Welcome back to Lending Leadership: The Mortgage Pros, your go-to resource for everything mortgage professionals need to lead, grow, and elevate their business.

In this episode, we shine a spotlight on one of the most impactful growth levers in our industry: coaching. Whether you're an aspiring loan officer looking to break through the next ceiling, a manager navigating multiple teams, or a seasoned originator feeling stuck, coaching is a tool with ripple effects far beyond business output—it can transform lives, families, and organizations.

We’re thrilled to welcome Kristen Watkins as our special guest. As someone who’s shaped the trajectory of countless mortgage professionals, including our very own co-host Robert Fillyaw and other company leaders, Kristen Watkins brings decades of hands-on coaching experience both as an external and—now—internal coach within our organization. Her journey began in an unexpected place—the dental industry—and took a fortuitous turn into coaching mortgage professionals after seeing how powerful the right guidance can be for unlocking true potential.

In this episode, we discuss:

The unique role of coaching in the mortgage industry and why even the best in the world—athletes, executives, and loan officers alike—depend on coaches to reach new heights.
Kristen Watkins
's personal journey from managing a mortgage office to becoming a sought-after coach, and what it means to run an internal coaching program that's fully aligned with company leadership.
The incredible impact of customized coaching solutions, including moving from three closings a month to 19, and how vulnerability plus accountability add up to breakthrough growth.
The most common hurdles that hold loan officers back, including the myth that being “busy” equals being productive (and profitable!).
Real-life stories of transformation, including how coaching restored balance and brought renewed joy and motivation not just to careers, but to home life, too.

Key takeaways:

Successful Loan Officers Don't Succeed Alone
Just as Tiger Woods or Super Bowl teams rely on expert coaches, top-producing mortgage professionals also need mentors to challenge them, refine their habits, and provide accountability. No one achieves lasting success in a vacuum.
Alignment in Internal Coaching Makes All the Difference
Kristen highlights the power of an internal coaching program: everyone—from leadership to originators—hears and implements the same proven strategies. This alignment eliminates conflicting messages, reinforces best practices, and accelerates results.
Vulnerability and Implementation Are Essential for Growth
Coaching only works when participants are honest about their strengths, weaknesses, and even fears—and are willing to do the work. The most dramatic business transformations come from those who open up, trust the process, and execute relentlessly.
Delegation and Focus on High-Payoff Activities Move the Needle
Many LOs stay busy with paperwork and behind-the-scenes tasks, missing opportunities for growth. The highest achievers consistently delegate non-revenue-producing activities to team members and focus their energy on what actually drives new business.
Coaching Impacts More Than Just Numbers
The ripple effect of coaching is profound: it delivers not just more closings or income, but also restores work-life balance, rekindles passion for the business, and improves personal relationships. Sometimes, the greatest measure of success is hearing “Thank you for giving me my husband back.”

If you’ve ever felt curious—or skeptical—about the value of coaching, this episode is packed with real-world stories, practical advice, and maybe even the nudge you need to elevate your career and quality of life. As Kristen Watkins reminds us: if elite athletes and championship teams wouldn’t go without a coach, why should you?

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Robert, Tom, and Dave