2-Year Anniversary "Listener's Choice: Higher Is Waiting w/ Tyler Perry

Summary

Podcast Title: Keep It Positive, Sweetie
Host: Crystal Renee Hayslett
Guest: Tyler Perry
Episode: 2-Year Anniversary "Listener's Choice: Higher Is Waiting w/ Tyler Perry
Release Date: June 8, 2025

Introduction

In the special 2-year anniversary episode of Keep It Positive, Sweetie, host Crystal Renee Hayslett welcomes the iconic Tyler Perry for an intimate and profound conversation. This episode, originally one of the most impactful on the show, is re-aired to celebrate the podcast's journey and the powerful insights shared by Tyler Perry.

Origin of the Podcast's Title

The discussion begins with Crystal sharing the heartfelt story behind the podcast’s name, "Keep It Positive, Sweetie." She recounts how a supportive interaction with a fellow young woman inspired the hashtag and subsequently the podcast’s title.

[02:14] Crystal Renee Hayslett: "I just put hashtag keepitpositive, sweetie."

Tyler Perry expresses admiration for the name and delves into its significance in combating negativity, especially in the age of social media.

[03:38] Tyler Perry: "People... if you click on something negative, you're only going to get fed negativity."

Navigating Negativity and Social Media

Tyler emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive outlook and avoiding the traps of negativity online. He shares his personal practice of steering clear from gossip and negative conversations, advocating for a life filled with positivity and support.

[04:00] Tyler Perry: "Your life is going to become that [negativity]... So I'm very much about keeping it positive, sweetie."

Personal Stories from Tyler Perry Studios

Crystal reminisces about her early days as a PA at Tyler Perry Studios, sharing anecdotes that highlight Tyler's approachable nature and leadership style. She narrates her first interaction where she broke the unspoken rules of not speaking to Tyler, leading to a meaningful professional relationship.

[05:10] Crystal Renee Hayslett: "I just said, good morning. And you spoke back."

Tyler praises Crystal's initiative and boldness, illustrating how their collaboration flourished from mutual respect and open communication.

[07:22] Tyler Perry: "I could not be more proud of you."

Lessons in Generosity and Giving

A significant portion of the conversation centers around generosity. Crystal shares an inspiring moment when a fellow colleague conveyed a spiritual message about living through giving.

[28:52] Crystal Renee Hayslett: "Your living is in your giving."

Tyler elaborates on the essence of true generosity—giving without expecting anything in return—and how it enriches both the giver and the receiver.

[31:04] Tyler Perry: "Giving... doesn't have a value when it comes from a pure place."

Navigating Wealth and Relationships

The duo delves into the complexities of wealth, especially within personal relationships. Tyler discusses the dynamics of financial contribution in relationships and the misconception that a partner's worth is tied to their net worth.

[38:14] Tyler Perry: "You have to remove the money from the situation because it's just gonna cloud it."

Crystal shares her transformation from a scarcity mindset to embracing abundance, highlighting how Tyler's advice empowered her to achieve her goals.

Dealing with Entitlement and Financial Requests

Tyler candidly talks about the challenges of managing financial expectations from family and friends as his wealth grew. He emphasizes setting boundaries to protect his mental and emotional well-being.

[44:44] Tyler Perry: "They want it to be about the money. And you have to understand that when you start to make money and do well, that becomes a part of the perception of who you are."

Mental Health and Support Systems

Addressing mental health, Tyler underscores the importance of a strong support system. He mentions influential figures like Oprah and T.D. Jakes who have been pillars in his journey, providing wisdom and guidance.

[60:48] Tyler Perry: "But as far as mental health goes, I tell you, the main problem that's happened... Is social media."

Listener's Question: Overcoming Fear and Insecurity

Towards the end of the episode, Crystal presents a listener’s letter seeking advice on overcoming fear and insecurity that hinders personal growth. Tyler provides actionable insights, encouraging the listener to recognize and dispel negative self-talk.

[72:17] Tyler Perry: "You have to be clear about what you're identifying. Right."

He emphasizes that fear often mimics excitement and urges listeners to align their thoughts positively to embrace their potential.

[73:12] Tyler Perry: "I have learned to just surrender to where is this taking me."

Positive Outcomes and Closing Remarks

Concluding the episode, Crystal invites listeners to apply the profound lessons discussed. The closing segment reinforces the theme of continual growth and positivity.

[78:08] Tyler Perry: "Keep it growing. Just keep it growing."

Tyler’s final words inspire listeners to maintain their momentum towards personal and professional excellence, embodying the podcast’s mission to uplift and empower.

Notable Quotes

Crystal Renee Hayslett [02:14]: "I just put hashtag keepitpositive, sweetie."
Tyler Perry [03:38]: "People... if you click on something negative, you're only going to get fed negativity."
Tyler Perry [31:04]: "Giving... doesn't have a value when it comes from a pure place."
Tyler Perry [38:14]: "You have to remove the money from the situation because it's just gonna cloud it."
Tyler Perry [72:17]: "You have to be clear about what you're identifying. Right."
Tyler Perry [73:12]: "I have learned to just surrender to where is this taking me."
Tyler Perry [78:08]: "Keep it growing. Just keep it growing."

Conclusion

This anniversary episode of Keep It Positive, Sweetie serves as a testament to the transformative power of positive thinking, generosity, and unwavering faith. Tyler Perry’s candid reflections and invaluable advice provide listeners with profound insights to navigate their personal and professional lives with grace and resilience. Whether you’re a long-time follower or new to the podcast, this episode offers timeless wisdom to inspire and uplift.

Connect with Keep It Positive, Sweetie:

Email: keepitpositivesweeti@email.com
Follow Crystal Renee Hayslett: @luv.crystalrenee
Follow the Podcast: @kips.keepitpositive
Follow Tyler Perry: @TylerPerry

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