Let's Not Talk About The Husband

Hosts: Lisa Rinna & Harry Hamlin
Episode: Life Update: OnlyFans, BravoCon, & Behind-The-Scenes Tea on The Traitors
Date: September 19, 2025

Episode Overview

In this lively and unfiltered episode, Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin—Hollywood royalty and longtime couple—catch up on recent life events, behind-the-scenes gossip, and the realities of fame, family, and marriage. The duo tackles topics ranging from Lisa’s ongoing evolution post-Housewives, Harry’s upcoming adventure in the wilderness, their families’ fashion successes, and the economics of pet businesses and OnlyFans. With humor and candor, they also respond to listener questions about what (if anything) bugs them about each other after over 30 years together, dispensing insightful and hilarious relationship wisdom along the way.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Lisa Was Invited (and Declined) to BravoCon

• [02:30–05:08]
  • Lisa shares she was unexpectedly invited to BravoCon despite no longer being on the show, and finds it amusing (and a bit bewildering).
  • Harry insists Lisa is still “a hot property” and the network knows her presence brings buzz.
  • Lisa reflects on being booed at her last BravoCon (“your response was perfect … gave the entire audience not one, but two fingers” – Harry, [04:31]).
  • She candidly admits, “I don’t think they can pay me enough to get me to go back. Sorry, fans. If I have any left.” ([04:59])

2. Behind-the-Scenes: Bravo Filming at Kyle’s Daughter’s Wedding

• [08:40–10:44]
  • Lisa is set to attend Alexia Umansky’s wedding (Kyle Richards’ daughter), but opts out of being filmed for Real Housewives.
  • She reveals production tried to get her to sign a release last minute. She declined and cheekily adds, “They’ll have to blur me out. If you see me all of a sudden, they’re gonna have to blur me.” ([10:34])
  • Lisa relishes her autonomy saying “It’s a nice satisfaction to say, no, you can’t have me. Okay, well, no, you can’t.” ([10:34])

3. Harry’s Upcoming High Sierras Expedition

• [05:50–08:34]
  • Harry details his plan to backpack alone in the High Sierras, to Lisa’s slight anxiety (“I’m a little bit nervous about it, I’m not going to lie” – Lisa, [06:10]).
  • Talks of satellite communications and the realities of inaccessibility.
  • They poke fun at the idea of dangers in the wilderness, with Harry quipping: “Where I go, there’s no serial killers gonna go where I go. … Maybe Sasquatch.” ([07:58])
  • Genuine couple dynamic shines through in Lisa’s worry mixed with Harry’s nonchalance.

4. Fashion Month and Family Updates

• [15:47–17:26]
  • Lisa is gearing up for New York Fashion Week and celebrating Amelia’s (their daughter) successful modeling career—highlighting an upcoming Spanish Vogue cover and packed Fashion Month itinerary.
  • Lisa highlights the work that went into establishing herself as a “fashion maven” post-Housewives.

5. Podcasting and Real Housewives Alumni

• [17:53–18:58]
  • Lisa will see fellow Housewife Teddi Mellencamp at the wedding, reflecting on Teddy’s health and her ongoing podcast with Erika Jayne and Tamra Judge.
  • Harry muses about podcasting’s ubiquity and wonders “is there anybody left not doing a podcast?”

6. Riffing on Stress, Anger, and Changing Times

• [19:13–21:05]
  • Lisa and Harry discuss rising levels of societal stress, referencing arguments at home and larger cultural shifts.
  • Harry describes “a giant underground aquifer of indignation … people looking for anything they could glom onto to get angry about” ([19:53]).
  • Lisa connects this shift to her final year on Housewives: “Boy, that happened to me my last year on that show. Man, they went crazy. They went at me.” ([21:05])

7. The Pet Business and Its Allure

• [21:18–24:34]
  • The pair debate the profitability of the pet industry, joking about dog chews’ sky-high markups and speculating about getting into pet treats or pet stock.
  • “Every time I go into a pet store, I walk out and I go, oh my god… $75. That’s low.” – Lisa ([22:28])

8. Candid Talk: Money, Fees, Insurance, and OnlyFans

• [24:34–29:08 & 39:08–43:59]
  • Lisa and Harry break down the unseen costs of being in show business—taxes, agents, managers, insurance—and question how anyone keeps up.
  • Lisa half-jokes about starting OnlyFans to cover the American Express bill: “I am almost to a point though… I work so hard…” ([26:24])
  • The conversation devolves into playful banter about what body parts would make the most money on OnlyFans, with Harry goading, “Your tits are nice.” ([26:15]), and Lisa countering with, “I don’t know, Harry. You might make a shitload more than me. We don’t know how this works.” ([26:32])
  • They briefly consider combining pet content and OnlyFans for maximum profit and controversies, sending themselves into fits of laughter.

9. Listener Q&A: What Bugs You About Your Spouse?

• [34:09–53:00]
  • Linda from the audience asks if anything genuinely irks them about one another after 30+ years.
  • Both insist “you don’t bug me” is likely the secret to their long marriage.
  • Lisa suggests Harry’s habit of chewing blue gum and sticking it to things, but declares, “There’s not something that bugs me, like, you don’t bug me, and I am very buggable.” ([35:12])
  • Harry jokes about Lisa’s shopping habits, which launches into a reflective (and hilarious) conversation about her upbringing, shopping-as-sport, closet size, and the “American Express bill of doom.”
  • Lisa: “At this level, I have no real need, but I have a big want.” ([52:43])
  • Harry eventually praises Lisa’s fashion investments for helping build a new career/brand.
  • They joke about both getting new gigs—therapy for him, pet business or OnlyFans for her—to tackle their expenses.

10. Memorable Stories and Behind-the-Scenes Tea: The Traitors

• [44:14–48:44]
  • Lisa recounts a lighthearted wardrobe moment on the reality show The Traitors involving Monet X Change: “When you get that from a drag queen, it’s like high praise… ‘Rinna, you got good boobs.’” ([46:03])
  • Harry tells a wild story about a former manager who idolized his left nipple so much he decorated his house with blown-up photographs of it—a surreal brush with fandom at its weirdest.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Reality TV Boos:

  • “They booed you because you did such a great job. … You did such a good job being the bad guy that you got booed. … Your response was perfect—two fingers.”
    —Harry ([04:31])

• On Refusing to Be Filmed (Bravo):

  • “You can film around me, but … if you see me all of a sudden, they’re gonna have to blur me.”
    —Lisa ([10:34])

• On OnlyFans Profits:

  • “This girl just made $15 million in four weeks on OnlyFans…” —Lisa ([25:41])
  • “She might have been cannibalizing somebody.”
    —Harry, deadpan ([26:03])
  • “My tits are not as good as yours, by the way. I probably wouldn’t make as much money showing my tits.”
    —Harry ([26:28])

• On the Secret of a 30-Year Marriage:

  • “You don’t bug me, and I am very buggable.”
    —Lisa ([35:12])
  • “The fact that I don’t bug you is a total miracle to me.”
    —Harry ([35:19])

• On Shopping as a Sport:

  • “The way I was brought up, shopping was a sport in my family. … My parents wanted to go shopping. I don’t know why.”
    —Lisa ([36:05])

• On Transforming Shopping into a Brand:

  • “What you spent the money on has given you a new brand. … You’re now a huge fashion maven. And that takes money.”
    —Harry ([41:10])

• On OnlyFans and Career Impact:

  • “What I’m saying is… does it matter if you do a reality show, you do a podcast, you do acting, you do whatever?”
    —Lisa ([28:16])

• On Pet Businesses:

  • “Walking into Petco, I’m like, ‘Why do I not have a piece of this?’”
    —Lisa ([22:07])

• On Clothes Hoarding:

  • “You don’t have to buy any more clothes either because your closet is filled with clothes that still have the tags on them.”
    —Harry ([52:04])

Important Timestamps

• 02:30: Lisa's BravoCon invite and reflections on reality TV
• 04:31: Harry recounts the "badge of honor" in getting booed
• 06:10: Lisa nervous about Harry's High Sierras trip
• 08:40: Lisa discusses attending (but not being filmed at) Kyle’s daughter's wedding
• 15:47: Fashion Month and Amelia’s modeling success
• 19:46: Lisa and Harry on societal stress and anger
• 24:34: On business expenses, insurance, and why OnlyFans is tempting
• 26:15: OnlyFans body part calculus, in classic Rinna-Hamlin banter
• 34:09: Linda’s marriage question sparks the “what bugs you” segment
• 44:14: Rinna’s The Traitors behind-the-scenes story
• 46:03: Boob compliment from The Traitors castmate
• 47:08: Harry’s left nipple story—a fan’s wall-art obsession
• 52:04: Lisa’s closet confessions and Harry’s suggestion she stop buying clothes

Takeaways

• Lisa and Harry’s banter is a blend of brutal honesty, industry insights, and pure comedy, inviting listeners into the realities—and absurdities—of Hollywood marriage and celebrity life.
• The couple’s reflections on money, fame, privacy, and the evolution of their careers are both relatable and revealing, especially as they navigate new opportunities in fashion, podcasting, and beyond.
• Their marriage dynamic highlights mutual respect, humor, and the ability not to take themselves (or Hollywood) too seriously.
• The episode is studded with laugh-out-loud moments, genuine reflections on aging and change, and candid admissions—never shying away from tackling topics most would avoid.

For fans of Real Housewives, Hollywood inside scoop, or simply those seeking relationship advice with a heavy dose of laughter, this episode captures everything Lisa and Harry do best: owning it, baby.