Helping Friendly Podcast Episode Summary
Episode: Ray Paczkowski — LaMP, Soule Monde, TAB
Release Date: March 18, 2025
Host/Author: Osiris Media
I. Introduction and Special Guest
In this episode of the Helping Friendly Podcast (HFPod), hosts Tom and Megan welcome their special guest, Ray Paczkowski, to discuss his musical projects, including his band LaMP, collaborations, and upcoming tours. The episode begins with a heartfelt segment addressing the absence of their colleague, Brian, who is enjoying his spring break. The hosts play a listener's voicemail suggesting that Brian might be in Missoula, Montana, celebrating his birthday away from the podcast's studio.
Brian: "I'm on spring break. So, you know, all smiles for me." [01:27]
Alex (Listener Voicemail): "If it was Brian, then I regret not saying hello or introducing myself and letting you know how much I love the show." [02:41]
II. Introduction to Ray Paczkowski and LaMP
Ray Paczkowski joins the conversation to shed light on his band LaMP and their latest endeavors. Ray outlines the band's upcoming tour schedule, emphasizing their presence in key cities like New York, Chicago, and various festivals across Florida and Asbury Park. The hosts express excitement about Ray's projects and his contributions to the music scene.
Tom: "So, Ray, you'll be in New York on Thursday, the 20th, D.C. on the 21st, and then Kingston, New York, on the 22nd..." [05:00]
III. Discussion of New Album "One of Us"
The conversation delves into LaMP's new album, "One of Us," highlighting its evolution from their first, more groove-based record to a more intentional and polished production. Megan explains the band's refined songwriting process post-COVID, emphasizing collaborative efforts and shared ideas that led to a more focused sound.
Megan: "We definitely had more of a process than the first one was... the interaction even, you know, in sharing files sort of gave the music more of an intention." [07:14]
Brian: "It's really exciting. You can hear there's a really nice mix to the songs there... It sounds awesome." [08:41]
IV. Songwriting and Musical Collaboration
Ray and Megan discuss the band's collaborative approach to songwriting, where ideas are freely exchanged and developed individually before being woven into cohesive tracks. They emphasize the importance of each member's contribution, particularly Scott's intentional melodies and Russ's rhythmic grooves.
Megan: "It's just like three people getting together in the garage basically and saying this sounds good to me. And we're all sort of like minded in that way." [10:58]
Brian: "I think you can really hear that when you play live. It's very communicative and it just feels very tight between the three of you." [12:02]
V. Live Performance and Musical Dynamics
The hosts explore how LaMP's music translates from studio recordings to live performances. Megan compares the ease of playing with the band to wrapping oneself in a "down comforter," highlighting the effortless synergy among members.
Megan: "It's like getting into a down comforter on a cold day. It's so effortless." [13:51]
Brian: "You can definitely hear that. I think the effortlessness is really something that comes across." [14:20]
VI. Transition and Band Evolution
A significant portion of the discussion addresses the band's evolution following the passing of Tony, a key member. Megan shares how Dez seamlessly integrated into LaMP, maintaining the band's foundational sound while honoring Tony's legacy.
Megan: "Dez... was already like family because we've been playing together for a long time... he was a monstrous bass player." [30:30]
Brian: "It seemed like the way the chemistry between him and the rest of the band was really evident, like, right away." [32:01]
VII. Touring and Upcoming Shows
LaMP's extensive tour schedule is highlighted, with performances spanning intimate venues like Dharma Bums in New Hope to larger stages at festivals and theaters. The hosts discuss the band's adaptability to various settings, ensuring each performance remains engaging and true to their musical identity.
Megan: "We think about it the same way... musically, just depending on what, what we're all hearing, that's what we're going to play." [17:39]
Tom: "You guys have been part of TAB now for what, 25 years? Ish." [25:24]
VIII. Personal Relationships and Band Dynamics
The episode touches on the deep personal connections within the music community, highlighting Megan's long-term collaboration with Russ and the seamless integration of Scott into their musical partnership. The camaraderie and mutual respect among band members are evident, fostering a creative and supportive environment.
Megan: "It's just like finding a new brother, you know, new family member. It's really, it's just wonderful." [20:32]
Brian: "It's so amazing to have a partnership like that, to have someone you've been playing music with for so long." [24:48]
IX. Conclusion and Final Remarks
As the episode wraps up, the hosts announce the release of "One of Us" on the upcoming Friday, encouraging listeners to pre-order and explore the album. They extend their gratitude to Ray Paczkowski for sharing insights about LaMP and tease future episodes, including a deep dive into the song "Light."
Tom: "The album does come out on Friday... You can pre-order now and you can check out everything at the website." [32:33]
Brian: "This has been really fun. Thank you so much, Ray." [35:50]
Notable Quotes:
- Megan: "It's like getting into a down comforter on a cold day. It's so effortless." [13:51]
- Brian: "It's really exciting. You can hear there's a really nice mix to the songs there." [08:41]
- Megan: "We definitely had more of a process than the first one was." [07:14]
- Megan: "Dez... was already like family because we've been playing together for a long time." [30:30]
This episode provides an in-depth look into Ray Paczkowski's musical journey with LaMP, offering listeners a comprehensive understanding of the band's creative processes, emotional transitions, and future aspirations. Whether you're a longtime fan or new to their music, this conversation encapsulates the essence of collaborative artistry and the enduring spirit of musical camaraderie.