May 10, 2025 - Letters from an American

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Podcast Summary: Letters from an American
Episode: May 10, 2025
Host/Author: Heather Cox Richardson
Release Date: May 11, 2025

Introduction

In the May 10, 2025 episode of Letters from an American, historian Heather Cox Richardson delves into her personal history, reflecting on the profound influence of multiple maternal figures in her life. Through heartfelt storytelling, Heather honors the legacy of Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern—an extraordinary woman who shaped her worldview and approach to history and life.

Exploring Maternal Influences

Heather begins by expressing gratitude for the "more than one mother" she has had, encompassing aunts, family friends, and mentors. Among these, Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern stands out as a pivotal figure. Heather recounts their summer interactions in Maine during the 1950s, highlighting the balance of responsibility and affection that characterized their relationship.

"By my count, I've had at least eight mothers. One of the most important was Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern."
— Heather Cox Richardson [00:10]

Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern: A Life Well-Lived

Sally, referred to fondly as Mrs. A, is portrayed as a woman of sharp intellect and vibrant spirit. Heather shares anecdotes that illustrate Sally's multifaceted personality—from her competitive nature in bridge games to her meticulous gardening habits despite physical limitations.

"She was bossy, demanding, sharp as a tack, and funny and thoughtful."
— Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern [00:46]

Heather provides a biographical sketch of Sally, born on December 25, 1903, making her nearly a year older than Maine politician Millard Robinson—a fact Sally reportedly disliked. As the oldest of six siblings, Sally learned responsibility early, caring for her younger brothers and sisters.

Life Lessons Through Personal Stories

One of the most poignant stories Heather shares is when she asked Sally about the most important historical event in her lifetime. Sally humorously yet insightfully responded:

"Without the washing machine."
— Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern [01:34]

This response underscores the significance of technological advancements in everyday life, freeing time for leisure and intellectual pursuits like listening to the radio. Sally's refusal to embrace traditional motherhood roles, choosing instead a life of independence and personal fulfillment, left a lasting impression on Heather.

Resilience and Independence

Heather details Sally's resilience, from overcoming physical injuries to maintaining her zest for life. Despite destroying her knees playing tennis, Sally adapted by gardening—a task she approached with determination, often in a lawn chair due to her injury.

"She destroyed her knees playing tennis, so she would weed the garden by staggering to a lawn chair set up there."
— Heather Cox Richardson [02:17]

Sally's commitment to living life on her own terms is evident in her driving habits and social interactions. Her annual trips to Florida in a "giant old Cadillac" and her preference for being seen only in dresses with her hair pinned up and pearls on highlight her unique blend of pragmatism and elegance.

Bridging Generations

As Sally aged, she remained a dynamic presence in Heather's life, continually forming new relationships across generations. Heather observes:

"I watched her lose my grandmother's generation and then work to make friends with my mother's generation. And when they, too, died, she set out in her 80s to make friends with my generation."
— Heather Cox Richardson [03:23]

This ability to connect with different age groups provided Heather with a broader perspective on history and human relationships, reinforcing the importance of adaptability and continuous learning.

Legacy and Personal Impact

Sally's legacy to Heather goes beyond material possessions. She left behind linens, a gardening coat, and family photos, but more importantly, she imparted invaluable lessons on approaching history and life with curiosity and critical thinking.

"She also left me ideas about how to approach both history and life."
— Heather Cox Richardson [03:35]

Heather acknowledges that while Sally never fulfilled her own desire to be a mother, her influence filled that role in Heather's life, demonstrating the profound impact mentors and maternal figures can have beyond conventional family structures.

Conclusion

The episode serves as a tribute to Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern and, by extension, to all the remarkable women who shape our lives without seeking traditional titles. Heather Cox Richardson weaves personal narrative with historical insight, illustrating how individual stories contribute to our understanding of the broader human experience.

"I've never met a woman more determined never to be a mother, but I'm pretty sure that plan was one of the few things at which she failed."
— Heather Cox Richardson [04:07]

Through this heartfelt reflection, Heather emphasizes the enduring influence of strong, independent women and the lessons they impart, enriching both personal growth and historical comprehension.

Production Credits
Letters from an American was written and read by Heather Cox Richardson. Produced at Soundscape Productions, Dedham, MA, with music composed by Michael Moss.

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[00:00]
Unknown Speaker
Foreign.
[00:08]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
2025 those of us who are.
[00:11]
Heather Cox Richardson
Truly lucky have more than one mother.
[00:13]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
They are the cool aunts, the elderly.
[00:16]
Heather Cox Richardson
Ladies, the family friends, even the mentors who whip us into shape. By my count, I've had at least eight mothers. One of the most important was Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern. Mrs. A, a widow who had played.
[00:32]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Cutthroat bridge with my grandmother in the.
[00:34]
Heather Cox Richardson
1950S, lived near my family in Maine in the summer. I began vacuuming and weeding and painting.
[00:41]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
For her when I was about 12.
[00:42]
Heather Cox Richardson
But it wasn't long before my time at her house stopped being a job.
[00:47]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
She was bossy, demanding, sharp as a tack, and funny and thoughtful, and she.
[00:53]
Heather Cox Richardson
Remembered most of the century. She would sit in her rocking chair by the sunny window in the kitchen, shelling peas and telling me stories while I washed the floor with a hand sponge to spin out the time. Sally, not Sarah Bascom, was born on December 25, 1903. For folks in Maine keeping score, that made her almost a full year older than Millard Robinson, a fact she loathed. She was the oldest of six children and spent her youth taking care of the younger ones. When I once asked her what was the most important historical event in her.
[01:29]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Lifetime, this woman, who had lived through.
[01:32]
Heather Cox Richardson
The Depression and both world wars, answered.
[01:35]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Without the washing machine.
[01:38]
Heather Cox Richardson
It had freed her and her mother from constant laundry. She could finally have some leisure time, which she spent listening to the radio.
[01:46]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
And driving in cars with boys because.
[01:50]
Heather Cox Richardson
Her mother always needed her at home.
[01:51]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
It was not she but all her.
[01:53]
Heather Cox Richardson
Younger siblings who went to college. By the time Mrs. A was an.
[01:57]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Adult, she was certain she wanted no part of motherhood.
[02:03]
Heather Cox Richardson
Mrs. A never forgave her sister for driving her Model T through a field. She saved aluminum foil, not because of.
[02:10]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
World War II but because of World War I.
[02:13]
Heather Cox Richardson
She supported herself and refused to marry until she met an older man who.
[02:18]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Offered to take her traveling.
[02:19]
Heather Cox Richardson
They had a quick wedding and set.
[02:21]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Off for Banff, where they looked at.
[02:23]
Heather Cox Richardson
Mountains and watched the bears pilfer trash. She destroyed her knees playing tennis, so she would weed the garden by staggering to a lawn chair set up there.
[02:33]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
She loved snapdragons and nicotiana Veronica and.
[02:37]
Heather Cox Richardson
Irises and wild roses.
[02:40]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
After Mr. Augenstern died, she drove herself.
[02:43]
Heather Cox Richardson
To and from Florida once a year.
[02:45]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
In a giant old Cadillac with Arrive.
[02:48]
Heather Cox Richardson
Alive on the license plate holder.
[02:51]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
She drove like a bat out of hell.
[02:54]
Heather Cox Richardson
She played bridge with terrifying intensity, and she always refused to be seen in public unless she was in a dress.
[03:01]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
With her hair pinned up and her pearls on. Mrs. A laughed at me when I fell in love with history and tried.
[03:08]
Heather Cox Richardson
To tell her that people changed the world because of their beliefs.
[03:12]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Follow the money, heather said the woman.
[03:15]
Heather Cox Richardson
Whose income depended on her knowledge of the stock market. Don't pay attention to what they say. Pay attention to who's getting the money.
[03:24]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
I listened, and then I learned as.
[03:26]
Heather Cox Richardson
I watched her lose my grandmother's generation.
[03:29]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
And then work to make friends with my mother's generation.
[03:33]
Heather Cox Richardson
And when they, too died, she set.
[03:35]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Out in her 80s to make friends with my generation. Every day was a new day.
[03:43]
Heather Cox Richardson
Mrs. A left me her linens, her gardening coat, and this photo of her and her siblings, Frances, who died young.
[03:51]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Phyllis, Carlton, Guy and Nathan.
[03:55]
Heather Cox Richardson
She also left me ideas about how to approach both history and life.
[04:01]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
I've never met a woman more determined never to be a mother, but I'm pretty sure that plan was one of.
[04:07]
Heather Cox Richardson
The few things at which she failed. Thinking of her and all the wonderful women like her who Mother without The.
[04:16]
Sally Adams Bascom Augenstern
Title on Mother's Day 2025.
[04:26]
Michael Moss
Letters from an American was written and read by Heather Cox Richardson. It was produced at Soundscape Productions, Dedham, MA. Record recorded with music composed by Michael Moss.