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Caroline
Welcome to how to Decorate from Ballard Designs, a weekly podcast all about the trials and triumphs of decorating and redecorating your home. I'm Caroline. I'm on the marketing team. And I'm Taryn, and I'm a product designer.
Liz
I'm Liz. I head up the creative team. We're your hosts.
Caroline
Join the expert team at Ballard Designs for tips, tricks, and tales from interior designers, stylists, and other talents in the design world. Plus, we'll answer your decorating dilemmas at.
Emma Beryl Kemper
The end of each episode.
Liz
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Caroline
On with the show. All right, so this week we are thrilled to welcome to the show New York based interior designer and author Emma Beryl Kemper. Her work has been recognized in publications like Architectural Digest and House Beautiful. And earlier this year, she released her first book, House Rules 100 Ways to Feel at Home. It's a practical guide to decorating your home. And Emma, we're excited to chat about it. Thanks for letting us take an early glance at it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Thanks for having me here. I'm so excited to speak to you.
Caroline
Yes, this is truly a beginner's guide. Although, I guess you know what, you could enjoy it at any level. But if you are a beginner, it's a great first introduction to tackling a room or tackling a home. A whole home project that you're feeling overwhelmed about.
Liz
Oh, totally. I feel like after reading this book, I've gotten a degree in project management, interior design, how to be an organizer, and how to be a stylist. So it's good.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Well, I'm so happy you feel that way. Thank you. I was really writing it for, like, my younger self when I was first starting to think about becoming an interior designer. And I didn't really know where to start. I felt like there was no one place where I could kind of go just reference everything, pick it up kind of in any part of a project. And so that's the book that I, that I wrote. And it does. It's meant to take you through, like, the entirety of a project from, like, how to gather inspiration and think about a budget all the way to, like, how high to hang a picture on the wall and how to mix and match patterns and just things that I feel like are common pitfalls or can just feel really intimidating if you haven't done it before. And it's just like, very easy, digestible, actionable tips and tricks.
Caroline
It is. Yeah. And I, you Know what? I. I felt like it would be a great, like, graduation book or, or first home gift. Yes, first home gift, wedding gift. Like you said, if you are super interested in interior design, you may know some things, but you probably won't know a lot of the things in here. I felt like there were many things that I was like, oh, we've recorded 400 episodes of this podcast and I was still, you know, kind of taking notes. But definitely, if you're starting out, you'll find a lot in here that is helpful.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Well, it was honestly kind of like that for me too when I was writing it, because there's all these things that you just do on a day to day basis, but you don't ever stop and really think, like, why am I doing this? How could I explain this to somebody? But if, if you're tasked with like sitting down and writing a hundred steps to do your job, whatever your job is, you end up learning so much also. So I actually was really surprised by that part of the book and also really enjoyed that part of the. And also something I did not know is writing a book is a. At least for me, it was like a really long process. So at this point, I, I wrote this book like three years ago. So I pick it up now and I'm like, oh, yeah. And that's kind of fun too.
Caroline
Forgot about this. What, what are some things that you learned in the process that maybe were surprising?
Emma Beryl Kemper
It was more just that I never really, like, thought through some things that I naturally did. So the part that I kind of enjoyed writing about the most and not like learned, but, but just like thought about further and kind of explored in a different way was how to gather inspiration in the beginning of a project. Because I think for me that's a, that's a really fun step. And for all of our residential projects, it's kind of the first thing that we do, but that can also be very overwhelming. Just like, what do you mean? Go find inspiration. And I also feel like a lot of times people are asked, where do you find inspiration? The answer is just everywhere, which is, I believe that, but it's not necessarily helpful. So to like sit down and think about, like, okay, what am I looking for? I'm looking for things that highlight what I already love about my home. I'm looking for homes that feel similar to mine. I'm looking for spaces that have made really big impressions on me, and then sitting down and like looking for patterns in those and just kind of like how to think about that and how to do it. It. So it's not necessarily that. That was like, a new phenomenon to me, but I had just never articulated it. Yeah, exactly.
Caroline
Yeah.
Liz
Yeah. Being able to, like, put together mood boards of, like, color or. Or thoughts about what you want is one thing, but I really think, like, there's a step in there that's like, take notes and find the patterns in what you've already found and what you're drawn to. That I thought was really important.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, totally. And then I think it's also about, like, take really good notes on your mood boards and try to reference your notes more than the pictures. Because I think it's also really easy to fall into, like, copying designs that you see. And if you're interpreting your notes about the pictures instead of the pictures themselves, you're. You kind of have this, like, liberty in that, and you're moving away from what somebody else did, but you're still informed by it.
Caroline
That's. Yeah, I liked that aspect. And, you know, I actually feel like sometimes the. The mood board and, like, the inspiration time in a project, it feels so easy because it's a little bit, like, low risk, but in some ways it is very easy to get off track because you could start pinning the wrong things and collecting the wrong inspiration things you arguably can't even achieve in your space. Like, you. You gave the example of if you live in a, like, industrial loft, then pinning something like farmhousey is not helping you. It's probably distracting you because that's not going to be the end result of your project. So try to find things that are inspiring but also relevant to your project. Because I think some people think people do that all the time. You're like, oh, I'm just going to pin this, like, beautiful exterior of like, a, you know, Cape Cod or something. And then you live in, like, a ranch in Kansas. And it's like, it's easy to think, like, I want that when there's all these other options of something close to what you have. Also beautiful. That, like, are more accomplishable anyway.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I just feel like it's easy to get off. Exactly. Right.
Caroline
Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
No, I completely agree with that. And I think it's like, everybody likes all different things. I think, like, that that's human nature. And if everyone could have 10 houses, you can have all of those things. But you do kind of have to, like, zone in on where are. What are we actually talking about here? And then I think that yields the most successful design.
Caroline
Yes. And you have several chapters about that. I do got some place play to your strengths. Beware trends. Yes.
Liz
So, so many. So many helpful hints in here. Now I know when I'm collecting inspiration for mood boards, I'm kind of a, like, pin it and forget it type of person. Like, I'm throwing Instagram things into a folder. I'm throwing pins into a folder. And how do. What's the best way to kind of go back through that and kind of figure out what's going to be an appropriate thing for me to put on a mood board that's realistic?
Emma Beryl Kemper
I think once you have, like, a decent amount of images gathered, it will become obvious what the outliers are. And if something just isn't gelling with the rest of the images, I think you can cut that one out. Unless, of course, it's like, the one that you're the most excited about and then definitely leave it in. But I think, like, in the natural course of a project, you'll kind of know when you're ready to move into the next stage. Like, you'll be like, okay, I kind of understand, like, what the concept's going to be, what I do want this to feel like. And now I'm ready to, you know, actually implement all of these things. You could also, if you really feel like you're kind of spiraling out, you could just give yourself, like, a timeline. Like, by the end of this week, I'm going to start making decisions, and then give yourself that deadline, look at what you have, and just, like, force yourself to keep going.
Liz
A deadline is always helpful.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I totally agree.
Caroline
Yeah.
Liz
I wanted to talk a little bit about mood boards versus scheming. So scheming is. Is something that you talk about in the book. And can you define what the difference is between those two processes?
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, of course. So mood boards, to me, is more like inspiration images. So that's putting together ideas of things that you can implement. But it's not actually like, this is the table that I'm going to buy. It's more like, I like the idea of a round table, and I like how this finished living room looks, but it's not like a link to purchase, so that comes first. And that's kind of what you're looking for, those patterns in. And then once you've identified what those are, you're like, okay, I do need a round table. It has to be, whatever, 60 inches. And so you find maybe three tables that you like, and then that's taking a look at those tables and whatever chairs you've pulled and a rug for that room and whatever. And Kind of playing around with those different decisions is scheming. So one is more conceptual, and then one is actually putting your design into a schematic and figuring out what you want to move forward with.
Liz
So it's moving it into reality. Taking your mood boards and putting them into reality.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Exactly.
Liz
Okay, that's awesome. And so scheming. You would want to do that in the actual space and kind of really understand.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I think it's really helpful whenever you can, to do as much as you can in the actual space, because there's always things that you kind of just forget to consider or, like, aren't aware of or. I feel like it's such a design cliche. But lighting is, like, so important on how everything looks. So if you have the opportunity to play with these materials in the actual space, it's a lot easier. And I think it's like. It feels a lot more natural. Like, you kind of know what you should pick. I think at that point, especially, like, when you're designing for a client, it doesn't always work out that way. But if you're doing your own home and you have the opportunity to do it, I would. I would always go that direction. Even if it feels kind of weird to be, like, moving through your house, like, setting up these different scheming stations, I think it's really helpful.
Caroline
Yeah. And there's always that random thing, like an air vent or a, you know, funky, like, section of the wall that's irregular or something like that.
Emma Beryl Kemper
A light switch where you wanted a picture or, like. Yeah, always.
Caroline
Yeah. And those are so annoying.
Emma Beryl Kemper
So annoying. But.
Caroline
But, you know, you. You could. You're not going to move the light switch. I guess maybe some people might, but. But. Yeah, so you could totally throw it off. So it's good to see it in person. Yeah, that's a good point.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, exactly. And. And also the other part of the, like, lighting element is checking it out, like, in different times of day and also maybe in different weather, if it's, like, a rainy day or something, because it really can, like, paint, I think, specifically change so much, and paint is so impactful in a room that that's not something that you want to leave to chance.
Caroline
Yeah. You actually had a great section in here about lighting, and I think actually maybe it was in the paint color section about picking paint, which we can get to in a little bit. But that's also something I think is so important about observing your. The actual space you have is being realistic about the lighting that you have.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
Everybody wants a really bright, well lit room, but no amount of white paint is going to take a room that gets no sunlight and make it feel bright and airy. So, yeah, just, you know, maybe be honest with yourself about those, like, conditions.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah. And I feel like being honest with yourself is kind of a theme throughout the book because it's so easy to just, like, ideal. Idealize all of it. And you see these pretty pictures on Instagram and everyone can have a beautiful home. Absolutely. But I think it's like, be realistic about what is your space, what is your budget, what are your DIY capabilities. Like, some people can, you know, reupholster their own chairs. It's a miracle if I can paint a wall. So it really just, like, be honest with yourself.
Liz
Yeah, Yeah. I found that to be like the kind of running theme throughout the whole book is really how to plan, how to shop, how to keep all that information with you at all times so you can make informed decisions and stay organized. So whether you are just painting a room or you are taking on a whole renovation, like, all of those. All of those steps are. Are there for you, which is really so helpful.
Emma Beryl Kemper
The other thing that I think is actually sometimes surprising to people is the book itself is very physically small, but it's meant to be like a little handbook that you can kind of tote around with you and bring to stores and, like, reference again or, you know, if you ever feel like you need to check up on something, you can bring it around with you with your swatches and your plans and, you know, all of the things that you just mentioned.
Liz
Yeah, I think it needs a supplemental workbook that's keep all our swatches together. There you go. Next steps, volume two.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
Can we talk about paint for a little bit? Because I really liked your section about paint and in particular the paint schedule. This is something that we have heard, or I have definitely heard designers talk about. I'm not sure we've ever talked about it on the show, but very smart, very organized. And can you kind of explain to everybody what a paint schedule is?
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yes. So a paint schedule is like a key throughout your project. It's basically a little chart that you should make for yourself. It lists out what the room is that you're working on, what is the surface in that room, the brand of the paint, the paint color, the paint finish. And then I always like to include a section for notes. An example of a note could be like, this area should be hand brushed, or you whatever. But basically it's really helpful because if you're not painting yourself if you're handing it off to a painter. Everything is very straightforward and very organized. If you end up needing to do paint touch ups down the road, everything is very well recorded for you. So there's never any confusion about like, you know, which can of paint am I supposed to be reopening? And it's really just like a good way of organizing a project. We do schedules for all paint, all materials, all furniture. And really when you're talking about like any kind of bigger scale renovation, it's really important to record everything because it just gets confusing so quickly. And the schedule for the paint is really the schedule we follow kind of for all of those other things I just mentioned. And it's, it's just, it's your guide essentially for whatever it is that you're working on.
Caroline
I felt like this is a crucial, crucial thing for anyone building a house. Because if you are building a house, you know that there's a, a zillion surfaces to paint.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
And you do not want your contractor calling you in the middle of the day with like, what's the trim on here? And then, or even worse, just painting whatever they think makes the most sense, which is probably not what you think makes the most sense. And then they have to go back and redo it. So I just felt like that is, if nothing else, you need it for the paint schedule, you know, because if you're, especially if you're building a house just because it's something designers do all the time. But it never has occurred to me to write it all out like that.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Oh, that is so interesting. I'm actually so happy to know that that's your takeaway because I wouldn't have realized that was so impactful. I'm glad. I'm happy it helped.
Liz
I just feel like those are the type of things that, like, you're like, oh, I'll remember. And then like, come back later. You never remember that.
Caroline
Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
No. How could you? And it's like, especially because so many people do, like, neutral paint. So then you have three different shades of white. They're all in different finishes. And you're just like, how would I ever know this?
Caroline
Yep. And I, I have, for example, in our living room, I did the same trim and wall color, like in a white. Right. But then the white is used on all the trim around the house. But then in your basement, you've got like the flat white, you've got the ceiling white, you've got the trim white. They're all different ones and they kind of look the same. I mean, even on the wall. And I have definitely touched up using, like, satin, not realizing that the wall color or. I'm sorry, the. Anyway, whatever. I'm confused now just talking about it, which shows you that I was definitely confused trying to touch it up and, like, touched up in the wrong finish, essentially, and then it didn't look right and had to do anyway.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, no, it's very. It's very easy to do right. It's an easy mistake to make.
Caroline
Yes. And that's something that I've. I've. I've certainly heard designers talk about, like, oh, yeah, our paint schedule, but you never visualize what that really means, so I thought that was cool. What about. What about, you know, paint color is, like, such a. Just, I think, troubling aspect of a project for many people because there's so many options, and getting the wrong paint color can. Is really easy and can really throw things off. So what do you think are some common things people do wrong when picking a paint color? You know, and what. What advice would you give them?
Emma Beryl Kemper
I think probably a really common pitfall is instead of doing paint swatches on your wall, looking at the website photos of whatever the color is, which is really helpful to give you a general idea of what it is, but it doesn't honestly really mean that that is how your room is going to hold that paint color. So I do think it's extremely important. I know I kind of said this before, but I just really feel like you can't not paint in the room. And also, you can't look at the paint until it's dry because it looks completely different. So if you do that whole swatching process, give yourself a few hours and then come back to it, because you actually might have a completely different reaction than when you first put it on the wall. And then I also think people are maybe a little bit too timid about paint because it is, like, it does make such a big difference. It's also the easiest thing to redo. Like, if you PA a wall and you hate it, paint it again. It's okay. I mean, not to be, like, flippant about it, but. But of all the things, like, that's. It's not so scary. So I feel like you can give yourself permission to do something that's, like, a little bit more fun or a little bit more bold, and probably you will love it, but if you don't, you paint it again.
Caroline
Yeah, but, like, test it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Totally test it. Always test it.
Caroline
Oh, gosh, I've I've definitely, you know, and you're probably. I. I don't know, maybe it's just me, but I have to test it, like, multiple times. So I'll, like, go and I'll do my research and I'll pick, like, five colors, I'll test all of those, and then inevitably, none of them are right, and I have to go test it again. Like, a few lighter, a few darker, some a different tone. And so I feel like it takes a lot of patience going in and. And, like, giving myself time is the most helpful because if the painter is coming tomorrow, then you're probably going to pick the wrong color because you just aren't giving yourself enough time to, like, go back to the paint store, get more samples, test it again, you know, and you just don't want to be making that decision under duress.
Emma Beryl Kemper
No, that's so true. And especially because then it, like, starts creeping into the night, and then you don't have the light to see the paint colors. And, like. No, that sounds very stressful.
Caroline
Yeah. So I don't know that that's definitely something I've done wrong and suggest to not avoid if you can, or avoid. The other thing you talked about with paint just in the book that I enjoyed, is you were kind of talking about, like, using paint to accent or camouflage things. You know, like, use a contrasting trim or color to accent aspects you like. Can you kind of explain that a little bit?
Emma Beryl Kemper
So if you paint something the same color as your walls, whether it's like an exposed pipe or a radiator or even a piece of furniture, maybe that you're not trying to highlight, it will make it kind of disappear a little bit, like, hide into the room. The opposite of that is if there is something kind of special about your room that you want to stand out. Maybe it's a cool piece of millwork, maybe it is an exposed pipe, and you want it to feel like an industrial space, and you're trying to play that up kind of same thing. You can use paint to your advantage to highlight that and to circle back on the painting of the furniture. Comment. It also works to help make your room feel a little bit bigger, because if you're, like, making those items disappear, you're almost, like, mentally creating more space in your room, if that makes sense. So if you have something we've done a couple times, if we're working with a really small footprint, we've bought, I think it's the billy bed from ikea. It's just, like a really, really simple wood Headboard, basically, and painted it the same color as the wall, and it almost disappears. Like, it's so simple, but it does. It, like, makes the room feel a little bit bigger. It's less imposing than something else, really. That trick kind of works for anything in the room that you're trying to not call attention to.
Caroline
This just tends to come up, I think, in our decorating dilemmas. We had one fairly recently where someone had, like, a tray ceiling that they didn't like, and it was like, three different paint colors. And so I think sometimes people get really, like, hung up on what's the right color for this to be. And just thinking, like, same color, camouflage, different colors, accent. Like, that exactly. Is just such a universally applied rule. But sometimes I think when you're in the, like, details, you can kind of talk yourself in circles trying to figure out what's. Makes sense.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, no, absolutely. It's like a little, like, cheat sheet. I feel like if you just keep thinking that in your head, because it is. It's very easy to be like, oh, yeah, okay. I don't like that ceiling. Don't highlight it.
Caroline
Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
But it's, like, less straightforward, I feel like, you know.
Caroline
Yeah. When you have a problem. When you have a problem, you're trying to figure out.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, exactly.
Liz
Yeah. And. But I think at the same time, like, color drenching could be really imposing and really kind of, like, scary to take on. But to your point earlier, it's just paint. Like, just try it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, no, a hundred percent. And I think people also get nervous that they're gonna get sick of a paint color. Like a color cooler. And I talk about this in the book, but it's like, it's not. I don't think, like, it's more boring to just like, default to gray or white or whatever. And I feel like that's what you're gonna get sick of. Cause you didn't. You didn't want white or gray. You were just scared to do something else. So that's not like you don't choose. That's not a good reason, I don't think, to choose something or it's like a fun color that you really love. Yeah. Maybe eventually you'll change your mind. But if you love it, like, I wouldn't worry so much about that.
Caroline
Yeah, I agree. I feel like the thing that's going to make you want to change it is not liking it in the first place. You know what I'm saying? Like, exactly. Totally pick something you love. It's going to have way More longevity than something you're lukewarm about but that you think is safe.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Absolutely, absolutely.
Caroline
And it's like, it seems so. It's like such a no brainer. But I think it's hard to like, commit to which I get. But if you find just the right color for your room, even if it's a color and something a little bold and you've tested it out, it goes with what you've got, then, like, you're probably gonna have longevity with it because you did all your home.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, absolutely. And I feel like if you're making informed decisions about the colors you're choosing, meaning, like, you did your mood boards, you really know what you like. You tested out a bunch of these colors. Like, what more could you need? You. You like this. Go for it.
Caroline
Yeah. You did your homework. Yeah. You did it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah. Yeah.
Caroline
I really liked your section about the color wheel because that's something that both Liz and I both geek out over and have talked about, but I don't know that we've really ever talked about in the show. And I like the way you laid it out. So tell everybody, like, how you think about using the color wheel and picking a color palette, you know, and some easy ways to kind of put it into practice.
Emma Beryl Kemper
So what I like about the color wheel is that I think that it can feel so intimidating to figure out, like, what colors go with what colors. And it almost just gives you like a little guide of this is what the actual rule is. You can now, now that you know that you can implement it, and it lets you figure out what palette you want to do. So in the book, I kind of go through what the different color schemes are and give examples of how or color palettes are and give examples of how you can use them. And also talk a little bit about which ones are commonly seen in interiors, which ones to maybe avoid. And then it also gets a little bit into color psychology and just like, what do these different palettes make you feel like? And for me, that one is more just like, really? I kind of feel like this is a rule that you're allowed to break. Like, whatever colors you like, you should go for them. And I think, like, ultimately it's that. But if you're not feeling confident in that, using the color wheel kind of teaches you, like, okay, here's like a good, I don't know, like, boundary parameter, I guess, formula for you to use.
Caroline
Well, I like, you know, like using an analogous color palette. Wait, analogous is the one that's. Hold on. See, I need Your handy cheat sheet.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I honestly need the book, too. As soon as you brought this up, I was like, oh, God.
Caroline
Complimentary is like, the opposite of what you think it's going to be. It's when they're opposites, right?
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yes, that's right.
Caroline
They're across from each other on the color wheel.
Liz
So think like, right, blue and orange.
Caroline
Blue and orange, Right.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
So orange is going to, like, energize blue. So if you want a room that is calming and you want to have blue as your main color palette, then don't add orange in there, because then it's going to, like, add energy to the room. Instead, add green, which is going to. It's just like a very.
Emma Beryl Kemper
That's exactly right.
Caroline
Templated way to think about the color. And you can kind of take that in any direction, but at least gives you a pathway to narrow down, because, like, there's so many colors and you can go so many directions. But, like, what's going to achieve the mood that you put your mood board together and get you there.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, yeah. It gives you, like, a little, like, recipe kind of. If you feel like you're just too overwhelmed to choose, which it is very overwhelming to choose, it helps you be like, okay, you can choose whatever colors you want, but here's, like, a safe path of getting your desired result.
Caroline
And I. I like. I like the. The analogous color. Yeah, those are the ones that are side by side for, like, if you are just starting out and you're a little bit nervous and say you love blue and white, but you, like, add a little green in there, it's gonna. It blends so easily because they're so close together. Yeah. It's at least adds a little bit more of a layer. Um, and so it kind of. And you could apply that to anything in the color wheel, but, like, that is just an easy kind of trick for someone brand new.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, completely. And then it's also, you know, how much of each of those colors. So it's like, create, like, a hierarchy within that. So if you're going with blue and white, maybe blue is your, like, hero color. You're going to do 60% blue, and then white is, like your next. Your next hero, I guess. So do 30%, and then green can be your 10% kind of little accents here and there.
Liz
I want to double back and talk about preparing for a project, and you do such a great job at like, teeing everybody up for all of the, like, practical preparations and then really kind of setting a shopping list and getting the Most out of your budget. I feel like those, those tips are throughout the whole book. But if we were to start at the beginning, where would. Where's the best place to start with a project? And how do we develop a shopping list?
Emma Beryl Kemper
And yeah, so what I like to do is basically just make a list in Google sheets of what are all of the things that I'm going to need to do to get this room from where it is to where it needs to be. And so that will include, like, I need to paint the walls and I need to buy a new couch and I need to hang my art and I need to reframe this other piece of art, basically just like all of that stuff and then go back and like, break that down even a little bit more. So it's like, I need to paint my wall, so I need to buy the paint and I also need to hire a painter or I need to buy a new piece of art, and I'm also going to need a frame and I'm also going to need someone to come hang this up and basically just try to be like, in the weeds with that list as you can get every. Anything you can think of. Just like, try to put it on a piece of paper and then go through. And if it's an item that you're buying, go to a store where you would shop. So maybe it's like CB2 or whatever. Plug in, plug in the most expensive sofa, give yourself like a little cushion, but just like, give yourself some type of guide for what that's going to cost. Because I think, I mean, it happens all the time where people just don't realize how much money it's going to cost to do any kind of redecorating. But there's just so many things that you need, and it really does just add up so quickly. So once you've given yourself kind of placeholder numbers for all of that stuff, and I would say for things like painting, if you don't know how much it's going to cost to hire a painter or hang the art or whatever, call around or like, look on Reddit for people in your area. Like, really try to give yourself a realistic understanding, because the worst thing would be if you got through, you know, 10 out of the 20 items and then you had to stop halfway because you didn't budget correctly. So I like from the very beginning to kind of have an understanding of what all those numbers are going to be. And then you really just like, work through that list. So in order of. And also actually, I Would say, give yourself, like, a little cushion, because there's also unexpected costs. Like, even when you plan out everything really well, there's just always things that come up. So give yourself, like, a 10 or 15% little buffer, I would say. Um, and then that way, as you're working through the project, you can still. You have money set aside for, like, throw pillows and cute little things to put on your desk and, like, the things that you people actually want to buy. And it's fun to spend money on, but sometimes you don't get to that because you just spent so much on, like, something that wasn't even fun to buy.
Liz
That's really great. And Google Sheets is something you can keep on your phone. Like, you can reference it on your phone at any time, too. Like, while you're out in the field shopping.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yes.
Liz
Totally caught up.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Exactly. It's so easy to fall in love with something and then you go back and you're like, oh, I wasn't supposed to spend that.
Liz
You also have a little bit of a formula on where to shop, which I thought was really interesting. You have kind of a little bit of a rule of thirds.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah. So what we like to do for our projects, I like to have one third be kind of big box stuff. So things that will offset the price of the more, like, special pieces that you're finding. So that means like Pottery Barn, Room and Board, Crate and Barrel, that. That kind of store one third custom or bespoke. So it could be something that we're, like, actually making, or it could be something that, like, we found it in a flea market and we're recovering it. And because of that, it's like, bespoke to you. It doesn't need to be actually something that, like, you commission someone to make. But, um, and then one third vintage pieces or maybe pieces that are your own. So it's vintage, but it's. You're not buying them. Um, and what I think that does is it kind of helps to keep the balance, the budget in balance. And it also makes your space look really personal. Because I think the worst thing is when you buy everything from, like, anthropology or wherever, whatever, and you walk into that person's home and it feels like you just bought that showroom. Like, I feel like it's so important to kind of mix in personal pieces and pieces that you have a personal connection to. Maybe it's like you bought it while you were traveling, or it was your grandmother's, but you, like, lacquered it or whatever. The things that are exciting and you feel connected to those pieces because they're yours and they're special, but it's unrealistic that every single piece is going to be like that. So trying to stay within those boundaries, I think, is a really good balance.
Liz
That's really interesting. And it's one of the things that we at Ballard, like, totally think about all the time, because we like to customize everything that we. That we offer. So it's that it kind of, like, balances between the bespoke and.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, it's so true. Yeah, it really is, because it's like, you can make it your own, but it's a very reasonable price point. It's like, it's kind of the perfect sweet spot.
Liz
Yeah. What are some things that, when we're out shopping that we should be doing to make sure that we're set up for finding the right item? Like, you know, how. What's the best way to go out there and to get into the stores and to go shopping?
Emma Beryl Kemper
So I think that understanding the scale of the piece that you're looking for is so important. So going in with your floor plan and knowing, like, I'm looking for a dining table, but it cannot be more than, you know, 72 inches, whatever. And then also, I really like fallback on mood board so much, but also just knowing that what's my design concept? Meaning, like, how do I want my home to feel? What's, like, the through thread throughout my entire design and always checking back in with that, and I feel like. And again, the budget, actually. So then kind of knowing those three things, what do I want it to feel like, what is the size and what's it going to cost, you can kind of narrow down a lot of what you're picking through and hopefully find something that you love.
Liz
Yeah. And getting swatches when you're out shopping, I think is really a huge. A huge thing to do. Especially when you do go back to that stage where you bring it on back and you're. You're kind of scheming in that room.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, absolutely. I feel like as much as you are allowed to bring home with you, you always should, because it's so nice to be able to sleep on it. So if it's, like, physical samples of anything, I think that's so great. Tear sheets, I think, are so helpful. The other thing that I like to do with swatches of anything are, like, if you have kids or pets or you're like, I love red wine. I don't know, like, spill it on the swatches and see how it holds up.
Liz
Right. Yeah.
Caroline
I'm a big proponent of the pet hair. Like, yes, your sofa fabric. Rub it all over your dog. What does the pet hair. I'm, I'm dead serious.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I love this.
Caroline
Like, I had, I had a brown dog, and so I wanted to know, like, is this brown hair gonna show up on my sofa? Like, how obvious is it gonna be? Or, you know, if you've got a white dog or whatever it is, like, test it out.
Emma Beryl Kemper
It's so important. Yeah.
Caroline
I, I, I actually feel like fabrics and swatches are one of the biggest places where people are likely to make the wrong choice, partially because it's really easy when you're shopping to think, okay, I want to roll. You know, I want a roll arm sofa, and I want it to be, like, beige. You can find that in a lot of different places. But the quality of the fabric could be vastly different at each of those places. So while they all look the same, in theory, they're going to perform very differently. And the quality and choice that you make in the fabric in some cases, I think is way more important than even the frame sometimes, because if you don't pick a good fabric, it doesn't matter how good the frame is, because it's gonna, it's not gonna wear well and it's not gonna look good and you're gonna wanna get rid of it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
So I totally agree with that.
Caroline
But, like, I think people just, like, don't test drive their fabrics enough.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah. And I think also, like, so many people, and definitely myself included, buy so much online, and I feel like there's like, all these memes about, like, what I thought I was ordering on Amazon, and then it's like a dollhouse chair or something, which, like, if it's your whole sofa and you didn't look at that in person beforehand, that's terrible. Like, that's a huge purchase. And it does. It makes such a big difference what the fabric is, how it feels, how it wears, all of those things. You have to test it out.
Caroline
Oh, my gosh. This is, this is like my soapbox. Order a yard of. We sell all of our fabrics that we put on our sofas. We sell them by the yard. Order a yard, wrap your sofa cushion in it, test it out, sit on it for a month, let your dog sit on it, drink your red wine on it, and then see, can you clean it up? What does it look like? Is it, like, wrinkly? Is it, you know, I don't know.
Liz
Is it gonna pill?
Caroline
Yeah. Is it gonna Pill, like just test it out and make sure. Because if you hate it, then you only spend $40, not $4,000 completely.
Liz
It's, it's kind of the same thing too, like with the paint swatches. Right. Like you're putting paint swatches on your, on your walls. But if you can get a yard or two of the fabric on your sofa and really kind of see how the light's affecting that, like, you know, what does it look like in the daylight? What does it look like in mood lighting and. Yeah. And definitely how it wears.
Caroline
Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
No, it's so true. It's so important. I think also similarly for wallpaper, like order one roll, tape it up on the wall and see what you think. Because it's so much better to buy one roll.
Caroline
Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
And decide you don't like it than to wallpaper your entire room and then you're, you're kind of stuck.
Liz
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So sample. Go big.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yes, yes.
Caroline
Well, and just, you know, really do your due diligence with fabric. A beige sofa can perform in hundreds of different ways and like they're not all the same. So don't think that just because it's a, you know, solid fabric that it's going to look like the other one. You know what I mean?
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, completely. Yeah.
Caroline
One thing that I thought was so interesting is one of your chapters was to avoid built in tech. Can you expand on that? Because I 100% agree with you. But I felt like it was such an unusual thing to point out, but such great advice.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I think that tech dates itself way more quickly than like mostly anything else that you put in your house. So I think that when you put in like automatic shower controls or something three years from now, that's going to look so dated and you're not redoing that that's in your bathroom. I also, but like, maybe this is just me. I feel like they're harder to control and like more likely to break. So just all around, like, I feel like keeping that stuff separate, like use apps are fine and whatever. I'm not saying like live in the dark ages, but, but I just think anything that's attached to your house should not be tech. Tech in general.
Liz
No, that is, that is good advice. I mean, I used to have a neighbor who had, you know, 1960s house and they, they had like a pop up console. So it was like, it like hit this point where it was like super retro cool that a blender popped up out of their counter. But, but, yeah, it, but like there's very Limited.
Emma Beryl Kemper
You would just have to wait so long for whatever you put it. Become cool.
Liz
Yeah, yeah. Then you got to live through those painful decades.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Exactly.
Caroline
Well, also, I just think, you know, I think tech can break and how frustrating. Especially if you buy a house from someone who put all this stuff in and you're like, I don't know how to use any of this. Or, you know, I don't want to use Google home or whatever. And you're stuck with it. You can't figure out how to, like, turn your, you know. Yeah. Your. Your shower on or whatever.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Or like, you put it in and it's the latest and greatest and you're so excited about it and maybe you're really into tech, but then three years later, they invent something better and you're going to re. Renovate your house. Like, no, you're not.
Caroline
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Liz
Or they update the app and everything disconnects and you don't know how to reconnect it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Oh, geez. Yeah, that's.
Caroline
I'm trying to remember. We had some designer on the podcast recently who was saying their clients now are saying they don't. They want dumb. They want a dumb house. Like, they don't want. They don't want anything to be, you know, connected to their phone because then you have to have your phone.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
You know, and yeah, I like that saying.
Emma Beryl Kemper
That's funny.
Liz
But that whole concept, it kind of lives within this, like, future proofing your house section of the book, which I think is really, really great. So what are some other tips that we can take away for future proofing our houses?
Emma Beryl Kemper
I think avoiding any kind of trends as best you can is a good one. I think it's a lot easier to say that than to do it. Especially now. It's like every. We're looking at so much content all the time, and it's impossible to not be influenced by it. But I think that if you fall back on choosing things that you love and have always loved, you are future proofing your house. Because if something feels good to you, it's always going to feel good to you. It doesn't mean that it felt good to you today. And like, six months from now, you're going to be over it, because that's just something that's been tried and true and you know that you like it. I also think that following kind of let your house dictate what it needs. So, like, follow your own architecture. Figure out, like, when your house was built and what kind of materials were being used then and what Were the different profiles for faucets that were being used then just kind of all of that stuff and making it feel true to your house. It makes it feel classic. And so again, it's not going to date itself. And it basically, it's just like, when in doubt, look to the past, don't look for what's cool now. And that will keep things feeling more timeless. And then the other thing that I talk about, a decent amount is falling back on, like, vintage and living materials, meaning things that aren't going to stay frozen in time. Because I think if you put like a vintage area rug in your room, for example, that's already like 75 years old, it doesn't feel like you necessarily bought that in 2025. You could have bought that at any given point. And so it's not so of any particular moment and it's going to have a longer lifespan.
Liz
I also love that you added mixing metals.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Liz
As part of a way to future proof.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah. I think that there are metals that become really trendy. So there are like the obvious ones. Like, I feel like black metal had like matte black metal had like a moment. And now. Now I feel like you would have to re. Renovate. Like, I feel like you would probably already. I feel like I just offended people.
Liz
I don't want to say that.
Caroline
No.
Liz
But I mean, if you're not. If you're not like settling in all on one, that makes. Yeah, basically, it's easier to swap out.
Emma Beryl Kemper
It's easier to swap out. But it's also. You probably won't need to as much because instead of anchoring yourself to one time period when something was popular, you introduced hints of it. But it's not necessarily the overwhelming material in the room. So you got to use something that you like. But it also isn't like the defining.
Caroline
Factor that makes so much sense. Like, I think we've all seen those houses where, you know, maybe it was like that polished brass from the 90s and literally every, you know, the, the, like switch on the ceiling fan and the bathroom and the bathroom knobs and the kitchen faucet and the kitchen knobs and the, it's like literally the, the. The rim around the shower door. Every single thing was the exact same finish. And so then. Yes, it had a single moment.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Exactly.
Caroline
And then you walk in and it's so easy to spot that. Whereas if you've got, like, maybe you've got polished brass in one room, but then you've got some nickel, you've got chrome, you know, it's sort of, like, varied throughout. It's. It's. It's, like, harder to spot and.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, exactly. Yeah, exactly. It also makes it easier to, like, change things around if you want to in the future. Like, I was talking with somebody recently, and they were doing a renovation, and they were saying how they really wanted to do all chrome everywhere. And I was just cautioning them that, like, if three years from now they want to renovate only one bathroom, is it going to feel weird to them to not go with chrome then? Because every other thing in the house is chrome.
Caroline
True. Right.
Emma Beryl Kemper
And so I feel like it's human nature to change your mind and evolve and want to redo things, and it's part of just having fun and enjoying your home. I feel like if you make your rules too rigid for yourself, you're kind of, like, taking away that experience for yourself.
Caroline
And your. Your. Your doorknobs do not have to be the same finish as your light switch and your, you know, cabinet hardware. And, like, every single thing, it's like, 100. I've. I've never even considered the finish of my doorknobs as, like, being. Needing to match anything, I guess. Yeah. But there's, like, that polished brass doorknob that I can just think of with, you know, that's certain house.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
Okay. There. There was a point in the book where you were talking about how early in your career people would call you to help them, like, put the finishing touches on the space. Like, they, you know, felt like they picked out good stuff, they liked what they had, but they weren't getting to that final finish line that they wanted, but they couldn't figure out how to get there. So I'm curious, like, what are those things that people are missing at the end of the day, their project that are keeping them from getting to that finish line that you would then have gone in and helped them, you know, finalize.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I think that people generally underdress their rooms. Like, I think people think that they need less than they actually do. So there are kind of, like, the easier things that would come up more often than not, which are things like pillows and maybe. Maybe a pillow scheme that's, like, not so matching. Like, maybe it feels, like, a little bit more natural. And I feel like that makes a room feel more finished than just, like, set pairs and obviously, you know, styling bookcases and things like that. But then I also think often it comes down to if you have a blank wall, you actually need, like, a console table on that, or you can add another set of ottomans to your seating area and make it feel more social and more filled in. And I actually think it's often those bigger things that make more of a difference in finalizing it than the little odds and ends and accessorizing at the end because I think it just, it feels like more of a risk. But when you do those things and put them in, the room really does just feel like finished and more usable and more inviting and more comfortable and all of those things.
Caroline
So it's almost like they haven't put enough furniture in their room.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah, exactly.
Caroline
Yeah. That might actually be a good segue into our decorating dilemma. Unless you have something else you wanted to ask Liz.
Emma Beryl Kemper
That's perfect.
Liz
No, I think this is really great segue to this decorating dilemma.
Caroline
It's from Kristen and she says hi Ballard ladies. I'm Kristen from outside Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. We bought a house two years ago as a flip and while it's not our forever home, I aim to invest in quality pieces that last. I want to add character to our basic home with a classic, elegant, traditional style infused with a warm coastal vibe. Think Nancy Meyers and Ralph Lauren with a 7 year old son, dog and husband. Everything needs to be practical yet put together. Here's my living room dilemma. Our current 31 inch round glass nesting table coffee table needs replacing. Due to maintenance and sturdiness issues, I'm considering alternatives that accommodate drinks and snacks without matching our existing sofa ottoman. What style would you suggest? And then an area rug. I plan to use the Ballard Designs Antelope hand tub tufted rug. Good choice in natural. I'm torn between a 9x12 which will extend past the sofa towards the kitchen and a 10x14 which will nearly touch the media console. Which size would be best? And then in the dining room, another area rug question. The space is rectangular with a jut out on the right and the dining table is 60 inches round. I'm considering a 9x9 square wool rug. Thoughts on the style, pattern and size paint? Currently the walls are gray throughout the both rooms. I'd like to explore neutral for the living room and a different color for the dining room. Possibly incorporating right. I'm hesitant about wallpaper due to potential resale in five years. Which whites or colors would you recommend? Thanks for considering my questions. I love your podcast and I'm a loyal Baller Designs customer. Thanks Kristen. She has such a pretty space. I'm so a pretty space.
Liz
It is so beautiful.
Caroline
It's done an excellent job. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. What are your initial Thoughts?
Emma Beryl Kemper
Okay, so for the living room, specifically for her question surrounding the coffee table, because she mentioned that she has a young family, I would probably do a wood coffee table that has some type of texture already to it, so that if her kid is, like, coloring on there or whatever, not on the table, but on a piece of paper on.
Caroline
The table or on the table, because.
Emma Beryl Kemper
That'S what's going to happen.
Liz
Let's be real.
Caroline
Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Or on the table. That it can kind of stand up to that. And she doesn't need to stress about everything looking so perfect. She has a darker floor, so I think I would probably actually do a lighter wood finish for her coffee table. Maybe that's something that pulls from the matchstick shades that she has just to kind of keep it feeling, like, light and bright and warm like she mentioned. And then for the area rug, you know, it's so tricky. Normally I would always say size up, but as long as it is coming past the sofa, I'm actually going to say in this case, do the 9 by 12, because it makes me nervous that she's starting to inch towards the kitchen. Otherwise. And I wouldn't want the counter stools to back up onto the rugs. So I would go with the 9 by 12. And I love the style of the rug that she mentioned.
Liz
Yeah, that rug can go anywhere and everywhere.
Emma Beryl Kemper
It's so fun.
Caroline
Also, I think it's going to look really nice with her blinds and her leather chair because it has some of that, like, caramel color in it.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah.
Caroline
She's done a beautiful job. Okay. I like. I kind of like the cocktail. I mean, I know she says she can't keep it for sturdiness issues, but it looks good. It's a great.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I know. It looks really good. Yeah, I know.
Liz
Honestly, it's well sized, too. It's. It's. Yeah, it's great.
Emma Beryl Kemper
It really does. When I was looking at this room, I was almost like, I don't want to give my opinion. She's doing great.
Caroline
And then there's the dining room rug.
Emma Beryl Kemper
What are your thoughts on that dining room rug? Okay. I kind of like the idea of incorporating some color. So she obviously has a lot of blues going on. I think I would pull from that. So something wool was a really smart choice. It's going to wear really well. I think something maybe geometric, because she has the. The rug in the living room that's not so far. So maybe like a Greek key or something along that line. I think in shades of blue would be so nice.
Caroline
What about her Paint color.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Currently, the walls are gray. And she wants to do a white.
Caroline
Yes.
Liz
She said she's looking for a neutral in the living room and a different color for the dining room.
Caroline
Possibly. Possibly white. She's hesitant about wallpaper. I think she should do wallpaper.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I know I do. Like, yeah, she should do a peeling stick. Honestly, you know what I really think would be so pretty? A peel and stick grass cloth. And also another shade of light blue would be so pretty in there.
Liz
Or even. Even like an indigo color. I mean, I know that would be dark for. For her, but it might be a nice contrast.
Emma Beryl Kemper
It would be beautiful.
Caroline
She has a lot of light in here, so it's. It's not. It wouldn't be crazy to put a dark color because you've got so much light that it probably won't end up feeling that dark.
Liz
Right.
Caroline
And it'll just be so dramatic.
Emma Beryl Kemper
It'll also make her lighter furniture Pop. I think it's such a nice way.
Caroline
Yeah. Would you suggest doing grass cloth above the chair rail and below the chair rail? Just one or the other?
Emma Beryl Kemper
I would do the whole thing. I think it's nice to. I think it's more impactful and it feels more immersive when you do floor to ceiling. So I would do it all, and then I would paint the chair rail a color to. To match, basically pull from that grass cloth.
Caroline
So not white.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Not white. Okay.
Caroline
Okay. Well, Kristen, we're hoping that you are skilled enough in your DIY to do peel and stick on your own. And then that way when you get done, you know, when you're ready to sell in five years, which is a long time, by the way, so you'll still get, like, a lot of use out of this wallpaper.
Liz
And I've got to say, peel and stick grass cloth is very forgiving because you don't have to match a pattern. And I've done it myself. So you got this.
Caroline
So you said light wood rug, light wood table, similar size to what she's already got. Make sure that it's already got, like, some texture or, you know, patina to it so that you're not terrified that it's going to scratch. 9 by 12. Area rug for the living room, something with a geometric in the dining room, and then the peel and stick wallpaper in the dining room.
Emma Beryl Kemper
She's good to go.
Caroline
I know. She's got such a good. You have a great eye.
Liz
I honestly think, like, if she gets the rug in there, she might even keep the coffee table.
Emma Beryl Kemper
I know the coffee table is really nice.
Caroline
Well, she said it's a sturdiness issue. What did she say? She said maintenance and I know. And the probably fingerprints, but a rug.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Might help make it feel less wobbly.
Caroline
Yeah, true. Oh, that's a great point, actually. Yeah. Even if you don't want to keep it for here, you should keep it and just like don't get rid of it because it's great looking. I like the finish.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yeah. And she's moving in five years, so you never know in her next house. Yeah.
Caroline
You might have two living rooms in your next house.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Yes.
Caroline
Yeah. Okay. Well, thank you for listening, Kristen, and best of luck. And let us know what you decide. Thanks for writing in. All right, Emma, tell everyone where they can find you, follow you, and pick up your book.
Emma Beryl Kemper
My website is emma barrell.com My Instagram is at Emma Barrell and my book House Rules is on Amazon at Target, Barnes and Noble, wherever you buy your books. Nice.
Caroline
It really was really enjoyable. So thank you. And again, great, great housewarming gift to anyone that's like, or, you know, first apartment, anything like that. Yeah.
Emma Beryl Kemper
Thank you so much. This was so much fun. Thank you so much for having me.
Caroline
It really was. Thanks for joining us. All right, that's our show. And that's our show. You can find all of the show notes on our blog howtodecorate.com podcast to send in a decorating dilemma. Email your questions to podcastallarddesigns.net so we can help you with your space. And of course, be sure to follow us on social media. Alard Designs.
Liz
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Caroline
Until next time, happy decorating.
Episode Summary: How to Decorate Ep. 414 – 100 Ways to Feel at Home with Emma Kemper
In Episode 414 of How to Decorate, hosted by Caroline, Taryn, and Liz from Ballard Designs, the team welcomes New York-based interior designer and author Emma Beryl Kemper. Emma shares insights from her book, House Rules: 100 Ways to Feel at Home, offering a comprehensive guide to decorating that caters to both beginners and seasoned enthusiasts.
The episode kicks off with introductions of the hosts and Emma Kemper, who has been featured in prestigious publications like Architectural Digest and House Beautiful. Caroline highlights Emma’s latest book, emphasizing its practicality for those feeling overwhelmed by home decorating projects.
[01:02] Emma Kemper: "I was writing it for my younger self when I was first starting to think about becoming an interior designer... it's very easy, digestible, actionable tips and tricks."
Liz echoes the sentiment, noting how the book feels like a comprehensive degree in interior design, project management, and styling.
Emma delves into the initial stages of a decorating project, focusing on gathering inspiration. She emphasizes the importance of not just collecting images but also identifying patterns and personal preferences to create a cohesive vision.
[04:55] Liz: "Being able to, like, put together mood boards of, like, color or thoughts about what you want is one thing, but I really think, like, there's a step in there that's like, take notes and find the patterns in what you've already found and what you're drawn to."
Emma advises taking detailed notes alongside mood boards to avoid copying designs and instead, drawing inspiration to create something unique.
[05:38] Emma Kemper: "Take really good notes on your mood boards and try to reference your notes more than the pictures... you're moving away from what somebody else did, but you're still informed by it."
A significant portion of the discussion centers on paint selection, where Emma introduces the concept of a paint schedule. This tool helps keep projects organized by detailing room specifics, paint brands, colors, finishes, and notes.
[14:05] Emma Kemper: "A paint schedule is like a key throughout your project... lists out what the room is that you're working on, what is the surface in that room, the brand of the paint, the paint color, the paint finish."
Caroline underscores the importance of a paint schedule, especially in large projects like building a house, to prevent costly mistakes and ensure consistency.
[15:32] Caroline: "You do not want your contractor calling you in the middle of the day with like, what's the trim on here? You don’t want to have to go back and redo it."
Emma also highlights common pitfalls in paint selection, such as relying solely on website photos and not testing paint colors in the actual space.
[17:51] Emma Kemper: "Extremely important... you can't not paint in the room and you can't look at the paint until it's dry because it looks completely different."
Emma explains how the color wheel can demystify color coordination, making it easier to create harmonious palettes. She discusses different color schemes, their psychological impacts, and how they can be applied in interior design.
[24:17] Emma Kemper: "The color wheel... it can feel so intimidating to figure out, like, what colors go with what colors... it gives you like a little guide of this is what the actual rule is."
Caroline and Liz engage in a light-hearted discussion about complementary and analogous colors, providing practical examples of how to use them to achieve desired moods in a space.
[26:12] Liz: "Think like, right, blue and orange."
[27:00] Emma Kemper: "Create a hierarchy within that. So if you're going with blue and white, maybe blue is your hero color... green can be your 10% little accents here and there."
Emma shares her strategy for developing a detailed shopping list using tools like Google Sheets. She emphasizes breaking down tasks and assigning realistic budgets to each item to avoid overspending and ensure all project aspects are covered.
[28:33] Emma Kemper: "Make a list in Google Sheets of what are all of the things that I'm going to need to do to get this room from where it is to where it needs to be."
She introduces the "rule of thirds" for shopping, balancing major purchases with custom or vintage pieces to create a personalized and budget-friendly space.
[31:27] Emma Kemper: "One third big box stuff... one third custom or bespoke... one third vintage pieces or maybe pieces that are your own."
Emma advises against integrating built-in technology that may quickly become outdated. Instead, she recommends focusing on timeless design elements and mixing metals to ensure longevity and ease of updates.
[38:24] Emma Kemper: "Tech dates itself way more quickly than like mostly anything else that you put in your house."
She also stresses the importance of avoiding fleeting trends and choosing materials that stand the test of time, helping homes remain stylish and functional for years to come.
[41:18] Emma Kemper: "Avoiding any kind of trends as best you can... choose things that you love and have always loved."
In the final segment, Emma discusses common oversights in decorating, such as underdressing rooms with insufficient furniture or accessories. She highlights the impact of elements like pillows, rugs, and additional furniture in making a space feel complete and inviting.
[46:19] Emma Kemper: "People generally underdress their rooms... things like pillows... console tables... set pairs and styling bookcases."
Kristen from Philadelphia poses a decorating dilemma involving replacing a fragile glass nesting coffee table, choosing the right rug size, and selecting paint colors for a warm, coastal-style home. Emma offers tailored advice, recommending durable wood coffee tables, appropriate rug sizes, and incorporating color psychology to balance functionality with aesthetics.
[49:26] Emma Kemper: "For the coffee table... I would probably do a wood coffee table that has some type of texture already to it."
[52:33] Liz: "Or even like an indigo color... it might be a nice contrast."
The episode concludes with Emma providing her contact information and book availability, encouraging listeners to explore her insights further. The hosts reiterate the value of her practical advice and the significance of her book as a valuable resource for anyone embarking on a home decorating journey.
[54:59] Emma Kemper: "My website is emmabarr.com. My Instagram is @emmabarr, and my book House Rules is on Amazon, Target, Barnes and Noble..."
Overall, Episode 414 provides a wealth of actionable tips and thoughtful advice for creating a home that is both stylish and comfortable. Emma Kemper’s expertise serves as a valuable guide for listeners looking to enhance their living spaces with confidence and creativity.
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For those looking to dive deeper into home decorating strategies, Emma Kemper’s book and her expert insights on this episode offer a comprehensive starting point.