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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
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Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!
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Stop Running Out of Things to Say: 8 Topics that Ignite Flirty Conversations with Women
2d ago00:34:42Summary readyNothing kills a date faster than running out of things to say—and the awkward silence that follows. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett breaks down 8 great first-date topics that lead to free-flowing, flirty conversations. You’ll learn how to keep conversations going, banter with charm, and get a lot more second dates.NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT AND BANTER ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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“Should I Start an OnlyFans?” 31 Funny, Flirty Things to Say to Women When You Approach
4d ago00:23:07Summary readyYou see a woman in the real world you want to meet—but you freeze, get stuck in your head, and have no clue what to say. On this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 31 flirty, funny things to say to break the ice with women. Listen now for 31 openers that are charming, playful and NEVER creepy.NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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5 Pickup Lines for Guys Who Hate Pickup Lines: Stop Overthinking, Approach Her, and Just Say This
1w ago00:29:16Summary readyDo you want to meet women without sounding like some weird pickup artist? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five pickup lines for men who hate pickup lines. You’ll hear how his client Taylor went from overthinking approaches to confidently meeting and dating Cassie—no cheesy pickup lines needed. And if Taylor can do it, so can you!STRUGGLING TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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“Women Want Hot Guys” Is Bullsh*t: How Shekar Went from Self-Doubt to Approaching Confidence (Live Coaching)
2w ago01:26:03Summary readyIf you feel you’re just not handsome enough to get a great girlfriend, this episode will change how you think. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett sits down with his client Shekar, who used to feel like he wasn’t handsome enough to date wonderful women. Then he flew to New York City for Connell’s Wingman Weekend approaching bootcamp. Now he can meet women, get numbers, flirt—and he finally feels worthy!Episode Highlights:4:31: The “Hand of God” Approach That Changed Shekar’s Confidence14:14: Why It’s Not Creepy to Approach Women at the Gym24:45: The Secret to Playful Banter on the Dating Apps36:35: The Surprising Link Between Self-Improvement and Getting a Girlfriend1:03:25: How Much Does Where You Live Impact Your Love Life?STRUGGLING TO FLIRT AND CONNECT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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How Robbie Went from Panic Attacks to Fearless Approaching—and Got 7 Numbers in 1 Night (Live Coaching)
2w ago00:53:23Summary readyRobbie was once so anxious around women he couldn’t even say hi to his crush, the cute cashier. And the idea of approaching women felt impossible. Then came one unforgettable Friday night. With dating coach and author Connell Barrett as his wingman, Robbie grabbed seven phone numbers and soon met his romantic partner. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell and Robbie unpack the aha moments that changed Robbie’s love life.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:08:25: The Cute Cashier Robbie Was Too Anxious to Talk To14:15: A Simple Mindset Shift that Made Approaching Simple24:50: The Playful Opener that Unlocked Robbie’s Confidence34:15: “I Was in God Mode!” How Robbie Got 7 Phone Numbers in One Night50:37: How Approaching Women Changes Your Entire Dating LifeSTRUGGLING TO APPROACH WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL SO HE CAN HELP YOU FIX IT:DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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37 Flirty Things to Say on First Dates to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Second Dates
2w ago00:21:34Summary readyNot knowing what to say or how to flirt on first dates can get any guy trapped in the dreaded friend zone. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 37 flirty things to say that spark chemistry and help her feel a real romantic connection—without using any manipulative pickup artist tactics. Listen now so you can confidently flirt and start getting second dates.STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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How to Flirt So Good She Can’t Stop Thinking About You (Live Coaching with Evan)
3w ago00:52:19Summary readyYou see a woman you’d love to meet… and you freeze, overthinking the “perfect” line. And you’re left kicking yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so good that women can’t stop thinking about him! From bold openers to “wolfish” eye contact that women love, you’ll learn how to create instant sparks with women.07:45: How to Get Out of Your Head & Meet Women at Your Local Bar10:46: Approaching Isn’t Creepy—But Doing THIS Is19:53: What Stops You From Approaching Women40:32: “How To Spark Attraction With Eye Contact55:01: Why Women HATE “Interview Mode”STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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How to Date in Your Social Circle—without Being “That Creepy Guy” (Live Coaching with A.J.)
4w ago01:05:38Summary readyYou want to date women in your social circle, but you don’t want to be “that creepy guy.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client A.J. navigate meeting women in social groups. You’ll learn how to read the room and know what to say, without crossing any lines. Listen now—your future girlfriend might be in your yoga class, waiting for you to say hello.STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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JUST. SAY. THIS. Your Cheat Sheet to Stop Freezing and Start Flirting in 7 Scary Dating Moments
Apr 3000:32:41Summary readyIf you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.Episode Highlights:02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First KissTIRED OF STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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You Want to Approach—But Anxiety Stops You. The 7 Steps to Confidently Meet Women Anywhere
Apr 2800:38:52Summary readyYou see quality women you’d love to meet—but anxiety gets in the way. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.Episode Highlights:04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers & Dates (Results!)28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream GirlfriendTIRED OF FREEZING UP AROUND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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