Kat on the Loose – Episode Summary
Guest: Honey Brooks (“Your Aussie Side Chick”)
Host: Kat Zammuto
Date: October 22, 2025
Theme: Marriage, motherhood, sexual empowerment, and a businesswoman’s candid journey through OnlyFans, open marriage, and stigma-shattering conversations.
Episode Overview
In this raw, unscripted conversation, Kat welcomes Australian model and OnlyFans creator Honey Brooks to discuss relationship dynamics, sexuality, parenthood, and running a business in adult entertainment—all while breaking stereotypes and championing judgment-free spaces for women. Honey shares insights on maintaining a strong marriage, setting boundaries as parents and professionals, and embracing open communication.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Introducing Honey Brooks: Journey to OnlyFans
- Background: Honey is a model, wife, and mother who transitioned into OnlyFans after encountering a traveling couple earning a living from the platform.
- “I was married and had kids the time I was traveling Australia in our caravan and I met a couple on the road who was doing OnlyFans. And at the time, I had no idea what OnlyFans was.” — Honey (02:18)
- Marriage: Married for 10 years; together for 17—high school sweethearts.
- “We've been together for 17 years. So, like, high school sweethearts.” — Honey (03:02)
- Decision Process: Joined OnlyFans after mutual research and extensive discussion; viewed it as a unique business opportunity and lifestyle change.
- “We actually studied the industry for about six months before we even joined…not just think of the money first.” — Honey (04:18)
2. Balancing Motherhood, Privacy, and Stigma
- Protecting Privacy: Keeps real identity separate from her online persona for family protection; uses monthly takedowns for content leaks.
- “Honey Brooks is completely separate to who I am... Also work with a company monthly to take down leaks…” — Honey (06:18)
- Boundaries: Only films with her husband—no other men—due to family boundaries.
- Parenting Approach:
- Open about sex, rejecting shame and secrecy.
- Teaches kids not to judge others by their work.
- “We just set the pillars and just making sex really normal, really comfortable... no kind of shame around sex.” — Honey (07:33)
- On Stigma:
- “We do get a lot of scrutiny being a mother in the industry...” — Honey (06:07)
- Emphasizes not judging others and fostering a safe, open household.
3. Marriage, Openness, and Exploring Bisexuality
- Opening up the Marriage:
- Decision to explore threesomes with women stemmed from mutual business expansion and honest communication.
- “If you’d told me ten years ago... I wouldn’t have believed it. I would have been like, absolutely not.” — Honey (11:19)
- Emphasizes trust, communication, and friendship as foundational to success with an open marriage.
- Bisexuality and Enjoyment:
- Honey identifies as bisexual, finds pleasure in shared experiences, and asserts autonomy in these choices.
- “I actually didn’t realize how much I purely enjoyed it... I love the energy.” — Honey (16:31)
- Challenging Stereotypes:
- Both partners must be fully comfortable; the work is enjoyable, not coerced.
- “It's definitely not like Hank's like, let's do this. This is my idea.” — Honey (16:37)
- On perceptions: “People are quick to jump to assumptions that sex work is only for those that … have to do it... And it’s absolutely not like that for everyone.” — Honey (18:26)
4. The Business Side of OnlyFans
- Financial Reality:
- Honey and her husband earn around $100,000 USD/month—a result of five years of strategic, hard work.
- “It sits around a hundred thousand dollars USD a month for us.” — Honey (19:48)
- “I would never want anyone to think that this is an easy job or an easy way out to earn a lot of money.” — Honey (20:19)
- How It Works:
- Income sources: subscriptions, video sales, custom requests, and live calls.
- “There’s a subscription...people can buy videos...they can request certain videos...I get a lot of live calls...” — Honey (21:02)
5. Sex Work Legislation: Australia vs. U.S.
- Legal Context:
- In Australia, independent escorting is legal, supporting safer environments and transparent arrangements.
- “In Australia, being an independent escort is legal...a directory where you can find independent escorts.” — Honey (21:56)
- U.S. Comparison:
- Kat laments the dangerous, hypocritical, and taboo status of sex work in the U.S.
- “If you just legalize everything, it’s just going to make everything safer, so much more organized for everyone.” — Kat (22:29)
- Safety and Choice:
- Legalization leads to greater safety and autonomy for sex workers.
- “At the end of the day, sex is sex and ...women can choose what they can and can’t do with their body...” — Honey (23:05)
6. Partnership, Communication, and Sex-Positivity
- Support From Partner:
- Key to Honey’s success and happiness is unwavering support and teamwork with her husband.
- “It has to be a team effort...communicating and talking about your boundaries...” — Honey (25:30)
- Open Communication:
- Central to keeping the relationship healthy and adapting over time.
- “Being in this industry has completely changed our marriage...it has taught us to communicate about everything.” — Honey (26:45)
- Empowerment and Reducing Stigma:
- Message to listeners: stop judging women for their choices—everyone deserves happiness and safety.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- On Sex-Work Stigma & Empowerment
- “It’s also liberating, you know, as a woman to be able to do what you want when you want...I can pick my boundaries. I say yes, I say no.”
— Honey Brooks (18:26)
- “It’s also liberating, you know, as a woman to be able to do what you want when you want...I can pick my boundaries. I say yes, I say no.”
- On Family, Judgment, and Raising Kids
- “Our biggest number one rule in our house is we just don’t judge other people ... if you don’t agree with it, that’s fine, but then it’s none of your business.”
— Honey Brooks (07:00)
- “Our biggest number one rule in our house is we just don’t judge other people ... if you don’t agree with it, that’s fine, but then it’s none of your business.”
- On The Reality of OnlyFans Earnings
- “I do like to always say, though, it’s not always the case with OnlyFans...There are women out there that are earning a lot, lot, lot more than me and there are women out there that are earning a lot less.”
— Honey Brooks (20:19)
- “I do like to always say, though, it’s not always the case with OnlyFans...There are women out there that are earning a lot, lot, lot more than me and there are women out there that are earning a lot less.”
- On Open Communication in Marriage
- “We'll sit down every now and then, be like, hey, like, do you have any kinks or anything you'd like to explore?...We’re really open without any judgment.”
— Honey Brooks (13:11)
- “We'll sit down every now and then, be like, hey, like, do you have any kinks or anything you'd like to explore?...We’re really open without any judgment.”
- On Legal Escort Work in Australia
- “There’s actually websites that display women in Australia in their state and gives you all the information that you need.”
— Honey Brooks (21:56)
- “There’s actually websites that display women in Australia in their state and gives you all the information that you need.”
- Final Message
- “My message is stop judging women so quickly for what they do and just go do your thing and be safe and be happy. Right, honey?”
— Kat Zammuto (29:38) - “Yeah. Amen.”
— Honey Brooks (29:54)
- “My message is stop judging women so quickly for what they do and just go do your thing and be safe and be happy. Right, honey?”
Timestamps for Key Segments
- [01:23] – Kat introduces Honey Brooks, summary of how they met
- [02:18] – Honey shares how she started with OnlyFans
- [03:45] – Decision to launch OnlyFans as a couple & family considerations
- [06:07] – Addressing the stigma: protecting children, business/family boundaries
- [10:24] – Opening up the marriage, exploring threesomes
- [16:10] – Honey discusses bisexuality, and personal enjoyment
- [18:26] – Honey on autonomy, empowerment, and financial success
- [19:34] – Income details: $100,000/month, realities of the industry
- [21:56] – Escorting in Australia: legality and safety
- [25:30] – The importance of partner support and communication
- [26:45] – How open communication changed their marriage
- [29:38] – Kat’s closing message about ending judgment toward women in sex work
Tone and Style
Candid, supportive, bold, and sex-positive. Both Kat and Honey maintain a no-nonsense, empowering tone, breaking down stigma and encouraging women to pursue happiness, autonomy, and partnership on their own terms.
Summary prepared for those looking for real talk on relationships, sexual empowerment, and breaking the OnlyFans stigma—all through the lens of honesty, partnership, and modern family life.
