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the Jill On Money Show. It's Wednesday, June 17th and we are here trying to help you navigate your financial journey. And it is the most important thing to stress here is that it is your journey. It's nobody else's. It is everything about what is important to you. So if you've got a question, if you're maybe you're weighing two different jobs, maybe you're thinking about should I be thinking about retiring? Maybe I should be getting some something different in terms of housing. Whatever's going on in your life, we would love, love to hear from you. Just go to our website, jillonmoney.com jillonmoney.com and just click the contact us button. Write us a note. And if you'd like to join us on the air live, then all you have to do is check the box. Mark will do everything else because he's so fabulous. Now, Mark, come on. The microphone, please. What is the cutoff to join us for the webinar tonight?
Mark
It's usually right around 3:00 clock Eastern.
Jill Schlesinger
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She is the queen of everything Social Security, Heather Schreiber. So it's going to be a great, great night. I know it's going to go by Mark, whenever we do these, like Heather, or when we have the questions that are coming fast and furiously to Ed Slut. The hour goes by so quickly. So I really encourage you to join us, especially if you're thinking about Social Security, have questions about claiming strategies, something's going on. Join us, please. It's going to be fantastic. If you cannot make it live tonight, you can always purchase the single webinar after the fact for 15 bucks. You can do that on the website as well. So. Okay, let us go and talk to our listener Lucas, who's joining us from Los Angeles. Hello, Lucas. How are you?
Caller Lucas
Hey, Jill. Hey, Mark. I'm good. How are you?
Jill Schlesinger
Good. What's going on? What can we do for you?
Caller Lucas
All right, so this is my deal. I'm 57 and live in LA and I work in the entertainment business, have done that for the past, I don't know, 30 years or so, work in production and things, you know, as you know, in the entertainment business are just a little up and down at the moment. And it's just been really stressful in terms of work and it's, you know, sort of inconsistent. So I kind of want to change Careers.
Jill Schlesinger
Oh, really?
Caller Lucas
Yeah, and just get out of the chaos and do something just a little more steady for the next decade, and then maybe, maybe I'll be able to retire. I mean, that's what I just wanted to ask. Talk to you about.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay, so are. Are you single, partnered, married? Where are you in. In the life process?
Caller Lucas
I am single. No partner and kids. No kids.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay, got it. So we're just planning for you, and that's really actually pretty helpful, especially if you're thinking about a big career change. Right. So right now, I know it's mercurial, production is crazy, but, like, what, approximately what are you earning right now?
Caller Lucas
I earn probably in and around, like, on a good year, maybe like 130, 140 and an average year, maybe like, you know, a little over 100.
Jill Schlesinger
How has your. How has it been to support yourself on, like, the hundred?
Caller Lucas
It's been fine. You know, I mean, I have, you know, I. I have, you know, no credit card debt. I have no car loans, I have no student loans. Like, I don't have a huge overhead. My expenses are about, you know, maybe 4,500amonth.
Jill Schlesinger
That's kind of low considering. Where you live. Do you own or do you rent?
Caller Lucas
Well, I rent right now, my rent. 1700amonth.
Jill Schlesinger
So cheap.
Caller Lucas
Yeah, well, I've been here since, like, the 1920s, basically. But there is. There's a big asterisk with that is that I have a super generous sibling who is very wealthy and they would like to buy me a place to live.
Jill Schlesinger
Oh, my God, I love your sibling so much. Okay, let's. Before we do that, let's talk about what you've saved on your hundred to 140 grand a year. So tell us what. And are you a. Are you a 1099 worker? Are you W2? Like, are you employed or are you an independent contractor?
Caller Lucas
It's W2 work when I am employed, yeah.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay. And so what have you squirreled away so far?
Caller Lucas
All right, so the. These are my numbers. I have, like, various buckets here.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay.
Caller Lucas
So I have a Roth IRA that has 76,000. I have a brokerage account that has 555,000.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay, nice.
Caller Lucas
I have an inherited IRA from my mother who passed away in 2012. It's tiny. It's got like 16. 16,000, I think, in there. And then a traditional IRA of 243,000.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay.
Caller Lucas
And then a tiny Roth 401K at this company that I'm working at now that has about 10,000 in it.
Jill Schlesinger
You've got some money in cash maybe. Yeah.
Caller Lucas
Not. Not as much as I would like. I had more before all this upheaval in the entertainment business. And I had just, you know, I had periods of unemployment, so I only have, like, an emergency fund about, like, 24 grand.
Jill Schlesinger
But, you know, right now, as you said, $4,500 a month, including your rent. You're not spending a ton of money. Okay, so let's talk a tiny bit about how do you. So your sibling wants to take care of you, which is lovely.
Caller Lucas
Yes.
Jill Schlesinger
So what would that mean? I'm going to buy you a place. Like a house. A condo. Like, what are we thinking?
Caller Lucas
Were thinking a condo. They would like to buy the condo. And also. I can't believe I'm saying this. They'd like to buy the condo and pay the taxes and the way. The property taxes and the way. Basically for the rest of my life.
Mark
Wow.
Jill Schlesinger
How rich is this person? I need to know, like, worth $100 million?
Caller Lucas
No, but I would say in the $60 million range.
Jill Schlesinger
60. Okay, then no problem. I'm gonna just say thank you very much, then move on. Mark. Thank. Do you see how I made that shift? Right. Okay. So rich Sib wants to buy, and you're like, is there any question about this? Of course. Do this. What happens if their sibling dies? Then what? They're gonna leave some money for you to be able to do that.
Caller Lucas
Exactly. Yeah. And then when I pass away, which I'm totally fine with, it would go to.
Jill Schlesinger
You're fine with passing away? Not me. I'm not fine with that happening yet.
Caller Lucas
Yeah, not yet. Maybe like 30 years or so. But they would. It would go to their kids.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay. But this, obviously. So this is like a ridiculous thing. Amazing. Okay, that's great. So let's pretend that happens. Is that. And it's in the works, right?
Caller Lucas
It is in the works, yes.
Jill Schlesinger
Good. So that's happening. Fantastic. So, in fact, what you're telling me is that your expenses are going to go down when that happens because you have to pay your $1,700 a month of rent.
Mark
Is it just the two of you? Are there other siblings in the picture? I'm just curious now.
Caller Lucas
Just the two of us.
Mark
Okay.
Jill Schlesinger
Oh, I love this. And the kids. And a lot of kids this sib has, or not so much a couple kids. Couple kids. Are the kids deadbeats? You know, are these the kind of kids who are like, oh, God, thank God dad and mom are rich? Because these kids are just never gonna. They're gonna be Little Nepo babies?
Caller Lucas
No, not. Not at all. They're like the. The hardest working, like, Gen Z you'll ever meet.
Jill Schlesinger
Oh, wonderful. That's great. Also, they'll take care of you, which is amazing. Exactly. Okay, so when you say you're gonna chill out a little bit and, you know, try to change careers, what would that mean for you?
Caller Lucas
You know, it's. I've been doing a lot of volunteer work over the past few years, and I kind of want to get into the nonprofit world, I think, and do something that, again, is steady, that has, you know, a little more meaning. Not. Not that what I do doesn't have meaning, but, you know, just something that's a little more rewarding. And I know it would probably require a pay cut, which I think I'm fine with, but it would just be something that, you know, that I can spend, like the next decade doing, that I can look back and be like, oh, my God, like, I gave back.
Jill Schlesinger
Yes. Okay. That's fantastic. And have you looked into this or is this still in idea mode?
Caller Lucas
No, I've been definitely looking into it for sure.
Jill Schlesinger
So you feel like you can get a job for like, 70 grand or something?
Caller Lucas
Yeah, probably like, you know, 75. 80, something like that.
Jill Schlesinger
Let's call it 75. So if it were 75 grand, which would be kind of perfect for you, because what you could do is get a job. Also, if you're in nonprofit land, there's usually decent matches. But, you know, what I would say is this. You're going to move. Your expenses are going to be reduced. The 75 grand will cover your expenses, and you've got that big fat brokerage account that you can tap if you'd like, just to kind of help you if you do something big, if there's a big trip. I don't think that there's any problem with this. And I think that even if I thought that there was a problem, knowing that you have the safety net of a wealthy sibling is kind of nice, but also, like, I think what they're doing is wonderful because there's probably some feeling with this sibling that it would make them feel more comfortable for you in the future to be able to just know you're set, you know? And I think even without the siblings buying of that place, the fact that your rent is so cheap, you probably could do this anyway. It's just a matter of spending down some of your brokerage. So the. What's holding you back emotionally on this?
Caller Lucas
You know, that's a good question. I mean, I feel like I'm. I don't know. I just. It's. You know, I've been in this business for, you know, three decades, and it just. It's really just, you know, and I haven't gotten an offer or anything, but it's really just kind of, you know, pulling the trigger and just like, you know, being like, all right, like, this is going to happen. Let's just do it. I mean, the. The condo thing is definitely happening. Like, I'm looking. I have, you know, real estate agents, so that's definitely happening. So it's just, you know, it's just. It's a big change, like, all around, but I'm a little nervous. But I'm also. I'm also kind of excited about it.
Jill Schlesinger
Yeah, I'm ready to go. Mark, any update on your end about, like, what you're thinking? I. I think this is. You're ready, Mark? This is. Here's a situation that Mark could absolutely not relate to.
Mark
No. Nor could most people. I mean, you know. No, this is great. One chapter closes, another chapter opens. I mean, never, never. Do we hear about expenses going down.
Jill Schlesinger
No, no.
Mark
Substantially.
Jill Schlesinger
Yeah. I really think that this is a. This is a great opportunity, and I think that it's great that you are able to just take advantage of it. And listen, it would be one thing if it were like, oh, you know, my. My sister, my brother, my sib is doing this. They don't really have enough money to do this, but they're worried. Like, this is such a great case of, like, paying it forward for my family and doing good work, and you then being in a situation where you can get more meaning out of your work. I think it's a great all around. I just. I really think it's great for you. Really. I don't see any downside in this at all, except we'll lose a wonderful guy in production.
Caller Lucas
That is true. That is true. No, I. It was a very. When I was presented with this offer of my sibling to buy a place, I was just, like, taken back, and for, like, a few seconds, I was like, oh, wait, I can't do that. Like, I can't let someone find me a place. And then I was like, wait a minute. What am I thinking? I'm like, what are you thinking is right?
Jill Schlesinger
Exactly right.
Mark
What's the budget?
Jill Schlesinger
Oh, yeah. What are we spending on the place?
Caller Lucas
It's between a million and 1.2.
Jill Schlesinger
All right, very nice. And that'll get you in a place. Is it going to be nicer than what you're living in right now.
Caller Lucas
Oh, yeah, absolutely.
Jill Schlesinger
So I love this so much. This is great. All right. Is your sibling married?
Caller Lucas
Yes.
Jill Schlesinger
Too bad. I was about to get very, very excited about fixing that person.
Caller Lucas
Happily married, so, yeah, as far as we know.
Jill Schlesinger
Okay. Anything else on your end that we need to help you noodle around with?
Caller Lucas
No, I mean, that's it. I mean, I imagine, you know, since my siblings taking care of everything, like, taxes wise and everything like that, there's really nothing on my end. I mean, I'll have to deal with all, like, plumbers and stuff like that, but everything else is, like, taken care of, so. That's great.
Jill Schlesinger
Amazing. It's amazing. It's completely amazing. So I think that. I think you're in great shape, and I would be ready to rock and roll.
Caller Lucas
Excellent. Okay, well, thank you so much.
Jill Schlesinger
All right. Hey, gang. If you have a rich sibling who wants to buy you at a place, Mark, this might be a first for us.
Mark
Yeah, I can't recall a caller like this.
Jill Schlesinger
Over the years, we've had parents who want to do this. We've had parents who want to buy stuff for their. But this is. This is kind of like a little bit different because sometimes you guys, when you're the parents and you're getting in touch with us and we're like, are you sure the kid wants it? Or, you know, are you sure you can afford it? Like, this is so obvious. Like, yes, this guy or gal. I don't know if it's a man. The sibling can afford it. So that's number one. And number two, it's like, I bet that this is, like, peace of mind also for the sibling. Like, I. I don't want to worry that my. My brother's gonna be, you know, living in a rental, whatever. Like, what an amazing thing. So. But if you are the sibling and you're rich and you want to help out, give us a holler. Or if you're the one receiving it, give us a Holler. Go to jillonmoney.com, click the contact us button. Write us a note. If you want to come on the air live, check the box. Mark will do everything else. Don't forget that you can subscribe to us on the Odyssey app or wherever you find your favorite podcast. Put your hands, metaphorically, on someone's back.
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Podcast: Jill on Money with Jill Schlesinger
Date: June 17, 2026
Host: Jill Schlesinger (CFP®), with producer Mark
Guest/Caller: Lucas from Los Angeles
This episode spotlights the financial and emotional considerations in making a major career change later in life. Jill Schlesinger offers expert advice to listener Lucas, who’s considering leaving a long career in the entertainment business to pursue more meaningful, stable work in the nonprofit sector—at age 57. The discussion balances financial security, the impact of family support, and the courage required for personal reinvention.
On Family Support:
On Financial Security:
On Change and Opportunity:
On Accepting Generosity:
Humor and Humanity:
Jill reassures Lucas (and listeners) that major midlife career pivots can be made safely—especially with sound finances and, in this rare case, extraordinary family support. Jill highlights the importance of aligning your work with your values and emphasizes not letting fear or guilt block positive life changes. The episode is both a practical financial counseling session and an encouraging meditation on second acts.
Final Thought:
“Put your hands, metaphorically, on someone’s back. Change your work, change your wealth, change your life.”
—Jill Schlesinger, [17:12]