Transcript
A (0:00)
This is the Jocko Underground podcast number 208, sitting here with Echo Charles. And we have gotten some questions from the field, from the front lines, from life, from business, from the battlefield in some cases. And we will present some answers, some recommendations, or at a minimum, some various courses of action to follow. Yes, sir. So let's get into it.
B (0:25)
Okay, first question. Greetings. I've been on the path for years. Home gym, Jiu Jitsu, blue belt. Hell yeah. Business owner and father to a three year old future BJJ world champ. It's a good dream. It's a good dream.
A (0:38)
It's a country.
B (0:40)
My wife is amazing and runs her own business from home. She also works out and takes care of our son during the day. We're very intentional about how we're raising him, keeping him active, learning and eating well. But with our schedules, we, we sometimes rely on movies to distract him while we get work done. No tablet, just longer. More educational content on tv. But is. It still doesn't feel great. What would you do in this situation to build good habits for your kids while still handling work? We can't afford a nanny yet.
A (1:12)
Well, first of all, say it sounds like you're doing awesome. You got the, you got the Jiu Jitsu, the home gym. It's a big step.
B (1:19)
Huge.
A (1:20)
It's a big step. People don't even realize how big of a step that is, but that's a big step. Jiu Jitsu, got your business. That's awesome, Ben. And you got a kid, you got a son. So you're. And it sounds like you're doing a good job already. Like, honestly, here's the thing. I wouldn't worry about it too much. You got to watch an occasional movie. There's like good educational movies, there's documentaries, there's nature programs, there's cool stuff to watch and healthy stuff to watch. And it's perfectly fine. And you don't have them on a, on a freaking iPad or an iPhone. I was at an event, we'll say, and the event was, let's say about three and a half hours long. And it was, there was a kid that was probably, probably around this age, like three or four, was literally on an iPad, like k, like fingers moving on the iPad for three and a half straight hours. No, no breaks. It was insane. So you got your kid watching the occasional movie. You know, maybe he's watching a half an hour of a movie while you guys are getting dinner ready or something like that. Maybe he's watching 45 minutes of a Movie while you are, you know, while you're grow. While you're doing work at home, while your wife is gross. Like there's reasons where, you know, it's like, okay, and you got him watching some good stuff. You know, I watched freaking, what was it, Sesame Street?
