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Jason Pfeiffer (1:53)

This is Help Wanted, the show that makes your work work for you. I'm Jason Pfeiffer, editor in chief of.

Nicole Lapin (1:59)

Entrepreneur Magazine, and I'm money expert Nicole Lap. On Tuesdays, Jason and I answer the helpline and help callers solve their work problems.

Jason Pfeiffer (2:07)

And on Thursdays, I give you one way to improve your work and build a career or company you love.

Nicole Lapin (2:12)

And it starts now.

Jason Pfeiffer (2:14)

You know what you want, but it doesn't make you happy. Maybe you reached a goal, but it wasn't as satisfying as you expected. Or you're chasing a goal, but it feels perpetually out of reach. Either way, now you feel stuck. Today, I'm going to share the antidote, which I call say yes to More than what you want. It is a way of thinking beyond your immediate goals so you aren't trapped by them. When you do this, when you say yes to more than what you want, you will find more satisfaction, more opportunity, and you become less attached to any one outcome. Frankly, it is the secret to my own happiness. Today I'll show you how to do it. But first, let's look at someone who didn't follow this advice. I met my friend Tim in 2009 when we were both low level magazine editors. He had a dream of working for one specific magazine and every career step that he took was designed to get him there. And you know what? It worked. A few years later, he got his dream job. And then he discovered that it was terrible. The hours were awful, the culture was rotten, the boss was impossible to work with. He was constantly overworked and disappointed. But he stayed for years. This is where I've always wanted to be, he would explain to me, even as it made him miserable. This is the trap of hyper specific goals. The way I see it, Tim followed the classic advice. He identified a goal, then he worked to achieve it. But there's a problem. That advice does not account for variables. Goals may not be achievable, or if you achieve them, they may not be as satisfying as you hoped. In pursuit of goals, we often say yes to a small number of things and no to a lot more. It is time to fix that. You need to say yes to more than what you want. Why? Three reasons. Reason number one, you're accounting for the possibility that you won't always get what you want. Number two, you're spreading out your emotional investment so any single failure or disappointment will feel less devastating. And reason number three, you're giving yourself more chances to succeed. To do all this, we need to dig deeper into what you really want. And here's how to do that. Before you say yes, you must ask why. Let me tell you about something called the why Test. It was created by Emily Hayward, co founder of a branding agency called Red Red Antler. Red Antler is the engine behind Hinge, All Trails, Ramp, Supergoop and more. They do incredible work. And you know what they say on their site is our work isn't done until people can't imagine life without you. So Emily Hayward's job is really to create incredible branding, which means that she must know and understand why any particular brand is meaningful to its customers. And so she created a little exercise to help her and her team accomplish this. And here's how it goes. Exercise is this. Number one, you start by describing a brand's core product. Number two, you ask, why does that core product matter? And then number three, you take whatever the answer was to the question you just asked, why does that matter? And then you ask it again. Well, okay, why does that matter? Then get an answer and do it again. Why does that matter? Until you reach something meaningful. For example, let's say that Red Antler is working on a brand that makes high quality running shoes, right? That's a client of theirs. They've got some high quality running shoe brand that comes to Red Antler and says, help us improve our branding. Make us connect with consumers. Okay, well, Red Antler might ask, number one, why do these shoes matter? The answer is, because runners need reliable, comfortable shoes. Now let's ask it again. Why does it matter that runners need reliable, comfortable shoes? Well, because when runners have the right shoes, they perform better and avoid injuries. Great. Okay, why does that matter? Well, because when runners can focus, they push personal limits and feel unstoppable.