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Julie
Hi, I'm very well. Thank you for taking my call. Both Mark and Jill, what can we do for you?
Jill
What's happening? Thank you.
Julie
So I am curious about how much extra money I can spend on play things. So in this climate, especially also in this climate at this stage of our lives, how much can we spend conservatively for things like travel and hobbies and, and I'm really focused on the next maybe five to seven years when I think we will be more active and inclined to do bigger trips that tend to be more expensive.
Jill
Okay, who's the we in this?
Julie
My husband.
Jill
Okay, how old are you guys?
Julie
I am 63 and he is 65.
Jill
And are you guys both retired?
Julie
No, I am retired. He is happily working. And. And I encourage him every day to keep doing that. He will probably retire in another two years when I'm 65, so that we can get Medicare.
Jill
Okay, so you can get Medicare because obviously he's 65.
Julie
Exactly.
Jill
How much does he earn right now, Julie?
Julie
Right now he earns about 150. Plus he does consulting, so maybe on this year it'll maybe be closer to 200.
Jill
Okay, and will he keep doing the consulting when he steps down or full on? No, he'll keep that. He will. Okay, great.
Julie
So that's probably between 30 and 50 a year.
Jill
And that will be like, for how long? Like five years?
Julie
Yeah, I'd say so.
Jill
Okay. Are you entitled to a pension?
Julie
I am not, but he is.
Jill
What will his pension be?
Julie
His pension will be about 70,000 a year.
Jill
Wow. So you're telling me essentially he retires in two years, and you guys got 100 grand coming in from his pension plus his consulting income.
Julie
Correct.
Jill
Okay, got it. And is that pension, does that have an option for you to get a portion of it?
Julie
A survivor benefit?
Jill
Yes, that's exactly right.
Julie
Yeah. And I, after listening to your show, I made sure he made that happen.
Jill
Okay, good. Yeah. Really? Come on now. So, Julie, tell us about the money you've saved so that we can figure out how much you can spend. This is fun. I love the spending question.
Julie
Okay, so the total that I have in Savings is about 3.5. Well, 3.4 million.
Jill
Okay. But that is savings, retirement accounts, investment accounts. So what's in retirement accounts right now?
Julie
What's in. As in IRAs?
Jill
Yes.
Julie
So the IRAs, both SEP and non SEP, is about 1.65.
Jill
Okay. And that has not been taxed yet. 1.65. Okay. All right. And the rest of that 3.4 is brokerage.
Julie
It's a brokerage about. There is about 300 that has been.
Jill
Taxed in a Roth. You mean?
Julie
No, it was work income.
Jill
Where's that 300 grand?
Julie
Also in a brokerage.
Jill
Okay.
Julie
And then the only other part of that that I think is different is that I did start a Roth IRA last year. And so there's 33K in there.
Jill
So how you get to. I just want to make sure I understand this. You said retirement, you know, basically traditional IRAs is $1,065,000. Then there's $300,000 in a taxable brokerage. How do I get to 3.4 million do.
Julie
Because I have, like, all these other. I have all these other accounts.
Jill
What are those. Are those brokerage accounts, just like fun money accounts? What. What's going on?
Julie
Yeah, no, those are also brokerage account. They're in the same brokerage.
Jill
Okay.
Julie
So to be honest, I don't really understand what they all mean, but they're like, I've got a little bit in charitable funds. I have home household accounts. I've got my mom's. I've got my mom's IRA. So that's another chunk of IRA.
Jill
How much is in mom's IRA? 8, 6, 7, 867,000.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
Is mom alive?
Julie
No.
Jill
So this is inherited IRA.
Julie
Right.
Jill
And when did you inherit that?
Julie
Probably about eight years ago.
Jill
Were you entitled to the stretch IRA treatment, or do you have to get this out within 10 years?
Julie
I believe I am entitled to the stretch. I do, though, take RMDs on that, because I need to. And that's about 36,000 a year.
Jill
All right, so right now, what are you guys spending in terms of, like, you have a ton of money saved up. What are you spending now? You know, like your regular travel, hobbies and everything? Do you know what the number is? Is it everything that your husband is earning and then some, or is it just you're living on whatever he brings in?
Julie
Well, I think about it, our monthly expenses is about. About 10,000amonth.
Jill
Okay.
Julie
And then on top of that, it varies. So like, this coming year, it might be very close to over, you know, over a hundred thousand. That is sort of a big year for.
Jill
You're saying in addition to your 120,000 on your. You're spending another hundred thousand on stuff?
Julie
Yes.
Jill
So 220 is the number.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
Okay.
Julie
But that's not every year. Okay, but there are years where it's like another 50 on top of our expenses.
Jill
What? The hundred. You're sure it's not going to be like. In other words, are you saying to us, hey, Jill, Mark, we want to spend that $200,000 a year for the next five to seven years. Is that what you'd like?
Julie
Yes.
Jill
Okay. If we know for two years, it's fine, because we know that that's, you know, you got a couple hundred grand coming in, so that's fine for those couple of years. So let's go from 65 to 70. All right, so we're gonna say your age 65 to 70, Julie. So, you know, he'll be 67. So there'll be 100 grand, Mark. That comes in between pension and I'm only counting on him 30,000 for consulting. So there's 100. 100 coming in for that. And then mark on top of that. I want to make sure that we know that. That they're going to have to spend, you know, not that you live in California high tax state. So they'll clear 70. So we need another 150 grand a year for five years.
Julie
And can I also identify. We have a rental.
Jill
Oh, God. You people with the rentals. Okay, how much is in there? How much money is it worth?
Julie
About 4.5.
Jill
What? Are you out of your mind? Oh, my God. What's the outstanding mortgage?
Julie
I own half of it.
Jill
Okay, you're a 50% owner and is there a mortgage on it?
Julie
No.
Jill
Is their rental income?
Julie
Yeah, we get about 67.25amonth.
Jill
That's it?
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
Is there any. That's your half or total?
Julie
That's total.
Jill
That stinks.
Julie
Right? Well, that was my other question about.
Jill
When did we got to sell that bad boy. Can we sell it?
Julie
Yeah, yeah, we can sell it anytime.
Jill
Sell it, Sell it.
Julie
Do you think even in this market.
Jill
What market? The market that where there's a buyer, some buyer will buy it? That's the market I like.
Julie
But then where would I put the money so that it doesn't evaporate as.
Jill
Opposed to right now where it is right now, earning so below any sort of rate of normal rate of return that you could count on and you'd actually have liquidity and have access to it. You would basically. Are you managing your money yourself or are you hiring someone to do it?
Julie
We have an broker.
Jill
Yeah, you have a broker or do you have a financial planner?
Julie
Financial planner. We have a financial advisor. Yes.
Jill
Are they doing a financial plan for you?
Julie
Yes.
Jill
Has your financial advisor suggested that you sell the rental property?
Julie
Yeah, she. She would love for us to sell the property, but she also likes that we're diversified.
Jill
Well, how is that diversification working for you, considering that that rental property is generating, how shall we say in the official term, bupkis? It should be generating like 20,000amonth at least on that kind of. I mean, it's a $4.5 million asset.
Julie
Right.
Jill
We could buy you a bunch of bonds. We could buy you some California municipal bonds and generate better interest than what you got. Will the other person want to sell it ASAP too?
Julie
Or yeah, he's happy to sell it anytime.
Jill
Oh my God, the girls want you to sell it so badly. We know that your co owner would consider selling it. We know that capital gains are going to eat into a chunk of the money. Did you inherit this property?
Julie
Yes.
Jill
What year did you inherit this property?
Julie
Well, you know, my parents put it in an irrevocable trust.
Jill
Oh, okay.
Julie
Right. Now the taxes on it are extremely low, but we inherited it when my mom died, so about eight years ago.
Jill
I'm trying to think about what happens if you sell it. You'll have to look at the terms of the trust and like it gets distributed to you. But I think the trust pays the tax that's due, whatever tax is due.
Julie
It's now co owned as a tenant in common by my brother and I. So it's not in their trust anymore. I just.
Jill
Okay, good.
Julie
And so we actually just the other day put it into. We put my half because it's inherited into my trust.
Jill
Okay, I got you. You're. You're tenants in common and I got you. I got you.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
Do you have grown kids?
Julie
No. Does he.
Jill
His brother?
Julie
Yeah, he's got two adult kids, but they are, he does not want them to have to deal with.
Jill
Okay, good. This is good. So when we sell it, it cleans everything up.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
So then the money that cut flows out of this sale goes into your trust and then it gets invested and that's it. And it's invested in like a nice boring investment. You know, it can be a balance. You might even say, well, the trust account, which is revocable for you guys. You know, you might say, well, you know, let's keep that cooking along and let's just use the money from that and we'll. Whatever's in the taxable accounts and the, and you know, I guess some combination of all this money, you will be able to spend 220 or $250,000 a year. Like there's no way you're spending through all this money.
Julie
There's no way would that. Would your. Would you be as zealous about that statement if like we took another five years to sell the house?
Jill
What's the point of the five years?
Julie
I don't know.
Jill
I'm not, I'm not willing to. I mean, yeah, I think I would be fine with that, but. But what is the point of waiting five years?
Julie
I wonder about our economy in general and if it. I wonder, are you trying to, Are.
Jill
You trying to time the market? Julie. Julie's like timing the market for sure. No, I'm trying to time our way. Let's go back. Let's say the economy goes into the can.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
Okay. Do you think your, your rental property is more valuable or less valuable? Okay.
Julie
I don't know.
Jill
Right. I don't either. Is it a commercial property or a residential property?
Julie
It's residential.
Jill
And is it in like a fancy area?
Julie
It's not such a fancy area, but it's highly coveted. Cause it's in Silicon Valley.
Jill
Okay. So let's just pretend for one minute that we're gonna, like, take our little fear goggles off. So if you're in Silicon Valley, right, and you've just had. You had a terrible market for technology in 2021. Then they came out of it. And then tech stocks keep going up, up, up, up, up. And like four and a half million dollars is pretty like a real number and someone will have to pay for it. But, like, why would we assume that in five years that we would do better on that house than having five years invested in a portfolio which would actually invest in some of the technology companies you're talking about? Mm, like, I don't really. I guess what, I don't really get the wisdom of waiting five years. In fact, if anything, if you really believe, like, the economy's going into the tank, why would real estate do better then?
Julie
Right.
Jill
And if it's like, well, no, I think technology is going to do better, then the economy could go into the tank, but tech still is going to succeed. In which case you'd be investing in tech, but you have. Okay, so let me get back to your question, which is, Jill, would you still be as zealous about our ability to produce 250 grand a year for the next five to seven years in order to have fun, and then after that five to seven year period, we would go back to a more, you know, instead of 10,000amonth, it would be like 15,000amonth. Does your financial advisor agree with this or not?
Julie
Yeah, I mean, she, she with the, well, not including the house thing, although she's happy to manage it for she's my brother and I have the same individual. So, yeah, she, she thinks if we, she sort of planned. If we include 50,000 for like 15 years every other year. So it's kind of the same math.
Jill
I don't see how we. I don't see how you run out of money. I don't see it. I wouldn't wait around to try to figure out the best time to buy and sell it's like it's a. You know, it's so difficult to do that and it's unnecessary. Like, I'm not saying that the. That the ability for markets to move up and down, but, like, obviously they're in a desirable location. The real estate market has gone up by, you know, even. Just look at your last five years for a second, Julie, of that real estate, it's appreciated pretty dramatically, right?
Julie
Yes.
Jill
So if I know that we've already had a big appreciation, is it possible that, like, maybe if it goes into the tank for the next five years, it won't appreciate as much as you think? Sure. But I don't know. I think financial assets are a little bit easier to manage in uncertain times.
Julie
So we would be less diversified and that.
Jill
Well, you still have a house yourself, right? How much is your home?
Julie
It's worth about 2.2 if she wants to.
Jill
If your advisor thinks you are underrepresented in real estate, then go buy some real estate investments inside your retirement account or inside of your investment account.
Julie
Right. I don't know if she feels that exactly. But give. I don't know. I think it's just almost like a safety net to have something real, like a real asset, you know?
Jill
Okay, I get that. But just to be clear, that that real asset, it may be a safety net, but if you really needed it, the only way to use it is to get it liquid.
Julie
Yes, exactly. That's true.
Jill
So why am I waiting to get liquid when I know you're going to want to spend more money in the next five to seven years? I would take your $2 million and invest it.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
In a safe way.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
I would be so excited. A nice balanced portfolio to. To suit your, you know, your ages and your lifestyle. You'll be set. So set. This is such good news. Why are you asking for a problem? Why ask for a problem? You're in great shape. You really are. Why are we waiting? When you have all this money, you cannot, like, live in. You're not living in two places. You don't. You're this rental. It's like, it defies any sort of logic to wait five years to do. Like, when you want the money in five years, do you want to have some security? You get the money out of that and get it invested. And don't forget to tell your advisor you want a cheaper fee when you give her the extra 2 million bucks.
Julie
Yeah.
Jill
Okay.
Julie
Interesting.
Jill
Yeah. What are you paying her?
Julie
I have no idea, actually.
Jill
Come on.
Julie
I know. I don't know.
Jill
All right, well, let's find that out. Can you find that out and let us know?
Julie
Really? Okay.
Jill
Yeah, let us know what you're paying. How do you not know? You know how much you're getting in rent, Right?
Julie
Yeah, I know. I don't know. You know what?
Jill
She.
Julie
She came by way of like, it's sort of an. She's an inherited advisor because the person my dad was using, she, you know, she trained up under that person. And then, you know, so it's been. So she's sort of been in the family.
Jill
Maybe those 10 years are up. Yeah, time's up, as they say.
Julie
What's 10 years?
Jill
She's inherited. Yeah.
Julie
No, I like her.
Jill
All right, well, we absolutely encourage you to get your money and spend your money.
Julie
Okay?
Jill
Otherwise, what are we doing this for? Come on now.
Julie
Okay.
Jill
All right.
Julie
I feel this was as much a therapy session as a finance.
Jill
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Episode: Can We Splurge a Little Bit?
Date: August 27, 2025
Host: Jill Schlesinger, CFP®
Caller: Julie from California
In this episode, Jill Schlesinger answers a listener’s question about how much she and her husband can safely spend on travel, hobbies, and “play things” during their active years of early retirement. Julie’s detailed financial situation—including significant assets and a $4.5 million rental property—sparks an in-depth conversation about prudent spending, investment strategy, and the value (or lack thereof) in holding underperforming real estate. The episode blends practical advice with friendly, lighthearted banter, resulting in what Jill describes as “as much a therapy session as a finance session” (19:33).
Julie, age 63, is retired; her 65-year-old husband still works but may retire in two years. She wonders:
On rental property performance:
“It should be generating like $20,000 a month at least on that kind of...I mean, it’s a $4.5 million asset.”
— Jill, (11:02)
On market timing and real estate:
“Julie’s like timing the market for sure. ...If you really believe, like, the economy’s going into the tank, why would real estate do better then?”
— Jill, (13:42–15:13)
On selling and investing proceeds:
“I would take your $2 million and invest it. In a safe way.”
— Jill, (17:52)
“A nice balanced portfolio to suit your, you know, your ages and your lifestyle. You’ll be set. So set.”
— Jill, (17:53–18:09)
On enjoying wealth:
“We absolutely encourage you to get your money and spend your money.”
— Jill, (19:21)
“Otherwise, what are we doing this for? Come on now.”
— Jill, (19:29)
On the therapeutic value of good financial advice:
“I feel this was as much a therapy session as a finance [session].”
— Julie, (19:33)
“That is what we do. Dr. Mark and Dr. Jill are in practice.”
— Jill, (19:37)
| Asset/Income | Amount | Notes | |-------------------------|-----------------------------------|----------------------------------------------------| | Husband’s salary | $150–200k/year (pre-retirement) | Plus $30–50k/yr consulting through retirement | | Husband’s pension | $70k/year | Survivor benefit selected | | Retirement accounts | ~$1.65M (pre-tax IRAs) | | | Taxable brokerage | ~$300k+ | | | Roth IRA | $33k | Newly established | | Inherited IRA | ~$867k | RMDs: ~$36k/year | | Own home | ~$2.2M | Fully owned | | Rental property | $4.5M (own half) | ~$6,700/month total rent, split with brother | | Annual spending target | $220k–$250k for travel/hobbies | For next 5–7 years | | Advisor fee | Unknown—needs clarification | Jill urges getting a lower rate upon more assets |
Jill’s signature mix of empathy and blunt financial wisdom shines throughout—she roots for Julie’s happiness and security, provides clear explanations without jargon, but doesn’t shy away from calling out logical missteps (“Why are you asking for a problem? ...You’re in great shape,” 18:09). The episode encourages listeners to balance prudent stewardship of wealth with joy in spending on what matters most during the “active years”—and, above all, to demystify their own finances so they can act with confidence.
Bottom Line:
Julie (and households like hers) can “splurge a little—or a lot—without sacrificing long-term security,” so long as big illiquid, underperforming assets like the Silicon Valley rental aren’t left dragging down the overall plan.
For more details or to ask your own question, visit jillonmoney.com!