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Intentionality with Paul Kempff
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Discover a More Purposeful Way of Living with Intentionality with Paul Kempff (IWPK)
In a world that often pulls us towards autopilot, have you ever paused and asked: "Is this truly the life I want to be living? How can I make my days more meaningful, more aligned with what truly matters?" If you're seeking to move beyond simply reacting to life and start consciously designing it, then welcome to Intentionality with Paul Kempff (IWPK).
This podcast is your dedicated guide and companion on the journey of intentional living. It’s built on the foundational belief that mindful choices, made consistently across the key areas of our lives, are the bedrock of genuine purpose and lasting fulfillment. IWPK is created for professionals, entrepreneurs, personal growth enthusiasts, and those who feel ready to elevate their lives beyond mere achievement toward deeper meaning and alignment.
Your Host: Paul Kempff
Guiding you through these explorations is Paul Kempff. With a conversational, authentic, and down-to-earth style, Paul fosters insightful discussions that bridge the gap between abstract concepts and real-world application. He shares relatable anecdotes, interviews inspiring guests, and provides practical frameworks, all aimed at empowering you, the listener, to take ownership of your unique path. Paul's passion lies in equipping you with the tools and perspectives needed to make intentional decision-making a natural part of your everyday life.
The Core Pillars: Mind, Money, and Life
IWPK approaches intentionality through a holistic lens, focusing on three interconnected pillars:
- Mind: Dive deep into cultivating robust mental well-being. Explore powerful mindset shifts, techniques for managing stress and building resilience, strategies for enhancing focus, and the practice of continuous personal growth. It’s about mastering your inner world to navigate the outer world more effectively.
- Money: Transform your relationship with finances. Learn practical financial literacy concepts, understand effective wealth-building strategies, and, crucially, cultivate a healthy money mindset where finances become a tool to support your life vision, not a source of stress.
- Life: Consciously design your day-to-day existence. This includes optimizing your lifestyle, nurturing meaningful relationships, navigating your career with purpose, prioritizing holistic well-being (physical, emotional, spiritual), and ensuring your daily actions reflect your core values.
More Than Just a Podcast
IWPK fosters a supportive community of like-minded individuals pursuing growth. It's part of a broad...
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🎧 Episode 71: The Problem with Perfection: How to Overcome 'Intentional Fatigue'
Nov 500:20:59Tap to summarizeFor over 70 episodes, Paul Kempff has championed the power of engineering a more intentional life. But what happens when the very pursuit of that ideal leads to burnout?In this vulnerable and personal episode, Paul confronts a flaw in the podcast's original premise: the expectation of 100% perfection is not sustainable. He introduces a concept he calls "Intentional Fatigue" —that feeling of exhaustion, demotivation, and failure when you inevitably slip up on your discipline. It's the moment your mind says "keep going," but your body says, "I cannot do it anymore".Paul argues the problem isn't intentionality itself; it's the expectation of perfection. This creates a "Discipline Paradox": the harder you try to control everything, the faster you lose control over the few things that matter most.The solution? We must shift from "universal control" to "intentional focus". Paul offers five practical solutions to build a more sustainable, compassionate, and effective intentional life.💡 Key Solutions from This Episode:Stop Chasing Perfection Perfection is debilitating. If everything is a priority, nothing is. Instead, practice intentional prioritizing. Identify your "life non-negotiables" (e.g., a positive mindset) that you always protect. Then, create a "secondary intentional list" (e.g., exercise, diet) where you allow yourself "intentional grace" and the room to slip up now and then.Practice Self-Compassion You are allowed to be a work in progress. Stop the debilitating self-criticism when you miss a goal and be careful who you measure yourself against. Self-compassion isn't self-indulgence; it's the wisdom to treat yourself as you would a struggling friend, preserving the mental energy you need to get back on track tomorrow.Find the Fun The process of continuous improvement can be a tiring, boring grind. To avoid burnout, you must intentionally schedule interim rewards that re-energize you. Bringing intentional fun into your life helps you handle the boring-but-necessary parts of discipline, making your goals easier and more enjoyable to achieve.Seek a Witness to Your Life Paul shares a powerful quote from the movie Shall We Dance?: "We need a witness to our lives". An accountability partner—like a spouse or close friend—is a "witness" who keeps you accountable, disciplined, and intentional. This support system is an undervalued element that can be the difference between success and failure.Shift from Quantity to Quality It's easy to get caught in the chase for "more"—more money, more hours, more success. But this focus on quantity can be empty. Be careful of reaching a point where "enough is never enough". True intentionality is also having the wisdom to define your finish line and shift your focus from quantity (more work) to quality (more time with family, more creative pursuits, more life-enriching travel).📚 Tip of the WeekPaul recommends Morgan Housel's new book, The Art of Spending Money. While the book offers great advice on using money wisely , Paul argues there is a more important art to master: the art of spending your time. Time is a more valuable and finite commodity than money. He leaves listeners with a thought exercise: If time were your only currency, would you continue to spend it the way you currently do?
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Stoicism, Intentionality, and the True Source of Your Energy
Oct 2000:15:29Tap to summarizeHave you ever felt that being disciplined and rational was in conflict with living a passionate, energetic life? For years, I believed this to be true, and it created a major conflict in my personal philosophy. I assumed that Stoicism—a philosophy I deeply admire—required a detached, emotionless approach to life, which is the opposite of how I believe we should show up in the world.In preparing for this 70th episode, I realized this assumption was completely wrong.In this episode, we explore how the ancient wisdom of Stoicism doesn't drain our energy, but liberates it. Discover how to build an unshakeable internal foundation that allows you to engage with the world more passionately and effectively than ever before. This is not about suppressing your fire; it's about fueling it with purpose instead of ego.In this episode, you will discover:The critical difference between modern "passion" and the ancient Stoic view of it.How to shift your energy source from external outcomes to internal virtue.The Four Cardinal Virtues of Stoicism (Wisdom, Justice, Courage, and Temperance) as a guide for life.Three powerful ways that Stoicism and Intentional Living are deeply connected.A Question for Reflection: Where does your energy come from? Is it tied to external results and validation, or to your internal commitment to doing the right thing with excellence?Thank you for being part of the Intentionality community. If this episode resonates with you, please consider subscribing and sharing it with someone who might benefit.#Stoicism #IntentionalLiving #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #EnergyManagement #Purpose
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How to Intentionally Build Your Legacy. From Success to Significance: Crafting Your Legacy | Intentional Masterclass with Francois and Paul
Oct 600:56:41Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Paul and Francois explore the intentional shift from a life of accumulation to a life of distribution. They discuss why moving beyond the endless chase for "more" is critical for building a life of meaning and significance, not just for those who come after us, but for ourselves, right now.This isn't about waiting until you retire. This is about living a life that aligns with the person you want to be remembered as.In this discussion, you will explore:The powerful mental exercise of writing your own eulogy.The crucial difference between an inheritance and a true legacy.Moving from an "accumulation" mindset to a "distribution" mindset.The concept of Micro vs. Macro legacies and why both are valuable.Asking the tough question: "When is enough, enough?" to avoid the trap of the rat race.Reflection: What is one value or principle you hope to pass on to the people closest to you? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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The Truth About Why LIFE IS HARD and How to Change It
Sep 2200:17:37Tap to summarize🤔 Ever feel like "life is hard"? This episode challenges that common belief with a controversial perspective: life, through intentionality, can actually be easy. Discover the truth about why life is hard and how to change it with this video on self-improvement and motivation. Learn how to take control and make positive changes in your life. 💡 The F.A.E. Formula Learn a simple yet profound framework to regain control of any challenge. It’s a tool for intentionally deciding whether to Fix it, Accept it, or Exit it. This approach helps you move from a life that feels hard to one that is "gorgeous". ✅ In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why it's critical to first understand why your life feels hard before trying to change it. How every option—Fix, Accept, or Exit—requires sacrifice to be effective. Why the process of change is often "hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end". 🎧 Tip of the Week Paul recommends the Mel Robbins podcast episode "Eight Things to Tell Yourself Every Morning" for powerful affirmations to improve positive self-talk and gratitude. 👇 Connect & Support 🎁 WIN A COACHING SESSION: The giveaway for a one-hour coaching session on emotional intelligence is still open! To enter, send an email or engage with us on social media and share your views on emotional intelligence. 📈 THANK YOU & SUBSCRIBE: We recently surpassed 200,000 views on YouTube! If you've found value in our content, please consider hitting the subscribe button to help us grow and amplify our impact.
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The EQ Edge: Why Emotional Intelligence Matters More Than IQ | IWPK Ep. 68
Sep 800:44:19Tap to summarizeWhat if the single biggest predictor of your success has nothing to do with your IQ?The data is clear: on average, people with high Emotional Intelligence (EQ) earn $29,000 more per year than their low-EQ counterparts. 90% of top performers have high EQ, and it accounts for nearly 60% of performance in all types of jobs.This isn't just about being "nice." As a leader I admire once said, true emotional intelligence is about being effective when emotions are high, trust is low, and the stakes are real. It’s the skill that allows you to lead with composure in a volatile world and build the kind of trust that inspires others to bring their whole creative selves to the table.But here's the paradox that I've been wrestling with: the people who need this skill the most are often the least aware that they lack it. It's a dangerous cognitive blind spot called the Dunning-Kruger effect, and it could be holding you back without you even knowing it.In this episode, I want to give you a clear map for navigating your inner world with greater intention. We'll explore the groundbreaking science that proves EQ is a skill you can build, and I’ll share a toolkit of practical, tangible things you can do to start improving today.In this episode, we will:Uncover Your Human Edge: Discover why, in an age where AI is getting smarter by the day, your emotional intelligence is the one advantage that cannot be replicated by an algorithm.Decode the Paradox: We’ll explore the Dunning-Kruger effect and why a lack of self-awareness creates a "double curse" that prevents growth.Unlock Your Potential: Learn the hopeful truth about neuroplasticity—your brain’s ability to change—which confirms that you have the power to intentionally increase your EQ throughout your life.Build Your Toolkit: I'll share simple but powerful practices like "Mastering the Pause" to help you move from emotional reaction to intentional response.Episode Giveaway & Invitation: As I mentioned in the episode, I have a unique invitation and a special giveaway for you. E-mail me at paul@iwpk.co.zaAn Invitation for Your Reflection: What is one practical step you can take this week to improve your self-awareness? I'd genuinely love to read your thoughts in the comments.Connect with Me & the Intentionality Community:Subscribe for more content on living and leading with intention.Email: paul@iwpk.co.zaWebsite: Intentionalitywithpaulkempff.co.za
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A Woman's Financial Framework: Beyond the Pay Gap | Ep.67 with Laura van Schalkwyk
Sep 800:36:43Tap to summarizeJoin Laura van Schalkwyk as she breaks down the importance of gender equality in personal finance. Learn how to create a strong financial framework for women beyond the pay gap in this insightful episode.Why do South African women retire with only 71% of the funds that men do? It’s a question that goes far beyond salaries.In this essential conversation, Paul is joined by Laura van Schalkwyk, a 20-year veteran of the financial services industry, to explore the unique financial journey of women. They break down the Mindset, Mechanics, and Momentum framework from a female perspective, revealing how life experiences, societal pressures, and distinct challenges shape a woman’s relationship with money.This isn't just another finance episode; it's a deep dive into the realities that are often overlooked in financial planning. Laura shares powerful stories and practical insights that highlight why financial knowledge is not a luxury, but a lifeline.❓ In this episode, you will learn about:The real-world impact of the gender pay gap and career breaks on long-term wealth.How early life experiences with money—from childhood jobs to student debt—shape your financial mindset.The hidden pressures of "keeping up with the Joneses" in the age of social media.Why financial independence is a critical "why" for so many women.The importance of breaking generational cycles of financial dependence.👉 Connect with our trusted financial services partner, FFG: https://linkly.link/2E9Ig
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The 5 Foundational Lessons of Intentional Fatherhood
Aug 2500:56:01Tap to summarizeThis is not a typical parenting guide. It is a raw, multi-generational exploration of what it means to be a present and impactful father in the modern world. It tackles the tough questions around why we have children and how to consciously build a legacy that echoes in their lives.In this episode, you will discover:Why the decision to have children is becoming more complex due to societal and economic pressures.The five timeless lessons for intentional fatherhood, including why you must let your children struggle and learn their own lessons.The critical importance of never neglecting your relationship with your wife for the sake of your children.Why children are more resilient than you think and "don't break that easily," even when you make mistakes.The crucial difference between being physically present and being mentally and emotionally present for your kids.How Paul's perspective on fatherhood has evolved, leading him to a place where his adult children are now two of his best friends.What is the most powerful lesson your father ever taught you, either through his words or his actions? Share your thoughts in the comments below.#IntentionalLiving #Fatherhood #Parenting #NewDad #PersonalGrowth
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How to Change Your Financial Trajectory with 5 Intentional Habits | Series Finale
Jul 2800:25:51Tap to summarizeWhat if the blueprint for changing your finances was also the blueprint for changing your life?In this powerful conclusion to our 3M Financial Framework series, Paul Kempff reveals a profound truth he discovered after 30 years in finance: the process for building unstoppable financial momentum is almost exactly the same as the process for changing your life’s entire trajectory.This episode moves beyond theory to give you the practical, actionable habits that turn intention into an unstoppable force. If you’ve ever felt stuck or struggled to make progress last, this is the missing ingredient you've been searching for.💡 In this episode, you will learn:How to Change Your Trajectory: Discover the 5 intentional habits that are the true engine of financial momentum.Track Your Progress: Learn why tracking is the single most important habit for creating a powerful feedback loop that fuels motivation.Stop Repeating Mistakes: Understand how to break the cycles that hold you back and turn past missteps into your greatest lessons.Defy the "More & Better" Mindset: Learn to resist lifestyle creep and intentionally direct your resources toward what truly matters.Master Delayed Gratification: Uncover the superpower of sacrificing small pleasures today for massive gains tomorrow.Find Your "Why": Get the two critical questions you must ask yourself to find the fuel that will keep you disciplined and focused for the long term.This isn't just the end of a series; it's the key to making your progress permanent.🤔 Reflect on this:What is one recurring financial mistake you are now ready to leave behind?🔗 LISTEN TO THE FULL 3M FRAMEWORK SERIESAs mentioned in the episode, it's beneficial to listen to the first two parts before this one.Part 1 (Mindset): https://youtu.be/5IWtvfwcSZgPart 2 (Mechanics): https://youtu.be/iiPxspGTsug🤝 TAKE THE NEXT STEP IN YOUR FINANCIAL JOURNEYThis episode is proudly sponsored by the FFG Group. As a trusted provider of financial services that embodies intentionality, they are ready to help you on your journey.Explore their tailored solutions:https://linkly.link/2C2Og#IntentionalLiving #FinancialFreedom #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #Investing #WealthBuilding #FinancialHabits #Momentum
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A SIMPLE System for Intentional Money Management
Jul 1400:21:43Tap to summarizeLearn a simple system for intentional money management in this video. Discover budgeting tips and strategies for personal finance success! Welcome to Part 2 of our 3-part series, The 3-M Financial Framework. In this episode, Paul gives you the tools to build your Financial Engine. We move from the 'why' to the 'how' with three simple, powerful mechanics for your spending, saving, and debt that create clarity, not restriction. (New here? This is Part 2 of a series. We highly recommend watching Part 1 first to get the foundational mindset work: https://youtu.be/5IWtvfwcSZg ) In This Episode, You'll Get the Blueprint For: ⚙️ An "Intentional Spending Plan" using the simple 50/30/20 guideline. ⚙️ The single most powerful way to save consistently: Automation. ⚙️ A shame-free, step-by-step strategy to tackle debt and build momentum (The Debt Snowball). ⚙️ An actionable plan to implement ONE of these mechanics this week. ⬇️ YOUR FREE TOOLKIT ⬇️ Download your "1-Page Financial Engine Planner," a free PDF with a 50/30/20 calculator, automation checklist, and debt snowball planner: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1iMnHzj6gxf-f2op79YBYRcUKa2yGTwJ9/view?usp=sharing 🔔 Stay Connected: Subscribe and turn on notifications to catch our grand finale with a special guest! Like this video if you're ready to build a system for your finances. #FinancialPlanning #BudgetingTips #DebtFreeJourney #SavingMoney #Automation #IWPK
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The Most Important Investment | 3 Part Series to Master your Money
Jun 3000:19:24Tap to summarizeWhat if the biggest obstacle to your financial growth isn't your income, but an invisible story you've been telling yourself for years?Welcome to Part 1 of our special 3-part series, The 3-M Financial Framework. In this foundational episode, Paul guides you through the first and most crucial pillar: Mindset. This isn't just a talk; it's the beginning of a two-week guided journey to uncover the "money story" that dictates your financial decisions.This episode is for you if you're ready to move from financial anxiety to financial peace, and you're willing to do the foundational work to get there.In This Episode, You Will Be Guided Through:💡 The powerful concept of a "Money Story" and why it controls your finances.💡 A 4-Step "Financial Mindset Audit" to complete over the next two weeks.💡 How to connect your earliest money memory to your present-day habits.💡 Your first act of rebellion: reframing a limiting belief into an empowering truth.⬇️ YOUR FREE WORKSHEET ⬇️ Download the "Financial Mindset Audit" PDF, your free companion for this episode's homework: https://linkly.link/2AlfUA Moment for Reflection: After listening, what was the emotion that came up with your earliest money memory? Share your reflection in the comments below.🔔 Stay Connected:Follow so you don't miss Part 2 of this bi-weekly series.Like this video if you're ready to do the work and build an intentional financial future.#FinancialMindset #IntentionalLiving #MoneyStory #FinancialWellness #LimitingBeliefs #IWPK
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