Highest Self Podcast®

Episode 633: Sex Magic Secrets – Power Play with Mia Magik
Date: December 16, 2025
Host: Sahara Rose
Guest: Mia Magik

Episode Overview

This boundary-pushing, deeply personal, and revelatory episode explores the intersection of sacred sexuality, ritual, and reclaiming feminine power with Mia Magik, Sahara’s long-time friend and witchcraft educator. Together, Sahara and Mia discuss how ancient “witch wounds” and cultural programming affect sexuality, why sex is fundamental to the spiritual path, and how sex magic, ritual, and vulnerability can lead to powerful healing and transformation.

The conversation is both practical and raw—delving into taboo topics like sacred pegging, energetic de-armoring, ancestral traumas, and healing via play and ritual in the bedroom. Mia candidly shares intimate details of her relationships and transformative practices. Throughout, Sahara and Mia emphasize that sexual energy, when honored and harnessed intentionally, is the most potent force for creation and growth—not only for individuals, but for the collective.

Key Themes & Discussion Points

1. The Witch Wound and Reclamation of Feminine Power

• Introduction to the Witch Wound

  • The "witch wound" is an ancestral trauma passed down from the persecution of spiritual women and indigenous ways, resulting in present-day fear, shame, and suppression of the feminine—creativity, sexuality, nature, and emotions.
  • (Mia, 06:37) "The witch wound is the ancestral, epigenetic, energetic and spiritual injury that we all have from the result of the Abrahamic religions eliminating and wiping out all of the indigenous traditions, healers, stories, dances, languages."

• Modern-Day Effects

  • Manifesting as fear of sensuality, creativity, nature, and authentic sisterhood.
  • societal narratives encourage self-abandonment, competition, and disconnection among women.
  • (Sahara, 11:24) "You could create that story of girls are just drama...and it's not worth having friends. This exact wound..."

• Reclaiming the Witch Archetype

  • To be a witch today is to embody ancient wisdom, sustainable living, embodiment, and radical authenticity—regardless of one's path (artist, healer, podcaster, etc.).
  • "The modern witch as an archetype is so much more just how we live our lives. It’s not what we’re doing, it’s how we’re living it." (Mia, 14:46)

2. Sacred Sexuality: The Serpent, Ritual, & the Feminine

• Sacred Symbolism

  • The serpent is a reclaimed symbol of feminine life force and transformation, not evil—its image vilified by patriarchal religions which suppressed the feminine, menstrual blood, rebirth, and union.
  • (Mia, 16:04) "Snakes have been part of indigenous wisdom... It represents divine union within and has represented that eternal cycle of life, death and rebirth..."

• Personal Integration & Snake Initiation

  • Sahara recounts moving from fear of the “snake”/shadow into embracing and embodying this energy as part of the feminine spiritual journey.
  • (Sahara, 22:08) "I went from being afraid of the snake, not knowing about the snake, the betrayal, to seeing it in the eye...to integrating that snake...dancing with the snake, creating art for the snake and become the snake."

• Ritual as Daily Practice

  • Ritual isn’t performance—it’s about intentionality and presence in every act, particularly in intimacy.
  • "Every act of our existence (can be) living ritual." (Mia, 15:32)

3. Relationship as Spiritual Preparation and Healing

• Preparation through Ritual and Self-Work

  • Healing inner blocks is essential before calling in conscious partnership.
  • "I pray for the clarity or the direction or the healing of whatever that block is..." (Mia, 25:40)

• The New Paradigm of Love

  • There’s liberation in fully experiencing love without "forever" expectations; the pressure-free dynamic creates deeper safety and authenticity.
  • "Maybe the fact that the pressure isn’t there...I’m bringing to him literally anything." (Mia, 27:32)

4. Sex Magic & Rituals: Deep Healing and Alchemy

• Transformative Sexual Practices

  • Mia describes sacred sexual rituals done with her partner:

    • Psychodrama for trauma healing (re-enacting past transgressions safely)
    • Using her partner’s body for yoni de-armoring (with chanting and somatic release)
    • Alt-roles (Mommy/Daddy, switching dominance/submission) for deepened intimacy and play
    • Sacred pegging as a practice of integrating masculine/feminine energy

  • (Mia, 40:48) "We've been doing is psychodrama to heal the abuse...played out some of the situations where there's been violation and letting one or the other say what they needed to say..."

• Energetic Presence & Attunement

  • Authentic, healing sex magic focuses on sensation, presence, and co-creation, not performance.
  • "Are you actually feeling the sensation...or are you numb? And okay, if you’re feeling numb, what about just stopping and (saying), 'Can you just breathe with me right here?'" (Mia, 76:55)

• Sexual Healing Leads to Self-Love

  • The radical self-acceptance that comes from embodying both sides of oneself (masculine & feminine) and being received in full vulnerability by a partner.
  • (Mia, 91:20) "Have yourself 100% and believe that I’m lovable, believe that I’m worthy of love, believe that I’m...these wild parts of me and these crazy things I’m into...it’s medicine."

5. Boundaries, Authenticity & Raising Standards

• Radical Honesty as Magnetic

  • Being wholly oneself is the only way to attract the right partner for true intimacy ("let your freak flag fly").
  • This means risking aloneness or rejection, but the reward is transformative love.
  • (Sahara, 92:09) "So when you are so radically yourself, it’s a no, no, no, no, no for all these people...But then that person who’s like, ‘Oh, I’m interested in that...’"

• Setting & Communicating Clear Boundaries

  • Personal standards and needs should be expressed, not hidden for approval.
  • (Mia, 89:46) "If you don’t have boundaries…it makes men respect you because there are going to be a lot of women who are just going to let them do whatever they want."

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Sacred Sexuality & Power:

  • "Sexual energy is not just about having a baby...It’s the creation of all of life. It’s what made two atoms have this desire to merge together."
    — Sahara (04:00)

• On Ritual in Intimacy:

  • "Every act of our existence (can be) living ritual."
    — Mia (15:32)

• On Healing & Integration:

  • "To love myself, and I learned to be loved."
    — Mia (63:17)

• On Modern Relationships & Letting Go:

  • “...What I’ve learned…is like, these moments you will remember on your deathbed for sure…He will always be a part of your life story…”
    — Sahara (63:10)

• On Authenticity in Love:

  • “Are you going to hide your stories from them? Are you going to self-abandon?”
    — Sahara (96:41)

Important Timestamps

• 00:00–04:30: Sahara’s introduction: sexuality as the spiritual frontier
• 06:37–14:45: Mia explains the witch wound, its impact, and the modern witch archetype
• 22:08–25:39: Sahara’s personal “snake initiation”; symbol of the serpent in spiritual awakening
• 27:32–34:32: Mia discusses partnership, pressure-free love, and feminine safety
• 40:48–47:18: Sex rituals for healing trauma, including psychodrama and yoni de-armoring
• 58:01–67:03: Integration of ritual, masculine/feminine energy, and sexual self-practice
• 76:55–89:46: Mia’s advice: making sex intentional; importance of honesty, sovereignty, and boundaries
• 91:20–100:00: Sex magic as a path to sovereignty and self-love

Actionable Takeaways & Rituals

• Start with Vulnerability: Begin sexual or intimate rituals by openly expressing fears, desires, and needs (“Layla practice”).
• Eye Gazing & Breathwork: Try yab yum (seated facing positions) and microcosmic orbits for energetic and heart connection.
• Make Sex a Ritual: Set intentions together before intimacy. Use touch, tone, and presence with attention and intention.
• Honor Authenticity: Be yourself—even your wild/weirdest self—from the start. This filters out the wrong matches quickly.
• Raising Standards Through Self-Work: Do inner healing to raise your standards—attract partners who value transformation and growth.

Closing Thoughts

This raw, honest conversation between Sahara and Mia demonstrates that healing sexuality is core to spiritual evolution and collective transformation. By courageously reclaiming shame, learning through ritual, and embodying one’s full wildness, new alchemical forms of erotic love are possible—where sexual energy becomes the deepest source of healing, magic, and personal power.

Connect & Learn More:

• Find Sahara Rose on Instagram: @iamsahararose
• Mia Magik’s new book “Witchual” is out now (details in show notes)
• Join Rose Gold Goddesses for sisterhood and ritual: rosegoldgoddesses.com

“These realms exist. And there’s nothing deeper than sexuality.”
— Sahara Rose (49:00)

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