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Hey, Help Wanted listeners. Today I'm sharing an update on Nicole, my friend and co host of this show. As you know, she's been gone on maternity leave for a few months. And while that is a very happy reason that she's been gone from the show, there is a terrible one, too, that we haven't talked about yet, and that is that Nicole lost her house in the recent Los Angeles fires. Nicole just shared this news on her other podcast, which is a daily show that she hosts herself called Money Rehab. And so today I just want to play you that episode so that you can hear from Nicole directly. She speaks really beautifully about this, even as she is clearly still in so much pain. And I just wanted you to hear everything else directly from her. So here is Nicole from Money Rehab.
Oh, man, Money Rehabbers. A lot has happened since I last talked to you. Oh, my gosh, I already cried. I said I wasn't going to. I haven't even started talking. Okay, so last time I spoke to you, I was nine months, like 10 months pregnant, wrapping my head around a sort of kind of maternity leave. Since then, I did have my baby, a girl. She is beautiful and healthy, and I knew this was going to be a big period of transition and change in my life. I just did not know the extent of it because two weeks after we brought home our baby girl, we lost our home. Our house burned down in the LA fires in the Palisades. I thought, naively, I guess, in retrospect, that I'm pretty calm in a crisis. I've learned to catch many a curveball in a way that you only really can with practice. I mean, this wasn't my first disaster. It was not my first metaphorical fire, at least. But this was nothing. Nothing like I have ever experienced before. The evacuation for us wasn't what it sounded like on tv. We didn't have orderly instructions about what to do. We literally saw the fire from the rooftop of our home and we left as soon as we could. When we evacuated, we left with nothing, literally, the clothes on our backs and our baby in our arms. I grabbed her, not even thinking to pack a bag. I know that sounds crazy. I was hearing this. I would think it was crazy, too. You know, you always say, well, I would take this, or I would take that in case of a fire. And I had that list in my head. But when it happens, you're caught between thinking you'll be back, that it couldn't possibly get to your house, and not thinking at all. I knew, in theory, even before I went through this, what you are supposed to take with you if you're evacuating your home. But again, I thought I would be calm and rational in a crisis. And I also really thought we would be back. But what I could not anticipate was how all of this would feel as a new parent. I had been a mom for all of two whole weeks. I mean, the title still felt weird and new coming out of my mouth. I was still getting used to that feeling of having a piece of your heart beating outside of you, which is a thing a lot of new moms say. And honestly, it's pretty true. It's also true that you immediately feel this protective mama bear instinct as soon as you see your kid for the first time. But if you're lucky, you don't have to act on that mama bear instinct. But I did. And the fire did not give me time to think. I just had to act. And we had to protect her. So I didn't take my wallet, my driver's license, my passport, my birth certificate, my Social Security card. I mean, all the practical things that are like another set of fingerprints, the records that prove you are you. And I didn't take any of the sentimental things I thought I would with me. My father's book that has his signature in it. He died when I was 11. It was my most prized possession and the only thing I had of him. My journals, my poetry press passes from the last 20 years, the glass we broke on our wedding day, anything from my wedding. My wedding dress. Years of keepsakes, years of mementos that are more than just fingerprints. They are all of the things that tell the story of who I am and all I've built. So we evacuated with nothing. And then we just waited to hear if our house was gone or not. And then our neighbor called us with the news, and I thought that was a low point on top of the many low points that you might expect during postpartum. But seeing a video of the remains of our house, I mean, that made it real. And that was the lowest of low. I do want to say I am lucky. I absolutely know that I was able to Find a temporary rental quickly so my family has a roof over our heads, a place to live while we figure it all out. I have incredible, incredible friends. And now that includes people I didn't even know I could call. Friends who jumped into action to help me and my family with things big and small. I have people who listen to the show, who reached out to send me good thoughts and prayers and wishes. My loved ones set up GoFundMe, which we've been using to buy supplies for our daughter. And basically everything we had in our brand new nursery, everything we got from our registry. I know that there are many people that haven't been as lucky, and so I have been digging deep to try my best to do my part and share resources that I find helpful. Being useful, being of service has given me some sense of purpose and meaning through all of this chaos. But I hope I can be honest and vulnerable with you. This has been so hard. Losing my home and everything in it was never on my life bingo card. If you would have asked me for the top 1 million things that could go wrong in postpartum, this would not have been it. And it wasn't just my home. It was my car and our brand new office and our box and our pediatrician. It was the whole town that I built my life around and that I loved. I've lived in 10 cities in 20 years and this one was the first place that felt like home. So all of this is like a surreal kind of grief. Realizing that all of your things are gone in an instant. I keep realizing more and more every day. My night guard for grinding of teeth, that I have to get replaced. The driver's license, the passport. As I've learned, these things are really hard to replace, but they're replaceable. My dad's signature, the glass we broke on our wedding day, those are not. The crazy thing is that it almost feels like you don't know if you still exist. Partly because the paperwork that proves you do exist is gone. My most recent bank statement online lists my old address, though, to all of my bills. It's an address that doesn't have a house standing there anymore. But it is so much more than that, and it is so much heavier than that. In the fire, I lost the memories that I had already planned on making with my daughter. What I thought would be where I thought would be her first steps, her first birthday. Tucking her into her toddler bed that we kept the extension for in the attic when she was big enough. So in all of this, you lose the future that you had planned. And also your past. All of those. All of those irreplaceable things I mentioned. Poetry, the book, the treasures from our wedding. If you lose the artifacts from your past and the ideas from your future, what in the hell is tethering you to reality? I never thought I would tell this kind of story, let alone live it. But here I am, even a month later, still delirious, still running on fumes, still constantly crying, hanging by a mental health thread. And here's the thing. This experience has forced me to face something that I have been avoiding for years. You've heard me say on the show before, you've heard me say on other people's shows that I've always had this deep, complicated relationship with the idea of home. I've often talked about the mean girl inside my head that tells me that I'm going to be broke, alone and homeless. And honestly, I used to think a nicer house, a better space, more stability would fix this deep ache. But this fire literally burned through those illusions. I keep asking myself, where is the lesson? There has to be a lesson. And if I learn anything from all of this horror, it is the idea that home was never going to be solved by a bigger house or nicer stuff. That the gaping wound, the one that made me crave stability so desperately, was something I would have to face head on. So here we are. And maybe, just maybe, one of my favorite poets, Rumi, was right. The wound is the place, the light enters you. So for now, I'm going to focus on finding that light. Finding the gratitude. The gratitude that my family is safe. The gratitude that we have been met with so much kindness and that I am being forced to rebuild not just a home, but the idea of it. That something. Something deeper within myself about the idea of home. I've always felt like I could access something bigger than myself through my work, through this miss that I'm on. So I want to come back while I'm still juggling all of the things that I need to do to put all of the pieces of my life back together. Taking care of my daughter, taking care of myself. But there is also a lot that has happened in the world since we last spoke. So this week I want to help try to make sense of some of the big financial headlines and as always, how you'll be affected. So you will be hearing from me again. No promises that I won't be crying. You'll also hear from some great guest hosts from time to time, too. This feels weird. It feels strange to start to go back to work. I cannot pretend and I cannot lie to you that everything is business as normal. It is not. I am both okay and not okay at the same time. And mostly not okay and super sad right now. But I know I will be more okay than not okay sometime soon. And doing this show and talking to you is a part of my life that gives me so much meaning. It is something that no fire could ever take away from me. So thank you for being part of this rebuilding, this journey. And to everyone else who is going through this, I see you, I love you. I love our hometown. I feel your heartbreak. I feel your grief. And I don't know when, but I promise we will get through this together, one step, one day at a time.
So that's the plan on Money Rehab, as you just heard her say, which you should definitely be subscribing to, by the way. It's a great show. And in the meantime? Well, we don't have an exact plan yet for Help Wanted. I am in regular touch with Nicole, who obviously has bigger things to deal with than podcasts. So for now, you can expect more. Like what you've been hearing here for the past few months. It'll be me and a rotating cast holding down the fort at Help Wanted and being helpful. We love you, Nicole, and we cannot wait to have you back. Help Wanted is a production of Money News Network. Help Wanted is hosted by me, Jason.
Pfeiffer, and me, Nicole Lapin. Our executive producer is Morgan Lavoy. You want some help? Email our helpline at help wanted@moneynewsnetwork.com for the chance to have some of your questions answered on the show. And follow us on Instagram, MoneyNews and TikTokoneyNewsNetwork for exclusive content and to see our beautiful faces. Maybe a little dance?
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All right, well, talk to you soon.
Help Wanted Podcast Episode Summary
Title: A Personal Update From Nicole
Host/Author: Money News Network
Release Date: February 25, 2025
Introduction
In this heartfelt episode of Help Wanted, hosted by Jason Pfeiffer and Nicole Lapin from Money News Network, listeners are treated to a deeply personal update from co-host Nicole Lapin. While the episode initially covers practical financial advice, it transitions into an emotional narrative detailing Nicole's recent life challenges, including maternity leave and the tragic loss of her home in the Los Angeles fires. This summary captures the essence of the episode, highlighting key discussions, insights, and the resilient spirit showcased by Nicole.
1. Smart Financial Tools: NerdWallet and Public
The episode begins with Jason Pfeiffer emphasizing the importance of using reliable financial tools to make informed decisions:
NerdWallet's Card Finder Tool:
Jason Pfeiffer [00:00]: "Using NerdWallet to find the best financial products for you, like credit cards, is more than smart. It's genius because the nerds already did all the research, so it's easy to find the right card for you in minutes."
Jason demonstrates the Card Finder tool, guiding listeners through questions about credit score, desired rewards, upcoming big purchases (like his wedding), and monthly spending. He underscores the efficiency and accuracy of NerdWallet in recommending suitable credit cards tailored to individual needs.
Public Investing Platform:
Nicole Lapin [01:07]: "Public is a modern brokerage that allows you to invest in stocks, options, bonds, ETFs, and crypto all in one place."
Nicole introduces Public as an innovative investment platform that simplifies access to various investment vehicles. She highlights unique features such as self-directed investing in bonds and the ability to make free fractional investments, making bonds accessible with as little as $100—a significant improvement from previous minimums.
2. Personal Update from Nicole Lapin
Transitioning from financial tools, the episode takes a poignant turn as Nicole shares a personal update:
Nicole plays an excerpt from her own podcast, Money Rehab, where she narrates the harrowing experience of losing her home amidst the LA fires just two weeks after welcoming her baby girl. Her narrative is both raw and reflective, offering listeners an intimate glimpse into her struggles and resilience.
3. Nicole’s Journey Through Loss and Recovery
A. The Evacuation and Immediate Aftermath
Nicole recounts the suddenness and chaos of the fire evacuation:
Faced with an imminent threat, Nicole acted instinctively to protect her newborn, leaving behind valuable and sentimental possessions without hesitation.
B. Emotional Impact and Coping Mechanisms
The emotional toll of losing her home is palpable:
She delves into the profound grief associated not just with the loss of material belongings but also the intangible loss of memories and future plans she had envisioned with her daughter.
C. Reflections on the Concept of Home
Nicole introspects on the deeper meaning of "home":
Inspired by poet Rumi, Nicole emphasizes that true home is not defined by physical structures or possessions but by internal strength and support systems.
D. Path to Recovery and Finding Purpose
Despite the overwhelming challenges, Nicole finds solace in community support and purpose:
Her commitment to helping others, even amidst her personal turmoil, highlights her resilience and dedication to the show's mission.
E. Plans for Returning to the Show
Nicole addresses her return to Help Wanted with vulnerability:
She plans to resume hosting duties while balancing her responsibilities as a new mother and rebuilding her life, assuring listeners of her ongoing dedication despite the hardships.
4. Future of the Help Wanted Show
In Nicole's absence, Jason outlines the show's direction:
The show will continue to provide valuable work-related solutions and financial advice, with temporary hosts stepping in to maintain continuity and support for the audience.
5. Conclusion and Community Support
Nicole closes the episode with messages of solidarity and hope:
Her words resonate with empathy and encouragement, fostering a sense of community among listeners who may be facing their own challenges.
Notable Quotes with Timestamps
Jason Pfeiffer [00:00]: "Using NerdWallet to find the best financial products for you, like credit cards, is more than smart. It's genius..."
Nicole Lapin [01:07]: "Public is a modern brokerage that allows you to invest in stocks, options, bonds, ETFs, and crypto all in one place."
Nicole Lapin [03:53]: "We lost our home. Our house burned down in the LA fires in the Palisades..."
Nicole Lapin [06:25]: "This has been so hard. Losing my home and everything in it was never on my life bingo card."
Nicole Lapin [15:45]: "The wound is the place, the light enters you."
Nicole Lapin [16:50]: "Doing this show and talking to you is a part of my life that gives me so much meaning."
Nicole Lapin [17:47]: "I love our hometown. I feel your heartbreak. I feel your grief. And I don't know when, but I promise we will get through this together, one step, one day at a time."
Final Thoughts
This episode of Help Wanted transcends typical advisory content, offering a profound narrative of loss, resilience, and the enduring human spirit. Nicole Lapin's candid sharing serves as both an inspiration and a testament to the strength found in community and purpose. Listeners are not only equipped with financial tools but also uplifted by a story of overcoming adversity with grace and determination.
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