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A lot of us go about our day and never really look back to see what happened. How did we perform? How did we underperform? Were there certain things that happened throughout the day that we should be putting a highlight over and thinking about more? And if you don't take the time to reflect on that day, chances are you just pile up day after day after day and don't really absorb the pack potential power of the experiences that they brought to the table. What's going on Podcast Family My name is Michael Chernow, and this is the Creatures of Habit podcast. Our habits will make us or they will break us. I've lived on both sides of the tracks and have experienced some of the best and the worst that habits have in store. The decisions we make on a consistent basis truly define who we are as human beings. This episode will be a solo episode where traditionally I interview guests. This is a solo episode where I share with you guys experiences that I've had, things that are relevant in my life today that I think could potentially be interesting for you to hear, things that I simply just want to share or quotes or activities that I've done over the last few weeks that have inspired me. So sit back, relax, and get out your pen and paper, because what you hear in this podcast could potentially make some big changes in your life. Let's go. What up, y'? All? Happy Monday. It's a Monday. Maybe it's not Monday for you, but it is not Monday for me either. But I'm recording this so that you can listen to it on a Monday. And I do these podcasts, these little tidbits of optimism, and we drop them on Monday mornings so that you can potentially listen to something that's going to make you happy, put a smile on your face, offer some insight, make you think. This week I want to talk about this new habit that I have began introducing into my life that some of you may do already. But it is something new for me that I don't do every single day, but I have been doing more and more of. And it is this daily reflection at the end of my workday what it is. I tend to get ready to leave my office at around 5:45 in the evening, where I, you know, walk to my truck, I drive home, and I'm home for dinner every night. And so what I've been doing recently is I have been trying to end that at around 5:35 and give myself 10 minutes to just sit at my desk, recalibrate, take a few deep breaths. I open up this beautiful journal that was gifted to me by my good friend Tom Doyle. And I just think about what I did for the day and I write about it. It looks like opening up my calendar and thinking about what I did before my first meeting. I recount all of the meetings that I've had throughout the day, point out a few good things, potentially a few not so great things that happened in those meetings, and it gives me an opportunity to actually experience the day that just happened. A lot of us go about our day and never really look back to see what happened. How did we perform? How did we underperform? Were there certain things that happened throughout the day that we should be putting a highlight over and thinking about more? And if you don't take the time to reflect on that day, chances are you just pile up day after day after day and don't really absorb the potential power of the experiences that the day brought to the table. It's been a really great practice. It takes 10 minutes and it also gives me an opportunity to make a few notes for the following day for people that I want to follow up with. I think the follow up is so important in life. You have a great meeting with somebody and you should write them a note the following day saying, hey, I just want to say yesterday was great. I really appreciate it. Let's keep the, the dialogue going without those follow ups. I mean, we move so quickly throughout our days and we probably interact with so many different people. You know, relationships are the cornerstone of happiness, especially great relationships. And so not taking the opportunity or the, or the chance to develop a relationship as simply as just writing an email the following day saying, hey, that was awesome, in my opinion is leaving money on the table. So I love this end of day daily reflection. I have spent a lot of years in my life journaling in the morning, which is also powerful and great. But I really think that this, this post work day reflection is something that you should give a try and just see if it helps you appreciate your life a little bit more. It just puts a little bit of a highlight on things and I found it to be super gratifying. It also keeps us, it also gives us an opportunity to just have some gratitude at the end of our day. So gift somebody a journal because that's how this was inspired for me. I got a journal as a gift. Buy yourself one gift one. And then on that first page of the journal write, hey, sending you this journal. And I'm going to start doing this post day daily reflection. And I thought it could be a nice thing for you to try too. So this is why I'm gifting you the journal. It's a really nice thing to do for yourself. It's a really nice thing to do for somebody else. And it is has been super impactful in my life. Share this podcast Give us a rating and review. Ideally it's a five star rating and a review. We're really trying to grow the podcast as you know. I really appreciate you guys listening in on these Monday moments and subscribing to the podcast. It means a hell of a lot. I appreciate you guys. I love you. Until the next one. Have a great week. Peace.
