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Welcome to How I Built this, a show about innovators, entrepreneurs, idealists and the stories behind the movements they built. I'm Guy Raz and on the show today, how a bad experience in a big box baby store led Natalie Gordon to build an alternative a website that grew into one of the most popular registries in the country, Babylist. Babies need a lot of stuff changing Tables, changing pads, car seats, cribs, strollers, bouncers. It's endless. But what do new parents actually need? Which products are worth it? And where do you even start? Well, back in 2010, Natalie Gordon was asking those very same questions. She was pregnant with her first child, living in Vancouver and working as a software engineer. And like a lot of experience parents, she didn't have much time or money to waste. The baby stores were overwhelming. Too many brands, too many shelves. And baby registries. They only worked with specific retailers, so you couldn't mix and match from different stores. So Natalie decided to fix it. She quit her job and started building the kind of registry she wanted, one that included everything from traditional gifts to practical help, like a diaper service or a friend walking your dog while you adjust to life with a newborn. And what made Babylist different was that Natalie was building it while living it. She was a new mom, writing every line of code during nap times and solving problems for herself and other parents at the same time. Since its launch, Babylist has grown into one of the most popular baby registries in the US with its own retail shop, product reviews and educational content. Nearly 100 million gifts have been given through the site, and annual annual sales are estimated at over half a billion dollars. As for Natalie, she grew up in Ontario in Canada. She was a pretty good student, and in college she studied math and computer science. In the early 2000s, she landed her first job at Amazon just as the company was at a critical turning point.
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It was a really great time to be at Amazon. I really was part of the founding team for Amazon Fresh, which was so hard. It was like the normal Amazon order had two items and Amazon Fresh had 100 items because it was groceries. There were just all of these problems to solve.
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Yeah. And I mean, you were there from 2004, 2008, and people like, think of Amazon as like, you know, this 800 pound gorilla that's been like that since the day it started. But at that time, I mean, yes, Amazon was already certainly a significant, a big company, but it was still, it wasn't as mainstream as it is now. Like in 2004, five, six, like, not everybody, in fact, probably most people were still not ordering lots of stuff from Amazon. If they ordered stuff, it was books, it was books.
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They were just going into music. A lot of the cultural elements of like, what make Amazon were there, but they were absolutely the upstart. Like, truthfully, getting a job at Microsoft was much more prestigious than getting a job at Amazon at that time in Seattle.
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Yeah, wow. So tell me. I mean, you're at. You have this great job, you're getting equity, getting stock options. You know, like, what happens four years in? Are you burned out? What's going on?
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I made myself a promise when I took the job because I had really. I gone from high school to college. I hadn't taken any summers off. I had been in this internship program that I really wanted to see the world. I really, really wanted to travel. And so that was really what I was, why I left. I was really excited about traveling in Latin America, learning Spanish. And so with my boyfriend at the time, in this trip that was about a year and a half, we ended up living in three places in Havana, Cuba, Medellin, Colombia, and then Oaxaca, Mexico.
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And how long did you guys travel?
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It was. The trip was about a year and a half.
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Wow.
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And then at the very end of it, we got married.
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Okay, I got it. Okay. So while you're on this trip, I guess you get an idea for. Cause you have to do something, right. You can't. I mean, you quit. But clearly in the back of your mind, you must be thinking, hey, I'm, you know, going to do something when I'm done with it. Like, I'm. And so what. What did you come up with?
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Well, not. Not at all. Like, I don't think I ever thought of myself as an entrepreneur. The first place we were was Havana, Cuba. And at that time, there was very limited access to the Internet there. And so it was actually this total digital detox where I was learning Spanish all day, like, walking to the University of Havana, really exploring that city, making some friends. And I started feeling really excited that I wanted to build something. And my actual framing for it was I went to college for four years. I worked at Amazon for four years. And, like, I don't actually know how to build an app or a website from end to end, like, where you're setting up the web server and the database and choosing the language. And so that was. And it felt like a gap. It felt like something that I had some imposter syndrome over. And so that was the thing I was excited to do.
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So. Yeah, tell me more about what you started to think about.
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Yeah, so I had a lot of ideas, but the thing that was really true in that trip was I was getting the most benefit from meeting Spanish speakers and actually practicing my Spanish. And there were so many people who really wanted to talk to me because they themselves were learning English, and they were so motivated to learn English. And so it'd be Called an intercambio, where you would speak Spanish for 20 minutes, they would kind of correct some of your pronunciation, and then you would talk in English for 20 minutes. And so it was like, oh, like, there's all these people who want to do this. And so like, that was the vision. The vision was a place you could go online. You could click a button and actually have this real practice with a native speaker, specifically for Spanish and English.
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Got it. Okay. And what did you call it?
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It was called Lung guajero.
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Okay. And so when this trip ended, did you. Did you guys go back to Seattle? Did you go back to Canada to start this?
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I started it on the trip. Okay. So me and my partner August, it's something that we started together.
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You started Code. Code a website, basically.
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Code a website. And then I remember we launched it once. We lived in Oaxaca, and then it was. It was live for a number of months. So it was actually like one of the main things we did during that entire trip.
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And you would basically recruit teachers and I guess pay them. I mean, I know the model today, but was that the model then?
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Yeah, in this case, it was all about the peer to peer learning. And so it was go search who's online right now, see what their interests are, and click a button and see.
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If they want to talk to you and you guys. And then it would cost. There would be, like, a fee, and then you guys would get a part of that fee or all that fee, something like that.
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Well, the biggest problem with this is there was no business model. And so, like, maybe that would make sense, but in this case, like, it never really was set up to make money. In its top month, it only ever made $40. And so we. To me, I even feel bad about calling it a startup. Like, it felt like a project that I was really excited to do.
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But this project really consumed you, right? Like, this became something that you really wanted to turn into something with traction. How were people receiving it? I mean, were you. I mean, first of all, how are you getting the word out?
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I think we partnered with podcasts. There were language learning communities and groups on Facebook. It was pretty grassroots. And there it had thousands of users, and there were some real power users who absolutely loved it.
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Okay, so you're working on this, and how are you earning money at the time?
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So I had saved up so much money from Amazon, so this entire time it was really living off of savings and living in Latin America. It was cheaper than living in Seattle.
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Yeah, fair enough. So, all right, so you are working on this Project. Meantime, I think around 2010 or maybe earlier, you've become pregnant and you're gonna have a baby. Right. And you and August at this point are married.
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Yeah, we got married in early 2010, at the very tail end of this trip. And then we knew we wanted to move back somewhere, get back into life, and chose to move back to Canada. Yeah, we were living in Vancouver, which was a new city to me. I was doing contract work, so I was actually working again. I was consulting for a startup down in the Bay Area. And yeah, we. I was pregnant with my first son. It was like a pretty crappy time. Like, we lived in a really crappy house that was like, on a slant. The day after I found out I was pregnant, and when I started to feel nauseous, I found a bedbug, like, and then had to do all of the fumigation. I didn't really feel like I had friends. And I felt like life was really changing. And I really hated the work. I was doing this consulting work. It was that time period, I'm sure you remember, where on Facebook, everyone was playing FarmVille. Facebook had opened up their API. So I was writing code every day that spammed Facebook for other people? Yeah, for, like, for a. For another company that. And no one was even really using their product. They wanted people to use their product. And so the solution was to make it go viral by spamming Facebook. And so that's what I was doing all day.
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So miserable. Just kind of like you hate. You were hating this. Meantime you got. You were pregnant. And I guess, I mean, and this is the thing, like, and this happens to a lot of people when you start to have a family. Like, all of a sudden a whole world opens up to you that you hadn't seen before. You start to see things. I remember this when my first son, who's now when he was born, all of a sudden just the world looks different. First of all, you start to notice babies and strollers and playgrounds. I never even knew there were playgrounds in my neighborhood. I remember 17, 18 years ago, we were living, and I was like, oh, there are playgrounds everywhere. And you're in this world where you're going to become a parent, not happy with what you're doing, having these skills, working on this website or this project, the Spanish English project, that's kind of not going anywhere. And I guess you start to think about other possibilities. Tell me about what's going on in your. In your head at that time.
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So a couple things lined up. One of Them was I read the book the Lean Startup by Eric Reiss. I've never talked to him, but so influential in my life because I read the book and it's like it was titled Natalie, here's everything you did wrong with languagero.
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Here's your manual for life.
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Yeah. Massively influential book. He really describes also like a software engineer's mindset and how they get it wrong. Where the solution is to build new features, where he really is introducing this new way to build something. And I was like, I want another at bet. Like I see everything I did. That really is why languagehero didn't work. I would love to do this all again and really use this as my bible and like the way I would build something.
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Okay. And I think at this point you and August actually decide to shut LanguageHaro down. Like it's kind of run its course and it comes to an end. Right. And then meanwhile you're in Vancouver and you're doing this coding job. Right?
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Yeah. So I was now really getting prepared for having a baby and I was gonna have a baby shower. I had a best friend, my sister in law, both lived in Vancouver. They were like, you need to create a baby registry.
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Yeah.
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So the way you do that is you would walk into Baby's R Us and they would give you a scan gun and you'd walk around and it was this big box experience. I walked in, it was immediately overwhelming.
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Just thousands of things in the.
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I remember thousands of things.
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So they would give you a scanner. See, I did. There you go. I mean, that's all you need to know. I never did that. I don't think my wife didn't either. But you'd go in with a scanner gun.
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Yeah. They give you a scanner gun and.
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You just scan the UPC or whatever the code. Right. The barcode on the back.
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Yeah. And it would be like, I'm in the bottle section. There's hundreds of products here. There's hundreds of nipples and bottles. Like, which bottle should I get?
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You needed to hire a consultant to come with you to tell you what to do. Like an hourly paid consultant.
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And I think it's money was really tight for us. Like I was doing this consulting work. August was in in school and I felt this real pressure, like I wanted to really make sure we got the stuff we needed. I didn't want to make mistakes, I didn't want to try things out. I didn't have the money for a consultant. And so in this Baby's R Us experience, like I walked in And I think I did not even add one item to my registry. I put the scan gun down and I, like, walked out in tears. And I've heard that story from so many people in these good old days when there were so many baby stores around. Like, that's kind of like what it was like.
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Yeah.
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And I was like, I know exactly the baby registry I would want. And that's the thing that I was really excited to, like, now build still again, as, like, a really fun project. Like, much less like, oh, this is the company I'm now going to work on for 15 years.
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All right, so, okay, so you have this experience, and was it immediately revelatory to you? Was it like a light bulb moment or did it kind of percolate for some time and, and. And get you thinking there, you know, like, there's be a better way to do this.
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Yeah, I thought a baby registry, it's a list of products. You can go buy the products. But I could see exactly how I wanted it to work. And so one example is they all looked terrible. They were pink and blue with giraffes. It felt embarrassing to send that out to family and friends. I was like, I want this to actually feel modern and to feel cool to send out. I really wanted it to work across retailers. Most baby registries were single store registries, and so you could only add items from Baby's R Us. And then you'd have a second registry for Amazon.com or there were a couple, like, general universal wish lists where you could add items from a few sites, but it would be a wish list. And I wanted to ask for these other things. So we had a dog. We had adopted her in Mexico, Pasa. And it was like, if someone could walk her every morning, like, that's such a meaningful gift. In retrospect, this was a terrible idea, but I was very into cloth diapering. Like, I thought cloth diapering was like, the right thing to do. The cloth diaper service, it cost $60 a month, which was a lot of money. And so if someone could be like, we'll get you February for your cloth diapering service and $60, that felt amazing. And so I just. So what it felt like is I knew exactly what needed to be built. I think my aspirations for it at the time were like, oh, maybe this will be a great side hustle and it could make some passive income and like, always kind of be on. So it would be, like, worth me building it, because maybe then over many years, it'll make a little Bit of money.
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All right, so let's go back to kind of just this idea is germinating. Right. Which is you had this experience that babies are us. Right. The problem is that many expecting parents know they need a lot of junk. Okay? Stuff. I shouldn't say junk. They need stuff, but they don't know exactly what it is they need because they're all of it. No one teaches you how to be a parent. Like, all of a sudden you're like, oh, we're going to be parents in nine months and how do we do that? And then, like, the baby's born and you go home from the hospital. Like, I remember it. You remember. You're like, okay, I guess we gotta just figure it out.
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I talk to people, particularly people who are interviewing to be employees here, and they're like, well, I don't have any kids. And I'm like, yeah, neither do our users. Our users don't know what any of this stuff is.
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They're the ones who are buying the gifts for the. The expecting parent.
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In this case, our users are the expecting parent. Like, they. I remember not knowing. What is a diaper bag? Why is a diaper bag different than a backpack? What is actually a diaper pail? Is that just an expensive garbage can? Like, I had all of these very, very basic questions.
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Yeah. A diaper changing table. Why do you need that? Well, you do, because then the baby's not gonna roll off. You need that diaper, you know, that sort of half moon shape.
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Yeah. Do you need a crib and a bassinet?
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Yeah.
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How does your car seat work with your stroller? Like, there's so many questions.
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You need the baby swing, you need the Harvey carp tapes, the F7s's or whatever they are. You need it all, but you don't really know. Right. And so you knew that that's a problem. But the other thing is, if I'm understanding your thought process correctly, is that you wanted other stuff, like maybe cloth. Cloth diaper service. And it would be cool if, like, one friend could fund that for a month and then another friend could fund it for another. So you wanted, like, more than just the stuff you wanted. Optionality, like, ways for people to help you with other things that you would need as an early pet, like in the early days or in the first place.
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And I wanted the family and friends who were getting you those things to feel like they were getting you a great gift.
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Yeah. All right, so you're pregnant, you're doing consulting work, and on the side, you start to write the code. And it's just you, like, tapping your fingers on the keys furiously. Not furiously. Intensely working on this thing.
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Yeah. So I ended up quitting my consulting job. I truly, at the very beginning, when I had the idea, I thought, I can get this done in one week. And that wasn't true. I think it was maybe one month before I actually made the MVP go live. So I was really, really taking this minimal viable product seriously.
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A logistical question. You had the hard skills, you knew how to do the engineering. But there's a difference. Right. Not everybody, not every engineer knows how to do a user interface. Right. How to design a beautiful page. Were you able to also do that yourself?
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Well, that's so I. I knew I couldn't do that part myself. I brought on a designer and she did that. And so I posted to this online forum about the project and that I was looking for a designer. I think I had one real response, and it was from this woman, Lindsay, a design student in the Philippines. And so we partnered on this first version of it.
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Got it. Okay. And how many hours a day were you working on this?
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I was probably working like 10 hours a day.
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Yeah.
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Some other things I had really what you asked, like, how did people learn about languagero?
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Right.
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In this case, I was like, distribution. Like, I need to figure that out. This is gonna be the hardest thing is how do people find this?
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Yes.
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And so I remember it felt so uncomfortable to do. I was avoiding it and avoiding it. So I forced myself to go to a coffee shop and say, you can't leave this coffee shop until you've sent 10 emails to 10 bloggers that you're going to launch this thing in the next couple of months. And for each of them, I created a registry, which products, like, products that they themselves recommended or would like. So there was an Ecomom website. So I put a lot of green products on it. There was a design mom, blogger. I put a lot of MoMA products on it so they could really see that this worked and you could really express yourself because you could choose products from any store. And then launch was the very beginning of February 2011, and there was a really popular discussion board for technologists that works like Reddit called Hacker News. And so I posted to Hacker News, I'm a pregnant hacker. Please review my side project. And it just linked to baby list.
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Got it. Okay. So you launched this In February of 2011, just a couple weeks before your son is born. It's a minimum viable version of this. So it's a Bare bones version. But how did you have products available? I mean, you are. It's you and a coder or a designer in the Philippines, like, you're at that time. And I don't mean this pejoratively, but you're a nobody, right? You don't have any deep connections to, you know, Hasbro or, you know, like, Gerber or whatever these companies are. How are you selling anything?
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Yeah, we didn't need any store's permission. If you had a website, like, the baby list button would work. And then what it looked like to the gift giver is you would tell Babylist you were going to buy the item, and then you would click over to the actual website that sold the item, and then you would buy it as normal.
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And would you. At that point, would you get an affiliate fee? Or were those programs not fully realized yet?
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As Babylist was launching, I think I started to apply to affiliate programs.
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Got it.
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You come to my registry, you click over to Target to buy a $100 stroller. Then target would pay us some percentage, let's say 5%. So we'd receive $5 of whatever you bought because we referred the traffic to Target, and it's a part of their marketing spend. And so that was the original business model for Babylist.
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Hmm. And how many of those bloggers that you wrote to, or I mean, did most of them write about it?
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Five of the ten bloggers wrote about the launch. It was fantastic. One of them started to rank for best baby registry in SEO, so in Google. And that was also the steady stream of traffic that drove baby list registries for many years, but particularly in that first year, like a couple every day.
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All right, so now you find yourself a mom with a newborn and a startup, and you're running your second startup, and it's already getting a little bit of traction, you know, I mean, you know, in the. In the first days and weeks after you launch. So walk me through the first few months of Max's life while you are, you know, you're with him, I think, right. Probably mostly on your own. Tell me about how you were doing that.
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I really wanted to stay home with Max for, like, up to a year. And August was going to university in Vancouver. It was actually, like, a very difficult time. It was very isolating. It was very lonely. Max was like a Velcro baby. He needed to be held all of the time. And I feel. Even saying all of this, like, I feel like I need to caveat, like. And he's literally the most wonderful 14 year old and like, it was. But at that time, it was like, this is what the next 18 years of my life is gonna be like. Like, what have we done? It was winter in Vancouver. I was home all day. And for me, like, Babyliss was this really interesting thing I could think about.
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Yeah.
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And I had a goal in those first couple of months, which is, I want to spend 45 minutes a day on this. If I can spend 45 minutes a day on this, like, that's a really good day.
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It sounds to me like it was almost like it gave you this structure that you craved, that you, like, really needed.
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It was structure, and it was also so fun, and it was actually going really well. So in the 45 minutes, I could close a door, which was our second bedroom, which was an office, I would fix two bugs that customers had mentioned. I could answer five customer support emails. Maybe I would email a blog. And compared to Linguajero, in its second month, it made $140. And so it was just so clear that this was actually really working, which.
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I should say many startup founders would find very discouraging. But based on your previous experience, where the best month you had with linguajara was $40, you're thinking, hey, there's some traction here.
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It was, hey, the really hard parts about this, it's people learning about it. And so when it was making $140 a month, it was actually just from a handful of registries, maybe 10 registries. And so it was so, wow, like, this is going to make more money if there's 10 times more registries. Although it was only $140. Yeah, it was really clear it could.
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Get much bigger when we come back in just a moment. As Babyliss starts to catch on, Natalie realizes how hard it is to hire people and fire them. Stay with us. I'm Guy Raz, and you're listening to how I built this. Ever had one of those afternoons where your brain just quits on you? You're sluggish, hangry, maybe even a little foggy. What if it's your glucose? See, glucose is an energy currency for your mind and body. When it's stable, you're on point. When it crashes, so can you. That's why lingo is so interesting. Lingo is a glucose wearable designed to help you connect the dots between your glucose and what you eat and how you move and how you feel. It shows your glucose data in real time. Instead of guessing, you see the impact of your choices. Maybe that healthy snack is actually sending your glucose on a roller coaster or that afternoon walk is the perfect stabilizer. It's about unlocking your consistent best all day long by truly understanding your body's unique responses. Get to know your glucose and learn about how to build healthy habits that work for you with Lingo, designed for you by Abbott through November 30th. Use code GUY10 on hello Lingo.com to get 10% off a lingo plan. Purchase one use per customer. This offer cannot be combined with other offers, US, Puerto Rico and UK only. The lingo glucose system is for users 18 years and older, not on insulin. It is not intended for diagnosis of diseases, including diabetes. Individual responses may vary. You know, as someone who's built an entire career around curiosity, I find myself asking questions even in the quietest moments of my day. Whether I'm walking my dog in the morning or just reading a good book, my mind is always wondering about the why behind things, which is exactly how Claude has become such an incredible collaborator in my daily life. Claude is the AI for minds that don't stop at good enough, the Things Thinking partner that works with you to explore the things that fascinate you. Take last night while making dinner, I found myself wondering about the science behind making the perfect crispy roast chicken. And this all led to an enlightening conversation with Claude that went far beyond basic cooking science. We explored the Maillard reaction, moisture management, salting and brining, and even the history of how humans discovered the cooking process. It was really cool stuff, and I love how Claude matches my natural curiosity rather than trying to shut it down with quick answers. Like when I recently noticed all the different layers in a cliff face during a hike, Claude transported me back in time. It helped me explore how these rocks formed under ancient seas and all the forces that transformed them over millions of years. Whether you're researching outdoor curiosity spirals or working through complex creative challenges, Claude extends your thinking to tackle the problems together. And it helps me see connections I never would have made on my own, turning casual observations into moments of genuine discovery. Ready to explore what's possible? Try Claude for free at Claude AI hibt. That's Claude AI HIBT to start thinking deeper today, this show is presented to you by American Express. Building a business is never a straight line. It's full of unexpected turns, and the right tools can make all the difference along the way. That's why when I talk to entrepreneurs about how they keep growing, American Express often comes up. The new enhancements to the Amex Business Platinum Card are designed for how Business owners actually work today, offering them more value, flexibility and rewards than ever before. With two times membership rewards points on select business purchases, those everyday choices can fuel even more growth. And when it's time to hit the road or the skies, Business Platinum card members have access to the largest global airport lounge network of any credit card. It's a way to stay productive even while traveling. Plus, the flexible spending limit changes as your business does, adapting to where you are and and where you're headed next. Because when it comes to growing your business, there's truly nothing like Business Platinum. Not all purchases will be approved. Terms and points cap apply. Learn more at Go Amex bplat hey, welcome back to How I Built this. I'm Guy Raz. So it's around 2012 and Babylist is, is getting some traction, and Natalie is getting instant feedback from users by doing all of the customer service herself.
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I remember getting an email from someone and she was just like, this is so confusing. And I think the thing that was really confusing was, how do you say that you want any amount of a product? So let's say for diaper, get me, like, I don't need to say I need five boxes of diapers. Just keep buying me diapers. Keep that on the registry as long as people are buying it. And that I emailed her back like the same day, and I was like, hey, which of these phrases do you think actually would work better? And one of them was no limit. One of them was any quantity. And she was like, oh, I think it's that one. And then I remember just updating the code, emailing her back five minutes later and saying like, oh, now that actually is live on your registry. It was stuff like that. Even today, I think that those early years of just talking to users and customers every single day was really, really important for how I show up to my job today.
A
I mean, I just think it's awesome that you had this goal and you're working on it. So it's like, it's like getting, you know, it's a cliche now. It's like getting 1% better every day, right?
B
1% better every day. Probably every month, maybe getting 10% bigger. So was really growing. And in the summer it was like, okay, I'm going to take some of the money that this is actually making and I'm going to pay a babysitter. And I would go around the corner to a coffee shop for three hours. I would do that, I think two days a week and then three days a week. So then I had These three hour blocks now to actually work on it with my laptop in a coffee shop.
A
Wow. All right, so you're working on this. And by the one year mark, February 2012, Max is a year old. Baby list is a year old. You start to see some, you know, like not just 100, 200 bucks a month, but like three grand a month. I mean, that's real. Especially given that your costs were pretty low. I guess they were pretty low, right? You had some server costs. Like what did you. Because this was all self funded, right?
B
Yeah, costs were pretty low. Truly the only real expense would have been to hire software engineers. And me and Lindsey were both working for free.
A
You didn't need to hire an engineer. You're the engineer.
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Yeah, exactly. So, yeah, it was, it was, it was a high margin business. And the 3,000 really represented something which was I was going to get a job, like I was going to go back to work.
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This was going to be a side hustle.
B
Yeah, this was going to be a side hustle. I was, I was going to go interview four jobs, get back in there. And I think August and I, in conversations, we set the, the number 3,000 where we said, okay, well if in a year this is making $3,000 a month, like this is really working and that's the thing that I should actually go to full time.
A
So can I ask you a question about that number? Because it's 2012, that's $36,000 a year. Not a lot of money. But why was that the number that you, you wanted to hit?
B
It was a magic number. I don't know why. It wasn't coming from a spreadsheet and it wasn't coming because it's actually the salary that I wanted to make or we could live on. It was really just representing this business is actually really going to work. This is going to be the thing. I'm not going to go get a full time job. This is now my full time job. And it was about this time period. We had never really gotten comfortable in Vancouver and we visited friends in the Bay Area in San Francisco and absolutely loved it. And so we moved to San Francisco when Max was one year old and that's when I went to Babylist full time.
A
Was there any part of you that was worried that it was risky or were you feeling like, no, I think we're, I see that this is going somewhere.
B
At that point it didn't feel risky or scary. It was still just me. So if it didn't work out, I would be able to Just shut it down quietly. Like what we had done with Languageiro.
A
And you had hard skills, Right. You could always go back and get a job as an engineer somewhere.
B
Yeah. And I had this thing to show for it. I could say, oh, look at this thing that I built. But it actually felt like, I think that year was, now that I have all this time, like, I'm not actually sure what I should be doing to make this successful. I'm, like, stuck in my living room and I'm doing customer support. Like, what is the right path for this next stage?
A
And it doesn't sound like you had this sort of, okay, now I'm going to get to this point, and then I'm going to go and raise venture money, and then I'm going to do this. Like, you weren't thinking, or were you thinking that far ahead?
B
I was absolutely not thinking about raising venture funding. It didn't make sense because the business itself was making money, so it didn't make sense to me. It didn't feel like the hardest thing was having money to spend. There was, like, this other hardest thing, which was like, how do I make this grow?
A
Hmm. But still, I guess at this point, to get some support and a bit of money, you decided to apply to an accelerator program in the bay area called 500 Startups, I think, and you got in. You were accepted. So how did that go? Like, what was it like to be part of that?
B
Yeah, they give you $50,000 for a percentage of your company. So it was really that 51st funding round, and life was going to get really busy. And I was going to drive now from San Francisco to Mountain View every single day. And I've been asked the question, like, what was it like going through that program with a toddler? And that part was fine. It was really hard, though, going through the program as a solo founder. It felt like I might have been the only solo founder. And so it felt like I was the only person with a company of one person. And there were teams with five founders, or at least with three founders. And so you want to take advantage of every part of this program and everything's set up because they're kind of acting like you're three or four people. Plus, I'm literally still doing all of the customer support for Babylist. So it felt like completely overwhelming to be doing it all myself. And I had this new $50,000, and so it was really, really clear that I had to, for the first time, had to bring on new people. And when you kind of talk about like, was it scary to go to it full time? I don't think it was, but it was really scary to say, oh, you're now going to join me. I have this real responsibility to you as an employee.
A
And what about raising money? Because up until this point, you hadn't raised money. Now you're in an incubator. So how did you go about starting to think about bringing in some significant money to start building the hiring people?
B
I found it a really, really, really difficult decision. On the one hand, I really liked that I hadn't raised money. I liked that I didn't have investors who had expectations. But on the other hand, I was like, I think if I raise money, like, it's going to really turn this into a real business. I. I made the decision to raise a seed round, and my actual framing was like, I think I will learn much more by doing this path, even if it's the more difficult path. Like, it felt like it was really adding, like, a new part of my job, which would be managing investors, having other people really own parts of Babylist and really wanting it to succeed. And I also didn't know if I could. Could raise money. Like, it's something I had never done before. And what it really felt like was like, people were doing me a favor by investing in this business. It didn't feel like I did not have the vision and the confidence to say, like, this business is going to be $100 million business. It was really hard for me to say, and then, like, this is actually how big this company will get.
A
So how did you tell me about the process? I mean, raising money is hard, right? Because you've got to ask people for money. Yeah. How did you. How did you handle that?
B
I created a pitch deck, and I remember it had a slide that was like, pregnant women need a lot of stuff that was so basic, but, like, is so true. And the core of, like, why this business works and described really, our current traction, which was really impressive. People would sign up and they would actually really use the service. That was really important. Then as part of the accelerator program, you have these demo days where you get up on stage, you pitch for five minutes, and then investors can choose to talk to you out of that. Had some real interest from great seed investors and ended up raising $600,000.
A
All right, so $600,000. And with that, you were able, presumably to hire. I think you hired about five people.
B
Yep, hired about five people. The real goal was we need to build an iPhone app. And, like, that was going to Require hiring an iPhone engineer. That's something I didn't know how to do. Hiring our first marketer. I think at that point, actually with the five people, we all still did the customer service. I felt like it was that important.
A
Yeah. So I read that you felt like you had a hard time. It was really hard for you to hire. You just didn't really know who to look for, what kind of person to hire.
B
Yeah, it felt so hard to say, like, this is the job that, like I need to have done. This is the person and the experience they're bringing. And like, here's how I'm actually gonna interview them and. And here's how I'm going to convince them that they want to come work with me. It was really difficult I had during the accelerator. I brought on someone first as a contractor. She was a generalist. She was able to do a lot of things. I really wanted her to join full time and I gave her a job offer that she was really unhappy with. She really saw herself more as a co founder than an employee. And so it came down to the amount of equity that she was being offered and she decided not to join Babylist. And I was devastated. I remember crying in a stairwell and just feeling like, oh, this is now back to just me. Like, I guess I'll just go back to work. And that time, I think the only thing I did for the next week was I just did customer support for the week. I didn't try to do other things. And it was really grounding where I was like, well, like our. Our users are still so wonderful. They still really care what we're doing. I'm going to get back out there.
A
So tell me a little bit more about the challenges of hiring because this is really hard. Like, we don't. Most of us aren't trained on who look for and in most cases on how I built this. Like, when people talk about challenges, mistakes, errors, or, you know, just. It's hiring because we. We often trust our intuition or we like somebody and sometimes it's not enough.
B
The other thing that's really hard about hiring is you're hiring someone to do something better than you could do it.
A
Yeah.
B
And so even evaluating can they do this better? And how do I evaluate whether someone's a great marketer if I don't really understand marketing? It's incredibly difficult. You're also probably. Even if you hire someone, how do you set them up for success in such a early stage environment where things are really changing day to day? And then like I Remember the very first person I let go and it was agonizing. It felt so horrible. And that we were in this co working space with no privacy, like, how do I actually like have this terrible conversation with this person face to face? I had never managed anyone in my life and now I was managing them. As the CEO of this startup, I think I was terrible at it for a few years. And I ended up getting a coach and the coach, she came in and she interviewed everyone around me and she gave me a seven page PDF and the first three and a half pages were like, here's all the ways Natalie's like truly great at what she does. And I felt great. And the second three and a half pages were like, here is just all of the ways that Natalie really needs to improve. And she was very goal oriented. And she's like, at the end of our engagement in six months, like, how would it feel if we hit these three goals that really pertain to the feedback and the anxiety I was feeling? And one of them was, in the moment, you'll be able to give someone quick feedback without it feeling emotionally charged. And I was like, oh my God, if we could do that, that would feel so good. And I think she gave me like the most basic tools. We would meet every single week. And I think I actually really transitioned to like being a, like a pretty good people manager and like a pretty good leader with like these very basic skills and coaching.
A
All right, so you've got this team and tell me a little bit about how the brand is growing. Are you spending money on advertising? Are you. How are you getting more and more people to become aware of it?
B
So yeah, Babylist was continuing to grow. We were continuing to make the product better. We launched the iPhone app, but we actually didn't really figure out marketing until 2015. And then we really figured it out and it was a very big inflection. I think kind of in those first couple of years we, that was the one thing we needed to have work and it was really the one thing that wasn't really working. So people were using it, people were hearing about it from their friends and more people were using it every year. But the growth was pretty slow, kind of slow and steady.
A
But the beauty of it is that it is viral. Right. Because once one person uses it will 20, 30, 40, maybe more people are going to engage with the site and buy something on it. So it has that like inbuilt virality.
B
Yep. At the very beginning we would describe it as slowly viral. So 30 women will use it. They'd all go to your baby shower. Maybe then, like, two would get pregnant the next year and use baby list. And so it was slowly viral, unlike maybe some social network where everyone's signing up every day.
A
And Pinterest, out of all the social media sites, you really, from what I read, you really targeted, like Pinterest. You optimized the site so that it would work with Pinterest. How did you. Tell me how you did that?
B
Yeah. So Pinterest was really up and coming and then scaling with exactly our demographic with women about the ages of women who are having babies. And Babylist, like, was absolutely growing organically on Pinterest. A really important thing happened in 2015, and that's that Pinterest opened up their platform for advertisers. And so they had the Pinterest promoted pins where you could pay them like any other advertising platform, and they would show your pins more often to more people. We finally got into the program. We put money in on the first day and many people signed up. And the key thing about Babylist is it's free to sign up and hopefully three months later, actual people will start coming to your registry. And that's when we actually make money. Yeah, and the business just actually had that hockey stick growth by, like, actually figuring out this first paid growth platform that year, 2015.
A
I think you also had your second child as well.
B
Yeah, 2015, I had Ben.
A
So you were living this. I mean, you were literally creating this new model for a baby registry and you yourself, you know, needed to be a consumer of this product.
B
Yeah, that's true. And I also, at this point, I had been so stuck steeped in all of this. I knew all of the products that were out there. I think I did have some good ideas for the business by going through the experience that time that year. It was just so important. I had a team where the team themselves could really continue to run the business. As I took a couple of months.
A
Off, I wonder how you were getting. I mean, the sort of the affiliate programs with Amazon and Target and others. That's. You just kind of plug that in. But then you started to work directly with smaller vendors, Right. That maybe weren't at Target and Walmart and on Amazon was a lot of that traffic incoming, people starting to connect with you guys, saying, hey, can you sell my stuff, too?
B
So at this point, we were never selling stuff directly. We had this really, really big decision where more and more people are using Babylist and we're like, what's next? Like, what's the next big thing that Babylist is going to be. And the really obvious choice was like, we should now go into wedding. We're this tech company. We've created this fantastic baby registry. The technology would apply to wedding registries. Like that's what we are. We're this tech company. And the other option was the most valuable thing we've really created is this trust and engagement with women and parents when they're having a baby. And everything we do should be really serving them in more and more ways. This was a big decision. I think I learned a lot about weddings. I talked to a lot of people and really made the clear decision. We're not doing that. We are going to be this company. Everything we're going to do is going to be for expecting and new parents, which really then opened up. So like, what is Babyliss going to be.
A
When we come back in just a moment? Natalie takes a big risk by shifting away from affiliate marketing to selling inventory directly to consumers. Stay with us. I'm Guy Raz, and you're listening to How I Built this. The holidays are upon us and businesses are hiring for seasonal roles. Everything from haunted corn maze workers to snowplow drivers. This means that people with certain skills, experience, or even a special license are in high demand and not easy to find. Whether you're hiring for one of these roles or any other role, the best way to find the perfect match for your role is on ZipRecruiter, and right now you can try it for free@ziprecruiter.com Bilt ZipRecruiter's matching technology works fast to find top talent so you don't waste time or money. You can find out right away how many job seekers in your area are qualified for your role. Let ZipRecruiter find the right people for your roles, seasonal or otherwise. Four out of five employers who post on ZipRecruiter get a quality candidate within the first day. And right now you can try it for free@ziprecruiter.com Bilt Again, that's ZipRecruiter.com built ZipRecruiter the smartest way to Hire I've talked to a lot of new founders who tell me one of their biggest hurdles was finding the right name for their business. Even the name of this show, How I Built this, took a lot longer to come up with than you think. Sometimes founders founders will spend months brainstorming only to find out the domain is taken. So you get stuck with two bad pay up to get the name you want or tack on random words until your domain looks indecipherable. But after all the time spent thinking of a name, you don't want to do that. And thanks to tech domains, you don't have to. With tech, you get the name you actually want with no compromises. It is instantly tells investors and customers that you're building tech. CES Tech, the world's biggest consumer tech event, uses a tech domain along with hundreds of thousands of tech companies worldwide. So don't waste another minute negotiating. Go to GoDaddy, Namecheap, Cloudflare, or wherever you buy domains and get your tech domain today. Hey, welcome back to How I Built this. I'm Guy Raz. So it's around 2016, and Babylist is branching out in new directions. The company's starting to create content articles and videos about parenting and baby products.
B
We hired an intern and her job was to create this very first version of our content. She sent out a survey with all of our users to say, what are your most loved products from that she would create, like the best stroller guide, the best car seats, the best bottles. And at this time period, if you were searching Google for these, you would just get slideshows. And we put them up. They started to do well in Google, particularly like the Best Bottles guide, which would been my experience in Baby's R Us. It is the most confusing category, even though it's not that expensive. And I think it was really the beginning where Babylist was this company for expecting parents and new parents. Like, not just this baby registry.
A
One of the things that I, I so. But from what I understand around by the end of 2016, so you're now, you know, at least four years into this, more, almost five. You have about 20 employees at that time. And so you're still relatively small, but growing quickly. 80% growth is the majority of your revenue coming from essentially affiliate fees, because you guys were not. You didn't have like warehouses of stuff. Right. This was basically you would order, but then whoever you're ordering from is sending you the product.
B
Yeah, we actually were making almost all of our revenue from a handful of retailers, and it felt really risky to hire more people. It felt like if any of these relationships with retailers change, like, I'm not going to be able to make payroll. And very naively we were like, well, we can be a retailer. Like, we can actually sell this stuff. And so this very first test we did, it was very lean startup. We were like, does anyone, would they ever even buy from Babylist and so I went to Buy Buy Baby and bought a bunch of products, like put it in the trunk of my car, drove back to the office. And for all of these products we would now show like buy it from Babylist on people's registries. And we were so naive about how hard it was actually going to be to do the logistics side of this business. Our current cfo Jocelyn, she interviewed, I think around this time, maybe a couple months after we had really started to launch this ecommerce and we gave her a presentation to do. And her presentation started with, here's all the ways E commerce is terrible and we should not be going into it. You have to collect sales tax on like for every state. You have to deal with returns, you have to deal with products that are being discontinued. Like, she had a list of 40 things that were all so difficult and so outside of our skill set as like a tech only company. And it took years before it actually paid off in any way. But then in retrospect, as our retailer relationships changed and as the company grew, it became like the actual core part of our business model. But in the very beginning, no one would sell to us. They really wanted you to have a store if you were going to sell their products. So I would get on the phone with CEOs of companies and say please, like please take this bet on us. Our first warehouse was our office. And so between everyone's desk we had bassinets piled to the ceiling so you couldn't see anyone. That business, just like it was so painful to grow. It's so much harder to do than digital. Like with code you can fix a bug and things work with actual physical products. You need many trucks and people to move those products. Like it's actually so difficult to fix when things are going wrong.
A
But why did you decide to shift into that? I mean, essentially you were going to warehouse products, you were going to hold inventory. Right. Which is risky. And I guess it's because in the long term the margins are better.
B
Yes. So this original business model was affiliate and it was actually very good business model. It was just so risky. And so the decision to actually do this E commerce ourselves and really change what the business was going to look like had to do with controlling our own destiny.
A
So as you started to make that transition when, I mean, because I think today you still of course don't, right? You don't. Not all the things you sell you're holding in warehouses. But what's the sort of the break? The percentage breakdown is most of the Stuff that you sell that's sold through Babylist, held in warehouses that you guys control.
B
It's really, really important for our user experience that we are universal and we do something no one else does, which is when we sell a product and Target sells the product, we're actually going to show Target as a buying option, just like we show Babylist as a buying option. People absolutely love that. It's why they actually use Babylist. We don't share the split, but the largest part of our revenue is absolutely us actually selling the products we sell as an E commerce retailer.
A
So you've got this sort of transition right to this model or kind of a hybrid model. And then Covid hits and this is really when you're starting to sell directly. Tell me about COVID Because on the one hand I would think that, I mean, it's scary, but on the other hand I would think that maybe this would have been a huge moment for Baby List. That all of a sudden people are at home and people still need to. People are still getting pregnant. There's still baby registries. There might not be baby showers in person, but people still want to support a friend who's expecting.
B
When Covid hit, I had been running the business for nine years. I felt like I was the world expert in baby showers and baby registries. And I actually had no idea what people were going to do because baby showers, it's an in person party with a vulnerable population. And I actually was not sure that people would need baby registries without a baby shower. I thought that this actually would decimate our business for potentially years. That March, all of our numbers completely plummeted. We implemented a hiring freeze. But then exactly what you're saying happened. There was this shift online. People wanted to help you more. They want, like, if you are the person in the circle of friends having a baby right now, people were like more generous to send you gifts now. They were buying them all online. Our business actually grew more than we had expected that year.
A
Yeah. And you guys were sort of on a roll at this point. Right. Because I think the next year, which, which is 2021, you were able to raise a substantial amount of money in another fundraising round. Like $40 million.
B
Yeah. So again, just like our seed round, I like was not sure I was going to be able to do this, but it was, it was the right time. It felt like a really important maturation and like inflection point for the business. So created a pitch deck. And this was all over zoom because it was this Covid time. Period. So without meeting anyone, I would meet them over zoom and I would give them the pitch and they would all start with, no. They would. The investors would be like, we don't. It would be a really soft no. Like, we don't really ever invest in anyone. We're meeting for the first time, but it'd be great to hear what you're up to. I ordered the pitch in this very specific way that was like the very first slide was our revenue. And I'd be like, here's our revenue in that year. It was going to be $250 million. And they'd be like, oh, no, you mean this is your. Your gmv, which is your gross merchandise value, like what you're actually sending to other retailers for their sales. And I was like, no, this is our revenue. And they would lean in. They'd be like, oh, I have to get my partner on the call. And so the process, it absolutely had rejection. The investor we eventually went with was actually, it's Norwest Venture Partners. And I've seen companies raise too much money and I think part of it is this wishful thinking of, like, how is the business now going to grow? And with Norwest, we were like, very aligned in, like, what are our expectations for how the business is going to grow. It really forced us to really grow up, get serious about our finances, saying what we're going to do and then doing it.
A
So tell me a little bit about the vision for. I mean, you've got, obviously registry is still the main thing that you do, but there are all these other sort of verticals and revenue streams that you've created in the last few years. One is like helping people get breast pumps, which I think is insurance. Some insurance covers it. In some cases it's Medicaid, if people are eligible for Medicaid. So that's a revenue, that's a new vertical that you offer and give me a sense of what. The sort of vision of what you want Babyliss to be moving forward.
B
Yeah, I think it's actually all about making families better families, like helping grandma be a better grandma, helping families stay more connected. Like, that's truly the baby list that we're building, which feels very meaningful. In 2019, I was eight years into building the company and it was the first time I really saw, like, how big this could be. It was the first time I actually thought this could be a billion dollar business. And then in 2022, we really started doing the thing you're naming, which is like, what else can we offer new fam, like new parents. And so us getting you your breast pump for free, that's what we call baby list health. So I think there's this opportunity for us to really be a health platform. When you're having a baby, like health is the thing you care about, like much more than the stuff. All of the health and wellness aspects to that time period. Yeah, that's definitely where we're leaning in.
A
When you think about where you are now and the journey you took, you started this in 2011, basically, and I think it's one of the biggest baby registry sites, if not the biggest in the U.S. how much of that journey do you attribute to the work you put in the grind? And how much do you think had to do with just luck and timing?
B
I think the initial idea and the lessons I had learned and me being able to code all of this kind of coming together when I myself was having a baby is like total luck. I think where though the grind comes in, I think it's been a lot of really hard work that I've had to put in to really make the transition from founder to CEO, and I think I really have put in that work, and I don't think that that worked is like luck. I actually think that has been like grit and hard work.
A
That's Natalie Gordon, founder and CEO of Babylist. By the way, you can see photographs of their entire team on the company website, and if you move the cursor over each photo, you will see what each executive looked like as a baby. Hey, thanks so much for listening to the show this week. Please make sure to click the Follow button on your podcast app so you never miss a new episode of the show. And if you're interested in insights, ideas, and lessons from some of the world's greatest entrepreneurs, please sign up for my newsletter@guyraz.com or on substack. This episode was produced by Kerry Thompson with music composed by Ramtin Erabloi. It was edited by Neva Grant with research help from Carla Estevez. Our engineers were Patrick Murray and Jimmy Keighley. Our production staff also includes Alex Chung, Elaine Coates, Casey Herman, J.C. howard, Chris Masini, Sam Paulson, Rommel Wood, and Andrea Bruce. I'm Guy Raz, and you've been listening to How I Built this. And don't stop the podcast just yet, because right now you're about to hear an amazing small business story that you don't want to miss. This segment is presented by American Express with a Business Platinum membership. The best just got even better and this week's story starts back in 2009, when a former Dell engineer named Peter Mann set out to solve a very personal problem.
C
My son struggled with asthma when he was an infant. He would have an asthma attack to where he would change colors and not breathe. And it was really distressing not being able to do much for him as you. He, you know, was a little bit older, more middle school age. He would have an asthma attack just sitting on the couch.
A
Peter learned that one of the big triggers for those asthma attacks were allergens and other particles in the air. So he started looking into air purifiers, and he was pretty underwhelmed at what he found.
C
It's almost like bulletin board looking terrible websites, and some of them are selling these same products with just different logos on their product.
A
Peter came from the world of tech, so he knew how to develop a product and market it online. And he thought, why not just do this myself? So he hopped a flight to Hong Kong, negotiated a deal with a manufacturer, tested some samples, and about six months later, Peter's own air purifier, which he called Arancy, arrived at his door.
C
I remember opening it and, and plugging it in and turning it on, and within about 15 or 20 minutes, the air just felt different.
A
And his son's scary middle of the night asthma attacks, they went away.
C
It wasn't waking him up, which wasn't waking us up. It was just a huge win win.
A
Customers loved the product too. And Aranci's sales grew steadily over the next decade. When Covid hit, demand for Peter's air purifiers skyrocketed, but so did the competition.
C
It just got to the point where it was oversaturated.
A
So Peter decided to pivot and focus instead on the technology inside the device, specifically the electric motor. He merged with a partner, bought a huge factory in Virginia, and built an air purifier in house, from scratch, as a way to validate the technology. Now Peter's setting his sights on a much bigger market with a seemingly endless demand for cool, clean air. AI data centers. Now, around the same time he made that pivot, something happened in Peter's personal life that completely changed how he looked at his business and himself.
C
In 2022, my wife was watching CBS Morning show, and in April, they do profiles of people that are autistic. And she's like, oh, you need to see this. And I watched it and I was like, oh, my gosh, I had no idea. Like, now so many things make sense.
A
Peter thought that's me, the hyper focus, the ability to build systems, and some of the social challenges he'd experienced as well. Sure enough, at age 55, he was diagnosed with autism.
C
I did a LinkedIn post and I said, you know, hey, I was recently diagnosed. If anyone that's autistic that, you know, is going through interviews or navigating the workplace wants to talk, I'd be happy to talk. And wow. I had video calls with dozens of autistic adults. Probably 75% of them were just struggling with the interview process.
A
So he's spending more time thinking about ways his company can set people up like him for success.
C
This kind of hit me like my son's asthma did.
A
By the way, the son whose asthma attacks inspired Arancy to begin with, Peter says he's doing great.
C
He seems to have largely outgrown it. He still has an Air Purifier.
B
All.
A
These years later, that's Peter Mann, the founder and CEO of the Air Purifier and and now electric motor company Arancy. His small business spotlight was presented by American Express. To build a business like no other, you need a card like no other. There's nothing like business Platinum. If you like how I built this, you can listen early and ad free right now by joining Wondery plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Prime members can listen ad free on Amazon Music. Before you go, tell us about yourself by filling out a short survey@wondery.com survey.
How I Built This with Guy Raz Episode: Babylist: Natalie Gordon. How a new mom used nap time to build a $500M business. Date: November 3, 2025
In this episode, Guy Raz sits down with Natalie Gordon, founder and CEO of Babylist—a baby registry platform that has grown from a side project coded during her son’s nap times to a $500 million business. The conversation explores Natalie’s journey from Amazon engineer to first-time founder, the challenges of building a startup as a new parent, her experiences with early setbacks, the gritty realities of scaling Babylist, and her vision for the future of supporting growing families.
| Timestamp | Segment Description | |------------|------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------| | 05:09 | Amazon experience, early tech lessons | | 10:49 | Linguajero: first startup lessons and lack of a business model | | 17:31 | The teary, overwhelming baby registry experience that sparked Babylist | | 22:51 | Coding Babylist MVP during pregnancy and early motherhood | | 25:25 | Launching via grassroots blogger outreach and Hacker News | | 29:01 | Setting 45 minutes a day for Babylist as a new mom | | 39:03 | The $3,000/month milestone to justify going full-time | | 41:31 | Joining 500 Startups, the loneliness of solo founding | | 44:52 | First time raising a seed round and building an investor pitch deck | | 48:08 | Struggles with hiring, evaluation, and first employee heartbreak | | 52:16 | Jumpstart from Pinterest paid ads in 2015 | | 61:12 | The leap from affiliate to warehousing and direct e-commerce | | 65:08 | Pandemic shifting the business model and explosive growth | | 67:40 | Raising $40 million by impressing investors with real revenue numbers | | 68:53 | Mission shift—helping families with more than just registries (Babylist Health, etc.) | | 70:23 | On the role of grit versus luck in founder success |
Guy Raz and Natalie Gordon’s conversation embodies the messy, complicated, and ultimately deeply rewarding process of building a business that solves a real problem. Natalie’s journey is marked by learning from failure, embracing a founder’s grit, and continuously seeking ways to better serve new parents. Her evolution from engineer and solo founder to leader of a half-billion-dollar, mission-driven brand offers invaluable lessons in resilience, humility, and focus.
"It’s actually all about making families better families... that’s truly the Babylist that we’re building, which feels very meaningful." — Natalie Gordon (68:53)
Listeners will come away with a fresh appreciation for the behind-the-scenes scrappiness required to build something lasting—and the impact that one founder’s lived experience can have on millions.