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You're listening to an ONO Media Podcast. Hey everyone and welcome back to the into the Dark podcast. I am your host Peyton Moreland and I am so glad you are here listening. If you are listening on audio and can give me a review on whatever podcast platform you're listening on, that would be great. And if you're watching on YouTube, please just take a second turn on notifications. Subscribe give this video a thumbs up. It is a great way to support the show, but either way I'm happy you are here watching this episode. I know I do that spill like every single time. So thank you for just listening through it. Let's jump into my 10 seconds. So Garrett got his hair transplant and it has been very intense to say the least. I did not realize how crazy it was going to be. Not just the day of this procedure but also after the procedure took 14 hours. I had to go pick him up. He was having like full whole body tremors. So much pain. So bloody. I have to clean his head morning and night. I have to make sure I'm putting cream and spray on every single hour. It is crazy intense. I'm feeling so so bad for him. I hope that we kind of get over the mend here soon, but honestly that has just been what's taking up my week. Ever since our last episode we've honestly just been at home. I've been trying to do everything I can to make him comfortable. He still can't even sleep laying down yet. He literally has to sleep in like a neck pillow. He hasn't showered yet because he's not allowed to get near water. It's a Whole. It's a whole freaking thing. But that is what's great about being able to work from home, is I can still come down here and record. We can still get our work done. And honestly, for that, I am eternally grateful. And that is because of you guys listening. And I just want you to know that we do not take that lightly. We'll never take it for granted, and we love you guys so much. That being said, let's jump into today's case. Now, nobody likes to wait for things. I'm sure most of us have gotten very frustrated by long lines at the grocery store or sitting around in doctors or dentist's office waiting for our appointments. And we all know it can feel like torture when a big event or holiday is coming up, but not quite fast enough. We don't want to wait. And on top of that, there are certain circumstances where I think we can all agree we probably shouldn't wait. Say, if you're in an emergency situation, you should get help right away. And after horrible crimes, we want justice for the victims quickly. Nobody should have to wait for years or decades for their case to get solved. And sadly, today's story is all about waiting. So our case today revolves around a man named Robert Juan. He was a fourth generation Chinese American, and he was born in New York City. And from the time that he was very young, Robert cared a lot about justice. Enough so that he spent his whole life fighting for fairness and equality. He actually decided to become a lawyer. And while he was an undergrad, he was involved in a bunch of different honor societies and student groups, particularly groups for Asian American students. He even wrote an article about anti Asian bias and workplace harassment. It was good enough to be published while he was still a student. Robert was also a member of the student government, which is how he ended up meeting a classmate named Joseph Price. Joseph was also very accomplished, and he had similar goals to Robert. Both of them planned to go to law school after undergrad, and both of them were overachievers who were involved in a lot of different clubs and student organizations. I mean, it just kind of makes sense that they would meet up in college and become friends. The things that these two boys were involved in are the sort of things that help your resume increase your odds of getting accepted into a good university. And like Robert, his new friend from college, Joseph cared a lot about social justice. It was a personal issue for him because Joseph was gay, so he was very outspoken about LGBTQ rights. He belonged to groups that supported queer students and which tried to raise awareness of issues that affected them. It's safe to assume that Robert and Joseph bonded over their shared passion for the law and for equal rights. And they stayed in touch after grand graduation. Okay, so Joseph went on to attend a good law school. He passed the bar, he became a lawyer and continued fighting for equality. He even established a non profit group that handled legal cases related to LGBTQ issues. And as for Robert Juan, he also finished law school and became an attorney. He got a good job at a firm in Washington D.C. it handled real estate and employment law. And like Joseph, Robert was still committed to giving back. So he volunteered with a lot of groups that served the Asian American community. Now Fast forward to 2002. Robert was at a conference for attorneys in Chicago when he met a woman named Catherine. Catherine was also a lawyer and the two of them hit it off right away. They decided to date long distance for a few months. And then in the summer of 2003, Catherine and Robert Juan get married. Catherine moves to Washington D.C. to be with her new husband. And they settled into their new life where they were active in their church. So for this couple, community involvement and activism are important. By 2006, Robert was 32 years old. He and Catherine lived together out in the suburbs. He was still working a job in the city of Washington D.C. so every day he'd have to make a very long commute. Now, Robert didn't mind this very much. Most days he just accepted that he'd have to wake up super early and wouldn't get home until late. But it did get to be draining during the busy periods where he was putting in long hours at the office on top of all the time he spent on the road. Which is exactly what happened on August 2, 2006. Robert has an unusually late night at work and he just didn't fill up to making the long trek back home. He was exhausted. Did. The good news was that Robert's old college friend, now 35 year old Joseph, actually lived very close to his office. Okay, so just a mile away and they're talking this night. And when he realized that Robert had a late night ahead of him, he made him an offer. Joseph told Robert, hey, just spend the night in my guest room. That way you don't have to drive all the way back home. You can get a good night's sleep and then just make the mile trek back to your office in the morning. It sounded like a great plan. So Robert gratefully agreed to come over to Joseph's house where Joseph lived with his two boyfriends. See Joseph Was in an open relationship with both men. One was named Victor zaborski. Victor was 40 years old and a very successful marketing professional. If you're a child of the 90s, you actually may remember the Got Milk? Campaign that was very popular during that time. It showed celebrities with milk mustaches and it encouraged children to get more dairy in their diets. Well, Victor was one of the people who came up with that campaign. Somewhere along the way, he met Joseph. The two men fell in love. They'd never been married, but they did have a registered civil partnership, which was common for gay men in the years before same sex marriage was legalized nationwide. So by 2006, they'd been living together in Washington D.C. for close to 10 years. But what about that third boyfriend? Okay, sometime in the early 2000s, Joseph also began dating another man, Dylan ward. Dylan was 32 years old, and over the years he'd worked a lot of odd jobs. He'd been a chef, a children's book publisher, and a fundraiser for gay rights charities. Now that last job had taken him to Washington D.C. and when he needed a place to live, he ended up renting a basement unit from Joseph and Victor. The couple lived in the upstairs part of their house while Dylan stayed downstairs. Except as time went on, Dylan began sleeping with his landlord, Joseph. And to be clear, from what I can tell, Joseph wasn't cheating on his partner, his long term partner, Victor. Dylan knew about Victor and Victor knew about Dylan too. And Joseph suggested a three way relationship where everyone felt like they were on equal standing. But even though he'd been seeing both men for four or five years, they weren't exactly there yet. Everyone was still figuring out where they stood with one another. Somewhere along the way, Dylan had moved out of the basement rental and into his own bedroom on the same floor as Victor and Joseph. So Victor and Joseph shared a bedroom and Dylan had his own separate room. But now on the same floor. He was still sexually active with Joseph, but not Victor. And after Dylan moved out of that basement unit, they all rented that downstairs space to a new tenant. Now, this person wasn't part of Dylan, Joseph and Victor's relationship or complicated relationship. So I know it's complicated, but there were four people living in the house. The person in the basement was just a renter. And Dylan and Victor were both dating Joseph. Okay, so that's what's going on at the time that Robert is gonna go stay the night. So there was also one empty guest room at the house, which is where Robert ended up staying that night. He Got there. He left the office, got there at 10:30pm and reportedly spent a little time chatting with his hosts. I mean, Joseph is his old friend from college and now he gets to meet his two boyfriends, roommates, whatever you want to call them. The conversation that night doesn't last long. He knew he had an early morning the next day so he didn't want to stay up too late. He took a shower and was in his bed within a half an hour or so. Then sometime later, the next door neighbors heard a scream coming from the house and they didn't call the police. So it's hard to say exactly what time the scream was. But they later testified that it was between 11 and 11:30pm now at 11:49pm Victor, who is Joseph's long term boyfriend, called 911 and he told the dispatcher that someone had broken into his home and had committed a horrific crime. Specifically, Victor said, quote, we heard, we think it was somebody, an intruder in the house. We heard a chime the door. We had someone in our house evidently, and they stabbed somebody. But when the operator offered to send police, ambulances and firefighters, Victor said, oh no, no, we only need an ambulance. He seemed oddly confident that this intruder who had broken into the home and stabbed someone, whoever they were, was gone. And he also claimed the police weren't necessary because nobody in the house was in danger anymore. Now this struck the dispatcher as odd, as did another strange detail on this call. Throughout the call, Victor kept saying we instead of I as in we heard somebody, we heard a chime, we had someone in our house. It made it sound like Victor wasn't speaking just for himself. Instead he might have talked to other people in the house before calling 91 1, like they all together were sharing this story. The call lasted about 5 minutes and 40 seconds until the paramedics and the police made it onto the scene. Because newsflash, someone can't be stabbed and then it not be a crime. Police still have to come. So the operator had sent them both, even though Victor claimed they didn't need the police. And when they arrived, they only saw even more strange things at this already strange scene. First, Victor was outside of the home waiting for them to let them in. And he was still on the cell phone with 91 1. He was wearing a bathrobe, like he had just stepped out of the shower. Now on its own, that isn't weird. Maybe Victor had been washing up right before he heard the intruder and called 91 1. Except when Victor walked the paramedics Inside they bump into Dylan, who is also wearing a white robe. Now, Dylan is the short term boyfriend to Joseph, but Victor and Dylan do not have a relationship. So Victor and Dylan are wearing robes. He also looks like he's been in the shower recently. From there, the police and paramedics headed straight for the guest bedroom. And that's where they found Robert. And he's dead.
