Podcast
LET'S TALK OVER COFFEE WITH TLHOGI
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LET’S TALK OVER COFFEE WITH TLHOGI is a South African podcast hosted by Matlhogonolo “Tlhogi” Tolo, launched on 08 December 2021. Real, honest conversations over coffee about life, growth, healing, relationships, faith, and everyday experiences. A space where listeners feel seen, understood, and not alone in their journey.
☕ Real conversations. Real life. Real growth.
🇿🇦 South African podcast
☕ Real conversations over coffee
🎙️ Hosted by Matlhogonolo “Tlhogi” Tolo
📅 Since 08 December 2021
11episodes
Episodes
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“Check On Yourself… Not Just Others”
Apr 2000:05:12Tap to summarizeIn this episode, we talk about something very important but often ignored — yourself.We are always checking on other people, asking if they are okay, making sure they are fine… but we forget to check on our own mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health.Right now, a lot of people are going through things silently. On the outside they look fine, but inside they are tired, stressed, or overwhelmed.In this conversation, Tlhogi breaks it down in a simple way:🧠 Mental health❤️ Emotional health🌱 Spiritual health💪 Physical healthThis is a reminder that it is okay to slow down, feel your feelings, and take care of yourself — even in small ways.You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be honest with yourself.So before you continue your day… pause, breathe, and ask yourself:“How am I really doing?”☕ Let’s talk.#MentalHealth #SelfCare #EmotionalHealth #SpiritualGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #LifeTalks #YouthTalks #PodcastAfrica #SouthAfricaPodcast #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #RealTalk #GrowthMindset #LetsTalkOverCoffee #TlhogiPodcast #LifeLessons #MindsetShift #DailyMotivation #CheckOnYourself
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I Know I’m Late… But Let’s Talk About It
Mar 3100:05:51Tap to summarizeSometimes life does not go the way we planned.We say we will start something in January… but suddenly it is already March. In this first episode of Let’s Talk Over Coffee with Tlhogi, we talk honestly about feeling late, feeling behind, and the pressure of comparing our lives with others.This is not a perfect start — it is a real one.If you have ever felt like everyone else is moving faster than you, this conversation is for you. Grab your coffee and join me as we talk about starting where you are, taking small steps, and remembering that late is not the same as never.Because sometimes the most important thing is simply… starting.☕ Let’s talk.
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Silencing the Voices That Hold You Back
Mar 2300:06:42Tap to summarizeWe all have voices in our heads — some lift us up, others hold us back. In this episode, I open up about those inner and outer voices that whisper fear, doubt, and negativity. I share how to recognize them, question them, and replace them with truth. With prayer, journaling, reflection, and small daily actions, you can quiet the noise and move forward with courage. This episode is real, relatable, and filled with encouragement to remind you that fear doesn’t have to stop you — you can rise above it.
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The Next Step: Becoming Who God Has Called You to Be
Sep 800:07:32Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt solo episode, I sit down to have a real conversation with you — like a friend right next to you. We dive into what it really means to step into the person God has called you to be. Too often, our own thoughts, fears, and doubts stand in the way of our greatness. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to be perfect to start. You just need to take the next step.I’ll share personal reflections, relatable struggles, and encouragement to help you silence the noise, overcome hesitation, and move forward in faith. By the end of this episode, you’ll feel empowered to take that one small step toward your calling.This is your reminder: You are more than your fears, more than your past, and you are meant for something greater. The time to start is now.
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MOVE ON: THE POWER OF LETTING GO & MOVING FORWARD
Aug 2400:05:24Tap to summarizeLife doesn’t wait. Neither should you.In this raw and motivating solo talk, Tlhogi breaks down the art of letting go — of people, mistakes, fear, and everything holding you back. This isn’t just about moving on… it’s about moving smarter, stronger, and faster toward the life you deserve.If you’ve been feeling stuck, this episode is your sign to MOVE ON.
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The Difference Between Enjoying Your YOUTH and Destroying Your FUTURE
Mar 24, 202500:46:29Tap to summarizeIn this thought-provoking episode, Host Onalenna, along with Co-Hosts Tlhogi and Olesego, dive deep into the delicate balance between enjoying your youth and making decisions that shape your future. They discuss the importance of living in the moment while keeping an eye on long-term goals, exploring real-life examples and offering valuable insights on how to avoid pitfalls that could derail your future success.A huge thank you to all our amazing listeners and supporters! We’re incredibly grateful for your votes at the Mzansi Art's and Media Awards. Your support means the world to us, and we couldn’t have made it this far without you! Keep tuning in for more insightful conversations.
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The Sneaky Link vs. The Side Chick: Unpacking Relationship Dynamics
Jan 17, 202500:25:26Tap to summarizeIn the first episode of the year, hosts Motheo, Olesego, and Tlhogi dive into a hot topic: the difference between a sneaky link and a side chick. They explore the nuances of modern relationships, the blurred lines between casual encounters and secretive side affairs, and what it really means to be involved in one of these dynamics. Tune in for an honest conversation about the complexities of intimacy and commitment in the new year. Please follow us on Spotify and our Facebook page : https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560607993870
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LEADERSHIP AND THE DESIRE FOR CHANGE......
May 28, 202400:47:55Tap to summarizeLeadership and the Desire for Change," hosted by Tlhogi and Karabo, explores the critical intersection between effective leadership and the impetus for organizational or societal change. This discussion delves into various leadership styles, strategies, and approaches that foster and drive transformative initiatives. Through insightful dialogue and practical examples, Tlhogi and Karabo navigate the complexities of leadership dynamics, emphasizing the importance of visionary leadership, empowerment, and collaboration in inspiring and sustaining meaningful change efforts. Whether in business, politics, or community activism, this discussion offers valuable insights for aspiring leaders and change agents seeking to make a positive impact in their spheres of influence.
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How can you tell if she is the one for you? what kind of qualities must she have in order for you to determine that she has won you?
May 14, 202400:57:15Tap to summarizeJoin hosts Olesego, Tlhogi, and Karabo in a soul-searching journey as they delve into the intricate question: How can you tell if she is the one for you? In this captivating episode, the trio navigates through the maze of love, dissecting the essential qualities that capture hearts and stand the test of time. From genuine kindness to unwavering support, from shared values to mutual respect, each host brings their unique perspective and personal experiences to the table, creating a dynamic dialogue that resonates with listeners of all backgrounds. Through candid discussions, heartfelt anecdotes, and expert insights, Olesego, Tlhogi, and Karabo unravel the mystery of finding a soulmate, offering practical advice and invaluable wisdom to those seeking true love in a world filled with uncertainty. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this episode promises to inspire, enlighten, and empower you on your quest to discover the one who holds the key to your heart. Tune in and embark on a journey of self-discovery, connection, and the pursuit of lasting happiness.
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Growth Through Errors: Embracing Lessons with LA'gush
Apr 26, 202400:55:08Tap to summarizeIn the inaugural episode of Season 2, join hosts Tlhogi, Dimpho, Olesego, and Botlehadi as they delve into the profound insights shared by special guest LA'gush. Together, they explore the transformative power of mistakes and the invaluable process of learning from them. Get ready to be inspired, challenged, and empowered to embrace your journey of growth and self-discovery.
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