's right about you. Here's what she's wrong about me... We're trying to be funny on here.” (07:26)
Jordan adds, “At home, we're not putting on a performance. Like, what are you talking about?” (07:59)
Second Hate Comment: Accusations Related to JoJo Siwa
Reflecting on a past episode involving JoJo Siwa, Kendahl recounts receiving severe accusations accusing her of being a “child predator apologist” (03:10). Both hosts find the comment bewildering and inflammatory:
Jordan: “That's a grifter. Yeah, I think it's just so hard... Jordan is a monster.” (26:15)
They clarify that such accusations are unfounded and stem from misunderstandings or malicious intent.
Third Hate Comment: Feedback from the 'ER Fightmaster' Episode
A listener's feedback from the 'ER Fightmaster' episode criticizes their handling of topics related to prudes:
Listener Comment:
“This episode really turned me off. The yuck. Yucking and shaming and unwillingness to acknowledge that some people aren't prudes really did it for me. And the ongoing underlying tension of the host's unresolved gripes with each other are so uncomfortable to listen to.” (12:54)
Kendahl and Jordan address this by emphasizing their intent not to shame but to engage openly with diverse perspectives about relationships and sexuality.
Fourth Hate Comment: Targeted Attacks on Jordan
Kendahl reveals that many of the negative comments directed at Jordan originate from a single, persistent Reddit user:
Jordan: “Most of the hate comments about me on the Internet are from one specific Reddit user... Jordan is a monster.” (25:50)
They discuss the frustration and futility of dealing with such targeted negativity, reinforcing their commitment to each other despite external criticism.
Fifth Hate Comment: Instagram's Mispronunciation Critique
A playful yet critical comment from Instagram targets Kendahl’s humorous remark about mispronouncing words:
Instagram Comment:
“Who needs haters when you have a frenemy like her?” (40:25)
Kendahl and Jordan take this in stride, showcasing their strong, lighthearted relationship dynamics by joking about each other's quirks.
Sixth Hate Comment: Patreon Unsubscribe Feedback
A patron's exit survey comment expresses disappointment in the podcast's perceived decline:
Patreon Comment:
“This podcast started to get pretty grading pretty quick.” (42:10)
Kendahl empathizes, reflecting on her own critical listening habits, while Jordan finds humor in the unconstructive nature of such feedback.
Insights on Relationship Dynamics and Community Engagement
Throughout the episode, Kendahl and Jordan highlight the importance of open communication and mutual respect in their relationship. They emphasize that disagreements or criticisms within their dynamic are normal and do not reflect their personal feelings toward each other. Additionally, they stress the value of their community, encouraging listeners to contribute to their podcast set with personal items, fostering a sense of shared ownership and connection.
Kendahl:
“We just want to say thank you. It's paying our bills.” (46:42)
Conclusion: Embracing Imperfection and Community Support
Episode 70 serves as a testament to Kendahl and Jordan's resilience and commitment to their relationship and podcast. By addressing hate comments head-on with humor and honesty, they reinforce the show's core message: navigating relationships with love, laughter, and an unwavering support system. Their candid discussions not only humanize them but also provide valuable insights for listeners facing similar challenges in their own relationships.
Notable Quotes with Timestamps:
- Kendahl: “I do sketch comedy on the Internet, it's like, I don't really care what anyone has to say” (00:53).
- Spotify Comment: “If Kendall doesn't care about it, constant worrying and badgering doesn't help, ever.” (07:14).
- Jordan: “This person said, Jordan just nags her.” (08:24).
- Patreon Comment: “This podcast started to get pretty grading pretty quick.” (42:10).
- Jordan: “Jordan is a monster.” (26:15).
- Kendahl: “We just want to say thank you. It's paying our bills.” (46:42).
This episode offers a raw and unfiltered look into how Kendall and Jordan handle negativity, turning potentially harmful interactions into opportunities for growth and reaffirming their commitment to each other and their community. It's a valuable listen for anyone interested in the dynamics of modern relationships and the realities of public-facing creative endeavors.