← Know Your Aura with Mystic Michaela
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Michaela Spiritual family welcome to Know youw Aura with mystic Mikayla. Today we are talking about how to get along with empath aura combos. Not everyone in your life is your cup of tea. It might be a neighbor, a coworker, a family member, and you have to get along with them. We are going to talk about the some tips and tricks and some perspective switches to help you get along with empath aura combos. But first. Hey, Scotty.
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Hey, guys. Well, a couple weeks ago, we did how to get along with logic aura combos.
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Yes.
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So today we're going to tackle the empath combos. But I think let's start off first with empath auras in general. Let's discuss that first.
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So empath auras are your turquoise, your blue, your indigo, and your purple. And everybody has two aura colors. Some people have a double empath aura combo. So you're like a turquoise purple or you're an indigo pink. Oh, and pink, too. I forgot about the pinks. So pinks too. Pink is like, I always say, pink to empath auras is like Y to vowels. You know, A, E, I, O, N, U, and sometimes Y. If you are, for example, if you are a yellow and you have pink, pink is your empath aura color. But yeah, everybody does have an empath aura combo. So we're going to talk about. About that. I think it's different than the logic aura combos because you have to.
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Get into the emotional sides of things when you're trying to get along with them. And just for argument's sake, for this purpose of this episode, this is somebody who might not be your cup of tea. It has nothing to do with aura combinations in general. It's just this person we're going to think, you know, they're fine, they're a nice person. They're just. You two aren't just meshing. And. But you have to get through it. And if you have to get through it with somebody who has a double empath aura, you can't kind of rely on the. What is it? The out there logic of things, like the idea that there's one way to do something, and we're all trying to fit that mold. Empath auras all have a very internalized structure of how they think about things. So it does require you going to an emotional side of yourself and stepping in someone else's shoes to see things out of their eyes, so to speak. And that's the difference when you're dealing with an empath aura combo.
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Okay, what if the person Has a triple empath aura combo. Purple, indigo, turquoise, purple, indigo blue. I don't know, turquoise, purple, pink.
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It's a lot of feeling that's. Yeah, it's a lot of feelings. So, like, if you're a double or triple empath or a combo dealing with another double or triple or empath combo, I think what happens is, is you can trigger each other a little bit because you have feelings and they have feelings, and somebody has to take a minute and step out of themselves and be like, okay, I'll be the one that pushes it to the side to try to understand and validate where they're coming from first. So the person that can do that and is kind of a necessary component and moving forward in a relationship where things might not be as smooth, you know? Whereas when you're dealing with somebody with a logic aura color and trying to get along with them, you have to kind of think, okay, what's the quintessential or the somewhat mostly agreed upon way in society that things are moving forward? And then go to that. So you really have to step outside of your own feelings and go into theirs in order to. Yeah. Get along.
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Have you, by the way, have you ever seen a triple logic aura color combo?
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Yeah, I have. And people that are very unwell, like.
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A red, green, yellow.
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I see this a lot in. Yes, I have, really. But it's never authentic.
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Okay.
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It's never authentic. These are people who usually are in power, um, and they're not well liked or they're not going about things the right way, or, you know, they have.
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Or they've just oppressed one of those empathy.
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Everybody has an empath aura color somewhere. It's just if it's so suppressed. Because the thing with the empath, and this is the thing just in general with empath aura colors, is they're triggering, you know, So I see people who are.
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Repress their empath aura color when they feel like they don't have enough strength stronghold over it. So these are people with insecurity issues. These are people who look to belittle others in order to feel better about themselves. But that is a whole other topic. But if you have like all your empath colors and they're all out, it's. It can be a. You can get. You can spiral. So if you're dealing with somebody who you have to get along with, who's spiraling, that it's. It's. It's a challenge in a different way.
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All right, well, I think what we'll do today is we're going to tackle all the combos. We'll do the purples first and we'll take on the turquoises and the pinks. And then after we do that, maybe we'll call it an overtime.
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Okay.
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We have a scary story for me.
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Yeah. We need you guys to help us.
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We don't know if someone came into our house.
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Yeah.
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Was it paranormal? We have no idea.
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Yeah.
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But there was one night last week and we were terrified.
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Yeah, you got to stay tuned for.
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That so that maybe we'll even just call that overtime.
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Overtime at the end.
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Quick break. We'll come back with the purples.
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Hey, guys. All right, so let's take on purple blue.
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Okay. And once again, this isn't every. When we talk about the combos today, this isn't like you necessarily. This is someone in your life who you have to get along with, but isn't your cup of tea who happens to have this aura combination. I just want to make that clear because this is somebody who isn't a bad person for the purposes of this. It's just someone who. You and this person don't mesh.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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And they. Could you do it. I guess you could do it the opposite way, too.
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Yeah.
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You could send this episode if. Let's say you are purple blue.
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Right.
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And you could send this to, let's say, a red blue, that you're dealing with your, you know, husband, whatever, boyfriend.
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No, this is somebody. This is getting along with somebody who doesn't necessarily have to be in your life. Okay. That's the whole point of these episodes. Not your cup of tea. If your husband's not your cup of tea, that's a problem.
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Well, that could be that. Well, that could be true.
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This is people. My point for this episode is you have to have limited interactions with them, but they have to, like a neighbor.
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What if it's a boyfriend that you're trying to get rid of or something? I don't know.
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You're going. You're complicating. All right, so this is somebody in your life.
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So let's say you're purple blue.
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Do you just show up to these things? Sometimes.
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You just show up to know your aura recordings.
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The preparation here. Yeah. I mean, you got toilet paper.
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There was a lot going on this week, you know.
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Yeah, you definitely have that.
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Yeah.
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You deserve just trying to get to overtime as quick as you can.
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Exactly. I'm gonna. Once we get to overtime, I'm gonna. That's where I'm gonna feel the groove, you know? That's where I'm gonna get into things.
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Right. But.
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All right. All right. Purple blue.
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Yeah. Okay. Hard time. A big thing is they get mad really quick, and they can hold a grudge. So you might have to go a little bit, especially if you guys have been having clashes for a long time, a little out of your way, a little outside of your comfort zone. You have to get a little more giving than you otherwise would in order to get them to let something go that they're really holding on you. It could be something even that you have to validate their feelings about you. Like, listen, I know. I Said this thing last week, I think really bothered you. And then you have to get, like, vulnerable possibly. I apologize for that. I was having my own problems at home going on, and I think I took it out on you at work. So you have to kind of get in a vulnerable state for the purple blues to let something go. Like, if they see you. Okay, you know what? They leveled with me. They were authentic. I believe them. And I'm going to let this go. And that can be hard to do, especially when you want to get along with somebody for short term, but you really don't want to, you know, give them any sort of win or whatever. It's like, ugh. Like, I don't want to, like, get vulnerable with this person. But those purple blues, they will hold a grudge. Another thing with purple blues is, like I said, they can be a little bit, like, late. It can come off as inconsiderate for your time or inconsiderate for, like, what's going on in your life. I would say that you don't. I mean, it depends if it's on purpose or not, because again, if they're holding a grudge, they're going to start doing stuff like this to try to trigger you. That's the thing with purples in general. Like, they do know where your buttons are. They figure those out the second they meet you. And if they're annoyed with you, they'll start kind of like pushing them in ways where they can't directly own, but you know they're doing it. So again, I would say my number one thing with purple blues is vulnerability. Even if it's not on purpose that they're doing things, you can say, well, you know, this really upset me because something that is traumatic in my life or I have going. So you gotta level with them.
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Okay.
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It kind of really helps that you and the purple blue relationship move forward.
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I feel that I get along pretty well with the purple blue. Yeah. I mean, I like a little more blue than the purple, I think.
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Okay.
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Like, you know, if I was giving it a percentage.
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Yeah.
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I would say I would like a 60, 40 mix.
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Okay.
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60% blue, 40% purple.
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Right.
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I think I could deal with that.
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Okay.
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I think I deal pretty well with them. They don't. That combo doesn't really bother me.
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Yeah, yeah, you. You do go. Okay, maybe reds do a little better with the purple blue combo. Yeah, that is possible.
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Let's say I get the late thing, you know, like, that would annoy me.
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Yeah.
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Like, if they were like. Because that's probably the purple more. Right. That might annoy me a little bit, but I get over that. I could get over that.
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But you just have to like, let's say it's a neighbor or something too. And you know, your neighbor, like, can't stand you. And they're purple blue and you're like, oh, my gosh, I'm really bothering them. Sometimes just a conversation where you just show up as a human really helps them. What you can't do with purple blues that, you know, you just want to get along with for the short term is you can't bring up logic as a reason why something should happen. Like, according to the neighborhood association rules, you can't put this, you know, lawn ornament here. And I'm going to like, immediately you're their enemy for that actually might work with, for example, like a yellow combination person. Like, hey, that's against the rules. And they're like, oh, rules, totally. That makes sense. You know, but for a purple blue, it's like, why are you trying to control me?
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Right.
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You know, so it really kind of like your approach, showing up as a human is helpful. And if you're a type of person that can do that.
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Yeah, I think I am. You are?
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Yeah.
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I don't.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Well, usually, like with you, I would say purple blues immediately realize, like, nothing he does is intentional.
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Right. It would actually be the other way where they might be annoyed by me. Yeah.
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Until they realize, you know, maybe he has some sort of attention issue. Because you do what I like.
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Like if they were talking a lot.
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Like, and you just walk away.
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Yeah, maybe. Yeah. Because maybe if there's like a chatty purple blue.
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I might just walk away.
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Yeah. But then they realize, like, oh, he's just Him.
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Yeah.
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He just. He just wanders.
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So it's actually the opposite.
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It is, yeah.
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Okay. Purple indigo.
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Purple Indigos get in trouble a lot because they just, poof. Disappear Indigo on you. So this is in co worker situations. And any, like, I'm just thinking any situation you have to deal with somebody, if there's confrontation or something they immediately don't want to deal with anymore, they will just disappear. Even they might emotionally disappear on you. So they're physically there, but they're not emotionally engaging with you or you see them kind of like a blank or. Or it's like talking to a wall or something. Because like these indigos can, I think a big thing to understand about any indigo combination, but especially the purple indigos, is it's not necessarily personal. They just got over stimulated. So a lot of times with purple indigos myself, include, if there's a lot going on, they might just kind of almost just peace out vibrationally. And it's usually a result of some sort of too many things coming at them at once and then there's a shutdown that can happen. Number one thing I think that happens in relationships where people aren't getting along with purple indigos is they're not understanding that they don't. And they're immediately like, that's so rude. Or why didn't they call me back? Or why aren't they addressing this? Or why didn't they just tell me how they felt? Or why aren't they coming and talking to me? Or why aren't they, you know, putting closure on this? It's probably because they, it's just so overwhelming for them. And their senses, they're, they're very sensory and their senses are so overloaded that they just kind of disappear into themselves. They wallflower or they actually physically disappear. And then you might get people in their life do it for them. So they might all of a sudden like your neighbor is a purple indigo and you're like, we've been having problems. And all of a sudden like their husbands are talking to you instead of them or something. You're like, what the heck? You know, they might, they can kind of get stand ins to kind of come in and do it for them. Or if it's at work, maybe their friend starts talking to you and addressing things instead of them and you're like, what, what's going on? Why can't they talk to me? Like, what's happening? Just know that a lot of it has to do with they've just reached their limit and they can't do it anymore. I mean, that's what I noticed a big problem with purple indigo. People misinterpret them.
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Okay, well, purple indigo, I mean, I am the indigo whisperer.
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Yes.
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I know how to deal with a purple indigo very well. But I guess the assignment here is not someone that you live with or married to. So I don't know that I deal with like a neighbor that's. I wouldn't even know. They probably already ghosted me. They probably already mad and they're not talking.
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Purple indigo is trying not to deal with anyone.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Especially someone like me.
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It's kind of, it's hard to get into it with a purple indigo because they'll just get out of it before you ever get into it with with them. They're just Gonna like the second they feel the vibes are off, they're like, no. And then you're just like, they're done. And you're just like, whatever happened to. You know, it doesn't usually get to the point with a purple indigo. Where. Which can be annoying in any sort of relationship. But I have to deal with you. You know, you're in the office next door to me or I have to deal with you. You know, you're. You're my sister in law or something. And so it can be a little bit like they've already made the decision to end the relationship with you before you even had an opportunity to get to know each other on a different level. I will say that that can be hard with purple indigos. If it's somebody you have to get along with. You can feel like they put a wall. They've. They've just separated themselves. They've already decided this is never going to happen. And it's an energetic boundary which can feel like rejection on you when you're just trying to get along with them.
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Okay.
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And yeah, I mean, I have tips.
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If you know the indigo.
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Okay.
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But I don't have so many tips if you don't know the indigo.
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Okay. No, I, I know this is really hard for you to understand. This is somebody that you know.
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Yeah.
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In your life.
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No, I. No. But no.
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Well, put in someone that you, you wouldn't be dealing with them unless you had to.
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Yeah.
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You're not trying to win them over. You're just trying to get through life with them in the limited context that you're given in life.
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Then I have absolutely.
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I know this is very confusing for you.
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Then I have absolutely nothing to add to the conversation.
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Someone. Poor Scott. Now I'm wondering, like, is this a, Is this a tough topic just for me? Oh, yeah. But I'm wondering now I'm wondering for the audience.
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No, they're gonna be fine.
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Okay. This is something you have to get along with.
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This is personal to me.
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You know what? With you, Scott, because we always have to talk about Scott in every episode and how he deals with our topics. I feel like you don't worry about having to get along with anybody. You don't.
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No.
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You don't sit and you're, you don't stew at any moment. You know, why doesn't my, I don't know, third cousin talk to me me more gatherings. How can I get along with them better? Like, you would never.
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Or correct.
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Or when you had co workers, you were never like, how do they. How do they think? How do they perceive me? How can we make our working relationship better?
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Exactly. So this episode is just not for me.
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Yet you're here waiting for overtime.
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I am waiting for overtime.
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Okay.
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All right, let's take a quick break. We used to forget them all the time. Yes, we never forget them anymore.
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Never.
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Turquoises.
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Hey, guys. All right, let's start with turquoise and purple.
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Okay, so turquoises. And again, this isn't every turquoise or this isn't you. This is someone that perhaps you have to get along with. It isn't your cup of tea. I just want to make that very clear. But turquoise, purples, starting there, all the turquoise, all the turquoises will read you immediately the second you meet Them, they read you. They might not all know whatever your pain point is. Anything. And turquoise purples, out of all the turquoise combo got. Growing up, you were told you ask too many questions. You asked too many questions. Maybe that's like an insecurity for you. Do I ask too many questions? I don't understand things right away. I always ask a lot of questions. And then at work, they might bring it up to you, or they might create a situation where you're asking a ton of questions and. And all of a sudden you're like, oh, my gosh. Like, when I'm around this person or when I'm in a group and this person's in it, I all of a sudden start to feel like that kid again. So immediately, like, turquoise purples will tend to latch onto somebody. Kind of magnify a pain body that they haven't healed the wound on yet. And this could be why a turquoise purple in your life. And you don't get along because you just can't stand. You're the version of yourself when you're around them, if that makes sense. And really, like I always say, it's like the turquoise way of trying to get you to fix it, Whether they know they're trying to get you to fix it or not. That's kind of like what the purpose is. But it can make a very triggering, challenging relationship.
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Yeah. Now I live with the turquoise purple.
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Yes.
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One of my favorite combos.
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Yes.
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Love the combo. I understand the combo.
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Yes.
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But I also know the. And I. Again, I don't know it from the neighbor's perspective.
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Right.
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Trying to get your kids.
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Doing this with your own kid.
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Just try to get your own.
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You don't understand. Understand.
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Right. But I can do it with my own kid.
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Okay.
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And I will say for the turquoise purple.
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Yeah.
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That she can get to the heart of the matter.
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Yeah.
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Really quickly, really quick.
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Yeah.
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I mean, I could give so many examples.
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Right.
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You know, one would be, all right, I'm.
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I'm not handy.
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I'm bad with tools.
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It's an insecurity, you know, a little bit.
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It is.
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Because you're a guy. I'm a guy.
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I have trouble, you know, using a hammer.
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You do?
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I really do. You know, I always hit the nail in crooked.
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Yeah.
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I don't know.
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It's okay. Anyway, so it doesn't mean anything, but to you.
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Right.
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A little bit of a trigger, you.
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Know, everyone's terrified of anything with a power, with electricity, like a power. They don't even let me use it here. Okay. So one time I got an ax, really nice ax.
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He just buys it from Home Depot on a whim. And we're like, please don't.
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You know, I did my thing with it, and I'm out there, you know, banging away and chopping things, like cutting trees. Cutting trees. And then Abby, like, you know, she. After I did it, she, like, hit home, I guess. What was the line she said to me?
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She's like, oh, you're a real man now. Her dad. You're a real man now.
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Yeah, now. I don't think she meant anything by it. She might not even know what she was saying.
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B
She was like five at the time.
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A
Right.
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B
Exactly.
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A
But that, you know, it get. But it was like, oh, like, yeah.
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B
It kind of hits you. Yeah, it hits you in the. In the feels where you're like, oh, yeah, this is bigger than just like me swinging an ax around. This meant something to me that was deeper.
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A
Yeah. And if you're a big fan of this podcast, you go back to an earlier episode when I went from teaching to business.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You know, the manager of your practice, you know, she would say a couple of things about me that really hit home.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Like just right to the heart of the matter. And she was like two or three years old and. And how I was feeling.
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B
Right.
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A
So.
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And it's one thing when it's like someone you do get along with, but then if it's somebody who you don't quite get along with, you know, or it's somebody that's on the fringes of your life, it's a little bit like, whoa, you know, you can feel very vulnerable and seen, and that can make for a challenging relationship with a turquoise purple. So how do you deal with it? Note it. I would say the biggest thing in this relationship is if you're really feeling triggered around somebody and you're like, I think they're turquoise purple. And this is what's. It's bringing up all this stuff for me unrelated yet really powerful. Identify it. Identify it immediately. Like, oh, my gosh, I'm feeling insecure about this. Or. Or anytime I'm around them. This is like the feelings that are brought up and why do they bother me? Use it as a point of self analysis. The quicker you wrap your own hands around whatever the crux of the problem is, the sooner this person will honestly start to leave you alone. They will go on to the next project and they will leave you alone because you will get stronger and your. Bolster your own wound or whatever, and they can't attack it anymore. Usually turquoise purples are just very attracted to the stuff that's unhealed. And then they have this need to, like, recreate it for you. If you fix it and own it, then they go away.
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A
Yeah. You know, but also, it can also be a positive too, because if the person's willing to hear that about themselves.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You know, so like, when Abby was saying those things to me.
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B
Right.
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A
And it was like, yeah, but you know, then it was like, yes, that is the problem.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You know, I was, you know, terrified when I made the switch from teaching to. To the business.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And. And yes, her. Her words, like, hit home right there. But.
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B
Yeah.
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A
But that also made me think, okay, all right, I'm scared.
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B
I'm terrified, and that's okay.
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A
And I'm going to make this happen.
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B
Yes.
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A
So it's not always the, you know, sometimes maybe you don't want to get rid of them. I don't know.
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B
You know, that's what I'm saying.
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A
Yeah.
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B
It's not. It's about like, that's how it would. It can help you.
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A
Right.
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B
But the second it helps you, then they're gonna stop again. This isn't somebody in your life you necessarily want to keep around. You just want to get along with.
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A
Right.
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B
Okay. It's something that they will move on.
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A
Yeah.
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B
You know what I mean? If it's like a co worker or something, they will move up. But yes, it's a point of helpfulness for sure.
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A
It's so weird because I always stand up for the turquoise purple.
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B
Oh, I know. Well, yeah, I know. Well, yeah, for sure. Well, I think they're a very misunderstood combo. But then if you realize that about them, a lot of times they don't know they're doing it either. They're very unaware that they're causing this problem to you. I don't know. We had like a. A long time ago. Not that long. I think it was this year. Somebody did a question and they were saying, like, their boss was very triggered by them. And I looked at their picture and they were turquoise purple or something. Yeah, it was turquoise something. And I'm like, oh, your ball every time. And every time you're around your boss, like, the boss was avoiding communication with them, avoiding meeting, you know, they had questions, was avoiding meeting with them, was avoiding asking their opinion, was very rude to them. Like, you're. You're obviously bringing out the boss's insecurities in her, in her leadership. She doesn't feel like she can do this. She doesn't feel good at it. And every time you jump in her office, she feels that even more. But she's not owning it, though, you know, so just understanding that, like, you are shining a light on somebody, on a part of somebody that they don't want to fix. So, like, if you are the turquoise purple that somebody's not getting along with, you might be doing that, but it's a them problem, not a you problem, you know, Anyways.
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A
Yeah, I agree.
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B
Turquoise blues.
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A
Turquoise blue.
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B
Turquoise blues are so.
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Extremely sensitive. So they can feel other people's stuff as a blue, but also do the turquoise thing of reflecting it. So it's kind of like you do the thing where you're, like, reflecting whatever it is this person needs to work on, but you also feel really bad about it at the same time. So they can kind of walk around in life with. They're overly apologetic. And I think turquoise blue combinations can get in trouble with people. So you might not get along with somebody who's like, I'm so sorry, am I bothering you? Did that bother you? Did this bother you? Does my presence bother you? I breathe? Does that bother you? And you're just like, can you please go away? Can you please have, like. It can be more of, like, they're. They feel like they're making you feel bad about yourself. So if you're around somebody in your life again, these are people that you have to get along with, not people that you want a relationship with. So it's a coworker, neighbor, fan, like, distant family member or something. Every time they're around, you feel like the bad guy or a bad person or like you're making them. You feel like a perpetrator. Like that. And. And I think the big thing with this is just kind of looking them in the eyes and being like, hey, you know, let's talk about something positive. Let me validate something in you. It's so kind of you. You always come in, you always have something nice to say. You always wear such a bright, pretty color. I really appreciate you. Like, maybe just sit down with them and instead of, like, noticing they have a huge. I think, like, turquoise blues usually have a huge target on their back. Like, people. They almost call in people to abuse them or. Or call in people to pick on them. They're like, easy targets a lot. So if you notice that about somebody, maybe you take that and you want to lift them up and it'll make your relationship with them better and easier. And then also, you're helping them out too. Does that make Sense.
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A
Yeah, that makes sense. So how would that be different than from a turquoise indigo?
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B
So then the turquoise indigo is. It's very similar to the turquoise blue, but the turquoise indigo has more analysis with their. Kind of. With their. With their interaction with you. So they might do, again, the pain, body reflection thing, but then they can kind of like double down in it and they can get very. Oh, my God. Like, they can use more. I think turquoise blues do this, but they don't think about it as much. Turquoise indigos are sitting there and they're analyzing. You feel them analyzing you. You feel them, like, psychoanalyzing. You feel them, like, reading you and your patterns and your problems, but they also are making their own, like, thoughts and perspectives and storylines about it. So they can kind of come after you if this is somebody you don't get along with in an energetic way. But then all of a sudden you feel like, oh, my gosh, like they're building up this whole narrative about me that's not even true. And it can, like, irritate you that they have this, like, go. And it could be true or could not be true. Who knows? Because it could be something that triggers you. It could be something. I don't know. But you pick up that they have these really independent thoughts about you, and they've already kind of like sealed them in their mind. And being around them can be like, they are so annoying. They have such a wrong idea about me. And it can really trigger your sense of approval in a situation. So they can really hit you on. You can feel viscerally uncomfortable being around somebody like this who you don't get along with. Okay.
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A
And are they going to just, like, one day, poof, be gone?
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B
Yeah.
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A
Do the indigo.
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B
Well, how you deal with this is usually turquoise indigos will do this thing where they do that and then they like, kind of come back around, like, and feel sorry about it.
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A
Right.
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B
So they'll do this to you. And then all of a sudden, you might find a cupcake on your desk at work and you're like, who's this from? Is this from the turquoise indigo? Like, what is this? What's going on? Because they then they feel bad, so they want to get close to you too. So you might see, like a push, pull with them and you just kind of don't. What's going on?
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A
Do people even know they exist in society?
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B
What do you mean?
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A
Like, they're like the turquoise indigo. Like, like. Because we always say indigos are unseen. Yeah, sorry. Turquoises are unseen.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And then Indigo is kind of just like, you know, fall to the background. Like this combo seems like you could just like walk right by them and not even know they're there.
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B
They're kind of like an angry ghost, you know, like they could be living. They could be living in the parameters of your life. And then every once in a while, they just get like, so annoyed and ticked off, and then they come in with a vengeance towards you. So they have very impactful moments. But overall, they're kind of like wispy outsiders. Okay, but. But to get along with them, I would say it's just understanding that they're actually just quite sensitive. And usually with any turquoise combination, if you just kind of look them in the eye and. And you sit down with them and you own your own stuff, but at the same time, like, you understand that their purpose in your life might be to reveal something on you and shine a light. And then even if you kind of give them a little credit for it, like, you know what? I really want to really appreciate you. You know, you really showed me XYZ about myself and this little productive, energetic relationship we're having. If you have that kind of opportunity to talk to somebody about that, they can feel good about themselves and kind of back off their energy on you. Turquoises definitely get their energy kind of like mixed in with yours. So you can feel a little bit like sometimes itchy or vulnerable when they're around if they're not somebody who you get along with.
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A
All right, let's take a quick break. We're gonna come back and do pink.
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B
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A
Hey, guys. All right, let's start with pink and purple.
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B
Okay, so the pink pinks in general.
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Sometimes I say like they pinks in general. I have this saying in my own head, like won't ones that you have to get along with. I'm not talking about your friends or your loved ones or people that you have like good relationships with, like pinks in your life who you have to get along. They won't help you. They won't hurt you. That's kind of my thing with pinks that you have to get along with or they're in your life for interactive purposes like coworker, neighbor, family member, distant, that kind of thing. And if you understand that about the pinks, then you'll know that just. Just leave them be. I think that's kind of just leave. Like if you have. And don't take it personal. I'll start with pink purple. Pink purple. Let's say you got to get along with somebody in your life who's a pink purple. You're like, this person has to be pink purple. They. What they're doing is not about you, but if it's triggering you, that's something that you gotta kind of maybe deal within yourself. They might be getting attention, for example. And you're like, how come it's their birthday in the office? And she got like a whole flippin. The whole office came together and gave her like a party. It was my birthday a week ago and nobody cared. So what's this really about? You know, maybe it's easy to project that onto that person.
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A
But.
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But maybe you need to have a bigger voice or say more things or receive more attention in your life. Sometimes pinks, they're so used to just kind of being seen. They have kind of pink purples. They have pink. Purples in general have a lot of it factor. They're not trying. They really aren't. They just kind of comes with pink purples is they're attention seeking. They're, you know, they're all. People are always fawning about them. There's no kind of reciprocity in their own minds necessary to keep it. Like, oh, if somebody said I'm pretty then I have to tell them they're pretty. If somebody gave me a cup of coffee, then oh, I have to give them a cup of coffee. Like I think the rest of us kind of have an issue with receiving. We're like, oh, I don't even want to get anything for my birthday because then I have to give 100 things. You know, like pinks and pink purples in general might be like, oh my gosh, this is so great. Thank you. And they just have this moment of just like gratitude and this is so cool. And people who love to give. Most people love to give. A lot of people love to give. And you probably listening, love to give. Some people are really good at receiving and if you've ever given to somebody that's like their face lights up, it's like given to a kid, you know, would you rather give to kind of like an adult on Christmas eve or an 8 year old kid on Christmas Eve, their favorite toy who's more fun to give something to? Yeah, yeah, that's a pink. Okay. Like when you give a pink or something, they are like, oh my gosh, oh my God. Like you're just like, oh, I made their day and you get something out of it. So they get more in life because they just are like, you know, they're not trying but it can trigger in other people like oh God, my, my gosh. Because maybe you don't feel like you're getting it. So the lesson is receive people with a big old smile.
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A
Here's my take on the pink purple.
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B
I'd say, yeah, I don't know why.
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A
But they don't bother me.
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B
They don't bother me.
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A
Like I now here. Okay. So this is, this is where I can, if they was close to me and I had to live with a pink purple, then I think it would drive me insane. Okay, so from like a, like a close, you know, if my significant other was pink purple.
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B
Okay.
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A
I don't think I could handle that.
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B
Okay. Okay.
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A
But from a distance, like now we're talking about the neighbors. Yeah. Now I can actually chime in.
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B
Neighbor, co worker, family member, I don't.
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A
Have a problem with that.
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B
Okay.
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A
Like, I don't know why. I mean Because I just know that they are pink.
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B
Right.
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A
And that. So once I like, I guess once you understand they're pink.
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B
Once you get it. Yeah.
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A
Like, maybe if you didn't know.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You weren't spiritually awakened like me and you didn't know.
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B
If you're like, you know, what is this? Cousin Susie, you know, every Thanksgiving, she wants. Walks in, right. Head to toe, glitter, her hair's always done. She's like, she didn't bring anything. You know what I mean? Except her sunny attitude. It depends who you are, if that bothers or not. That could be cool. Aunt Susie, you know, who hangs out with the kids, goes on the cousins, walk with them or whatever. Or, you know, the ladies inside who are like, hosting, they're like, she doesn't even bring anything. After being here. 60 years old, she never brings anything. She just comes in here dressed in glitter, you know, like that. It's like, sometimes you got to just ask yourself, is this person intentional? Usually with pink purples, they're not. It's not intentional. But that can be annoying because you're like, we'll get a clue. You know, like, look around. But they don't. You know, but if we give them.
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A
The pass and we say, which I call the pink pass, and I've said this before, you give them the pink pass. But you have to know they're pink. So you have to listen to this podcast. Understand their pink. Once you understand their pink. Oh, they're great.
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B
Yeah. Just give them the pink pants. Give them the pink pants. Okay.
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A
Give them the pink.
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B
It's not. And I'm going to tell you about the pink. Like, a lot of the attention they're getting isn't all positive. Trust me. Like, yeah. So anyway, they're fun, too.
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A
I don't know. I like pinks.
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B
Pink, purple. Okay.
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A
Again, from the neighbor, though.
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B
From the neighbor point of view.
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A
Yeah.
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B
You know, it depends. Like, I think we all have that neighbor. And, you know, your pink neighbor might be like, maybe the whole lawn's covered in, like, a flamingo theme. Okay. You know, and you walk out and you're like, that is a lot. You know, and, like, you know, it's just kind of like, that's a bit much, you know? You know, sometimes they. You know, I think on hgtv, I saw this lady painted her whole house. Like, extreme homes or something.
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A
I think it was hgtv. Yeah. The whole outside was painted pink. And then. And it wasn't. First she painted it pink.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And then she painted every room in her house.
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B
And it wasn't like pink. It was, like, bubblegum pink pink. And it was eyesore pink.
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A
Yeah, I thought it was great, but.
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B
But again, I can see where on the street, everyone's like, I don't want to live next to the house.
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A
Right. You know, like, there's the green thing. Our property value just went down by 3%.
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B
Yeah. Because of this pink house. And then, you know, you're. You're sipping your coffee. You're having your day. You're watching her drive up in her pink suv. She gets out, she's wearing all pink. She walks up her pink steps. You're just like, what the wrong with that lady? You know, I get. But a lot of it. So that's. You know what I mean? It's like. It's not personal.
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A
Yeah, give her the pink pass.
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B
Pink pass. All right. Pink, blue, pink, blue, pink, blue. Who doesn't get along with a pink blue? This is, like, where it's kind of. It's always hard to talk about. I noticed with this topic, it's hard to talk about pinks because they're so in their own world that it's. Whatever they do to you is most likely not personal. And getting along with them just has to deal with. You're irritated for your own reasons, which nobody likes to look at themselves, you know, which I. Me too. Me included. But anyways, pink blues.
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I feel like the problem with them is they might be completely not as aware. So they're cute. They're sweet. You're like, what? Can you stand up for yourself? Can you just say something for once? Can you just use your voice? I think that's a big one. You know, pink blues usually take a lot. They take a lot of crap, and then they go into their pink bubble, and then they don't realize it. So you're like, oh, my gosh. Like, they can irritate you because you watch everyone else taking advantage of them. So that could be something. You're like, oh, my God. She just. She said yes. You know, he's always given everyone his shifts, and she's the only one that always takes them. Like, I'm so sick of this like that. So it's kind of like. Or they can irritate you. Like, why does she put up with her boyfriend? Why is she dealing with that guy? That's so annoying. She makes the worst decisions. So you can be annoyed or irritated with a pink blue because they're not. I don't know. It's just like this in you. Maybe it's just this trigger, like, stand up for yourself, you know, protect yourself. Like, you know, notice this, stop dealing with that behavior or whatever. So watching them can make you not want to be around them because it's so annoying that they're not aware of things that they should be. Okay. That's what I noticed with them. All right.
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A
And what about pink turquoise? You ever see that?
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B
Yeah, that's great. Very rare to see the pink turquoises. So rare. I mean, it's all the turquoise thing and all the pink thing kind of together. So everything I talked about, I will say in kids. There's a lot pink turquoise kids. I see a lot of pink turquoise kiddos. You know, pink kids getting along, like getting along with pink kids if you're a kid. So this is. If you're like a parent and maybe one of your kids friends is a Pink in general. Let's do this.
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A
Okay.
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B
Pink kids in general. They only because, like, cause my. Or across the street, Abby's friends a Pink and like my little cousin's a Pink. So I know this about. They like to play. What? They like to play. That's the first thing. So if you're not kind of playing what they want to play, you know, not that they'll shut you out, it's just like, well, this has been fun and I'm going to go play now, you know, like that they might. They're not followers with the play thing. They like to kind of lead. Everyone's like, oh, pinks. But, you know, my child's so stubborn. It's like, yeah, pink kids are very stubborn. Like, they definitely have. This is how I want it. They're nice about it, but they're also firm, especially with their world or their playtime or their vision of things. Another. And if you have your kids playing with a Pink, it's just understanding. Like, okay, well, you know, they wanted to play Barbies and you wanted to play scooters, and they're not going to give up Barbie time to play scooters with you. That's just like, it's fine. We let it go, you know, like that. Because I see that a lot with kids. Another thing with pink kids is they're going to believe things longer than other kids will. So understanding that they kind of stay in childhood and the magic of childhood a little bit longer. So pink kids, they're not. It's. It's like they. They willfully stay kids longer. And it can be hard for other kids to be like, but why are they being a baby? Or why aren't they, it's like they know it, but they're choosing not to move on from this stage. Okay, so that's my pink and pink turquoise thing.
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A
Question. You said you see the pink turquoise in childhood. Not often, but more than adult. Does that pink then turn to purple and it becomes like a purple turquoise?
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B
Yeah, like a lot of with kids, a lot of times pink can turn to purple.
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A
Okay.
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B
Sometimes tri colors were pink.
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A
Kids, was our Abby always turquoise purple or was she ever. She never had the pink that turned to purple.
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B
I always saw that.
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A
Yeah. Okay.
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B
Yeah.
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A
All right, well, we're going to take a quick break then. We're. We'll even announce it right now, actually. We'll call it overtime. Overtime when we get back.
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B
Oh, my God.
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A
This story is freaky.
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B
We don't know if it's paranormal or like.
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A
We don't know.
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B
We don't know.
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A
We don't know. To this day, we don't know.
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B
We don't.
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A
We might never know.
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B
All right.
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A
Hey, guys. All right, so this is overtime. This has nothing to do with the rest of the episode.
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B
Nothing.
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You now may leave. This is your time to leave. You can turn this off.
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We recommend you go.
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We actually recommend you turn it off. Please turn it off.
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You need to go.
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Because anything we say from this point forward is on you and not on us.
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Yes.
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So if what we say here is total farcical nonsense, that just goes right onto you energetically. It's yours, not ours. We're giving it to you. We're throwing it at you.
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If you're like, what a stupid, stupid thing. We're like, well, that's your fault.
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That's your fault. We told you to leave. Now there are people that have told us. I've listened to every overtime and.
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Okay, we're gonna need to start making badges, right? That's a lot.
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All right, this is a freaky story.
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We just need to talk. It's like therapy, right?
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We just gotta get this story out. I am freaked out. I. It happened one night. It was a Wednesday night that this all went down, and I been terrified since then.
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So that makes sense.
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But I'm gonna let you tell the story, all right?
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You have to understand how our house works. There's a. And, you guys, this is detailed. So just follow me, because you need to understand this, okay? We have a downstairs bathroom, and we have two upstairs bathrooms. Okay? All right? So early Wednesday morning, before the kids were, you know, I get up, it's 5am I'm using the bathroom. It's overtime, okay? And I look at the toilet paper roll as we do, and I'm like, who stamped the toilet paper roll? Side note, do you know what toilet paper stamping is? No one here did.
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No.
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Toilet paper stamping is something that you can either buy a stamp or you take the toilet paper roll and you push it under the wet like a faucet that was turned on and off real quick to make an imprint. And it makes the toilet paper kind of like, fold up nicely, okay? So it makes an imprint of whatever's under the sink on there as the stamp. Anywho, I. I've never thought about toilet paper stamping ever. But I'm sitting there on the toilet. I'm looking at the. Looking at the toilet paper roll. It's over time. And I. Who stamps the toilet paper? But it's 5am So I just move on with it.
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And which bathroom was this?
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This was the upstairs bathroom. I'll call it the kids bathroom.
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The kids bathroom.
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There's the kids bathroom. There's yours in my bathroom. And then there's the downstairs.
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Okay, so in the kids bathroom.
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Yeah.
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5Am you see this?
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I see it.
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Okay.
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And I'm like, that's weird. Whatever. Move on with my day. Kids go to school, right? Right before our youngest gets home. All right, so she's the first one home from school. It had just been me and Scott in the house all day. And I go into the downstairs bathroom and I'm using the bathroom, and I go. I look at this wallpaper roll, and it had just been freshly stamped. So it was a stamp. And it was wet, like it had just happened. And I looked at the stamp and I looked under the sink, and I'm like, that's the same imprint as under the sink. Like, that is so weird because nobody's been in this house all day. It just happened. And who knows what? I didn't do it. It's Scott stamping toilet paper. That would be so odd, right?
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And at this point, this is like 2pm.
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You don't mention either one of these. No one said anything at this point.
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So you know your parent. You got it. Like, everything's busy, right? So Abby comes home, homework. Bree comes home, homework, dinner, et cetera, et cetera. Scott has an HOA meeting, so he leaves the house around 5pm the kids want to go for a walk. So I'm like, all right, let's go for a walk. Walking with my youngest first. Then it occurs to me, abby, have you been stamping toilet paper? What's that? What's that? I'm like. And I explained. She's like, no, I don't even know that was a thing. I'm like, that's weird. So then we go on another lap around the block, but we pick up Brianna. I'm like, bri? I asked her the same thing. She's like, what's that? So nobody knows what. I'm the only one who knows what toilet paper stamping is. So on the walk, the three of us are like, well, this could be really weird, because the Only person that could have done it is dad. And that's super not a dad thing to do. It's not a Scott thing to do. So we're like, okay, well, let's go up to his bathroom, the final bathroom, and see if that toilet paper stamped. So all three of us run upstairs after our walk. We go into his bathroom and. And we see in the toilet paper is stamped. And we're like, oh, my God. And it has like some little dots on it. And I'm like, what are those? Like, red dots? And then I take the toilet paper roll and I make another stamp on it under his sink, and the dots show up. So it's like a rust stain under that stamp on the sink. So. Meaning whoever did it had to be that sink in his sink.
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Right?
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We're like, this is really weird. The kids are like, oh. And then, you know, the kid. Now it starts a rumble of stress because. And I'm like, well, it has to be dad. I'm like, it has to be dad. Even though that's so not like him, it has to be him. Scott gets home, we bring him upstairs, we tell him all of this. He's like, what is toilet paper stamping? I've never done this. This is where we all collectively freak out.
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Well, here's the thing, you guys. When I got home and that was like 8 o' clock at night, you guys thought I did it.
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Yeah, we just. Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So.
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And then, you know, I didn't even know what was going on. I'm like looking at the. This symbol that's made in the toilet paper. And then I, you know. And you guys really think it was me? Everyone thinks it's me at this point. So I have to start just. So I didn't even know what toilet paper stamping was. So then I'm. Now I'm starting to defend all my hygiene practices because I thought they were like, accusing me of, like, you didn't even understand doing things with the toilet paper.
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Right.
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And they were asking me, okay. Then they got like, personally, like, what's your. They were asking me what my process was when I go to the bathroom. They were asking, what is my process of using toilet paper?
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Well, we were like, is it falling in the sink?
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Right.
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And you don't really, like, are you taking the roll with you to the sink?
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Right. They're asking me all these things.
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Well, we just didn't know.
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So, like, I'm like, no, no, of course not.
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Right?
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So then I'm like, all right, well, let me see what this is. So I take one of the rolls and I put it up to my sink in the thing. And you actually have to use some force.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You would have to make this symbol.
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B
The stamp and the.
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A
Yeah, the sample. Whatever you want to call it. And it's because the original stamp and all the others and the stamps we made, they're very detailed. They're like. It's not like just faint.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Like, you really had to push imprint.
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B
Of under the sink, right.
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You really had to push it. Yeah. You really had to push it into the faucet to make this symbol. And I'm like, no, of course. When would I ever do like. Yes. So sometimes maybe I had the toilet paper and it, you know, maybe it fell into the thing. I don't remember if it did, but it never would have went to the top.
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B
Yeah.
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So then after, I think I convinced you guys that it wasn't me.
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B
Yeah.
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Then I thought you guys. Then I thought you guys were playing a trick on me.
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B
Right.
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I'm like, oh, okay, this is a prank, right. They're goofing on me. One of the three of them did it, or all three of them are in on it.
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B
Yeah.
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A
But no one admitted to it.
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B
Right. So here's. If I. So sometimes I go into. Like, if I were a detective. If I were a detective, I'd be like, who's been in your house right now? This is Wednesday. No one had been in the house since Monday.
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Right.
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So Abby had a play date on Monday, and after that, no one had been in the house. The other thing I would think of is, you know, the big thing was the downstairs one. That happened before anybody was home. It was just me and you home all day. And it was wet, it was fresh, it was new.
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Right.
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And that had to have happened just then, but nobody had been in the house that entire. And it was this Wednesday.
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No, I know.
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So how could an. How could a stamp.
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What time did you go to the bathroom on that Wednesday?
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Like 5. 5:30am but it was.
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No, no, that was the upstairs bathroom. What time did you go to the bathroom downstairs?
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2Pm 2pm yeah.
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Exactly at 2pm yeah.
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Like, right. Because she walked in the door, like, a minute after.
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Right. Abby walked in the door at like 2:02.
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Right.
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So you had just gone to the bathroom.
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And so. And then in my head, I would be like, oh, a kid did it. Like, one of the kids did it, and they're just not saying it. They. They saw it on Tik Tok. They saw, oh, toilet Paper stamping. This is a fun thing. And they did it. But that doesn't explain. Explain the wet one that was fresh and brand new when no one was home. It doesn't explain that one. Also, it doesn't explain.
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In your bathroom, you know, But I can see at the same time, if I was like a police detective, I'd be like, all right, one of the kids did it. And they're just not admitting it right now. Everybody then everyone was worried that someone's like, living in the attic.
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Researched.
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And we looked, we looked, we looked everywhere. We did a whole soup of the house. Because, by the way, who. And then my other one, because I watch too much tv, I'm like, is this psychological warfare? Like, is somebody just, like, messing with us?
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Right.
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Like, they want us to be stressed and turn on each other and just not feel comfortable in our own home.
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A
Right. So at this point, there's three options.
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Right.
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Okay. It was one of the four of us.
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Right.
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Which we still all are saying one of us might have done.
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Right.
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Okay. We, like, who knows?
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Yeah.
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Okay, so there's that, then there's paranormal.
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B
Right.
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Or at some point somebody came into the house, went to all three bathrooms.
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B
Yeah. And made the stamp one where we were home alone.
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A
Correct.
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Door is locked.
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A
Right. And there's no other sign of any. Anything else. Now, I will say for that day.
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Yes.
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And you can believe us or not believe us. I don't know if you believe us about the stamps, but I have pictures. I'm going to put this up. This is going to be the post when we do the episode. The picture of the toilet paper. But okay. In the morning. And again, I don't know if these things have to do anything. Around 10 o' clock a.m. you did a post on Selena, who had passed. I think it was the anniversary of her.
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B
It wasn't the anniversary. Netflix had a documentary and you did.
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A
A post the second that you hit post.
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B
Yeah.
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To the stories. The lights. You were in the back. Your. This was in my. Our bathroom.
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B
Yeah.
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The lights went out in there.
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B
Right.
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Nowhere else in the house.
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B
Right.
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Just there.
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B
Right. Okay.
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We. That was a little freaky, but that happens a lot here.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Then later on that night, we were.
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B
Oh, let me tell this.
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A
Oh, you tell.
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Okay. Only because I'll tell it. We're laying. Okay. So after all this, everybody was freaked out.
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Freaked out. I was gonna go to a hotel.
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I'm like, we're going to a hotel. You have to understand, guys like, Scott's like, losing it. Like when we Talk about logic. Aura colors. His red cannot wrap his brain. And Bree, too. Bree's red. Bri and Scott were, like, losing it.
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Because there is no explanation for this. If it's not one of the four of us, which. I'm fine, I'll accept that. Then it's either paranormal or. Or someone's in my house.
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B
Or a weirdo coming in and stamping toilet paper. Oh, right, the thing at random in your bathroom.
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A
Yep.
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This was also really weird. It was like it was dry and stamped in such a way that it looked like nobody had touched it or it was on a. Oh, these aren't stamped. Pre stamped toilet paper.
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A
Correct.
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B
By the way, they don't come stamped. We looked at the package. No.
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Each roll of toilet paper in each bathroom had a distinct marking of the faucet that it was put under.
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And your roll was, I would say, a quarter gone. And it had been stamped anew. So I just wanted to say that too.
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A
Okay.
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B
But anyway, so Scott and Bri are freaking out, but we finally get everybody kind of like, all the lights are on, but everyone's in bed. And.
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We'Re laying in bed, and we have. We have House Hunters on. And Scott's like, you have to ask your people who did it. Who did it? And I was like, okay, I'm going to ask my people. And immediately, you see, I'm not going to say the name, but you see on House Hunters, like a sign pops up of the neighborhood they're working on. Remember I said the last person we had in the house was a playdate and it was the girl's name.
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Correct.
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And it just happened to be the same name as the neighborhood the House Hunter peoples were moving into, but it was the same name as the girl who was over on the Monday play date. Again, though, this still doesn't solve the downstairs bathroom. Wet, fresh one.
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And then. And then. And then he's like, well, that was weird. I'm like, that is weird. Well, that was one of our suspects. But I'm like, well, I'll just ask one more to clarify. I'm like, hey, guys, one more. Can you please clarify if this is true? You know, just give us some sort of sign when I tell you how many seconds later. Within 15 seconds, the entire house lost power for about 3 seconds, 4 seconds, and then all powered back on. Yeah, that happened.
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A
And we were.
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B
I'm still freaked out. We were. We were like, okay. And I'm like, okay, okay. And that was weird.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And I will say, just spiritually, the house that they did have an energy. Did have a vibe.
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A
Yeah. It hasn't happened since. It has not happened since we've asked that person. And again, you know, we're dealing with kids.
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B
Right.
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A
And we were talking about, you know, kids and fantasy play before, earlier in the episode. But they swear to it now that they didn't do it.
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B
If I was police, like, investigating this. Right. I would say it's one of the kids.
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A
Right.
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B
Immediately.
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A
But they didn't even know what it was.
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B
Nobody knew. If. If I didn't say anything, the whole house. Nobody would have known. By the way, it's only because I happen to know what. Toilet paper stamp.
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A
Yeah. I. I wouldn't have known. I probably would have just. I don't know what I would have thought. I probably would have thought nothing.
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B
You wouldn't have ever noticed it.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Or bought anything.
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A
It's pretty indented, though.
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B
But I can. Yeah.
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A
I don't know. Maybe I would have just looked at it and be like, what is this?
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B
Shrugged it off. I even shrugged it off twice.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Before I asked the kids. And then it was like, this is weird. But I will say that that day we haven't had it since.
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A
Right.
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B
And the house has felt less weird since then.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And I did have some really powerful readings in the house. So we don't know if it's, like, paranormal. And I'm too close to it to, like, really understand. So we need you guys.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Give us a read.
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A
All right. So again, there's three options. Yes, there's one. I mean, it could be mystic. Michaela. I don't know.
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B
I mean, you guys could.
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A
One day, just on, you know, Christmas Eve, you're like, we prayed to you.
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B
No, we didn't. But I know they think it's me.
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A
A lot of them think it's me.
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B
I said, yeah, it's not me. I know. I didn't know if somebody was sleepwalking.
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A
Right. We thought that, too.
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B
Sleepwalking, I thought, is one of us. Although nobody sleepwalks.
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A
All right.
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B
That I'm aware of.
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A
So if we take it out that it's not one of the four of us.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And not the friend.
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B
Right.
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A
Then it's either paranormal or somehow someone got into the house. And it would. They would have gotten into our house a few times.
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B
Who does that? Who would get in. Right. At 2:00pm Like. Right. Well, we were home all day. Right. You know.
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A
Yeah. That. And that's the scary. The fresh one.
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B
The fresh at, like, throws two o'.
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A
Clock in the afternoon.
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B
Right.
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A
When we were the only people in the house. In the house. We did leave. We were out in the morning, went to the gym, whatever, and got our bagel, and then we came home.
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B
Who would come home?
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A
But then, but then it was still. Yeah. And I was testing it too, to see, like, how long it takes for these to dry and everything. I've done all the tests. So that leaves paranormal for psychological warfare. Yeah, I, I'm from a neighbor who doesn't get along with.
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B
Yeah, we could. It could be the neighbor that doesn't get along with us. This would definitely be a turquoise purple would do something.
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A
All right, if you had.
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B
Okay, so we don't have any turquoise purple neighbors.
- [62:50]
A
There's a three options. I know which one. I'm going. Which one are you going with? If you had to say the three of the three, which one are you picking? I'm picking paranormal. I think it's paranormal.
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B
I have to go with paranormal.
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A
Okay. So we're in agreement.
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B
Yeah.
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A
All right. Well, people think.
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B
And the only thing I thought of is I was like, it was November 19th, by the way, is the date this happened. And in my family, I'm like, who died that day? Like, what's going on? What's happening? That was my only kind of. I haven't figured that piece of the puzzle out yet. Is it somebody who passed? I don't know.
- [63:23]
A
I mean, I did talk to some of the discussion groups about it.
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B
Oh, you did?
- [63:28]
A
There was a turquoise purple in one of the discussion groups that said that. That they did this stuff all the time as a kid and didn't tell.
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B
Oh, okay.
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A
And they told years later.
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B
Yeah.
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A
I don't know.
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B
That's our eldest thought.
- [63:42]
A
Yeah. But I don't think so. I, I, I don't think so. I've come.
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B
Well, as a mom, I don't think so. But if I was a police detective.
- [63:50]
A
You would think that's why. Right. Because you couldn't think parent. Like, apparent.
- [63:54]
B
There's too many variables with paranormal.
- [63:55]
A
Yeah. Light turns on and off. Sure. That happens all the time.
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B
Or a flicker.
- [63:59]
A
Or a flicker. Or even the whole house going out when we asked for a side 15 seconds later.
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B
Yeah. Okay.
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A
I believe that.
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B
Right.
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A
But to make the indent in this toilet paper, you would have to take it. It would have to float off of the, you know, the rack.
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B
Right.
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A
Then under the sink, then be pushed in, then float back and go onto the rack again.
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B
I mean, or they materialize it somehow.
- [64:23]
A
I don't know. And the weird part was, you asked your mom the first thing she said was, it's like you said. We had had this problem going on in our house, and then the first thing she said was, toilets. Right.
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B
Oh, that's weird. Yeah. So, yeah, I asked my mom, like, okay, I need your psychic advice.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And she's like, what? Something going on with the toilets? I'm like, oh.
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A
And you didn't say anything?
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B
I'm like, well, it's toilet paper, you know, like that. Yes.
- [64:43]
A
Oh, my gosh. All right, well, it is overtime. I don't expect you to believe us.
- [64:47]
B
But we do want your thoughts.
- [64:49]
A
We do want your thoughts.
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B
Please give them to us. All right. This podcast is for you and about you, and we're so glad you spent some time with us today.