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A Mochi Moment from Sadie who writes I'm not crying, you're crying. This is what I said during my first appointment with my physician at Mochi because I didn't have to convince him I needed a GLP one. He understood and I felt supported, not judged. I came for the weight loss and stayed for the empathy. Thanks Sadie. I'm Mayra Amit, founder of Mochi Health. To find your mochi moment, visit joinmochi.com.
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Join Sadie is emoji member compensated for her story? You're listening to an Ono Media Podcast. Hi everyone and welcome back to the into the Dark podcast. I'm your host Peyton Marlin. I'm so glad you are here watching or listening. If you are watching on YouTube, please subscribe, turn on notifications and leave a comment below. Just any interaction with the video honestly helps so much. And if you are listening on audio and can leave a review or head over to Instagram and leave a comment. Thank you, thank you, thank you for supporting the show. It feels like it has been so long since I recorded an episode, but that was because last week I ended up going to Arizona for a little bit and while I was there I went and got my Dutch Bros and I got a large because I had kind of been staying up all night. I wasn't really sleeping and so I got a large and I was at my sister's house and I was sitting on her couch and I put my Dutch bros down on the couch. Which I know you're like, I do it all the time at home. I don't know. I always tuck my drink in at home. Honestly, it's my fault. It's a different couch. Anyways, my Dutch bros, my large Dutch bros tipped over and spilled all over her couch. Literally all over an entire cushion. And I had to sit there with a toothbrush and scrub it out and I still, I had to do two rounds and I it still smells like coffee. So I'm so sorry sister. But that story is not over. Because then I got home today, I go get a Dutch Bros. This time a medium. I bring it into the bathroom, I jump in the shower, I'm getting ready to put on my makeup and I go to grab my Dutch Bros to move it from my bathroom sink over to where I do my makeup, slips out of my hand, falls down onto my bathroom floor, and in my bathroom, I have a really white, like, fuzzy rug. It's just super comfy. Spilled my Dutch Bros all over the rug. Okay. I was able to clean that one up a little bit easier. But the worst part about all of this is that I've now wasted two Dutch Bros, which means I have to get in my car and drive to get another one because majority of the drink spilled. That's honestly the worst part, because my drink. That's so sad. I don't get a drink that. Yeah. So anyways, needless to say, I'm gonna make Garrett carry all my drinks from now on, but especially my coffee, because I just think this is a sign that. Not that I'm not supposed to be drinking it anymore, but that I'm not supposed to be carrying them anymore. All right, you guys, that was my 10 seconds. Let's get into today's episode, Quick Trigger Warning. This episode includes discussions of sexual assault, so please listen with care. If you're a woman, you have probably heard lots of safety advice throughout your life. You know, tips like, if you're at a bar, don't leave your drink unattended because someone could tamper with it. Or. Or don't walk alone after dark. Or never tell a strange man where you live. Not even Uber drivers or casual acquaintances. I mean, I could go on, because there is so much advice out there that is supposedly there to keep women safe, the problem is that even if you follow all of these rules and still do everything right, bad things still happen. There are dangerous people everywhere. And if you don't follow the rules and someone goes on to hurt you, people might say you're responsible victim blame instead of the actual culprit. While it can be tempting to try and find a reason for what happened to people or to point out the things that they could have done differently, in this episode, I'm going to keep the blame where it belongs, and I want you to try to do the same. Keep it on the criminal and the people who helped him commit the crime, not on the woman that he hurt. And that woman's name was Savannah Spurlock. Now, in 2019, she was just 22 years old. And like a lot of people her age, Savannah loved going out to bars and partying, meeting new people, having a good time. She was single. She lived with her mom in Richmond, Kentucky. But it's also worth noting that Savannah was a mother of four. Her youngest two were twins who had just been born in December of 2018, so they were barely a month old by the time new year's day came around. Now, Savannah wasn't with their father anymore, but he was involved with the children and actively raising them. But even with his help, Savannah had a lot on her plate. At 22, she hadn't been able to socialize over the holidays between being pregnant, recovering from giving birth, and caring for her newborns. So by early January, she was ready to just get out of the house, have a little break, and see her friends. Everyone needs to have fun and socialize, even new mothers. So on Thursday, January 4, Savannah decided she was done sitting at home. She called all of her friends one by one and asked them each if they wanted to go out. But almost everyone she talked to said no. It was a week night, and lots of them did have work in the morning. However, one person, Jocelyn, agreed to go out with her. And then Jocelyn and another guy, Dion, said it was okay for the two of them to come to his house in the nearby town of Lexington. So that ends up being Savannah and Jocelyn's plan. Go to Dion's house. Savannah arranges for a babysitter and made her plans. And she's thrilled to be going out because this was her first chance to do so since having the twins. At about nine in the evening, she borrowed her mother's car keys and walked out the door. The plan was for her and Jocelyn to go to Dion's house, have a few drinks, hang out there, just have a good time. Savannah didn't know exactly when she would be home. It kind of depended on the vibe at Dion's place and how her friends were feeling. But given all of her responsibilities and commitments, her mother, Ellen, assumed Savannah would be home relatively early. Except then the hours ticked by with no word from her. It's starting to get late. Ellen's getting concerned. Sometime after midnight, her mother, Ellen, calls Savannah. But Savannah just answered, says she can't talk right now, and hangs up. She didn't sound upset or like she was in trouble. It seemed more like she was really distracted. She must have been having a good time. So Ellen was like, okay, maybe she's just staying out later. I'm not gonna worry. Sure enough, sometime later, Savannah did call her back. And this time, she was using facetime. Now, in this video chat with her mother, Ellen could tell that Savannah was very drunk, which wasn't surprising because she had been out all night. And Ellen also noticed that Savannah was in a car not driving. And there were at least two men in the vehicle with her. And Ellen didn't recognize the men, but Savannah was smiling and happy. She said she was having a good time, and even though it was very late, she was just gonna keep hanging out with her friends. Savannah said she probably wouldn't be back for a few more hours. She's just checking in. She'll be home close to dawn.
