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Lisa Rinna
The following podcast is a Dear Media Production. Hi, I'm Lisa Rinna.
Harry Hamlin
And I'm Harry Hamlin.
Lisa Rinna
And this is. Let's not talk about the husband.
Harry Hamlin
We've been together for over 30 years, and we've been working in this industry a lot longer.
Lisa Rinna
Well, you know, we have some crazy stories to tell. And on this podcast, we're going to own it, baby.
Harry Hamlin
Buckle up. Let's get into today's episode. Now, I hear that you have some interesting things to talk about today.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah, because, you know, when you have those epiphany moments.
Harry Hamlin
No.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I do. I mean, I think to myself all the time. I talk to myself all the time.
Harry Hamlin
Yes, I know that you talk to yourself all the time. I hear voices. I'll be in the bathroom and I'll hear all these voices coming, and I'll come out and you're not on the phone, and, you know, there's nobody in the room, and it's just you gabbing away.
Lisa Rinna
You said, are you talking to me? I go, no. But I'm fully having a conversation with myself.
Harry Hamlin
You do? And they must be good combos, because they go on and on.
Lisa Rinna
I work so much shit out. I'm not kidding. Okay, so here's my moment that I had, and I just have to talk it through because we haven't talked about it. We kind of talked about it, but I came to something. No, don't be scared. It's not about you. Don't be scared. This is what I came to. So you know that I went to go and do Andy Cohen's radio show, Sirius Radio in New York, and I really went to announce the podcast. Right, right. And we thought that that would be a good thing. And when they first called, you know, I haven't seen Andy since the reunion. That's two and a half years. That's a long time.
Harry Hamlin
Where is this going? Is this going to be radioactive?
Lisa Rinna
No, it's not. I'm gonna tell you exactly what I think happened to me in this moment. Yeah. Okay.
Harry Hamlin
So while you were talking to Andy.
Lisa Rinna
Let me just go back. Don't rush. Okay, listen. So we go to do the podcast, and it was about, you know, Fashion Week. They said, is Lisa gonna be in town for Fashion Week? To my publicist, Jeffrey, he said, yes. Well, would she want to come on? He calls me, he goes, what do you think? And I thought, well, it actually could be a good thing. You know, I haven't seen him in a long time. I've moved way on housewives and such. So I thought It'd be a good idea. We all thought it'd be a great place to announce the podcast.
Harry Hamlin
Why not? It's Andy Cohen. It's, you know, he's your old boss and it's the serious radio. Big audience. What the hell?
Lisa Rinna
Big housewife audience. Okay, so I had done Paris Fashion Week and then New York, a lot of it.
Harry Hamlin
And you killed it, by the way.
Lisa Rinna
Well, thank you.
Harry Hamlin
Killed it.
Lisa Rinna
Thank you, Mary. I mean, killed it. It is like me having an acting job every single day. And I get to express myself. So I love it so much. So during all of this in New.
Harry Hamlin
York, lots of attention too.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I love attention. You know that frickin love attention. Let's get to the brown here. Yeah, I love attention, but I also love to express myself that way.
Harry Hamlin
So you're about to express yourself on Andy Cohen's show.
Lisa Rinna
And I'd already done a few shows in New York. I'd done the Marc Jacobs show, and I'm having a real good time.
Harry Hamlin
When you say done the show, you sat front row. And did you walk in a show too?
Lisa Rinna
I did. I walked in the Jane Wade show. She's a young 29 year old designer who DM'd me on Instagram and said, we would love to have you walk in.
Harry Hamlin
Wait a minute, she DMed you? That's how you got the gig? Yeah, she got it on YouTube.
Lisa Rinna
She DMed me. She's 29 years old and she said, I would love for you to walk in my show. And so I just went to her Instagram page. I actually had never heard of Jane Wade. I went to her Instagram page and I thought, wow, this girl's really talented. And so then I sent it to Jeffrey, my publicist, and I said, what do you think? And it didn't matter what he thought. Anyway, I was already gonna do it cause I thought she was talented. He said, I think she's great.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, good.
Lisa Rinna
And so I did it without knowing anything about her. And it was fabulous. It was so much fun to go and help these young people realize their dreams.
Harry Hamlin
Did you show me your walk? Have I seen that? Did I see your walk in that show or did you keep that to yourself?
Lisa Rinna
I don't know if you've seen it. I'm gonna show you the show.
Harry Hamlin
I don't think I've seen it. I would remember it.
Lisa Rinna
I mean, big shoulders. It's like a big.
Harry Hamlin
I think I saw a photograph of the big shoulders and you were talking about how you couldn't get into a car or something. Like that.
Lisa Rinna
That's a different outfit. That's. That. That's the Victor and Ralph with the big.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, the huge thing.
Lisa Rinna
The one I look like. The clown. The clown esque. As our neighbor said, you look like a clown.
Harry Hamlin
Anyway, so you were in New York now.
Lisa Rinna
Okay, in New York. Gone to the Marc Jacobs show. Had time in my life. Anyway, on and on. So I go to Andy Cohen's. I walk in, we all. Okay, first of all, we have a little altercation in the elevator before we even get up to Andy.
Harry Hamlin
You and Andy?
Lisa Rinna
No, me and Jeffrey. So Jeffrey, my publicist is with me, and we get, you know those big, big buildings that Sirius Radio's in. You have to go. And they send you up in a certain elevator going to the floor.
Harry Hamlin
Exactly.
Lisa Rinna
So we're going to 36th floor. We get in, it's like, I don't know, 9, 30, 10 in the morning. And this woman comes in and Jeffrey just really nicely goes, oh, by the way, we're going up to 36, just in case you're not in the right elevator. And she looks at him and she goes, I don't need your help. I'm in the right. I don't need your help. I'm in the right elevator. What are you talking about? And Jeffrey said, oh, well, I just, you know, we're just going up in 36. And she went on in such an attacking way. I was dumbfounded. He was dumbfounded. And it turns out she worked at Sirius Radio, and when her went about her own way, and it was the weirdest moment and weirdest altercation I'd ever seen out of the world.
Harry Hamlin
But do you think she had a bone to pick with you or was she.
Lisa Rinna
No, not with. With life. I mean, clearly I had empathy for her because clearly she's a very unhappy woman and just needed to, like. She just was like, mind your own business. You're not the elevator cop.
Harry Hamlin
Really?
Lisa Rinna
Yes, we were.
Harry Hamlin
So mind your own business. You're not the elevator cop.
Lisa Rinna
I mean, he literally was just being kind. So that's the first moment.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, yeah, yeah. That sounds like some really weird energy.
Lisa Rinna
It was really weird energy. And it shook me a little bit, to be honest, because it was so aggressive for absolutely no reason. Absolutely no reason.
Harry Hamlin
That happens from time to time. You know, some people are just in so much fear that they have to lash out and act out in the moment or whatever. You meet people like that and you go, but wait a minute, just chill out. Take a chill pill.
Lisa Rinna
We were in an elevator, the three of Us. And at one point.
Harry Hamlin
And they're strangers, right? She's a stranger.
Lisa Rinna
Total stranger.
Harry Hamlin
That's so weird. Maybe she. Did she recognize you?
Lisa Rinna
No, but. But as she's sort of, you know, browbeating him, she looks over at me and she goes, oh, so she does recognize me in that moment, but after the fact, after she'd already assumed she's already done that. And then she looks at me for a minute and goes, oh. And I go, hi. And I go, just sending you love. That's what came out of my mouth.
Harry Hamlin
Really?
Lisa Rinna
Oh, good for you. I'm sending you love. And she clocks me for a second, like, oh, oh, oh, I. You know, I know who she is, or I watch her or whatever. Then she goes right back to Jeffrey and starts in on him again.
Harry Hamlin
Maybe she thought he was somebody else. She was.
Lisa Rinna
No, no, no, no, no, no. He's a complete and utter stranger that she'd never seen. She didn't like him bossing her around and telling her what floor we were going to. He meant no malice. That's what was so frustrating. So that's the first moment we have. Go in the green room for a second. Anthony as producer comes in. Anthony used to be his producer on Watch what Happens Live. So I've known Anthony for years. Have a nice moment with Anthony. But we tell him about this woman that had this little moment with us. Anyway, takes us down to Andy and John. You know, John says co host, sidekick, who I've known for years. Anyway, sit down. And so the night before, I'd gone to see Erica in Chicago. Erika Jayne, Erika in Chicago playing Roxy. So much fun. I surprised her. And then I went backstage after, and she was talking to me, and she said, I just want to warn you that Andy is going to bring up when he sees you tomorrow on his show about you calling the show the Titanic. I go, what? I didn't even remember I'd said that, you know, on a podcast, because I started doing podcasts to promote our podcast. Are you following?
Harry Hamlin
I'm. I'm following you. So basically, podcasts are a minefield for you.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, no doubt. Absolutely. Always happen. But. But I didn't really remember saying this. It was something I threw out and just didn't even. Like I didn't clock it.
Harry Hamlin
So were you talking about his show or the franchise sinking like a ship to the bottom of the ocean, or were you talking about moving deck chairs around on the Titanic as though that's a frustrating thing to do? Because in the end, we all sink.
Lisa Rinna
However, whatever interpretation you take of it.
Harry Hamlin
You basically said that Housewives is the Titanic.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, okay. Well, I can see how the producer of a show might think that. Well, that's a little, you know.
Lisa Rinna
Right. So she warns me about it, and I go, oh, gosh. Wow. Okay. I will address it with him immediately. And I will. Sounds like he's hurt. His feelings are hurt, and I'll apologize. So I knew it was coming, right? I go. First thing I say to him, gosh, I. You know what I hear? Erica told me that, you know, you didn't like that I said that about the Titanic. And, hey, if I hurt your feelings, I'm sorry. And he giggles and he goes, hi, guy. Wait, we're gonna talk about this on the radio.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, so you weren't on the air yet?
Lisa Rinna
No, ma'am.
Harry Hamlin
So you brought it up?
Lisa Rinna
No, sir.
Harry Hamlin
So what if you hadn't brought it up? Do you think it might have, like.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, he was already gonna bring it up. He just wanted me to save it for the radio. He was gonna go there. He was going there no matter what. So what I'm finally getting to after taking 20 fucking minutes to get to it? Maybe 15. Is this what happened to me, I believe is the minute I walked into that space, I fall into a trope of housewife to Big Daddy.
Harry Hamlin
Wait a minute. You're going to have to explain that.
Lisa Rinna
Okay.
Harry Hamlin
A trope.
Lisa Rinna
First of all, I'm not even sure the trope is the right word.
Harry Hamlin
Trope of housewives.
Lisa Rinna
And, okay, so I fall back into a role that I played, I believe, for eight years, where I give my power to Andy Cohen, who is my boss. Just dynamically, that is where I went right back to. Almost like little girl going back to the role she plays in her family with Daddy.
Harry Hamlin
Andy was Daddy.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I always called him Big Daddy.
Harry Hamlin
Oh.
Lisa Rinna
So I, in the moment, go into that role of. Because really, when he starts to talk to me about it, all I really needed to say was, yeah, so that's my opinion, and I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings, but that's my opinion. Like, really, that's all I needed to say. I didn't need to, like, tap dance and hem and haw and leak all over the place.
Harry Hamlin
Did you tap dance hem and haw and leak?
Lisa Rinna
Yeah. Uh, oh, I did.
Harry Hamlin
I didn't hear this broadcast, but I did.
Lisa Rinna
And then I finally kind of got myself back, and I went, yeah, no, I'm not gonna take that back. It's the Titanic. I said it. So now I figured it out. I Figured out I dropped into that role of playing that housewife to Big Daddy. And I just want to say that.
Harry Hamlin
So the point of this conversation that you're having with now is to say that you dropped back into a role that you had played for eight years on the show, but it wasn't really Lisa, it was really the role you had played.
Lisa Rinna
No, it's Lisa being a housewife.
Harry Hamlin
Wait a sec. So the reason you use the Titanic in the first place was because you thought that what, the show was going down. Sinking or what.
Lisa Rinna
I was on a podcast, like the Biggest Gay Ass Podcast or whatever it's called, and we were talking a lot about different things. This is always. They take things out of context. I don't remember exactly how we were talking about it, but I. As I shared with Andy, I have not watched the show since I left, but I have had the fans come up to me and express some things to me.
Harry Hamlin
So maybe like, saying that the show's not as good since you're not on it or something.
Lisa Rinna
Well, they have a lot of things to say about it, and, you know, the Titanic was one of them.
Harry Hamlin
So you were basically parroting what someone else had already said. Okay, yes, a little bit. Like reposting something.
Lisa Rinna
Well, not really. I mean, I wouldn't have said it if I didn't, you know, agree in some way. But what I really realized, and what I'm trying to say is think about. In life, when you go back into situations that maybe, you know, either held trauma or you have a reaction in some way, I was able to clock it and look at my reaction in the moment and how I really took on a different role than I am right now. Two and a half years later, I'm in a different place, but I reverted back to that old place. Does that make sense?
Harry Hamlin
Well, it does. And where is this leading? Where is it going?
Lisa Rinna
I just wanted to talk about it because I think a lot of people probably have these moments in their lives where their subconscious doesn't really realize it until you get out of that situation and you go, that is. I was acting out of a place that I wasn't necessarily in control of. I just dropped back into what was the. What the roles were in that.
Harry Hamlin
And how do you feel about having done that? Do you feel as though. Did you, like, step in something that was icky when you were.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I didn't feel good about it, no. Because I think when you've moved beyond and you've grown from a certain situation and you go back, let's Say if you just go back to your home, you go back to your family, haven't seen your family in a while, and you go back and you drop into the old kind of patterns.
Harry Hamlin
Of course you will. I mean, everybody does that. I mean, if you. If you grow up in a household and then you go off and you go to college and you get a job, whenever you go back home, you're gonna fall back into the role that you were playing when you were younger.
Lisa Rinna
That's what I'm trying to say. I had a moment like that, and I. You know, my parents have passed, and I haven't. My mom passed three years ago, so I haven't gone home for three years and had those moments, but I hadn't had a moment like this since then.
Harry Hamlin
So. Do you regret having had that moment? Do you think that, you know.
Lisa Rinna
No, no, I don't regret it. It was a learning experience for me to see that I'm still. I still can be affected.
Harry Hamlin
Okay.
Lisa Rinna
In that realm.
Harry Hamlin
Okay, so good. So you were affected, and now you're kind of coming clean with it.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I just. I'm coming clean with it in the sense that I. I came to the realization of what happened, and this is. For me, this has nothing to do with Andy. I. I don't know what Andy felt and how he was, but this is.
Harry Hamlin
How did it go, by the way? Did it. Did it go okay with Andy?
Lisa Rinna
Yeah, we had a good time. We had fun. I mean, he was kind of a stinger missile on that. Like, he really kind of wanted to.
Harry Hamlin
Well, I can see why. I mean, if somebody came to me, if I produced a show and somebody came to me and said, oh, by the way, you know, I think your show is like the Titanic, I would go, okay, that's a problem. Why? And are you sure? And where are you getting this?
Lisa Rinna
I said, it's my opinion, anyway, this will get a lot of play, I'm sure. But I think it was just really important for me to see that I dropped into that role really quickly, subconsciously, fast. Boom. Okay, well, and then I'm fine now. I mean, I was there for 30 minutes. But I think it's really fascinating how quickly I went back to that, and I just wanted to talk about it. I didn't talk about it, we. With anybody.
Harry Hamlin
No. It would have been pillow talk for us since we're married and we sleep in the same bed. But it didn't. Didn't come up over the pillow because.
Lisa Rinna
I just figured it out, and I thought, I'm going to tell him on the podcast. All right, I'm going to share with him.
Harry Hamlin
Well, I am so glad to know that.
Lisa Rinna
Do you ever have those moments where you drop into a role? Have you had one of those recently?
Harry Hamlin
I'm sure that I have. You know, the parental thing. I haven't had any parents for many, many, many, many, many years, so that's not an issue for me. But, yeah, there probably are times when I revert back. I can't think of one right now, but there probably are times when I do that. But, yeah. So what's the other thing you were going to talk about today?
Lisa Rinna
Did I have another thing?
Harry Hamlin
You said you were two things you.
Lisa Rinna
Wanted to talk about. Well, do you have anything to talk about?
Harry Hamlin
Well, I'm going to tell you that you're going to be really happy tomorrow afternoon about this time because I'm going to have a new haircut.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, great.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. See, the thing is, you really don't like my hair to be the length that it is right now.
Lisa Rinna
This is.
Harry Hamlin
This is when I love it. This is my favorite moment in my hair thing. I mean, I was a hippie for so many years. I had really long hair for many years. And whenever I get a chance to grow my hair during the pandemic, grew my hair down below my shoulders again. Loved that.
Lisa Rinna
And I was really great about it. I was so great about it. I just let you do it.
Harry Hamlin
So I'm gonna look. What? Don't the kids call me a horse after this haircut? They say I look like a horse.
Lisa Rinna
I don't recall that. I don't recall the horse.
Harry Hamlin
It's the horse.
Lisa Rinna
Look. You look 20 years younger.
Harry Hamlin
Like a young horse. Like a filly. Like a young or young pinto or something.
Lisa Rinna
I love your hair like this. It's so cute. It's. You know, another thing I love because he'll cut all. He'll cut your eyebrows. He does like, a real good male grooming on you. And it's good because, you know, those eyebrows grow and it's like, yeah, I.
Harry Hamlin
Need a hose down right now.
Lisa Rinna
So it's your kind of hose down that, you know, men need to keep trimmed up. They just do.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah.
Lisa Rinna
Men need to get their ears.
Harry Hamlin
I can't trim because itches too much. If I'd like, I trim my chest hairs or if I trim down there, like, I, you know, I'm crazed.
Lisa Rinna
Have you ever waxed it down there?
Harry Hamlin
Oh, no, no.
Lisa Rinna
How much would we have to pay you to wax your pubes?
Harry Hamlin
Seven figures.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, really?
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. I mean, A lot.
Lisa Rinna
Wow. Well, the good news is you're not that hairy. Like, you don't have, like, a bunch of hair all over your back and stuff. I appreciate that.
Harry Hamlin
No, no hair in my feet either.
Lisa Rinna
You're not that. You're not a hairy being. You're not a hairy, hairy being, but your eyebrows do get out of control.
Harry Hamlin
Well, as you get older, your eyebrows tend to grow. I mean, they say that your fingernails and your eyebrows grow after you die.
Lisa Rinna
They do?
Harry Hamlin
That's what I hear. I don't know.
Lisa Rinna
And your nose and your ears get bigger when you get older, and I don't think that's fair for everybody.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah, my ears get bigger.
Lisa Rinna
Everybody's ears and nose gets bigger. Oh, I don't think that's quite right.
Harry Hamlin
And your lips get smaller, your ears get bigger, your nose gets bigger, and.
Lisa Rinna
Your body shrinks and you get a hunchback.
Harry Hamlin
Oh. And then you die. Okay, so I got a lot to look forward to here.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, my God.
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Lisa Rinna
All right, so we're going to continue the halcyon journey. We have to still talk about it.
Harry Hamlin
I guess so.
Lisa Rinna
I mean, we have to talk about it because.
Harry Hamlin
Okay, well, so what's the latest in. You know, Because. So as you said on another podcast, you went to Europe, you were going to all these shows, you were doing all this stuff, and you couldn't sleep that well, so you took me to sleep.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I always take something when I go to Europe for, like, maybe five days because I don't do well with jet lag. And you gotta get. You know, when you're working, like when I was doing Housewives, you gotta get right on the program. So, you know, you take something. You take something on the plane. You take something when you're sleeping at night. So I had always Taken either a Restoril or an Ambien.
Harry Hamlin
Okay, yeah, but the Halcyon thing. Because I remember Halcyon back in the 90s. In the 80s and the 90s, actually, my ex used to take Halcyon. And she went on location one time.
Lisa Rinna
I think you should tell this story.
Harry Hamlin
Okay, so she went on location one time. She was working somewhere, and she went back to her hotel room and called me up, and we were having a nice conversation. She said, I've just ordered some tomato soup. But she said, I'm just taking a Halcyon, so I might get a little. My words might slur a little bit or whatever. And I'm talking to her on the phone, we're talking away, and all of a sudden she just nods off and stops talking to me. And I said, wait, wait. Hello? Hello? Hello, Hello, Hello. Couldn't get her back on the phone. And then I got nervous. I called back the hotel and the line was busy. Called back, line busy, line busy. And I finally called the hotel. I got to the front desk and I said, wait, wait a minute, you guys. I think something's happened. She's not answering the phone. Blah, blah, blah, blah. And so they go. And then they call me back and they say, we think there's a problem. We've looked through the window, and there's looks like blood all over her. And what she had done is, like in the middle of a conversation with me, she had fallen asleep and spilled the tomato soup all over her. So the hotel guys freaked out when.
Lisa Rinna
They looked through the window, had blood all over her.
Harry Hamlin
They thought she was covered with blood when it actually was just. It was just tomato soup. But that was the first time I'd ever heard of Halcyon. And then there was an article, I think in 1991, a cover cover of Newsweek or Time or something, where they said, the nightmare of Halcyon.
Lisa Rinna
Halcyon nightmare.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. Okay.
Lisa Rinna
All right.
Harry Hamlin
So why are they still prescribing that drug?
Lisa Rinna
Here's what happened. A friend of mine had some Halcyon, took some Halcyon and said, this is great. It doesn't make you groggy. You take it. It's great. I said, I like to try that. It sounds great. But I didn't really know about Halcyon. Call my doctor. She goes, well, we don't really prescribe that anymore, but I'll prescribe a little bit, and if you just take a little bit, you'll be fine. But you can't take it for more than, like, a week or Two, you.
Harry Hamlin
Can only take it for a few days at a time, right?
Lisa Rinna
Yeah. They say just you. Just like I said, I'll just take it five days in a row. That's it.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah, but how can people do. You can't sleep. If you're. If you're traveling and you're having trouble.
Lisa Rinna
Sleeping, you have to take.
Harry Hamlin
You're going to take something every night.
Lisa Rinna
Right, While you're traveling, but usually home in six days. So it was never a problem. But here's where it became a problem. I went. We went to Cayman, I went to Paris, I went to New York. I took it the whole time. Okay, because what happened. Also cut to, when I was in New York, I got that sinus infection. I think I mentioned this last week. Went to my doctor, gave me my steroids, gave me the prednisone. I can never sleep on prednisone. You're like.
Harry Hamlin
And the prednisone. Why would you. That's a steroid. Why would you steal.
Lisa Rinna
Because I was so swollen, my sinuses were so inflamed.
Harry Hamlin
Oh.
Lisa Rinna
So she gave me that, and I said, you know, I've got my Halcyon, but I'm almost out. Can you just give me enough to get through the prednisone? So she did, but then it just made me take it more, right? So cut to. I'm just feeling terrible, right? I feel awful. And I go, what have I taken in the last month? Like a new vitamin, a new anything. Like, I go down my list. Only thing that's new in my life is Halcyon. I go, you know what? This is too good to be true. I can sleep so easily. I wake up, I'm not groggy, but I feel like shit. I'm gonna stop taking this right now.
Harry Hamlin
You mean the halcyone was working so well? It seemed to be too good to be true. Yeah. Okay.
Lisa Rinna
Because nothing's there.
Harry Hamlin
But it is too good to be true because now you're paying the price big time for that.
Lisa Rinna
I'm so in withdrawals. Because you can't just stop cold turkey.
Harry Hamlin
Obviously you can't. I mean, I've been dealing with this for a couple of weeks now, and so.
Lisa Rinna
Tell them what happened to me. One of the things that happens, you get. Get, like, flu, like, symptoms, right? And then all of a sudden, my hands are tingling and hot. Remember, I'd show you my hands. They'd be hot.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah, your hands would be all red. Red and hot and.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah, my jaw's throbbing.
Harry Hamlin
Your jaw's throbbing? You said you couldn't feel your face anymore.
Lisa Rinna
I couldn't feel my face.
Harry Hamlin
Your nose was. Was numb. And you thought maybe you'd done a lot of cocaine or something.
Lisa Rinna
I didn't, though, because I don't do cocaine. But my nose was so numb. And then I had this really sour, metallic taste in my mouth. And it was. I just felt awful. And I was like, okay, you know what? I'm not gonna do this anymore.
Harry Hamlin
But that's not the weirdest thing. The weirdest thing.
Lisa Rinna
Okay, So I don't know. They're all pretty weird.
Harry Hamlin
We go and we look at all the side effects, all the things that can happen if. When you're going through withdrawals from a drug like Halcyon.
Lisa Rinna
Halcyon.
Harry Hamlin
So they list all these different things. You get headaches. You get memory loss. Memory loss. All these different weird things that happen. Cravings, then it says cravings. And also irritability. A little ocd.
Lisa Rinna
Ocd.
Harry Hamlin
So I come in the kitchen the other day, and you're up on the kitchen counter on your hands and knees, and you're reaching up to wipe the top of the thing that holds the pots and pans, and the top of it is 8ft up in the air, and nobody ever looks at the top of that. And yet somehow you're obsessed with cleaning the top of that thing. That rack.
Lisa Rinna
I cleaned every single top of every single frame in the house.
Harry Hamlin
And painting, I filmed it.
Lisa Rinna
Because I've never seen you do that before was insane. I had to clean. And by the way, it was black because of the fires. That's what's so gross.
Harry Hamlin
Maybe there was a lot of smoke in the air, but. Yeah, so they needed cleaning, but, man, you were on fire that day.
Lisa Rinna
Correct.
Harry Hamlin
And so then. And then that. Not to add insult, I come into the kitchen the next day, and what do I see on the kitchen counter that I have never, ever, ever seen before in our house, but a big box of Ding Dongs. Okay. And so, I mean, Ding Dongs. What are the Ding Dongs doing in our house? You want to explain that, please?
Lisa Rinna
You would think that I would order on Postmates groceries all the time. You just think I would. But I so enjoy going to the grocery store. Right? I love to go to the grocery store, which.
Harry Hamlin
No. What? What?
Lisa Rinna
Yeah, you can order your groceries online and they deliver them. You know that.
Harry Hamlin
You love to go to the grocery store.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, I love to go to the grocery store.
Harry Hamlin
Which grocery store? Only one grocery store.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I like to go. I like to go to Gelson's. And Erewhon. And Bristol Farms.
Harry Hamlin
And Bristol Farms. Yeah. The three most expensive markets.
Lisa Rinna
I won't go to Ralph. In the world.
Harry Hamlin
Not just in la, but in the world.
Lisa Rinna
I won't go to Ralph's. That's what you do. But I was skimming on my postmates and I saw that you could order from Pavilions. Like, I wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, and so I needed bread. Cause we had no bread. I needed some new jam. And then as I'm scrolling, I see Ding Dongs and I go, I gotta get some Ding Dongs. That's in my crazy halcyon withdrawal whatever. Because I would normally not do that.
Harry Hamlin
No, normally. We haven't had peanut butter and jelly sandwich in our house since the kids were there. Since the kids were there. And we've never, ever, ever, Even when the kids were there, had Ding Dongs in the house.
Lisa Rinna
I know. We did have snowballs. And we did have Twinkies, though. I used to give them.
Harry Hamlin
I think I remember a Twinkie one, but I don't know.
Lisa Rinna
You know what a snowball is?
Harry Hamlin
I do not know what a snowball is.
Lisa Rinna
It is pink coconut ball thing that is delicious with cake inside.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, yeah. Well, I do recall you're biting into a Ding Dong and you went, mmm, mmm. And then you said, mm, it could have more cream in it.
Lisa Rinna
That's exactly what I said. And what was very disappointing to me, though, is they used to wrap them in foil and you would open it up and you'd unwrap your foil. It doesn't come in foil anymore. It comes in plastic. And that was very disconcerting to me.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, yeah.
Lisa Rinna
So they've taken some cream out, which I like, a little more cream. And I miss the foil wrapping. So I ate at least six of them. Three one night, three the next night. I have had at least three peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.
Harry Hamlin
And the house is cleaner than a whistle house, by the way. The house looks fantastic. You've been going around.
Lisa Rinna
Listen, you maybe want me to be this crazed more often.
Harry Hamlin
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Because I've had to wear a flak jacket.
Lisa Rinna
I mean, really, for everybody. Anyway, they're clean as a whistle now. Every single frame.
Harry Hamlin
How are you feeling today, by the way, about you? How's your. Your withdrawal going?
Lisa Rinna
Yeah, it's better. It's so 1415. This is day 16 of my Halcyon withdrawal. You know, I talked to my gp, which is my doctor, and she was trying to help me figure out. We did a Whole blood panel. And she called me and she goes, you know, you're great.
Harry Hamlin
No, I looked at your blood panel. It was perfect.
Lisa Rinna
I look really good. But then I said to her, well, I'm gonna come clean. I think this is what it is. And remember, I was talking to her, and I go, well, I took the Halcyon for at least four weeks.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, that's right. She was on speakerphone. She went, oh, my God, Lisa. You didn't really.
Lisa Rinna
Did she not go, oh, my God, Lisa?
Harry Hamlin
Yes, she did.
Lisa Rinna
You must feel horrific. I can't believe that you're going through this. It's awful. It's the worst thing you can go through.
Harry Hamlin
So, cautionary tale out there, don't take these drugs on an ongoing basis, because you will have to suffer through weeks of withdrawal if you do.
Lisa Rinna
Well, especially Halcyon. I mean, this has been.
Harry Hamlin
So you kind of can empathize with a drug addict who's going through withdrawal now.
Lisa Rinna
Yes, I can. And I can see why they take. They get back right on the drug, because when you feel that shitty, you're like, oh, I don't want to feel this shitty.
Harry Hamlin
So you take the drug again right now.
Lisa Rinna
I understand rebound. I understand all of it. Yeah, it's been rough, but it's getting better.
Harry Hamlin
I remember telling our kids when they were growing up, and when the conversation about drugs first started to percolate in the household, and this started with Dimitri, my son, who's now 45, I said to him, you know, I know. You know, everybody experiments with drugs when they grow, are growing up. I did. Everybody did, you know, never did any opiates, but, you know, there are other things out there that, you know, could be kind of played with when you're.
Lisa Rinna
You took acid. You took a cute few times. Right?
Harry Hamlin
We don't need to go quite there, but why not?
Lisa Rinna
It's okay.
Harry Hamlin
That was. That was the story of my becoming an actor when I. When the hell's angel popped some. Something in my mouth, which is. That's another story. And I'll tell that story.
Lisa Rinna
Was that his fault or. No, I mean, you took it.
Harry Hamlin
Well, He's. I was. I was popped in your mouth, but.
Lisa Rinna
You didn't say no.
Harry Hamlin
Well, he said, open wide, and he flung it in my mouth. And. Yeah, anyway, so. But what's I saying? So I was. I was talking about what I said to the kids. That's what you're talking about. I was talking about what. How I. The. The cautionary tale.
Lisa Rinna
We were talking about Dmitry and the.
Harry Hamlin
Kids, and I Said, listen, you know, you're gonna experiment with drugs. I said to the girls, too, if I find out that you're taking heroin or addicted to opiates, I said, I'm sorry, I'm just gonna come and kill you.
Lisa Rinna
I remember you saying this, you know.
Harry Hamlin
I said, because that'll be. That'll be me loving you to death.
Lisa Rinna
Wow.
Harry Hamlin
At that moment, that is a parenting total tough love. But I said, if you. Because I've seen people who were addicted. My roommates. Both of my roommates in college were addicted to heroin. Were heroin addicts.
Lisa Rinna
Were they. Did they act worse than I was when I was in my OCD halcyon?
Harry Hamlin
I never saw them in withdrawals. They always maintained their addiction.
Lisa Rinna
Did they nod out? Because I always thought heroin addicts are.
Harry Hamlin
Always like, yeah, they were nodding out all the time. Yeah. And, you know, when they would take. They'd shoot up and they would be really loving. Once they shut up, they go, oh, Harry, God, we love you so. You're such a great guy. I loved when they were high on. On opiates because they were so nice. But then they'd come down and they were regular again. But. Yeah, but the whole idea of using opiates and when you're raising kids and you're. You know that there's a minefield out drugs and how they're going to experiment and da, da, da, da. You go, well, yeah, okay. I get like, molly or weed or mushrooms or whatever, but heroin, you don't come back from heroin. Once you do heroin, you're done. And it's like. So I made it very clear to all the kids that if they did it, I would find them and just kill them.
Lisa Rinna
Kill them. Yeah. We have some very, very interesting parenting advice and tips, and I think that the audience is really going to get some value out of our par.
Harry Hamlin
Your children.
Lisa Rinna
I also remember. You're making me remember when, you know, the kids were in junior high, high school and, you know, the phones and social media were just happening and the kids were, like, sending naked pictures to each other.
Harry Hamlin
Our kids were sending.
Lisa Rinna
No, but they were sending them, like, at school, like, it was a thing.
Harry Hamlin
I read about this when people. What's it called when you're sexting somebody or something like that?
Lisa Rinna
The kids were starting to do that. And I remember going to, like, a. A home room meeting or whatever, like a nighttime thing. You go, what do you call that? Open house, parent teacher conference, whatever. And I remember the, like, they had an expert come up and talk to us about it. And I went home and I said to the girls, listen, if you. I know you're going to be tempted because everyone is doing it and you're going to feel peer pressure, but if you send naked pictures, they are forever. And it will ruin your fucking life and you won't get into college and your life will be over. So I didn't say I would come kill them, but I basically said if you do that, you will be.
Harry Hamlin
But I get it. But think of the mixed messages. They look at Kim Kardashian, they look at Paris Hilton, they look at whomever and they go, because of the sex tapes, these guys had huge careers.
Lisa Rinna
Look, they're billionaires because of the sex tapes. Well, isn't that sex tape?
Harry Hamlin
That's how they started.
Lisa Rinna
Well, I don't. I can't speak of that. I mean, I know there was such a thing, but, you know, I don't know.
Harry Hamlin
You're telling them that their career will be over, their life will be over. If they sex tape. If they.
Lisa Rinna
If they sex tape, they won't get into college and their life will be over.
Harry Hamlin
And then they see these other people who have gigantic billion dollar careers who started by basically doing that.
Lisa Rinna
So how did we keep them from doing it? Because guess what? We did.
Harry Hamlin
No. So they haven't done it yet?
Lisa Rinna
Well, not yet, but now they just do it in public, I mean.
Harry Hamlin
Well. Well, that's true, I guess.
Lisa Rinna
Amelia just walked to walk to the D Squared fashion show, basically naked.
Harry Hamlin
Well, I mean, she. That seems to be her signature, right?
Lisa Rinna
Yeah. But here's the thing. Think about it. I pose nude pregnant, and then I pose nude again. So your mom does it, and your dad does love scenes with people completely naked. How do you not go, oh, well, my parents did it. Why can't we do it? We have a lot of mixed messaging going on, Harry.
Harry Hamlin
I guess there's something like that happening. Yeah. But nevertheless, regardless of all the mixed messages, they've turned out great.
Lisa Rinna
I know.
Harry Hamlin
I mean, I gotta say, I'm so, so happy of the way our kids are handling.
Lisa Rinna
It's remarkable, isn't it? It's truly remarkable. You know, we always joke and say the bar's really low, that, you know, they didn't go to jail, they never were arrested, and they didn't die. So that's a pretty low bar. It's a really low bar.
Harry Hamlin
Well, I mean, I went to jail.
Lisa Rinna
I forget why. You went to jail twice for pot.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. You know, I've never liked weed. I've never really smoked it.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah. So why, why that?
Harry Hamlin
I don't remember buying weed ever in my life.
Lisa Rinna
But wasn't that like a thing in the 70s? Like you just smoked weed?
Harry Hamlin
People had. People had lids. A lid was an ounce of pot. You one of those. In those days you could smoke the whole fucking thing and not get high, you know, or get only a little bit high. It was $10 for a lid.
Lisa Rinna
How much was a lid like that, an ounce?
Harry Hamlin
It was an ounce. Yeah. It was like a baggie.
Lisa Rinna
But it's illegal if you got caught with it, right?
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. You go to jail if you got caught. Well, I never, I didn't smoke it much. I mean, once in a while when I was in college, but I wasn't a pothead.
Lisa Rinna
When you weren't taking acid.
Harry Hamlin
Exactly. In between acid trips. But every time, every time I was around anybody or around weed around anybody who had, I was arrested along with them or for some reason.
Lisa Rinna
I mean, since on the beach you were arrested.
Harry Hamlin
I was arrested for sleeping on the beach in the Hamptons. And then they found the cops found a roach in the sand and they arrested all of us and threw us in jail. But I was also arrested in, in San Francisco at the San Francisco Airport when an upperclassman at my fraternity house had given me some pills to take to USC during exam period. These were speed to give to people to say, wake so they could do their exams. And I got. The cops found it, the stuff in my guitar case, and arrested me for possession of narcotics for sale. Oh, I was, I was, I was looking at a three year sentence in the penitentiary. That's another story altogether. When we have time, I'll tell that story. But yeah, so yeah, and then I was arrested a third time in Hawaii three for walking on the beach with a friend of mine. Was walking 30ft away, smoking a joint. I was down by the water, looking at the water, water. And he got arrested. And since I was with him, I got arrested too.
Lisa Rinna
I did not know it was three times.
Harry Hamlin
Three times. Yeah.
Lisa Rinna
Okay, well, I have not been arrested one time. Not once.
Harry Hamlin
You get arrested three times for drugs, everybody thinks you must be a drug addict. Well, I don't remember ever even buying.
Lisa Rinna
Drugs after these podcasts for sure they're gonna think we are full on drug addicts, you and me both, by the way. So let's just.
Harry Hamlin
And we're stone cold sober.
Lisa Rinna
Oh, well, yeah, that's all right. Three times.
Harry Hamlin
Three times. That's right. Every time I went to jail, all three times I did went to jail. The first time I spent A good deal of time in jail. Like 18 days or something like that. What, for that pot for the first time?
Lisa Rinna
Would no one come get you out?
Harry Hamlin
No. Your parents just leave you there? I was ultimately sentenced to that, but I was arrested and thrown in jail. And then my parents wanted nothing to do with that. I called them and said, I got arrested. And they said, oh, that's too bad.
Lisa Rinna
And they didn't do a thing.
Harry Hamlin
They didn't do a thing? No. I had to a lawyer. My girlfriend was running around the courthouse in the morning after I was arrested. I was being arraigned, and she was saying, is there anybody in the courthouse? I need a lawyer. I need a lawyer. And it just so happened that the most successful famous drug lawyer in San Francisco heard her and took my case on pro bono. His name was Michael Stepanion. He was also David Crosby's lawyer from Crosby, Stills, and Nash, and he took me on.
Lisa Rinna
Wow.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. Anyway, it's a long, interesting story.
Lisa Rinna
Is this in the book?
Harry Hamlin
It's in the book.
Lisa Rinna
Okay.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. It's too long a story to tell right now.
Lisa Rinna
All right, well, we're on a drug roll, so we might as well just keep going. I mean, wow. I had no idea. I've not been arrested. No dui. No DUI for you.
Harry Hamlin
Of course not.
Lisa Rinna
No DUI for the kids.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah.
Lisa Rinna
God, yeah.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. So, yeah, it's a cautionary tale, what you've been going through.
Lisa Rinna
We are cautionary tales, everyone. Right now, right here.
Harry Hamlin
But somehow we're still vertical when we want to be, horizontal when we want to be. You know, we've stayed out of jail for years and years.
Lisa Rinna
Well, you. I have. You not so much, but you have stayed out for a lot of years now that you're.
Harry Hamlin
I'm a good boy.
Lisa Rinna
You are a good boy. Definitely are a good boy.
Harry Hamlin
So what are we doing, Eve?
D
Yeah, let's spin the wheel. I think it's been a sec since we've done this.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah, let's spin the wheel.
D
So for anyone who's just tuning in for the first time, this is a wheel of topics that Harry sent me, and I'm just gonna spin it, and then Lisa and Harry are gonna riff on it for a little bit, and.
Lisa Rinna
You guys call in and leave us voicemails because we want to answer your questions. It's so fun.
D
Yes, please leave more voicemails. The link is in the show notes. Okay, I'm gonna spin the wheel.
Lisa Rinna
Okay.
D
Okay, we got it. So today's prompt is, would you be. Or are you an organ? Donor.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, I think I am an organ. Are you an organ donor?
Lisa Rinna
I believe I am an organ donor. And if I'm not, I should be. Yeah, I think so.
Harry Hamlin
It's a little macabre.
Lisa Rinna
Except I wouldn't do it right now. Not with this. Organs. Not with these organs. On the Halcyon. The Halcyon ride. I think I would. Would put it in the notes. Like, don't take them right now. Take them in a month or so.
Harry Hamlin
I wonder if that happens. I wonder if, like, you got in a car accident today. God forbid they take your organs tonight and they put them into somebody tomorrow, if that person's gonna go through withdrawals, you know?
Lisa Rinna
I mean, that is a horrible thought. I don't wish this on anybody. I really don't. I don't wish this on anybody. No, I don't.
Harry Hamlin
No.
Lisa Rinna
Well, organs.
Harry Hamlin
So are you. Are you think you are.
Lisa Rinna
I think so.
Harry Hamlin
It's on our driver's license, isn't it? It.
Lisa Rinna
I know.
Harry Hamlin
Look at my driver's license. Wouldn't it say I'm an organ donor if I am?
Lisa Rinna
I think it's in my. You know. What, in your will? In your directive?
Harry Hamlin
No, that's a different thing. This is. This is in your driver's license. When. Okay, so I got my driver.
Lisa Rinna
I always felt nervous, like, actually making the choice, you know?
Harry Hamlin
So I don't know if mine is. Wouldn't it say on here and none.
Lisa Rinna
It's so macabre, what we're talking about right now. Yeah, I would say, don't take mine right now. Don't take the organs right now.
Harry Hamlin
No restrictions. No restrictions, no endorsements. But I'm sure I'm an organ donor.
Lisa Rinna
Can I show you something while we're at it?
Harry Hamlin
Wait a minute. What does this little thing say here? It says donor on it right there. There it is, you see a little round red thing. It says donor. So. Because why are you here? I do not recognize those genes. True.
Lisa Rinna
I'm bringing it back after Timothee Chalamet wore them. Remember? True Religion? We sold them in the store.
Harry Hamlin
You gotta get the microphone. Microphone.
Lisa Rinna
True Religion jeans. They were the hottest thing on the planet 15 years ago.
Harry Hamlin
I remember. We had them in our store, True Religion. Are they still in business? True Religion?
Lisa Rinna
Oh, yes, they are. And I believe they're coming back because Timothee Chalamet just wore them and I copied him.
Harry Hamlin
Where's the connection between organ donor and true religion? Just curious.
Lisa Rinna
There isn't any. I just wanted to, like, what the fuck? I don't know, you were talking about it, trying to find it, and I was like, oh, wait a minute. Look at my genes. Have you not seen how I have a split personality at times? And I talk about a lot of different things at once. I mean, I married that.
Harry Hamlin
I married the split personality. Which personality am I married to?
Lisa Rinna
Well, right now, it's a tricky one. It's an OCD one. Okay, let's look at mine and see.
Harry Hamlin
If I. I'm a donor. It's a little kind of orange thing in the model. I can barely read it, but it says donor.
Lisa Rinna
So let's see.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah, I mean, I am too.
Lisa Rinna
I am too. Donor.
Harry Hamlin
All right, so whatever you do, people, if we get in an accident on the way home, do not use her organs.
Lisa Rinna
Not for a while.
D
Give it a week.
Lisa Rinna
We don't know. It could take a while.
Harry Hamlin
Okay, well, anyway, yeah, so we're donors. And that settles that.
Lisa Rinna
And that settles that. And I'm bringing true religion back. Me and Timothy Chalamet.
Harry Hamlin
Yeah. What? So where did Timothy Chalamet wear these?
Lisa Rinna
He wore them on a red carpet somewhere.
Harry Hamlin
And you noticed this or did somebody say, oh, those are true religion.
Lisa Rinna
I notice everything.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, God. Really? That's scary. That's really scary.
Lisa Rinna
I notice everything.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, okay. Well, I'm gonna be a good boy from now on.
Lisa Rinna
I notice everything. And I noticed him wearing the true religions, and I went, I need to do that. And so I did.
Harry Hamlin
So did you pull these out of one of those drawers in the house where the jeans have been there for 15, 20 years?
Lisa Rinna
No, I bought them.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, you.
Lisa Rinna
They were online.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, you made a purchase?
Lisa Rinna
I did.
Harry Hamlin
Oh, okay. Well, yeah, there you go. More jeans.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah.
Harry Hamlin
Need some more jeans. We need more jeans. That's right. Yeah, okay. Yeah, okay. Anyway, thanks for watching, everybody. Thanks for checking in.
Lisa Rinna
See you next time. Next week.
Harry Hamlin
Let's not talk about the husband.
Lisa Rinna
Woo. Thanks for listening to our show. You can catch new episodes every Friday.
Harry Hamlin
And don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss anything.
Lisa Rinna
Yeah. And if you liked what you heard.
Harry Hamlin
Consider leaving us a rating or review. And make sure to tell all your friends too. I mean, like, everyone you know and their mother.
Lisa Rinna
If you have a question for us or you need advice, God help you. Leave a voicemail using the link in our show notes. We might just answer your question in a future episode. Now you can find us on social media, Lisarina on Instagram, and then I'm sirinnaofficial on TikTok.
Harry Hamlin
And I'm harryrhamlin on Instagram.
Lisa Rinna
That's right.
Harry Hamlin
So see you next week.
Lisa Rinna
Until then, let's not talk about the husband. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.
Podcast Summary: "Let’s Not Talk About The Husband"
Episode Title: Hey Andy Cohen, Here's What I REALLY Think...
Hosts: Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin
Release Date: March 21, 2025
In this candid and engaging episode of "Let’s Not Talk About The Husband," hosts Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin dive deep into a range of personal and professional topics, blending humor with heartfelt reflections. The episode, titled "Hey Andy Cohen, Here's What I REALLY Think...," primarily revolves around Lisa’s interactions with Andy Cohen, her introspection on past roles, experiences with medication withdrawal, and insightful parenting anecdotes.
Lisa Rinna kicks off the episode by recounting her recent interaction with Andy Cohen during a Sirius Radio interview aimed at announcing their new podcast. She shares an unexpected and somewhat awkward experience that highlights the lingering dynamics from her reality TV days.
During their conversation, Lisa reveals how an altercation in the elevator with a Sirius Radio employee set an unusual tone before her interview with Andy. This encounter serves as a springboard for deeper reflections on her past persona as a reality TV housewife.
The episode delves into Lisa's realization of falling back into the "housewife" role she embodied for eight years on "The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills." She discusses how this regression was subconscious and linked to her upbringing, likening Andy Cohen to a father figure.
Lisa (10:37): "I fall back into a role that I played, I believe, for eight years, where I give my power to Andy Cohen, who is my boss."
Harry (11:09): "Andy was Daddy."
This candid admission allows listeners to understand the complexities of maintaining one's true self amidst public personas and long-term professional relationships.
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to Lisa’s personal struggle with Halcyon—a sleep medication. She openly discusses her dependency, the resulting withdrawal symptoms, and the lessons learned from this challenging period.
She illustrates the physical and psychological toll of withdrawal, highlighting symptoms like tingling hands, numbness, and obsessive-compulsive behaviors. Her honesty serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of prolonged medication use and the importance of self-awareness.
Harry (24:12): "You can't take it for more than, like, a week or two, right?"
Lisa (25:17): "Tell them what happened to me. One of the things that happens, you get flu-like symptoms, then your hands are tingling and hot."
The discussion transitions into the broader implications of substance dependency, with both hosts sharing personal anecdotes and emphasizing the importance of seeking help and understanding one's limitations.
Lisa and Harry transition to sharing their parenting philosophies and experiences. They discuss the challenges of guiding their children through adolescence, particularly concerning drug use and digital age pressures.
Harry (31:45): "I know everybody experiments with drugs when they're growing up. I did."
Lisa (34:14): "The kids were starting to do that [sexting]. If you send naked pictures, they are forever and it will ruin your life."
They highlight the mixed messages parents often face when their children look up to public figures who engage in controversial behaviors. Despite strict guidelines, they recognize the influence of societal trends and media on their children's choices.
Their anecdotes provide a relatable look into modern parenting dilemmas, emphasizing communication and setting clear boundaries.
Injecting humor into the episode, Harry announces an upcoming haircut, prompting playful banter between the hosts about grooming and fashion choices. This segment showcases their dynamic chemistry and ability to balance serious topics with light-hearted interactions.
Harry (17:10): "I'm gonna have a new haircut. You really don't like my hair to be the length that it is right now."
Lisa (18:00): "You need to keep trimmed up. They just do."
They also touch upon nostalgic references to True Religion jeans, reminiscing about fashion trends and their resurgence in modern styles, further enhancing the episode's entertaining aspect.
Midway through the episode, the hosts engage with listener topics, specifically discussing organ donation. This segment prompts both serious and humorous takes on the subject, blending informative dialogue with their trademark wit.
Lisa (41:36): "I believe I am an organ donor. And if I'm not, I should be."
Harry (42:08): "I wonder if that happens. Like, you got in a car accident today. Do not use her organs."
The conversation humorously touches on the macabre nature of organ donation while subtly addressing its importance, encouraging listeners to consider their own decisions regarding organ donation.
As the episode winds down, Lisa and Harry reflect on their journey, emphasizing growth and self-awareness. They reiterate the importance of recognizing and overcoming past behaviors to continue evolving personally and professionally.
Lisa (31:23): "I understand rebound. I understand all of it. Yeah, it's been rough, but it's getting better."
Harry (33:49): "You get arrested three times for drugs, everybody thinks you must be a drug addict."
They conclude with a humorous yet heartfelt affirmation of their resilience and dedication to maintaining sobriety and a positive public image. The episode wraps up with invitations for listeners to engage via voicemails and social media, fostering a sense of community and ongoing dialogue.
Lisa (45:34): "See you next time. Next week."
Harry (46:15): "Until then, let's not talk about the husband."
Lisa (05:01): "It was the weirdest moment and weirdest altercation I'd ever seen out of the world."
Lisa (10:37): "I fall back into a role that I played, I believe, for eight years, where I give my power to Andy Cohen, who is my boss."
Harry (11:09): "Andy was Daddy."
Lisa (20:45): "I took it for at least four weeks."
Harry (24:12): "You can't take it for more than, like, a week or two, right?"
Lisa (34:14): "The kids were starting to do that [sexting]. If you send naked pictures, they are forever and it will ruin your life."
Harry (17:10): "I'm gonna have a new haircut. You really don't like my hair to be the length that it is right now."
Lisa (41:36): "I believe I am an organ donor. And if I'm not, I should be."
Harry (42:08): "I wonder if that happens. Like, you got in a car accident today. Do not use her organs."
This episode of "Let’s Not Talk About The Husband" offers a multifaceted look into Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin's lives, blending personal struggles with professional insights. From confronting past personas and handling medication withdrawals to navigating modern parenting challenges and engaging in light-hearted banter, Lisa and Harry provide listeners with an authentic and entertaining experience. Their ability to balance humor with vulnerability ensures that the episode resonates deeply, offering both laughter and meaningful reflections.
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